Stigmatization is one major barrier even in civilized society. I will encourage you to be self-employed. It will reduce stigmatization , boost self-confidence ,self-worth, and sanity! Above all, God will bless all your labor of love.
It’s not fear on your new wife,please keep the picture somewhere in the house.because i know she is not happy seeing the picture but because she loves you and she doesn’t want to upset you.
If the children had it,they would have been experiencing crisis now. The wife might have had it adter goving birth to d kids. I dont think HIV takes long before showing signs
Has he checked the status of the children . HIV is not a death sentence . No one should discriminate him . He never choose to have HIV.I pray for strength for him to carry through .
God bless you Dr Biola, so sorry to hear this, young man story. It is so touching, and God will heal him. May God be with him and his children Please take your medication regularly
I really want to thank God for this platform. It’s an eye opener to a lot of things. That being said, ladies and gentlemen pls before you get married to anyone do the necessary tests( ALL TESTS) . Do not leave any stone unturned ….forget about this blind love this days. Apply wisdom. So sorry for his story and up bring. Very sad situation 🙌
The new woman in your life also LOVE you and she has paid the PRICE Pls get the pics of ur late wife off the wall rap it and present it to your wife,tell her you love her to the end of the world..... She's an ANGEL in human form She will keep it for you, thanks. This home is unshakable, because the Piller that holds that love is strong and rugged Ko Si ìdílé tí o ba duro sinsin ti kìí ni asiri ti o gbèè ro🙌 No human being will understand.,Won a ni kìni o ri lara eniyan gan na👌 Àṣírí ife
I will say please it is 100% wrong not to tell someone you are intimate with your HIV status. It's even criminalized in some society, that is not LOVE. Love can still be found as there are ways to prevent transmission....I couldn't continue watching pass when he didn't disclose his status and got married...We need to educate people on the right thing to do even when we hear their stories that is where we learn from...PLEASE😭😭😭
Hmm, the story has a lot of curves in it. Im sorry he was molested as a child and he lost his wife. He needs to find a way to forgive his Mom and stop blaming her for the actions of others. He also needs to take the picture of his late wofe down. He might not realise it but hes building up bitterness in his wife, not for today but for the future. His kids will also see this and it might inform their decisions once theyre grown. Lastly, je might want to look into another area of work because youre expecting strangers to trust that you're consistently using uour medication while you're handling their meals where accidents can happen. To avoid future heartbreaks and potential litigations, please look for other businesses to start and not food. I hope he gets the help he's looking for.
There was no where he said he was molested and in the video… if u are referring to the “abuse” words he’s using, he’s talking about being maltreated by his step mum while young
@@cutegannyadeyinka9337 I'm pretty sure he inferred to it when he spoke about the uncle in his neighborhood and the interviewer also referenced it when asking him about the source of his infection.
I'm so sorry for what the brother pass through in life may God be your provider and send helpers to you so that you can be self employed and Hiv can be contacted from barbing saloon hairdressers saloon if they don't sterilised comb blade towel etc even through using toilet with many people through comb needles blades but it can't kill if you're taking your drugs so not only through sex many people's in european country have it but through their drugs they are fine and looking great.
Wow. What a story, He is a good father.May almight send you helper .moreover keep that picture of ur former wife anyway in your closet than present it where everyone can see ....life goes on bro....sister biola what a impact story.. I feel i can be of help....as well may almight send help to him from above..Amen
My mom is late and my dad keeps crying he misses her, so he kept their pictures they took together in his room, so he can put it somewhere in his own personal space. Cos women feels hurt about seeing it all around the house
That doctor's license shd be revoked. How can a professional that ought to care for people ask a man to withhold such vital life threatening info from his fiance. That is abominable. Unfortunately, that marriage is founded on deceit & lies & can be annulled on that basis alone. Deceitful people like that doctor are very common now. Tell the truth, it will set u free. Amy marriage based on falsehood will not stand the test of time!
