Hindz are you giving away tea? I need some for real. I’m going through my journey and I am know to be a tea lover. I am also completely nervous about starting my TH-cam channel.
Peace and blessings, could you put your daily affirmation uploads on this TH-cam platform? Just curious as I have a positive dailies playlist I'd love to add your words and messages to🤗🤗
Quitting Instagram helped me love myself more because I’m no longer feeling pressured to keep up with trends, comparing myself to others and crating fake realities. I take pictures for fun and print them and make photo albums like we used to do back in the day haha. Someone needs to hear this: You don’t HAVE to use social media. It is a choice. Namaste 🙏🏽
@@zahniyahbrannon4451 I have an IG but I don't really pay attention to it. I got less than 50 followers & I am private. I don't try to keep up appearances. I am on the REAL side of IG that UPlift one another. I follow @HINDZ there too.😎💛
I know this was posted almost a year ago but I needed this today.. I am in a very bad place. I am truly so hard on myself and I don't want to be here and I know what "I need to do" but it's hard to start this change, It's so much easier to just be in this place instead of getting better. It's easier to make excuses than to get up and do the work. I just need prayer. Whoever comes across this, just pray for positivity for me.. I would really appreciate it. Thank you
I'm also in this place. I know what will make me better but i need to work hard to get things right. I'm way out of my schedule. And it's okay. Don't beat yourself up for it. Just do 1% daily. Even if you tried to wake up 5mins early, it counts. We will get there. I pray for you. I believe in you.
Prayers being sent your way!!❤️❤️ please seek help from a therapist/doctor. I have had depression for 20 years. Three suicide attempts later, I’m here. Life is hard, but beautiful. I’m sure you have people you wouldn’t want to leave behind. They love you and I love you!💕
Please choose to love yourself. If you make even one tiny change, like working on a goal for 1 minute, praise yourself because it’s a big deal. It really is. Even if you don’t do anymore for weeks, you still deserve love and kindness. No one knows any one else’s internal struggles. What helps for me is to hug myself, rubbing my hands on my arms and gently touching my face. Meds can help too. Prayers of love, hope and strength to you.
Accomplishing a goal gives a boost of confidence... Just start...I'm kinda here . Some days..not sad but stagnanted...I had to tell God sorry & REPENT for being idle... He gave me a warning dream... Shirking me what will happen if I continue...it's a scripture in Proverbs.. like I lived it out in a dream... It's sinful to not use our gifts...i don't wanna be that person. Im still making changes... It got me thinking & moving frfr... Good is so good to us. The way He communicates, you can tell He really cares... Especially when No one else is being supportive.
To everyone reading this, I pray that you will be the first person in your family to be a multi-millionaire. May you use your infinite wealth to focus on your mental/physical health, and to heal your family, generational trauma and bring joy and good health to your family and friends. I pray for that, for me and for you.
When I said to myself "I'm sorry, I love you"... honestly i couldn't help but cry.. the sensation/emotion that took over me was so overwhelming and powerful. I felt that.
I beat myself up sometimes for not being social enough but I'm an introvert and need my alone time to recharge. I need to forgive myself for being myself, wow how profound our mind/body/soul connection is
I feel like with social media it's so hard not to compare yourself to other women. I'm working on forgiving myself and understanding that I am enough and I don't need to look like these other women to be enough.
You’re uniquely hand carved!!! Beautiful and enough in your most natural form 🧡🧡🧡 As I say this to you, I take it in myself. I struggle with wearing my natural hair so I feel you deep! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
Resonate for sure I dont watch tv or news or dont do magazine's but do these type vidios utube to use others life stories and journeys to help me on my jerney
I had a dear friend tell me, “At the end of the day whether your day was as you intended to be or not, it was productive. It was productive to your existence. If whatever you did brought you happiness of sorts then it was productive.”
I love that advice so much. one way colonialism/white supremacy has corrupted our relationship to reality is the myth that if people are not being visibly productive or if people stop producing/consuming and take a moment to breathe and do nothing and slow down, that those people are useless. it is such a damaging notion and it is becoming a radical act of self/universal love to just stop for a moment and take off the pressure to produce and just be.
@@dariusparker1652 I agree. We need to produce from a place of creativity- that’s usually how most masterpieces get create- the state of sacred inspiration arises as we do the works but in this society we don’t listen to our body enough. we’ve gotta give our ears back to our body. when will we value genuine learning over performance, power struggles and ego advancements?
Some soothing words to speak into yourself, to tell your inner child : “time IS working in your highest favour”, “I hear you”, “you’re in safe hands / you are safe”, “you are loved and appreciated”, “I see you”, “we’ll get through this”, “you got this”
To whoever is reading this, you are beautiful, a one in a million beautiful spirit. You are unique and light. You are powerful, love yourself & spread love. I hope you are doing well ❤️ stay blessed!
I got rejected from Med school today (I’m 19 from the UK) and I’ve been beating myself up so so hard because I’ve had to work 100x harder than everyone to even get a glimpse to be in this position and it’s just gone. The interviews keep replying in my head and it’s like I’m at a point in my life that I’m so lost and disappointed in myself because I could’ve done better or like I’m just so shit at everything and I can’t find myself doing anything else. The fact that I stumbled across this guy at 12am in my tears has helped me to take it easy and forgive myself and learn from it. I have one last chance to get in and I’m praying that whatever God wants me to do he will show me. Thank you Hindz
I know it's especially hard to not define yourself through external things at your age, when goals and achievements are all that everyone talks about. But there is a whole other level to life you're allowed to relax in. You're allowed to feel at the end of the day that your worth is completely separate from the rat race. And to be happy.
