@@reddywinslow3168 Nobody cares. People can love doing meth too. The point is that she had zero discernment and put herself in that situation. She has no right to be complaining.
If you that broke??.... they all seem to have babies by these broke dusty men that they pay for, giving them hell of money, paying their bills, living with her.
It’s an -unspoken- rule, but -a lot of professional / career- women have the absolute worst decision making when it comes to choosing a mate. *There, fixed that for you.
Honestly they always wanted those men and now that they have money they come back to the hood and beg these men to give them a chance, he won’t have to work she’ll buy him whatever he wants, girls can simp too, sadly she beats herself because the dude don’t care about her, she’s a clown a atm a mark
That's why it' so important for these ladies to stop givin out the cookie before really doin the research on a guy. The vast majority of these guys are scammers n scoundrels.
If he was basically jobless, and she married him AND was having his baby, tells you everything we need to know. Why should he change or be be truthful.
It wasn’t stated that he was jobless??? Not a six figure career but he’s working. … so many put up a facade it’s insane! Manipulative covert narcissist 😴🥱
Man as a retired pookie I can say….pookie types stay winning. Women will give all they got to keep you and make you happy while you run the streets and make babies. You don’t have to have a job or know how to do anything around the house . All you have to do is dress nice, look good and put it down in the bedroom.
@@DTreatz Right! Now that they make the choice of who they date. They pick what looks good and what makes them feel good. A girl once told my brother she couldn’t date him cause he is not 6 foot. But he is 5’11” . She goes on to say if your height starts with a 5 I can’t date you… not realizing that it’s about the same height. My brother is a six figure earner as an engineer and he has no kids. And she turned him down over something that doesn’t judge how he would treat her. They pick like they are still teenagers in junior high.
I stopped getting a haircut and putting on clothes jus to see how far I could go it's 130 pm I'm laying across the bed replying to you eating flaming hots calling her to bring in wingstop 😂😂😂 I win ✊🏽
Notice how excited she is telling the story? I tell ya. Women like her love Pookies and toxic people all together. Introverts and common sense men stay away
Pookie never has to dish out a lot of money, but purses and bags or even put gas in her car. She will cook and clean for Pookie and even be submissive. Only after she leaves Pookie will she become disgruntled and raise her standards to extreme heights(materially/financially)
@@MrBlackraven2488they never have money but so many women do so much my neighborhoods filled with them on the low and the money comes from there mothers or grandmother disability check
Bingo and won't give him one fifth the support she gives this Winner while expecting the good man to give her the world from day one , get those passports brothers ASAP.
Yooooo that sh!t is crazy. They keep telling on themselves they want a dude they can control but a dude who got his sh!t together better give her the world n can’t tell her what to do
@@elijahshabazz1806Oh, you better believe they're still together. As you may have noticed, she's still proudly wearing her ring as she smiles while telling this embarrassing ass story.
@@Laoriginal718, never fails. They think “I can get him to act different for me.” Pookie gonna pook, no doubt. You can’t change him or stop him. Only thing you can do is avoid him.
Well the same should be said for men. Women don't trick them, they know exactly what they marry when they divorce them and they are taken to the cleaners and denied access to their children.
3 years and she never saw these things? He started being a bum and drunk 3 years after they met? She went from bending over for millionaires to a dude working at Enterprise??? Dude was destroying them guts.
She knew that dude was no good, its what attracted her - the second the drama she enjoying blows up in her face, she acting like a passenger in her own life and all this happened to her and not like SHE CHOSE A TOXIC DUDE to be with and have a baby.(We also have to take her word for it she "miscarried" and didn't "delete" the unborn..they deserve each other and she not innocent in the least....she acting like she a celebrity being interviewed too, she enjoying airing her laundry out and this shit is TACKY...don't put your business on the internet...
It's beyond tacky, it's trashy and low class. All these hoes airing out their private business to an internet audience for attention, as if they're celebrities.
Just childish, immature, and loves putting her business out there. She also has a guy friend that lives close by, that she can go to when she has relationship issues........ He clapping them cheeks
Fellas, if you find a woman who makes more than you and is willing to over look your shortcomings, do the best thing and change your lifestyle. Women like this is blessing from the lord. For me the start was quitting smoking weed and honestly I don’t deal with women that smoke period.
