ENNEAGRAM Type 2 | Annoying Things 2s Do and Say!

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  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Send this video to all the enneagram 2’s in your life!! 😍

    • @theintrovertedchick6757
      @theintrovertedchick6757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would but I'm scared she will throw the whole drawer of Tupperware at me hahahaha 😆

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Introverted Chick hahahaha

    • @HLANDINE1
      @HLANDINE1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Such a funny video. I'm a 2 with a 1 wing - the servant. So much of this is me.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heather L I love this!! Thanks for commenting!

    • @micheletaylor-depew7308
      @micheletaylor-depew7308 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HLANDINE1 I am, too! lol

  • @madeleineedwards1872
    @madeleineedwards1872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    Me being a 2 reading the title: Oh my gosh I do things that are annoying? How can I change? Am I really annoying?LOL

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You're not annoying!!!

    • @apf4388
      @apf4388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @zchane
      @zchane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aahahaha i felt the same wayy

    • @Maru_loves_mochixx
      @Maru_loves_mochixx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally!!! Lol!!!

    • @anicucqiridze8419
      @anicucqiridze8419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omggg SAMEEEEEE

  • @nuggy9556
    @nuggy9556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    As a type 2, in social situations, i often feel that my friends need a break from me. If I think I may have offered a bit too much help or anything, I immediately pull back to let the other person have their time to themselves.
    Also, I want mostly everyone to be a friend of mine. when I don’t know where a I stand in a relationship (do they like me/do they not like me) it is the worst feeling!
    Great video, on point!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Brunette Mangaka thanks for your input as a 2! I am a 3 but I’ve definitely felt both of those things in social situations. I appreciate your support on this channel! ♥️♥️

    • @nuggy9556
      @nuggy9556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abbey Howe of course! Good luck, I love what you have created!

    • @thesingingfangirl6155
      @thesingingfangirl6155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EXACTLY! I GET THAT MORE THANK YOU KNOW!!!

    • @apf4388
      @apf4388 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME!

    • @lizzietimberlake5623
      @lizzietimberlake5623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES I’m a 2 and often can find myself feeling like “too much” for some people in my life. Like I love helping but...sometimes no one asked (& no one wants it!), lol

  • @MafiaMoriartyFTW
    @MafiaMoriartyFTW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    The “WhAt Is WrOnG WiTh Me!???” was painfully accurate 🤣

  • @heritage.home.crochet
    @heritage.home.crochet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I resonate with all of that mess...I didn't realize I was so manipulative sometimes....but so true.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lhenle55 that kinda stuff sneaks up on you! 😂 thanks for watching and commenting. I appreciate it!

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭 I'm a 2

    • @heritage.home.crochet
      @heritage.home.crochet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dr. OBELA cured me Is this a plug for yourself?

  • @brittneynicole5358
    @brittneynicole5358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I hate being a 2. It's fucked up my life! Ugh.
    It all resonated with me.
    The part where we will settle for anything in return. 2's beware! You are worth it and deserve real love. You deserve to be treated well.

    • @vortiz5
      @vortiz5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would choose to change my anneagram :X

  • @skeletonbread
    @skeletonbread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Omg the amount of times I've expressed that I don't need help and that I'm fine on my own, only to get frustrated with people for not helping me and for not paying attention to me. 🤦‍♀️😂 This is really helping me to see my faults, thank you so much!

    • @tanyalemmon8505
      @tanyalemmon8505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! My poor husband! Haha! But seriously... how annoying for him!

  • @victorgrubbs5213
    @victorgrubbs5213 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The “I want you to be happy and I want to be the one to do it.” REALLY hit me in the chest lmao

  • @ZhemJZ
    @ZhemJZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    As a 2, I'm personally offended and realize that this was made only to spite me directly.

  • @HAKUNAmaKINGkong
    @HAKUNAmaKINGkong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    It's funny cause it's true and it hurts just a little bit

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oof, sorry it hurts a little bit!! But that's the great thing about the enneagram is it's a tool for growth!

  • @kathryn8782
    @kathryn8782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For number five, we really want the person/people to be surprised or grateful and tell us that they are thankful

  • @ArcticFalcon
    @ArcticFalcon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    My 2 mom went to work when she was sick because she was worried everyone would be exhausted without her...