Sis God bless you so much,omo people are going through alot,if you look at your problem you will think you have the whole problem in nigeria,but if you hear another person own you will thank Jehovah God for were you are,i pray may God heal of our pains in Jesus name,this one shock me oooooo
Being positive shouldn't be a barrier. Many carriers are living their normal life and doing a good job without issue. Anyways, i wish you well. Its well with you 😢
When I child complains about not feeling happy in a place don’t take it likely. Investigate what is going. There are red flags if a child is saying it’s our secret. God forbid they are being abused by neighbours.
Really feel bad about his story!!!! But I think there’s a reason why the vc wife took him for the test!!!! That vc wife knows more about how he got the HIV
I wouldn’t know if the VC’s wife has anything to do with it or not but I was expecting Biola to ask the guy “Why do you think they took you to the Dr for test”?
Please Dr B, tell him to remove the first wife's picture from the wall. Let the older daughters do the hiv test to know their status. Lastly, solict for financial support for him from the public.
Sis biola just gave a very good advice, he needs to remove the picture his wife tried alot for staying so please remove d picture on d wall she’s gone she’s gone. Your wife is your small God 😢😢😢😢this is so tourching
I believe that with God all things are possible brother with prayer fasting faith deliverance the Hiv will go so keep trying and dont loss hope God will see you through in Jesus name amen i send you hugs from here 🙏 😘
HIV is not a death sentence 😢this story is so touching with your drugs your viraload will be fine and no won will no you are hiv positive again I no God will bless you so don't give up bro ❤
You just have to forgive your Mom , Daddy and everyone that has offended you as a starting point, then you’ll beginning to enjoy God’s Mercy, any negativity is from Devil, You are a special child so there still hope for you in Jesus Christ, please send your private mail to send him something (financial) to help with.
Dr Biola pls can u advice him to get a vitamins bottle so he can always turn his HIV drugs in d vitamins bottle n trash d HIV drugs bottle...to be on a save side
Pls sir don't take your life this is not the end of the world ,I wish you safe recovery pls there is more to do sir life is so sweet don't commit suicide pls you are important ,you are cherished ,you are loved,you are important your kids need you and the world needs you.
This is a very pathetic story o I really feel for this guy, highly unfortunate. Very caring and a loving husband & father. Biola, please on behalf of this guy, get good voluntary donation for him,l mean a substantial amount from 'awa omo Nigeria rere' I wouldn't want us to send it to him in bits, when you get it for him,then you give him so that he's able to start his own business. I am also interested in dropping my own widow's mite. I also suggest he keeps his late wife's photograph in his personal closet. The good Lord will continue to strengthen & uphold this young man with mighty experience. Abiola you are a genius.Mighty Lord will never leave you alone my Darling❤. There should also be a number always displayed on your program screen in case anyone wants to reach you or help someone out there. Almighty God will continue to meet us at the point of our needs.
The children from the first marriage need to be medically screened! Pls, I think he got infected from the first marriage, making it important to urgently screen the girls.
No he said the second child is negative...I also think he got it from the first wife..I think that was what killed her ..the children needs to be screened please..maybe that was why the adopted mum didn't even go with them self
Is possible the first wife infected him. Maybe she was trying to help financially and slept with just one man that infected her or he contacted via hair cut. I wish I can help financially. May God help him.
Biola Can you please raise a fund for this guy your fans will surely help him through with his drugs, we can set up a business for him Biola pls let's do this for him no matter the situation in the Country lots of people will help 😂😂😂😂😂. Tell him to get sour sop leave & start drinking & this Corvid vaccine suppress H I V lots of people testify to it, 😂😂😂🎉. Kobokobo is something
The guy should tell the truth. Sometimes men tell lies a lot. People should compulsory doing HIV before they engage with their partner. The guy should tell the truth. He knew he got it from the abuse based on his narrative that his uncle abused him.
This guy was was abused as a child, his mannerism speaks of homosexual abuse. He probably blocked, the memories of the abuse due to trauma. (and that is also probably the source of his medical status.)
No one needs to know your status. Please take down your late wife picture if you truly love and value your present marriage. . Sending you lots of prayers
Oooh wow.....that is mean women for you once a man enters their trap....God have mercy 🙏 I don't know why people still stigmatize at this age and time...I wonder how they expect you to survive....but I pray, according to Talk to B that help will arise for you in Jesus mighty name 🙏 And pls do take to her advice, it's on point, take the picture away from your wife's sight.
