I believe there are such men like this one. My cousin is one to his wife. I felt so bad for my sister-in-law. I always tell her that she doesn't have to live like that. But no one can help you unless you help yourself.
Hmong men are the most overbearing, controlling, and abusive man. Their excuse for their behavior is control, to keep their women in line. The more they’re abused the more they’ll loathe their abusers. Some women end their own lives to escape, a few fight back, and most are ashamed and stayed in the relationship. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. They treat their wives worst than an animal. That saddest part is witnesses or bystanders can’t intervened. They look on and pretend it’s nothing. The men egg each other to play this role as it’s considered manly. The women berated the abused women and stated they earned it. The children can only look on with fear. Hmong people wear two masks. One for the outsider and the other for the family residing within the home. To the owner of this story: your husband is a poor excuse for a human. Although, you’ve endured hell in his hands. Thank God you’re strong enough to have survived it and is free from him. Thank you for sharing your story. Women should never tolerate any kind of abuse.
As a Hmong man I cannot phantom as to why some men are so insecure with themselves that they had to resort to violence as a way to prove that they're big and strong. They feel so small about themselves that the only way they can feel big is to take control over someone.
Jenny aw !!! Ua cas zaj no yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li na,xav tsis txog tias tseem yuav muaj tej tus niag dab lim hiam npaum no thiab os ,cov ntxhais hmoob nplog no yuav tau ceev faj thiab nawb ,
I could not finish this story as it was too sad and I got too angry at this monster. No one deserves to be with a person as evil as him! I’m sorry you went through this. My only wish is for you to be happy.
Why are you still calling him “me koj txiv nom Phaj”? You should call him a monster. Sadly, you risked your life for the American dream. Your parents didn’t care about your well-being as long as you get to come to America. Well, good thing you got away from him and he didn’t remarry another poor soul.
Tej uas cov poj niam no tiv tsuav tau tuaj teb chaws miskas thiab kom tau nyob teb chaws no. Yog tsis xav tuaj npaum ntawd ces yeej tsis tuaj, yog twb mag ib tag kis nyab tshiab lawm na. Yog mag npaum li piav thaum 3 tag kis lawm es tseem this zeem tseem tuaj qees ces lub phiaj yeej loj txaus.
Please, ladies, only a small portion of our men are like the guy in the story! This kind of guys in this story will never find a woman that can live with him.
This is got to be one of the most painful stories I ever heard in terms of domestic abuse on Hmong stories TH-cam channel. This man is a coward and just pure evil. He finds pleasures in abusing women and will find any excuses to justify his actions. To the abusive man, if you want a physical challenge, pick someone your own size. Sister why you wait so long to get out of his abusive relationship? Never listen to the elders especially the ones telling you to go back. They are not in your shoes receiving the physical abuse. Glad you got out, best of luck.
@@maihang9062 sometimes the verbal and mental abuse hurts just as much because no one can see the bruises.... i suffered years of mental cruelty and I always tell my friends I rather he beat me and not abuse me that way. Idk .... to each their own interpretation of abuse ... to me abuse is abuse and our hmong community take no acknowledgement... nor interested self improvement
@@vahthao3483 not everyone will understand your decision or purpose in life. That’s ok. You will be labeled, we all will be labeled for something in our life time. If you accepted it, then you will become what people labeled you so don’t accept it. Life is bigger than a label. You must find joy and happiness. You are here to live your life, not to make everyone understand and accept you for who you are especially the elders. Your thinking is exactly what the elders has brainwashed Hmong women for generations, to sustain mentally/physical abuse, be a loyal wife regardless what the husband does and be a mute and to turn a blind eyes. Therefore, I think it’s more painful to show your kids that you are powerless, weak and lack courage despite the mental and physical abuse from your partner.