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow, what a classic 2 response! I bet she is a wonderful mother!

    • @NoPancakeMix28
      @NoPancakeMix28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, yes! Things fall apart at the seams when we’re not around! My boss (8w7) would never let me forget the time I called off due to food poisoning and/or the times I wasn’t scheduled and the restaurant became busy.

    • @angelawinger1756
      @angelawinger1756 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pp

  • @heatherstauf2210
    @heatherstauf2210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a 2 I read the title and was bracing myself thinking it's okay just watch the video and don't spiral into shame. I'm so glad I was wrong and that this video was light hearted while still highlighting some flaws of the 2

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You’re awesome! No shame spiral please. We love enneagram 2s!

  • @sarahmccormick3405
    @sarahmccormick3405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OMG The "Are you mad at me?" one hit just right. THIS IS ME ALL THE TIME!

  • @rachelpoteet4711
    @rachelpoteet4711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just found out today that I am a type 2. I can definitely resonate with expecting things in return or praise for when I do favors for others. I don't think it's necessarily BAD to want the same energy back with things, want appreciation shown or not be the only person doing favors, but I realized today that sometimes I almost guilt people, especially a good friend of mine who doesn't have the same resources to help me as I do him. I'm gonna try my best to work on that

  • @sarosen5731
    @sarosen5731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m a 2 and constantly being worried that other people are mad at me/not asking for or accepting help are literally my two biggest character flaws LOL

  • @sunnynotblind4158
    @sunnynotblind4158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a 2 with 1 wing I never ask for help. When I do and am denied, I am crushed because it takes so much for me to ask.

  • @Livmylifelivi
    @Livmylifelivi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right off the bat.. “I want you to be happy but I want to be the reason” 💀

  • @carolynpeterson9968
    @carolynpeterson9968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was so freakin amazing!! Not only did you nail a 2 (speaking for myself) but the setups were so well done!! You are so funny!!! My favorite line "I want you to be happy, but I wanna be the reason". Dying!! :D

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much, Carolyn!! 💜

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg, yes! As a 2 I COMPLETELY relate to that line. And that's the hardest thing to admit *gulp* 😔

  • @ChristopherZain
    @ChristopherZain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi I'm a 4w5 married to a type 2. You are spot on and I wanted to add something I noticed while reading most of the type 2's reactions. From, "What's wrong with me?" to "I need to help everyone because they all need help and because I don't need anything, then I'm the only one that can help them!"
    I notice the answer may be in both statements. "Everyone has something wrong with them, and we all need help...even you 2." :)

  • @jenniferleigh1674
    @jenniferleigh1674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was def spot on. I really struggle with manipulating especially when I people please waaaay too much and expect mutual respect back and get so angry when it isn’t returned

  • @allisonscanlan4144
    @allisonscanlan4144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I wish 2s would be more honest about expressing themselves

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      that's really hard for 2's!

    • @Arzpal
      @Arzpal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thats really hard for us xD

    • @allisonscanlan4144
      @allisonscanlan4144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Arzpal always room for improvement! It's hard for me too as a 5 but I'm trying to improve

    • @Arzpal
      @Arzpal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@allisonscanlan4144 do you want to understand 2s?

    • @allisonscanlan4144
      @allisonscanlan4144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Arzpal I already do haha I have a lot in my fam. And have studied their ennegram in depth

  • @brittneywatson5469
    @brittneywatson5469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm a 2! And when I was at my unhealthiest I was this to the max! And I know this is supposed to be exaggerated! But it is so true!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for watching, Brittney! 💜 And DEF supposed to be dramatic 🤣

  • @gregwilliams9749
    @gregwilliams9749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Me, a 2: "Thank God she made these for the other types- Now I can better understand the needs of the people in my life!

    • @StrongestLibrafluidAlive
      @StrongestLibrafluidAlive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think a lot of people would think this way regardless of enneagram

  • @rundbaum
    @rundbaum ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're right!! these videos are perfect for sending to the recipient we see in these videos . . .

