SCARIEST DAY of RV Life yet as a SOLO FEMALE NOMAD. This mistake could have cost me everything...
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- While boondocking solo I man appears at my door. This was the scariest thing that has happened to me after 7 years as a full-time RVer. I was legitimately terrified. Is this making me quit RV life?
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Look up a North American Arms .22 firearm, it’s the smallest simplest firearm that you can buy, literally about the size of a set of car keys. You can hide it in the palm of your hand, accuracy sucks beyond the distance you could throw something so close range only. Don’t like guns, mace or bear spray works. And WHY did you open your door? Open a window to speak to a stranger. And never ever be afraid of nicely saying with a smile, “You are making me uncomfortable, please leave.” If they persist, “I asked you to leave, and you haven’t. I’m armed (or capable of defending myself) and I’d like to remind you that medical care is over an hour away and you’ll probably be gone before paramedics can reach you.” Optional, “Thank you and have a good day. 😊”
Glad your safe Robin. But that's kind of too late saying it.
It’s my opinion you did good. You handled it really good.
Thanks for deleting my comment.
I am 100% on your side, and I hope that you aren't still beating yourself up over this. I know that you have to be careful and keep yourself safe and all that, but you should have an expectation of being left alone! You shouldn't NEED to put out 2 chairs and lock yourself up in your airstream like a prisoner. It's your RIGHT to be safe and free! I think you handled it the way you should have, and I'm glad to hear that you have a means of defending yourself.
Someone recently sent me this quote:
"My life got better when I realized I didn't have to be nice. Nice got me ran over, stressed out, and disrespected.
I'm not nice. I am a good person. There is a difference."
Love this.
You nailed it
Be weird, be rude, stay alive. - Ashley Flowers
I like this!
Took me a lot of years to figure this out 😂
Can I make a simple suggestion, Im a prison officer and we use these all the time, for about 20 dollars you can purchase a round concave mirror which you can put up in the corner and you can look up from the kitchen area and see the door, and whole area without even turning around. Stay safe and enjoy every moment ❤💕
Great tip!!
Wonderful suggestion ❤
Perfect!!
Brilliant!
Thanks for sharing this valuable tip🙏
One of my favorite quotes:
"Intuitions are not to be ignored. They represent data processed too fast for the conscious mind to comprehend."
Well put!
Oh I like this. My husband has excellent intuition about such things.
Don’t beat yourself up…you’re a rockstar…
I love this! So true.
So THAT'S the explanation for those feelings I get and when asked why, I don't have the words right then to explain it. Ty!
Ted Bundy relied on women wanting to be friendly and helpful, so it’s a really smart thing to let any man approaching you when you’re alone that you aren’t having it. Glad you’re safe!
Exactly!!
Exactly this.
Yup! Saw that on his documentary which he said exactly that.
One HUGE red flag jumps out at me, Robin. He never adjusted his behavior once he saw your reaction to him. That isn't normal. Your gut was on high alert for good reason.
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Good point!
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That's right!
I agree! Praying over her the blood of Jesus
When I was a kid two guys approached my Mom and I in a mall parking lot. They said they needed help... car trouble... My Mom says: I cannot help you, and you should know better than to ask a woman with a child when there are grown men around to ask. (It was the '80's)
No joke - they probably planned to grab you.
Even now it would be better to ask a man than a woman with a kid.
This. So much this!☝️☝️☝️
Mom may have saved both of your lives
Most likely, they were after the kid.
Asking a strange woman in public for help - that was Ted Bundy’s MO. Normal men don’t do that. HUGE red flag.
Even though we should all know this, this statement sent chills and a stark reminder.
Always the first thing I think of. Don't feel like you have to be nice or even acknowledge a stranger. Do what's best for you and your safety!
Is it ok to offer help? I saw 2 girls struggling to change a tire on their car. I was on a bike ride and offered assistance and there were plenty of people around. They had trouble breaking the lugnuts loose and no one offered help. I always carry and an extra tube to help any stranded cyclist help.
yes, and the fact that he kept going on after she told him no is an even BIGGER red flag
@@notanomad9320yes. 😊
I'm a female truck driver and a full time rver. Twice my dog was has ran off 2 people, she is such a cuddle bug and so good with everyone. But she knew that they were up to no good. The first guy I didn't see until she started growling
Yes! Full timer here with dog too and no other weapons. She definitely kept us safe.
Their hearing is so much better than humans and that 6th sense that they have is priceless. I have and will always have a dog or 2 or 3 that are rescues. LOL 🐶🐶🐶
My Mom was a solo long-haul driver. She carried a S&W 38 and had a full-blooded Arctic Tundra Wolf... nobody messed with her.
@@justonebeliever The 38 is better than the dog but the dog and the 38 is pure gold.
@@pippadawg7037I agree I love dogs but if the bad person has a gun and you just have a dog it won’t be good I got a gun and a dog and I will protect my dog before I let him die for me
I think the real shady thing is that he didn't ask other people who were standing around like the campers next to you and that he drove away after you wouldn't help him. If he really wanted help, he would walk around to other people who were outside.
I agree! Urgh, creepy men give all men a bad rap.
very good point, i would have simply said "sorry can't help you", ask those people over there.
Right!
You're plenty nice; no need to be any nicer.
Stay safe 🙋🏻♂️
he may have and they shut him down so he went looking for help elsewhere.
Good point. I hate it that women must be on guard all too often. It must make life much more selfish and limiting.
Never go against your instincts. Woman’s intuition is real.
Because we are a prey animal.
Men have intuition too. We use it to avoid uncaring women.
@@osajohnson1957 We are both predator and prey.
@@mysticone1798yes but in her comment “woman’s intuition” refers to the violence from men that’s in our history and dna. You didn’t have to make it a gender war. We worry about sexu al assault and harrassment all the time ,and many of us experienced it starting as girls. You didn’t have to be an asshole and try to cancel out her comment. There was nothing wrong with it. YOU took it personally
Absolutely.