I’m a late bloomer as I am 33 years old and over the last few years I’ve made it a personal mission to get to know myself, start the healing process and to get control of my life, I’ve always been my toughest critic which lead to depression and a life of worrying what other’s thoughts of me , instead of focusing on what I thought of me and I want to change that
What made me cry, was when you said ‘If you have a hard time forgiving yourself, I forgive you.’ That really opened my eyes. Give thanks🤲🏾 JahBless, Hindz🤎
it’s hard to forgive someone who hasn’t apologized, so hearing “i’m sorry, i love you” from myself was actually so powerful. ive beaten myself up and tried to forgive myself but actually hearing i’m sorry i love you from my own mind filled me with self love ❤
I’m forgiving myself for constantly involving myself with men that do not reflect my self worth. I’m forgiving myself for not loving myself enough to know that I deserve better. I’m forgiving myself for disrespecting my own self. Thank you Hindz..
I love this. So peaceful, so needed. A reminder to be gentle. One thing I have a very confusing time with is being able to learn from failures when the failure is subjective. For example, in relationships, when someone will react to you and your choices differently depending on who it is. And if the outcome is hurtful or doesn't take me where I want to be, and I want to adjust to learn more for next time, the "next time" is another person who will most likely have different perspectives and wouldn't need me to adjust, necessarily. Hope that makes sense. It brings me so much pain to not know myself well enough to just "BE" and let others adjust around me, and find who fits. Sometimes I can be vulnerable or anxious and people respond well, and other times they don't. I don't really want to be anxious or have that affect relationships negatively. And often I dislike being overly vulnerable with people, too, so I try to keep it light and low pressure. But then not doing so also feels like a detriment to my truth of character and who I want to be and the intimacy I want. Unsure how much to learn from and how much to accept in myself.
You should 200% do meditation and positive affirmation videos! You have the most gorgeous relaxing voice and amazing words that resonate so deeply! Sending love and blessings!
Struggling with forgiving myself for poor choices that led to other poor choices forgiving myself for blaming myself all of the time and forgiving myself for putting to much pressure on myself and not enjoying the present moment. As it’s all we really have ❤️
I’m learning that I care too much about what other people think. Always have. Because I will forever continue meeting people. Some of them will like me, others won’t. None of this can I control. This means I’m bound to an endless supply of suffering because I hitch my self worth to both groups. Practicing detachment is HARD
I've been so hard on myself for taking a leave from law school, and I've been trying to gather the courage to go back and climb that mountain. I have a beautiful girl waiting for me there, and I truly do love the law. I know that love conquers all. Thank you HINDZ!
If you're reading this remember that you are beautiful and you are capable of anything you want in life. Keep your head up and go at your goals with full steam and positive energy. The energy you give out is the energy you will attract!
I got off of work around 3am so upset with myself for not finishing up my work on time, I’m a new nurse and it was my first day working alone and I was so upset with myself and frustrated and kept questioning if nursing was for me. In my mind i gave up and wanted to tell them I wasn’t returning the next day. I finally got through the night and as I was driving home I asked God to just let me know I can do this and give me strength to keep pushing and not give up! I’ve never seen any of your videos before but you were on my recommendation list and through curiosity I strolled through your videos and came across this one! With this being the first video I’ve seen from you I couldn’t help but subscribe, you’ve really opened my eyes and helped me to realize it’s only the beginning and with practice I’ll master this profession; when you told us to tell ourselves “I’m sorry, I love you” I looked in the mirror and repeated it and couldn’t help but cry.. I’m always so hard on myself and that’s something I really would like to work on. Thank you so much for this video, can’t wait to check out more of your videos, the positivity definitely shines through and I need all of the positive energy in my life at this moment!! Stay blessed 🙌🏾
I'm a junior 2 in nursing school and i know it's not by coincidence I came across your comment. I know the feeling, I get so worked up at clinical because I feel so lost and I question myself a-lot too. I know it's so different when your own your own practicing but just know you are a great nurse, everyone you touch or even come into contact with, you leave a lasting imprint on them. A true healer. I wish you nothing but comfort within nursing, more self love and appreciation. Your doing GREATTT sweetie✨
I’ve never felt so uplifted , welcomed, and understood on any TH-cam channel. You’re a blessing to this universe! So are all of you watching and reading this 🙏🏽
I’ve had the hardest last two weeks being in college. I am late on all my finals and I have been so hard on myself for not completing my assignments on time to the point where I couldn’t focus and actually do them. I really needed to hear this because part of me wants to let go and forgive myself but the bully in me seems to be so loud. Thank you for giving me the head space to hear the more compassionate side of myself. I forgot what he sounded like.
24. Homeless. Failing in life. Trying to catch my dreams. I just want to say thank you, to this video and to the people typing and read comments. I hope I can make friends with all of you one day. Good luck with your future Endeavors!
Sometimes life will put your back against a wall...to make you decide to get stomped, or come out swinging..no one likes to suffer, but I have to admit, I'm most on my game when things get rough...looking back I have to thank every bully, they gave me a fire.. Even now feeling low, I can remind myself, I have been through worse..so much, what's this, compared to how far I've come??! Staying this now & encouraging someone else...it pepped my Spirit too 😁 We got this... Sometimes we need the eye of the Tiger and a firm smack on the rump. Beat your chest..and attack that negative thinking. Winners may fall, but never quit! Hugging you 🥰
So happy I found this video. I have been so incredibly hard on myself for so many years. I finally am being confronted with my lack of self love. Thank you for your gentle energy, I have been missing gentleness in my life. deep breaths, thank you.