I know plenty of doctors , engineers, business owners that smoke .. it’s not even about the weed lol it’s about the quality of human you decide to spend your time with
These are the type of guys BW love hard. They would be super faithful to dudes like that. Notice he doesn't make six figures, cannot afford to take her out & I bet he's not 6 feet or taller as well. 😂😂😂
9:59 I love how JR held this women responsible for pookie’s red flags and not pookie for being a bum. If the roles were reversed he would blame her for all her red flags and tell guys to beware. It’s always the women’s fault no matter what on this channel.
Look at her playing victim to her predictable husband. Literally the same story/scenario we hear every time just different people. I’m surprised that these plays hasn’t gotten old already for people.
8 months pregnant is not a miscarriage. It is wayyyyy deeper. That is a still birth of a dead child. An 8 month old fetus can survive outside the womb.
It is absolutely comical that modern women always think they are exposing the man/male they are dealing with, but in reality they are just exposing themselves and their poor decision making when it comes to choosing a decent man. She married a scrub, and on top of that, he was a terrible liar.
Smoking weed takes time. As a real smoker you start to count the hours of just the act of smoking. 3 blunts is an hour of burn time at least..we only get about 12-14 productive hours in a day. So unless you can burn and work like Snoop...you loosing out.
Man I know someone with a similar pookie resume, the difference are they haven’t gotten married and He does what he wants to do. They’ve thrown phones, purses, pulled guns holes in the walls, she’s had to legally evict him only to have him move back in. and he just knocked her up a second time. This is why we don’t get involved in their BS.
It's the reason I checked out on American BW when I graduate from college I'm going overseas to find someone. I'm not going to waste my time on these thug loving Jezebels.
Facts nothing turns black women on more than a bum who has absolutely no Direction in life but remember it your fault tho she incorrect in all of this 😂
Omg I just lost my baby the same way, my heart goes out to her for that. I’m lost my baby in June, gave birth to him one week and had to plan his funeral the next but I have a great husband who was very concerned and supportive through the labor and the funeral. It’s sad she had to go through all of this while losing a child. Choosing the wrong man can make situations like this so much worse. I’m heart broken but at least my husband is there. It’s sad that her husband isn’t supportive and is taking her through so much. Y’all saying that’s what she gets and I get it she chose wrong but all of this happening around that time of her baby passing is so messed up. The agony of laying down to give birth to your deceased child and then leaving to plan a funeral is unbearable. I hate how in our community we hate each other so much that when blk men suffer in any way, blk women rejoice and when blk women suffer blk me rejoice. We show no mercy to each other. I just feel bad that she is dealing with the loss of a child and that man’s mess at the same time.
Men and women need too make way better choices and fully comprehend who they are getting involved with so one can live a decent or happy productive lives - respectfully.
Women will say the craziest stuff in their stories and not notice any of it as crazy when they're going through it. Smh. Women who go through this much stuff want to.
I find it quite disturbing that most Black women will stick by a "Good For Nothing Man" through Hell and High Water, but won't give a "Good Black Man" who would treat them right the time of day. Then after they get Used and Abused by these "Good For Nothing Men, these same women will start "Hating" on "All Black Men" because of who "They" decided to have relations with. Where's the "LOGIC" in this type of behavior?🤔
Dude... you're doing the same thing. You just hated on "most black women" for who they decide to have relationships with. Btw most of these "good dudes" aren't all that. Usually unattractive, out of shape, no personality, etc. I mean. . you should at least be desirable. Most of the time y'all want women that are clearly out of your League because if you weren't you wouldn't have a problem finding someone.
@@dmg.2443 I did not hate on most Black women like you are suggesting, I just stated a well known and documented fact. Most Black children are born out of wedlock and most of these children's mothers have multiple men who fathered their children. Now, before you go into a rant about these "All Black Men Are Irresponsible" you need to take into consideration that only 15 to 20% of Black Men are the fathers of these children, which means that the "Majority of Black Men" are are not out here making babies. The majority of Black Men are getting passed over by the majority of Black women who "Choose" who they want to have "$ex" with and who they "Choose" to "Father" their children. After being "Ran Through" and having multiple babies by different men, they want the 75 to 80% of single Black men who are not out here making babies to come in and play cleanup man. How is stating these facts "Hating" on Black women as you so eloquently accused me of doing? Please get out of your emotions and look at this from a logical point of view.