Niam vam choj aw kuv yeej tsis paub txog nej cov txiv es khib2 nej li os vim kuv Tus txiv tsis hlub kuv nws yeej tsis khib kuv li ces kuv thiaj tsis paub txog kev khib xyov dag los tiag li os ua neeg nyob muaj cov neeg khib npaum ntawd ntag
Sister, cas kuv yuav pab koj tu siab tshaj li. Cas koj niag txiv qub yuav yog ib niag dab es tsis muaj siab ntsws hlub poj niam li. Zoo siab koj dim nws es tau ib tus txiv zoo los hlub2 koj lawm. 💖💖
Tus me sister aw cas yuav hlub thiab nrog kj tu siab tshaj li os. Tau cov thaub laus siab phem thiab lim hiam li kj tus mas lwj siab tshaj li os. Kv nrog kj zoo siab thaum kawg kj kuj dim nws es mus tau ib tug hlub2 kj lawm nawb.
It's easy to say but not easy to do. Abuse man like this don't value their life as much as yours, when they know they will lose it all, your life is what they will take first. This is why we have so many couples that end up dead at the end. You just have to wait for the perfect time to make the move. I'm glad for you sister that you finally made it out of this abusive relationship. Your son will find his way back to you, you will lose his childhood but I guarantee you, you will end up much happier at the end. Since your ex already allow you to speak to him, that is a good sign already. Take it and cherish what is given, don't be too greedy otherwise you may lose it before it starts. May God bless you and your son.
Sister I’m glad you’re free from him. All the ladies out their we need to support each other and put these men in jail. They need to be locked up so no other women will get hurt. Shame on the family for not intervene they are accountable for your abuse too. The worse family supporting him and let them change all properties to their name.
This wouldn’t have happened if only her mom could’ve took her back when she came to her for help but this is the way of Hmong life. Reputation is everything, daughter life is nothing.
I am so sorry for you, sister. You should have not come to America if he was already abusing you since then. I hope karma will punish him for what he did to you. At one point my husband was abusing me too but not to that extreme like your evil monster husband. I left him for awhile and came back but he changed a lot with my fighting back. I am glad that you left the monster. He was over extreme abusive and extreme jealousy. Hopefully sister you have find peace and love that you deserve to be. Bless you sister.
Mloog zaj no mas kuv los kua muag vim tsis txawv yus lub neej li, txoj kev raug dag tuaj yus tsis muaj ib tus neej tsa pab yus txaus tusiab tshaj plaws thaum kawg tso tag nrho lub neej menyuam los tsuav yus dim xwb luag tsis paub Ces hais tias yog yus phem no cia raug leej twg es nws thiaj paub os
Wuag es hauv lub qab ntuj no nim muaj tej tug txiv neej siab phem npaum li no ntag hnov thawj zaug xwb txiv neej siab phem Npaum twg los,ntshe tshuav thiab tus txiv neej ko phem tag nrog txoj kev phem hauv lub qab ntuj no lawm,ahahahaha txaus luag thiab vim xav luag qhov uas muab txoj hluas los khi duav thiab,tsis txhob mus yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm os,siab2 phem ces yuav lwm tus los yuav los tsim los ntau xwb os lawv aw
Ua cas tsis ntxov muab niag txiv dev ko hlawv thaum ntxov thiaj tsis rau tsim, uas cas twb nyob teb chaws no lawm tseem muaj tej tug txiv dev zoo li thiab tsis hu tub ceev xwm muab nws coj mus hlob kav hlau naj
Yuag... yog muaj tseeb 100% no koj yuav tsis lam yuav thaub ruam kos los tau ntev xyoo kaj... Hais li kos mas tsis lam muaj ib tug neeg yuav tau li os. Tsis paub ob tog saib thaub hos hais li cas...
