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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2020
- Many of us don’t get to experience true love without experiencing hurt and heartbreak. Breaking up is hard, but a broken heart today is better than a broken marriage in the future. In this message, we learn when you should break up and how to heal when your breakup breaks you. __
Everyone is looking for their "perfect match," but does that really exist? Finding the perfect person may not be reality, yet there are certain qualities that we should be looking for if we want a healthy marriage. In this series, we discuss love and dating with the intention that you would not only find your match but know your maker.
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I was the toxic one. She's gone. Now I'm with God. It took me losing the best woman I ever had to come to Jesus. It hurts but I'm glad to be with the Lord.
I just lost the love of my life because of my actions. My mind is filled with rage regret and shame . Im trying to turn to God because i need him but its really hard go deal with this pain . Idk what to do anymore
@Juan Hernandez I hurt mine out of selfishness. 4 years gone and now she's married with a baby from another man. But i found God in my pain, listen to lots of worship, He listens. Prince of peace by hillsong was my go to when the pain from the memories got too painful to handle. Reach out to friends and don't be alone long. God loves you. ❤️
Beautiful reflection
least your taking accountability. my toxic ex was very controlling and selfish. I was discarded and heartbroken. I was thrown out like trashed but I was told I was the best thing that ever happened to her. i went no contact for over a year and now i’m ready to move on. I will never take her back if she ever reached out.
You're not alone brother, she ended it 6 days ago. I was the toxic one too, i didn't think i was but now im starting to connect all the dots she was giving me. Brother pour your heart into the Lord, he will heal you, and her. I pray that our exes are feeling a sense of peace and freedom, and that the Lord puts forgiveness on their hearts, so they aren't carrying hate or resentment with them. Lord put it on our hearts to forgive ourselves, and ultimately that you forgive us too. Remind us that as we continue in the steps you have laid out for us that we will be healed, and that you have a path and a plan for us. Help us realize that this relationship was brought to us by you for a reason, wether it was to help us realize our shortcomings and grow from them, or if it was to teach us to Love more selflessly, or if it was to be broken enough to turn to you father. Guide our steps, remind us and remind the ones that we had the privilege to love that when we turn to you everything will fall in accordance to your plan.
Relationships shouldn’t look like pulling someone, but pushing each other: “..respecting, honoring, and growing together toward Christ.” So good!
Just got out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago and it’s hard. I became a disciple during our last year together and it was difficult for me to stay pure. As much as I wanted her to become a disciple, her heart was never in it. I wasn’t the best boyfriend and have many faults, but I’m learning everyday from them and what it means to be a man of God. I look back at that relationship and see how worldly it was. There was nothing godly about it. In 1 Tim 5:2, it calls men to treat younger women as we would our own sisters. I would love to have a significant other that loves God more than me. Dating with purity is something I’ve never experienced before, but I could only imagine how awesome it would be honoring God. To all going through difficult times, keep your head up because God has called us to be his children. We have all we need in Him. Everything else is a blessing. Trust in Him that he has a plan for you. Follow His will and not your own and you will be fine.
“If you’re not God’s woman, you don’t need to be His woman.” 🙌🏾
Amen 🙏
Everything about this is on point! Currently going thru a breakup, I was the one that left because he exactly the type of guy JD described to leave. It was the hardest decision and it still hurts, but I'm leaning so heavily on the Lord during this hard season. I know healing will come and He will bring me the right Godly man to love me like I deserve. Thank you so much for this message, I needed it!
I am going through the same thing, you are not alone! I can't wait for what God have for us in the future 💪😌
Me too 🤷♀️. It hurts, but I know and do time with the Lord‘s help it will get better. Especially if I focus on building my relationship with him, versus trying to jump into another relationship to bandage the loneliness. Much luv 💯
Been there too many times...
I pray we all talk about this more to all ages...
Fo'Real
Heartbreak is like death
It's hard
Isaiah 54
Powerful message! I'm not going into another relationship without God's blessing. 💯❤
I was that guy who was going back to my old sinful ways and she rightfully broke up with me. Now, I am broken and turning back to Jesus. In what's feels like unbearable pain. The only hope I have is in Jesus. Praying he takes this pain from me.
How long did it take you to turn to Jesus?
@@brisamartinez1 A couple months. So, pretty much shortly before I wrote that comment. It wasn't so much about time as it was about me discovering she was already in bed with someone else. It's been an eye opening, shocking, heartbreaking, and confusing experience. My assessment of it has completely changed since my original comment. She was a wolf in sheeps clothing and I was struggling with sin but being open and honest. When I made that comment I was in the throes of guilt and regret due to her condemnation and blaming me for the failure of the relationship. Since then my eyes have been opened to what really happened. My world turned upside down.
I love this. I am currently going through a breakup. Thank you. God is so good.
Blessings from Ireland
❤ dating sermons in this yt channel is amazing! Watching from Philippines
This was so good. THANK YOU.
I had to leave a man I loved. He wasn't passionate about Jesus as I am. It was seriously painful.
How did you get through that period of time and fighting thoughts of going back?
@@abiutomwen1601 , For me, A LOT of prayer and crying out to God. I promised that I WOULD NOT contact him at all either after the breakup !! That was hard too!! I was passionate about the Lord and church, and my ex of 4 months wasnt. He said he didnt want to go to church every sunday like me. It was really painful cause he was a nice person, just not living as a Jesus follower. Keep praying, reading scriptures on comfort from God, and watching christian youtube videos on the subject too. Its been 4 weeks later and its better. I dont cry half as much. But we MUST obey God first!!
I was in a first marriage where we were not equally yoked in Christ. That was more PAINFUL than a broken heart. So, be encouraged. God's love is better than any man or woman. He loves us passionately!!!!
Thank you. I can't say how much I'm grateful for each ang every single one of you that made this video possible.
Don't worry so much about a romantic relationship
Invest in your friendships they are usually longer lasting
After you have been married for awhile the relationship usually cools anyways
Alot of wasted time and energy for not alot of return 😊
Appreciative of this message.
Omg this was God’s message for me, thank you so much for this priceless message
27:00 is when the heartbreak recovery side starts.
36:10
One of my favorite sermons I've ever heard. Just what I needed to hear
This was good! So much truth.
@ 27:35, brilliant, I couldn't agree more, well done as always JD!
Thanks this was deep....
This was so much relatable and powerful
Thank you pastor ❤️
Excellent sermon on Breaking up. One of the best sermons on breakups. Thank you. Awesome.
So good. Thank you
Thank you! Very helpful .
Maaaann this was Soo good. I think l felt this whole message 😭
This is amazing! Also love Michael Todd's Relationship Goals videos !
Great message 👍
Thank you for this 😪💔 What I needed to hear. The word Reset was given to me even before the breakup. What took you to Dallas and how did you know it was where you needed to be? Did the breakup influence that move, Did God speak his direction to move once the breakup happened? Seeking clarity on what my next steps are and how to know if where I'm at is where I need to be. Thank you for sharing and for this video
So good!! I loved the bible verses at the end!!!
Truth ♥️
I am struggling because the person I am about to breakup with is someone I truly love. He is a man of God and nothing is wrong with him. I simply don’t think we see eye to eye on other important matters and I believe it would cause unrest in the future. I am also going off to college. It has been weighing on me, and it is so hard to breakup in this situation especially when he forgives and loves unconditionally….
How were you able to get through that time? And how are you now?
Wow. Wowowowow thank you Jesus for this message. God is good!!!
yoo... this sermon cut me deep >.
Amen
"ONLY physical".... Shouldn't be physical at all before marriage
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