Overcoming Failure | VLOG
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- Sometimes you have moments where you disappoint yourself, and that's normal! I disappointed myself this week, and ya just gotta keep pushing forward because it's not the end of the world!
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I feel like whoever made that comment about crying isn’t in school to become any kind of health care professional. The programs are tough and the material is a lot because it’s important information to save lives. It’s not supposed to be easy. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to get frustrated. But the important part is pushing through those emotions and still going! I like that you show the real, raw emotions. I feel like it helps people connect with you!
Lindsey Hull Vlogs perfectly phrased!
Amen!!!
crying gets rid of stress hormones so it's a bonus. anybody who thinks otherwise is a little too rough.
I agree! I have had a good few (and by that I mean a lot😥😅) cries in my school days. But I can put some visine drops on my eyes and no one is the wiser! You are being brave showing us your emotions.....this is keeping it real! Keep on pushing!
amen
If you aren't crying/angry/frustrated a minimum of 5/7 days per week in med school, you're doing it wrong. Source: me, a 2nd year med student.
Exactly
Well, good luck on your journey troughout med school
“I feel saturated with information but feel like I don’t know anything” pretty much sums up my experience in med school 😆🤷♀️
I cry. I cry all the time. I am a Pre-Med student, and I still cry. Because of all the crying, I think maybe I might not be a good doctor. But this video literally cleared that doubt. I watch how hard you work for inspiration, and even though I pray you don't get have to cry, the times you do just make me feel like I am not alone. Thank you for that. People might say that you shouldn't cry and all that BS, but there are so many people like me that get overwhelmed as you do, and it's just nice to see and feel that I am not alone. And I want you to know that you are not alone.
lots of love :)
I know! She's my hero too. Thank you for that Rachel
I feel like a looser cause I’m crying in highschool 😔
@@iiitsnoor same 😞
@@rhaianna7692 I even used to cry in middle school because of tests and stuff the only years I was stress free are when I was in primary school 🥲
@@iiitsnoor same twinsies😢
Rachel,
I can't believe you have come such a long way. I started following you when you had only about 10k followers and now, you are close to 70k.
What makes you different from other youtubers is that you make the greatest effort to include all your emotions and experiences in your vlogs. It feels as though I have been there, with you, right beside you, experience the entire week. Your vlogs are what keep me going. You are the Best!
💞💞
Honestly, everyone feels like they don’t know anything. You just have to remember though that you got excited over YOUR OWN heart palpitation and then proceeded to explain the anatomical reason behind heart palpitations. Only a true med student would do that. Only someone who was truly occupied with becoming a physician would do that. You’re doing great and I aspire to do as well as you in med school!
5:02
Wow I have much to say about this.
I feel that comment is rude. Clinical settings are WAY different than when you are alone with your spiraling thoughts. I am a crier too. I know there are more productive ways to cope, BUT I find after I cry I feel better and I can continue whatever I am doing with a sharp mind.
So, Rachel, don't worry! We all have breakdowns because we are all human and therefore all have breaking points. It is going to turn out fine! You are successful and will achieve your goals. Just think of the bigger picture and keep trucking along! From an undergrad biology major and member of the herd :-)
I am on 4th year of my med school and believe me girl , it gets easier ,just hang in there , the work will pay off evenutally ! Good luck :)
@Sona for me the 2nd and 3rd year were the hardest , especially pathology . But if you pass these first 3 years you can give yourself high five and cosider yourself MD. :D
You're so naturally sweet it makes my heart melt!!
I'm a medical student too and this is my second semester. But wait, I cry DURING lectures bc I suddenly get the feeling that I'm not gonna make it and stuff. It gets harder but you just learn to be stronger.
You have the power to achieve your goals and live your own dream. Keep that in mind, Rach! ♥️
Sometimes I'm gonna cry, it doesn't mean I'm not a strong person! AMEN GIRL
When you started cleaning your camera lens and then “I need to water my plants” in order to delay studying LOL 😂 As a fellow med student.. I know that feeling. I do it all the time. All of a sudden you start noticing all the tiny unnecessary things you usually don’t do until you know you have to study but don’t want to. I’ll deep clean the entire apartment and then sit down with my laptop ready and then 🤔 “ my bookshelf needs to be color coordinated” or “ I need to rearrange my closet”.
