This is a bingo video for sure. But beyond that, it makes me realize that we (humanity as a whole) spend most of our time on seeking out good experiences (excitement, pleasure, safety…) and what’s mind blowing is we’re mostly living through thoughts about experiences instead of the experiences themselves. Ironically, the experiences we seek are right before us in the everyday things and simplest of forms.
I sometimes find myself overly inclined to turn to writings and videos, instead of to the ever-present, living ‘book’ of experience that is right in front of me. Thanks for the reminder, it will help me keep turning back to what is most real!
You're not alone. I suspect there are many of us who spend much of the day distracting ourselves from simply being with whatever life is presenting. It's bizarre; we see the door, know the door, are continuously haunted by its presence -- but keep turning away. My prayer is for courage and devotion to truth over fear. Good luck.
I resonate with these ‘No More Mister Nice Guy’ style vids. This one, in particular, I’ve watched many times. I’ve noticed that good non duality teachers have this facility to be a little scary (in a good way), and really laser-beam the pointing. Thank you, Angelo.
No I’m sure it was definitely for me😁 🤣Angelo kindly replied to a message I sent him then a few hours later posted this!! It answered my rambling question perfectly or rather pointed me back to the place where there are no questions, he’s kind of a true master I feel and should be recognised as such, deep bow 🙏🏻
Can definitely relate to the mind pondering how I’m going to describe this teaching to others. It’s crazy how despite spiritual teaching being perhaps one of the most ‘boring’ sounding jobs ever (small audience, you’re just sitting and talking, it definitely wasn’t a childhood dream for most people), thought still finds a way to build an entire spiritual identity out of pretending to be one in your head.
Funny, mine does precisely the same thing! Lol..! I’m like Christ in many thoughts but I’ve felt this way my whole life… I just KNEW we were the same being..
Thanks for this! Recently experienced some "darker days". I was aware of it...aware I that I couldn't change it. I am getting better at it as I open without judgment to what is.
Could you talk about confusion? The subtle emotional tone that appears when there you are push pulling on thoughts about not knowing. Or the frustration that arises about the subtle implication to not land on thought.
I definitely resonate with the need to start explaining things. Would you say it can be helpful to do a simple acknowledgement or noting without forcing it, such as you mentioned saying to yourself "oh, it's just a thought".
Yes. However you may need to do it repeatedly for a while. Can also inquire into “which identity is arising with these thoughts?” The one who knows The one who wants to have knowledge The one who wants to be an expert Etc etc
I think I was hoping that I could "help" someone else with this realization at some point in my life. I think that was coming from a place that I need to "prove" something. I've lost interest in teaching anyone anything. I'm going to die. This is a dream. I literally don't care anymore. This life has been beyond painful, and I am at a place where I have no friends and no family -- and I'm only in my mid 30's. The world seems intent on destroying itself in a thermonuclear holocaust. I've accepted that. Nothing matters now. I'm just allowing these attachments to rise up and release as they do. I cry a lot now, but not as much as I used to. Because I see that this World-Appearance is just an illusion. I wish that I had lived more while I could. But it's all meaningless now. It feels empty, but also strangely comforting. I now only pray for a peaceful life and a swift end. I live in Denver, so I'm close to military bases -- I believe my end will be swift and soon. I truly do enjoy every moment now. It's beautiful, if fleeting. I am. Until I'm not.