  • @brittanybower5809
    @brittanybower5809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm dying laughing at the accuracy of helping with the area rug. Yes! On point.

    • @kristen7623
      @kristen7623 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was the same for me. Painfully accurate

  • @s.n.matias5193
    @s.n.matias5193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As a 2, I laughed n cringed watching this 😊😭

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching, S.N.! 💜

  • @Terry.W
    @Terry.W 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Type 2s ...make you feel warm and fluffy and simultaneously make you want to scream ...loudly..

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TERRY. W hehehe

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      BAHAHAHHAHA 🤭 sorrryy, but so true! I'm a 2 and usually can't stand other 2s.. ugh, it's like drinking liquid sugar or something

    • @abigailclouser8621
      @abigailclouser8621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jordan Fisher ME TOO HAHAH I’m a 2 but when I talk to other 2’s I’m like “too...much...positivity...”

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@abigailclouser8621 lol, the worst is when it's so fake/ to be liked 🤢 I tend to gravitate to the positivity in 7s 😃 cause it's so pure bountiful! Also, 3s cause it's pragmatic!

    • @abigailclouser8621
      @abigailclouser8621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jordan Fisher I couldn’t have said it better!

  • @Loveyourlookhawaii
    @Loveyourlookhawaii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    “Is it because I smell?”
    SO ME OMG

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nicolle Velez heeheehee

  • @fzzypurpleturtle
    @fzzypurpleturtle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sad at how accurate your last bit was 😂😂 my husband says I do this all the time lmfao

  • @emilylasseigne1224
    @emilylasseigne1224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is absolutely hilarious!!! 🤣 I’m a fellow enneagram 2 & this is pretty accurate. I have the hardest time saying no even when it seems like I am carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. I always want to be available for people so they know they’re loved and valued, but sometimes it bites me in the butt because I’ve gotta learn to say NO to people who take advantage of me. Also, I have the hardest time allowing people to help me, even though at times I really might need it. Great job with this vid! 👏

  • @RealZeal96
    @RealZeal96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a 3...i find myself whipping away at 2s so that they say what they mean. I call them out on manipulative tendencies. They follow suit begrudgingly but are greatful in the end

  • @momoekon9944
    @momoekon9944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh... it's so relatable as a type 2 person. Sometimes I do catch myself doing those kind of things, other time my actions can be subconscious. In another word, "I need to overcome the flaws in 2!"

  • @dawnfromia
    @dawnfromia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a healthy 2 but...yeah...this resonates with me! I can definitely get into some of those negative traits on bad days!

  • @amunford1
    @amunford1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Except for the martyrdom-u nailed me!

  • @SoaringAboveItAll
    @SoaringAboveItAll 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am a two and can relate to all of these so much. Eye opening for sure!! Thanks for sharing. Great acting too!! Haha

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Rachel!! I’m so glad you relate to these. (2’s are awesome!) And thank you for leaving a comment. I appreciate it! ♥️

    • @angelarogers4679
      @angelarogers4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg me too... every single one of them lol

  • @danb316
    @danb316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    my wife is an enneagram, but i i tell or suggest to her she is , she will react as described in the description, and she can be somewhat strong tempered at times, so i will be keeping this tidbit of knowledge you have so generously shared... to my self..

    • @danb316
      @danb316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      type 2

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like a wise plan 😜

  • @princessrosie90
    @princessrosie90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm a 2w1 and yes I do some of these things but I think the 1 wing keeps me from being completely overwhelming. It also gives me much needed boundaries

  • @missiedeloach206
    @missiedeloach206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg...I just learned that I'm a 2, kind of questioned its authenticity, then died in laughter and shame watching this....I am guilty of ALL of these, especially at work...I am TOTALLY a 2!!! Thank you!!

  • @kit6863
    @kit6863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m a big stinking 2.... but my expectations of the return of what I give from are very low. They only time my expectations come back to hurt me is when someone takes advantage of my soft kind nature and my inability to say no, and the they throw me aside. I’ve spent myself chasing love...I struggle with fear of abandonment... I’m a lonely 2

    • @darwinwatterson4568
      @darwinwatterson4568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hello!! how are you now? :D i hope ur doing better nowadays! i am a 7 and i really like 2s u are the best

  • @Zullala
    @Zullala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh that was definitely me in my previous relationship! Always trying my absolute best and accepting eye contact as the best thing I could ever receive from my partner. Even if it was followed up by a criticism. At least he was talking me haha

  • @aalayacooper2948
    @aalayacooper2948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re a great actress!!!!! I actually ranked the same level in types 2 & 4. Very interesting!