It not disturbing at all it just their Preference everyone has a type and black women type are bums black women numbers 1 pick will always be pookie 🤷 which is why black women will always be at the bottom
I see so many women like this. That can’t even see the first red flag until. It get really bad at the end. Ppl be trying too help them but they don’t listen and can’t even see. So I don’t even feel sorry.
Keep em coming JR!! Definitely need a conclusion to this story!! Her eyes scare the hell out me 😵💫😵💫those bad boys aren't straight... would have left her alone a loooong time ago
He makes $1600 every 2 weeks… Is this the man Tyler Perry said was able to pay the “light bill”? I use to take up for women like this but I’m done. There is a segment of BW who like pookies who do nothing in life. We have to stop allowing them to trauma bond. It’s ridiculous and weird .
Yooooo that sh!t is crazy. They keep telling on themselves they want a dude they can control but a dude who got his sh!t together better give her the world n can’t tell her what to do
I am 100 percent with the VA myself because i couldn't keep a job to speaking of va benefits. I use to have a woman that hold me down like she did and I messed it up but I live and I learn
I notice how she put his employment on notice twice. The first time when she said that no on was hacking you. You work at enterprise. The second time when she said you make $1600 every two weeks. Sounds like she felt superior to him the whole time. It was going to be a matter of time before it ended. Both throwing out each others phone. How old are you two?
I don't know if I'm not shit for this lol but as soon as she said she went to her guy friend house after her pookie husband threw her phone out the window, I immediately thought she might be doing something on the side herself lol.
16:50 her lashes are killing my soul 😂…. Anyway… I would not be telling anyone this story! When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time!
He couldn't do any Alpha Pookie shit because he would get emotional and give her leverage. He would have to threaten to leave and it would have to obviously hurt her if he did in order for it to mean anything.
I see this so much in the black community woman with professional degrees marrying or in most cases procreating and becoming a single mother with dusty men like this or pookies. This cycle happens so badly in our community. U dont see women if other races of other communities who have professional degrees educated, procreating/marrying the worse if their men. Like u will never see in bunches a wm who went to a prestigious university, marry a biker, or the bad man of their community...smh 😔🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Its because they are programmed to magnetize towards chaos. Look at the shows they watch. Black women value height, looks, swag, and the "vibe" over the things other races dont prioritize. Black women dont want nerds, accountants, anime fans, coders, programmers, chemists, and cybersecurity analysts because they are corny. They have no game. They arent slick with words, theyre not tall athletes, the dick game aint hitting, etc.... Now you see why this vicious cycle never ends. TV is a big reason why. Along with feminism telling them you can fuck up your youth and 'deserve' a captain to save the ship.
I found out a guy I was feeling had a baby on the way..the feelings were mutual but I still RAN FOR THE HILLS, I want to be the Only WIFE WITH OUR CHILDREN SIR…😆
she felt cause she took care of him she was in control of his actions. i dnt agree with how he went about with his child, but she was on some controlling type ish. and this was her side...
Watch Part 2 here: th-cam.com/video/qFGk_Z7TO3Q/w-d-xo.html
☀This remind me of that song by Shaggy "It Wasn’t Me"🤣😂
@@guinness718for real! He’s trying to act all innocent.
He didn’t trick her…..she had no discernment. Simple as that. Ppl get married for all the wrong reasons.
She knew who he was. She didn't care
She's only trying to save face now
Bingo, either she lack discernment or wanted control. But she was not tricked!
Love people she must of had real feelings for dude
@@reddywinslow3168 Nobody cares. People can love doing meth too. The point is that she had zero discernment and put herself in that situation. She has no right to be complaining.
Girl this man can’t even pay his own phone bill? 🧐🤦🏽♀️
Right it’s giving desperate 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂right
If you that broke??.... they all seem to have babies by these broke dusty men that they pay for, giving them hell of money, paying their bills, living with her.
He Fine and Not Boring that’s all that matters!!
And yet she complains. Make THAT make sense.
It’s an unspoken rule, but a lot of professional / career women have the absolute worst decision making when it comes to choosing a mate.