Hi knight of cups If what you think will happen happens 'well none of us will know anything about it. My advice, don't watch any news just live now. We're all dying. If you feel like a chat come in here. There a pretty freindly bunch, and quite tolerant of the odd reaction. 🙃 Take care 🐴☕
@@nat998 I use to think about that stuff in the 80's, and i'm sure my mother did in the 40's. But we're still here. Humans seem to find a way. Feelings come and go.Still working on reactions, but don't seem to get anxiety any more.😊Pardoxical weirdness provdes lots of giggles.😂. Have a great day/night?🙃 Take care.🫂💜
Dear Knight of Cups, I so appreciate your raw and genuine post. I grew up in the 60’s, around the time when the impact of Rachel Carson’s “Silent Spring” was just being felt. And when we expected nuclear attacks to hit our cities and our schools any day now, so children were taught to shelter under desks 🤨😳. And new bombs were being built at a furious pace, in order to “protect us.” Later in life I went to prison and saw how “the greatest country in the world” treats people who never knew what hit them. Now, with Covid and massive staffing shortages, many federal prisons keep inmates in what amounts to perpetual lockdown/solitary confinement. In other words, I have experienced my own versions of what you describe so beautifully here. I won’t try to talk you out of it, because to me it’s an expression of your wisdom and your love. What I will do is remind you that even though what you describe is based in part on your insight and experience, it’s not an end point or a truth set in stone. It’s still just a viewpoint in an ever-changing, even dissolving process. It can and will change, whether or not the external factors change, or however they may play out. And the more you can remain open to this change of viewpoint, the more fluid it can be. I suspect that’s why you’re here, talking with us. I know that every time I express my own version of what you’re saying here, what I’m really wanting is for someone to remind me of these deeper truths. Welcome, friend. I love you, I respect you, and I’m glad you’re here… 🔥🤬🧌💎💜🦋
Hi Angelo, I've been going through a period of continuous suffering and been trying to inquire into it. However i also went on anti depressants as I was struggling with my work and concentrating. So I wanted to ask you what are your thoughts on these medications like anti depressants do they hinder or assist your progress? Will I still make progress with my spirituality? Right now Iam just looking at it as God's will that I took these medications ☺️. Thank you for your valuable content take care
So, does this whole saving time, frustration and confusion thing apply retroactively? 😄😆🤬😂 Listening to this, I found myself reflecting with amusement on all the energy I’ve spent over the years earnestly shoveling spiritual water. Convinced that with sufficient effort I could divert my little puddle to an imagined ocean. Hope nobody’s been watching! 😆🤪🦆🌊 Also, as I listened to this…ahem!…somewhat belated pointing, I wondered if this was what was really meant by the old dating line, “Where have you been all my life?” 🤨🤬😂 Sorry, it all just seems so comical to me right now… 🙏🧌😂🌊
@@SimplyAlwaysAwake I can feel this now. Life will wake you up. The questions that evaluate pull me away and create the distance between me and life. Letting things "be as they are" is letting go of the questions.
I get the part about focusing on direct experience rather than on thoughts... but what about those experiences/ feelings that are triggered by thoughts/beliefs? I feel those are so entangled with thoughts that's hard to focus on just the experience... 😳
It took me a long to to see this clearly bc there were so many thoughts, but what I’ve found is that underneath all of that thought activity there is a sort of ever changing weather system of sensation. Depending on the pattern in the moment, the push into thought will be more or less acute. When it’s an intense push into thought, the mind will often conclude that it was caused by thought. Over time you instinctually realize that there is always access to the sensations, and that that’s where the money is :)
[Chorus] Come on, shake your body, baby, do the chandra I know you can't control yourself any longer Feel the rhythm of the music getting stronger don't you fight it till you've tried it, do that chandra beat. Gracias con amor!
@@nat998 Are we using the boundless nothing to become something or having chosen to stick around, are we not using isness to live a more full and balanced life? I wonder. I'm writing up a personal experience in the practical use of this boundlessness. I'll share at with you when I feel like it's more of a lesson and not the story of a braggart. Angelo's gambling video brought back the memory and I've been toying with it ever since. nice to speak to you as well! 💛
@@nat998 Eggs zachary! The ego will strive you from achieving mastery and once it has been attained will attempt one from that realization; what is me anyway? chandra is Chanda btw lmao 💛It's so much better (better being... well... fun... then back to balance. remember Buddhist Priest doing: Breaking the law?) to actually be part of the experience and be the whole of the boundless nothing. when the student threw the text into the fire he became the master. "What are you doing?!" ""What are you saying?!""
I love that story. two rare pearls for the price of one. A master is quite fortunate to bring one into the light. To bring many is to be a master of masters and a rare blessing indeed. "And we shall flow a river forth to thee and teeming with souls shall it ever be" - Boondock Saints. Perhaps not with a faith of death but instead with a faith in life.
@@nat998 It is, also yoga, also the moon energy which opens one up. A dance, that's life. chandra is Chanda. see? A fine Argentine Tango or a brilliant event horizon. The bull is the bull and therefore is one with everything.
@@nat998 I like the matrix. I liked the leader of Zion. He didn't know the history and still was able to see that people and machines needed each other to survive. It becomes a matter of perspective if the machines made us slaves or saved us or both. Because the matrix evolves it means even after everything they are still trying to coexist.
That’s the question isn’t it? I’ll quote St John of the Cross To come to the knowledge you have not, you must go by a way in which you know not. To come to the possession you have not, you must go by a way in which you possess not.
Realization feels like you have been eating peas your whole life because that’s the only thing you’ve been served and then one day someone gives you a bite of cheesecake and says every single bite of cheesecake you eat from here on out only gets better but then takes that cheesecake away and says you have to go back to eating peas and forget this cheesecake ever happened if you ever want it again… and oh by the way the peas and cheesecake were never real In the first place..