This is sorry case, he shld do d test for d daughters too, u ll be great and teach others how u survive d storm. God Almighty ll c u tru, pls bring down yr late wife pictures. Have a nice day
Please let them run test on the 2 children reason being that they didn't know what caused the death of their mom. Listen, this disease is not only for wayward people it can be contacted through a lot of means.
I don't think so,during the antenatal, it will be revealed to her, if she's having it. They don't keep that secret at all in the hospital either private or government owned.
Please apart from your medication, eat a lot of fruits and vegetables especially salad (without cream) instead use olive oil, this will hasten the reduction of the viral load so that the negative result can come up soon. It is a pity that you are been discriminated.
Thank you Dr. Bee for bringing him. Mr. Just like Dr B has said, please stop showing or giving your present wife taht you love the previous one than her. Alao please keep using tour medication and continue to seek medical advice regarding your medical condition. Lastly please connect with Alta of fire, very soon youll will be free from HIV, God has healed many in the past and it will not be different in your case. It is well with you Bro.
Not disclosing your status to your new wife? it is a NOOOOOOOOO, Giving up some children for adoption at some point? NOOOOOOO, Still having your old wife's picture in your house, SO INSENSITIVE, Do better please..
He did that because he knew through the doctors that since he’s on HIV drugs the count is extremely low and it won’t affect her or their unborn/born child.
Stigmatization is one major barrier even in civilized society. I will encourage you to be self-employed. It will reduce stigmatization , boost self-confidence ,self-worth, and sanity!
Above all, God will bless all your labor of love.
You are on point. As a widower, I agree 💯% that he can have his late wife's picture personalised and not on display for his current wife.
It’s not fear on your new wife,please keep the picture somewhere in the house.because i know she is not happy seeing the picture but because she loves you and she doesn’t want to upset you.
This is so touching 😢and I think he got it from the first wife , he needs to take the kids for test as well
If the children had it,they would have been experiencing crisis now. The wife might have had it adter goving birth to d kids. I dont think HIV takes long before showing signs
Has he checked the status of the children . HIV is not a death sentence . No one should discriminate him . He never choose to have HIV.I pray for strength for him to carry through .
He said that he has.
The kids are all negative
God bless you Dr Biola, so sorry to hear this, young man story. It is so touching, and God will heal him. May God be with him and his children
Please take your medication regularly
I really want to thank God for this platform. It’s an eye opener to a lot of things. That being said, ladies and gentlemen pls before you get married to anyone do the necessary tests( ALL TESTS) . Do not leave any stone unturned ….forget about this blind love this days. Apply wisdom.
So sorry for his story and up bring. Very sad situation 🙌
If someone take their meds regularly it can’t be found even if you go for test
@Abiola Adebayo pls how can someone be of help to him? Like financial support i mean
Kindly send us a message on our official Instagram page @taltob5000 so I can send you his account details ma🙏
Thank you
Waoooo.... touching story I've nothing to say just to pray , God make a way, where there's no way 🙏🙏
The new woman in your life also LOVE you and she has paid the PRICE
Pls get the pics of ur late wife off the wall rap it and present it to your wife,tell her you love her to the end of the world.....
She's an ANGEL in human
form
She will keep it for you, thanks.
This home is unshakable, because the Piller that holds that love is strong and rugged
Ko Si ìdílé tí o ba duro sinsin ti kìí ni asiri ti o gbèè ro🙌
No human being will understand.,Won a ni kìni o ri lara eniyan gan na👌 Àṣírí ife
Proper education about viral load and being undetectable is very important. This is a public forum, please.
Exactly
Hmm.. this is so emotional.. my brother God will show up for you by his grace. Keep being strong.
