I had no problem with Shiku & Mike getting together. In fact I was a big fan of Shiku when the green calabash was just a blog, way before she moved back to Kenya & got together with Rama. Relationships break down, this is nothing new. & we all deserve to heal & move on. How we move on from them & to our next one is very important though. My disappointment with them both was that use of kids to minimise & bait Rama as a father. I remember how respectful & cooperative Rama was in regard to coparenting with Ella’s dad, it’s a shame Mike & Shiku could not carry this dignity forward when it was their turn to co-parent with Rama.
@@manspeqtiveAfrica You just had a conversation off camera with one side and you decided that the situation is complex? The best predictor of the future is past behavior and one thing we know is certain is that Shiko has a pattern. Parental responsibility is equal in Kenya even if your baby daddy is Hitler himself he has equal rights under the law. Whatever they say Rammzy has done is no reason to deny him access and humiliate him in public. It is wrong for Mike and Shiko to play judge and jury and deny Rammzy access to his kids and make decisions unilaterally. Decisions like introducing Mike, a man with a history of being a chain smoker, to the kids so fast with public disregard and humiliation for Rammzy.
Men are always advised Never to Start 1-0.Kuna wenye huskia na kuna wenye hulilia Kwa Choo.No benefits come from raising someone else's kids .Absolutely None .
Guy has found his rib no wonder he is very positive about wemen these days at classic 105. And you are reminded cheap tribalism ni yenu maskini pekee. Hope they have a great marriage till old age. Hata Letoo amewatoka sasa men of confrence keep hope alive 😁
I really really appreciate listening to this engaging conversations!! I love it when men admit vulnerability which was well said ' vulnerability is seen as weakness' which is what destroys our men.. Love it
I just came to comments,and I realised so many are talking about interrupting na ivyo ndio nimepita hivyo it gets boring when you listen to a story and it's being interrupted all the time😊
I am so proud of you three gentlemen! This is just to show our men are healing and they're not afraid to show vulnerability! I enjoyed this episode! Good job Chito and Danish!
If you invite a guest to your table, you are inviting them to tell their story! Let their light shine. Mike has a lot of deep things he shared... One interviewer was very sober and had great follow-up questions, but the other drew story back to himself. Great interview, though! Mike needs to share his story more. I understand him now, especially since I have his back story!
@manspeqtiveAfrica that's the spirit! All the best. You'll definitely go places especially if you also create the space for men to speak! You'd create a great niche for yourselves.
Yo, guy with the hat, please dont interrupt as the guest is giving an important story like how he fluked into radio now we dont know what happened past the script reading. thats what mimi kama listener would have wanted to know😐
I believe when the other party settles down and gets another family the tune will change currently it's just trying to exercise his "masculinity" over a woman he no longer has control of anymore
The guy with the cap 🧢 is not really interested in the story he's not connecting well with Mike. His story is really deep but the interviewer is just interrupting and laughing loudly 😩
I like when men became vulnerable to share their stories and scars. So much to learn from Mike. Keep up and bring more guests
Thanks for your support. Keep tuning in. We will have more guests.
I had no problem with Shiku & Mike getting together. In fact I was a big fan of Shiku when the green calabash was just a blog, way before she moved back to Kenya & got together with Rama. Relationships break down, this is nothing new. & we all deserve to heal & move on. How we move on from them & to our next one is very important though. My disappointment with them both was that use of kids to minimise & bait Rama as a father. I remember how respectful & cooperative Rama was in regard to coparenting with Ella’s dad, it’s a shame Mike & Shiku could not carry this dignity forward when it was their turn to co-parent with Rama.
This story is quite complex and not that straightforward, especially for us who had a deeper conversation off camera. Relationships are complex!
@@manspeqtiveAfrica You just had a conversation off camera with one side and you decided that the situation is complex? The best predictor of the future is past behavior and one thing we know is certain is that Shiko has a pattern. Parental responsibility is equal in Kenya even if your baby daddy is Hitler himself he has equal rights under the law. Whatever they say Rammzy has done is no reason to deny him access and humiliate him in public. It is wrong for Mike and Shiko to play judge and jury and deny Rammzy access to his kids and make decisions unilaterally. Decisions like introducing Mike, a man with a history of being a chain smoker, to the kids so fast with public disregard and humiliation for Rammzy.