I was a truly bad man. I lost my family for being a belligerent drunk. I decided to change, I found that I drank and got angry because I wasn't allowing myself to be happy sober. Sometimes I don't know if I deserve to forgive myself, but I'm trying anyway. I want to be a good father. I want to be with the woman I love again some day. And I want to find joy in my life as it is. I'm so sorry to the world.
I'm having a hard time expressing myself, and unlearning being harsh on myself and others for not doing stuff. I'm trying to be more kind to others, and let my gaurd down. It would be so lovely to have a tribe, to express myself without being so critical..
I got teary because Ive become such a perfectionist that its weighing so much on me.. And I didn't know how to release. Im thankful for ur video and content.. I feel so much better after this. Im here for the energy 🙏 with Love from South Africa.
I've been struggling with trying to escape the shame and regret I feel. I feel this from a situation I was in with a man (literally from the tinder fuck) and it was toxic and unhealthy. I still struggle with feeling like I've been used and worthless, but it's been a continuous growth (and your channel has helped a lot recently!). It's hard to escape his face in my mind. Every time I see it, I feel everything I felt before. I want to feel like myself again without constantly comparing myself to other people.
My friend sent me this video and im thankful for it, but being hard on myself isnt my only problem cause i feel so purposless as well so it connects with being hard on myself and it mix it, and i hate myself for that
definitely needed to hear this right now. especially being 19 and in college right now, it’s so difficult to forgive myself for not living up to my peers and their expectations. i’m trying to find my motivation, but at the same time trying to find inner peace and love for myself. you’re helping me realize that those things exist within the same space, thank you for your kind words ❤️❤️
It's not Wednesday but this can't wait... I recently left a 6year relationship and was hurt because he jumped immediately to the girl that he's been talking to during our relationship. Fast forward 4months later, I released him and the pain and hurt 💔 I no longer will speak from a place of pain. I will speak with strength and inner love and forgiveness. My energy is renewed ✨ I have blessings overtaking me!
This is especially a problem for ambitious individuals. We always have the highest standards for ourselves, and when we don't meet our targets we get in a rut
Your videos have helped me so much I took a break from social media recently because I compare myself to people and get depressed about where I’m at in life and listening to your videos have helped me love and forgive myself and tell myself “I am growing even more every day and it’s not a race” and that’s helped me a lot
I'm so thankful for everyones comment. I've been struggling with self confidence during last month and lately I've descovered that my ego was trying to keep me suffering with things that are no longer in my life! I love when we all are connected, and your thoughs are mine! Blessings!
I repeated "I'm sorry I love you" so many times to myself and at first my voice was so firm and disingenuous, then I just hugged myself and started crying... I just had a moment of emotional release and fully realised how hard I was being on myself for so long. This was good for my soul and will lead me to a path of recovery, thank you
i never realized how hard i was on myself until about a week ago when my friends brought it up and really stressed it to me that i needed to be easier on myself . while i always preach self love to anyone i meet , i struggle with forgiving myself and this video brought me to tears more than once . thank you fr , all love 💗
I’m so thankful for my friend putting me onto your TH-cam channel. I resonate with the journey and your messages. These videos are so helpful and brings peace and lets me know I’m not alone. Thank you Hindz!
I can’t believe how much this touched my soul and how I allowed to forgiveness myself. I’m going though a rough path with myself. I’m trying to find myself and not be lost and be able to push forward and continue to learn how to love myself. My anxiety subsided after watching this video. Thank you for the healing I needed it so much.
Spreading love raised the vibration...even speaking to someone on the street. I love y'all. Wherever y'all are...whatever you're doing I hope you take my comment literally and just give yourself a big hug. That's me hugging you.
I think people are so hard on themselves because the base value of human nature is compassion for others and love, but that's not necessarily the easiest thing in this unequal world.
I AM EXTREMELY HARD ON MYSELF…. I AM LEARNING TO TREAT MYSELF BETTER……. I STARTED IN 2020 …. I AM 54YRS…………THANK GOD FOR HINDZ….. CALMING VOICE AND MESSAGES……. HE DID THE WORK THAT IS HOW HE IS ABLE TO DO WHAT HE DOES
I completely just smiled and giggled out loud when you said “IIIII forgive you!” 🤭🤭🤭 like suddenly all the seriousness and roughness and tension just transformed and lifted and the transfer of your energy through the screen was complete and I was left feeling LIGHT and JOY!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I’m 100% sure I’m not alone on that 😂 thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you Hindz so much for this video. I turned 31 just over a week ago and I have been extremely hard on myself ever since. I expected that by 31 I would have my own place, marriage/long term relationship or preparing to start having kids. It hit me hard that I haven't achieved any of those goals and I have been blaming myself ever since. Your video has helped me to realise that I need to forgive myself that I am not where I thought I would be and look forward to the future. Thank you.
All of you guys here are amazing, sending love to you all!! Also thank you HINDZ for creating such a loving space 🙏🏼💕 such a nice change to see so much comfort and positivity online
Thank you so much I woke up feeling sad because didn't go practice pole in my living room or go work out due to being stuffy and congested from over working my body at work 8 12 hour shifts in a row as a nurse and I looked on social media and saw these Cali chicks living the dream and post pole videos every day progressing and I was like I'm never gonna be good or popular if I don't practice a lot blah blah I forgave myself laying on my bed take deep breaths and I try to smile in the mirror and be thankful for everything that I have the things that Are coming my way and prayed for the motivation and inspiration instead of desperation in comparison and obedience to rest when I'm called to I also stumbled on your video and released some tears I had bottled up thanks I feel at ease this really pushed me out my panic attack. Gave me hope.