What a touching story, may God in HIS infinite see u through 🙏
Hmmm
Having HIV isn't easy
May Almighty heal us all🙏
To the wife God will be with you and continue to guide you for us
HIV isn't a death sentence, i live in a house where there's hiv patient and yet no discrimination. As long as he stays true to his medication
I will say please it is 100% wrong not to tell someone you are intimate with your HIV status. It's even criminalized in some society, that is not LOVE. Love can still be found as there are ways to prevent transmission....I couldn't continue watching pass when he didn't disclose his status and got married...We need to educate people on the right thing to do even when we hear their stories that is where we learn from...PLEASE😭😭😭
This is really touch me ... Almighty God will heal you miraculously...no more sorrow in ur life.... One love
Hmm, the story has a lot of curves in it. Im sorry he was molested as a child and he lost his wife. He needs to find a way to forgive his Mom and stop blaming her for the actions of others. He also needs to take the picture of his late wofe down. He might not realise it but hes building up bitterness in his wife, not for today but for the future. His kids will also see this and it might inform their decisions once theyre grown.
Lastly, je might want to look into another area of work because youre expecting strangers to trust that you're consistently using uour medication while you're handling their meals where accidents can happen. To avoid future heartbreaks and potential litigations, please look for other businesses to start and not food.
I hope he gets the help he's looking for.
There was no where he said he was molested and in the video… if u are referring to the “abuse” words he’s using, he’s talking about being maltreated by his step mum while young
@@cutegannyadeyinka9337 I'm pretty sure he inferred to it when he spoke about the uncle in his neighborhood and the interviewer also referenced it when asking him about the source of his infection.
@@cutegannyadeyinka9337watch the video again he said that he was molested by his uncle
@@cutegannyadeyinka9337he said it, he even mentioned the persons name🤷♀️
I'm so sorry for what the brother pass through in life may God be your provider and send helpers to you so that you can be self employed and Hiv can be contacted from barbing saloon hairdressers saloon if they don't sterilised comb blade towel etc even through using toilet with many people through comb needles blades but it can't kill if you're taking your drugs so not only through sex many people's in european country have it but through their drugs they are fine and looking great.
Wow. What a story, He is a good father.May almight send you helper .moreover keep that picture of ur former wife anyway in your closet than present it where everyone can see ....life goes on bro....sister biola what a impact story.. I feel i can be of help....as well may almight send help to him from above..Amen
Omo living with HIV is not easy oo, but life goes on
Weldone, Dr. This is serious. God will heal him
My mom is late and my dad keeps crying he misses her, so he kept their pictures they took together in his room, so he can put it somewhere in his own personal space. Cos women feels hurt about seeing it all around the house
That doctor's license shd be revoked. How can a professional that ought to care for people ask a man to withhold such vital life threatening info from his fiance.
That is abominable. Unfortunately, that marriage is founded on deceit & lies & can be annulled on that basis alone.
Deceitful people like that doctor are very common now. Tell the truth, it will set u free.
Amy marriage based on falsehood will not stand the test of time!
Stigmatization is one major barrier in the society, God will help you
I must say you are strong
It is well
I think is high time our government must start enlightening us about HIV.
Sis God bless you so much,omo people are going through alot,if you look at your problem you will think you have the whole problem in nigeria,but if you hear another person own you will thank Jehovah God for were you are,i pray may God heal of our pains in Jesus name,this one shock me oooooo
Being positive shouldn't be a barrier. Many carriers are living their normal life and doing a good job without issue. Anyways, i wish you well. Its well with you 😢
When I child complains about not feeling happy in a place don’t take it likely. Investigate what is going. There are red flags if a child is saying it’s our secret. God forbid they are being abused by neighbours.
Really feel bad about his story!!!! But I think there’s a reason why the vc wife took him for the test!!!! That vc wife knows more about how he got the HIV
I wouldn’t know if the VC’s wife has anything to do with it or not but I was expecting Biola to ask the guy “Why do you think they took you to the Dr for test”?
Not telling her your status was very selfish! May God help us all
Honestly, it is so selfish! No doctor will advise him not to disclose his status.
But thank GOD she is NEGATIVE
Omo I don Dey fear Adam day by day
Please Dr B, tell him to remove the first wife's picture from the wall.
Let the older daughters do the hiv test to know their status.
Lastly, solict for financial support for him from the public.
