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I’m an Army Combat engineer Veteran of OIF 05-07. I listened to your story and found myself stuck the video. All the love respect for you Major and you have one of the best heads on a pair of very heavy shoulders! Your story actually helped me out so keep up the great work and help help help… you were born for helping others God Bless Dora 🇺🇸😇 Super Bonz6 out
Ma’am as a Maintainer at the MALS this really hits home. I worked with all the squadrons down the flight line at Pendleton from 07-11 and then at MAG 31. OP Tempo was pretty bad. You hit the nail right on the head, while some senior leaders were amazing, the ones that were terrible to work with really showed they didn’t GAF about the individual Marine’s mental health, especially following deployment. Thank you for giving us your testimony!! Keep your head held up high! Semper Fidelis!
Amazing testimony, this is heart felt I served over 26 years in the Navy and had the honor to work, train and deploy with Marines as a Corpsman (garrison, Combat). I also worked with many smart, tough, Lady Marines, I was fortunate to hear and listen to many of their life stories, will power, focus, discipline, fitness and beauty. We as Men, brothers, fathers have such a great appreciation to our sisters, daughters, girlfriends, wives. Peace be with you and Semper Fi!!
@@jerrygoller4269 Yeah buddy as a (FMF/PJ) Corpsman I heard it all. Let's put that blind male pride aside. Not sure what you are, you sound like a POG. Listen up; here's your lesson for the day. God created "Men" and "Women" , before they became Marines. FACT real story; Not all the Marines have the same plumbing system (if you know what I mean) the male Marine has a Penis the Female Marine has a Vagina. I never had to MEDEVAC any of the Marines with a penis for a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) leading to PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) .. one of my Marines with a Vagina (got SEPTIC), in other words her vagina was filled with bacteria . which entered her urinary tract into her kidneys and blood system. She almost died. I have more stories, some of them with dark-secrets, which I will take to the grave with me. Semper Fi and Anchors Aweigh!
This young woman, this officer, is a credit to our nation. Finding her self, trying to emerge from her personal darkness and sharing her experience with all of us is remarkable. Hope she keeps on moving forward toward personal success. Cheers from an army veteran from Vermont, USA.
You earned a degree. You earned the Title, you earned being a pilot. You deserved it all! Nobody did it for you. As a grunt I loved our pilots. Saved our lives. You had an amazing career and amazing in general. I love the Corps and would join again in a heartbeat but they definitely train us to bury or have no emotions. Took me 16 years after getting out to get help and that was because my wife made me even though I knew i needed it. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. My dad waited 45 years after Vietnam. So sorry for your loss. It's never easy losing a fellow Marine. Semper Fi, Major. Another great one UV. SF brother.
No she got her degree easier, her grades easier, lower physical requirements to get into the corp and lower proficiency requirements to get promoted... ALL because she has a gash. She didn't earn those things unless she did it without all that gash centric favor. Fact
@@nigelmcphearson Brother, sometimes it's better to keep your mouth shut. Even if you believe you are right, if your opinion doesn't change anything, if it brings no good, just why say it. She isn't just a gash she is a human being. She signed that blank check the same as anyone else.
My family is a military family so I mean no disrespect when I say if you screw up the army,marines,airforce etc will eat their own.Ive seen it happen too many times.The gov will never be to blame they will blame lower staff 100% of the time...Nigel wtf ever u are(the one that commented above me) you are a shovanist..Her degrees was the same,women's boot camp is the same its all the same.You sound like a failure that's jealous she isn't like you..
I served 2 tours RVN, USMC, '65/68, WIA a week before my 2nd tour ended, spent a year in traction, recovered physically but mentally to this day I honestly don't think I have, not from the wounds I'd suffered but from the friends I lost. We need to keep having these one-on-one conversations for all the above reasons, Veterans are family and that's the best family support you can have. semper fi
Thanks for being so honest ..... Your plight is painful to hear.... I cant tell you of the deepest respect I have for you..... You are a true warrior... Thank You
Trish, I watched this two nights ago. I’ve actually lost sleep thinking about your horrible experience. I have to say, as a retired Marine LtCol with 4,000 hours of tacair experience, your interview was difficult to watch. I’m so sorry you had to go through so much pain. Rest assured that you are no imposter. On the contrary, you are a highly trained Naval Aviator who was designated as night systems instructor in an extremely complex aircraft. No, strike that, The Most Complex aircraft in the Naval inventory. Impostors are not designated night system instructors in anything, much less an Osprey. You have a good head on your shoulders and it sounds as though you have a well thought out path going forward. You have already accomplished a great amount in your young life and you are just getting started. Good luck moving forward.
Trish, I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable in sharing your story. I’d love to have you as a guest on The Mettle of Honor Podcast: Veteran stories of strength, courage, & perseverance.”
I retired a few years back after spending 21 years in the Army as an Aviator, and I felt the same stigma regarding mental health. My career was doing well, I was a Black Hawk Instructor and evaluator, in front line units. But my home life and marriage were horrific. Just before my retirement date, I had an emotional breakdown. Compounding it was my belief that I wasn’t allowed to feel this way, and the guilt I was letting my unit Aviators and command down. Plus, the Army wasn’t really supportive or understanding. I didn’t drink, do drugs, or anything. Yet, it took years, and a divorce, to find peace. Thank you Major for being so open, and remember, you’re not alone.
I retired, but my wife was still on active duty and she had been abusive from the first year of marriage, but even though I reported her, they allowed her to steal my house and gave her a bronze star on the tour where she was reported. I just called 988 yesterday and had them hang up on me because they don’t want to hear the truth. Completely ridiculous system of non-care as they have cut my care before I ever want the military, which means I’m still on active duty because I had to have four teeth pulled two months after I left when I was supposed to be medically, cleared and along the way, they verbally harassed me and I reported them before I ever left active duty. They modified my internal records and didn’t answer a single complaint out of the 36. I filed with the Washington VA Hotline and neither did the VA Inspector General.
I report them for years and then they start making up things in all of the medical records, even though they lied initially. They tried to accuse me of all kinds of things when they were always at fault from the very beginning to include the fact that they laughed at me my last day of work when they were supposed to be throwing a retirement ceremony. They talked about sending me to Iraq and I reminded them I don’t fit an Air Force gas mask which has been identified for years and they never did anything about it, but brought this up when they already knew this and started laughing. That’s what you get for doing the right thing in this country. McGuire Air Force Base in 2004. They are a complete embarrassment because I had to sit there and fight them last year to do their jobs to include the fact that I did an unfunded requirement for them to secure two networks to include commanders, net and security forces which they purposely did not do to buy signs for Services squadron instead And then terrorist used that to monitor them five years later, but we’re caught. I had to give a cell phone contract to the army because the Air Force to include my ex-wife would not write a appropriate contract so I went to the army and handed 250 cell phones over to them.
