Gena...seriously, just saying that he could not win to even speak of one of Lauren's faults was enough and I actually do agree with that. But apparently your reply could not follow the gentleman and respectful quality of your one of your man crushes Ben since you had to unnecessarily add "just stfu". SMDH at these nasty, aggressive followers. But still like Ben nonetheless b/c his fans quality is not his fault.
We are not supposed to know the gender of every poster here but the intelligent mind still could have picked up on the key word respect in the following of their gentleman and respectful fan crush. And whether there are much harsher words or especially actions in this sadistic society that we live in, a better trained mind and personality doesn't follow the crowd. And these are words and expressions that I am glad about. Over and OUT!
He was into the girl we saw on The Bachelor, but she didn't really exist. I did take a peep at their show...she was annoying and he seemed miserable. He also is not ready to commit. It's obvious.
He's a remarkably emotionally intelligent man, and also a very good listener. I was watching the intensity on his face when Lauren was asking her questions -very rare.
In my opinion, he is the most authentic man to come from the bachelor franchise. I hope he finds a gal that matches his genuineness and vulnerability. He deserves it!
I never saw the chemistry between him & Lauren, so sad for him that it didn't work out though, it was obvious when he walked away from the last show he's trying to move on in his own time because he's far from over it
Ben is an Amazing guy. He’d be a WONDERFUL catch for anybody. Ben I don’t think it’s a sensitivity thing I think it’s a confidence thing. Sensitivity in a guy is a beautiful thing!
Ohh please, the reason they broke up is because these shows are not about love, they are about competition, there is a reason that most of these couples end up breaking up. This show is basically a prettier version of survivor.
It's really clear this guy needs to work through his own emotional stuff for awhile. He's too high maintenance right now. Forget the looks for a minute. He realizes he's too sensitive and that can be a big obstacle. He's always admitted to self-esteem issues, let him get stronger and then he can meet someone. THERE IS NO RUSH. He'll figure it out. He needs to be alone so he can focus on himself.
norma creation but he wasnt uncomfortable dating non-white women because they had the best chemistry... Did you watch the show? If anything, I think that he picked the woman he married because thats what the producers wanted him to do. And why are you making this about race?
Ben ask Seinne Fleming out already. You totally admired her on Aries season. You complimented her in front of her friends and all the people that listen to your podcast. She clearly likes you to.You totally don't have issues with race as some people suggested. Just take the bull by the horns and ask her out.You deserve to have a woman who is going to love you and not try and change you. True love is all you need.
Religious people act all like they are religious but when it comes to having sex they do it before marriage. Isn’t it a sin to do it before marriage? So why act like u are religious? Oh and then they hide it and take it to their grave. Nothing bugs me more when people act like someone they are not.
i got all three. i'll hit him up, I agree with that end piece with companies supporting Justice, that alone is something we need to remember and support
I suspected Ben being an only child would affect his relationship because of sharing. Only children have head strong and is usually difficult for them to out themselves in the other person's shoes. It's a me thing.
Ben..I wish all good things to come your way..I believe you will find love again..you will be happier then you ever thought..that is my prayer for you ❤
Some people cannot ever figure out when to not have an opinion. Ben, sometimes you go with the flow. And with a beautiful woman, it's most of the time! Consider this analogy: You take all the Black Cards and give all the Red ones to your lady. You throw them face down onto a table and give them a stir. Pick them up into a deck again and turn them face up. You have no idea what will come up but half are your black ones and half are your ladies Red ones. Said another way, everyone gives 100% and life and your partner give you back 50%. If you want a relationship, STOP TRYING TO PICK WHICH 50% YOU GET BACK! That's why it's a "relationship"! When you are truly ready for one, this will come naturally! When you find the right partner, they will want to make sure that the daily give and take is right for you too! I wish you well Ben!
So she was trying to change his already structured life and he wasn't with it and it triggered him to start doubting. Wow talk about true honesty. I can honestly say I have never went there trying to change a guy. I give great advice and let them figure it out from there.
Can we move on...Ben Higgins get a life and leave Lauren out of your mouth....it is draining to keep listening to the same story over and over...if they make him a bachelor again ...that will be disappointing
Who cares life is tough! He had an amazing woman and had the luxury of walking away from her and still we waste time on this stuff... I was engaged to a beautiful woman during a 5 1/2 year relationship, lost my father and it destroyed my relationship due to the pain it caused me as an individual and this twit Is worth more than one second of our breath because....?
