What people dont realise is, you dont actually find true love. Or shall i put it,true love isnt a person out there who constantly loves you out of nowhere. True love is BUILT. Any couples with the same mindset can build true love,by making a choice to investing/pouring/nurture into it, and it never ends. Any relationship will rock,due to close proximity. For as long as no one cheats,no one chooses other ppl or no one thinks the grass is greener somewhere else, you're good. All you need is fulfill whatever the person need slightly more than usual,to get pass through it. Whether be a good listener,a comforter,assurer etc.
I think getting into the right community and crowd is very important... I have many older couple friends who got married and they are still very loving to each other, teach the children well and values. The environment and group of friends does help. (Mine is good role models, happens to be from church setting- you might wanna find your own good influences and role models on how the couple communicate healthily and open for counselling, wanting to solve problems etc. basically find mature healthy adults/trying to be as healthy as possible, usually the couples wouldn't go too off)
This video was very hard to get through. It shld have been conducted in English given that they were much more fluent in it, rather than struggling to get on with it in Chinese and ending up with a mish mash of the two.
Ain’t that how singaporeans talk? Even Korean Americans would mix in English while conversing. If Chinese isn’t their first language that they speak daily, can they still not do shows in Chinese? It’s a learning process just because someone isn’t proficient doesn’t mean they can’t contribute. Sure go and invite a Chinese teacher here to speak then 🤯
First love at 35 Just know what you want, don't wait for the 'perfect one' because they don't exist. Have a checklist of what is your critical bare minimum, and once they meet this line, give em' a chance. And that means you put in your effort too. It's about giving the other, not about what you can get. Take this mentality, you'll find more potential partners.
I had a friend who is lost in relationship and feels like nic. What he shows isnt what he thinks. So basically dont match. Usually, its not about location or method, its about the mindset. Lost in the mindset to get attention but actually. Its all about what he wants but not actually the girl wants. Balance between what he wants and what actually the girl think is always the key. Method is the subset of mindset which most people get confuse about which is similar to passion and strength. Strength support passion and not vice versa.
hargao, your story really damn suay sia LOL! you should really go to a master and check whether is it a hantu that have fallen in love with you thats foiling all your plans
Why can’t you conduct this in mandarin as it will be more relatable and the guests will be more comfortable conversing in it? Jaz acted in 陪你到最后。Her acting is awesome and her mandarin is the most fluent. She’s also the most easy on the eyes among the ladies here. The other 2 really cmi. I also can’t stand the way Brenda speaks. It’s so 油腻 & sóng。Jaz is 清秀 & 清新脱俗。Also, what an artistic name “李嫣儿”. She gives off an elegant dancer vibe. 👍🏼👍🏼 Nic is handsome and funny. He could just be a free spirit. Nothing wrong with being single as long as one is happy. His “我很高，我okay okay, 我有狗” is hilarious! I met my hubby on a dating site, not Tinder of course. Humor & opinionatedness are my top criteria. Of course he must be a kind man with a stable job. And he mustn’t want kids as I’m an anti-natalist & VHEMT supporter (look up those terms 😉). My hubby realises he’s been a VHEMT supporter all along without realizing it until I recently intro him to this term. Do you know that about 2500 soiled diapers are thrown out in just the first year of ONE baby’s life? And the carbon footprint of every child? Basically you can’t out-green a childfree person no matter how much you reduce, reuse & recycle. Existence of humans = 92.2 billions animals slaughtered a year & > 115 million animals tested on in labs every year for human’s medical progress and cosmetics etc. Ppl who breed think their 2 kids won’t cause environmental degradation. That’s what billions others think as well. Think about the cumulative damage! Not to mention your 2 kids will produce ∞ descendants afterwards unless someone wises up & stops the buck. We can do better than our parents by not perpetuating the vicious cycle of human suffering, animal suffering and environmental degradation.