So sorry for going through this ,even after his childhood ordeals. God please help this guy
Sis biola just gave a very good advice, he needs to remove the picture his wife tried alot for staying so please remove d picture on d wall she’s gone she’s gone. Your wife is your small God 😢😢😢😢this is so tourching
I believe that with God all things are possible brother with prayer fasting faith deliverance the Hiv will go so keep trying and dont loss hope God will see you through in Jesus name amen i send you hugs from here 🙏 😘
Dr B, can you please tell us how we can help him financially
Sorry for all you have been through young man I pray God Almighty crown your efforts.
Thank you for the good advice Dr B
May the Lord strengthen you and give you the grace to be there for your family stay bless
Very educative as usual. Love you sis ❤❤❤👍👍👍
I pray may God grace should sufficient on you and the children, you we live and testify to the Glory of God, this was so emotional.
So touching 😢😢😢 story for what this guy has passed through since he was a child 😢😢😢
Pls dont commit suicide you are such a blessing thank you for your story
I pray God sent a helper 🙏🙏🙏🙏
HIV is not a death sentence 😢this story is so touching with your drugs your viraload will be fine and no won will no you are hiv positive again I no God will bless you so don't give up bro ❤
Hmmmm
Being positive isn't easy at all
May Almighty heal us all 🙏
Hmmmmmm, this is deep ma
Well done ma
May God heal his heart and the wife
It’s illegal not to disclose your status
It act of wickedness if I must say
You just have to forgive your Mom , Daddy and everyone that has offended you as a starting point, then you’ll beginning to enjoy God’s Mercy, any negativity is from Devil, You are a special child so there still hope for you in Jesus Christ, please send your private mail to send him something (financial) to help with.
It's best you remove the picture of your late wife and don't let your present wife feel you love your late wife more than her.
Dr Biola pls can u advice him to get a vitamins bottle so he can always turn his HIV drugs in d vitamins bottle n trash d HIV drugs bottle...to be on a save side
Pls sir don't take your life this is not the end of the world ,I wish you safe recovery pls there is more to do sir life is so sweet don't commit suicide pls you are important ,you are cherished ,you are loved,you are important your kids need you and the world needs you.
How can one support him financially
This is touching
This is serious God is with you bro
This is a very pathetic story o
I really feel for this guy, highly unfortunate.
Very caring and a loving husband & father.
Biola, please on behalf of this guy, get good voluntary donation for him,l mean a substantial amount from 'awa omo Nigeria rere'
I wouldn't want us to send it to him in bits, when you get it for him,then you give him so that he's able to start his own business.
I am also interested in dropping my own widow's mite.
I also suggest he keeps his late wife's photograph in his personal closet.
The good Lord will continue to strengthen & uphold this young man with mighty experience.
Abiola you are a genius.Mighty Lord will never leave you alone my Darling❤.
There should also be a number always displayed on your program screen in case anyone wants to reach you or help someone out there.
Almighty God will continue to meet us at the point of our needs.
God bless you 🙏🙏 it not easy for such person living with such
God bless you 🙏🙏 it not easy for such person living with such
The children from the first marriage need to be medically screened! Pls, I think he got infected from the first marriage, making it important to urgently screen the girls.
Ma he said it that they're negative
No he said the second child is negative...I also think he got it from the first wife..I think that was what killed her ..the children needs to be screened please..maybe that was why the adopted mum didn't even go with them self
The lord is your strength 🕊️ it's well with you 💯✨
Himmm! This is so touching 😢. God is your strength bro.
Please how can I help this man
It's good you have your girls back.
Is possible the first wife infected him. Maybe she was trying to help financially and slept with just one man that infected her or he contacted via hair cut. I wish I can help financially. May God help him.
Exactly my point too
You can do any other job but no cooking
Biola Can you please raise a fund for this guy your fans will surely help him through with his drugs, we can set up a business for him Biola pls let's do this for him no matter the situation in the Country lots of people will help 😂😂😂😂😂. Tell him to get sour sop leave & start drinking & this Corvid vaccine suppress H I V lots of people testify to it, 😂😂😂🎉.
Kobokobo is something
Please remove the picture of your late wife. I respect your courage. I pray God send you help.