@@nat998 oh wait there’s more… and the more you think about how deliciously amazing this fake cheesecake was the more fake peas you will get and if you ever talk to anyone about this elusive scrumptiously awesome fake cheesecake the more people will stop talking to you cause you’re crazy because everyone knows only real peas exist and talk of a fake cheesecake that doesn’t exist only gets you back in the looney bin or rehab which also isn’t a real thing 🤯🤯… you think drama is the one thing you don’t want but apparently God freaking loves it
This is a bingo video for sure. But beyond that, it makes me realize that we (humanity as a whole) spend most of our time on seeking out good experiences (excitement, pleasure, safety…) and what’s mind blowing is we’re mostly living through thoughts about experiences instead of the experiences themselves. Ironically, the experiences we seek are right before us in the everyday things and simplest of forms.
There is so much here...but the line, " you can never leave this moment" kind of blew me away.
Damn are we lucky you started sharing whatever all this is.
I sometimes find myself overly inclined to turn to writings and videos, instead of to the ever-present, living ‘book’ of experience that is right in front of me. Thanks for the reminder, it will help me keep turning back to what is most real!
You're not alone. I suspect there are many of us who spend much of the day distracting ourselves from simply being with whatever life is presenting. It's bizarre; we see the door, know the door, are continuously haunted by its presence -- but keep turning away. My prayer is for courage and devotion to truth over fear. Good luck.
Hey! I am one of those who reached out on fb with a question that actually could fall under this video! :) So thanks! I will trust my experience!
Welcome
The mind experiences life. I am life.
I resonate with these ‘No More Mister Nice Guy’ style vids. This one, in particular, I’ve watched many times. I’ve noticed that good non duality teachers have this facility to be a little scary (in a good way), and really laser-beam the pointing. Thank you, Angelo.
No I’m sure it was definitely for me😁 🤣Angelo kindly replied to a message I sent him then a few hours later posted this!! It answered my rambling question perfectly or rather pointed me back to the place where there are no questions, he’s kind of a true master I feel and should be recognised as such, deep bow 🙏🏻
🙏
This is so timely it's uncanny, especially the back half about thoughts of teaching to others.Thanks again!
The mind is complex so it makes awakening into something complex
Yes indeed
Can definitely relate to the mind pondering how I’m going to describe this teaching to others. It’s crazy how despite spiritual teaching being perhaps one of the most ‘boring’ sounding jobs ever (small audience, you’re just sitting and talking, it definitely wasn’t a childhood dream for most people), thought still finds a way to build an entire spiritual identity out of pretending to be one in your head.
Yes I know, it’s odd. Perhaps the ego just has nothing wise it can do to occupy itself when hearing this. So it imagines being the one teaching it 🤪
Funny, mine does precisely the same thing! Lol..! I’m like Christ in many thoughts but I’ve felt this way my whole life… I just KNEW we were the same being..
It’s a way that people learn, by teaching. It shows you’ve fully understood something. That’s why in school you write essays explaining XYZ for tests.
Thanks for this! Recently experienced some "darker days". I was aware of it...aware I that I couldn't change it. I am getting better at it as I open without judgment to what is.
Once again, your right on the money Angelo!
Totally loved this one! Big fat thank you once more :D
Thanks again for laser-sharp pointing 🎉
You are deeply appreciated Angelo, Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Welcome 🤗
Could you talk about confusion? The subtle emotional tone that appears when there you are push pulling on thoughts about not knowing. Or the frustration that arises about the subtle implication to not land on thought.
Tired of frustration!!!
Love this!! Somebody recommended this channel on TH-cam and after watching this as my first video, I had to subscribe. Thank you so much!! 🙏💗💗💗💗
Profound. Perfection!
I definitely resonate with the need to start explaining things. Would you say it can be helpful to do a simple acknowledgement or noting without forcing it, such as you mentioned saying to yourself "oh, it's just a thought".
Yes. However you may need to do it repeatedly for a while. Can also inquire into “which identity is arising with these thoughts?”
The one who knows
The one who wants to have knowledge
The one who wants to be an expert
Etc etc
This was such a helpful message for me to hear. Thank you!