Thank you for sharing this interview with Maj Linck. Her resilience, intelligence, and articulateness as a woman and Marine are truly inspiring. Her life experiences shared about Mental Health in the US military, whether with service members or dependents (youth and adults), are a testament to her strength. Up front, I know that binge drinking and masking are normalized despite it being preached against. I think there's a cultural and self-medicating/coping aspect to it that continues to be the elephant in the room, as they are both controllable and are beyond the military's means and capability to address. They get attention when something bad happens and then return to equilibrium/status quo when it eventually passes, which it always does - it will always be this way until a significant emotional event changes it. Maj Linck also places an asterisk on it when she says that going to the USMC for help was definitely the wrong decision given the service's reaction, which is partly understandable as commanders' careers hang in the balance if someone with a history of mental health episodes (which everyone has in truth) denies help with their review and concurrence and has a relapse. Also, of the medical services on base, mental health is the most advocated for in units and installation, yet is the least resourced given the base population and needs. The fact that Maj Linck sought help outside of the USMC and paid for it out of pocket highlights the understaffing. There is a strong advocacy for mental health services, from the HQ down to the unit level, including the appointment of a 'Resilience' trainer as an additional duty within the unit. This, in addition to the presence of Mental Health professionals in the installation Medical organization, and Counselors in the Department of Defense Education Activity schools, marks an incredible improvement from the past. But, given the number of service members and their dependents (spouses and children) on an installation (especially overseas), Mental Health is horrifically understaffed which is disastrous as the advocacy paints a picture of having a healthy Mental Health program in words and PowerPoint, but the understaffing creates a disaster that impacts everyone on the installation and the mission. Being told, "It will be months until you can get an appointment," is beyond UNSAT as the implications and effects are experienced/absorbed by the member, family, and unit, and a month(s) long wait is the norm. It also drives people to the ER to get help as it's the only way to be seen and that has an effect on the Medical system. Hopefully, the military will recognize the issues it creates and ignores and continues to improve mental health for its members and dependents. I'm happy that she's going to pursue her life's calling and passion and share her knowledge and experiences to help others and, perhaps one day, help the military organizationally along with its members and dependents.
Trish and her husband Michael are great Americans. It’s a privilege to know them and have flown with them. Trish, thank you for having the courage to share your story. Great things are in store for you and your family. Semper Fidelis.
I grew up in terrible family circumstances which taught me to have no loyalty to anyone or to this country. This Marine officer just gave me a reason to care. Semper Fi!
God bless you. Buried all the shit until it was impossible. Same deal just different circumstances. Finally found the right doc changed everything. it’s never too late.
Semper Fi Major. I was a Gulf War Vet. SSgt. And loved and hated my life in the Corps. Depending on the leaders over you. It can make it a great experience or one where you wanted to be anywhere else but there.
OMG! I love her sense of humor about the silver bullet. This type of sick humor is something that most non-military experienced people will never understand. Thank you for your service Major.
Thank you for your brave service, Courageous young Marine Officer 🇺🇸🦅🙏. Her story is riveting….and heart wrenching. My husband, a Marine, served in Vietnam. I also lost numerous friends in Vietnam. I feel her deep pain 💔
Thank you for sharing your story. You were brave to ask for help when you need it. Many of us like myself wait until years later after getting out. The Osprey program has been a nightmare for the USMC, I still remember the tragedy in 1999 in Arizona, I was supposed to take part in that exercise, luckily I opt out. Best of luck and Semper Fi!!
Major, you are an inspiration. I hung on every word of your story. Please accept thanks and sympathy from an ancient 0311 Lance Corporal. I have always viewed the VTOL aircraft, the Osprey and British Harrier, as flying death traps. Much admiration for you, and Semper Fi !
Semper Fi, Marine. You speak the truth. You insight, integrity and love is inspirational. I got out in 91. Wish there were officer like you when I was in. Civilian world is blessed to have you. God’s speed.
Fascinating story…..Have a good rest of your life. John App, USMCR HMM 161 Vietnam 1966 I can’t imagine flying the Osprey. I shuddered over the years hearing about the problems with that plane. I have PTSD but only recently identified as having it. Created havoc for all those around me with bizarre antics. Good you found out early on what you needed to do to have a normal or near normal life.
Hi Trish, Thanks very much for sharing. I've been flying for 47 years and can easily see and follow your progression. Without a doubt, you are not alone. It's unfortunate that we find a reason to assign a stigma or even go to the extent of belittling suffering. Kicking someone when they're down is the lowest form of everything. It sounds like you truly have more to give if you choose that route. It's also okay to change your mind partway through that journey as well. You don't need any excuses in life. Do what you want and be happy or don't. Nobody has any right to say otherwise.
It's great that you were able to recognize the problem and address it right away. You're absolute right about the Marine Corps. "semper Fi" being you're faithful to it but it isn't faithful to you. I'm happy to hear your story and I'm sure it's helping many who hear it. Hearing your story gives me peace. They need to stop romanticizing the military - it isn't all the heroic, bad ass stuff it's portrayed to be. You end up proud to have served but after that, you're glad you're out. You know I'm right. There are assholes about to get on me about it need to stop faking it and ask yourself, why didn't you stay in? I joined the Corps, proud i got through it but damn sure glad I'm out. Joined as an enlisted 0341, proud that I got out, finished my last year of college and went to medical school. What I should've done was joined the air force if I really wanted to tickle my "patriotic, John Wayne BS" or not have joined at all. I wished I listened to your story before hand. On that note, thanks to your idea of a truck camper, I'm gonna buy one soon and drive to Alaska with hopes to reset all these frustrations and anxiety acquired through military service. Your monologue was very useful. Thank you so much.
It takes incredible courage to put this out in public for eveyone to see. If truth be told, we all have issues that you have touched on. I am at the end of my career and I can relate to the bad leaders and great leaders. The bad leaders destroy people while the great ones build people. You hit on the one thing we all seek, the unconditional love. I pray that this helps people. I also pray that you live a full and rewarding life. God bless and take care.
@@UrbanValorTV Dear Major,thank you for sharing your story. You got guts. And like Gunnery Sargent Hartman from Full Metal Jacket said..'guts is enough'. If there is one thing I can't stand,is the lack of help for any veteran. That there are homeless veterans in our country is disturbing to me. I am broke and poor,but,if I have a little shelter and a little employment, food and water. And when I cross a veteran who is in need,they get my food,water,smoke,my ear and most definitely,my respect. I was raised by a Marine Gunnery srgt. as a step-brat with earliest years during Vietnam war period. I've been out to Camp Pendelton area in base housing and even on base. I even knew as a child what a PX and commissary were. I've lived in Occatillo Heights and Oceanside. On my way to work in recent years,i drove over a bridge and thought the same way you did. I got you when you said that. Long story short,I was hated and abused,but ultimately fed and clothed and sheltered. Didn't matter. If i could have left I would have but I was just a toddler. I believe that abuse contributed to me not being able to love properly in any relationship. I'm working through it. I wish I could get help. I kind of know how you feel, but,only a micro bit in comparisn. I feel for you and if I could help you,I certainly would. At the least,please know that I think about you and support you any way I can,even if just carrying sympathy amd understanding in my heart for you and my gratitude for your service and sacrifice to our great nation. I tried to join the Marines as a non-grad but failed academically and recieved an honorable discharge after being sworn in and put on a delayed entry program to finish highschool. I am touched by your past as a child and I get you. I really do. My best friend made it and a lot of other friends of mine became Marines. In memory of all the Marines I've known and met and in honor of your fallen comrades,may I have the privilege of saying to you,Semper Fi.