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS trust your instincts. If dude had phone service, he should have called the campground and if he was a true camper, he would have known better than to get in your space like that. Also, women need to stop feeling like they have to smile and be nice to everyone. It is not our job in life to present a "pleasing" presence, and if someone calls you a name because you don't comply, just know your instincts were dead on- and you're still alive.
AMEN!
Absolutely!
Exactly.! It’s not my job to not hurt someone’s feelings in a situation like that
I think he was looking for a free meal too
@emily…, -don’t bet on it being a beggar at mealtime!
Always!
I had a weird experience on Peralta Rd as well. A weird couple approached me and overly tried to friend me... they started talking to me about how they relate to my stickers. And I nonchalantly took a "friendly" picture of them and told the dude he looked like a friend of mine and that I sent his picture to me friend! They left abruptly... almost didn't even say another word. I felt like they were wanting to steal my rig.
Smart 👍
Definitely up to NO GOOD.
They were marking you for trafficking. Good idea taking his pic. Prob saved your life
That was so smart taking their pic!
Taking a picture was SMART! Great thinking
Don't understand why you were reluctant to post this? Your post helps to remind people that situational awareness is so important!
YES!!!
It's so important to raise people's awareness!
Maybe she's still processing her emotions. , 😕
She did say she was concerned about women thinking her purpose was to make them feel camping alone was unsafe
She felt dumb once she found out there was a close by campground for pay that he may have been reserved at.
Women second guess themselves for everything. The communicative sex has a difficult time just speaking honestly and non-reservedly.
As a retired police officer and fulltime RV’ers, keep bear spray handy and remember your key fob for your truck / car makes a great panic alarm if you have a prowler.
Thanks for your service.
I wear mine all the time on my belt loop with a pepper spray attached.
I have my bear spray with me at all times...even when I'm in my apartment. I am a 49 year old woman who lives alone and I don't trust ANY stranger.
Very good point, thank you!
There are documented stories of people using bear spray on humans and still getting beat up. Bear spray works on animals, even wild dogs! But people have a more challenging time with pepper spray.
Most men would know better to approach a female let alone press her for information when she has already said NO. Definitely shady.
"Most men" nah...
"Decent men" sure, but they are not the majority of men.
Especially when it comes to solo men approaching a solo female camper. They get emboldened and aggressive.
Justine - Unfortunately, I'm afraid that's true.
Yes, yes. Playing the part of a helpless man is just so suspect in itself. Most men would approach another man for information if they were legit. This dude had bad intentions, definitely.
Nah. Most men don't have any of that running through their mind at all. In their mind they aren't doing anything creepy. They refuse to believe that life is different for women. As someone who was raised by a lot of women and has daughters I understand that making a woman feel comfortable and not making her uncomfortable is super important. Most men are clueless to that.
Some men have become more overbearing and brave in approaching women. A true "gentleman" would be more respectful.
That's so scary, I really believe those other campers were the only reason he didn't try to bust through your door
Right! If he really had reserved a campsite, he could go back to the office and double check the location
Also, why didn’t he engage with them and he didn’t need to get out of his truck if the tent campers were outside to ask his questions.
@@suzanner1785yes.....he hits on a lone woman.
Omg, yes....
Better misjudge than be dead. That gut will keep you alive. If he was legit, he would have known that behavior was not cool. I will have no problem hurting someone’s feelings if it keeps me safe.
Exactly. Girls, especially, are often taught as they grow up to be kind and helpful and not to hurt anyone's feelings... we often have to ignore those lessons in order to stay safe.
Well said.
I have no problems hurting people in order to stay safe.
Better to stay single and alive than married and dead. Can't trust a woman. 😂
As a solo female traveler, I have perhaps over reacted a time or two and gone into self defense mode when it wasn’t needed but I give myself grace and don’t regret it. Better safe than sorry.
Agreed.
As a solo male traveler, if I see a solo female I NEVER, EVER try to initiate a conversation with them.
If they want to talk to me about me about my rig or something I will be friendly and respond but I always keep in mind that solo females need to be extra vigilant and always give them space.
As women, we always, ALWAYS need to listen to our sixth sense. Being polite could find you 6’ under. You did the right thing! Stay strong, stay independent and enjoy your freedom!
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Agreed! Intuition is real!
So true and that applies to everybody! Use your 6th sense. Listen to your intuition. It costs you nothing if you're wrong and can save your life if you're right!
All people need to listen to their gut instinct. If more people did a lot of incidents could be avoided. F being nice.
It’s so common for women to feel guilty if we are not helpful, pleasant, nurturing, even when we feel threatened. You didn’t do one thing wrong. In fact, you handled it really well. You do not owe anyone your time or help. As long as we are preyed upon, we are going to be skittish. Thank you for the reality check.
Former LEO here, you did everything perfectly. Could have directed him to leave. The longer one engages, the more the creep works up courage. But, you must be prepared to use self defense/weapon at that point. Not willing, ready to use.
Someone commented 2 locks on screen, good idea.
My mom had a wooden screen door. She used to use a hook and eye lock she screwed an eye into the frame and a hook on the door.
If the door was hooked you couldn’t open it from the outside.
It kept out critters, her mother-in-law and the creepy neighbor
You said that there was a couple to the side looking at him. You told him more than once that you couldn't help him. He could have asked them for help. Definitely a creeper.
Thank you for the tip about engaging. Good to know. I usually yell, "Get away from me!" or "go away!" If someone keeps trying to engage after I've told them "no" in some way.
@@emilyfeagin2673 loll. Her MIL & creepy neighbor
@@emilyfeagin2673If you can kick a deadbolted door right out of its frame, which I have seen done, I doubt it would take much of a kick to take out a wooden screen door with a latched 🪝.
Not trying to be mean, I'm just saying.
I had something similar happen to me when I was young and home alone with 2 kids. A man came to my door and insisted he needed to use my phone. I wouldn't let him in my house and offered to let him use my cordless phone. This was almost 40 years ago. No cell phones. He refused. He was trying to get into my house. No car. He walked to my house and we lived in a rural area. Finally I shut the door and locked it on him. When I looked out the window he had gone over and layed down in my front yard like he was going to sleep. I ended up calling my uncle who lived about 4 miles from me and he came and chased him off. These types of things don't only happed to RVers. My husband was not home at the time. You always have to trust your instincts.