I personally know Rachel. She is by far one of the strongest people I know. Having a moment doesn't make you weak, it makes that much stronger. Keep going Rachel im right there on the sidelines rooting for you.😊 always.
Martha Ruelas Martha!!! You are the best 😭😭😭💕
it took me a while to accept that i am human and have emotions and that i shouldn't disregard them or put them aside to be strong for others...you are so strong and inspiring!!! emotions are real!!!
They are so real! Acknowledge them. Your brain/body is trying to tell you something. Sit with them, accept them, and come to resolution :)
"Been having heart palpitations i dont know why"
... next clip..
"drinking redbull"
hahaha redbull gives me THE WORST palpitations!!!
And coffee! Plus she’s super stressed 😥
Med school gave me heart palpitations!!
...and a stomach ulcer
It always bothers me when people say we shouldn’t cry as much. I’m going to mortuary school which isn’t nearly as rigorous as medical school but it’s very mentally taxing, so I cry often. If it makes you feel better and have a release before gearing up to study again, it’s perfectly healthy. Proud of you, Rachel! Keep on goin’!❤️
I have been in tough times lately in my high school being a senior. All the pressure for getting good grades and exams have been stabbing me repeatedly which made me stressed out. Being an introvert as well as numb I really could not cry to relieve my pressure out I tried but failed So also being Asian my parents also have higher expectations from me which further added up tension. I want to become a doctor and by randomly hit ur video in which you expressed how difficult was ur life and being a doctor. You showed me that my problems were nothing like ur problems also which I had to encounter later if I had to become a doctor which gave me confidence to face my own problems.
And now I have been lately stressing out again but much less. Even though I don’t have friends to share my feelings I talk to myself in second person( crazy right!) or listen to The weeknd songs which feels like wine (I recommend u to try if u r stressed). I wanted to say Thank u from bottom of my heart ❤️ to boost me up.
Best wishes and hope to see u as a doctor soon.
Don't let anyone tell you that crying means you are not suited for the medical field. You are absolutely right, school is a completely different type of mental situation. The stress endured while practicing is different. Intense in a different way. They cannot be compared. Anyone that tells you different probably does not have experience being in a rigorous school program. Keep that in mind.
Also know that it is ok to cry in the clinical setting when you encounter intense situations. It takes time to mentally handle seeing the things that clinical providers have to see. Eventually you will have your own way of coping with the clinical situations too. Again no one can truly fathom the things we see unless they are there. Take the harsh comments with a grain of salt. Keep on doing your thing red ant!
“I don’t wanna study... I wanna clean” STORY OF MY LIFE 😂
I came across your video at the PERFECT timing. I literally felt it when you said “they tested the easy stuff and I focused on the hard stuff since I figured they’d test on that” why is this literally me every time. I thought I was the only one who does this - I was going crazy since it happened to me today 😭😭
I agree. The stress of school is so much different than the stress in a clinical setting
I love destressing during studying with cleaning up too, I don’t know if it’s a mature student thing but it defo helps 😀
When you got out of lab at 5... AND IT WAS SUNNY. So, so nice! I've been struggling with winter darkness. I feel so sleepy when its gets dark at 4:30:( Just ignore those comments about your crying/emotionality. I'm the same way--I always cry when I'm overwhelmed with school or overly exhausted. It doesn't mean you're not cut out to be a doctor. This idea that "female emotionality" means you're not "tough enough" for medicine is so ridiculous. It's the kind of argument people used to keep women out of medicine in the 1800s. It's 2020, people!! Allowing yourself to feel emotions and process them is totally healthy.