@@lifeinlimbo2186 WOW, I did mention I was not meaning to offend. Obviously you don't see the modification as a way to describe and honour this heroic woman and I am sorry you fail to see that. You have a nice day and my apologies if I have put a drain on your supply of hydrochlorothiazide. 😁
Absolutely insane what all Osprey aircrew go through. My first time seeing one in person was my first year enlisted in the Air Force, vowed to never get into a position to come within the vicinity of a V-22. I pray for this young pilot, and all others involved with Ospreys.
Yeah, when I see one in the air, I think it is truly an oxymoron that an Osprey is called an aircraft. Very happy they were not around when i was in the military.
I feel like I can identify with you on many issues. Abuse as a child. Thoughts of suicide since 14, 73 now. Some really abusive and sometimes incompetent COs. Thank you for sharing your story! Also thought a lot about becoming a counselor to help others but ended up being a classroom teacher. Praying I helped some kids along the way.
Wow, I just relived a lot listening to your story. Not on the mental health part, but the lack of timely medical treatment or the total lack thereof. I don't mean this negatively, but, be glad you weren't an enlisted Marine, they would have kicked you out long before, most likely. Thanks for sharing your personal journey!
In my forty-one years of my work life (I'm two years retired) it was the good managers who I shone for, all my best qualities were what they got. They hardly had to do much, other than treat me with respect and let me know in little ways that they valued what I did. Your ambition to be a consultant helping people to be better managers of the people working for them is a such an excellent thing.
I never got to have a daughter and wish that I could have, but I have a great Son that I dearly love. I would of loved having a daughter to love, care for, protect and respect. You young lady and Major... I would of been proud of you as a father. Thank you for going beyond and believing in yourself. So sorry you had to go thru this all. Semper Fi from a Marine Corps veteran ( SGT 1971-1975 ).
Really good story. Thank you for sharing it. I don’t think that any American who hasn’t served realizes how hard it is to be part of the armed forces that are tasked with protecting our country. I served during the first gulf war in the 40th nmcb. The hazing was difficult though bear, however it prepared me for the rigors of my job and in a weird way built camaraderie with my unit. Not easy being a soldier.
Trish if you ever see this comment please know that so many Americans an civilians in the country's you helped to fight for and protect thank you for your service, your bravery, and for all of your blood, sweat and tears you gave so selflessly for my freedom and for their's. I suspect that current day, you now know that any self doubt you had back then That led to you feeling as you said during this interview like a impostor. It's not accurate. I could never do what you did so willingly. And that is something, I hope you hold your head very high about
Thanks for your honesty and courage! You are a HERO! I did 24 yr in USAF under Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Military Policy never acting on being Gay or Out! Too many bouts of depression and anxiety thanks to witch-hunts by Commanders during my time or being hit on by other Gay/Lesbian/Femmes Colonels and Lt Cols as a 1st and 2nd Lt in the USAF Nurse Corps! I spent 6 yrs in counseling after USAF retirement paying for everything myself despite being messed up by USAF military service! Wish I had left sooner!! VA in my hometown didn’t have the services they promote; were disrespectful towards women veterans and told me as Retired Woman Veteran that I wasn’t one for not having been in combat!! Went into the USAF in 1982 and retired in 2010 during which women at times were not allowed in combat. I still can’t wrap my head around a NATO Peacekeeping tour during 9/11 as Counterintelligence/Counterterrorism/Force Protection as a USAF SA in Bosnia despite sharpshooters and having to run around Bosnia by myself with only a 9mm not being combat duty!! Today I don’t recommend USAF Military Duty due to the poor health care I received!! Too cheap and not up to standards!!
The army has those toxic leaders that are putting way more pressure on the team that makes it unhealthy for the team. I hope t can get some of these people help with realign ing.
Recognizing that you have a problem is your first step. Knowing that your actions will affect those around you is your next step. Taking action is the third step in your journey to living the life you want.
As grunt with severe PTSD from my 26 months in Vietnam, I feel your grief. I never did understand the Marines view towards “damaged” personnel. The saying “We take care of our own” rings hollow. Take care of yourself, nobody else will. It hurts me to say that but the truth even if it hurts is absolutely necessary. Best wishes.❤❤❤❤
I understand your view and I understand other side too with it not being designed to support those not deployable. I struggled hard with issues but with so many years in I was determined to retire and the only meds or way I found to cope without being tagged as non deployable was to get blacked out drunk when possible (when I had a day off to recover after) and that was the answer for years. That’s ok but meds weren’t???? Maybe changed now but I could understand that point and the other side too unfortunately, and probably from being a leader at the level I was. Thanks for your service though. 🇺🇸🍻💪🏼🤙
Very inspirational. Your journey is a damned difficult one. You showed some real courage. I’m retired military and spent 14 of my 22 years overseas. I’ve seen my share of serious courageous acts but your story of self survival is one of the bravest things I’ve ever heard. Most of us military types have lots of buddies to share our experiences with. You were all alone dealing with this super heavy issue. That is some scary stuff right there. So many others are unable to navigate this treacherous road. I’ve lost a couple of friends to suicide and it’s a brutal reality. There are lots and lots of veterans that need to hear your story. You have some serious work to do. Get out there and tell people your story. It’s important and you are the right person for that job. You are a survivor, you can do it. Best of luck, stay frosty.
Oh by the way, you absolutely need to write a book about your journey! I don’t want to stress you out anymore than you have already been but, you’re a Marine and this is your new battle. I know deep down you understand this is a noble and worthwhile pursuit. So, don’t wait any longer, start right now. Have your husband, your family, former teammates, whomever can help you start working on it ASAP. Whatever it takes, your story is seriously important, lives are at stake. You can turn much of the negativity you’ve experienced into something intensely meaningful and purposeful. I also strongly recommend you try getting on to some military themed podcasts. They would jump at the chance to hear your story especially knowing it may help other veterans that are suffering. The podcasts I recommend: The Shawn Ryan show, Mike Glover with Fieldcraft Survival, Cleared Hot with Andy Stumpf, Mike Ritland, Jocko Willink, and also Joe Rogan! Those podcasts reach millions and millions of people. Your story is one of pain, fear, courage, and most importantly redemption. It sounds like you are a great Marine and we’re an amazing officer. Now go help those who so desperately need it.
Sorry for your loss and treatment. 40 years later( VIETNAM) I still have very intense dreams much like your where the plane crashes in water and I am trapped and can not get out. after all this time still do not know what triggers the dreams, but there as real now as before. Military and VA do not know how the help, but some small group sessions help some. I was lucky i could stop flying and take a maintenance supervisor job.
I had a period during my service when I should have gotten mental health help yet i would not due to the stigma of being not perfect. Mighy ny sound like atypical leadership role yet as a safety officer it is a critical level of leadership. Well done.
Why we spend millions training highly qualified people (all across DOD) but then not have programs to support them - in advance or at the onset of issues - baffles me. Semper Fi mam.