I was once approached outside my condo by a man pretending to be a cable employee, he had a badge hanging on his neck, no uniform. He expressed interest in my complex, and asked to see the inside of my condo, when I said no, he kept persisting saying he wanted to see the layout. I think he got the hint when I said, “I’m not letting you in.” You get a feeling about someone, especially if they’re so persistent. Trust your instincts, you did right. Good for you having protection.
Had that happen, man came to the door saying he worked for the utility company and needed to come inside to check something. Luckily my ex was visiting to mow the lawn and he told the man to show us his work order. Guy said "oh, its in our truck with my supervisor. I'll go get it." He never came back. Glad my ex was there as he was a big tall guy. I still wonder if I would have let him in. You have to be careful.
I saw a TikTok the other day that said “ Men will NEVER ask a woman for help” specially if there are other men around
Yes their arrogance won’t allow it
It's not arrogance, it's commonsense. Learn it.
So much for the brilliance of TikTok!
@@Jamestown23_common sense left the building a long while ago😮
@@jstsayn9133 Outside of the grocery store, men don't ask women for help. Men help women anywhere. When men knock on the door they will quickly retreat to the bottom of the steps so they don't frighten anyone that answers the door. Standing too close or asking for assistance when other men are around are all red flags.
Hey Robin. 👋🏾 I'm glad you decided to make this video. Please stop beating yourself up. Your gut is rarely wrong. I say Be weird. Be rude. Be safe. Your actions were appropriate.
💯Love this.
It doesn’t matter if you’re in a van or in a house, in a tent or on the street. Anyone can be attacked anywhere anytime. It’s about staying aware of your surroundings and being vigilant. Never live in fear. More often than not, nothing happens. Enjoy your travels and stay as safe as you possibly can. You’re doing every right.
She looks a little bit like Roseanne Arnold. Could have some guys interested in her and follow her. Not easy to be in an RV if single and female.
Yes, anyone can be attacked anywhere anytime, but most attackers typically prefer easy targets. The best protection I ever had was a cold attitude toward overly friendly men and a large dog with a hard stare. Her leash has an instant-release trigger on the handle that separated it from her collar with the press of a lever, something I was quick to mention in "casual" conversation.
My good girl was a trained security dog who knew she was "on duty" when Mama gave her the command. I'm convinced she saved my life several times and I'd give literally anything to have her back beside me, dropping a slobbery tennis ball in my lap and going crazy at the sight of a Dairy Queen (we did love our ice cream).
I think you are right about not living in fear. It can lead to paranoia. Also, it can be reflected in body language and conveyed to potential predators. In nature, predators are attuned to such displays of weakness as an opportunity. We see this early with high school bullies. "Walk tall and carry a big stick."
From a MARINE, ALWAYS trust your gut! I’m happy you trusted your gut, stood your ground, were ready to commit to violence if need be, and had the presence of mind to take photos after the encounter. As you said you got to comfortable/complacent which happens to us all at some point,but I’m happy it ended well for you, you learned from it, and putting measures into place to step up security.
Please keep pushing forward but safely.
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@@TheLordsClay I'm glad you found safety.
No man should be asking "directions" from a single woman in the dessert. Keep your guard up! You are amazing. Thank you for sharing.
Men don't ever ask for directions - Lol
I have done research in a dessert where we were separated by dunes while we searched our live traps. It was night work studying the only Kangaroo Rats living in Canada. The only male problem was the Bull that charged our dog at a large windmill water trough. I grabbed the dog and jumped into the water.
There are bad people everywhere so be wise, trust your gut and be ready to move fast.
You did great, trust yourself. Retired Officer here. The saying that there are no atheists in a foxhole. My saying is there are no anti-gun people when they are being raped,killed or beaten. Carry a 32 or 380 on you and know how to use it. Also OC (pepper spray) stashed in three or four places.
no guns.
@@roberttemple2521 Not your decision.
Also 1 or 2 pull siren on you at all times so it screams at high descibles so if your mouth is covered you can still get attention
I have a stun gun & personal alarm for just those types of situations. You are a wise person. Enjoy life & be prayed up! 🙏☝️✝️😊
My trainers are law enforcement. They are the best weapons trainers!
You have possibly saved a life with this video. And you've reminded thousands of people to trust their intuition. Thanks for keeping it real. This is why we are bird watchers!❤
I'M GLAD YOU'RE ARMED. NEVER LET FEAR DICTATE YOUR LIFE.
She said weapon not firearm.
@@DyreStraits being armed doesn't necessarily mean a gun either. Armed with a stun baton or knife are equally valid statements.
@@bruceforsman4812, I’d rather have a gun against a big guy than a knife.
@@DyreStraits I never refer to my firearm as a firearm, I call my little buddy Flash. With all the videos she posts, No one needs to know exactly how she will defend herself. As long as she is able to.... that's all that matters.
I've been driving a semi truck for 19 years, I am a female solo long haul driver, I was broke in on my first year, but since then, I learned a lot of ways to stay safe. You just have to be constantly watching your own back, and your surroundings. Stay safe.
There is no law that says you must be polite to uninvited strangers who come to your door or approach you. I keep all strangers several arm lengths away so I have time to react. Recently I had to raise my arms in the stop command when I creeper kept edging towards me while talking at me. He kept insisting I accept his free book to me that I told him I did not want. My other hand was on my pepper spray which is always displayed when out and about. I am small 5' 71yr old solo female traveler. When I raised my STOP hand and used my dog command voice of NO and displayed my pepper spray the big guy finally stopped in his tracks and backed away. I was alone in the campground at the time. Never error on the side of politeness when the hackles raise on the back of your neck.
Wow. Thanks for sharing that.
