hits different, huh?

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  • @ComplexHowell
    @ComplexHowell  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10933

    just to reiterate
    dan's video is about a big part of his life; his sexuality. this video is not a representation of everything his video implies and truly means, just moments that we see differently in a good way now - and there are many more. i am incredibly proud of him for saying what he has, and i think it's important to show support towards everything within it, not just any 'phan' or 'phil' aspect of it.
    sexualising something does not equal finding something sweet/cute either, keep this in mind before sharing your opinions.
    however, don’t be fuckin creepy man, there’s some weird comments in this comment section that i’ve had to delete - i don’t want this video to be a source of something bad, let it be good.
    fanks

    • @Marianne_L
      @Marianne_L 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Well said 💜

    • @Lisa_Flowers
      @Lisa_Flowers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      THANK.YOU.SO.MUCH.FOR.SAYING.THIS. Honestly I'm so proud about how the community responded. Like there seems to be a lot of overwhelming support of course, but people are also being super mature and respectful and level-headed about it instead of descending into demon-phannie hell. They recognise that Dan's video is bigger than a 45 minute confirmation of something between him and Phil. They're respecting the work and bravery and vulnerability he put into it, and it's great. He deserves it.

    • @alexmagus7917
      @alexmagus7917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Xxxx

    • @nikkifbv
      @nikkifbv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can you tell me the name of the intro song please?

    • @ComplexHowell
      @ComplexHowell  5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@longlivethegays i do not expect them to, i will respect what they choose to do purely based on the level of respect i have for them both

  • @mistyminnie5922
    @mistyminnie5922 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7937

    okay but.. dan loves him so much. and the way he said they were "not only romantic" just really hit me, because you can see that. it's not just a relationship, it's a _bond_ . i'm so happy for him.

    • @MsBossLadyLola
      @MsBossLadyLola 5 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      They are perfect together. True soulmates.

    • @ilgguk8048
      @ilgguk8048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      it was "more than just romantic" 🥰

    • @smalldarkfan
      @smalldarkfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      *alittlelost* my heart 🥺

    • @ilovevegetaandrecca
      @ilovevegetaandrecca 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      *alittlelost* i didn’t really get it like when he said that
      Did he mean it as a really good (just bestfriends) or the other way around

    • @slmpetr
      @slmpetr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Mercer ,, it doesn’t matter,, all that matters is that they’re happy together uwu🥰

  • @rtchoke4333
    @rtchoke4333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2611

    you have successfully shipped dan and phil without being demon, thank you.

    • @moonlore1629
      @moonlore1629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Rtchoke Hearts same i kept it to myself like a holy child😌

    • @snakm
      @snakm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      but can i be baby?

    • @misocompilations1044
      @misocompilations1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my question, are they actually dating?

    • @rtchoke4333
      @rtchoke4333 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      misomochi nooo

    • @niajohnson1632
      @niajohnson1632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      miso mochi kinda unclear but it’s pretty easy to assume so at this point. They haven’t confirmed nor denied since their individual coming outs

  • @unofficially-ace
    @unofficially-ace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12048

    One word
    ‘Soulmates’

    • @nightnight3676
      @nightnight3676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

      i love the fact that even Dan used it xD

    • @livjrksjgjsjgj
      @livjrksjgjsjgj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +256

      *literal soulmates*

    • @claire-do2ei
      @claire-do2ei 5 ปีที่แล้ว +341

      "not that souls are a thing--"

    • @penelopeb1
      @penelopeb1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      claire! at the discø *souls, not soulmates (sorry i had to)

    • @claire-do2ei
      @claire-do2ei 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pénélope Barnabé fuck

  • @hammysammy2036
    @hammysammy2036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1612

    I haven’t watched Dan and Phil in like 2 years, this has resparked a love that I’ve forgotten

  • @gabe5436
    @gabe5436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7907

    okay but the first clip and i’m already in tears

    • @arianachamochumbi6574
      @arianachamochumbi6574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same

    • @abigailfischer2946
      @abigailfischer2946 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      good guyy fiitttzz

    • @connersuxx
      @connersuxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ariana Chamochumbi Dan looked so fidgety and nervous

    • @eilees7466
      @eilees7466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hsue hsirhe that’s the first thing I noticed too SKSKSKS

    • @meglane2020
      @meglane2020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly

  • @menacellama9841
    @menacellama9841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2134

    Y'all crying at the first clip and I'm stuck crying at the disclaimer already lmao