Very brave story… if more people could do this, we would have fewer tragedies. Our active duty systems just are not prepared for helping those that need it. They few parts of your story that overlap with mine helps to validate what I was feeling at the time. Thank you for your story
Thank you so much for sharing. The Marine Corps is no different than Corporate America. Hopefully people who are in the military or corporate America will learn and get help if needed from your life experiences. God Bless and thank you for sharing.
Lmao. Our Doc on deployment and in camp Wilson was always asked about the silver bullet. He said, No, if you go down as a heat casualty, I'll start an IV and transport you to the naval hospital or somewhere they can treat you for it. But if you want me to put something in your butt when you pass out, you have to buy it yourself. 😂😅🤣
A fellow recruit went down on a hump in Second Phase at Camp Pendleton. Dude got the Silver Bullet right there on the spot. Made a believer out of me. That happened in July 1991 and I remember it like it was yesterday.
@@Mattthefarmer1 Saw the same thing at the same place in 2000. Then on Okinawa a female Marine went down at the rifle range and they didn't waste any time checking her core temp. She almost didn't make it.
The most difficult battle is the one within. Find someone whose overcome what you're specifically dealing with & talk to them. Therapy is simply talking to someone you trust & said trusted person helps you see another perspective.
You are a wise marine. [*Hug*-“pls stop yelling at me”] That was probably one of the weirdest yet POSITIVELY intimate interactions w/ him. It was so weird it shocked even him I hope he was able to work through his stuff instead of taking it out on others. Childhood trauma can run deep. Even though you forgave him [step dad], there may be Sh1t you will still need to work through. It’s ok. I’m only 1/2 way through the interview, but I really wanted to let you know how proud I am of what you’ve accomplished, and for your service to our country.
Imposter syndrome hits really hard. I had a tough upbringing and went on to have a very fine career in law-enforcement, including being a lead homicide investigator and many other great assignments. i did a nice job at all of it, but I always had the feeling that someone was gonna find me out no matter how well I did It’s a real hard thing.
First Thank You Mr.&Mrs. For Your SERVICE.!! 🇺🇲🇬🇺 It's okay to not be okay and if you need/want someone to talk too outside the box.. I'm here and i may not need to understand but i will listen and hear you..!! I wanna be aka "boots" if i become your friend w/maps in backpack..😅🤙🏽 Hope this message finds you in good health...happy trails..!! 😍🙏🏽❣️
Honesty dude. Im so happy to finally hear an officers story that isnt a perfect white picket fence in gated community. My whole time in all i ever met were the ivy leage officers and it really felt like any enlisted who came from a low income backround was looked down on. Its just refreshing. I do feel bad for her upbringing though.
I can't remember her name but check some of Shawn Ryan and Mike Ritland's earliest guest podcasts, maybe early Mike Glover too. There's a female Apache pilot who has a gut wrenching but amazing life and military story.
The US military is pretty good about training their forces for combat. But they’re not good about helping their military after they come home. The physical and mental wounds after combat, Optempo, deployments, the flight schedule. Whatever it is. We talk about it, we say we’re doing something, that last 18 months after change of command. Then we get a new CO, and it really never improves. I was an Army Aviator, 24 years, if you can make it out with two arms, two legs and a head, you did good. I salute you, because you hung in there. Because it was tough, and you did what you thought you needed to do to get through the next day, the next flight, or NO flight. You did the right thing. Yes, your childhood events probably had something to do with all this. It’s worth looking into. Hats off to you. 😅😊❤
Maj Linck has the guts to tell the truth about the SUICIDE problem in the military. Why they bleeped out the word in the video is part of the problem. Let people hear the problems we all have/had during our service.
I hear you. Just know that TH-cam will purposefully bury the video if they detect suicide in the video, regardless of the motivation. It's an issue that we have to work around so more people hear the story. I wish it were different, but we have to work around the platform to get the stories out there.
Major, if you are still in Socal, and signed up with the VA, the VA has programs you can access if you still want help. Greater Los Angeles Veterans Association in West Los Angeles and Sepulveda VA Clinic in the San Fernando Valley.
The USMC trains and prepares us to complete the mission up to including dying to achieve that goal. Thats why we are so Valuable! They overlook the damage that can be done along the way. A 20 year war can have long term impact on anyone. Thank goodness for the Marines !
Alcoholism is a serious disease that can come and go in waves. Ive dealt with it. Rehab did nothing. The worst possible thing is people putting you down about it. Just makes you give up and drink more. Its a form of depression. Ive just learned to stay single and away from people. That actually helped me overcome drinking. Its lonely but Im still alive and enjoying life
Wow This is the one person most ladies want to be like. Hopefully she is still married. Cause she is the lady I would die for . I wonder if she knows this video is a great inspirational speech. Thanks for sharing
Thank you Trish the Marine your experience told here was beautifully articulated nothing but respect and thankfulness for your service im gonna be praying for you that Jesus leads you righteously into eternal life to God be the Glory Amen
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Complicated, intelligent, honest and beautiful what's not to love about this Marine...
I’m an Army Combat engineer Veteran of
OIF 05-07. I listened to your story and found myself stuck the video. All the love respect for you Major and you have one of the best heads on a pair of very heavy shoulders! Your story actually helped me out so keep up the great work and help help help… you were born for helping others
God Bless Dora 🇺🇸😇
Super Bonz6 out
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Ma’am as a Maintainer at the MALS this really hits home. I worked with all the squadrons down the flight line at Pendleton from 07-11 and then at MAG 31. OP Tempo was pretty bad. You hit the nail right on the head, while some senior leaders were amazing, the ones that were terrible to work with really showed they didn’t GAF about the individual Marine’s mental health, especially following deployment. Thank you for giving us your testimony!! Keep your head held up high! Semper Fidelis!
Amazing testimony, this is heart felt I served over 26 years in the Navy and had the honor to work, train and deploy with Marines as a Corpsman (garrison, Combat). I also worked with many smart, tough, Lady Marines, I was fortunate to hear and listen to many of their life stories, will power, focus, discipline, fitness and beauty. We as Men, brothers, fathers have such a great appreciation to our sisters, daughters, girlfriends, wives. Peace be with you and Semper Fi!!
There are no Lady Marines. There are just Marines.
@@jerrygoller4269 Sure there are. He was specifically addressing "the ladies."
@@jerrygoller4269 Yeah buddy as a (FMF/PJ) Corpsman I heard it all. Let's put that blind male pride aside. Not sure what you are, you sound like a POG. Listen up; here's your lesson for the day.
God created "Men" and "Women" , before they became Marines. FACT real story; Not all the Marines have the same plumbing system (if you know what I mean) the male Marine has a Penis the Female Marine has a Vagina. I never had to MEDEVAC any of the Marines with a penis for a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) leading to PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) .. one of my Marines with a Vagina (got SEPTIC), in other words her vagina was filled with bacteria . which entered her urinary tract into her kidneys and blood system. She almost died. I have more stories, some of them with dark-secrets, which I will take to the grave with me. Semper Fi and Anchors Aweigh!
Man… what an asset to your nation.., what an amazing parent to come…, we cannot get enough people like this..🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
This young woman, this officer, is a credit to our nation. Finding her self, trying to emerge from her personal darkness and sharing her experience with all of us is remarkable. Hope she keeps on moving forward toward personal success. Cheers from an army veteran from Vermont, USA.