I have found that attitude works on most men/people. My go to is low, firm and gives off serial killer vibes. "not one step closer' repeated over and over like a broken record without changing volume or tone kinda makes them rethink their decisions. No smiles, no how are yah, etc. Just stare and repeat. Helps to have wide unblinking eyes too. It worked on this one homeless guy bee-lining me and my RV at a gas station and suddenly after 30 seconds of this, he decides the trash can needs to be searched. Don't get me wrong, I love helping people out and I do often but this guy was swooping in the second I pulled in like a had a pot of gold or something (a giant old ass rv).
Well Said Girl !!
I had similar in an urban setting. When I unvelcroed the spray the person backed away and said “you won’t need that”. I said that’s up to you. He continued away
I completely understand. I wasn't thinking. Years ago, in college, I was living in a little house on a highway. My boyfriend was trying to sell a woody station wagon that was parked out front. He really needed the money, and that distracted my thinking about safety. A pudgy, creeper in green Dockers came to the door to ask about the vehicle. I was dressed in white cutoffs and an adorable halter top. I did NOT let him in. Like an idiot, I told him my boyfriend was away, but if he waited a moment I would get pencil and paper to write down his number. When I turned around to head back to the front door, he was standing in the kitchen just behind me. His eyes were bulged out, and he meant me harm. I got out of that with some quick thinking, but he came back, and was beating on my front door yelling, "I KNOW YOU ARE IN THERE!!" I ran out the back door through briars and fences barefooted, and straight into a stranger's front door about a half mile down the road. I was terrified he knew I was running away because of dogs barking at me. The next day, I moved back home with my parents. Lucky to be alive.
So glad that you’re still here! Quick thinking and immediate action on your part saved your life no doubt.
Wow
Ted Bundy wasn't a pudgy creeper. Don't let the outer appearance fool you. Psychos come in all different packages.
He could have been a camper and a creep!
You got me on edge with that story. I hope it hasn't haunted you.
My sister is a full time, single RVer, and she gets “hit on” all the time at RV parks. I suggested she take a pair of my hubby’s size 12 old sneakers, to put outside the door when she camps and that did the trick. The other RVers are still friendly but it does serve as creeper repellant! If you don’t have any male family or friends with big feet, then go to a thrift store and buy the biggest, oldest sports shoes they have.
@christimartin8512…. 👌 👍… Really good idea!
I been doing the boots outside for years.
Excellent idea !! It would make a person think twice before doing something bad. Even placing a large dog bowl outside your doorway.
Very smart idea!!!
Great idea
I know it's a little different since I am a female in my 20s, but if I was ever asking someone for help and they gave any indication that they were uncomfortable or scared, I would immediately apologize and leave them alone. The fact that the dude was so persistent was very strange. I am glad that you kept your guard up with him and that you are safe.
Creepers come to sticks-n-brick house too. We had a 4 bedroom, 3 bath, brick style home with a back yard, pool, spa, and dog. I worked the 3rd shift. My husband left to fill my tank while I took a shower. While I was in the shower the bathroom door opened and the hair went up on the back of my neck. I just felt something was wrong. I soaped myself up and wrapped the wash cloth around my hand as I planned an escape route. After a while, when I felt it was safe, I peeked out of the shower curtain to close and lock the bathroom door. I used the other door to get into my bedroom and dress for work. I stayed very quiet. Suddenly there was a LOUD banging on my bedroom door. I opened the door to find my husband with an axe over his shoulder and ready to swing. He asked me if I was OK, which I was. Then told me someone had broken the from door handle off and left the door open. We called the police and they were unable to locate the person. I left for work late, but learned there are moments like this. It can happen to anyone, anywhere. Always have a plan. You did great!
Yes! have an escape plan ahead of time
My dad passed away in 1994, but in his life he owned several campers, He Always got campers with 2 doors. That way if someone knocked on one door, he would go to the other one, and open it, with a handgun in a holster, or even his hand, That way he had a little distance between who ever was at the other door, and where he was.
I already enjoy your Dad. He was a very smart man. My Dad passed away 2006. I think about him every day.
@@CB-vg1wq Good dads are always deeply missed. I'm a woman, but back in the mid 1970s when I was a teen, he showed me how to do things, so that I wouldn't be helpless and in need of man's help.
He wouldn't let me buy a car until I knew how to change a tire. He didn't want me stuck on some desolate Idaho highway having to wait for a man to come along and help me...as the wrong man might show up.
He taught me to hunt deer and elk, which meant the Hard work too, after that bullet left the rifle. The field dressing,, handing and skinning, and butchering.
I got my drivers license as age 14 (Idaho). and a few weeks later, he had me backing a Dodge Club Cab truck down a goat trail in the mountains, alone, so I could get to the bottom, then take another road to the other side of the ridge to pick him up.
We both had good opportunities to spot deer that way....he walking me driving.
Plus there was all the weekends of watching NASCAR Races. : )
Also when I turned 18 and moved out of the house, he gifted me with a .22 revolver for my home protection. I still have it...I'm 60 years old now. : )
Wow... did he ever shoot some innocent woman who came looking for sugar?
@@kwimms That is a distrustful/disrespectful comment towards my dad. : (
We (my parents and siblings) live in a Remote area of Idaho, and that the town. When you get into the mountains, it's even more remote. It's not like we ever parked in a KOA campground. And in the real wilderness...you can hear a vehicle from a distance.
But sometimes vehicles break down, and someone might be hiking out, see a campsite and knock on a camper door for HELP..and not for $#$%# sugar.
But too, there was always that slim chance that someone knocking might be up to no good. Better to be Prepared, than dead.
My dad kept his handgun holstered and on him during the day and at night, he kept it within reach. So in the later part of an afternoon, IF anyone should knock, there might be a good chance he already took his holster off, so he would have to hold his handgun when he opened the other door.
Often though, if we did get a visitor, it was usually someone who's truck we recognized...and they just stopped to say hi, before taking their load of firewood down to town.
Humans are not the only thing to be careful of...a bear can rip the door off a camper. Not too long a go, this happened to a guy camping. The bear killed him. On TH-cam there is a video about this, showing the damage that bear did. So, another good reason to have 2 doors and a firearm.