Thank you thank youuu! I’ve been deeply struggling with myself lately holding grudges against my past self. I’ve had anorexia since the age of nine and now at 19 pushing through recovery I’m working on letting go of the resentment against myself for putting my body and mind through so much self harm. Sending you So much love and light! And haha pass the tea 🍵 ☕️
The Re/Claiming rite in Aidan Wachter's book Six Ways is incredible for forgiving and befriending yourself. Have done it at least once a day for about two months and it's been such a shift in how comfortable I feel in myself
im very hard on myself lately. and it all feels very superficial like "im not pretty" or "why dont men like me". things like that and i know that i hve to let go of this to feel free but i dont know. jealousy is a very sticky sticky emotion. i'll do everything to get rid of this
it’s the fact that i can’t just sit in bed all day anymore to actually have a break. it’s the fact that i don’t allow myself to relax, and that i’m always on my toes. i don’t deserve this excess stress, and i won’t apologize for allowing myself to take a break.
This spoke right to my core; I am one of those "hard on yourself" people. It's one thing to have standards. But what it took me so long to see about beating ourselves up is this: not only does it not guarantee improvement, it makes improvement HARDER. A car engine won't run better when its gears are stripped.
I'm always hard on myself. Cause I just feel beaten down by life..I wish I would have done more to leave this horrible area I live in that has stunted my progress in life. Smfh.
if you would like to support what I do & this channel w/ a gesture. You can buy me a cup of tea 🍵 at ko-fi.com/hindz
Hindz are you giving away tea? I need some for real. I’m going through my journey and I am know to be a tea lover. I am also completely nervous about starting my TH-cam channel.
9 months later and I’m watching it on a Wednesday! 🫖 🍵 love that for me!
It’s my 1st here sending BLESSINGS of HEALTH,WEALTH, AND WELLNESS TO ALL.💙
Thank you for making this video and telling people including myself it pays to be softer to herself / more gentle at times
Peace and blessings, could you put your daily affirmation uploads on this TH-cam platform? Just curious as I have a positive dailies playlist I'd love to add your words and messages to🤗🤗
Quitting Instagram helped me love myself more because I’m no longer feeling pressured to keep up with trends, comparing myself to others and crating fake realities. I take pictures for fun and print them and make photo albums like we used to do back in the day haha. Someone needs to hear this: You don’t HAVE to use social media. It is a choice. Namaste 🙏🏽
I quit Instagram about 6 months ago due to comparing myself .. I was thinking about downloading it again until i read this comment so thank you .
Same
@@zahniyahbrannon4451 I have an IG but I don't really pay attention to it. I got less than 50 followers & I am private. I don't try to keep up appearances. I am on the REAL side of IG that UPlift one another. I follow @HINDZ there too.😎💛
I do not know how I can ever go back!! I wish I did it sooner... peace and blessings🤞
Deleting my IG created a lot of peace in my life... definitely should have done it sooner
I know this was posted almost a year ago but I needed this today.. I am in a very bad place. I am truly so hard on myself and I don't want to be here and I know what "I need to do" but it's hard to start this change, It's so much easier to just be in this place instead of getting better. It's easier to make excuses than to get up and do the work. I just need prayer. Whoever comes across this, just pray for positivity for me.. I would really appreciate it. Thank you
I’ve been there too. Best of luck to you keep going ‼️
I'm also in this place. I know what will make me better but i need to work hard to get things right. I'm way out of my schedule. And it's okay.
Don't beat yourself up for it. Just do 1% daily. Even if you tried to wake up 5mins early, it counts. We will get there.
I pray for you. I believe in you.
Prayers being sent your way!!❤️❤️ please seek help from a therapist/doctor. I have had depression for 20 years. Three suicide attempts later, I’m here. Life is hard, but beautiful. I’m sure you have people you wouldn’t want to leave behind. They love you and I love you!💕
Please choose to love yourself. If you make even one tiny change, like working on a goal for 1 minute, praise yourself because it’s a big deal. It really is. Even if you don’t do anymore for weeks, you still deserve love and kindness. No one knows any one else’s internal struggles. What helps for me is to hug myself, rubbing my hands on my arms and gently touching my face. Meds can help too. Prayers of love, hope and strength to you.
Accomplishing a goal gives a boost of confidence... Just start...I'm kinda here . Some days..not sad but stagnanted...I had to tell God sorry & REPENT for being idle... He gave me a warning dream... Shirking me what will happen if I continue...it's a scripture in Proverbs.. like I lived it out in a dream... It's sinful to not use our gifts...i don't wanna be that person. Im still making changes... It got me thinking & moving frfr... Good is so good to us. The way He communicates, you can tell He really cares... Especially when No one else is being supportive.
To everyone reading this, I pray that you will be the first person in your family to be a multi-millionaire. May you use your infinite wealth to focus on your mental/physical health, and to heal your family, generational trauma and bring joy and good health to your family and friends. I pray for that, for me and for you.
✨🦋❤ I claim to welcome this beautiful energy into my life 🙏🏽
Amen 11:11
Amen. To you as well.
amen. I receive and welcome this into my life.
Amen 🙏🏼 sending nothing but good vibes to you ✨✨
This reminded me of the quote "Treat yourself like someone you love." I'm still working on it, but it's getting better.
Damn, I really vibe with that quote. Thanks for sending it out to the universe.
Really felt this quote! Thank you ♥️
One love
Annnnd don’t forget to have that repetition!!
