As a woman I would like to salute you for breaking the broken mold. We need assertive men who can lead us with a gentle way of loving us, touching us mixed in with some positive tension so the sex will be better. Make up sex isn’t the best sex , but what he’s teaching will allow more men to learn the right way to coat (courtship) “I’m from down south YALL “! Don’t be laughing at me. 😄😂 I’m just congratulating the men who are here. We need men like u in this new age of Aquarius. There are women like me who want to be led. I’m here listening looking for things to help my man master masculine leadership. I want to be fully surrendered to him! And there are other women like me. So keep doing the work . Y’all making the works better by becoming better. 👁 see u
This is life changing stuff. When there's no attachment to a certain outcome, it sure takes so much pressure off that we men have placed on ourselves ever since we first started having wet dreams.
isnt that stupid and delusional lies. You are trying to have sex with women, so dating coach guy says dont want what you want, and you'll be happy. What kind of sense does that make? You failing 1000 times and because "no attachment to outcome" youll be happy?
@@Holypikemanz no. You are missing the point. You shouldnt put too much emphasis on the outcome that you wish to happen in the future because its going to stifle your present thoughts, emotions and actions. Which will ironically push the desired outcome further away from ever occurring. Think of it as you'd do with your shadow. You dont catch it by chasing it but it runs after you once you run from it.
you all prolly dont give a shit but does anybody know a tool to get back into an instagram account..? I was dumb forgot my login password. I love any tricks you can give me
16:22 the formula: 1-get out of the house 2-expand your route 3-linger in public 4-talk to the ppl you meet 5-test for interest 6-walk through the open door
Social Expression I just wanted to get an understanding. The Dr. said that no one likes NICE, for surely women don't like nice guys. My questions to you is, by definition NICE means pleasant, agreeable, satisfactory, good, how can no one like something that is plesant, agreeable, satisfactory, and good, without putting add ons to the true definition of what it means? NICE does not mean you are not genuine, manipulative, weak, false, those are add ons this Dr and others, especially women are adding to the word NICE. If you trip an fall on the ground and someone helps you up, you mean to tell me women and men would disrespect that? If someone come up to you and slaps the shit out of you, you mean to tell me a woman and a man, would love for you to do again?(not talkin about kinky stuff) Please answer those questions so that I may understand, or anyone who wants to chime in on it. To me it seems people have a mental imbalance there.
"Nice guy" according to Dr. Glover means that you are so concerned about pleasing others and making sure not to upset them that you completely forget about yourself and put a filter on what you say and do and instead play the role of a person who doesn't do or say anything that could maybe possibly be something that someone else may not agree with. In essence you completely give up being yourself to play the role of someone who exists solely to please (live for) others instead of yourself. This also turns a man into a mind-numbingly boring wandering generality that no woman could ever feel attraction for because he has no life energy or passion to be attracted to- because he is filtering himself so completely to avoid possibly doing or saying the "wrong" thing that he is essentially dead. Every man on earth should read his book, particularly if you had an absent father (physically or mentally) or were raised by a single mother. But anyone who puts other's (possible/imagined) concerns about how they act ahead of living their life NEEDS his book. His podcasts are fantastic too. There are thousands of snake-oil salesman self-help gurus out to make a buck, but Dr. Glover is the real deal. His stuff is completely different and better than anyone else's stuff (it probably helps that he is a licensed therapist/psychiatrist).
I was the classic nice guy in college. A who maintains a stable of women friends but never actually gets laid by any of them...... being careful never to do anything that might upset their so called fragile emotions. I didn't bring up anything sexual in fear of being a pervert. I saw them have boyfriend after boyfriend, while I was thinking why are they not picking me? That’s because they will always go for passion over safety (and boredom), I learnt all this the hard way. Now I make sure to build sexual/romantic/emotional tension with women. However, being a gentlemen (not a nice guy) is very lucrative (especially in the first few weeks) if you want high quality women, who may or may not be the most attractive This was a great video, alot a good tips I will use in the future.
Dr Robert Glover's work and his discovery is amazing 🏆👏 his book No More Mr Nice Guy is a life changer! It's not as simple as it sounds. I've now ordered his new book Dating Essentials.
This is some amazing stuff! This really connects some dots for me. Better yet it is helping me shift my consciousness and realize that I have already connected these dots and now it's just time to trust them.
I just received the book from Amazon. I started reading it and I found myself in the forefront since when I was a child. I would say it is my life story.
That part about "18 year old girl hitting on"... i totally can see what they see in this men. I'm 28 year old and i would totally like to hang out with him. The vibe is amazing. Tender balanced aggression is a rare thing to come across in a male. Bold enough to be manly but gentle enough not to come across as jerk. Enjoyed the video, thanks :)
Jill Snow White, this guy is a professional, of course he's got all the shit you're after but the average guy might not be as smooth as him. So the rest of us would probably get rejected by someone like you. Honestly what do you bring to the table, fuckall
Robert rant towards the end is inspiring. I am a 60 year old and when he said that he found very few older, i.e. 60-year-old women were interested in him but many younger women were interested in him it blew my mind. The reason? It's reciprocal - I mean we find younger women more attractive so it's not unreasonable that they find us attractive too. Just our conditioning tells us that were are perverts and creeps. Not so. Thank you for this post. Totally worth watching it.