RUDE
girl, you are NOT the a-hole! ❤ he was being inappropriate. period. the second you said "no", he should have apologized and left! if you wanna feel better about yourself, i will tell you that i would've pulled that weapon out after i had to repeat my 'no'. js- you were very patient.
Right?? Here in a regular house I've had solar salesmen coming up and mostly once told no they are appropriate but I had one who wasn't. I also have several rottweilers (because they rock just all the way around for me and my life). When he didn't go after I told him no, I let the door open a little more to let my big male rotty stick his head through since he was glued to my side the whole time anyway. As he popped his head out and an leveled an intense rotty stare at the guy I said with more sterness, I asked you to leave, and my dog is not pleased, am I going to have to release him? That was enough...he got his butt in the wind very quickly. No means NO
Glad you are safe and trusted our gut! Happy and safe travels!
Thank you, Robin. We need doors on our rigs that have windows with screens, and deadbolts. I’m also full-time, solo, female nomad for 9 years and it was the best decision I ever made! No one will scare me away from the life I built and love either. Appreciate you, Sister Nomad!! 💞
Well, I live in a semi-bad neighborhood that has a large fenced-in backyard for my large dog. I have a junky wooden screen door from my kitchen to this backyard and needed some type of lock, so I could get airflow as well. So, I found a lock that is called a "Safety Gate Hook" and there is a lever that tucks in on the hook with a hole so you place a lock through it. So, no one can bust through the screen and release that hook, it's slightly heavy and well-built. I keep the key on the wall near the door. Then I can leave that room feeling safe. It's sold at Home Depot and Walmart!
I got a 28 ft. RV. Door on the side. No one could see I was alone. My neighbor gave me a pair of Men’s Work boots to put out front.
I went across country by myself with my 3- dogs. I had 3- strange experiences. Most Campers are the Salt of the Earth❤️ Trust your Gut Instincts and Share your locations like you said! Don’t be Afraid🥰
Boots are a great idea.
Men’s dirty work boots were used by me at my house. I have been single for decades.
My bestie always brings mens work boots when we camp!
So, are you saying that women still depend on men, even when they don't have one?
As a 76 year old woman, I travel cross-country annually, taking several months to meander through different states, exploring places I hadn't seen, visiting relatives & friends. I've gone to Alaska and every other state on my own and enjoyed every moment, setting my own schedule. Ramble on,, Girls!
You did the right thing keeping your arm raised and hand near your weapon. You did the right thing by NOT being friendly. Anyone who knows campers that do this full time will tell you, many campers are not friendly when first encountered. They are on guard. As it should be. And that inner sense of danger is always correct.
Iv'e never met an unkind rv'er.
A well trained dog is an excellent supplement to any security system, door locks, weapons, etc. I am sorry you had this interaction.
Trusting people, unfortunately, are targets. Shame on him if he was a camper. Why didn’t he approach the tent couple or a man? You did well trusting your gut and acting tough.
Yep on approaching a man, since there was men there, that should always be a male default if it is available. Just like I'd expect a woman to approach another woman for help and not some strange man.
@@MyPronounIsGoddessher door was open; he could see!
@@MyPronounIsGoddesseither he was watching or he didn’t until he got up to the door.
@@MyPronounIsGoddess it may not have mattered to him whether it was a woman or a man. Some people aren't picky
Shame on him for approaching an RV with TWO chairs out, duh. DUH.
Y'know.... This could happen at a house... like sticks and bricks... some shady AF guy rambles into your yard while you're cooking with music on... and you have the door open... suddenly there... Whatever BS comments you get - this is just the life long life as a woman alone in any situation... husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/roomate at work, and there's the creepy guy... I think it awesome that other campers were aware and nearby. If anything - get a dog.
Many years ago my elderly parents were held up in their own home. It was a safe neighborhood but this man obviously saw that my parents were older snd decided they would be a good target to rob. Thankfully after they gave him money he left. But he came in through an unlocked screen door which my parents didn’t normally leave unlocked. They were going in and out of the back door which is when he came. Needless to say they never let that happen again.
A dog makes a huge difference! Even a small one
Sometimes I put... something in front of the door to trip someone up if they're trying to get in uninvited.
Yes Robin, Get a dog. Any dog. Even a small Yorkie would have let you know before the guy was within 15 feet of your door. A bigger dog would have gone thru the screen. I don't have a dog but I will be looking for one right now. I'm going to name him MIKE.
@@ajf5823 I so agree!
Now you see Robyn, no one has yelled at you. We are all on your side and are very happy that you are safe. The guy was either an idiot or up to no good or both. Keep up the good work and thanks for sharing your encounter. We all needed to hear it to keep ourselves safe too.
The fact you're posting this video and not in some ditch somewhere means you probably did the right thing. Not a RV'er but subbed!
And why didn't he ask the couple parked next door to help him if he really needed help? You did the right thing.
Because he didn't want to steal a tent ... he wanted an Airstream to pull with his truck
@@jake8077 So he could go camping on lot 31...
I thought the same thing. If he couldn’t find out from her, why didn’t he go over and talk to the people who were already standing there?
Weapons: Wasp spray. Shoots 20 feet and the stream shouldn't blow back on you like spray might. I keep one by my bed and by the front door of my house. Also, a dog is a good idea. Stay safe!
Wasp spray you could be sued in civil court. Pepper spray is designed for self defense.
You were NOT an asshole, even if he was a legit camper from down the road. His actions were creepy. Any normal gentleman would have seen your unease, apologized and excused himself. You did well. Congratulate yourself for handling an uneasy situation and allow that to bolster your courage to continue your journey. I'm glad you are safe. Thanks for sharing.
You did tight Robin. Go girl. Your instincts kicked in. Glad you are OK.
A dog would be one of the best companions, her being on the road alone.
Also a dog could out you when you don't want anyone knowing you are around our inside your ccamper
@WhaleCommunicators : If your dog is obedience trained , your dog won't out you ... instead , that dog will be quiet & assess the situation , look to you for direction .
If things go wrong for you , then your dog will act .
I speak from experience . I also have good cattle dogs - no yappy, icky Boston Terrier , ankle biter type dogs .