YES! I try to remind myself that I am my friend. Would I say the things I am saying to myself to my friends?
if you're reading this you're gonna get through whatever you're going through, I love you!
Yesss !
I love you too
thank you! i love you too
I needed this love you too🙏🏾
🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
When I said to myself "I'm sorry, I love you"... honestly i couldn't help but cry.. the sensation/emotion that took over me was so overwhelming and powerful. I felt that.
Yes 💕 I felt it too
I felt that too. Thank you for this
Yeiii🥰
Me tooooo
Same
I beat myself up sometimes for not being social enough but I'm an introvert and need my alone time to recharge. I need to forgive myself for being myself, wow how profound our mind/body/soul connection is
I feel like with social media it's so hard not to compare yourself to other women. I'm working on forgiving myself and understanding that I am enough and I don't need to look like these other women to be enough.
You’re beautiful don’t forget that. You are beautiful in your own ways 💖
Yes love!! I am with you. We are all Queens, just as we are.
Your beautiful and special 💗
Everyone is uniquely crafted to look the way they are and it's very beautiful
You’re uniquely hand carved!!! Beautiful and enough in your most natural form 🧡🧡🧡 As I say this to you, I take it in myself. I struggle with wearing my natural hair so I feel you deep! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
I dont watch tv....i watch youtube because you cant find this on tv
Resonate for sure I dont watch tv or news or dont do magazine's but do these type vidios utube to use others life stories and journeys to help me on my jerney
Facts
I don’t watch TV either ... but I don’t wanna hear cows slurping blueberry tea out a trough either 🤢
i dont watch TV for almost 16 yrs now. i love you tube
Same here!! TH-cam all of the way.
I had a dear friend tell me, “At the end of the day whether your day was as you intended to be or not, it was productive. It was productive to your existence. If whatever you did brought you happiness of sorts then it was productive.”
I love that advice so much. one way colonialism/white supremacy has corrupted our relationship to reality is the myth that if people are not being visibly productive or if people stop producing/consuming and take a moment to breathe and do nothing and slow down, that those people are useless. it is such a damaging notion and it is becoming a radical act of self/universal love to just stop for a moment and take off the pressure to produce and just be.
@@dariusparker1652 I agree. We need to produce from a place of creativity- that’s usually how most masterpieces get create- the state of sacred inspiration arises as we do the works but in this society we don’t listen to our body enough. we’ve gotta give our ears back to our body. when will we value genuine learning over performance, power struggles and ego advancements?
No. See. That’s wrong. It’s also stupid. That is a Dangerously stupid mindset
My fav one is: " Be a lawyer to yourself, not a judge" ❤️
Their is a saying “strangers are friends you haven’t met yet”
I love this! Thank you for sharing
but at the same time stay vigilant
Some soothing words to speak into yourself, to tell your inner child : “time IS working in your highest favour”, “I hear you”, “you’re in safe hands / you are safe”, “you are loved and appreciated”, “I see you”, “we’ll get through this”, “you got this”
I needed this
thank you ❤️
i love you.
@@lacyyyy I love you toooo
I will have to try this.
To whoever is reading this, you are beautiful, a one in a million beautiful spirit. You are unique and light. You are powerful, love yourself & spread love. I hope you are doing well ❤️ stay blessed!
Thank You🥰
♥️♥️♥️
Thank you.. you as well
Thank you so much✨
Thank you good soul, I wish you all the best. :)
I got rejected from Med school today (I’m 19 from the UK) and I’ve been beating myself up so so hard because I’ve had to work 100x harder than everyone to even get a glimpse to be in this position and it’s just gone. The interviews keep replying in my head and it’s like I’m at a point in my life that I’m so lost and disappointed in myself because I could’ve done better or like I’m just so shit at everything and I can’t find myself doing anything else. The fact that I stumbled across this guy at 12am in my tears has helped me to take it easy and forgive myself and learn from it. I have one last chance to get in and I’m praying that whatever God wants me to do he will show me. Thank you Hindz
Wishing you all the best 🙏🏾
No matter what....you will be Ok.🌻😊
Whatever the outcome, you got this🙏🏾
God has a plan for you, set in stone, and it’s what is meant to happen, just do your best, it’ll be alright ♥️
I know it's especially hard to not define yourself through external things at your age, when goals and achievements are all that everyone talks about. But there is a whole other level to life you're allowed to relax in. You're allowed to feel at the end of the day that your worth is completely separate from the rat race. And to be happy.
I’m a late bloomer as I am 33 years old and over the last few years I’ve made it a personal mission to get to know myself, start the healing process and to get control of my life, I’ve always been my toughest critic which lead to depression and a life of worrying what other’s thoughts of me , instead of focusing on what I thought of me and I want to change that
I'm 56 years old and just learning to stop being so self-critical. It does get better! Takes practice, like he says. Be well!
@@arwenanduin thank you
i love you, im proud of you, i believe in you.
@@lacyyyy love you too
@@FireSilver25 thank you 🙏🏾
What made me cry, was when you said ‘If you have a hard time forgiving yourself, I forgive you.’ That really opened my eyes. Give thanks🤲🏾 JahBless, Hindz🤎
It was so powerful especially saying it to yourself✨
"nothing changes without repetition" wow!!!
I admire people who've forgiven themselves. I've worked on external forgiveness so much, but I feel like I've never forgiven myself for anything.
Give yourself time and remember, you are just a human. The one without sins, throw the first stone
it’s hard to forgive someone who hasn’t apologized, so hearing “i’m sorry, i love you” from myself was actually so powerful. ive beaten myself up and tried to forgive myself but actually hearing i’m sorry i love you from my own mind filled me with self love ❤
I needed this. I don't like anything about myself right now.