Kuv ntseeg txoj neej neeg no vim kuv twb ntsib ibtug dab siabphem siab ntxwgnyoog khib pojniam khib siab phem tsis yog khib hlub. Tus txivdev ruam limhiam li no mas koj ua zoo nkauj los khib nws, nws yuam kom u muab ntxuav thiab hnav li poglaus. Hos u tsa muag saib tsis tau leejtwg li. Ua li cas los txhaum nws tag. Ntaus yus mas ntaus cuag u tsis yog neeg. Cem yus mas cem phem tshaj plaws. Cov neeg ruam li no ces thov tso tseg zoo dua
Alot of hmong men wear two faces. One faces is how he treats his wife and kids and the other face is for outsider. So you never know what kind of person they are not if your not sharing the same bed with him. There are a few women like that too, but mostly it's the men that i see. My husband is one of those men who wear two faces too. In front of other peoples he a nice kind person, but with me... let just say its a different story.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim nkauj hmoob nplog txojkev ntshaw hmoob mékas zaum no pom tsis pom ? lub tebchaws mékas nom tswv twb muab txoj cai rau pojniam koj tseem cia nws ntaus koj ua hnub ua hmo thiab ces tsis muaj lwm tiam rau nej cov pojniam ntxiv li lawm. Tej tus txiv dev zoo li no cas koj tseem cia nws nyob muab koj ntaus cuag li tej tsiaj xwb, thaum nws ntaus koj sab2 ntawd muab nws fooj kiag rau tub ceev xwm tuaj muab nws coj mus nyob tsev loj cuj tas nws sim neej ces tiav haujlwm xwb.
Why do some hmong people think that just bc they paid a bride price that they own you n can do whatever they want to you? No amount if $ can buy a person.
I am so happy that you finally found happiness, why did you wait 9 years to escape this evil man? You could have seek help by calling the police. Hopefully one day, you and your son will reunite. God bless you sister.
I believed her story my girlfriend got married to the Lao American he was so jealousy beat her up locked her wouldn’t let her go anywhere. He tortured her for two years finally she was able to escape and went neighbor ask for help they call police and got a translator she told the policemen everything finally police arrested him at work She found her relatives and now live happily with new husband.
Thaum tseem nyob tim nplog xwb twb muab koj ntau lawm uas cas tseem tuaj nrog nws nyob tim American no nas? Cov thaub laus los yuav nej ces yeej yog cov lub qes tsws lwj ib feem los mas?
Yog koj thiaj li nyob ntev ua luaj, niag neeg qia neeg zoo li ko ces thaum tig tau cev ces muab nws nrauj kiag mus xwb. Kuv yeej Pom cov niag txiv dev qias neeg zoo li ko kawg lawm. Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej, yog qias neeg li ko ces muab xa kiag mus hlob kav Hlau xwb
Koj twb tseem nyob nplog teb es twb ntaus koj lawm es ua cas koj tseem nrog nws tuaj ua dab tsi na yog kuv ces yeej tsis kam tuaj lawm os thiab thaum mus xam npaj ces ua kom poob xwb tiag
Sister and all the women out there in this same unhealthy/dangerous situation/environment, Men like these are horrible psychotic evil monsters. They do not love you. They only loved the reputation of having a wife. He used his muscles to scare/threaten you to make himself feel better and submit to him. You need to love yourself and know your worth/value. The way he behaved and controlling for you to give in and submit to him should tell you that he is beyond help. Being in a marriage with him is not worth the pain and abuse you go through. Continue staying with him would get you and your kids killed one day. Your mother did not carry you and give birth to you only to be beaten and mentally/physically tortured like a piece of junk by this evil monster. There is public assistance to help abused/battered women like you. You owe him nothing...you need to be strong and don't be afraid and leave a psychotic man before he kills you or leave you in a vegetable stage. If you think this is love...this is not real love. May God protect you all and bless you.
Koj tug txiv ko yog ib tug xiam hlwb, tseem yog hom txiv neej kws nyob xyoo 75 ib yaam le cov moob nom cov txiv neej zoo le koj tug txiv ko ces tsim nyog nyob tom lub tsev xiam hlwb xwb, vim txuj kev nyiaj dollar es txhaj le tsaug kev tsim txom .
nrug koj zoo sab qhov koj tsiv dim ntawm tug tuab neeg sab phem le kod os, tug miv nyuas tes yeej muaj txuj hauv kev kawg, tabsis koj ho xaav tas nwg yog noob nom phaaj lawm ces yeej yuav txawv tsi ntau, ces kaav lam xob khauv xim, yos dua tug zoo quas yawg kom tsi xob zoo le qub law os miv ntxhais awd....
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I believe there are such men like this one. My cousin is one to his wife. I felt so bad for my sister-in-law. I always tell her that she doesn't have to live like that. But no one can help you unless you help yourself.