Got my book on order. Should be here in a couple days. Got flanked with a girl who was hot & heavy for two months with me then overnight went cold and essentially ghosted. Said she needs space & time. Then that leaves me rethinking if it was me that caused it. But I can’t think of anything. Talk about a crap shoot. Haha
Do you do everything with a passion and "Let God"? I want to start doing everything with a passion as well. I noticed I lost all my passion for things when I read a book by Dr. Wayne Dyer called "Manifest your destiny".
The story of the woman on the beach reading a book changes with every interview. Last time she was on holiday and had an argument with her friend, Robert bumped into her again still sunbathing on the beach several hours later. 🤔🤔🤔
yes I know how to treat a woman I give her I like to find her I think this is a good thing men getting the chance to show their affection too attractive woman
The BunBoy Well i'm making a conscious effort to not be so affectionate and complementary (not that its bad to do that) I was just doing it too much. The more my self esteem grows, the less I need her validation.
How do you know what to say to women though? For example, I saw a woman walking with a skateboard and I said "Hey, cool board, what kind is it?" and tried to strike up a conversation but she blew me off. That's pretty much how it goes every time.
I think you also need to improve your facial expressions, body postures when doing that. Coz you might say the right words but ur body, ur face tells otherwise.
The Dr said no one likes NICE, NICE means pleasant, agreeable, satisfactory, and good. Can anyone explain to me why wouldn't anyone like NICE, especially women, without using those add ons to the true definition of the word NICE? Nice DOES NOT mean manipulative, false, deceitful, weak. These are add on words people put on to the word NICE to convince you its something bad, especially women. If a person is hungry and someone came up to them and fed them, are you saying they are being manipulative, false, weak, deceitful to that person? If a person came up to you and round house your ass in the face, are you saying thats a good thing because he's being honest? Which one is being NICE with the examples I'm using, or people just want to switch it around and the person who round house your ass is being NICE? Can anyone explain that to me?
Probably a little late to reply after 9 months. But what he means by not being NICE, Is not being FAKE NICE. e.g A woman asks you to do something you don't want to. Borrow your car, money, do her share of the workload etc. Doing it even though you don't want to is being FAKE NICE....especially if you are doing it to win her affection. This is mean manipulative, false, deceitful, weak because you expect to be rewarded i.e. FAKE NICE. Doing it because you want to, with no strings attached (no outcome) is just being NICE and that's ok. Btw, never lend anybody your car or money, it almost always ends badly :)
K N and Conor Mullan I used to be nice because I was a kind person, I wasn't nice because I wanted something back from them. However, no relationship will survive if there's no reciprocity. It takes two to tango. What I think the big problem is, is that many women confuse kindness for weakness. I've been kind with women but they tend to become freeloaders when with a kind man. I'm not easy and kick them out when there's no reciprocity. Being a kind man simply doesn't work in relationship with most women. By the way. It's not the manipulative men that women reject, it's the guys that show needy insecure behavior that women reject. Women love manipulating deceitful men and scammers, they get most of the girls.
Conor M It’s a lot more than that. I would say most NICE guys don’t ask to return the favor. Most NICE guys can’t say no to people, and it’s true that they don’t understand how others could say no. Those that do shit and beach later because you can’t return the favor are a worse kind of NICE. That’s the FAKE NICE. So, I propose that we reserve FAKE NICE adjective for the manipulative pieces of crap that don’t deserve help and deserve every shitty consequence. What the Dr here is trying to help I think are the genuinely nice guys who were not taught or learned how to say no or to just be themselves for various reasons. Finally, if you are telling your NICE guys “fuck off” and refuse to help them when in need, then you are the ASSHOLE. An asshole is not the solution to NICE guy. Even NICE guys can be assholes at some point.
@@krichard2346 why the fuck is a woman fixing her mouth to say any of those things anyway no way in hell im doing her portion of anything my problem is im not nice enough im quick to call out shit im not really an emotional guy at all and to be honest i don't really care much about them i lay out my rules period i tell them what i want and if women think there "clever" enough to challenge that there getting the fuck out period i come to understand no matter what these guys are saying what im getting from this is from a pessimistic view anyway is you treat women like children if you have a heated argument with them they will lose respect for you everything is always on you. Your always responsible no matter what so what i been doing my own thing and it been working out for me i just stop caring to put much work
My notes: 40:00 three Ts for emotional tension: touch, tease, tell. Look for the woman that wants to ride in your train (your life direction). Actionable items: become social animal: Get out of the house Extend your route Linger in public Talk to people you meet Test for interest Walk through open doors
Gosh these "nice guys" are the most emotional and complicated people who are out there. Why not be as straight forward and as honest as possible. How can a woman communicate with a guy who can't say what's om his mind and make her feel secure.
There is a difference between a nice guy who doesn't know what he is doing compared to a nice guy who knows what he is doing. In other words, if you truly find her interesting, be nice to her. If you find her boring or strongly disagree, leave her behind. It's ok to be nice to women when you mean it, it's not ok to be nice to women when you are faking it. The truth has no agenda. Women naturally know if you are true or fake with nice and the worst part is, they won't call you out on it.