I’m forgiving myself for constantly involving myself with men that do not reflect my self worth. I’m forgiving myself for not loving myself enough to know that I deserve better. I’m forgiving myself for disrespecting my own self. Thank you Hindz..
Wow reading some of the comments below actually brought tears to my eyes , wish i could give you all a hug.
I love this. So peaceful, so needed. A reminder to be gentle. One thing I have a very confusing time with is being able to learn from failures when the failure is subjective. For example, in relationships, when someone will react to you and your choices differently depending on who it is. And if the outcome is hurtful or doesn't take me where I want to be, and I want to adjust to learn more for next time, the "next time" is another person who will most likely have different perspectives and wouldn't need me to adjust, necessarily. Hope that makes sense. It brings me so much pain to not know myself well enough to just "BE" and let others adjust around me, and find who fits. Sometimes I can be vulnerable or anxious and people respond well, and other times they don't. I don't really want to be anxious or have that affect relationships negatively. And often I dislike being overly vulnerable with people, too, so I try to keep it light and low pressure. But then not doing so also feels like a detriment to my truth of character and who I want to be and the intimacy I want. Unsure how much to learn from and how much to accept in myself.
I need friends like you... seriously.
Why am I always feeling so relaxed when he softly caresses the table? It's quite a lovely gesture.
“I am sorry. I love you”❤️ Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this 🙏🏼
Love 😌♥️
You should 200% do meditation and positive affirmation videos! You have the most gorgeous relaxing voice and amazing words that resonate so deeply! Sending love and blessings!
I LOVE the universe. Tell me why I'm watching this on a Wednesday 🖐🏾😩
Struggling with forgiving myself for poor choices that led to other poor choices forgiving myself for blaming myself all of the time and forgiving myself for putting to much pressure on myself and not enjoying the present moment. As it’s all we really have ❤️
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Have suffered from being too hard on myself for years now the smallest mistake i make is the end of the world i will stew about it for days
The tea sipping is hilarious 😂❤️like a soothing asmr
Thank you. I'm feeling a little better about what I did. Looking forward to tomorrow's growth, self love, forgiveness, and empowerment.
I’m learning that I care too much about what other people think. Always have. Because I will forever continue meeting people. Some of them will like me, others won’t. None of this can I control. This means I’m bound to an endless supply of suffering because I hitch my self worth to both groups. Practicing detachment is HARD
I've been so hard on myself for taking a leave from law school, and I've been trying to gather the courage to go back and climb that mountain. I have a beautiful girl waiting for me there, and I truly do love the law. I know that love conquers all. Thank you HINDZ!
If you're reading this remember that you are beautiful and you are capable of anything you want in life. Keep your head up and go at your goals with full steam and positive energy. The energy you give out is the energy you will attract!
Learning to love is hard. But I’m doing it. I watch you every day as part of my morning routine. 🙏
I got off of work around 3am so upset with myself for not finishing up my work on time, I’m a new nurse and it was my first day working alone and I was so upset with myself and frustrated and kept questioning if nursing was for me. In my mind i gave up and wanted to tell them I wasn’t returning the next day. I finally got through the night and as I was driving home I asked God to just let me know I can do this and give me strength to keep pushing and not give up!
I’ve never seen any of your videos before but you were on my recommendation list and through curiosity I strolled through your videos and came across this one! With this being the first video I’ve seen from you I couldn’t help but subscribe, you’ve really opened my eyes and helped me to realize it’s only the beginning and with practice I’ll master this profession; when you told us to tell ourselves “I’m sorry, I love you” I looked in the mirror and repeated it and couldn’t help but cry.. I’m always so hard on myself and that’s something I really would like to work on.
Thank you so much for this video, can’t wait to check out more of your videos, the positivity definitely shines through and I need all of the positive energy in my life at this moment!! Stay blessed 🙌🏾
I'm a junior 2 in nursing school and i know it's not by coincidence I came across your comment. I know the feeling, I get so worked up at clinical because I feel so lost and I question myself a-lot too. I know it's so different when your own your own practicing but just know you are a great nurse, everyone you touch or even come into contact with, you leave a lasting imprint on them. A true healer. I wish you nothing but comfort within nursing, more self love and appreciation. Your doing GREATTT sweetie✨
Thanks for promoting positivity it’s rare on social media 👍🏿
Thank u for receiving & being here !! It’s all in the tribe ✊🏾♥️
I’ve never felt so uplifted , welcomed, and understood on any TH-cam channel. You’re a blessing to this universe! So are all of you watching and reading this 🙏🏽
Shout out to all the flowers growing through concrete!
I’ve had the hardest last two weeks being in college. I am late on all my finals and I have been so hard on myself for not completing my assignments on time to the point where I couldn’t focus and actually do them. I really needed to hear this because part of me wants to let go and forgive myself but the bully in me seems to be so loud. Thank you for giving me the head space to hear the more compassionate side of myself. I forgot what he sounded like.
If your reading this, Have a beautiful blessed day 💗
read & received 😌 thank you ♥️
24. Homeless. Failing in life. Trying to catch my dreams. I just want to say thank you, to this video and to the people typing and read comments. I hope I can make friends with all of you one day. Good luck with your future Endeavors!
@@s.tiaira9081 great , thanks for asking
i m struggling with anxiety and love myself. i want to be stronger
The fact that you want to is proof that you have it in you. You have the strength and I hope you learn how to hone it like the awesome being you are.