Txoj neej neeg no mas mloog mas npau taws thiab meem txom tshaj plaws li tus txiv neej no tsis tsim nyog yuav poj niam li lawm ?
Why put up with him for so long? No man or woman is worth the abuse. This guy is insane. The law is your real family.
Hmong men are the most overbearing, controlling, and abusive man. Their excuse for their behavior is control, to keep their women in line. The more they’re abused the more they’ll loathe their abusers. Some women end their own lives to escape, a few fight back, and most are ashamed and stayed in the relationship.
I’ve seen it with my own eyes. They treat their wives worst than an animal. That saddest part is witnesses or bystanders can’t intervened. They look on and pretend it’s nothing. The men egg each other to play this role as it’s considered manly. The women berated the abused women and stated they earned it. The children can only look on with fear. Hmong people wear two masks. One for the outsider and the other for the family residing within the home.
To the owner of this story: your husband is a poor excuse for a human. Although, you’ve endured hell in his hands. Thank God you’re strong enough to have survived it and is free from him. Thank you for sharing your story.
Women should never tolerate any kind of abuse.
You’re absolutely correct about Hmong men. That is why I only dated Meka and married Meka. Big difference in the way they treat you.
As a Hmong man I cannot phantom as to why some men are so insecure with themselves that they had to resort to violence as a way to prove that they're big and strong. They feel so small about themselves that the only way they can feel big is to take control over someone.
You havent met the abusive whites and blacks.
Niam vam choj zaj neej neeg no yeej muaj tiag tiag li nws yog kuv ib tug txheeb ze....
As hmong women don't tolerate a abusive husband. You need to leave and find happiness. Love yourself don't be patient and put up with it.
Koj tseem muaj hmoo tshaj lwm tus mog lwm tus lub neej tseem txom nyem tshaj koj lub thiab mog kuv nrog koj zoo siab uas koj muaj hmoo es koj dhia dhau txoj kev txom nyem mog!
Jenny aw !!! Ua cas zaj no yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li na,xav tsis txog tias tseem yuav muaj tej tus niag dab lim hiam npaum no thiab os ,cov ntxhais hmoob nplog no yuav tau ceev faj thiab nawb ,
I could not finish this story as it was too sad and I got too angry at this monster. No one deserves to be with a person as evil as him! I’m sorry you went through this. My only wish is for you to be happy.
Tu saib heev os
Cia nws txom nyem es kom tuag mus os ib tug txiv dev ntaw.zoo siab koj dim nws
Why are you still calling him “me koj txiv nom Phaj”? You should call him a monster. Sadly, you risked your life for the American dream. Your parents didn’t care about your well-being as long as you get to come to America. Well, good thing you got away from him and he didn’t remarry another poor soul.
Tej uas cov poj niam no tiv tsuav tau tuaj teb chaws miskas thiab kom tau nyob teb chaws no.
Yog tsis xav tuaj npaum ntawd ces yeej tsis tuaj, yog twb mag ib tag kis nyab tshiab lawm na. Yog mag npaum li piav thaum 3 tag kis lawm es tseem this zeem tseem tuaj qees ces lub phiaj yeej loj txaus.
Please, ladies, only a small portion of our men are like the guy in the story!
This kind of guys in this story will never find a woman that can live with him.
Ohyo Cas zoo nkaus li Kuv tus zoo viv ncaus zaj thiab o lawm Aw.
Thaum ub peb haj tsis yog niam mos aub thiab los mas hiv hiv! I hated that term niam mos aub, tsis mos lawm txog txij nrog txiv neej pw tau nas
Tuaj koom koj thiab os
Tim koj vim koj xav tuaj tau lub teb chaws vam meej
This is got to be one of the most painful stories I ever heard in terms of domestic abuse on Hmong stories TH-cam channel. This man is a coward and just pure evil. He finds pleasures in abusing women and will find any excuses to justify his actions. To the abusive man, if you want a physical challenge, pick someone your own size.
Sister why you wait so long to get out of his abusive relationship? Never listen to the elders especially the ones telling you to go back. They are not in your shoes receiving the physical abuse. Glad you got out, best of luck.