Where does Rachel live
I wish at 5 it was as sunny as where she lives because the sun just motivates me , I don’t know if this makes sense 🤦♀️
MarineBeast_86 lol then totally moving to Arizona 😂
Le Rachel : **stress vacuuming**
Le me : **Stress eating**
Haha when I get stressed I can’t eat food and if I do I feel like puking it out I wish I could stress eat 😂
Rachel, I know everyone says it, but your positivity is so amazing! I admire your ability to push through those tough times and accept not doing as well as you hoped! You’re such an inspiration and make me smile and strive to be half as positive as you are! Thank you for being you! God bless you! 😊
oh my god me when I don’t want to study: I’ll just clean the whole house again, and then I’ll take a bath because I’ll be dirty from cleaning, and then it’ll be the perfect time to study 😆
Rachel, I am a first year medical school and I cry all the dang time! Medical school pushes you to extremes you never thought possible. thank you for documenting all this and being vulnerable, you make me feel less crazy!!
You are a beautiful strong woman with a bright future. Very interesting to see the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat in medical school. You will be a fantastic physician.
Most people say crying makes you weak, they are so so so wrong. I'm a first year med school student and believe me, I was never afraid so much of the anatomy exam. The moment I found out I passed I was shaking and crying without having control.
I think it's not that easy to vlog to be totally great at med school but you got this. I'm really happy for you because you can overcome failure. Good luck ! 💜
You’re crying because you’re passionate about what you’re doing. Don’t listen to idiotic people who will never grasp medicine.
Girl you are not alone! Crying is COMPLETELY NORMAL, stress is real. Im only a respiratory therapy student and I stress about every little thing, especially since I've started clinical. Every experience is new and that comes with trials and ups and downs. You gotta know when to take a break and when to push through. You're doing amazing, keep going!
Be strong and don't give up! If you cry it means that you care and love what you're studying, and you are very dedicated and demanding with yourself. Keep up! you are almost there! Just remember where you started and at the end it will be worth it!
Returning here again, after such a long time, cause I need THIS.
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"Study with me is coming soon" Yes!!! Been waiting for this for the longest😭
thank you for taking time out of your hectic life and editing this videos for us.
I love you channel, I relate so much to how you are feeling getting through school. I’m in first year engineering (which is insanely competitive at my university) and some days I’m on top of the world and others it feels like it’s all falling apart. Thank you for showing the tough parts of your life because they help me know I’m not the only one! ☺️
its totally okay to cry. people don't understand how stressful school is. if you do bad it could mean if you get a good grade and get to the school you want. I cry almost everyday and I'm not even in medical school. School is hard period. any school. I love how your showing its not perfect! you are showing raw emotion and and the truth on how it really goes not like the other you tubers that make you think your doing it wrong. You motivate me to keep going even in hard times.
i love these videos cause it feels like I’m hanging out and studying with my best friend like HI BEST FRIEND 💗
ur so pleasant to watch, i dont get bored watching you.
I am a medical student i love u so much girl because i feel that i am not the only one who feel stress while studying and i like the way u try to be positive and u don't stop .i'm from morocco❤
Fellow oms II!!! Keep at it Rachel it’s so worth it in the end, putting hard work now makes the future so much better :) keep remembering the end goal which is taking the best care of patients. I keep a post it note that says “it’s all about the patient” above my study desk to remind myself everyday!
7:01 -you have a great voice! 🙌🏻
I always look forward to Fridays for your vlog! I can't stress this enough but ending a long week of nonstop studying with my nursing classes by watching your vlog is GREAT. Love everything you do, keep up the great work!!
Rachel I really admire how real you are and how you are sharing your experience with us. You actually inspired me to start my own youtube channel about my experience being pre-med.
I feel so happy watching your vlogs and it really motivate me and make me productive omg you're so gorgeous I have always thought that medical field are hard but you make it doable like if you give 100 % you'll success and I always thought that I couldn't manage both sport and study but now that I watch your videos I get the vibe that if Rachel can do it and enjoy it I can do it too .you make me happy girl you so pure and focused ilyy please keep spreading your positivity.
(1) New Glasses look great! finessing others to look as stylish.
(2) If you zoom into anyone's face, skin won't look perfect. So many people I thought had good skin until I put my eyeballs to their cheeks and saw past their epidermis.
(3) Darn Monday Exams ruin weekends. Better to have an exam on Fri so can let of steam with friends on a night out. We're lucky here cause our school schedules exams on Thur or Fri for MS1s, next year I'll feel your Monday exam pain.