  • @jess.from.scratch
    @jess.from.scratch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These are so spot on, every single one of them!! I am a true 2! I've have learned so much about myself and how to love other people better too, since coming to know about the enneagram! Thank you for these!! ☺

  • @burningmarl5664
    @burningmarl5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You nailed it. The annoying stuff they do almost negates their "selflessness"

  • @katiepierce7293
    @katiepierce7293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Why is this so accurate 😂 I’m a 2w3

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ooh, that's my roommate's number and wing!

    • @alastair2375
      @alastair2375 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Katie Pierce OMG SAME

    • @yuanaurora6061
      @yuanaurora6061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi katie, me too! 😂

    • @christinelyons2182
      @christinelyons2182 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! 😂💖

    • @Melitta-zx4sf
      @Melitta-zx4sf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AbbeyHowe Is your roommate a self-preservation two ?

  • @Genesis-dr8jd
    @Genesis-dr8jd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i did a type 2 thing and was freaking out about how i can improve myself to make others happy lmao

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's 2 with a 3 wing

  • @emilybarker3240
    @emilybarker3240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The dramatic come apart on the floor when you feel no one appreciates your sacrifices for them... yeah I do that.

  • @taylormariehayden837
    @taylormariehayden837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    LMAO I've taken so many enneagram tests and I'm always a 2 but I HATE doing the dishes and there are some things I can't relate to about 2s but all 6/7 of these were SPOT ON!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rep those non-dish doing 2’s! 🙌🏽

    • @lizsmith4104
      @lizsmith4104 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Taylor Marie Hayden agree, I always say No !

    • @NoPancakeMix28
      @NoPancakeMix28 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also hate doing dishes, but I do them simply because it gives my 6 boyfriend peace of mind. Basically if it makes him happier and makes his life easier, I can do it. The life of a two 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @syberyah
    @syberyah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah, I have 2 in my tri-type and I definitely relate to #6 very much... I'm *constantly* micro-managing my younger siblings when I don't think they're doing things right and I'm like "Please, I'm trying to help you do it better just let me help!" And I know it's annoying and I'm trying to stop, but...

  • @pamlewsey
    @pamlewsey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is fabulous. Very very insightful, for Type 2 and 4 as well. You are an excellent actor! GREAT videos!

  • @davidcarnevale8885
    @davidcarnevale8885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yep, as a 2 I have done or said basically all of these. Thank you for doing this in fun! It was a great way to have a laugh in these difficult times (especially for us 2s because we desire human interaction so badly!)

  • @phillconklin382
    @phillconklin382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I laughed out loud a few times. You are funny and insightful. I subscribed. :)

  • @evahc4017
    @evahc4017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hilarious and spot on! thanks for this

  • @ilonamazurets2032
    @ilonamazurets2032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is waaay too funny and very close to me seeing myself😂. You did very well expressing this type👍

  • @marishaten7399
    @marishaten7399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your voice and personality is so soothing I feel good just watching these videos.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awww this makes me happy

  • @music72kc
    @music72kc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Wow this is my mother

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kacey B best comment ever

  • @geebaucham
    @geebaucham 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmao this was dope. I’m a 2 and identify a LOT of this! It’s also nice to see the healthy and unhealthy traits.

  • @emilybarker3240
    @emilybarker3240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m a 2 and when my husband asked what he can do to help me I literally implode on the inside. I may know I need help but all the things I need help with would burden him too much and then he might be mad at me -ahhhh! -were working on this 😂

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh gosh... I can relate to that 😣 it's like.. I don't want him to have to help (ideally), but I know there are SO MANY WAYS he could be helping. The very fact that he has to take the time to ask that question is frustrating 😅
      tl:dr I'm terrible

    • @NoPancakeMix28
      @NoPancakeMix28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jordan Fisher I am with you! My boyfriend won’t even say the words “do you need help?” but will literally say “just tell me whatever it is that you need me to do”.
      I don’t have it in me to be bossy! And I can’t let anyone know that I am not Wonder Woman. Besides, I don’t tend to care about MY needs, it’s about everyone else’s.