I understand his message about being social, but what about people that have social anxiety or don't know what to say. Breaking the ice is the hardest part. It's easy once someone is talking your ear off.
@@profonicsgaming7870 I'll do my best. What's the best way to build up confidence? I've had terrible luck with approaches. I tried one today and the woman didn't even say "hello" back to me, she just smiled as if she was annoyed and walked away. I'd love to actually have a conversation with someone one day.
@@matthewbaumann630 practice is the best way to build confidence. Once you see progress and start to build on it, you’ll start to see many changes in yourself man. Just keep putting yourself out there, you’ve got this man.
How do nice guys get over fear of death? In my case, I also fear the possibility of a very unpleasant unknown (such as a Hell, although i'm not religious)
@@CoachDavidH thanks for your reply. Im struggling with the unknown because (I feel) unknown brought lots of hurt for me. So, if unknown is Dante’s inferno, then it’s really bad. How can I embrace the possibility of something really bad happening? When I was a kid, I could not deal with pain, I considered it unbearable. I think I have similar feelings of fear dealing with the fear of the pain of hell.
+ERIC J i have learned this. it took me about 2 months. but i am no longer a nice guy. i have made the transition from nice guy to recovering nice guy. i am there. and it feels amazing.
+ERIC J sweet man !!!!this gives me hope now that you said this can change your ways with women ..I need to change my nice guy now . I been one for a long time now and I need something to change ..
@@EWATTY4 Hey man! So, 3 years later, how is life with your old nice guy habits gone? Have you had relapses? What have you done that helped you keep moving forward in the beginning and during setbacks if they happened?
I wish he would tell more personal stories. What is he doing when an 18 year old is hitting on him? I haven't seen many 18 year olds hitting on dudes that are almost 60.
Coz few men have that energy and composure needed. If it were many for you also to meet, you would probably have learned the tactics already from them.
@@Dimitris_Half No shit it's fine. I'm asking how he gets hit on by 18 year olds because I've never seen it happen. Again, what is he doing that puts him in a situation where an 18 year old is hitting on him?
An adult out with their child acquiesces to their request for candy and allows them to choose what they want. Who has the power in that dynamic? The child who makes the choice, or the adult who through their permission grants them that luxury? At a base physical/animal level most any man could take most any woman. That the overwhelming majority of men make a moral decision against this, does not change this reality. So what is a rejection then? You have lost no power. All you have allowed her to do is demonstrate whether she craves you. Most men truly never know what it is to demand that of any potential partner. Instead, they put themselves in the position of groveling beggar. And then wonder why they are not desired. Let her demonstrate if she is worthy of your time. If she is not, and the majority will not be, what have you lost? Would you rather sleep with 200 hot women who were only so-so into you, or 5 who craved all of you. Pursue the latter. Just be wary of love bombing from cluster B women.
The interruption to just say “i totally agree ha ha ...” is not worth over such a shitty connection/set up man. We know you’re there just hang tight until you have a good question or useful thing to add.
Thing is im fine by myself i don't want fucking friends i Have my small group find i most people boring why do you gotta go through so many hoops to be with a damn woman? Im an introvert not the shy introvert but just want to be alone i hate small talk this is what i hate always just telling men to just be a bunch of social butterflies not thing is i don't have a problem with talking to people. No men talk to women for fun unless its business all dudes go talk to her because there trying to make her his
This guy, Dr. Glover, is so much like Corey Wayne [except much more manly & dilapidated]. I enjoyed listening to Dr. Glover much better than Corey Wayne; except, when I listened to Corey Wayne, I believe, I listened to about 100 videos & with this Dr. Glover I sense this is the only video I'd like to hear. I suppose I'm done with both.
Conor M that’s is always my goal to please the woman.. I am very good at pleasuring woman,with the practice...But I think it is nice guy behaviour and dose not translate into great experience for me,it’s more like work.. I am just starting out so let’s see Conor..I will keep you posted because you may be right..
It should be. Earlier men used to get this information (consciously or subconsciously) from their fathers. It's ridiculous how every piece of social information has become monetised today.
I believe this guy is full of it . I heard some of his story's and there is no way there true ..he is just trying to sell his book .. Bc his stuff does not work ..
Dude, while many of these things are true and correct they are true about “people”, not men vs women, that’s the part you are getting totally wrong. It’s a nice “person” syndrome not a nice “guy” syndrome.Boundaries, choosing the right person from beginning etc.
This guy may have some great shit to teach but jesus christ does he put me to sleep. This is the 2nd one of his videos I tried to make it through. Not happening
Btw, the touch and tell is sooo creepy. The first guy that starts touching me and telling me to do stuff like take off you hose??!! Will be taking a hike.
Funny, the women he seduced didn't... This seems to be a common theme from women; what they say they want/don't want isn't what they emotionally respond to.
Michelle Mclean What he talks about here is something I discovered for myself at a certain point, which I think is the opposite of aggressive. Unlike the manipulative tactics of pickup artists which can be very aggressive, I realised that if you want to meet women you simply need to focus on living a good life that makes you feel good about yourself. By living that life & feeling good about yourself you start to become more attractive to other people. As you become inherently attractive, you only need to pay attention to the signals of interest that women give you and respond by showing that you're interested too. As a man it is important to escalate the situation so that things move forward (if that's what you want), but as Glover says, if the woman shows a sign of disinterest, you take that for what it is and continue just enjoying things at the level she has already agreed to. Thats not aggressive at all as far as I can see, it's a relaxed response to the signs of interest the woman is giving.