It's only gonna get better !
You earned a degree. You earned the Title, you earned being a pilot. You deserved it all! Nobody did it for you. As a grunt I loved our pilots. Saved our lives. You had an amazing career and amazing in general. I love the Corps and would join again in a heartbeat but they definitely train us to bury or have no emotions. Took me 16 years after getting out to get help and that was because my wife made me even though I knew i needed it. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. My dad waited 45 years after Vietnam. So sorry for your loss. It's never easy losing a fellow Marine. Semper Fi, Major.
Another great one UV. SF brother.
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No she got her degree easier, her grades easier, lower physical requirements to get into the corp and lower proficiency requirements to get promoted... ALL because she has a gash. She didn't earn those things unless she did it without all that gash centric favor. Fact
@@nigelmcphearson Brother, sometimes it's better to keep your mouth shut. Even if you believe you are right, if your opinion doesn't change anything, if it brings no good, just why say it. She isn't just a gash she is a human being. She signed that blank check the same as anyone else.
My family is a military family so I mean no disrespect when I say if you screw up the army,marines,airforce etc will eat their own.Ive seen it happen too many times.The gov will never be to blame they will blame lower staff 100% of the time...Nigel wtf ever u are(the one that commented above me) you are a shovanist..Her degrees was the same,women's boot camp is the same its all the same.You sound like a failure that's jealous she isn't like you..
@@nigelmcphearsonwtmf. Did you serve. Evry Marine female I've met was a Marine through and through.
I served 2 tours RVN, USMC, '65/68, WIA a week before my 2nd tour ended, spent a year in traction, recovered physically but mentally to this day I honestly don't think I have, not from the wounds I'd suffered but from the friends I lost. We need to keep having these one-on-one conversations for all the above reasons, Veterans are family and that's the best family support you can have. semper fi
That is a brave testimonial. I'm glad you shared it. Many people will take with them a lot from this........
You are a very sweet person who is very bright and transparent with mental health issues. Thank you!
Thanks for being so honest ..... Your plight is painful to hear.... I cant tell you of the deepest respect I have for you..... You are a true warrior... Thank You
What a champion… huge respect… I can only imagine the Marines did little to her that ain’t already been through
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Thank you for serving our country and doing your best. Have fun on that big road trip with your hubs..yall deserve it.
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Out-Effing-standing, Mam! Semper Fi. Please remember that every Marine is your brother and sister and there for you.
Trish, I watched this two nights ago. I’ve actually lost sleep thinking about your horrible experience. I have to say, as a retired Marine LtCol with 4,000 hours of tacair experience, your interview was difficult to watch. I’m so sorry you had to go through so much pain. Rest assured that you are no imposter. On the contrary, you are a highly trained Naval Aviator who was designated as night systems instructor in an extremely complex aircraft. No, strike that, The Most Complex aircraft in the Naval inventory. Impostors are not designated night system instructors in anything, much less an Osprey.
You have a good head on your shoulders and it sounds as though you have a well thought out path going forward. You have already accomplished a great amount in your young life and you are just getting started. Good luck moving forward.
I am an Australian and I just gotta met this 🐣 someday. What a superwoman and just a great human being.
Trish, I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable in sharing your story. I’d love to have you as a guest on The Mettle of Honor Podcast: Veteran stories of strength, courage, & perseverance.”
I retired a few years back after spending 21 years in the Army as an Aviator, and I felt the same stigma regarding mental health. My career was doing well, I was a Black Hawk Instructor and evaluator, in front line units. But my home life and marriage were horrific. Just before my retirement date, I had an emotional breakdown. Compounding it was my belief that I wasn’t allowed to feel this way, and the guilt I was letting my unit Aviators and command down. Plus, the Army wasn’t really supportive or understanding. I didn’t drink, do drugs, or anything. Yet, it took years, and a divorce, to find peace. Thank you Major for being so open, and remember, you’re not alone.
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Thank you both for your service and sacrifice
I retired, but my wife was still on active duty and she had been abusive from the first year of marriage, but even though I reported her, they allowed her to steal my house and gave her a bronze star on the tour where she was reported. I just called 988 yesterday and had them hang up on me because they don’t want to hear the truth. Completely ridiculous system of non-care as they have cut my care before I ever want the military, which means I’m still on active duty because I had to have four teeth pulled two months after I left when I was supposed to be medically, cleared and along the way, they verbally harassed me and I reported them before I ever left active duty. They modified my internal records and didn’t answer a single complaint out of the 36. I filed with the Washington VA Hotline and neither did the VA Inspector General.
I report them for years and then they start making up things in all of the medical records, even though they lied initially. They tried to accuse me of all kinds of things when they were always at fault from the very beginning to include the fact that they laughed at me my last day of work when they were supposed to be throwing a retirement ceremony. They talked about sending me to Iraq and I reminded them I don’t fit an Air Force gas mask which has been identified for years and they never did anything about it, but brought this up when they already knew this and started laughing. That’s what you get for doing the right thing in this country. McGuire Air Force Base in 2004. They are a complete embarrassment because I had to sit there and fight them last year to do their jobs to include the fact that I did an unfunded requirement for them to secure two networks to include commanders, net and security forces which they purposely did not do to buy signs for Services squadron instead And then terrorist used that to monitor them five years later, but we’re caught. I had to give a cell phone contract to the army because the Air Force to include my ex-wife would not write a appropriate contract so I went to the army and handed 250 cell phones over to them.
Thank you for sharing this interview with Maj Linck. Her resilience, intelligence, and articulateness as a woman and Marine are truly inspiring. Her life experiences shared about Mental Health in the US military, whether with service members or dependents (youth and adults), are a testament to her strength.
Up front, I know that binge drinking and masking are normalized despite it being preached against. I think there's a cultural and self-medicating/coping aspect to it that continues to be the elephant in the room, as they are both controllable and are beyond the military's means and capability to address. They get attention when something bad happens and then return to equilibrium/status quo when it eventually passes, which it always does - it will always be this way until a significant emotional event changes it. Maj Linck also places an asterisk on it when she says that going to the USMC for help was definitely the wrong decision given the service's reaction, which is partly understandable as commanders' careers hang in the balance if someone with a history of mental health episodes (which everyone has in truth) denies help with their review and concurrence and has a relapse.
Also, of the medical services on base, mental health is the most advocated for in units and installation, yet is the least resourced given the base population and needs. The fact that Maj Linck sought help outside of the USMC and paid for it out of pocket highlights the understaffing.
There is a strong advocacy for mental health services, from the HQ down to the unit level, including the appointment of a 'Resilience' trainer as an additional duty within the unit. This, in addition to the presence of Mental Health professionals in the installation Medical organization, and Counselors in the Department of Defense Education Activity schools, marks an incredible improvement from the past.
But, given the number of service members and their dependents (spouses and children) on an installation (especially overseas), Mental Health is horrifically understaffed which is disastrous as the advocacy paints a picture of having a healthy Mental Health program in words and PowerPoint, but the understaffing creates a disaster that impacts everyone on the installation and the mission. Being told, "It will be months until you can get an appointment," is beyond UNSAT as the implications and effects are experienced/absorbed by the member, family, and unit, and a month(s) long wait is the norm. It also drives people to the ER to get help as it's the only way to be seen and that has an effect on the Medical system.