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@NoPancakeMix28 totally! Thank God my bf has forced me to chillax and started teaching me that me taking care of myself is helping him to not have to deal with me as a raging 8 😅

  • @jessicathompson5362
    @jessicathompson5362 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm baking a cake so I can learn how to bake a cake. 😆

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jessica Thompson hehehehe

  • @sezztooley
    @sezztooley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is SPOT ON

  • @kalebjones8616
    @kalebjones8616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is SO accurate. Laughing at how much this describes me!

  • @kjmlaw5837
    @kjmlaw5837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'umm, yeah, pretty much nailed me

  • @angelarogers4679
    @angelarogers4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is me to a T... every single one of them, it's kind of scary how accurate this is lol

  • @lotusflower3695
    @lotusflower3695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙋I'm a 2!!!! And wow this was so eye opening! And I married a 5.
    I love being in the kitchen and doing for others. I forget about myself often

  • @eyeforthescreen430
    @eyeforthescreen430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cracked up laughing. Too accurate for this two.

  • @boyofmanyfaces
    @boyofmanyfaces 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That had me cracking up! Just digging into the Enneagram for the first time. I'm a 1 w2

  • @laurenweller5765
    @laurenweller5765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a two, I resonated and laughed at all of these!

  • @cougarmoorhead-douglas1972
    @cougarmoorhead-douglas1972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for helping me see how fun, helpful and how much I need to be honest!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad!

  • @kloisgooden
    @kloisgooden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣 this is absolutely so true. So very me! Thanks for the fun video.

  • @Professa06
    @Professa06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a two and reciprocity keeps me going. I can easily pour into people but once I feel it's one sided I pull away and keep it surface cordial only. I'm working on it lol. Your vids are great 👍🏾

  • @skym821
    @skym821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to do everything for everyone, but if they don't appreciate me... I will lose it. 😂

  • @cheeseebun
    @cheeseebun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I WENT TO THE DOLLAR STORE TO GET A BUNCH OF TUPPERS SO THEY AINT HAVE TO GIVE IT BACK TOO LMFAO SJDJRJJRC 💀🥴

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HAHAHAHA YES I LOVE THIS

    • @lmajeski8546
      @lmajeski8546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guilty 🙈

  • @venturatshilombo1752
    @venturatshilombo1752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is accurate I could cry lol every single word

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't cry, Ventura!

  • @redjaw69
    @redjaw69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Painfully true.

  • @blueKillerwhale2
    @blueKillerwhale2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super new to the enneagram but I’m a 2 and this was hilarious, called me tf out, but came across as intended like the exaggerations helped me laugh at how ridiculous I can be 😆

  • @ladycayla14
    @ladycayla14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate with different ones. In my most unhealthy of seasons, I’ve definitely been these. Oh man, I’ve asked that questions many times, “are we good?”. Lol
    I just want everyone to like me. And I’m trying to get better at saying no and expressing myself better. So here’s to trying to be a healthier 2! Lol

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like you are well on your way to healthy "two-ness" Macayla! Thanks for commenting and watching, I really appreciate it!

  • @barankamali8057
    @barankamali8057 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom is a 2w1 and I’m a 9w8.We’re opposites and best friends.She thinks I need her and I don’t like her acts of service cause I want to do things in my own way...she is usually the nicest person in my world but when she get angry or upset...
    It is important to know why 2s help people. They think others need their help and abilities. Not necessarily to gain the love and affection of others (this is not necessarily a 2 thing.we all need this)

  • @melscore2865
    @melscore2865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a 2 guy. I rarely ask for help from anyone except my wife. I prefer to give the help to others. I'm the first one to volunteer to help a friend move. I usually put other people's needs ahead of my own.

  • @RetroXRicardo
    @RetroXRicardo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a male 2w3, people immediately judge me as effeminate and passive. Also, as an ESFJ I've learned to accept my type. Everything in this video resonates with me so much lol!