The Dr said no one likes NICE, NICE means pleasant, agreeable, satisfactory, and good. Can anyone explain to me why wouldn't anyone like NICE, especially women, without using those add ons to the true definition of the word NICE? Nice DOES NOT mean manipulative, false, deceitful, weak. These are add on words people put on to the word NICE to convince you its something bad, especially women. If a person is hungry and someone came up to them and fed them, are you saying they are being manipulative, false, weak, deceitful to that person? If a person came up to you and round house your ass in the face, are you saying thats a good thing because he's being honest? Which one is being NICE with the examples I'm using, or people just want to switch it around and the person who round house your ass is being NICE? Can anyone explain that to me?
kandneter , naturally humans as part of development are not nice or big fish eats the small fish. If you are really nice as most of male Europeans are then the balance men v women changes. Literally men becoming like women and women become like men. You can see the devorce rate over 50% in Europe. If you not happy why we are like then talk to gentleman up to the sky called God because he made as this way. Men are meant to go through challenges, break the barriers, leading, protecting. If you are a nice guy with this treats you are a real man who women will do everything for you. Women are made to care , love, socialise, nurture and they are masters of their treats. Men need to keep up with their treats and then nature take care to fulfill their sexual needs . I can go on forever but just keep in mind to be a big air bus pilot is needed 10.000 hours practice. So learn and practice and you will be the James Bond of dating. I highly recommend c. Wayne book "how to be a 3%man". By the way I suffered for 40 years with nice guy cindrome but determination made me part of 3% men which all women are dying for. Respect brother
Think of this example: a girl you're on a date with tells you she really likes a band that you hate. If you're concerned with being agreeable and nice, you might be dishonest about your opinions of said band, thinking it might hurt your chances with her. On the other hand, a guy who is outcome-independent wouldn't be agreeable or pleasant about it at all and would give it to her straight, even if it hurts her feelings and kills his chance with her. What the nicer guy doesn't know is that women require these types of rapport breaks to be sexually attracted. It's partial evidence that the man has a backbone and, as a result, is a valuable mate. Assholes have trouble keeping women, but this a big reason they do well in the beginning.
yes I know how to treat a woman I give her I like to find her I think this is a good thing men getting the chance to show their affection too attractive woman
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As a woman I would like to salute you for breaking the broken mold. We need assertive men who can lead us with a gentle way of loving us, touching us mixed in with some positive tension so the sex will be better. Make up sex isn’t the best sex , but what he’s teaching will allow more men to learn the right way to coat (courtship) “I’m from down south YALL “! Don’t be laughing at me. 😄😂 I’m just congratulating the men who are here. We need men like u in this new age of Aquarius. There are women like me who want to be led. I’m here listening looking for things to help my man master masculine leadership. I want to be fully surrendered to him! And there are other women like me. So keep doing the work . Y’all making the works better by becoming better. 👁 see u
This is life changing stuff. When there's no attachment to a certain outcome, it sure takes so much pressure off that we men have placed on ourselves ever since we first started having wet dreams.
isnt that stupid and delusional lies. You are trying to have sex with women, so dating coach guy says dont want what you want, and you'll be happy. What kind of sense does that make? You failing 1000 times and because "no attachment to outcome" youll be happy?
@@Holypikemanz no. You are missing the point. You shouldnt put too much emphasis on the outcome that you wish to happen in the future because its going to stifle your present thoughts, emotions and actions. Which will ironically push the desired outcome further away from ever occurring. Think of it as you'd do with your shadow. You dont catch it by chasing it but it runs after you once you run from it.
you all prolly dont give a shit but does anybody know a tool to get back into an instagram account..?
I was dumb forgot my login password. I love any tricks you can give me
So moving. This man is a genius. I've read NMMNG 3 times and everytime I learn something new.
Im on my second read
16:22 the formula:
1-get out of the house
2-expand your route
3-linger in public
4-talk to the ppl you meet
5-test for interest
6-walk through the open door
Thanks for the outline notes ;)
Now this blokes the real deal, not some young cocky (secretly insecure) fraud.
"not some young cocky (secretly insecure) fraud" thats you
He's got 30+ years of marriage and family counseling experience.
His book has change my life for the better. I’m reading it for the 2nd time, but I’m committed to read it 8 times until it sticks.
Coach corey wayne tatics :D?
Meow Corey Wayne teaches non sense...glover hits it on the head
Coach Corey Wayne -- run away from him
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Follow the fearless man on utube
@A Mugger hi Mugger i bought everything ,and it harmed my game
30:30 - 32:40 is golden!
How does this video not have at least 100,000 views? Dr. Glover is incredibly insightful. Great stories too. Thank you.
Most people laugh at self help books. At least that has been my experience. I am really into this right now though.
Social Expression
I just wanted to get an understanding.
The Dr. said that no one likes NICE, for surely women don't like nice guys.
My questions to you is, by definition NICE means pleasant, agreeable, satisfactory, good, how can no one like something that is plesant, agreeable, satisfactory, and good, without putting add ons to the true definition of what it means? NICE does not mean you are not genuine, manipulative, weak, false, those are add ons this Dr and others, especially women are adding to the word NICE.