Just my opinion . Good luck to all who read this .😊 9:26
@@brooksequine7621 Agreed. Not just "a dog" but the right dog, properly trained. The logistics of caring for a dog on the road might be really hard to manage but worth considering.
Yeah, I agree. When I’m by myself on the road or at home men usually back off when they see the size of my baby right behind me trying to get a good look at them.
@@brooksequine7621 How dare you insult Boston Terriers, I've had 5 Boston's, they are not icky ankle biters as you say, they are loving lil' critters, they are precious & can be protective to their owner, you just got to train them right & I'm not meaning any pro training either, recently I also had a precious French bulldog Pug mix that I saved her from a life of 18 months of being in a cage & being neglected also right now I have a Rat Terrier & she's one hell of a guard dog, she's very protective of me.
NO! NO! YOU SHOULD NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT ANYTHING!! Especially being unfriendly to a sketchy guy. I'm glad you're safe.
Amen!!!
Definitely shady AF.
We used to use simple hook and eyes to secure our camper screen door, one at the top, one at the bottom, finding that it made it much more secure with 2 points rather than only 1 by the lock mechanism.
The safety lies in allowing you time to get a bigger weapon and/or make a call for help.
Creativity RV, About your screen door, find a metal fab shop that has a laser table, to cut out a stainless steel (304) perforated sheet to fit your door frame, which can be pop riveted or rivnuts with screws in place. The perforated sheet is available in different hole sizes and staggered holes or not. I would use 18 gauge or lighter 19 gauge. This over your bug screen, and two sliding bolts 12”” from top and bottom to secure the door. If you current door frame is flimsy a new one could be fabricated out of stainless steel square tubing. You can buy perforated sheet from McNichols or McMasters or Online Metals.. I would use a single sheet to cover the door frame.
Good video; thank you. A no-tech security assist to consider is to strategically place a mirror within your line of sight by the sink so that you can see someone at your door while your back is turned to the door.
Beautiful idea!
Excellent idea
Just like at the ATM…
I always taught my kids: "Listen to your little voice. If something doesn't feel okay, then it's NOT okay." You may have second-guessed yourself after the fact, but you listened to your little voice during the whole encounter. Thank goodness! Hinky-much guy for sure! Thanks for keeping things real.
I got a dog for you. He's a back seat driver and navigator. Good intuition about strangers and appreciates a fine pair of sunglasses. Makes anybody think twice about approaching your bubble... He's at your local shelter...better hurry though
Get a protective dog. It’s like an alarm system. They know someone’s there before you do
I agree with a dog. Wanderlust Tails has a big dog as she travels alone. Plus dogs make great company!
Exactly! When my children were babies a local police officer presented to a group of women. He said he'd never had a problem with breaking and entering in a house with a dog.
I agree 100% I usually have a dog or two, and touch wood, in 60 years I have never been broken into, my last pooch even kept the missionaries away, more than once I've been the only person on my street that didn't get broken into, my boys had views about folks even knocking on my door when I wasn't home and 80 pounds of angry dog hitting the other side of the door who's lock you are picking can put a real damper on the endeavour.
My dog would have barked his head off. He doesn't like men and tends to scare them off. He really sizes people up when we go for walks, too.
I think you handled this very well. Yes, trust your gut always. Thanks for sharing!
I solo camp too. My 50 lb and not so friendly alarm system goes with me every where. People learn very quickly not to approach me or my vehicle.
Amen!!!
Exactly this. A big dog is a lone woman's best friend.
@@Retrograde_cat ya, who said "man's best friend"? They are WOMEN's Best friend! 😉I also have taken in a stray cat fairly recently. He follows me on walks, and has proven that he would protect me if needed! A cat leaping out of nowhere with claws outstretched is pretty helpful too.
I'm really impressed by your immediate assesment of the threat though. No one can have perfect situational awareness all the time.
Good on you for being strong and letting him know you weren’t a victim. First line of defense is your strong confident demeanor.
Should have kept that big knife in your hand and visible while you talked to him!
my living alone elderly mother ..had this item near the front door ..it would come alive when it detect someone knocking at the door ..and make a dog barking sound ..So many people would think she had a dog inside ..it work..
So cool I should get this for my mother in law
My favorite job was as a delivery driver. I worked from 2am until noon or so. I drove into some sketchy areas and never had an issues. I had a drink try to get in the cab of the truck one night. The doors were locked. I was in the back unloading freight. He said , “ I’m going to get in here and you can take me home” I said I have a piece of exhaust pipe here that says I won’t He left
I learned a long time ago single women don’t need to be nice to anyone. I make no apologies
I have been on the road alone a lot. I’ve been able to handle any issues that came up
I was solo in a house truck. Has a car full of men roll up on me at 2am. Rocking my truck and hitting the sides. Scared the hell out of me! I woke up and yelled "🤬 off!!!" My chihuahua and Maltese both woke up barking. The men took off. But they had their lights off so I didn't get a number plate or a look at any of them. Oh scared me big time
People and especially women - I think this goes without saying - NEVER EVER open your door at night to anyone - even a police officer. I'll hand off something by smaller window - but not a regular window. Don't allow them access in and if I can avoid it I won't let them see me so if they don't already know - I'm a lone woman in this RV.
Nope definitely a creeper! If there were people who were outside a few bushes away and he wasn't talking to them, he wasn't needing directions.
Totally agree to trust your gut!
Good for you trusting your gut. I too am a solo traveler. 8 years now luckily with no incidents. I also need to research a good screen door lock as I most always have my main door open and plexiglass on my screens so I can see out and not feel so "trapped" inside. However, I am not as brave as you are to go boon docking. Thank you for posting this as I too need to be a lot more inciteful as to my surroundings. I am way to trusting. Keep it up and continue to enjoy this wonderful lifestyle!!!
I forgot to add in my previous comment that I saw an interview once with A retired thief. He said the three top things that would deter him from breaking into a home where a security guard, an alarm system, and a loud barking dog. He said if he approaches a house, and the dog is barking like crazy, he will just turn around and find a house where there is no dog.
so use a dog bark recording
@@twilitthey'll know
Um -she's' living in an RV, and staying at campsites. Alarm system, security guard, barking dog outside? That isn't how it works while camping.