    • @someone4957
      @someone4957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      BRO SAME HELP

    • @emunebula2975
      @emunebula2975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Crafting to loud

    • @reaganb6013
      @reaganb6013 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😭😭😭

    • @archerrz24
      @archerrz24 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Menace Llama I’m already crying at the TITLE BEAT ME

  • @justsav_4064
    @justsav_4064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5856

    ALL THESE DO HIT DIFFERENTLY AND IM CRYING HAPPY TEARS

    • @olive8126
      @olive8126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      JustARandomPhan you know what hits differently? Watching all the pinofs in order and seeing dan shut off and becoming scared to show any emotion (in the 2012 Pinof he comes across as quite harsh to Phil as well) and then opening back up again and becoming himself again over time

    • @justsav_4064
      @justsav_4064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      olives you’re right like omg

  • @mostar1219
    @mostar1219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    It's sweet when a boomer/traditionalist says they look cute together

    • @yusufgazi7
      @yusufgazi7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      /Conservatard

  • @ysabelledelacuesta7533
    @ysabelledelacuesta7533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2369

    They're a couple or not, it hits in a different but good different way. Knowing they're comfortable with each other, makes me extremely happy. I'm proud of them.

    • @sarahjane8054
      @sarahjane8054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So.. are they a couple??

    • @sarahjane8054
      @sarahjane8054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @RedninjaTurtle19 but where DOD they specifically say they were a couple though??

    • @sinaibotello4455
      @sinaibotello4455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      Sarah jane in this coming out video he technically said how Phil made his life better and he said something like “our relationship is amazing, not just romantic but....” so uhhhh I would take that as a they are dating but don’t want to talk so much about it

    • @AtomicKittenBaby
      @AtomicKittenBaby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      @@sinaibotello4455 he also said "and obviously we were more than friends" and said they were soulmates. So like........ ya know.

    • @sinaibotello4455
      @sinaibotello4455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AtomicKittenBaby oh oop i don’t know how I forgot about that part

  • @Sar4zu
    @Sar4zu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    2:33 The only thing I'm thinking about rn is Dan not realising that it's reflecting in the back

    • @armadillopillow
      @armadillopillow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Omfg I didn't even notice that, you've enlightened me lmao

    • @link9170
      @link9170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHAHAHAHA IM CRYING

  • @karengutierrez775
    @karengutierrez775 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3011

    even before the video started i was already cryinggg

    • @katieg102
      @katieg102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Karen G YOUR PROFILE PIC I-

    • @zeroara
      @zeroara 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      rex orange county makes everyone emo

    • @butterfri4996
      @butterfri4996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Karen G omg you're pfp is EVERYTHING!

    • @Marmar-zm1ho
      @Marmar-zm1ho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Karen G I luv ur profile pic

  • @cat9424
    @cat9424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +772

    Dan: basically, I'm gay
    TH-cam: here's some phan for y'all

    • @galaxxy5074
      @galaxxy5074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cat From Hell I was so confused when I seen that

    • @lesbuwan
      @lesbuwan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and now phil came out -

    • @cat9424
      @cat9424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lesbuwan
      phil: hi I'm gay
      TH-cam: Okay Phannies, half your feed will now be phan. Enjoy :))

  • @marina_epub
    @marina_epub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6993

    the last one i- the look on dan face while he was holding her and he was looking at phil so happy??
    (update: because some peoples tough i was implying phan since i added phil, no i didnt meant it like that it was just a detail i added to describe how soft and cute the situation was)

    • @uptownfrank9
      @uptownfrank9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      I love this so much. I loved it before. But now...omg

    • @JERBYTUBE
      @JERBYTUBE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      he's just there like 'Phil i want a baby' xD

    • @lukasdoornbos3004
      @lukasdoornbos3004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Marina Panda literally they would be awesome dads

    • @aeroh790
      @aeroh790 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Marina Panda i love your profile pic

    • @reaganlind8736
      @reaganlind8736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      me too i was smiling the whole time :’)

  • @hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397
    @hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    No matter what their relationship is, platonic,romantic,whatever. They are truly best friends and I'm so happy for them that they found eachother.

  • @kirstenshofstall630
    @kirstenshofstall630 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2943

    I’m so proud of him for coming out and openly talking about things, it has helped me a lot within just the 3 days it’s been up. 🥀❤️

  • @bread4012
    @bread4012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    it’s amazing. they truly are “soulmates”, my best friend and i couldn’t last 2 weeks as roommates.