As a hmong woman ... it's very hard to leave ... the label is as painful as the abuse 😭
@@vahthao3483 the label only hurts mentally, verbally, and emotionally not physically.
@@maihang9062 sometimes the verbal and mental abuse hurts just as much because no one can see the bruises.... i suffered years of mental cruelty and I always tell my friends I rather he beat me and not abuse me that way. Idk .... to each their own interpretation of abuse ... to me abuse is abuse and our hmong community take no acknowledgement... nor interested self improvement
@@vahthao3483 not everyone will understand your decision or purpose in life. That’s ok. You will be labeled, we all will be labeled for something in our life time. If you accepted it, then you will become what people labeled you so don’t accept it. Life is bigger than a label. You must find joy and happiness. You are here to live your life, not to make everyone understand and accept you for who you are especially the elders. Your thinking is exactly what the elders has brainwashed Hmong women for generations, to sustain mentally/physical abuse, be a loyal wife regardless what the husband does and be a mute and to turn a blind eyes. Therefore, I think it’s more painful to show your kids that you are powerless, weak and lack courage despite the mental and physical abuse from your partner.
Thov Kom nom phaj tuag sai2 no
Zoo siab Koj tau lub neej zoo lawm!
The story of my life!! Glad you find your way out sister. You're not alone.
Niam vam choj aw kuv yeej tsis paub txog nej cov txiv es khib2 nej li os vim kuv Tus txiv tsis hlub kuv nws yeej tsis khib kuv li ces kuv thiaj tsis paub txog kev khib xyov dag los tiag li os ua neeg nyob muaj cov neeg khib npaum ntawd ntag
hais zoo kawg li os sis
Pab koj tu siab kawg li. Cov txiv neej uas los yuav poj niam tim ko ces yog cov yuav mus suav teb xwb es thiaj phem xwb.
Sister, cas kuv yuav pab koj tu siab tshaj li. Cas koj niag txiv qub yuav yog ib niag dab es tsis muaj siab ntsws hlub poj niam li. Zoo siab koj dim nws es tau ib tus txiv zoo los hlub2 koj lawm. 💖💖
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Ua cas es koj tsawm yuav Tuaj teb chaws no thiab yog kuv ces kuv twb Tsis kam yuav nws thaum tsawm nyob tim mloog lawm os
Nrog koj tu siab kawg os sister aw
Uas cas es yov muaj tejtus txiv limhiam uas luaj nas tus mis niamtsev aws!!!
Pab lhub kj os tus vivncaus aws zoo kg uas koj dim lawm naws.
Remember no MEN is above law....
Zaj neej neeg no kuv tsis mloog vim ntev dau lwm zaus muab ua ob part nawb
Wow, khib tiag tiag, yuav tau 3 tag lis twb ncaws neeg lawm. Phem tiag tiag. Kuv yog koj ces muab nws veg Tim nplog teb lawm. Ntsej muag siaj.
Tus me sister aw cas yuav hlub thiab nrog kj tu siab tshaj li os. Tau cov thaub laus siab phem thiab lim hiam li kj tus mas lwj siab tshaj li os. Kv nrog kj zoo siab thaum kawg kj kuj dim nws es mus tau ib tug hlub2 kj lawm nawb.
Yog li koj hais es nws lim hiam npaum li ntawm ces nej cov Hmoob plog ris siab lod . tsis txhob tuaj yuav cov thaub laus
nawb. tos nws tus loj tsis yuav los. twb yog nws niag siab phem2
nws tus niam loj tsis yuav nws.
Oh..mob hlwb dhau lawm os tus txiv tsev
It's easy to say but not easy to do. Abuse man like this don't value their life as much as yours, when they know they will lose it all, your life is what they will take first. This is why we have so many couples that end up dead at the end. You just have to wait for the perfect time to make the move. I'm glad for you sister that you finally made it out of this abusive relationship. Your son will find his way back to you, you will lose his childhood but I guarantee you, you will end up much happier at the end. Since your ex already allow you to speak to him, that is a good sign already. Take it and cherish what is given, don't be too greedy otherwise you may lose it before it starts. May God bless you and your son.