Ben i hope u read this. I read all these reviews. Most ppl on here say same thing i feel. Jojo is the one. She still talks sbout U!! That means she isnt over you. Think about calling her!!! Look @ Jared & Ashley. I knew one day they would figure this out & get together. Ashley fell in love with him..and he finally figured out it was love. Now its ur turn Ben.
Guys, they both went on a show that's a parody about love and relationships. They were both shallow to begin with. Is it so surprising that they broke up?
He cared more about being a bachelor and advancing his career. He’s still talking about it because the bachelor franchise still cares and I guess it’s relevant to the franchise. Can he go away already!
I don't even need to hear the while story, I knew it would have been "ify" because they just didnt seem to be in the same place. He seems more humble down to earth, she portrayed a "higher maintenance" sort of speak appeal. I definitely think there is someone out there for him Lauren just wasnt it
just like most of the bachelor guys. they like to give all these PC answers when asked about their exes/past flings, which comes off as phony and fake. ughh I hate ''reality'' TV
MezanmiNikki or he probably had already realized what he did wrong and was prepared just in case he was asked? He seems way more authentic than what Lauren is like right now with her new “Dream man” but who knows I really hope he finds someone who truly loves him and start a family like he wants to
I think it’s more like he has been asked this same question over and over and over again , that he has probably learned exactly what to say without trying to sound like he is bashing Lauren and accepting blame for it instead of blaming her and sounding miserable and petty
I think it just sounds like he's thought a lot about it and has come to realize his part in the breakup and wants to focus on that rather than publicly shame and blame Lauren for the things she may have done, which she can choose to speak about or not. I thought his response seemed introspective, respectful, and in good taste, not rehearsed.
He doesn't really find the woman that he's. love. Sometimes women think something wrong with them but no.if that man find who he really love no question.
He’s over Lauren cause he broke up with her. I think he’s scared if the relationship doesn’t work. He wants to be in love and settle but he wants the right woman.
Ben do u ever think about jojo now?? I watched whole show. Jojo loved you. U just were blind to her. Maybe good idea call jojo and c if feelings r still there. U never know..she may b the right one 4 U.
I think he’s definitely moved on. He’s there to promote his charitable coffee company Generous Coffee, but he had to answer the basic questions about Lauren because he was asked. Other than answering people when he’s asked, he doesn’t talk about her
THE DOCTOR ON DUTY he is talking retrospectively and intelligently about his past experience. He said he's current dating , it's obvious he has moved on.
i have watched him on bachelor winter game, all he was talk about was her, my ex my ex.and in their show happily ever after lauren was the one who wanted to start family immediately and he was not! these bachelor guys lie most of the time''i want a wife and i want a family''blah blah.anyway good for him if he moved on.i wrote the comment before he said he moved on.
He is very mature in his response to this breakup... unlike some ❤❤
Ben is the most handsome bachelor ever.
kitten T yes he is
Besides Sean
He really is.hes absolutely gorgeous
can people stop telling him to move on? jesus. he’s a really great guy. let him live smh
MyRudeTae he is jerk. He led jojo on and completely blind sided her. He deserves it. Karma
Sarisha Maharaj but that’s the show. u can only pick one. y’all would be saying the same thing about Lauren if he picked Jojo.
MyRudeTae agree. He loved the girl not easy to say just move on unless no love from the start
MyRudeTae ...IKR!!!👏👏👏
Stay alone for a while.......He just picked the wrong girl. Jojo was the woman he was looking for. Just the nightmare of every man.
So real. So honest. So transparent. Refreshing.
refreshing to actually hear someone being honest for once!
I hope one day a man will talk about me as passionately as Ben talks about coffee
Maria Z 😂😂😂
are you still single?
m 74 well, aren't you just creepy as hell...
@@princesspattycakeswm not like you
He’s seriously the best bachelor ever ❤️
Ok Ben, you don't have take ALL of the blame. We know that Lauren had her faults.
Gena...seriously, just saying that he could not win to even speak of one of Lauren's faults was enough and I actually do agree with that. But apparently your reply could not follow the gentleman and respectful quality of your one of your man crushes Ben since you had to unnecessarily add "just stfu". SMDH at these nasty, aggressive followers. But still like Ben nonetheless b/c his fans quality is not his fault.
We are not supposed to know the gender of every poster here but the intelligent mind still could have picked up on the key word respect in the following of their gentleman and respectful fan crush. And whether there are much harsher words or especially actions in this sadistic society that we live in, a better trained mind and personality doesn't follow the crowd. And these are words and expressions that I am glad about. Over and OUT!