    • @alwaysprocrastinating355
      @alwaysprocrastinating355 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      omg I'm responding 4 years later bc I've been thinking about how dan and phils bond is so special and i wish i had something like it - also i can relate to you bc i thought i had found my platonic (almost became romantic...?) soulmate (we were basically in a queer platonic relationship before things went south) and then we became roommates and that lasted 2 months before our relationship was ruined (we even confessed feelings for each other before deciding that we shouldn't date)...there definitely were fundamental problems (i don't like playing the blame game but she had some issues)...but it was heartbreaking - anyways sorry for the rant basically im trying to say that i relate & i love d&p a little too much

  • @HannahG-nk2mf
    @HannahG-nk2mf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3758

    I can’t wait for the copious amounts of “it hits differently” videos! This is amazing...it all really feels different

    • @aaliyaramanathan5362
      @aaliyaramanathan5362 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      how did the entire phandom simultaneously come up with a new phrase to describe every old video after having watched Basically Im Gay

    • @skylarthaxton5498
      @skylarthaxton5498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hannah G0123 I FEEL THE SAME WAY

    • @rainbowsatan2620
      @rainbowsatan2620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah I agree. This really is a new chapter for Dan and Phil

    • @AddBowIfGirl
      @AddBowIfGirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Black vernacular really does pervade mainstream culture. Kind of annoying tbh.

  • @CherrySweetCherry1
    @CherrySweetCherry1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    Literally - the one with Louise's baby made my heart explode!!!!

    • @binklebonkle5767
      @binklebonkle5767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I read this right as it was happening.

    • @yupdatsmeboiii
      @yupdatsmeboiii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes, i was on the verge of tears trying not to cry 😭

  • @painandmorepain
    @painandmorepain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3017

    Omg that last clip- they're such dads I love it :')

    • @madi3089
      @madi3089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      pain and more pain
      i like your profile picture and i can relate to your username

    • @randomperson1981
      @randomperson1981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@madi3089 oof mood

    • @elli1080
      @elli1080 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They wud be the best parents

    • @isilva0013
      @isilva0013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But honestly, even though I just join ish the fandom when he put out that video, I'm still just thinking "oh wow"

  • @telesha8902
    @telesha8902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    phil in the first clip: i've spent the majority of 2016, with another person---
    me: *tears up*

  • @katiegrim3497
    @katiegrim3497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1416

    i mean it does kinda hit different. BUT their relationship is private and not for our entertainment and satisfaction so can we jusy enjoy this video please and not ruin a nice thing

    • @ak7845
      @ak7845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rachel Yu agreed

    • @charlotteex721
      @charlotteex721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Rachel Yu says the person who clicked on it n probably searched it up...

    • @killcharlie
      @killcharlie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charlotteex721 u probs did the same thing buddy

    • @charlotteex721
      @charlotteex721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bhaddie B we all did... i can’t help it.. ik they want to keep it private but i rlly ship them 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @beth7132
      @beth7132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rachel Yu stfu

  • @EmmaHasLegs
    @EmmaHasLegs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6959

    THE FIRST CLIP AND I'M ALREADY CRYING, OH MY GOSH
    (edited) Wow jeez thanks for 7,1K likes🧡

    • @rainbowsatan2620
      @rainbowsatan2620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAME. AHH THIS IS GONNA BE A RIDE

    • @catsmith8520
      @catsmith8520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, thank fluff, someone else who got all emotional and gooey 30 seconds in xxx

    • @katiewarner9011
      @katiewarner9011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too.

  • @WillowWispGaming
    @WillowWispGaming 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1293

    Even tho they may not still be together (hence dan saying what Phil and him *had*) they’re still soulmates. Romantically or platonically, they’re meant to be

    • @elm000l
      @elm000l 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      wait what did they have a previous relationship? ik it doesn't matter I'm just genuinely curious

    • @Han01698
      @Han01698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I was sitting there barbacue sauce on my tittys I hate speculating, but I honestly feel like when he said had that they used to have one because of him explaining his fear of commitment and sleeping around and I’m not sure if that would have been prior to Phil because it’s been so long? But obviously I could be 10000% wrong like what do I know 😂😂

    • @mysterysunfurled
      @mysterysunfurled 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Han01698 what're you even talking about?

    • @Han01698
      @Han01698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Then We Are Decided What Dan said in his video, about his commitment issues and sleeping around. Lol.