@@FeralSB2S351 i feel your energy apollo, i welcome you brother
you are not alone. If youre ever having anxiety, remember some of us are feeling exactly the same. Never alone, Stay strong 🤍🌱
Sometimes life will put your back against a wall...to make you decide to get stomped, or come out swinging..no one likes to suffer, but I have to admit, I'm most on my game when things get rough...looking back I have to thank every bully, they gave me a fire.. Even now feeling low, I can remind myself, I have been through worse..so much, what's this, compared to how far I've come??! Staying this now & encouraging someone else...it pepped my Spirit too 😁 We got this... Sometimes we need the eye of the Tiger and a firm smack on the rump. Beat your chest..and attack that negative thinking. Winners may fall, but never quit! Hugging you 🥰
You will
So happy I found this video. I have been so incredibly hard on myself for so many years. I finally am being confronted with my lack of self love. Thank you for your gentle energy, I have been missing gentleness in my life. deep breaths, thank you.
Who doesn’t want to drink tea and vibe with Hindz? The most cozy channel in TH-cam!😁
Just found this. Thank you. Stay blessed everyone
The Ali H. Wow. Take care bro❤
My anxiety was bad came here feel a little better✨❤️
I needed to hear this from you. Cause I've been beating myself up for everything today. Thank you!
Love 😌🤍 #gentletouch
I was a truly bad man. I lost my family for being a belligerent drunk. I decided to change, I found that I drank and got angry because I wasn't allowing myself to be happy sober. Sometimes I don't know if I deserve to forgive myself, but I'm trying anyway. I want to be a good father. I want to be with the woman I love again some day. And I want to find joy in my life as it is. I'm so sorry to the world.
I trust you'll be good! It's a hard path but go through it and you'll collect fruits, i believe in you 🙏
I'm having a hard time expressing myself, and unlearning being harsh on myself and others for not doing stuff. I'm trying to be more kind to others, and let my gaurd down. It would be so lovely to have a tribe, to express myself without being so critical..
I got teary because Ive become such a perfectionist that its weighing so much on me.. And I didn't know how to release. Im thankful for ur video and content.. I feel so much better after this. Im here for the energy 🙏 with Love from South Africa.
I just found your content on tik tok....and your vibrations of love and light got to me in hindzsight..... love from Kenya🌻🌟🇰🇪
So happy your here connecting ✌🏾♥️ love to Kenya!!
Natalie Gichuki Iam moving to Kenya because of Hindsight ❤️ Thank you Hindsight!
Yeeeiiyyyy.... From Kenya too🇰🇪
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I've been struggling with trying to escape the shame and regret I feel. I feel this from a situation I was in with a man (literally from the tinder fuck) and it was toxic and unhealthy. I still struggle with feeling like I've been used and worthless, but it's been a continuous growth (and your channel has helped a lot recently!). It's hard to escape his face in my mind. Every time I see it, I feel everything I felt before. I want to feel like myself again without constantly comparing myself to other people.
Didn't notice until one of my friends "stop being so hard on yourself "I'm still learning.
Today wasn't a good day, But i found you so I am grateful for the messages
My friend sent me this video and im thankful for it, but being hard on myself isnt my only problem cause i feel so purposless as well so it connects with being hard on myself and it mix it, and i hate myself for that
definitely needed to hear this right now. especially being 19 and in college right now, it’s so difficult to forgive myself for not living up to my peers and their expectations. i’m trying to find my motivation, but at the same time trying to find inner peace and love for myself. you’re helping me realize that those things exist within the same space, thank you for your kind words ❤️❤️
It's not Wednesday but this can't wait... I recently left a 6year relationship and was hurt because he jumped immediately to the girl that he's been talking to during our relationship. Fast forward 4months later, I released him and the pain and hurt 💔 I no longer will speak from a place of pain. I will speak with strength and inner love and forgiveness. My energy is renewed ✨ I have blessings overtaking me!
You're growing. That's all that matters!
I'm proud of you keep growing more and more each day☮️💜
This is especially a problem for ambitious individuals. We always have the highest standards for ourselves, and when we don't meet our targets we get in a rut
Your videos have helped me so much I took a break from social media recently because I compare myself to people and get depressed about where I’m at in life and listening to your videos have helped me love and forgive myself and tell myself “I am growing even more every day and it’s not a race” and that’s helped me a lot
I'm so thankful for everyones comment. I've been struggling with self confidence during last month and lately I've descovered that my ego was trying to keep me suffering with things that are no longer in my life! I love when we all are connected, and your thoughs are mine! Blessings!
I repeated "I'm sorry I love you" so many times to myself and at first my voice was so firm and disingenuous, then I just hugged myself and started crying... I just had a moment of emotional release and fully realised how hard I was being on myself for so long. This was good for my soul and will lead me to a path of recovery, thank you
This brought healing tears to my eyes. Thank you.
Me 2🥰 when i said i'm sorry i love u❤️🙂
For the first time in my life I loved myself 🥰💗🥰 Thank you. You more than earned that cup of tea.
finding the love within ourselves we will find love in others. Because we are actually all connected spiritually.
The best thing I am taking away from this is to study my mistakes instead of holding them against myself.
i never realized how hard i was on myself until about a week ago when my friends brought it up and really stressed it to me that i needed to be easier on myself . while i always preach self love to anyone i meet , i struggle with forgiving myself and this video brought me to tears more than once . thank you fr , all love 💗
I’m so thankful for my friend putting me onto your TH-cam channel. I resonate with the journey and your messages. These videos are so helpful and brings peace and lets me know I’m not alone. Thank you Hindz!