Why can’t you conduct this in mandarin as it will be more relatable and the guests will be more comfortable conversing in it? Jaz acted in 陪你到最后。Her acting is awesome and her mandarin is the most fluent. She’s also the most easy on the eyes among the ladies here. The other 2 really cmi. I also can’t stand the way Brenda speaks. It’s so 油腻 & sóng。Jaz is 清秀 & 清新脱俗。Also, what an artistic name “李嫣儿”. She gives off an elegant dancer vibe. 👍🏼👍🏼 Nic is handsome and funny. He could just be a free spirit. Nothing wrong with being single as long as one is happy. His “我很高，我okay okay, 我有狗” is hilarious! I met my hubby on a dating site, not Tinder of course. Humor & opinionatedness are my top criteria. Of course he must be a kind man with a stable job. And he mustn’t want kids as I’m an anti-natalist & VHEMT supporter (look up those terms 😉). My hubby realises he’s been a VHEMT supporter all along without realizing it until I recently intro him to this term. Do you know that about 2500 soiled diapers are thrown out in just the first year of ONE baby’s life? And the carbon footprint of every child? Basically you can’t out-green a childfree person no matter how much you reduce, reuse & recycle. Existence of humans = 92.2 billions animals slaughtered a year & > 115 million animals tested on in labs every year for human’s medical progress and cosmetics etc. Ppl who breed think their 2 kids won’t cause environmental degradation. That’s what billions others think as well. Think about the cumulative damage! Not to mention your 2 kids will produce ∞ descendants afterwards unless someone wises up & stops the buck. We can do better than our parents by not perpetuating the vicious cycle of human suffering, animal suffering and environmental degradation.
What people dont realise is,
you dont actually find true love. Or shall i put it,true love isnt a person out there who constantly loves you out of nowhere.
True love is BUILT.
Any couples with the same mindset can build true love,by making a choice to investing/pouring/nurture into it, and it never ends.
Any relationship will rock,due to close proximity. For as long as no one cheats,no one chooses other ppl or no one thinks the grass is greener somewhere else, you're good. All you need is fulfill whatever the person need slightly more than usual,to get pass through it. Whether be a good listener,a comforter,assurer etc.
Nic feels like a player so he attracts those aiming to PLAY
ya, there's a reddit thread whereby multiple ppl shared bad irl experiences w/ him
I think getting into the right community and crowd is very important... I have many older couple friends who got married and they are still very loving to each other, teach the children well and values. The environment and group of friends does help. (Mine is good role models, happens to be from church setting- you might wanna find your own good influences and role models on how the couple communicate healthily and open for counselling, wanting to solve problems etc. basically find mature healthy adults/trying to be as healthy as possible, usually the couples wouldn't go too off)
This video was very hard to get through. It shld have been conducted in English given that they were much more fluent in it, rather than struggling to get on with it in Chinese and ending up with a mish mash of the two.
Fully agreed. Some parts are cringe
Ain’t that how singaporeans talk? Even Korean Americans would mix in English while conversing. If Chinese isn’t their first language that they speak daily, can they still not do shows in Chinese? It’s a learning process just because someone isn’t proficient doesn’t mean they can’t contribute. Sure go and invite a Chinese teacher here to speak then 🤯
First love at 35
Just know what you want, don't wait for the 'perfect one' because they don't exist. Have a checklist of what is your critical bare minimum, and once they meet this line, give em' a chance. And that means you put in your effort too.
It's about giving the other, not about what you can get. Take this mentality, you'll find more potential partners.
Is Brenda’s bf Seng Jueh? I remember Brenda used to be mention that he’s handsome 🤔
That’s what I was thinkinggg 😭😭
That’s what I was thinking too!
这个平台做对了一件事就是用中文来吸引年轻人。现在越来越少新加坡人说中文了这个平台必须一直加油一直创新一直做新的内容。
I had a friend who is lost in relationship and feels like nic. What he shows isnt what he thinks. So basically dont match. Usually, its not about location or method, its about the mindset. Lost in the mindset to get attention but actually. Its all about what he wants but not actually the girl wants. Balance between what he wants and what actually the girl think is always the key. Method is the subset of mindset which most people get confuse about which is similar to passion and strength. Strength support passion and not vice versa.
Lol i have been single for 40 years. True finding true love in Singapore is very hard.
Where is the palm reader ya? Nameeee? Tq
love this episode!