If you trip an fall on the ground and someone helps you up, you mean to tell me women and men would disrespect that?
If someone come up to you and slaps the shit out of you, you mean to tell me a woman and a man, would love for you to do again?(not talkin about kinky stuff)
Please answer those questions so that I may understand, or anyone who wants to chime in on it. To me it seems people have a mental imbalance there.
"Nice guy" according to Dr. Glover means that you are so concerned about pleasing others and making sure not to upset them that you completely forget about yourself and put a filter on what you say and do and instead play the role of a person who doesn't do or say anything that could maybe possibly be something that someone else may not agree with. In essence you completely give up being yourself to play the role of someone who exists solely to please (live for) others instead of yourself.
This also turns a man into a mind-numbingly boring wandering generality that no woman could ever feel attraction for because he has no life energy or passion to be attracted to- because he is filtering himself so completely to avoid possibly doing or saying the "wrong" thing that he is essentially dead.
Every man on earth should read his book, particularly if you had an absent father (physically or mentally) or were raised by a single mother. But anyone who puts other's (possible/imagined) concerns about how they act ahead of living their life NEEDS his book. His podcasts are fantastic too.
There are thousands of snake-oil salesman self-help gurus out to make a buck, but Dr. Glover is the real deal.
His stuff is completely different and better than anyone else's stuff (it probably helps that he is a licensed therapist/psychiatrist).
@@StratMatt777 Excellent summation! Agree 👍👍
@@wizeb8282 Thanks, Neo!
One of best videos on dating, lifestyle and social influence, i have seen
best video available on internet for dating advice, excellent job guys, thanks David and Dr Glover
this is the book I have been searching for years. great book.
I was the classic nice guy in college. A who maintains a stable of women friends but never actually gets laid by any of them...... being careful never to do anything that might upset their so called fragile emotions. I didn't bring up anything sexual in fear of being a pervert. I saw them have boyfriend after boyfriend, while I was thinking why are they not picking me? That’s because they will always go for passion over safety (and boredom), I learnt all this the hard way. Now I make sure to build sexual/romantic/emotional tension with women. However, being a gentlemen (not a nice guy) is very lucrative (especially in the first few weeks) if you want high quality women, who may or may not be the most attractive
This was a great video, alot a good tips I will use in the future.
This was very eye opening. Thank you🌞
Just such an awesome interview I learned so much. Thanks Dr. Glover and David!
Applause!! (no words required)
Dr Robert Glover's work and his discovery is amazing 🏆👏 his book No More Mr Nice Guy is a life changer! It's not as simple as it sounds. I've now ordered his new book Dating Essentials.
This is some amazing stuff! This really connects some dots for me. Better yet it is helping me shift my consciousness and realize that I have already connected these dots and now it's just time to trust them.
Awesomely helpful today thank you both so much 😎
awesome video , excellent work the best advice from you thanks guys
I just received the book from Amazon. I started reading it and I found myself in the forefront since when I was a child. I would say it is my life story.
nice intrview amazing should have anther interview with dr glwer part 2 amazing work
I love this man!
Put yourself first don't do stuff for people to be like it
If you don't like it speak up be honest forward with people
OMG the end music with the words you say have an incredible hip hop flow, have anyone noticed that?
That part about "18 year old girl hitting on"... i totally can see what they see in this men. I'm 28 year old and i would totally like to hang out with him. The vibe is amazing. Tender balanced aggression is a rare thing to come across in a male. Bold enough to be manly but gentle enough not to come across as jerk. Enjoyed the video, thanks :)
You're very mature for your age!
It’s about having a heart AND a spine. Not just one or the other.
He turns me on and I’m not even gay
Jill Snow White Well, he's twice your age. Do you have daddy issues? Date someone who's your age.
Jill Snow White, this guy is a professional, of course he's got all the shit you're after but the average guy might not be as smooth as him. So the rest of us would probably get rejected by someone like you. Honestly what do you bring to the table, fuckall
What a sympathic awesome guy 👌🏻💪🏻
Inspirational !
Robert rant towards the end is inspiring. I am a 60 year old and when he said that he found very few older, i.e. 60-year-old women were interested in him but many younger women were interested in him it blew my mind. The reason? It's reciprocal - I mean we find younger women more attractive so it's not unreasonable that they find us attractive too. Just our conditioning tells us that were are perverts and creeps. Not so. Thank you for this post. Totally worth watching it.
the pervert thing is when the guy is needy and desperate
Got my book on order. Should be here in a couple days. Got flanked with a girl who was hot & heavy for two months with me then overnight went cold and essentially ghosted. Said she needs space & time. Then that leaves me rethinking if it was me that caused it. But I can’t think of anything. Talk about a crap shoot. Haha
Awesome guy
doing everything with passion, as mentioned in this video, CHANGED MY LIFE !!!
Do you do everything with a passion and "Let God"? I want to start doing everything with a passion as well. I noticed I lost all my passion for things when I read a book by Dr. Wayne Dyer called "Manifest your destiny".
nope. i am an atheist.