That's true ......My Bella is quite loud, lol😅
As a solo man, that situation wouldn't make me think twice about safety. Which only makes me realize that it must be harder to do this as a single woman.
It wouldn't make you think twice?
It would me.
@@floydiandreamscapes5145 agree!
We know we are prey.
@@osajohnson1957physically weaker so must be smarter.
You were not wrong to be on the defense. I had a guy come up to me in a Walmart parking lot once, even though there were other people around. He was asking if I could help him, I was alone. I was just putting the cart away in the corral and was able to make it in my car and immediately locked the doors before he came right up to my window asking for help. I told him I couldn’t help and immediately drove away. He looked creepy and frowned as soon as he saw me lock the doors. I have never felt so scared before. I know exactly how you must have felt. Stay safe out there.
I know someone who got leered at by some guys in a truck as she was putting her kid into her car. Her gut feeling was really bad so she immediately abandoned her cart and her car, snatched up her kid and ran back into the store. Some employees waited with her and then escorted her out. I'm so thankful they took her seriously. The guys got caught later for trafficking. I thought she was genius because I think I would've jumped in the car in which case they can just follow you
@AbbeyStorm that's horrifying!
I like that you put your arm up towards your weapon. A cop once gave me a good tip. If someone approaches, quickly move your hand into your pocket so they will think you might be going for a gun.
Girlfriend, I'm so proud of you for being honest!! Most don't want to be honest about things that happen. They dont want to scare people. With people like me who have such a passion for camping, that is not going to stop us. You are helping us to be more prepared and aware . Your wisdom for us first-timers is awesome. Thank you so much
This is EXACTLY WHY I advised my little sister to invest in an electric fence charger and cordon off the area around her door. One quick flip of the switch and any intruders attention is diverted away from her onto a continuous 80,000-volt current.
Very smart! Hope she sees this
LOL - I'm going to look into this!
Confabulation.
He was drawn to the Air$tream. Finding a woman in it was just a bonus. I heard they had bear resistant screen doors now. I don't know if they fit Airstreams but that's the one I'd look for. You're such an inspiration Robin, thank you!
My thought also.
When I was a single college student i got my dog and SHE was amazing in alerting me to anything and everything. She did my runs with me, biking with me, and slept in my room always. If she growled, i alerted. If she avoided people, i avoided them. U stay safe and thank you for sharing your adventures including the scary stuff. God bless. Ring doorbell cams or those battery operated ones that at least show your perimeter while parked. And girl: knife in hand carries some weight when chit chatting too. TRUST THAT GUT!
Situational awareness is the biggest KEY to safety, and you were absolutely right to trust your gut and be less than friendly. Installing cameras and motion sensors sounds like a very good idea. You are also right to not let this incident scare you off the road, but rather view it as a lesson to improve your security. Stay safe, vigilant and keep on keeping on! For many of us truly enjoy your videos and adventures.
I'm 68 years young and I'm telling you he was no camping dude! He might be a TH-cam stalker or who knows! Always, always always trust your instincts sweetie and buy a fake doorbell camera with a flashing light from Dollar Tree or Dollar General (not sure which store sells these). Why knows how long he had been watching you thru that door. You had covering angels watching you and I pray they continue to watch over you.
I was with you until you started casting spells at the end there...
Hello first time here! I'm a scaredy-cat at heart😱 😨 🙀 so hearing this story caused some consternation.
I think you have street smarts and responded appropriately. The would be prowler must have perceived it and moved on. It isn't good to live and fear but plz be prepared.
@@cartoonraccoon2078just keep that in your head and translate it into language that works for you, like… “you got really really really lucky, luck was on your side that day.”
Coexist
I am an older, married woman, but still travel alone at times. But I learned as a young mother who had to travel more than 1,000 miles each way with two young children to trust my gut and my Guardian Angels! I am so proud of you, Robin!
Why on earth would a married woman travel alone?
@qso3566 I traveled alone because of necessity.
Glad you took care of the guy with your attitude and indication that you were ready to meet force with some type of force.
As for locking the screen door, you might be able to accomplish it at the hinges rather than the lock by pinning them together. You might be able to get a welder to tack weld a small piece of aluminum tubbing of equal length to each side of your hinges so that when closed you could put something like a large nail into both when lined up making the hinges unable to open. I would do this on both so as to minimize the flexing of the frame. The same technique can be applied to the door and the door frame along the edges above and below the door handle about a foot in each direction and would only need to be about 4” - 6” long for a nail on a rod with a loop bent to serve as a pull. Of course, the problem with securing your screen door is that when an attempt to enter fails to open it, a violent person could simply begin tearing the screen and middle frame out, but that would be valuable time for you to get to your gun (I hope you have trained with a hand gun or a tactical shotgun).
A second thought that I had to repel someone from your front door with it opened or closed might be to have a can of Bear Spray rigged to fit against an aperture through your wall that might even have a manifold with a few openings aimed at the correct angle so as when you sprayed it with creat a cloud that hits an attacker from the waist to above a 6’-6” hight man to ensure that you get a good coverage on him repulsing him and giving pause to anyone with him. And you would require a large spray container holding multiple uses.
Hope these are helpful.
Be safe.
The old professor
Live free or die!!!
Death ☠️ to all tyrants, all tyrants foreign and domestic!!!
Pedophiles too!!!
No Crap………….
You’re alive and it doesn’t matter how you treated him you have no obligation to anyone but you
I love how you handled the situation. Never beat yourself up for putting your safety ahead of being “nice.”
I'm so glad you made this video, thank you so much for all your wisdom and bravery! 🙏
I'm surprised the tenters didn't say, "Hi, Everything OK"
Knowing you were alone
Several years ago my husband found a ad for a RV for sale about 1.5 hours away. We get almost to the small town my husband I asked my husband if he had the address for the RV? He said no, I’m suppose to call this number and he is taking me out to where he has the RV stored. I said let me guess he told you to bring cash, hubby said yep, thankfully when I called the telephone number he never would pick up. I told my husband I believe it was a set up for you to be robbed. It was a quiet 1.5 hr ride home, either my husband was mad he didn’t get to see the RV or that he knew I was right.