Sammy Ytube yas girl 🙌
Yes but he had later on she is now with Chris Lane and they’re having their first baby
He did not want to get married. I like Ben but that is the answer. I hope Lauren is doing great.
because she wasnt the right one , now she's married and he found his soul mate
Should of went with jojo
no way
Nicole Marie, nah best move he could have made for Jojo. She is with a much better guy now and couldn't be happier!
"Should of went...???" Find an English as a First Language course and enroll!
*should have
He didn’t like her as much tho. Plus her family was weird with Ben.
When there isn’t love, they can’t make you change! But when you find your love, you will change everything to be with them!
He was into the girl we saw on The Bachelor, but she didn't really exist. I did take a peep at their show...she was annoying and he seemed miserable.
He also is not ready to commit. It's obvious.
Lauren wasn't the right one for him. He was trying to row upstream without a paddle. It's good that the charade is over.
John Richards why do you think he picked her, then?
Him and Lauren were SOOO BORING
Alexa Smith not as boring as arie and the blonde
lmfao soooooo boring. I stopped watching his season after their first one on one cause is was soooo obvious. But hes a sweetheart :)
Well Lauren was boring and stupid and she brought out the same in him.
@@dashriprock8596 you think you are so funny?
Good on Ben for being so honest and upfront on what he needs to work on in relationships.
He's a remarkably emotionally intelligent man, and also a very good listener. I was watching the intensity on his face when Lauren was asking her questions -very rare.
In my opinion, he is the most authentic man to come from the bachelor franchise.
I hope he finds a gal that matches his genuineness and vulnerability. He deserves it!
I think he did 🤍
He's very mature, emotionally intelligent with great values. Good for him. He'll find someone at the right time for him.
I never saw the chemistry between him & Lauren, so sad for him that it didn't work out though, it was obvious when he walked away from the last show he's trying to move on in his own time because he's far from over it
Ben is an Amazing guy. He’d be a WONDERFUL catch for anybody. Ben I don’t think it’s a sensitivity thing I think it’s a confidence thing. Sensitivity in a guy is a beautiful thing!
Ohh please, the reason they broke up is because these shows are not about love, they are about competition, there is a reason that most of these couples end up breaking up. This show is basically a prettier version of survivor.
It's really clear this guy needs to work through his own emotional stuff for awhile. He's too high maintenance right now. Forget the looks for a minute. He realizes he's too sensitive and that can be a big obstacle. He's always admitted to self-esteem issues, let him get stronger and then he can meet someone. THERE IS NO RUSH. He'll figure it out. He needs to be alone so he can focus on himself.
He's attractive
That's an understatement.lol
He looks like a young Donny Osmond georgous
Props to him for his honesty. Gotta love a strong man who isn’t afraid to be vulnerable
I can relate to his feelings and being an only child- most of us react when it's out of our norm or element
Goshhh, Ben is literally the whole package! He’s so so charming. Why would anyone NOT want to be with him? 😍😍😍😍😍😍
So true. He is so gorgeous 💜
Hessss so attractive in every way possible
1. He shoulda picked jubilee
2. They split because the contract ended.
norma creation but he wasnt uncomfortable dating non-white women because they had the best chemistry... Did you watch the show? If anything, I think that he picked the woman he married because thats what the producers wanted him to do. And why are you making this about race?
You guys! Don’t say what you don’t know nau 😰
Momo M no need for racism
Julie You’re right, I retract my racist comment
Momo M your just mad because jubilee is pretty asf
These reasons aren’t a surprise to me. I could tell these from a mile away.
He had me at coffee. ☕️ just kidding. I’m married lol 😂
Ben ask Seinne Fleming out already. You totally admired her on Aries season. You complimented her in front of her friends and all the people that listen to your podcast. She clearly likes you to.You totally don't have issues with race as some people suggested. Just take the bull by the horns and ask her out.You deserve to have a woman who is going to love you and not try and change you. True love is all you need.
Love Ben 😍
Great job with Generous, ahhy to hear about his work in Honduras!
Religious people act all like they are religious but when it comes to having sex they do it before marriage. Isn’t it a sin to do it before marriage? So why act like u are religious? Oh and then they hide it and take it to their grave. Nothing bugs me more when people act like someone they are not.