Men are always advised Never to Start 1-0.Kuna wenye huskia na kuna wenye hulilia Kwa Choo.No benefits come from raising someone else's kids .Absolutely None .
I like the way you radio presenter are very curious to obtain every bit of information, from this guy 😂😂I love it
Glad you enjoyed it!
I don't see any interruptions though, this is guy's talk and they kinda resonates with one another. Raw and candid conversation.
Maturity at it's best@ Mike
Damn this man lives a very complicated life, big respect
Guy has found his rib no wonder he is very positive about wemen these days at classic 105. And you are reminded cheap tribalism ni yenu maskini pekee. Hope they have a great marriage till old age. Hata Letoo amewatoka sasa men of confrence keep hope alive 😁
I really really appreciate listening to this engaging conversations!! I love it when men admit vulnerability which was well said ' vulnerability is seen as weakness' which is what destroys our men.. Love it
Thank you!
Mike is a really smart man .. God bless him 😊
I wish him the best. That said, the odds are not in his favor. When you think about it, there are 6 adults and five kids involved here.....
More grace to him!
I just came to comments,and I realised so many are talking about interrupting na ivyo ndio nimepita hivyo it gets boring when you listen to a story and it's being interrupted all the time😊
Smh
I am so proud of you three gentlemen! This is just to show our men are healing and they're not afraid to show vulnerability!
I enjoyed this episode!
Good job Chito and Danish!
Thank you Vicky
If you invite a guest to your table, you are inviting them to tell their story! Let their light shine. Mike has a lot of deep things he shared...
One interviewer was very sober and had great follow-up questions, but the other drew story back to himself.
Great interview, though! Mike needs to share his story more. I understand him now, especially since I have his back story!
Thanks for your comment. We learn each day!
@manspeqtiveAfrica that's the spirit! All the best. You'll definitely go places especially if you also create the space for men to speak! You'd create a great niche for yourselves.
I have a lot of respect for this guy!
He is a great human being!
I am loving this conversation.
Thanks. Please share it with your network!
I have enjoyed the deep conversations from the three guys..they all did a great job.
Glad you enjoyed it
If you feel the other Men are interrupting then you in the wrong show !this is not the normal interview.Its interactive here!
Great Conversation. Mike is such a wise man.
A very wise man👊🏿
great conversation, great presenters, shout out to Dannish 🙌, great job guys,great insights, Mike ako na substance 😄😄👏👏
Hey Lorraine, thanks for the great feedback. It's good to see you here! Dannish says hi!
Yo, guy with the hat, please dont interrupt as the guest is giving an important story like how he fluked into radio now we dont know what happened past the script reading. thats what mimi kama listener would have wanted to know😐
I believe when the other party settles down and gets another family the tune will change currently it's just trying to exercise his "masculinity" over a woman he no longer has control of anymore
let the men talk!too
Maturity is key. Side shows and unnecessary drama only affects the kids. And the kids know....they always know who's energy is negative
Guy with the hat....you need to work on your listening skills
He talks too much,too loud and his laughter very irritating.
Great discussion. However, the interviewers reeeeaaaallly need to allow their guest finish their stories.
Powerful, powerful gems.
Thank you... Continue sharing it with your network.
Suggestion for the panel: allow your guest to speak without too many interruptions. It makes the interview flow better and becomes more interesting.
This is noted!
Great conversation 🙌
Thank you!
Good voice
Asante sana!
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The guy with the cap 🧢 is not really interested in the story he's not connecting well with Mike. His story is really deep but the interviewer is just interrupting and laughing loudly 😩
he's overwhelmed with the complexities of a blended family
It is so annoying,yet Mike has a deep story.
Bruh meeting with your exes new baby daddy is some nasty work
Still, I find it problematic to be with a woman who has children by another man.
Your opinion. The two found love. That's the most important. And he can afford the woman with her kids
Ever heard of blended families? It's actually a reality
He also has kids by another woman.
@@abigaelmasinde8777 yes they both have kids
@@Kakwasi still, problematic. And y'all know it.