Hopefully, the military will recognize the issues it creates and ignores and continues to improve mental health for its members and dependents.
I'm happy that she's going to pursue her life's calling and passion and share her knowledge and experiences to help others and, perhaps one day, help the military organizationally along with its members and dependents.
Thanks Major for your service to our Corps.
Trish and her husband Michael are great Americans. It’s a privilege to know them and have flown with them.
Trish, thank you for having the courage to share your story. Great things are in store for you and your family.
Semper Fidelis.
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I grew up in terrible family circumstances which taught me to have no loyalty to anyone or to this country. This Marine officer just gave me a reason to care. Semper Fi!
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God bless you. Buried all the shit until it was impossible. Same deal just different circumstances. Finally found the right doc changed everything. it’s never too late.
Semper Fi Major. I was a Gulf War Vet. SSgt. And loved and hated my life in the Corps. Depending on the leaders over you. It can make it a great experience or one where you wanted to be anywhere else but there.
Waw!! That was awesome. And so is she.. from UK, respect and Slava Ukraine!!
Its inane how alike we Marines are. I rarely hear even while I was in that we don't come from broken lives. Semper Fi sister. Thank you for sharing.
What is really sad is how many people grow up in an abusive life. Of all the people I have ever known, only one guy had a good childhood.
Glad you had a good experience with your grandpa
OMG! I love her sense of humor about the silver bullet. This type of sick humor is something that most non-military experienced people will never understand. Thank you for your service Major.
Thank you for your brave service, Courageous young Marine Officer 🇺🇸🦅🙏. Her story is riveting….and heart wrenching. My husband, a Marine, served in Vietnam. I also lost numerous friends in Vietnam. I feel her deep pain 💔
Thank you for sharing your story. You were brave to ask for help when you need it. Many of us like myself wait until years later after getting out.
The Osprey program has been a nightmare for the USMC, I still remember the tragedy in 1999 in Arizona, I was supposed to take part in that exercise, luckily I opt out. Best of luck and Semper Fi!!
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Major, you are an inspiration. I hung on every word of your story. Please accept thanks and sympathy from an ancient 0311 Lance Corporal. I have always viewed the VTOL aircraft, the Osprey and British Harrier, as flying death traps. Much admiration for you, and
Semper Fi !
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I can't believe how engaging this this monologue is.
Thank you for sharing your story and insights. Always forward Major.
Much appreciated
Semper Fi, Marine. You speak the truth. You insight, integrity and love is inspirational. I got out in 91. Wish there were officer like you when I was in. Civilian world is blessed to have you. God’s speed.
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Great interview! She had an incredible journey! I wish the very best for her!❤
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Fascinating story…..Have a good rest of your life. John App, USMCR HMM 161 Vietnam 1966 I can’t imagine flying the Osprey. I shuddered over the years hearing about the problems with that plane. I have PTSD but only recently identified as having it. Created havoc for all those around me with bizarre antics. Good you found out early on what you needed to do to have a normal or near normal life.
Hi Trish, Thanks very much for sharing. I've been flying for 47 years and can easily see and follow your progression. Without a doubt, you are not alone. It's unfortunate that we find a reason to assign a stigma or even go to the extent of belittling suffering. Kicking someone when they're down is the lowest form of everything. It sounds like you truly have more to give if you choose that route. It's also okay to change your mind partway through that journey as well. You don't need any excuses in life. Do what you want and be happy or don't. Nobody has any right to say otherwise.
It's great that you were able to recognize the problem and address it right away. You're absolute right about the Marine Corps. "semper Fi" being you're faithful to it but it isn't faithful to you. I'm happy to hear your story and I'm sure it's helping many who hear it. Hearing your story gives me peace. They need to stop romanticizing the military - it isn't all the heroic, bad ass stuff it's portrayed to be. You end up proud to have served but after that, you're glad you're out. You know I'm right. There are assholes about to get on me about it need to stop faking it and ask yourself, why didn't you stay in? I joined the Corps, proud i got through it but damn sure glad I'm out. Joined as an enlisted 0341, proud that I got out, finished my last year of college and went to medical school. What I should've done was joined the air force if I really wanted to tickle my "patriotic, John Wayne BS" or not have joined at all. I wished I listened to your story before hand. On that note, thanks to your idea of a truck camper, I'm gonna buy one soon and drive to Alaska with hopes to reset all these frustrations and anxiety acquired through military service. Your monologue was very useful. Thank you so much.
It takes incredible courage to put this out in public for eveyone to see. If truth be told, we all have issues that you have touched on.
I am at the end of my career and I can relate to the bad leaders and great leaders. The bad leaders destroy people while the great ones build people.
You hit on the one thing we all seek, the unconditional love. I pray that this helps people. I also pray that you live a full and rewarding life. God bless and take care.
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Wow... what a story. This lady is one darn fine American.
Thank you for watching and for your support 🤙🏼
@@UrbanValorTV Dear Major,thank you for sharing your story. You got guts. And like Gunnery Sargent Hartman from Full Metal Jacket said..'guts is enough'.
If there is one thing I can't stand,is the lack of help for any veteran. That there are homeless veterans in our country is disturbing to me. I am broke and poor,but,if I have a little shelter and a little employment, food and water. And when I cross a veteran who is in need,they get my food,water,smoke,my ear and most definitely,my respect. I was raised by a Marine Gunnery srgt. as a step-brat with earliest years during Vietnam war period. I've been out to Camp Pendelton area in base housing and even on base. I even knew as a child what a PX and commissary were. I've lived in Occatillo Heights and Oceanside. On my way to work in recent years,i drove over a bridge and thought the same way you did. I got you when you said that. Long story short,I was hated and abused,but ultimately fed and clothed and sheltered. Didn't matter. If i could have left I would have but I was just a toddler. I believe that abuse contributed to me not being able to love properly in any relationship. I'm working through it. I wish I could get help. I kind of know how you feel, but,only a micro bit in comparisn. I feel for you and if I could help you,I certainly would. At the least,please know that I think about you and support you any way I can,even if just carrying sympathy amd understanding in my heart for you and my gratitude for your service and sacrifice to our great nation. I tried to join the Marines as a non-grad but failed academically and recieved an honorable discharge after being sworn in and put on a delayed entry program to finish highschool. I am touched by your past as a child and I get you. I really do. My best friend made it and a lot of other friends of mine became Marines. In memory of all the Marines I've known and met and in honor of your fallen comrades,may I have the privilege of saying to you,Semper Fi.
If I may correct you just a tiny bit @lifeinlimbo2186 and I am not meaning to offend.
_"This lady is one darn __-fine-__ _*_heroic_*_ American."_ 👍👍
@@braveworld2707 what the hell is wrong with the word,fine? Should I pick what words YOU use?
@@lifeinlimbo2186 WOW, I did mention I was not meaning to offend. Obviously you don't see the modification as a way to describe and honour this heroic woman and I am sorry you fail to see that.