Bruh on Gawd !!! Be having grown ass niggaz at the crib.. I promise the most unproductive ninjaz be having the baddest sistaz I tell ya
It’s an -unspoken- rule, but -a lot of professional / career- women have the absolute worst decision making when it comes to choosing a mate.
*There, fixed that for you.
Honestly they always wanted those men and now that they have money they come back to the hood and beg these men to give them a chance, he won’t have to work she’ll buy him whatever he wants, girls can simp too, sadly she beats herself because the dude don’t care about her, she’s a clown a atm a mark
@@EmperorAJ93 SMH seen this situation more than enough
@@DTreatz thank you, sir. I stand corrected.
He was knocking that thing down so that's why red flags were ignored 😅
No that’s what some women are used to. They complain bout the sex from bums too
That's why it' so important for these ladies to stop givin out the cookie before really doin the research on a guy. The vast majority of these guys are scammers n scoundrels.
Facts! 😂😂
@PrettyIRL0926dirty rotten scoundrels 😂😂😂
Broke ones always do lol 😅
She said “iggnas are slow”……coming from a woman who had a five part story about how he PLAYED YOU.
It’s more 😂
🤣🤣🤣 FACTS
💀💀
You can't make this ish up ~ Kevin Samuels 🤦♂️ 😂😂😂
Well rissa tissa got famous like this so
If he was basically jobless, and she married him AND was having his baby, tells you everything we need to know. Why should he change or be be truthful.
It wasn’t stated that he was jobless??? Not a six figure career but he’s working. … so many put up a facade it’s insane! Manipulative covert narcissist 😴🥱
@@ceciliauribe812it was stated that he was jobless at 11:44
Her puttin her business on the internet is a HUGE red flag. Shows she doesnt value her privacy.
Yepper. Always running her mouth to her friends and family about everything in their relationship.
R u new to the internet?
That's Protocol Nowadays Attention a Helluva Drug
She likes to hear herself talk. Unfortunately, like many women out here.
Facts
Man as a retired pookie I can say….pookie types stay winning. Women will give all they got to keep you and make you happy while you run the streets and make babies. You don’t have to have a job or know how to do anything around the house . All you have to do is dress nice, look good and put it down in the bedroom.
Imagine giving them rights, just to fk up society like this....
crazy...
@@DTreatz Right! Now that they make the choice of who they date. They pick what looks good and what makes them feel good. A girl once told my brother she couldn’t date him cause he is not 6 foot. But he is 5’11” . She goes on to say if your height starts with a 5 I can’t date you… not realizing that it’s about the same height. My brother is a six figure earner as an engineer and he has no kids. And she turned him down over something that doesn’t judge how he would treat her. They pick like they are still teenagers in junior high.
@@DTreatzImagine "giving" anybody the natural rights they're entitled to.
"Retired Pookie" 🤣 that is the funniest comment ever! 😂😂
I stopped getting a haircut and putting on clothes jus to see how far I could go it's 130 pm I'm laying across the bed replying to you eating flaming hots calling her to bring in wingstop 😂😂😂 I win ✊🏽
Notice how excited she is telling the story? I tell ya. Women like her love Pookies and toxic people all together. Introverts and common sense men stay away
look at how she talks and conducts herself…SHE IS A POOKIE
What's a pookie bro?
Some women just want the title Wife but still for the streets!! This is why you need to take your time and know people!!
😂😂😂yep😂😂
Pookie never has to dish out a lot of money, but purses and bags or even put gas in her car. She will cook and clean for Pookie and even be submissive. Only after she leaves Pookie will she become disgruntled and raise her standards to extreme heights(materially/financially)
Nah most pookies don’t even work and they be taking care of them.
@@MrBlackraven2488they never have money but so many women do so much my neighborhoods filled with them on the low and the money comes from there mothers or grandmother disability check
Becuz she is a Pookie…I live in Atlanta…they will sell 8 yr old Benzes to anybody and just becuz she in a Benz doesn’t mean she is not a Pookie
@sweetwonkahallelujah7016 what year and model is her benz?
They deserve each other. She’ll look for a decent dude but has nothing to offer a decent man. She gave it all to the pookie
Yup
Bingo and won't give him one fifth the support she gives this Winner while expecting the good man to give her the world from day one , get those passports brothers ASAP.