Wassup my fellow Eric j
@@Pyraus what up E
The story of the woman on the beach reading a book changes with every interview. Last time she was on holiday and had an argument with her friend, Robert bumped into her again still sunbathing on the beach several hours later.
🤔🤔🤔
27:59 Lol 😂 I couldn’t stop laughing 🤣👌
This is how to do it, ;-)
man i am 21 years old and even being that young i wish i could just turn back time
yes I know how to treat a woman I give her I like to find her I think this is a good thing men getting the chance to show their affection too attractive woman
really dig this. i'm at a breaking point in my life here. started putting my wife on the pedestal and she lost full respect.
***** I'm on it thanks 😊💪
Hi! Do you see any differences now two months later? Im just really curious to know :P
The BunBoy Well i'm making a conscious effort to not be so affectionate and complementary (not that its bad to do that) I was just doing it too much. The more my self esteem grows, the less I need her validation.
Okay, sounds good !
@ I've scaled back the affection and am gaining back my center again. It was also a matter of controlling desire (we can become slaves to that)
How do you know what to say to women though? For example, I saw a woman walking with a skateboard and I said "Hey, cool board, what kind is it?" and tried to strike up a conversation but she blew me off. That's pretty much how it goes every time.
I think you also need to improve your facial expressions, body postures when doing that. Coz you might say the right words but ur body, ur face tells otherwise.
Self awareness 👍
Lol I always say something that disqualifies me from being seen as a mate..like cool board to bad we’d never work out
The Dr said no one likes NICE, NICE means pleasant, agreeable, satisfactory, and good.
Can anyone explain to me why wouldn't anyone like NICE, especially women, without using those add ons to the true definition of the word NICE? Nice DOES NOT mean manipulative, false, deceitful, weak. These are add on words people put on to the word NICE to convince you its something bad, especially women.
If a person is hungry and someone came up to them and fed them, are you saying they are being manipulative, false, weak, deceitful to that person?
If a person came up to you and round house your ass in the face, are you saying thats a good thing because he's being honest? Which one is being NICE with the examples I'm using, or people just want to switch it around and the person who round house your ass is being NICE?
Can anyone explain that to me?
Probably a little late to reply after 9 months. But what he means by not being NICE, Is not being FAKE NICE. e.g A woman asks you to do something you don't want to. Borrow your car, money, do her share of the workload etc. Doing it even though you don't want to is being FAKE NICE....especially if you are doing it to win her affection. This is mean manipulative, false, deceitful, weak because you expect to be rewarded i.e. FAKE NICE. Doing it because you want to, with no strings attached (no outcome) is just being NICE and that's ok. Btw, never lend anybody your car or money, it almost always ends badly :)
K N and Conor Mullan
I used to be nice because I was a kind person, I wasn't nice because I wanted something back from them. However, no relationship will survive if there's no reciprocity. It takes two to tango.
What I think the big problem is, is that many women confuse kindness for weakness. I've been kind with women but they tend to become freeloaders when with a kind man. I'm not easy and kick them out when there's no reciprocity. Being a kind man simply doesn't work in relationship with most women.
By the way. It's not the manipulative men that women reject, it's the guys that show needy insecure behavior that women reject. Women love manipulating deceitful men and scammers, they get most of the girls.
Conor M It’s a lot more than that. I would say most NICE guys don’t ask to return the favor. Most NICE guys can’t say no to people, and it’s true that they don’t understand how others could say no. Those that do shit and beach later because you can’t return the favor are a worse kind of NICE. That’s the FAKE NICE. So, I propose that we reserve FAKE NICE adjective for the manipulative pieces of crap that don’t deserve help and deserve every shitty consequence. What the Dr here is trying to help I think are the genuinely nice guys who were not taught or learned how to say no or to just be themselves for various reasons. Finally, if you are telling your NICE guys “fuck off” and refuse to help them when in need, then you are the ASSHOLE. An asshole is not the solution to NICE guy. Even NICE guys can be assholes at some point.
@@krichard2346 why the fuck is a woman fixing her mouth to say any of those things anyway no way in hell im doing her portion of anything my problem is im not nice enough im quick to call out shit im not really an emotional guy at all and to be honest i don't really care much about them i lay out my rules period i tell them what i want and if women think there "clever" enough to challenge that there getting the fuck out period i come to understand no matter what these guys are saying what im getting from this is from a pessimistic view anyway is you treat women like children if you have a heated argument with them they will lose respect for you everything is always on you. Your always responsible no matter what so what i been doing my own thing and it been working out for me i just stop caring to put much work
My notes:
40:00 three Ts for emotional tension: touch, tease, tell.
Look for the woman that wants to ride in your train (your life direction).
Actionable items: become social animal:
Get out of the house
Extend your route
Linger in public
Talk to people you meet
Test for interest
Walk through open doors
Well said
Good notes!
marlboro brought me here
Gosh these "nice guys" are the most emotional and complicated people who are out there. Why not be as straight forward and as honest as possible. How can a woman communicate with a guy who can't say what's om his mind and make her feel secure.
Same for you women as well yall just sit there and expect men to just get "it"
There is a difference between a nice guy who doesn't know what he is doing compared to a nice guy who knows what he is doing. In other words, if you truly find her interesting, be nice to her. If you find her boring or strongly disagree, leave her behind. It's ok to be nice to women when you mean it, it's not ok to be nice to women when you are faking it. The truth has no agenda. Women naturally know if you are true or fake with nice and the worst part is, they won't call you out on it.