Gena Holden sorry but I could only read half of your comment to realize your a girl. Of course eh. Didn’t need to read further
Ben as Bachelor again? I say go for it!
it's hard to move on from someone you were in love with and engaged too.. quit telling him to move on. like come on people jeez
Samantha Shea Smallest violin!!! 🎻
i got all three. i'll hit him up, I agree with that end piece with companies supporting Justice, that alone is something we need to remember and support
I like that he is doing something with his influence
He's such a nice guy, not putting the blame on Lauren
I hope he does find his true love someday, he deserves it!
I suspected Ben being an only child would affect his relationship because of sharing. Only children have head strong and is usually difficult for them to out themselves in the other person's shoes. It's a me thing.
Wasn’t his season years ago? I know he was on Winter Games and I love Ben and all, but why is this still a hot topic...?
K S Exactly, it's not!! Ben is obviously just looking for fame!!
Ben..I wish all good things to come your way..I believe you will find love again..you will be happier then you ever thought..that is my prayer for you ❤
Some people cannot ever figure out when to not have an opinion. Ben, sometimes you go with the flow. And with a beautiful woman, it's most of the time! Consider this analogy: You take all the Black Cards and give all the Red ones to your lady. You throw them face down onto a table and give them a stir. Pick them up into a deck again and turn them face up. You have no idea what will come up but half are your black ones and half are your ladies Red ones.
Said another way, everyone gives 100% and life and your partner give you back 50%. If you want a relationship, STOP TRYING TO PICK WHICH 50% YOU GET BACK!
That's why it's a "relationship"! When you are truly ready for one, this will come naturally! When you find the right partner, they will want to make sure that the daily give and take is right for you too!
I wish you well Ben!
What was his work prior to The Bachelor? Lauren was a flight attendant, right?
Yes she was
I had no idea they split! Omg his season was my fav one, I was really rooting for these two!
So she was trying to change his already structured life and he wasn't with it and it triggered him to start doubting. Wow talk about true honesty. I can honestly say I have never went there trying to change a guy. I give great advice and let them figure it out from there.
No she was not
You choose the wrong girl mate. Hopefully this time your choice will be better
if he wasn't ready then (and he obviously isn't now) why did he become the bachelor?
Can we move on...Ben Higgins get a life and leave Lauren out of your mouth....it is draining to keep listening to the same story over and over...if they make him a bachelor again ...that will be disappointing
Beatrice Wasonga Agreed!!!
I doubt they will. yes, Lauren moved on long time ago
He is being asked about it with Lauren
*SNL’s inspiration for BLAND MAN sketch*
Who would break up with this guy? ❤️
Who cares life is tough! He had an amazing woman and had the luxury of walking away from her and still we waste time on this stuff... I was engaged to a beautiful woman during a 5 1/2 year relationship, lost my father and it destroyed my relationship due to the pain it caused me as an individual and this twit Is worth more than one second of our breath because....?
Ben i hope u read this. I read all these reviews. Most ppl on here say same thing i feel. Jojo is the one. She still talks sbout U!! That means she isnt over you. Think about calling her!!! Look @ Jared & Ashley. I knew one day they would figure this out & get together. Ashley fell in love with him..and he finally figured out it was love. Now its ur turn Ben.
Youre not too sensitive. When I watch her with you she just isnt into you and isnt as caring of a person that is good for you.
Guys, they both went on a show that's a parody about love and relationships. They were both shallow to begin with. Is it so surprising that they broke up?
We still talking about this in 2018 !!
Ben should never of chosen Lauren B and choose JoJo because Lauren loved I idea of him and JoJo loved him.
Thank god.
I really didnt think he was gonna have the balls. I am so relieved.
Even in some of the pics of them together, Ben is dying inside trying to keep the relationship alive.
He cared more about being a bachelor and advancing his career. He’s still talking about it because the bachelor franchise still cares and I guess it’s relevant to the franchise. Can he go away already!
Melissa Misinco Finally someone who sees what I see!!! Thank you!!
He’s a con
C’mon guys 😂
He’s hot
Yes he is
and you not
He seems like such a cool dude. I hope he finds his lobster.
Bruhh this typa confidence man wheres mine at
I will say, that coffee is pretty darn good.