    • @mysterysunfurled
      @mysterysunfurled 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@Han01698 did he say that? Like whaaaaat. I don't remember that at all

  • @millie5823
    @millie5823 5 ปีที่แล้ว +888

    All these soft moments seem so much softer and more adorable now

  • @TheAwkwardAlexandraa
    @TheAwkwardAlexandraa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    i absolutely love how respectful the person who made this video was and how much cuter these clips are now😢 being in the phandom for 8 years, this is a good time to be around

  • @gracie9658
    @gracie9658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    The last clip with Pearl is the most precious thing and it ended me 😭

    • @jaydasmith255
      @jaydasmith255 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gracie literally 😭. Stanredvelvet

  • @yris4602
    @yris4602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    love this, it’s cute doesn’t fetishise them like some other phans are doing
    quality video

  • @tannerpoissant6263
    @tannerpoissant6263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3148

    Oh my god since the video came out ive been thinking abt these moments and it does hit differently. Not a bad different necessarily, just different :)

    • @katieg102
      @katieg102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Tanner P I feel like it makes me happier knowing they are (most likely) an actual couple other than just our phantasies

    • @tannerpoissant6263
      @tannerpoissant6263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      @@katieg102 yea, and even if they don't call themselves a couple i feel comfortable knowing that they are both happy with each other

    • @katieg102
      @katieg102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tanner P yeah 😊😊

    • @crummycreator5548
      @crummycreator5548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @RedninjaTurtle19 I'm super happy for them too, but honestly more happy that Dan felt comfortable sharing this with us. It's important to be supportive but also give them privacy so we don't revert to 2012 Dan who is afraid to open up because of the obsessive Phannies

    • @crummycreator5548
      @crummycreator5548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @RedninjaTurtle19 oh okay dope. Lmao I just feel like everyone's just on edge about making sure the fetishizing crowd stays in their hole y'know? When I was younger I definitely shipped them but as I've gotten older I realised how wrong and harmful that behavior is towards real people...

  • @insolencestar
    @insolencestar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    if either of them ever hold a baby again, no matter how far away I am, I like to think I'd just know.
    That's how cute that was.

  • @btlbugcone7319
    @btlbugcone7319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    "I feel a bit emotional actually" *the end*

  • @Tomato_juice1640
    @Tomato_juice1640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Omg literally SOULMATES.
    I don't care if they're Lovers or just Best Friends because in the end they just complete each other! ❤❤❤

  • @gabe5436
    @gabe5436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    2:13
    YOU CANT JUST DO THAT NOT FAIR

  • @adywalters8317
    @adywalters8317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    3:50 okay Dan just looks extremely cute in this clip.

    • @Classypup
      @Classypup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      RIGHT he’s always cute but something about the lighting, his smile, AND THE BABY. my dnp phase is coming back

  • @luckyduck1000
    @luckyduck1000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1782

    as long as we can officially silence the Danrific stans i’m content with whatever
    (edit: OH MY GOD I WOKE UP WITH 29 FUCKING TH-cam NOTIFICATIONS AND I DIDNT KNOW WHY 😂)

    • @annieo.o4359
      @annieo.o4359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      omg .. *shivers*

    • @saddimpledion
      @saddimpledion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Agreed

    • @kittennature
      @kittennature 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      facts

    • @camillej4223
      @camillej4223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Those rumors were ridiculous in the first place anyway...

    • @JERBYTUBE
      @JERBYTUBE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      omg i forgot they exist xD

  • @micaiahhendrickes471
    @micaiahhendrickes471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I hate that people can’t make these adorable videos bc people are chastising them bc there are “so many more important things in Dan’s video” or creepy ass people 🙄 there are adorable compilations of many other couples so I see nothing wrong with this. I love seeing them together 😂❤️ this video is SO CUTE

  • @fantasykatie4675
    @fantasykatie4675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2845

    no one:
    phannies with an old dnp video: tHiS hItS dIfFeReNt

    • @ingvild006
      @ingvild006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      fantasykatie but it does tho...?

    • @fantasykatie4675
      @fantasykatie4675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      LOLsen it’s a joke within phannie twitter lmao, it’s all we’ve been saying for 2 days

    • @ingvild006
      @ingvild006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      fantasykatie trust me i know lmao. I have tweeted it myself

    • @thegajuar4459
      @thegajuar4459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ingvild006 wait what the fuck i tweeted this too

    • @yasmin.6401
      @yasmin.6401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      LOOLLL FRR, I'm praying the demon pennies stop preying on Dan and Phil.