How do women know if you are being true or fake? Explain please
Very interesting. Then how do you explain so many women fall for manipulators and scammers?
Bieng bold AF is the only thing that women respect. If u want her be willing to take rejection and then get the win. No exceptions.
I understand his message about being social, but what about people that have social anxiety or don't know what to say. Breaking the ice is the hardest part. It's easy once someone is talking your ear off.
Say anything..over time you will get a feel for what to say
@@profonicsgaming7870 I try that and I just get people walking away from me most of the time.
Matthew Baumann try getting confidence and not worrying about the outcome just chat and try to have fun doing it
@@profonicsgaming7870 I'll do my best. What's the best way to build up confidence? I've had terrible luck with approaches. I tried one today and the woman didn't even say "hello" back to me, she just smiled as if she was annoyed and walked away. I'd love to actually have a conversation with someone one day.
@@matthewbaumann630 practice is the best way to build confidence. Once you see progress and start to build on it, you’ll start to see many changes in yourself man. Just keep putting yourself out there, you’ve got this man.
How do nice guys get over fear of death? In my case, I also fear the possibility of a very unpleasant unknown (such as a Hell, although i'm not religious)
@@CoachDavidH thanks for your reply. Im struggling with the unknown because (I feel) unknown brought lots of hurt for me. So, if unknown is Dante’s inferno, then it’s really bad. How can I embrace the possibility of something really bad happening? When I was a kid, I could not deal with pain, I considered it unbearable. I think I have similar feelings of fear dealing with the fear of the pain of hell.
38:48 😮🎉
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So is he getting with the 9 or 10s? Or numbers don’t matter?
Seems like too much to deal with just to connect with a woman.
im determined to learn this shit.
+Lund Jodådö this is fucking amazing. I AM HAPPY TO ANNOUNCE I FINALLY GET IT
+ERIC J i have learned this. it took me about 2 months. but i am no longer a nice guy. i have made the transition from nice guy to recovering nice guy. i am there. and it feels amazing.
+ERIC J Nice job bro! You're on your way.
+ERIC J sweet man !!!!this gives me hope now that you said this can change your ways with women ..I need to change my nice guy now . I been one for a long time now and I need something to change ..
@@EWATTY4 Hey man! So, 3 years later, how is life with your old nice guy habits gone? Have you had relapses? What have you done that helped you keep moving forward in the beginning and during setbacks if they happened?
52:00-55:00
xbox aint gonna bring miracles....damn
I wish he would tell more personal stories. What is he doing when an 18 year old is hitting on him? I haven't seen many 18 year olds hitting on dudes that are almost 60.
Coz few men have that energy and composure needed. If it were many for you also to meet, you would probably have learned the tactics already from them.
@@Dimitris_Half No shit it's fine. I'm asking how he gets hit on by 18 year olds because I've never seen it happen. Again, what is he doing that puts him in a situation where an 18 year old is hitting on him?
6:58 , 29:30
An adult out with their child acquiesces to their request for candy and allows them to choose what they want. Who has the power in that dynamic? The child who makes the choice, or the adult who through their permission grants them that luxury? At a base physical/animal level most any man could take most any woman. That the overwhelming majority of men make a moral decision against this, does not change this reality. So what is a rejection then? You have lost no power. All you have allowed her to do is demonstrate whether she craves you. Most men truly never know what it is to demand that of any potential partner. Instead, they put themselves in the position of groveling beggar. And then wonder why they are not desired. Let her demonstrate if she is worthy of your time. If she is not, and the majority will not be, what have you lost? Would you rather sleep with 200 hot women who were only so-so into you, or 5 who craved all of you. Pursue the latter. Just be wary of love bombing from cluster B women.
Well put. Positive vibe. And this is how we real should think.
How to PIN this comment???
The title of this video got my attention but starting listening I thought this guy was full of shit. By 20 minutes it was making a lot of sense.
16:17
Polarity, he saw her hair
The interruption to just say “i totally agree ha ha ...” is not worth over such a shitty connection/set up man. We know you’re there just hang tight until you have a good question or useful thing to add.
Seems rude too. Let the guest speaker speak uninterrrupted until he gives a prearranged cue.
Thing is im fine by myself i don't want fucking friends i Have my small group find i most people boring why do you gotta go through so many hoops to be with a damn woman? Im an introvert not the shy introvert but just want to be alone i hate small talk this is what i hate always just telling men to just be a bunch of social butterflies not thing is i don't have a problem with talking to people. No men talk to women for fun unless its business all dudes go talk to her because there trying to make her his
Jiss din mood me aagya jaat,
Nach nachave dande pe!
Gujjar hai jati meri,
Chaudi hai chhati mari!
This guy, Dr. Glover, is so much like Corey Wayne [except much more manly & dilapidated]. I enjoyed listening to Dr. Glover much better than Corey Wayne; except, when I listened to Corey Wayne, I believe, I listened to about 100 videos & with this Dr. Glover I sense this is the only video I'd like to hear. I suppose I'm done with both.