Yooooo that sh!t is crazy. They keep telling on themselves they want a dude they can control but a dude who got his sh!t together better give her the world n can’t tell her what to do
I think they should just stay together at this point. She knew. Women be playing stupid as hell.
@@elijahshabazz1806Oh, you better believe they're still together. As you may have noticed, she's still proudly wearing her ring as she smiles while telling this embarrassing ass story.
Why do ppl take their business to the internet? 🤦🏽♀️
To get sympathy
On top of that, she is literally sitting in her car talking to herself while she is watching herself talk to herself.
Struggle love it's a weird attention seeking mindset that a lot of our woman have.
Socials have their good sides and what we see here is their dangerously bad ones.
Because they seeking attention 😂😂 I would be to embarrassed to put this on social media 😂😂
He didn't trick her women like these types she knew exactly who she married 😂😂.
Exactly, they love dudes who they know ain’t shit.
Exactly. She thought she could “change” him 😂
@@Laoriginal718 they want men they can manipulate.
@@Laoriginal718, never fails. They think “I can get him to act different for me.” Pookie gonna pook, no doubt. You can’t change him or stop him. Only thing you can do is avoid him.
Well the same should be said for men. Women don't trick them, they know exactly what they marry when they divorce them and they are taken to the cleaners and denied access to their children.
The guy she’s talking about is at the top of the dating food chain !!! Sistas love dudes like this !!!!!!! 😂😂 He has his pick !!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂
Drama is the new clout amongst today's women smh lol
Exhausting. Whew.
"new" clout?
When has it never not been 🤣
That's not new at all. Women always love drama, they thrive off of it.
"New" lmao
CCM!! Clout Chase Marathon
I need part 2. Pookie chronicles are always entertaining
🤣 Great with coffee in the AM
Pookie Chronicles 🤣😂😂
Exactly I want part 2 to hear the rest of the pokie shenanigans!!! #PookieDrama
They’re also terrifying warning tales!
Right?🤣🤣
3 years and she never saw these things? He started being a bum and drunk 3 years after they met? She went from bending over for millionaires to a dude working at Enterprise??? Dude was destroying them guts.
😂😂😂😂😂right
Yeah, but if he has the genetics they want for their kids, they will accept anything.
Them millionaires were beta making love when they should’ve been beating it up
One of her eyes is bigger than the other. She deserves him
@@SSS-wo2hnlmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pookie is their KRYPTONITE.....lol
This is everything they say they would never tolerate 😅
Don't want no scrubs, or he broke........yet here we are.
She's really telling this story and trying to play victim...all of the red flags was right in her face yet she stayed.
Yep!!!! Smh...
She knew that dude was no good, its what attracted her - the second the drama she enjoying blows up in her face, she acting like a passenger in her own life and all this happened to her and not like SHE CHOSE A TOXIC DUDE to be with and have a baby.(We also have to take her word for it she "miscarried" and didn't "delete" the unborn..they deserve each other and she not innocent in the least....she acting like she a celebrity being interviewed too, she enjoying airing her laundry out and this shit is TACKY...don't put your business on the internet...
I guess this is the type of excitement these women can't get from dealing with "Lames" with a 9 to 5
It's beyond tacky, it's trashy and low class. All these hoes airing out their private business to an internet audience for attention, as if they're celebrities.
Just childish, immature, and loves putting her business out there. She also has a guy friend that lives close by, that she can go to when she has relationship issues........ He clapping them cheeks
It’s funny hearing JR say lightskin Pookie but he’s lightskin 😂
😂😂😂😂
Beige 😂
I thought the same thing🤣🤣
He's right though. Many bw still faun over light skin brothers.
@@countvan7406 it don’t matter the complexion, they all NIGGIN
She loves the chaos.
She has a type and she deserves it!!!
🗣️this is why I don’t do social media. 🤦🏾♂️
What part of this makes you say that.
@@jenkinsvarietyservicesllc826 if you real you already know
She's still with him 😂
😂😂😂😂😂right
You know it!!! 😂😂😂
Fellas, if you find a woman who makes more than you and is willing to over look your shortcomings, do the best thing and change your lifestyle. Women like this is blessing from the lord. For me the start was quitting smoking weed and honestly I don’t deal with women that smoke period.