  • @memequeen9091
    @memequeen9091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That last video is so sweet, my heart melted. Nothing cuter then seeing people cuddle a baby! It's such a cute and pure little moment!

  • @Shubanator-qc4el
    @Shubanator-qc4el 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I know the video isn’t about Phan but just rewatching old clips and fully (as much as we can without being either one of them or not knowing them personally) understand their relationship it makes these clips are different and make me happier- they’re soulmates and friends and they’re perfect for each other.

  • @mxxnhaze
    @mxxnhaze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    The last clip HAS ME RAGING AND SCREAMING LIKE THE HOUSE IS ON FIRE.

    • @z0nefive
      @z0nefive 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      houseisnotonfire

  • @gracie5460
    @gracie5460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +643

    Honestly I thought I would react a lot differently if he was to ever come out or anything but I just feel immensely proud of him if that makes sense lol

    • @elisecode2212
      @elisecode2212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Gracie Olson I know, like I’ve been waiting so long and now it just feels right and I just love him so much

    • @amyda13
      @amyda13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Gracie Olson SAME I always thought I’d freak out and fangirl but I was just so so proud

  • @luciapatterson5987
    @luciapatterson5987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Idk why I just thought of this but thank god neither of them ever grew facial hair

    • @obliviousotterI
      @obliviousotterI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AAAAAAAHHH NO WHY WOULD YOU PLANT THAT IMAGE I DETEST IT

  • @kayleemay7545
    @kayleemay7545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1520

    i’m sobbing in a restaurant bathroom rn why must u hurt me like this 🥺

    • @youhaveveryprettyears
      @youhaveveryprettyears 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Note to self don't watch Dan and phil edits in public places I learned the hard way

    • @mikaylac5932
      @mikaylac5932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      okay but I like that you're just chilling in a public restroom and watching youtube

    • @meow_aubs
      @meow_aubs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What anime is ur pic from?

    • @youhaveveryprettyears
      @youhaveveryprettyears 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mikaylac5932 you don't know the stress of getting a notification in public then rushing over to a bathroom

    • @kayleemay7545
      @kayleemay7545 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      mikayla c well i got the notification and i just had to watch it 🥺

  • @annaayala7671
    @annaayala7671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i know i will sound exaggerated but dan coming out really changed my life, making me feel a little bit more comfortable with who i am as a person, and i’m so incredible thankful for him doing it.

  • @kaeyamilk637
    @kaeyamilk637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    My heart can't take this oml, I am so happy and proud of Dan, and these moments are just so fucking cute ahhhh-

  • @candy-rr7uh
    @candy-rr7uh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    C'mon, guys, they always looked like an old married couple 😁😅

    • @leilanyx
      @leilanyx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      ​@Rachel Yu shipping real people is fine, as long as you don't take it too far and completely fetishize them and invade their privacy (which unfortunately, is what the demon-phannies tend to do). making fanart is fine, imo, and they have said they're not bothered by fanart & the shipping in general in the past, as long as it's not going too far, like smut and innapropriate things. people can ship real people, just don't fetishize it.

    • @soggycactus4240
      @soggycactus4240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@leilanyx I really don't think shipping real people is ever okay especially when it can damage someone mental health like it has for Dan.

    • @bingobongo7335
      @bingobongo7335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@soggycactus4240 Dan and Phil gave us explicit permission to make fanart and fanfiction fyi...

    • @soggycactus4240
      @soggycactus4240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bingobongo7335 doesn't mean it doesn't bother them and isn't gross grow up

    • @britkittyxo
      @britkittyxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Soggy Cactus dude they literally said they appreciate the fanart and fanfiction and love our creativity

  • @purpleunicorn87
    @purpleunicorn87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +699

    I've been awake for 5 minutes I didn't come here to be attacked by so many feelings this early

  • @vibrant_missy
    @vibrant_missy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I love how “hits different” is a thing. It makes me big happy😊

  • @shooky5522
    @shooky5522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1619

    no one:
    every phannie: *ThaT sHit HiT dIFfEREnT*
    OK BUT ACTUALLT RHKWJWHKQKKLANW

    • @rainie2308
      @rainie2308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i know right

    • @unluckylucy9520
      @unluckylucy9520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it started with Roza tbh

    • @soggycactus4240
      @soggycactus4240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shipping real people ?
      *That* *shits* *gross*

    • @bingobongo7335
      @bingobongo7335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@soggycactus4240 I wouldn't call this "shipping" anymore, my man. Now it's about admiring their actual relationship. None of that shipping bullcrap.
      Shipping is "oh I WISH they were in a relationship" not "oh their relationship is so cute, I'm so happy for them".