Sister I’m glad you’re free from him. All the ladies out their we need to support each other and put these men in jail. They need to be locked up so no other women will get hurt.
Shame on the family for not intervene they are accountable for your abuse too. The worse family supporting him and let them change all properties to their name.
Qhia koj tus txiv lub npe los. Peb mam li tuaj ncaws nws kom nws sab kiag sob! Txiv neej tauj txiv neej kiag sob.
Pua yuav muaj li ntawd mas ua cas ho tsi nrauj thaum ntawd no
Ntuj no txiv liam ces siab yeej phem li no ntas cov txiv dev laus hmong miskas yeej muaj ib nrab siab phem kawg li hov yeej tsis yog yuav zoo tag li
This wouldn’t have happened if only her mom could’ve took her back when she came to her for help but this is the way of Hmong life. Reputation is everything, daughter life is nothing.
I am so sorry for you, sister. You should have not come to America if he was already abusing you since then. I hope karma will punish him for what he did to you. At one point my husband was abusing me too but not to that extreme like your evil monster husband. I left him for awhile and came back but he changed a lot with my fighting back. I am glad that you left the monster. He was over extreme abusive and extreme jealousy. Hopefully sister you have find peace and love that you deserve to be. Bless you sister.
Mloog zaj no mas kuv los kua muag vim tsis txawv yus lub neej li, txoj kev raug dag tuaj yus tsis muaj ib tus neej tsa pab yus txaus tusiab tshaj plaws thaum kawg tso tag nrho lub neej menyuam los tsuav yus dim xwb luag tsis paub Ces hais tias yog yus phem no cia raug leej twg es nws thiaj paub os
Yog kawg tus sister ntawv tus txiv ces yog kiag tus poj dab ntawv los thwj kiag.
Anyone, going through this same abusive relationship. Seek help and divorce. Your life before reputation. Run.
Yog cia kom nws mob li ntawv tuag vim npam nws lawm mas tus txiv neej phem li nws na
Oyo ua cas kuv yuav pab hlub koj thiab nrog koj tu siab kawg li. Tu txiv koj phem tiag tiag. Yog Tsis xa hlub koj es os yuav koj ua dabsti na. 😢♥️
Wuag es hauv lub qab ntuj no nim muaj tej tug txiv neej siab phem npaum li no ntag hnov thawj zaug xwb txiv neej siab phem Npaum twg los,ntshe tshuav thiab tus txiv neej ko phem tag nrog txoj kev phem hauv lub qab ntuj no lawm,ahahahaha txaus luag thiab vim xav luag qhov uas muab txoj hluas los khi duav thiab,tsis txhob mus yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm os,siab2 phem ces yuav lwm tus los yuav los tsim los ntau xwb os lawv aw
Pab hlub koj kawg tus viv ncaus 😭
I always see abusive men eventually live their life with karma.
Cov txiv dev zoo li ntawv ces muab nrauj zoo dua pab koj tu siab kawg os tu niam tsev aws god only gave us the opposite one angle always meet demons
Xav paub tias Niaj hnub no niag txiv deev no tuag lawm los tseem nyob ua li nws puas muaj kev khaum kev Npam
Ua cas tsis ntxov muab niag txiv dev ko hlawv thaum ntxov thiaj tsis rau tsim, uas cas twb nyob teb chaws no lawm tseem muaj tej tug txiv dev zoo li thiab tsis hu tub ceev xwm muab nws coj mus hlob kav hlau naj
Yuag... yog muaj tseeb 100% no koj yuav tsis lam yuav thaub ruam kos los tau ntev xyoo kaj...
Hais li kos mas tsis lam muaj ib tug neeg yuav tau li os. Tsis paub ob tog saib thaub hos hais li cas...