I entertained women who smoked, but it became evident that we weren't on the same page pertaining to life goals.
I know plenty of doctors , engineers, business owners that smoke .. it’s not even about the weed lol it’s about the quality of human you decide to spend your time with
Kevin Samuel's was correct. " You can't make this 💩 up!"
Match made in dusty
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😭😭
These are the type of guys BW love hard. They would be super faithful to dudes like that. Notice he doesn't make six figures, cannot afford to take her out & I bet he's not 6 feet or taller as well. 😂😂😂
Listening to her telling the story sounds like she really enjoyed the toxicity 😂
She is not going anywhere. She loves the energy.
... and drama. It also gives her stuff to post for views.
Her energy is tellin me that she is only worth a buss down at 2am
Fake hair fake eyebrows make-up and a fake relationship to go with it a perfect match for those who ❤the drama
They want dudes that got that street vibe that are reformed to become a honest spiritual man.
Even if it takes 15yrs for him to better himself she will be there for him😂
I’m sorry lord forgive me but when she said “ON MY MAMA” i instantly started rapping I LOOK GOOD!! 😩😩🤣🤣
"Touch my swag?? Wish you COULD!"
@@robertprince2651😂😂😂😂😂
I used to be kind of like a pookie. I made my own money, though. Pookies wit money are a problem too😂😂😂
This is why I don’t have friends.. I can’t deal with this drama. And… why I don’t date. These men..omg. #dramafree
9:59 I love how JR held this women responsible for pookie’s red flags and not pookie for being a bum. If the roles were reversed he would blame her for all her red flags and tell guys to beware. It’s always the women’s fault no matter what on this channel.
I'm a woman, and it IS a woman's faul for enabling this behavior and being stupid. L is on her. I listened with my mouth dropped
She knew better before she committed tho. He's a pookie so he's automatically a bum. Her fault her problem
I can tell that your a woman lol
@DruWill-z6k bingo , she running off all these red flags and it's like ok and you still married him.
Look at her playing victim to her predictable husband. Literally the same story/scenario we hear every time just different people. I’m surprised that these plays hasn’t gotten old already for people.
What’s old for some people is new for other people 😂
JR your facial expressions are timeless. You had me cracking up the whole time🤣🤣🤣 PLEASE DO A PART 2..
8 months pregnant is not a miscarriage. It is wayyyyy deeper. That is a still birth of a dead child. An 8 month old fetus can survive outside the womb.
Yes, yes part 2 JR, I need this as a cautionary tale!!
These stories should be told as lessons to avoid men/women.
as men we know a smooth dummy when we see one she allowed herself to be tricked she loves to be tricked as long as you don’t ruin the fantasy 😂😂😂😂
That's a fact
It is absolutely comical that modern women always think they are exposing the man/male they are dealing with, but in reality they are just exposing themselves and their poor decision making when it comes to choosing a decent man.
She married a scrub, and on top of that, he was a terrible liar.
🎯
There is pressure to marry and be chosen as well as usually two are better than one financially.
Smoking weed takes time. As a real smoker you start to count the hours of just the act of smoking. 3 blunts is an hour of burn time at least..we only get about 12-14 productive hours in a day. So unless you can burn and work like Snoop...you loosing out.
Ik you can smoke and work unless you already a lazy Mf
I like how u don’t interrupt the video every 3 seconds with commentary, salute 🫡
Man I know someone with a similar pookie resume, the difference are they haven’t gotten married and He does what he wants to do. They’ve thrown phones, purses, pulled guns holes in the walls, she’s had to legally evict him only to have him move back in. and he just knocked her up a second time. This is why we don’t get involved in their BS.
Women love Dusty men don’t believe them if they say they don’t….😅
It's the reason I checked out on American BW when I graduate from college I'm going overseas to find someone. I'm not going to waste my time on these thug loving Jezebels.
It's the same with men though. Y'all want the very women y'all claim to hate.