I don't even need to hear the while story, I knew it would have been "ify" because they just didnt seem to be in the same place. He seems more humble down to earth, she portrayed a "higher maintenance" sort of speak appeal. I definitely think there is someone out there for him Lauren just wasnt it
He seems so unauthentic like he rehearsed the answer... made sure not not to mention Lauren and focus on his own issues ...nice deflect! 🙄
just like most of the bachelor guys. they like to give all these PC answers when asked about their exes/past flings, which comes off as phony and fake. ughh I hate ''reality'' TV
MezanmiNikki or he probably had already realized what he did wrong and was prepared just in case he was asked? He seems way more authentic than what Lauren is like right now with her new “Dream man” but who knows I really hope he finds someone who truly loves him and start a family like he wants to
I think it’s more like he has been asked this same question over and over and over again , that he has probably learned exactly what to say without trying to sound like he is bashing Lauren and accepting blame for it instead of blaming her and sounding miserable and petty
I think it just sounds like he's thought a lot about it and has come to realize his part in the breakup and wants to focus on that rather than publicly shame and blame Lauren for the things she may have done, which she can choose to speak about or not. I thought his response seemed introspective, respectful, and in good taste, not rehearsed.
He’s trying to be the bachelor
He already told and accepted that he did it because the relationship was getting boring to him.
That’s not what he said
Does anyone else besides me see the obvious... he's just become a self-promoter!!!
He doesn't really find the woman that he's. love. Sometimes women think something wrong with them but no.if that man find who he really love no question.
He is such a sweet guy!
Omg, who cares anymore, they broke up a year ago, why is he being interviewed?
BN is a stupid show that relives the past forever. Lauren and Chris are happily married. Why is he doing this interview?
I met him and I know him he lives in Warsaw and my dad discipled him❤❤
He’s over Lauren cause he broke up with her. I think he’s scared if the relationship doesn’t work. He wants to be in love and settle but he wants the right woman.
He should’ve chose JoJo. Honestly those two felt meant to be...I was shocked he went the other direction
It was clear he loved her more. To me that was problem number 1
She was ready to marry him
lol jordan and jojo living their best lives, shoulda picked jojo 🤣🤣
100 percent
He shouldve went with jojo . He needs a nurturer. Someone to show him outward love. Lauren is to closed off. Thats not bad just not what he needs .
Lauren seemed so perfect and boring..jojo was best for him
Ben needs to be the bachelor again
What's his career? Seriously? Is it touring with the bachelor crowd?
Ben do u ever think about jojo now?? I watched whole show. Jojo loved you. U just were blind to her. Maybe good idea call jojo and c if feelings r still there. U never know..she may b the right one 4 U.
Ohh okay uu should go on bachelor again. Love.
He is too soft for Lauren ... she needed someone more ruff and not sensitive lol
His problem was that he was selfish , poor guy , you can’t be in a relationship if you’re so selfish!
im confused i thought he went on the prog. because he was ready to get married.. now he is saying he isnt... hmmm what a disappointment ..
I love Ben
Goodness... are people still talking about this?! 😒
honesty, vulnerability, what's the third thing??
Anonymous Penguin a ton of love
dude move on!!!!!!!! lauren already moved on! i guess you enjoy being bachelor/on limelight.
I think he’s definitely moved on. He’s there to promote his charitable coffee company Generous Coffee, but he had to answer the basic questions about Lauren because he was asked. Other than answering people when he’s asked, he doesn’t talk about her
THE DOCTOR ON DUTY he is talking retrospectively and intelligently about his past experience. He said he's current dating , it's obvious he has moved on.
THE DOCTOR ON DUTY be quiet if you have nothing nice to say don't say it!!
says the person on my comment thread! how about you start with yourself!
i have watched him on bachelor winter game, all he was talk about was her, my ex my ex.and in their show happily ever after lauren was the one who wanted to start family immediately and he was not! these bachelor guys lie most of the time''i want a wife and i want a family''blah blah.anyway good for him if he moved on.i wrote the comment before he said he moved on.
I love you Ben will u marry me
obviously he´s just doing press again to become the bachelor again
I'd love to watch Ben in another season. I didn't like Lauren at first place.
i loveeeee ben :( the best bachelor
Wasn't he engaged to Lauren for almost two years? Maybe he is ready now.
Well sienne was open to dating him but he blew her off 😕...
I like Lauren and Ben so much before..but now I just like Lauren
No one cares anymore, like damn still trying to stay relevant off something that happened 2 years ago lol
Max Agreed!!! Go away, Ben!!
Why did you click on the video if you don’t care?
Lauren’s now married to Chris lame with a son on the way
I mean Who Cares? Same old White Story for this White show etc.