Kuv ntseeg txoj neej neeg no vim kuv twb ntsib ibtug dab siabphem siab ntxwgnyoog khib pojniam khib siab phem tsis yog khib hlub. Tus txivdev ruam limhiam li no mas koj ua zoo nkauj los khib nws, nws yuam kom u muab ntxuav thiab hnav li poglaus. Hos u tsa muag saib tsis tau leejtwg li. Ua li cas los txhaum nws tag. Ntaus yus mas ntaus cuag u tsis yog neeg. Cem yus mas cem phem tshaj plaws. Cov neeg ruam li no ces thov tso tseg zoo dua
Tus me niam hluas e ntshe koj daim teb txawv ntiaj teb li es koj tus txiv thiaj khib2 os
Yog kuv ces twb Hus police rau nws lawm os.
These men are not the jealous type. They are the devils 😈 who doesn't have a heart to loved anyone. They are heartless monster.
Alot of hmong men wear two faces. One faces is how he treats his wife and kids and the other face is for outsider. So you never know what kind of person they are not if your not sharing the same bed with him. There are a few women like that too, but mostly it's the men that i see. My husband is one of those men who wear two faces too. In front of other peoples he a nice kind person, but with me... let just say its a different story.
Koj tus thaub tsi yog khib hlub koj khib siab lim hiam xwb o ,pab hlub koj kawg li od me viv ncaus 😭😭
Vim koj ntsaw heev thiaj nyob nrog xwb os
Call the cops. He should go to jail.
Niag Hmoob ko nyob qhovtwg thiab yog Hmoob Xeem dabtsi hu licas
Nyuam qhuav ntxim nkauj hmoob nplog txojkev ntshaw hmoob mékas zaum no pom tsis pom ? lub tebchaws mékas nom tswv twb muab txoj cai rau pojniam koj tseem cia nws ntaus koj ua hnub ua hmo thiab ces tsis muaj lwm tiam rau nej cov pojniam ntxiv li lawm.
Tej tus txiv dev zoo li no cas koj tseem cia nws nyob muab koj ntaus cuag li tej tsiaj xwb, thaum nws ntaus koj sab2 ntawd muab nws fooj kiag rau tub ceev xwm tuaj muab nws coj mus nyob tsev loj cuj tas nws sim neej ces tiav haujlwm xwb.
Cov khib ciaj khib tuag li no kuv hnov thiab pom muaj 2 neeg mas txau ntshai tshaj li os
Jenny, what is the name of the song you used for your opening & closing? I really like it.
Kwm lis aka Nuj Nplaib
“Hlub mus kawg keeb”
Yog nws twb zoo lino rau kj 3 tagkis lawm kj tuaj yuav nws ua Nyob meka teb dabtsi? Kj twb tsim nyog rov qab mus tsev thaum tseem Nyob laos? Tus txiv neej no muaj teeb meem rau nws lub hlwb os. He needs medical assistance.
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Why do some hmong people think that just bc they paid a bride price that they own you n can do whatever they want to you? No amount if $ can buy a person.
I am so happy that you finally found happiness, why did you wait 9 years to escape this evil man? You could have seek help by calling the police. Hopefully one day, you and your son will reunite. God bless you sister.
I believed her story my girlfriend got married to the Lao American he was so jealousy beat her up locked her wouldn’t let her go anywhere. He tortured her for two years finally she was able to escape and went neighbor ask for help they call police and got a translator she told the policemen everything finally police arrested him at work She found her relatives and now live happily with new husband.
Someone need to help this woman get her child back from this abusive man. He's probably abusing his child too.
Cas Koj hmoov yuav phem ua luaj os me ntxhais aws.. hlub koj kawg.
Cas tus pojniam los yuav muab ruam ntev ualuaj li thiab laud.
Pick someone your own size
Omg!!! I’m so discussed!! The more I listen to it the more I get mad!!! I’m so sorry you had to go through this.
tau tus txiv. xiam hlwb mas mob hlwb tshaj li.
Zoo kawg qhov koj muab cuam tau rau thoob khib nyiab lawm os tsis li ntshe ib hnub twg ces koj kawg tuag.
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Thaum tseem nyob tim nplog xwb twb muab koj ntau lawm uas cas tseem tuaj nrog nws nyob tim American no nas? Cov thaub laus los yuav nej ces yeej yog cov lub qes tsws lwj ib feem los mas?