I think I was hoping that I could "help" someone else with this realization at some point in my life. I think that was coming from a place that I need to "prove" something. I've lost interest in teaching anyone anything. I'm going to die. This is a dream. I literally don't care anymore. This life has been beyond painful, and I am at a place where I have no friends and no family -- and I'm only in my mid 30's. The world seems intent on destroying itself in a thermonuclear holocaust. I've accepted that. Nothing matters now. I'm just allowing these attachments to rise up and release as they do. I cry a lot now, but not as much as I used to. Because I see that this World-Appearance is just an illusion. I wish that I had lived more while I could. But it's all meaningless now. It feels empty, but also strangely comforting. I now only pray for a peaceful life and a swift end. I live in Denver, so I'm close to military bases -- I believe my end will be swift and soon. I truly do enjoy every moment now. It's beautiful, if fleeting. I am. Until I'm not.
Hi knight of cups If what you think will happen happens 'well none of us will know anything about it. My advice, don't watch any news just live now.
We're all dying. If you feel like a chat come in here. There a pretty freindly bunch, and quite tolerant of the odd reaction. 🙃
Take care 🐴☕
@@nat998 I use to think about that stuff in the 80's, and i'm sure my mother did in the 40's. But we're still here. Humans seem to find a way.
Feelings come and go.Still working on reactions, but don't seem to get anxiety any more.😊Pardoxical weirdness provdes lots of giggles.😂.
Have a great day/night?🙃
Take care.🫂💜
Dear Knight of Cups,
I so appreciate your raw and genuine post.
I grew up in the 60’s, around the time when the impact of Rachel Carson’s “Silent Spring” was just being felt. And when we expected nuclear attacks to hit our cities and our schools any day now, so children were taught to shelter under desks 🤨😳.
And new bombs were being built at a furious pace, in order to “protect us.”
Later in life I went to prison and saw how “the greatest country in the world” treats people who never knew what hit them. Now, with Covid and massive staffing shortages, many federal prisons keep inmates in what amounts to perpetual lockdown/solitary confinement.
In other words, I have experienced my own versions of what you describe so beautifully here.
I won’t try to talk you out of it, because to me it’s an expression of your wisdom and your love.
What I will do is remind you that even though what you describe is based in part on your insight and experience, it’s not an end point or a truth set in stone.
It’s still just a viewpoint in an ever-changing, even dissolving process.
It can and will change, whether or not the external factors change, or however they may play out.
And the more you can remain open to this change of viewpoint, the more fluid it can be.
I suspect that’s why you’re here, talking with us.
I know that every time I express my own version of what you’re saying here, what I’m really wanting is for someone to remind me of these deeper truths.
Welcome, friend. I love you, I respect you, and I’m glad you’re here…
🔥🤬🧌💎💜🦋
Nat, you are a lovely being.
Always showing up here with such 💜
Thank you 🙏
Very important realization! If it chooses you, so be it. However you don't get out of it what many who aspire to this might think 😂
Thank you 🙏🏼
…Did you make this specifically for me? 😆🤣🤪 🧠
You know it
Thank you appreciate all your videos and the time you give to all of us
You’re welcome ☺️
Hi Angelo, I've been going through a period of continuous suffering and been trying to inquire into it. However i also went on anti depressants as I was struggling with my work and concentrating. So I wanted to ask you what are your thoughts on these medications like anti depressants do they hinder or assist your progress? Will I still make progress with my spirituality? Right now Iam just looking at it as God's will that I took these medications ☺️. Thank you for your valuable content take care
They won't affect it either way :)
I have returned ❤
Gratitude.
A scientist learns through phenomena.
A philosopher learns through quality/qualia.
A spiritual seeker learns through experience.
or unlearns as the case may be :)
Thank you Angelo :) You're the best.
You!
thank you so much.
This was the perfect reminder in perfect timing.
🙏❤️
You are so welcome
So, does this whole saving time, frustration and confusion thing apply retroactively?
😄😆🤬😂
Listening to this, I found myself reflecting with amusement on all the energy I’ve spent over the years earnestly shoveling spiritual water.
Convinced that with sufficient effort I could divert my little puddle to an imagined ocean.
Hope nobody’s been watching!
😆🤪🦆🌊
Also, as I listened to this…ahem!…somewhat belated pointing, I wondered if this was what was really meant by the old dating line, “Where have you been all my life?”
🤨🤬😂
Sorry, it all just seems so comical to me right now…
🙏🧌😂🌊
😂👌
I love your comment!!
🙏😂
Thanks, trinidiana,
Sometimes it’s lighthearted, sometimes it’s like dragging a bag of rocks up a muddy hill.
Best to you!