You have a nice day and my apologies if I have put a drain on your supply of hydrochlorothiazide. 😁
Absolutely insane what all Osprey aircrew go through. My first time seeing one in person was my first year enlisted in the Air Force, vowed to never get into a position to come within the vicinity of a V-22. I pray for this young pilot, and all others involved with Ospreys.
Yeah, when I see one in the air, I think it is truly an oxymoron that an Osprey is called an aircraft. Very happy they were not around when i was in the military.
I feel like I can identify with you on many issues. Abuse as a child. Thoughts of suicide since 14, 73 now. Some really abusive and sometimes incompetent COs. Thank you for sharing your story! Also thought a lot about becoming a counselor to help others but ended up being a classroom teacher. Praying I helped some kids along the way.
The serious ness and stress during training makes humor the best thing.
As a 70 yr old grandfather ur the kind of grandaughter we all deserve but rarely get. I wish id had u as my grandaughter.
Couldn’t agree more!
Your story really touches me. Keep on working on it, and the good spirit, that I sense that you've got. Greetings from Denmark ❤
Wow, I just relived a lot listening to your story. Not on the mental health part, but the lack of timely medical treatment or the total lack thereof. I don't mean this negatively, but, be glad you weren't an enlisted Marine, they would have kicked you out long before, most likely. Thanks for sharing your personal journey!
Hi from Ireland,Trish your amazing, take care
In my forty-one years of my work life (I'm two years retired) it was the good managers who I shone for, all my best qualities were what they got. They hardly had to do much, other than treat me with respect and let me know in little ways that they valued what I did. Your ambition to be a consultant helping people to be better managers of the people working for them is a such an excellent thing.
Thanks for the interview . Neat to get an officer’s perspective .
BY your leave mam, thank you for your service, navy corpsman here , nothing but respect, thank you got your honesty and service,
I never got to have a daughter and wish that I could have, but I have a great Son that I dearly love. I would of loved having a daughter to love, care for, protect and respect. You young lady and Major... I would of been proud of you as a father. Thank you for going beyond and believing in yourself. So sorry you had to go thru this all. Semper Fi from a Marine Corps veteran ( SGT 1971-1975 ).
Really good story. Thank you for sharing it. I don’t think that any American who hasn’t served realizes how hard it is to be part of the armed forces that are tasked with protecting our country. I served during the first gulf war in the 40th nmcb. The hazing was difficult though bear, however it prepared me for the rigors of my job and in a weird way built camaraderie with my unit. Not easy being a soldier.
In another life this woman is my soulmate. Semper Fi marine.✊️
Trish if you ever see this comment please know that so many Americans an civilians in the country's you helped to fight for and protect thank you for your service, your bravery, and for all of your blood, sweat and tears you gave so selflessly for my freedom and for their's. I suspect that current day, you now know that any self doubt you had back then That led to you feeling as you said during this interview like a impostor.
It's not accurate. I could never do what you did so willingly. And that is something, I hope you hold your head very high about
Continue the journey....may it be good too you and your's.
Thanks for your honesty and courage! You are a HERO! I did 24 yr in USAF under Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Military Policy never acting on being Gay or Out! Too many bouts of depression and anxiety thanks to witch-hunts by Commanders during my time or being hit on by other Gay/Lesbian/Femmes Colonels and Lt Cols as a 1st and 2nd Lt in the USAF Nurse Corps! I spent 6 yrs in counseling after USAF retirement paying for everything myself despite being messed up by USAF military service! Wish I had left sooner!! VA in my hometown didn’t have the services they promote; were disrespectful towards women veterans and told me as Retired Woman Veteran that I wasn’t one for not having been in combat!! Went into the USAF in 1982 and retired in 2010 during which women at times were not allowed in combat. I still can’t wrap my head around a NATO Peacekeeping tour during 9/11 as Counterintelligence/Counterterrorism/Force Protection as a USAF SA in Bosnia despite sharpshooters and having to run around Bosnia by myself with only a 9mm not being combat duty!! Today I don’t recommend USAF Military Duty due to the poor health care I received!! Too cheap and not up to standards!!
Thanks for your service 👍🏼
Your support is very much appreciated
Thank you for the video and thanks to this fine lady .
Thanks for watching!🤙🏼🇺🇸👊🏼
We really need an update of how their road trip is going. Be great if she a daily vlog of the trip. It’s like I gotta hear her voice again & again.
CNY all the way! Thank you for your service
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This is so personal I want to give you a big hug. I have huge respect for you. The Well done.-cw2 ground maintenance warrant officer retired.
The army has those toxic leaders that are putting way more pressure on the team that makes it unhealthy for the team. I hope t can get some of these people help with realign ing.
I'm glad you helped yourself and shared your stories.
A badass Marine. You are an amazing New Yorker. Thanks for sharing your 🇺🇲🪖🇺🇲 story.
Recognizing that you have a problem is your first step. Knowing that your actions will affect those around you is your next step. Taking action is the third step in your journey to living the life you want.
Trish, you’re really good at telling stories
As grunt with severe PTSD from my 26 months in Vietnam, I feel your grief. I never did understand the Marines view towards “damaged” personnel. The saying “We take care of our own” rings hollow. Take care of yourself, nobody else will. It hurts me to say that but the truth even if it hurts is absolutely necessary. Best wishes.❤❤❤❤
I understand your view and I understand other side too with it not being designed to support those not deployable. I struggled hard with issues but with so many years in I was determined to retire and the only meds or way I found to cope without being tagged as non deployable was to get blacked out drunk when possible (when I had a day off to recover after) and that was the answer for years. That’s ok but meds weren’t???? Maybe changed now but I could understand that point and the other side too unfortunately, and probably from being a leader at the level I was. Thanks for your service though. 🇺🇸🍻💪🏼🤙
Much respect to you Sir🫡 thank you for serving and sharing your words 🤜🏼🤛🏼
👍been a loooong road since then...
We need to support our troops in ALL LEVELS we’re the reflection of upper management regardless of their rank or position 😡😡😡🤌🏽
Very inspirational. Your journey is a damned difficult one. You showed some real courage. I’m retired military and spent 14 of my 22 years overseas. I’ve seen my share of serious courageous acts but your story of self survival is one of the bravest things I’ve ever heard. Most of us military types have lots of buddies to share our experiences with. You were all alone dealing with this super heavy issue. That is some scary stuff right there. So many others are unable to navigate this treacherous road. I’ve lost a couple of friends to suicide and it’s a brutal reality. There are lots and lots of veterans that need to hear your story. You have some serious work to do. Get out there and tell people your story. It’s important and you are the right person for that job. You are a survivor, you can do it. Best of luck, stay frosty.
Oh by the way, you absolutely need to write a book about your journey! I don’t want to stress you out anymore than you have already been but, you’re a Marine and this is your new battle. I know deep down you understand this is a noble and worthwhile pursuit. So, don’t wait any longer, start right now. Have your husband, your family, former teammates, whomever can help you start working on it ASAP. Whatever it takes, your story is seriously important, lives are at stake. You can turn much of the negativity you’ve experienced into something intensely meaningful and purposeful. I also strongly recommend you try getting on to some military themed podcasts. They would jump at the chance to hear your story especially knowing it may help other veterans that are suffering. The podcasts I recommend: The Shawn Ryan show, Mike Glover with Fieldcraft Survival, Cleared Hot with Andy Stumpf, Mike Ritland, Jocko Willink, and also Joe Rogan! Those podcasts reach millions and millions of people. Your story is one of pain, fear, courage, and most importantly redemption. It sounds like you are a great Marine and we’re an amazing officer. Now go help those who so desperately need it.