Facts nothing turns black women on more than a bum who has absolutely no Direction in life but remember it your fault tho she incorrect in all of this 😂
I’ve never been with a dusty . My kitty would dry up. Gross
Omg I just lost my baby the same way, my heart goes out to her for that. I’m lost my baby in June, gave birth to him one week and had to plan his funeral the next but I have a great husband who was very concerned and supportive through the labor and the funeral. It’s sad she had to go through all of this while losing a child. Choosing the wrong man can make situations like this so much worse. I’m heart broken but at least my husband is there. It’s sad that her husband isn’t supportive and is taking her through so much. Y’all saying that’s what she gets and I get it she chose wrong but all of this happening around that time of her baby passing is so messed up. The agony of laying down to give birth to your deceased child and then leaving to plan a funeral is unbearable. I hate how in our community we hate each other so much that when blk men suffer in any way, blk women rejoice and when blk women suffer blk me rejoice. We show no mercy to each other. I just feel bad that she is dealing with the loss of a child and that man’s mess at the same time.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby the same way as well in November. Sending you so much love❤
@@tiffanycisneros2839 thank you and heart goes out to you and your family. ❤️
Men and women need too make way better choices and fully comprehend who they are getting involved with so one can live a decent or happy productive lives - respectfully.
Ahhh my head hurts listening to all this craziness 🥺 What woman wants this type of relationship? Ma’am please love yourself more.
We need a part 2 for sure. 😂
Women will say the craziest stuff in their stories and not notice any of it as crazy when they're going through it. Smh. Women who go through this much stuff want to.
That's because they're used to telling other women their nonsense
Yea these stories all be sounding similarly crazy and bogus as hell.
I find it quite disturbing that most Black women will stick by a "Good For Nothing Man" through Hell and High Water, but won't give a "Good Black Man" who would treat them right the time of day. Then after they get Used and Abused by these "Good For Nothing Men, these same women will start "Hating" on "All Black Men" because of who "They" decided to have relations with. Where's the "LOGIC" in this type of behavior?🤔
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Women have no Logic they have Emotions !
Dude... you're doing the same thing. You just hated on "most black women" for who they decide to have relationships with. Btw most of these "good dudes" aren't all that. Usually unattractive, out of shape, no personality, etc. I mean. . you should at least be desirable. Most of the time y'all want women that are clearly out of your League because if you weren't you wouldn't have a problem finding someone.
@@dmg.2443 I did not hate on most Black women like you are suggesting, I just stated a well known and documented fact. Most Black children are born out of wedlock and most of these children's mothers have multiple men who fathered their children.
Now, before you go into a rant about these "All Black Men Are Irresponsible" you need to take into consideration that only 15 to 20% of Black Men are the fathers of these children, which means that the "Majority of Black Men" are are not out here making babies. The majority of Black Men are getting passed over by the majority of Black women who "Choose" who they want to have "$ex" with and who they "Choose" to "Father" their children.
After being "Ran Through" and having multiple babies by different men, they want the 75 to 80% of single Black men who are not out here making babies to come in and play cleanup man. How is stating these facts "Hating" on Black women as you so eloquently accused me of doing? Please get out of your emotions and look at this from a logical point of view.
It not disturbing at all it just their Preference everyone has a type and black women type are bums black women numbers 1 pick will always be pookie 🤷 which is why black women will always be at the bottom
Bro you kill me whenever you transition into 3rd person then hit’em with the high pitched voice!! 🤣🤣👍🏽
She wanted to date childish man so she can control him. She more like a mother
I see so many women like this. That can’t even see the first red flag until. It get really bad at the end. Ppl be trying too help them but they don’t listen and can’t even see. So I don’t even feel sorry.
She got what she deserved
Facts. I have zero sympathy for her.
Well said
Keep em coming JR!! Definitely need a conclusion to this story!! Her eyes scare the hell out me 😵💫😵💫those bad boys aren't straight... would have left her alone a loooong time ago
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He makes $1600 every 2 weeks… Is this the man Tyler Perry said was able to pay the “light bill”? I use to take up for women like this but I’m done. There is a segment of BW who like pookies who do nothing in life. We have to stop allowing them to trauma bond. It’s ridiculous and weird .
I gotta say that if he takes home 3200 a month, Pookie or not, it’s very decent personally.
She got hold that L..
she wanted the exact guy she married. nothing to see here
I'm going to say this one last time pookiesha only accepts pookie; she found her match.