Lots of love Angelo ❤️
😊
thanks angelo :)
You're welcome
@@SimplyAlwaysAwake
I can feel this now. Life will wake you up. The questions that evaluate pull me away and create the distance between me and life. Letting things "be as they are" is letting go of the questions.
Brilliant!
Hahaha, I feel like my email triggered this… but it sounds like I am one of many.
I’m sure it did in part
Thank you for This sharing Angelo , love
You are so welcome
Back to square 1
3:25 would you classify mindfulness as thought? becoming aware of thoughts As thoughts? Or is awareness different from thinking about thinking?
@@sixnine-id9ox sure, what would be the thought releasing thought
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I get the part about focusing on direct experience rather than on thoughts... but what about those experiences/ feelings that are triggered by thoughts/beliefs? I feel those are so entangled with thoughts that's hard to focus on just the experience... 😳
It took me a long to to see this clearly bc there were so many thoughts, but what I’ve found is that underneath all of that thought activity there is a sort of ever changing weather system of sensation. Depending on the pattern in the moment, the push into thought will be more or less acute. When it’s an intense push into thought, the mind will often conclude that it was caused by thought. Over time you instinctually realize that there is always access to the sensations, and that that’s where the money is :)
And then you're free from thought and rich! Win-win! 😉 Thanks Angelo! 🙏❤️
[Chorus] Come on, shake your body, baby, do the chandra
I know you can't control yourself any longer
Feel the rhythm of the music getting stronger
don't you fight it till you've tried it, do that chandra beat.
Gracias con amor!
@@nat998 Are we using the boundless nothing to become something or having chosen to stick around, are we not using isness to live a more full and balanced life? I wonder. I'm writing up a personal experience in the practical use of this boundlessness. I'll share at with you when I feel like it's more of a lesson and not the story of a braggart. Angelo's gambling video brought back the memory and I've been toying with it ever since. nice to speak to you as well! 💛
@@nat998 Eggs zachary! The ego will strive you from achieving mastery and once it has been attained will attempt one from that realization; what is me anyway? chandra is Chanda btw lmao 💛It's so much better (better being... well... fun... then back to balance. remember Buddhist Priest doing: Breaking the law?) to actually be part of the experience and be the whole of the boundless nothing. when the student threw the text into the fire he became the master. "What are you doing?!" ""What are you saying?!""
I love that story. two rare pearls for the price of one. A master is quite fortunate to bring one into the light. To bring many is to be a master of masters and a rare blessing indeed. "And we shall flow a river forth to thee and teeming with souls shall it ever be" - Boondock Saints. Perhaps not with a faith of death but instead with a faith in life.
@@nat998 It is, also yoga, also the moon energy which opens one up. A dance, that's life. chandra is Chanda. see? A fine Argentine Tango or a brilliant event horizon. The bull is the bull and therefore is one with everything.
@@nat998 I like the matrix. I liked the leader of Zion. He didn't know the history and still was able to see that people and machines needed each other to survive. It becomes a matter of perspective if the machines made us slaves or saved us or both. Because the matrix evolves it means even after everything they are still trying to coexist.
how do you ,,,or how does one "trust they're expreience" ?
What’s “it”?
That’s the question isn’t it?
I’ll quote St John of the Cross
To come to the knowledge you have not, you must go by a way in which you know not. To come to the possession you have not, you must go by a way in which you possess not.
@@SimplyAlwaysAwake God help me. I can t figure it out. 💧
😘
Sorry but I speak spanish and have a doubt: can I use Who instead of Mu then?
Yes
if you weren't so creepy, i could believe you more, lol. Anyway, thanks for what you're *not* doing!
Realization feels like you have been eating peas your whole life because that’s the only thing you’ve been served and then one day someone gives you a bite of cheesecake and says every single bite of cheesecake you eat from here on out only gets better but then takes that cheesecake away and says you have to go back to eating peas and forget this cheesecake ever happened if you ever want it again… and oh by the way the peas and cheesecake were never real In the first place..
😂😂😂
@@nat998 oh wait there’s more… and the more you think about how deliciously amazing this fake cheesecake was the more fake peas you will get and if you ever talk to anyone about this elusive scrumptiously awesome fake cheesecake the more people will stop talking to you cause you’re crazy because everyone knows only real peas exist and talk of a fake cheesecake that doesn’t exist only gets you back in the looney bin or rehab which also isn’t a real thing 🤯🤯… you think drama is the one thing you don’t want but apparently God freaking loves it
@@nat998 cool story
I'm looping this mofo all day today 😂😂😂😂
Thank you 🙏🏾
You are so welcome
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