Have you read the book 10-15 times? :-D
Corey Wayne"s advise is totally harmful....he saids you must please the women in bed...he is a beta male,maybe because he is so ugky
@@craigothedago7763 Why wouldn't you please a woman in bed? Any time I've done that they go crazy!
@@intagiblemist9676 Just had a break-up?
Conor M that’s is always my goal to please the woman.. I am very good at pleasuring woman,with the practice...But I think it is nice guy behaviour and dose not translate into great experience for me,it’s more like work.. I am just starting out so let’s see Conor..I will keep you posted because you may be right..
Haha it's ridiculous this is free information
It should be. Earlier men used to get this information (consciously or subconsciously) from their fathers. It's ridiculous how every piece of social information has become monetised today.
A man's personality should symbolise manhood - erect and bold, rather than flaccid and timid...
BOOM
Too much blabbbbbb
Mystery The pick up artist. AlsoSays Get out of the House.
I believe this guy is full of it . I heard some of his story's and there is no way there true ..he is just trying to sell his book .. Bc his stuff does not work ..
How do you know they aren't true? Do tell.
+David Arbelaez it's just common sense!!
I disagree,I've hooked up with nothing - non-entity.Women are complicated as hell,and you'll never figure out
@@CoachDavidH wich one, i see a couple of different versions.
Hello man @j.c.s Betancourt.
Been 4 years. I just want to know what have you found the truth to be!!!!
Dude, while many of these things are true and correct they are true about “people”, not men vs women, that’s the part you are getting totally wrong. It’s a nice “person” syndrome not a nice “guy” syndrome.Boundaries, choosing the right person from beginning etc.
This guy may have some great shit to teach but jesus christ does he put me to sleep. This is the 2nd one of his videos I tried to make it through. Not happening
Btw, the touch and tell is sooo creepy. The first guy that starts touching me and telling me to do stuff like take off you hose??!! Will be taking a hike.
Nice is great.Be nice,just don't be a lame stiff,a shmuck
teach what? go back to school man
Terrible advice. As a woman I find his tactics creepy and aggressive.
Funny, the women he seduced didn't...
This seems to be a common theme from women; what they say they want/don't want isn't what they emotionally respond to.
Michelle Mclean What he talks about here is something I discovered for myself at a certain point, which I think is the opposite of aggressive. Unlike the manipulative tactics of pickup artists which can be very aggressive, I realised that if you want to meet women you simply need to focus on living a good life that makes you feel good about yourself. By living that life & feeling good about yourself you start to become more attractive to other people. As you become inherently attractive, you only need to pay attention to the signals of interest that women give you and respond by showing that you're interested too. As a man it is important to escalate the situation so that things move forward (if that's what you want), but as Glover says, if the woman shows a sign of disinterest, you take that for what it is and continue just enjoying things at the level she has already agreed to. Thats not aggressive at all as far as I can see, it's a relaxed response to the signs of interest the woman is giving.
We don’t want a woman’s opinion here, you don’t seek advice from those being hunted
@@ohboi6210 🤣😹
You sound like those feminist men, uhmm weasels. I find you dishonest.
The Dr said no one likes NICE, NICE means pleasant, agreeable, satisfactory, and good.
Can anyone explain to me why wouldn't anyone like NICE, especially women, without using those add ons to the true definition of the word NICE? Nice DOES NOT mean manipulative, false, deceitful, weak. These are add on words people put on to the word NICE to convince you its something bad, especially women.
If a person is hungry and someone came up to them and fed them, are you saying they are being manipulative, false, weak, deceitful to that person?
If a person came up to you and round house your ass in the face, are you saying thats a good thing because he's being honest? Which one is being NICE with the examples I'm using, or people just want to switch it around and the person who round house your ass is being NICE?
Can anyone explain that to me?
kandneter , naturally humans as part of development are not nice or big fish eats the small fish. If you are really nice as most of male Europeans are then the balance men v women changes. Literally men becoming like women and women become like men. You can see the devorce rate over 50% in Europe.
If you not happy why we are like then talk to gentleman up to the sky called God because he made as this way. Men are meant to go through challenges, break the barriers, leading, protecting. If you are a nice guy with this treats you are a real man who women will do everything for you.
Women are made to care , love, socialise, nurture and they are masters of their treats.
Men need to keep up with their treats and then nature take care to fulfill their sexual needs .
I can go on forever but just keep in mind to be a big air bus pilot is needed 10.000 hours practice. So learn and practice and you will be the James Bond of dating. I highly recommend c. Wayne book "how to be a 3%man".
By the way I suffered for 40 years
with nice guy cindrome but determination made me part of 3% men which all women are dying for.
Respect brother
Think of this example: a girl you're on a date with tells you she really likes a band that you hate. If you're concerned with being agreeable and nice, you might be dishonest about your opinions of said band, thinking it might hurt your chances with her. On the other hand, a guy who is outcome-independent wouldn't be agreeable or pleasant about it at all and would give it to her straight, even if it hurts her feelings and kills his chance with her.
What the nicer guy doesn't know is that women require these types of rapport breaks to be sexually attracted. It's partial evidence that the man has a backbone and, as a result, is a valuable mate. Assholes have trouble keeping women, but this a big reason they do well in the beginning.
yes I know how to treat a woman I give her I like to find her I think this is a good thing men getting the chance to show their affection too attractive woman