    • @soggycactus4240
      @soggycactus4240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bingobongo7335 no this is still shipping because Dan and Phil haven't told anyone about their *current* relationship status + phannies still being a thing means that yes people "ship it" I bet people will continue to grossly dehumanize them with fan fiction and harassment on how "PhAn iS real" whenever they post a pic or make a video together. That shits nasty. 🤢

  • @squiddop0p715
    @squiddop0p715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    3:19 "she ships it"

  • @teuwbz
    @teuwbz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    That's right the entire day today I was just rewatching old videos

  • @clovejubilee5227
    @clovejubilee5227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    been binging dnp "that hits different vids"
    but i gotta say
    this one
    *hits different*

  • @yazialvarez1237
    @yazialvarez1237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    i just woke up and im already crying

  • @wildelio
    @wildelio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    dan saying the universe would rip in half if phil and him went separate ways is just-

  • @catkingthomas
    @catkingthomas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    everything hits different omg, not in a bad way, I mean, sometimes Dan had certain rejecting attitudes or seemed uncomfortable, now we know why and really justifies his attitude, (I'm not saying he needed to justify himself), it's a big step for dan and phil, for the fandom as well. i'm very proud to support the right people and i love them with all my heart.
    sorry for the very, very, very terrible english.

    • @existentialcrisis9888
      @existentialcrisis9888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      not bad english at all!

    • @Warsnop
      @Warsnop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's really good english! Honestly, better than most natives lol. Don't put yourself down!

    • @catkingthomas
      @catkingthomas 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you💛

  • @oopsyoongs
    @oopsyoongs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    it’s not the ‘shipping’ thing anymore. i find it adorable that these two have been able to find each other and grow up together. they’ve supported each other through everything, which makes me happy knowing

  • @uptownfrank9
    @uptownfrank9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    OH LORD,
    I already said this before, but I owe them so much. Especially Dan helped me a lot and him finally feeling free enough to open up. omg. I am so proud. Knowing that I am not alone is so great.
    The sad thing is that only through his video I really understood in what kind of situation I am in. But that will probably change some day. Just like for him.
    I am so happy for them. And now I know I can be too one day.
    Thank you for this video!

  • @kaylaties9744
    @kaylaties9744 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    with both eugene and dan coming out... my eyes can’t take any more tears

  • @auberginesubmarine7539
    @auberginesubmarine7539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    i am laying on the floor crying
    h e l p

  • @chuualwayswins
    @chuualwayswins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i’m so glad dan found someone like phil after what he’s gone through. how precious:(

  • @gabriel___________
    @gabriel___________ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    That first and last clip kILLED me bYe :'''
    alsoimsoproudofdanivebeencryingeversincehecameouthhhhhhhh

  • @lizziefizzie456456
    @lizziefizzie456456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why can’t we just appreciate how dan came out, told his heartbreaking story about what he’s gone through, and not make it all focused on if he and phil are dating or not, he literally said he wants to keep his personal dating life not public :(

    • @ComplexHowell
      @ComplexHowell  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lizzy Smith read my pinned comment :’)

  • @likeactualsoulmates
    @likeactualsoulmates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    3:02 LOOK HOW HAPPY THEY LOOK OMG

  • @jeydondestiny3337
    @jeydondestiny3337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    That disclaimer at the start needs to be on all these “phan moments”👏🏽💕

  • @elli_lovesmusic
    @elli_lovesmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    It does, it does hit different. I’m so damn happy for him 🥰

  • @honeybee7280
    @honeybee7280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THE LAST CLIP I COULDNT STOP SMILING AND NOW IM CRYING
    I literally love these two dorks so much. What Dan did was incredible and took so much courage. And he did it in a way that was so supportive of everyone else, queer or otherwise. And those struggling with mental health. And shout out to Phil for being Dan’s safe place and loving him when no one else did. I love the relationship these two have. It’s like Dan said, they are actual soulmates.