I cannot explain using words how badly I needed to see this video, thank you. Peace and love 🌿✌🏻
Love ♥️✌🏾 have an amazing week
"Nothing changes without repetition" so truuueeee! Habits are everything
I can’t believe how much this touched my soul and how I allowed to forgiveness myself. I’m going though a rough path with myself. I’m trying to find myself and not be lost and be able to push forward and continue to learn how to love myself. My anxiety subsided after watching this video. Thank you for the healing I needed it so much.
Brought tears to my eyes when you told me.."I forgive you.”
Spreading love raised the vibration...even speaking to someone on the street.
I love y'all. Wherever y'all are...whatever you're doing I hope you take my comment literally and just give yourself a big hug. That's me hugging you.
I really needed this. I’m so broken. I forgive myself... 🌱
I think people are so hard on themselves because the base value of human nature is compassion for others and love, but that's not necessarily the easiest thing in this unequal world.
I AM EXTREMELY HARD ON MYSELF…. I AM LEARNING TO TREAT MYSELF BETTER……. I STARTED IN 2020 …. I AM 54YRS…………THANK GOD FOR HINDZ….. CALMING VOICE AND MESSAGES……. HE DID THE WORK THAT IS HOW HE IS ABLE TO DO WHAT HE DOES
Your energy is so familiar to me!
thank you for putting all this good vibes out there💕
Thank u for tuning in !! 😌🤍
I completely just smiled and giggled out loud when you said “IIIII forgive you!” 🤭🤭🤭 like suddenly all the seriousness and roughness and tension just transformed and lifted and the transfer of your energy through the screen was complete and I was left feeling LIGHT and JOY!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I’m 100% sure I’m not alone on that 😂 thank you 🙏🏽
This is the message that the Creator gave me this week..wow, preaching this was everywhere🙉🙈🙊🙏🏾💯😇👣 #LightWork
Your always a blessing on my timeline. Thanks for sharing your energy. ❤️
thank u for spending time w/ me 😌🤍
Have a great week, I wish you increase !
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Thank you Hindz so much for this video. I turned 31 just over a week ago and I have been extremely hard on myself ever since. I expected that by 31 I would have my own place, marriage/long term relationship or preparing to start having kids. It hit me hard that I haven't achieved any of those goals and I have been blaming myself ever since. Your video has helped me to realise that I need to forgive myself that I am not where I thought I would be and look forward to the future. Thank you.
All of you guys here are amazing, sending love to you all!! Also thank you HINDZ for creating such a loving space 🙏🏼💕 such a nice change to see so much comfort and positivity online
Thank you so much I woke up feeling sad because didn't go practice pole in my living room or go work out due to being stuffy and congested from over working my body at work 8 12 hour shifts in a row as a nurse and I looked on social media and saw these Cali chicks living the dream and post pole videos every day progressing and I was like I'm never gonna be good or popular if I don't practice a lot blah blah I forgave myself laying on my bed take deep breaths and I try to smile in the mirror and be thankful for everything that I have the things that Are coming my way and prayed for the motivation and inspiration instead of desperation in comparison and obedience to rest when I'm called to I also stumbled on your video and released some tears I had bottled up thanks I feel at ease this really pushed me out my panic attack. Gave me hope.
Thank you thank youuu! I’ve been deeply struggling with myself lately holding grudges against my past self. I’ve had anorexia since the age of nine and now at 19 pushing through recovery I’m working on letting go of the resentment against myself for putting my body and mind through so much self harm. Sending you So much love and light! And haha pass the tea 🍵 ☕️
Forgiveness , love & light . Blessing to the journey !! 🍵 time soon 😌🤍 love !!
@@HINDZSIGHT thank you
The Re/Claiming rite in Aidan Wachter's book Six Ways is incredible for forgiving and befriending yourself. Have done it at least once a day for about two months and it's been such a shift in how comfortable I feel in myself
Oh my. I really needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing, darling. You're amazing.
Thank u for being here and tuning in with me fam 😌♥️
I’m so happy I found your page. It feels like soul family vibes. Thank you ❤️
Yes❤
Really vibing out to these videos. Your energy and voice feels like a gentle, nurturing spiritual hug, welcoming home others back to themselves. ♡
thank u!!
im very hard on myself lately. and it all feels very superficial like "im not pretty" or "why dont men like me". things like that and i know that i hve to let go of this to feel free but i dont know. jealousy is a very sticky sticky emotion. i'll do everything to get rid of this
Wow I felt this deep down. Did not know how much I needed to hear this.
it’s the fact that i can’t just sit in bed all day anymore to actually have a break. it’s the fact that i don’t allow myself to relax, and that i’m always on my toes. i don’t deserve this excess stress, and i won’t apologize for allowing myself to take a break.
Good morning. Whoever is reading this you are beautiful.
This spoke right to my core; I am one of those "hard on yourself" people.
It's one thing to have standards. But what it took me so long to see about
beating ourselves up is this: not only does it not guarantee improvement,
it makes improvement HARDER. A car engine won't run better when its
gears are stripped.
You make my day. Every morning I listen to you, and you build the foundation to my daily life. Thank you X
I'm always hard on myself. Cause I just feel beaten down by life..I wish I would have done more to leave this horrible area I live in that has stunted my progress in life. Smfh.
You can end the cycle today. And when you decide to do so, it will be liberating.
"In Hindzsight Erryting Gon Be Alright" - thank you!
I can't forgive myself because my past affects the way my family sees me, its really hard, but I think your videos will help me a lot along the way