  • @benjidorvilus6717
    @benjidorvilus6717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Def resonate with that last one lol.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not a 2... but I do this often 🤣

  • @Israelie_Hippie
    @Israelie_Hippie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so relate! I really related with the insecurity poetion. Are you mad at me? I do this all the time! Lol!

  • @SitsInATree
    @SitsInATree 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the cake baking hurt me 😆 I'm obsessed with food and cooking, always have been, and I always interject to help my family when they cook so much so that it's become a running joke 🙃

  • @joaniparrish2904
    @joaniparrish2904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Soo painful 😭😂I literally did the cake thing yesterday to my little brother who was trying to make a nice dinner for his girlfriend 🥰🥰

    • @jfish032
      @jfish032 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww! Aha, first step is recognizing it 😅 I'm the same

  • @akthehigh
    @akthehigh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my gosh I'm dying at that last one xD Would be nice to get a little help though!!

  • @gabrielledean5996
    @gabrielledean5996 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should post a video on how 2s and all the numbers can fix these problems

  • @lindakoch2086
    @lindakoch2086 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adorable and yes, you nailed it (me)! Appreciate the humor and ok, the truth

  • @LeoUnlion
    @LeoUnlion 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, my mother is a 2 - and I'm an 8 - and I never understood when she says "are you asking me to do it now?" when I barely made some suggestion.
    And the part when she didn't express her needs to others made her burn out few years ago. She never ask for help.

  • @paoce960
    @paoce960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a 2, I can understand the attitude of the woman representing the. 2. However, I don’t really do those things. I have worked hard in myself for long time. I can receive help, hmm but it’s still hard to ask for help though … I really love helping others, it fulfills me but honestly, my motivation is not receiving something in return. I do love people and of course I like to be loved but that’s not my motive, I love loving others. I am not the kind of a person that is always serving to others in a party, for instance… I am talking to them and focusing on how they feel… and I love deep conversations where you go deep in the psyche of other human being. I am straight forward and I know my needs and I am able to voice them up. I have a good wing 3 by my side! ♥️💪🏼👌🏻😃

  • @stinkypinky2547
    @stinkypinky2547 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super accurate. PLEASE make a type 8!!!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coming soon! Next week is enneagram 4!

  • @FoxLatté-r1l
    @FoxLatté-r1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was trying to see if my character (in my book) was a two and this helped so much, yup! She def is!

  • @hannahrobbins2561
    @hannahrobbins2561 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a 2 and I'm laughing so hard at how real this is. ESPECIALLY the last one.

  • @theorchdork9070
    @theorchdork9070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this really put me in other peoples perspective of my actions thank you for pointing this out 😂 being a type two Is honestly interesting and hearing more about it is soo helpful and incite full

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to help! And I love your name haha

    • @theorchdork9070
      @theorchdork9070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!! I don’t even remember how I came up with it

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The orch dork profile pic on point too 🐳

  • @michaelxavier230
    @michaelxavier230 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for educating us while being funny

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Mike!

  • @mydreamquest
    @mydreamquest 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re so entertaining; made me laugh numerous times

  • @heyitsjayjay2809
    @heyitsjayjay2809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This whole vid had me dying 😂 I definitely check all 7 boxes

  • @RagingBlasian
    @RagingBlasian 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ACTUALLY got offended for a second and was like "but but but I just wanna help people, I'm not that bad, I promise 👉👈"

  • @christinaallene123
    @christinaallene123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No no no, (5 who lives with a 2 mother/has known lots of 2s) their pride is in how anxious they get when criticized and defensive they become when they feel the slightest bit of a finger pointed at them. Expressing any concern will make them feel that their character is being threatened.

  • @lilyho9808
    @lilyho9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a 2 and I do resonate with some of it but I think its a little exaggerated. This is really funny though lol, good content!

  • @srdfb2260
    @srdfb2260 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, yes, yes, I do alllll of those things! Funny!

  • @lauracragun5974
    @lauracragun5974 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are adorable! great explanation. You totally explained me

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Laura! 😃 Glad it resonated!