Yog koj thiaj li nyob ntev ua luaj, niag neeg qia neeg zoo li ko ces thaum tig tau cev ces muab nws nrauj kiag mus xwb. Kuv yeej Pom cov niag txiv dev qias neeg zoo li ko kawg lawm. Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej, yog qias neeg li ko ces muab xa kiag mus hlob kav Hlau xwb
Cov dev nplog teb no mas txawj los txawj dag txawj los txawj zab tej zaj no tsis tsim nyog muab los hais nkim sij hawm
Zoo siab tias tus viv ncaus koj ho dim niag neeg phem ntawd lawm os
Jenny I thought of that dab neeg too when it got to that part! haha
Koj tshuav nws nqis es koj thiaj li yuav yuam kev nws lawm os. Tawm mus thiab mas cas yuav mag qw tsis txaus li na ?
pog Jenny aw tej zaj no twb tsis tsim zog koj ua suab qusj li sav cas koj nim ua tus wuav zawv zuav txaus ntxub tiag
Cov niag txiv siab phem ces nws txoj niag xav yeej phem ..yog tawm tau ntawm nws crs yog koj tseem muaj hmoo ua neeg xwb
Koj twb tseem nyob nplog teb es twb ntaus koj lawm es ua cas koj tseem nrog nws tuaj ua dab tsi na yog kuv ces yeej tsis kam tuaj lawm os thiab thaum mus xam npaj ces ua kom poob xwb tiag
Sister and all the women out there in this same unhealthy/dangerous situation/environment, Men like these are horrible psychotic evil monsters. They do not love you. They only loved the reputation of having a wife. He used his muscles to scare/threaten you to make himself feel better and submit to him. You need to love yourself and know your worth/value. The way he behaved and controlling for you to give in and submit to him should tell you that he is beyond help. Being in a marriage with him is not worth the pain and abuse you go through. Continue staying with him would get you and your kids killed one day. Your mother did not carry you and give birth to you only to be beaten and mentally/physically tortured like a piece of junk by this evil monster. There is public assistance to help abused/battered women like you. You owe him nothing...you need to be strong and don't be afraid and leave a psychotic man before he kills you or leave you in a vegetable stage. If you think this is love...this is not real love. May God protect you all and bless you.
I agree
Yog muaj tiag, muab xav los mas koj tus txiv no lub siab tsis yog siab neeg yog siab tsiaj xwb, yog ib tug txiv dev.
Koj tug txiv ko yog ib tug xiam hlwb, tseem yog hom txiv neej kws nyob xyoo 75 ib yaam le cov moob nom cov txiv neej zoo le koj tug txiv ko ces tsim nyog nyob tom lub tsev xiam hlwb xwb, vim txuj kev nyiaj dollar es txhaj le tsaug kev tsim txom .
nrug koj zoo sab qhov koj tsiv dim ntawm tug tuab neeg sab phem le kod os, tug miv nyuas tes yeej muaj txuj hauv kev kawg, tabsis koj ho xaav tas nwg yog noob nom phaaj lawm ces yeej yuav txawv tsi ntau, ces kaav lam xob khauv xim, yos dua tug zoo quas yawg kom tsi xob zoo le qub law os miv ntxhais awd....
Coj mus nplob tua nas es ua kom nploj kiag xwb mas.
Sis koj muas muaj Xovtooj kuv xa tham koj
koj noog tus sister hauv Zaj neej Neeg no Lod?
Ok
they need to put this kind of men in jail...
Puas yog koj pheej deev sawv daws cov qau txhua rab mas? Koj puas ncaj tiag tiag li mas
Es koj yuav ruam txog qhov uas twb tsis muaj 3 tag kis nws twb ntaus koj los es cas koj tsis hais kwv hais tij hais koj neej tsa es muab tso tseg ma?
Txiv dev ntawv tsis tha yuav li os txiv neej nyob ntiaj teb no muaj coob muaj ntau os txiv neej siab phem ces zoo li kom los ma
Tus txiv no yog ib tug txiv dev laus ruam twm xeeb ruam tua tsov xwb os nyob teb chaws Miskas no ces cia hlob kav hlau xwb thiaj li tsim nyog lawm xwb
Another story of buying a lemon hopping it turned to be an orange. Sad!!