The guy should tell the truth. Sometimes men tell lies a lot. People should compulsory doing HIV before they engage with their partner. The guy should tell the truth. He knew he got it from the abuse based on his narrative that his uncle abused him.
There is a lot of editing in his story, his body gesture and the way he talk shows he might be gay maybe in the past
He should have his own business with his wife
HIV is not the end of life. Let him give his life and leave for Jesus alone.
This guy was was abused as a child, his mannerism speaks of homosexual abuse. He probably blocked, the memories of the abuse due to trauma. (and that is also probably the source of his medical status.)
Please, Dr. Biola, how can we help this man.
Hmmmm this is very very bad kilode haaaaa my brother GOD is your strength 😢😢😢😢
Pls try and check the girls status, it's very important
Oh God,may God almighty see you through
No one needs to know your status. Please take down your late wife picture if you truly love and value your present marriage. . Sending you lots of prayers
Hmmmm...things are happening oooo..may God send helper to him
Amen to all prayers..
God bless you ma this program really means alot and I have been learning alot from it
The story is 😢, but you can learn tech skills, work online and make money from your home
Oooh wow.....that is mean women for you once a man enters their trap....God have mercy 🙏
I don't know why people still stigmatize at this age and time...I wonder how they expect you to survive....but I pray, according to Talk to B that help will arise for you in Jesus mighty name 🙏
And pls do take to her advice, it's on point, take the picture away from your wife's sight.
They give these drugs for free at General Hospital with appointments...
May u encounter divine healing in Jesus name
This is sorry case, he shld do d test for d daughters too, u ll be great and teach others how u survive d storm. God Almighty ll c u tru, pls bring down yr late wife pictures. Have a nice day
Hmmmmmm💔💔Omo things Dey happen oo🥺
Tell him to remove the labels from the medicine container, that way nobody will be able to read the bottle container and know what it is
Please let them run test on the 2 children reason being that they didn't know what caused the death of their mom. Listen, this disease is not only for wayward people it can be contacted through a lot of means.
He contacted the virus from the late wife. Complexities of life
Oh my God
Hope that's not what it's hidden in the wife's illness 😢
😢😢😢😢😢 The lord is your strength
The late wife must have had it too without knowing. May God show His wonder in the life of this man & his family.
I don't think so,during the antenatal, it will be revealed to her, if she's having it. They don't keep that secret at all in the hospital either private or government owned.
Exactly they would have detected during antenatal
How can a doctor advise you not to disclose your status to your wife, is not fair
Please apart from your medication, eat a lot of fruits and vegetables especially salad (without cream) instead use olive oil, this will hasten the reduction of the viral load so that the negative result can come up soon. It is a pity that you are been discriminated.
Thank you for dis Episode ❤🎉
Weldone Dr, B.... He should please try another line of business, May God heal him completely and continue to keep him and his children
Please Akanbi keep away your first wife picture that's not fair it is wrong to hand her picture on the wall
Exactly
God bless you ma'am
Thank you Dr. Bee for bringing him. Mr. Just like Dr B has said, please stop showing or giving your present wife taht you love the previous one than her. Alao please keep using tour medication and continue to seek medical advice regarding your medical condition. Lastly please connect with Alta of fire, very soon youll will be free from HIV, God has healed many in the past and it will not be different in your case. It is well with you Bro.
Please he has to take the picture of the late wife away
Not disclosing your status to your new wife? it is a NOOOOOOOOO, Giving up some children for adoption at some point? NOOOOOOO, Still having your old wife's picture in your house, SO INSENSITIVE, Do better please..
I agree
But you are wicked. WHY would you start sleeping with the lady without opening up to her. That's so unkind and selfish of you
He did that because he knew through the doctors that since he’s on HIV drugs the count is extremely low and it won’t affect her or their unborn/born child.
Please Dr. B, this man needs financial assistance from the Nigerians.
What your doctor told you is not good!
The ultimate decision is his though.
That is why polygamy is a no for my liking I pray I live long to take care of my kids 😢
It’s not a polygamy
He should put down the first wife picture
So touching 😢😢😢