I want DM Brenda!!! I want to know where the fortune teller is 😅😅
I also wanna know
Nic 讲的很好 👍🏻
Good episode and yes pls share the fortune teller?
Great content😍😍
Ignore previous msg.
Remove cctv off my home hehe😮
why did u invite a scammer?
It is hard to find true love
nic的故事好惨真的好suey
You don’t ask the fish how to fish, you ask the fisherman
爱情是没有那么简单。。。
hargao, your story really damn suay sia LOL! you should really go to a master and check whether is it a hantu that have fallen in love with you thats foiling all your plans
Is all about money money money
骨折。。what 手断/ 断手
lolz..say as if you got nothing wrong..
Why can’t you conduct this in mandarin as it will be more relatable and the guests will be more comfortable conversing in it?
Jaz acted in 陪你到最后。Her acting is awesome and her mandarin is the most fluent. She’s also the most easy on the eyes among the ladies here. The other 2 really cmi. I also can’t stand the way Brenda speaks. It’s so 油腻 & sóng。Jaz is 清秀 & 清新脱俗。Also, what an artistic name “李嫣儿”. She gives off an elegant dancer vibe. 👍🏼👍🏼
Nic is handsome and funny. He could just be a free spirit. Nothing wrong with being single as long as one is happy. His “我很高，我okay okay, 我有狗” is hilarious!
I met my hubby on a dating site, not Tinder of course. Humor & opinionatedness are my top criteria. Of course he must be a kind man with a stable job. And he mustn’t want kids as I’m an anti-natalist & VHEMT supporter (look up those terms 😉). My hubby realises he’s been a VHEMT supporter all along without realizing it until I recently intro him to this term.
Do you know that about 2500 soiled diapers are thrown out in just the first year of ONE baby’s life? And the carbon footprint of every child? Basically you can’t out-green a childfree person no matter how much you reduce, reuse & recycle.
Existence of humans = 92.2 billions animals slaughtered a year & > 115 million animals tested on in labs every year for human’s medical progress and cosmetics etc. Ppl who breed think their 2 kids won’t cause environmental degradation. That’s what billions others think as well. Think about the cumulative damage! Not to mention your 2 kids will produce ∞ descendants afterwards unless someone wises up & stops the buck.
We can do better than our parents by not perpetuating the vicious cycle of human suffering, animal suffering and environmental degradation.
nope, as u aged, ur standard goes lower. they havent reach that age.
Why can’t you conduct this in mandarin as it will be more relatable and the guests will be more comfortable conversing in it?
Jaz acted in 陪你到最后。Her acting is awesome and her mandarin is the most fluent. She’s also the most easy on the eyes among the ladies here. The other 2 really cmi. I also can’t stand the way Brenda speaks. It’s so 油腻 & sóng。Jaz is 清秀 & 清新脱俗。Also, what an artistic name “李嫣儿”. She gives off an elegant dancer vibe. 👍🏼👍🏼
Nic is handsome and funny. He could just be a free spirit. Nothing wrong with being single as long as one is happy. His “我很高，我okay okay, 我有狗” is hilarious!
I met my hubby on a dating site, not Tinder of course. Humor & opinionatedness are my top criteria. Of course he must be a kind man with a stable job. And he mustn’t want kids as I’m an anti-natalist & VHEMT supporter (look up those terms 😉). My hubby realises he’s been a VHEMT supporter all along without realizing it until I recently intro him to this term.
Do you know that about 2500 soiled diapers are thrown out in just the first year of ONE baby’s life? And the carbon footprint of every child? Basically you can’t out-green a childfree person no matter how much you reduce, reuse & recycle.
Existence of humans = 92.2 billions animals slaughtered a year & > 115 million animals tested on in labs every year for human’s medical progress and cosmetics etc. Ppl who breed think their 2 kids won’t cause environmental degradation. That’s what billions others think as well. Think about the cumulative damage! Not to mention your 2 kids will produce ∞ descendants afterwards unless someone wises up & stops the buck.
We can do better than our parents by not perpetuating the vicious cycle of human suffering, animal suffering and environmental degradation.