That's the absolute truth
Yooooo that sh!t is crazy. They keep telling on themselves they want a dude they can control but a dude who got his sh!t together better give her the world n can’t tell her what to do
A don't want no scrub is 🧢. Yall lay down with nothing but scrubs 🤣
Prime Pookie Behavior. Hilarious
Pookie stay fly, Ray Ray is the killer
These women base all their feelings on the tickle the pookie provides….
I am 100 percent with the VA myself because i couldn't keep a job to speaking of va benefits. I use to have a woman that hold me down like she did and I messed it up but I live and I learn
I notice how she put his employment on notice twice. The first time when she said that no on was hacking you. You work at enterprise. The second time when she said you make $1600 every two weeks. Sounds like she felt superior to him the whole time. It was going to be a matter of time before it ended. Both throwing out each others phone. How old are you two?
He’s D ing her down good
lmfao i knoooo abt mcdonalds sprite tho 🥤🙌🏾
She knows that’s the best she can do. She loves chaos
That’s why we not doing struggle love.
He threw her phone through the window and still she didn't send him packing! No way someone gonna throw my phone away and we still talk.
I don't know if I'm not shit for this lol but as soon as she said she went to her guy friend house after her pookie husband threw her phone out the window, I immediately thought she might be doing something on the side herself lol.
Woman you love this man more than you know.
They wanna be victims so they can have a story to tell about how they were done wrong because being a victim is a flex - Love Dorsey
No problem with that, she's helping other women not get hurt like her
That's my man they all say this 😂
16:50 her lashes are killing my soul 😂…. Anyway… I would not be telling anyone this story! When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time!
Shorty signed up to be a step mom? 🧐 🗣️NEVER BE A STEP PARENT 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🗣️NEVER
Only for men, females still get benefits being stepmom cause they cant get cucked and the man still provides and they're all his kids 🤷
He couldn't do any Alpha Pookie shit because he would get emotional and give her leverage. He would have to threaten to leave and it would have to obviously hurt her if he did in order for it to mean anything.
Alpha POOKIE Beta POOKIE 😂😂😂
First major lie he told? Girl, he lied to you from day one. 😂
I see this so much in the black community woman with professional degrees marrying or in most cases procreating and becoming a single mother with dusty men like this or pookies. This cycle happens so badly in our community. U dont see women if other races of other communities who have professional degrees educated, procreating/marrying the worse if their men. Like u will never see in bunches a wm who went to a prestigious university, marry a biker, or the bad man of their community...smh 😔🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Its because they are programmed to magnetize towards chaos. Look at the shows they watch. Black women value height, looks, swag, and the "vibe" over the things other races dont prioritize. Black women dont want nerds, accountants, anime fans, coders, programmers, chemists, and cybersecurity analysts because they are corny. They have no game. They arent slick with words, theyre not tall athletes, the dick game aint hitting, etc.... Now you see why this vicious cycle never ends. TV is a big reason why. Along with feminism telling them you can fuck up your youth and 'deserve' a captain to save the ship.
Some people just don't need to get Married. My only question for all who is dating. What do you talk about? What questions are being asked?
Square dudes working at enterprise = Dusty
Actual dusty dudes working at enterprise = marriage material
Let’s get that part two JR!
the "ballers" she was messing with were "POOKIES" too,they were just looking for the "RUN-THRU"....she just hooked up with a full time "POOKIE"!
We need part 2!!😂😂😂😂
We need that part 2 Fam 💯
13:11
And you're dating him. What that say about you?
😂😂😂😂😂😂right
She didn't have any right to give out that man's information without his permission or proof
Damn JR, you ended the video right when my popcorn 🍿 got ready! 🤦🏾♂️
I don’t have instagram
I found out a guy I was feeling had a baby on the way..the feelings were mutual but I still RAN FOR THE HILLS, I want to be the Only WIFE WITH OUR CHILDREN SIR…😆
Yes we need a part 2.
No we don’t
@daquetreed5522 😂😂
I'm shocked because these kind of dudes usually dont believe in marriage...
The sad thing about this is if she was smart enough to leave him. She would go out and get another one just like him.
she felt cause she took care of him she was in control of his actions. i dnt agree with how he went about with his child, but she was on some controlling type ish. and this was her side...
Throwing phones is a new level of childishness.