(4) You get to see which questions you got wrong on your midterms? Our school doesn't, so I'm probably gonna make the same mistakes on Step next year haahaaaa
Omg I totally failed my human anatomy lab practical today, and felt defeated because Paramedic school is kicking my ass. No matter how much I study, I feel like it isnt enough. I needed this. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Girl I needed this, I failed my first test ever in nursing school. I felt down because I’m doing the LPN to Rn bridge 😊
I know that this video is from months ago, but I only followed you around recently and felt the need to respond. Rachel, I hope you read this. I get the crying, and don't listen to anyone who says it makes you a bad doctor or it makes you weak because it is the total opposite. I wish I could go to med school, I'm sure I have the brains but I have my mental health against me and I will probably never be able to. I'm 27 now and have to come to terms with that, which is hard. I am however glad I can live through some things through your channel and I just wanted to say thank you to you for that and that I hope that you will continue to make videos. I wish you the very best!
thank you
Man I cry like thrice a week looking at my progress and results and I'm not even in med school yet, I'm just preparing for the entrance exam.
@RachelSouthard I am also a medical student from Peru
And it's so hard to handle with stress and all that stuff.. And many people think that doctors are woww... But the life of a doctor it's so hard since you are a student... We as medical students try to be kind, calm we try to think that everything is fine... When sometimes we make a lot of effort to learn about human body but sometimes we don't get it .... Rachel you show in your videos what I feel as a student and that makes me feel that I am not alone.... Thanks for all these blogs💙💙💙💙
I am also the type of person who can cry in some stressful situations, but then other times I take charge of stressful situations. There have been times when I've had to help someone who was seizing and been the person to take charge and it wasn't incredibly stressful for me, then the next day I will cry over stressful homework. Just because you cry under stress doesn't mean you will crack under pressure.
“I don’t have clear skin. Let me show you”
*shows 1.3 pimples on an otherwise clear, even skin*
Ma’am
Amina A. 🤣🤣
I get you on the crying part. Even taking one class can be stressful and I have gotten comments like that too from people: "You're doing well in the class, why are you crying?" I'm doing well because I bust my butt and I'm crying because I'm stressed to keep it up. "How are you going to be a good vet if you cry when a dog gets euthanized?" It's something that I still have to learn. All of this is to release stress. By picking yourself up and never giving up shows that you are going to be a great doctor because no matter how hard it is, you're still getting up and trying.
Never have to explain urself! Be u, cry as much as you want. Graduation is soon, you got this!
Rachel. Cry when you want, and Where you want. Love yah Suga ❤️ I went to the gym this morning 😁
You're going to be an amazing doctor. Really enjoy learning about your med school experiences! Keep up with the hard work. 💪🏻
I love your channel! I love that you show all the emotions you go through.
1. I know right, Rachel, people have to understand that if you have to be professional, you will be, but there are also some separated moments where crying is something that just has to be done for one's own sake...
And 2. Of all, girl, your voice is beautiful, never ever say again that u don't sound good!
(I apologize for any Grammer mistakes, I'm not native English speaking xD)
Friday is becoming my favorite day!
Your videos are so relaxing to watch while im studying!!! I love your editing and how simple they are :))
Awh thank you Nicole :)
Omg the comment that you shouldn’t cry so much????? What??? I admire you precisely because of that, because you show emotion. You show the real deal. And that’s why I find you so strong and unique. Keep showing what med school is really like for us mere mortals that get stressed and emotional lmao
We all cry if you do not cry you are not good doctor and you gonna be great doctor , me too 😁😘 and i love you bcz you are showing what happen to all of us real life up and down thank you
sooo happy you uploaded! Love you & sooo proud of you
Hi, TH-cam recommended your video to me. I can totally relate. I am a PhD student in my final year. You are doing great! Good luck!!
Omg Austin is like your classic nerd I find it so cute!! Lol
I hope everyone and you rachel to have a great day everyday 💙❤❤💙
lol whoever is judging you for crying?? WHAT?? its SOOOOOOO normal to cry in medical school!!!!! its overwhelming!! im an OMS1 as well so i feel you girl! first exam of spring semester didn't go well so im just pushing through and recovering!
You are strong! Keep on keeping it real.