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@@UrbanValorTV You are doing great things. Your videos are very important and I find them to be very inspirational. Keep doing this!
God bless! Well done.
Sorry for your loss and treatment. 40 years later( VIETNAM) I still have very intense dreams much like your where the plane crashes in water and I am trapped and can not get out. after all this time still do not know what triggers the dreams, but there as real now as before. Military and VA do not know how the help, but some small group sessions help some. I was lucky i could stop flying and take a maintenance supervisor job.
Her strength is beautiful.
I had a period during my service when I should have gotten mental health help yet i would not due to the stigma of being not perfect. Mighy ny sound like atypical leadership role yet as a safety officer it is a critical level of leadership. Well done.
So beautiful
God bless you Trish!
Why we spend millions training highly qualified people (all across DOD) but then not have programs to support them - in advance or at the onset of issues - baffles me. Semper Fi mam.
Very brave story… if more people could do this, we would have fewer tragedies. Our active duty systems just are not prepared for helping those that need it. They few parts of your story that overlap with mine helps to validate what I was feeling at the time. Thank you for your story
Military personnel are just disposable to the gov.
Thank you so much for sharing. The Marine Corps is no different than Corporate America. Hopefully people who are in the military or corporate America will learn and get help if needed from your life experiences. God Bless and thank you for sharing.
the silver bullet has done more to improve marine corps fitness standards than any amount of PT could possibly ever hope to achieve.
Agreed, I drank so much water and was terrified of it when on humps and PT/PFT situations.
Pure fear can keep a dude going😂
Lmao.
Our Doc on deployment and in camp Wilson was always asked about the silver bullet. He said, No, if you go down as a heat casualty, I'll start an IV and transport you to the naval hospital or somewhere they can treat you for it. But if you want me to put something in your butt when you pass out, you have to buy it yourself. 😂😅🤣
Yes in Army we do JRTC and NTC and let me tell you I seen a lot of dirty booty cheeks because of the silver bullet 😂
A fellow recruit went down on a hump in Second Phase at Camp Pendleton. Dude got the Silver Bullet right there on the spot. Made a believer out of me. That happened in July 1991 and I remember it like it was yesterday.
@@Mattthefarmer1 Saw the same thing at the same place in 2000. Then on Okinawa a female Marine went down at the rifle range and they didn't waste any time checking her core temp. She almost didn't make it.
The most difficult battle is the one within.
Find someone whose overcome what you're specifically dealing with & talk to them.
Therapy is simply talking to someone you trust & said trusted person helps you see another perspective.
You are a wise marine. [*Hug*-“pls stop yelling at me”] That was probably one of the weirdest yet POSITIVELY intimate interactions w/ him. It was so weird it shocked even him I hope he was able to work through his stuff instead of taking it out on others. Childhood trauma can run deep. Even though you forgave him [step dad], there may be Sh1t you will still need to work through. It’s ok.
I’m only 1/2 way through the interview, but I really wanted to let you know how proud I am of what you’ve accomplished, and for your service to our country.
Even though I was in the Navy, I had some really similar experiences.
Imposter syndrome hits really hard. I had a tough upbringing and went on to have a very fine career in law-enforcement, including being a lead homicide investigator and many other great assignments. i did a nice job at all of it, but I always had the feeling that someone was gonna find me out no matter how well I did It’s a real hard thing.
First Thank You Mr.&Mrs. For Your SERVICE.!! 🇺🇲🇬🇺
It's okay to not be okay and if you need/want someone to talk too outside the box.. I'm here and i may not need to understand but i will listen and hear you..!! I wanna be aka "boots" if i become your friend w/maps in backpack..😅🤙🏽
Hope this message finds you in good health...happy trails..!! 😍🙏🏽❣️
lol appreciate it 🤙🏼🇺🇸👊🏼
Lady you rock !
Thank you 🤙🏼🇺🇸👊🏼
Brutally honest!
Rah. Outstanding work and thank you. I remember when I caught the sliver bullet and it wasn’t a good time.
This was awesome, her telling this story was hilarious.
I went to rehab clean, not sober. Helluva time, eye opener for me.
Honesty dude. Im so happy to finally hear an officers story that isnt a perfect white picket fence in gated community. My whole time in all i ever met were the ivy leage officers and it really felt like any enlisted who came from a low income backround was looked down on. Its just refreshing. I do feel bad for her upbringing though.
I can't remember her name but check some of Shawn Ryan and Mike Ritland's earliest guest podcasts, maybe early Mike Glover too. There's a female Apache pilot who has a gut wrenching but amazing life and military story.
The US military is pretty good about training their forces for combat. But they’re not good about helping their military after they come home. The physical and mental wounds after combat, Optempo, deployments, the flight schedule. Whatever it is. We talk about it, we say we’re doing something, that last 18 months after change of command. Then we get a new CO, and it really never improves. I was an Army Aviator, 24 years, if you can make it out with two arms, two legs and a head, you did good. I salute you, because you hung in there. Because it was tough, and you did what you thought you needed to do to get through the next day, the next flight, or NO flight. You did the right thing. Yes, your childhood events probably had something to do with all this. It’s worth looking into. Hats off to you. 😅😊❤
Maj Linck has the guts to tell the truth about the SUICIDE problem in the military. Why they bleeped out the word in the video is part of the problem. Let people hear the problems we all have/had during our service.
I hear you. Just know that TH-cam will purposefully bury the video if they detect suicide in the video, regardless of the motivation. It's an issue that we have to work around so more people hear the story. I wish it were different, but we have to work around the platform to get the stories out there.
Major, if you are still in Socal, and signed up with the VA, the VA has programs you can access if you still want help. Greater Los Angeles Veterans Association in West Los Angeles and Sepulveda VA Clinic in the San Fernando Valley.
The USMC trains and prepares us to complete the mission up to including dying to achieve that goal. Thats why we are so Valuable! They overlook the damage that can be done along the way. A 20 year war can have long term impact on anyone. Thank goodness for the Marines !
Alcoholism is a serious disease that can come and go in waves. Ive dealt with it. Rehab did nothing. The worst possible thing is people putting you down about it. Just makes you give up and drink more. Its a form of depression. Ive just learned to stay single and away from people. That actually helped me overcome drinking. Its lonely but Im still alive and enjoying life
Thank you.
Living in a nation & region : the Sth Pacific…, we are so indebted to the USMC..🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏🇺🇸🦅
Wow
This is the one person most ladies want to be like. Hopefully she is still married. Cause she is the lady I would die for . I wonder if she knows this video is a great inspirational speech. Thanks for sharing
Thank you Trish the Marine your experience told here was beautifully articulated nothing but respect and thankfulness for your service im gonna be praying for you that Jesus leads you righteously into eternal life to God be the Glory Amen
Mental health is a big issue but only silenced