I think men have less of an intuition because they are too used to be a threat just by existing. Notice how many women who travel solo use men’s boots or shoes as a deterrent.
But men can be victims too and when it happens, they don’t seem to ever expect it
Way to go Robin. The door was locked, you followed your initial gut instinct, put your hand near your weapon and applied situational awareness. I loved that you looked over toward the tent campers to determine whether you had any backup. Sending you good karma girl!
There are so many dogs needing a home. Rescue a small dog and enjoy the companionship and the early warning system.
I think she is safer with the motion detector. Dogs have to go out, even when you want to stay in, and people can figure out your routine. A small dog won't deter anyone.
@@shastavi I disagree. A small dog is as good an early warning system as any. They don't take up much space. Don't eat a lot. Provide excellent companion ship.
But if you prefer a big dog, get a big dog.
Either will alert you when they hear ANYTHING out
Of place.
An alarm can fail. It can be disconnected. Unless you have a perimeter alarm, which requires going outside to create, then, an intruder will get very close before an alarm goes off.
@@patryott2468or a big dog😢! Namely a German Shepherd, there are a lot of them needing a second chance, because of people not doing their homework on this breed. They are loyal, and very protective. As well as very intelligent, and trainable. They are aware of someones intuitions as well.
Shut it! Solo women are so sick of people recommending dogs as if it's like getting some inanimate weapon you don't have to feed, walk, love and take to the vet. It's a child that never grows up. EVERYONE knows they exist so I don't even know why people suggested it as if solo women have no idea that dogs exist and that they can get one. Solo women who don't already have dogs don't want one!
Always trust your inner gut beautiful lady. You did the right thing and thank God he went as that is so scary. The fact that he was trying to look inside is so creepy. Try get a few cameras and connect it to your mobile internet. Keep safe dear lady. 💕💕
You may have just saved someone's life with this information. Thank you for bringing awareness and some great tips on how to handle yourself in a situation like this. Women ARE too nice, and that is often our downfall. Sending you love all the way from Nova Scotia.
I was thinking the same thing - maybe one of us will be more vigilant because she shared. 👏
You had every right to act the way you did. Any one truly lost when someone says they can’t help them say sorry to bother you and then leave to find someone that can help them. He was trying to play you and was up to no good. And the weird way he was dressed may have been to obscure tattoos or other identifying characteristics and distract from noticing his features to identify him. So glad you listened to yourself, we all should do the same.
You absolutely did the right thing. He may have been a real camper, but if there were people outside, he could’ve stayed in his truck and asked for directions from there. No need to get out and creep up on you while you were in your trailer. My husband and I camp a lot, and we would never go up to a campsite and knock on a trailer door, never! The only time we ever talk to other campers is if they are outside and accessible.… This is why so many women would choose a bear over a man 😅
Exactly 😢
Thank you for making us ALL THINK about our surroundings.
Im so happy you stood up for yourself!
You go girl!!
Main thing is, you are safe, yes this video needed to be made, people need to see this, be healthy and safe !
One of my first attempts to camp overnight was on BLM land near Saddle Mountain (AZ). One of the Rangers came by to chat. Told me that if he were me (single woman) that he would move on from where I was camped. There were “permanent residents” there. I didn’t question the Ranger, I moved on.
What's 'BLM land'? I think that term came up in that 'Nomadland' movie, too.
@@Wary_Of_Extremes BLM is Bureau of Land Management. They manage public lands.
@@Wary_Of_Extremes Bureau of Land Management
@@celesteg-g2684 ty. I looked it up. Is it generally land where people can set up camp for free? I'm not in the U.S. Just curious.
@@Wary_Of_Extremes Government owned land. It is free to camp on.
Thanks for sharing this story! It was good to hear the tent campers had your back, that's camping!
Stories like these keeps everybody alert.
On the lighter side......
My wife's family, her father was career Air Force, toured Europe for 45 days in a VW bus.
When they returned home in 1959 he bought a pick up and a slide in camper. They would not use any campgrounds or state parks, parking lots, gas stations, even just wide spots on the road .
Their first trip they stopped on a "Wide spot", late at night and went to sleep, her little sister was already asleep. Later, little sister work up, grabbed her sister and in a loud whisper said,
"There's a shadow on the door,someone looking in!!!!" She woke her father while getting a skillet out of the stove, he grabbed his " little friend", they are all wisperring, scared to death......
Her father crep to the door, butt naked..... threw the door open... The shadow was a no parking sign!
We laughed about that for years!
Jofus364 😂😂😂😂😂
🤦🏼♀️omg !!! 🤣🤣🤣
I freaking LOVE you. You are NOT an asshole. You were smart, and your gut is never wrong!!
Robin going with your gut instinct is the best you can do. As a 57 year old woman I admire you for being a lone traveler that shares the story! We all have different life circumstances and shouldn't judge others. You are amazing! Stay safe! 💪💪🙏
would you think differently of her if you were another age?
As a woman who suffered serious abuse as a child, I am never ever alone any more except in my home. I won’t go anywhere in public alone. If I don’t have someone with me I don’t get out. I just stay home. I really resent that reality but for me I will never have the same freedoms that men do to move about whenever or wherever I wish. I’m thinking about buying a gun because I’m so fed up with feeling like a prisoner. I greatly admire women who have the courage to travel alone. It’s something I’d never feel safe to do. I’m so glad you are ok.
You might try therapy as well so that you're not trapped for a long time.
Please find a good friend and get out with them…i understand your fear of being out and about alone !
I hope you can get counseling to allow you to overcome your fear. Maybe find a group of women who do day trips/ weekend hikes, etc. I hate to see women missing out on such a wonderful aspect of life.
You absolutely need a firearm.
You'll also need to train with it regularly. You are your own first responder! Stay safe❤
This confirms my desire to have my kitchen on the door side so that my back is never to the door!!