Thanks for the review! The glasses looks great on you :)
11:08 is that ur man😳
This is the best vlog!!! So entertaining!! Glasses look so good too! You are meant for this, you are going to be such an amazing Doctor!!
Whoever said that about crying clearly has never experienced the relief and catharsis a good cry can do for you 😂 I’m in an accelerated nursing program and the stress is unreal and sometimes you just need a good cry 😂🙌🏻
Don’t listen to those comments!!!! They are obviously not in school and they don’t know any better. You got this!!!!!!!
Literally the highlight of my week when u post! Your red ants are rooting for you!!
Its okay sometimes to fall apart and cry. I know you have a lot to study and I know its hard. My biggest wish was(and still is)get accepted in university of medicine, but I didn't get in. It was one of the worst days of my life. I gave my best, studied hard, I was preparing so hard in that exams and didnt get in. I'm from Croatia, we have three universities od medicine and every person that got A's wants to study it because their parents are doctors or because of titule or because of money. I wanted it because I want to be grateful because i would know how to save someone's life, I don't want any money, it is the best job because you can give all of yourself to that job! You can help people in a way no one can, you can be proud of yourself. Be grateful because you have that chance or opportunity, you are one of them. I am finishing third year on Geodesy, and I dont like that university, but I decided to go on that university so I could forget medicine, but love for that hasn't changed and can't be forgotten. I still can't get through that, I wish you all luck and even when is hard, head up and think on the lives you will save! ❤❤
Had to stop and pause the video at 5:12...um what!? Girl you cry all you want lol, school much less medschool is so stressful and such a load! If that's how you cope, CRY!! Cheering for you!!
I am SOOO JEALOUS. I feel medical school would be just a teensy bit better if we had sun here. But the midwest is gloomy, cold and sad right now. I miss the California sun!
I had to go back to antidepressants and meds for my anxiety bc of med school but i assure you it’s gonna be worth all the tears
Im currently trying not to cry while studying for an A&P exam. I know it but I dont and there are essays and histology to get down as well. It will get harder when I get to PT school and I'm wonder how can things be any harder than this!? Back to work 😔
Definitely need to watch this today. Second week of nursing school isn’t going to great with the quizzes... just a bad week I guess...
Can’t wait for the video to premiere! ❤️
Yay! I get so excited when I see that you posted a new video 😊😁
Hi Rachel,
Just wanted to say that heart palpitations can happen if you drink too much coffee. So watch your coffee intake. Love you and wish you all the best.
Your red ants are waiting
that was such a great comparison she made, I've been thinking a lot about the red ant the past few months;
i can relate to the studying the hard stuff...and the paper turns out to have stuff you ignored...am sorry but i had to laugh after you said that coz i thought i was weird.Anyway i love your vids
I love your channel
Happy Valentine's day angel eyes
Keep up the awesome work, girl! Stay strong on the days where you don't feel your best! RED ANT HERD!
Some questions:
1. You have some simple, solid color shirts for leisure and the gym you seem to wear a lot, wondering what brands!
2. Do you use some kind of programming for your workouts?
3. Is TIJN just for the frames, or for the whole pair of prescription glasses? Very cute!
No one:
Rachel: okay byeeeee :-D
“Except I can vacuum” 😂😂😂
Hey Rachel! Could you include some more time lapse clips of you studying? Btw I LOVE your channel ❤️
Lol the gym is packed because of the new years resolution people! My gym has been packed recently too!
can you do a video on why you picked Western University Ponoma campus? it was your first choice. Thank You!
you make me wanna cry 😂😂😂
crying is normal it honestly helps
She is strong, she is smart and she is beautiful ~ She gives me heart palpitations 😂
Good luck ❤️🕊
Love this video! I also stress vacuum lol. When can we get merch I loveeee the sweatshirt!
Stress bumps such is life girl
I feel so strongly about pursuing medicine but it seems like faculty at my school is discouraging and uninspiring. I keep hearing how difficult it is, how this faculty member didnt get in, and to consider something else. And then I say oh well maybe professional school and they also have alot to say about that. Idk what to think or say or think anymore.
HAHAH stress cleaning to avoid studying is me at all times. your videos inspire me to get back to studying!!! we got this! 💪🏼 #RedAnt