  • @izzykrd7416
    @izzykrd7416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    agreed hat there are so many important things in dans video besides dan and phil being a thing but, IM SO GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO IS WATCHING OLd VIDEOS AND HAVING A COMPLETELY NEW OPINION ON CERTAIN BITS! i was watching the vr vid where phil fell on the christmas decoration i fn started crying when dan went to go help him? or when phil got hit in the face and dan was trying to hide his concrn in voice that i didnt really hear before... idk just some examples i gues but i love these guys no matter what

    • @dot4464
      @dot4464 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What video is the Christmas decoration one?

    • @izzykrd7416
      @izzykrd7416 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dot the job simulator in VR one I’m pretty sure

    • @dot4464
      @dot4464 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      izzykr :D thank you :))

  • @weronikaszymanska6845
    @weronikaszymanska6845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dan said "It's more than just romantic". I think he meant that Phil isn't just normal partner for him. He is someone more than that. + They are buying house together so im sure they aren't "just friends" or "bros for life". They both know each other for more than 10 years and they still live together. I just can't imagine them being just friends without anything romantic between them in this case. If someone literally thinks that "friends" can be SO CLOSE to each other for more than 10 years (without dating anyone) - it's very naive and unrealistic. They both are adult men and they need healthy relationship in life, and in scenario where they are "friends" is just stupid. It's my adult point of view

  • @camillej4223
    @camillej4223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I'm crying of laughter, I have never seen the clip of Dan singing the Will.I.Am song, it's hilarious, I don't even know what is the most funny thing about it, the fact that Dan actually knows the lyrics by heart or Phil's face😂😂 I thought I had watched every single minute of D&P content there has ever been made?! What vid is it from?! 🤣🤣

    • @camillej4223
      @camillej4223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No but for real, what video is it from...? 😶🤣

    • @lShootingStarz
      @lShootingStarz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@camillej4223 It's from "Would Phil Hate Dan To Save The World?" on danandphilgames! i found it hilarious too lmao

    • @camillej4223
      @camillej4223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lShootingStarz thanks! ❤

    • @isamedonnie
      @isamedonnie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      babs ty!

  • @raechuuu510
    @raechuuu510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm torn about this video, like it's just cute clips of them but it still fuels the Phan obsession ppl have and Dan spoke about wanting to keep things in his life private and personal so i'm kind of like "lay off ppl!" But these moments are just adorable regardless of what their relationship is or was so I'm okay with it.
    All that being said, the one where Phil was eating the ingredients reminded me so much of my husband, lmao!!

    • @raechuuu510
      @raechuuu510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @DeniseinWonderland it's all about context... If you read my comment, you'll notice I decided I was ultimately fine with this video for the same reason you said. It's just clips of them together. Doesn't change the fact that it will still fuel the fire of the phans who ship them. I just think ppl shouldn't be obsessing over their relationship bc it's creepy and none of their business. I think the title of this video is sliding a little bit into that territory but like I already said, I'm fine with it. Just my opinion.

    • @raechuuu510
      @raechuuu510 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @DeniseinWonderland yes, and I don't like it. As the title or as a meme. Like I said, phans are kind of obsessing and it's really annoying. My opinion. Now can you please stop? Ffs.

  • @aylayzrianne
    @aylayzrianne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Lol at the former phans who's going back through these old videos to see things in a new light.
    It's me. I'm a former phan.
    Yes, as a still closeted formless blob a lot more of what he said made me cry and are so, so important. But still.

    • @marlene5634
      @marlene5634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      literally me too

    • @black-rose4014
      @black-rose4014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Former phannie :)

    • @ilexdiapason
      @ilexdiapason 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ah, fellow blob, im proud of you for making it as far as you have and hope you'll get to where dan is someday

    • @youraveragemusicperson2176
      @youraveragemusicperson2176 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @marisa8318
    @marisa8318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God phil being the baby of his family, and dan being the older brother of his, is really showing through with the holding louise's baby clip

  • @shahmahima1667
    @shahmahima1667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    it does hit different ,,,

  • @captaincalamity5025
    @captaincalamity5025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    all i want in life is somebody who loves me as much as these two love each other

  • @jasminemunn2761
    @jasminemunn2761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    everything hits different

  • @LauraCraycraft
    @LauraCraycraft 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I hope they are still together. The usage of past tense killed me. If they didn’t last, what hope do the rest of us have? So fucking proud of Dan. 🖤

    • @bee-.-.-
      @bee-.-.- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Laura Craycraft i think he was only using past tense because he was referring to when he first met phil? idk i could be wrong but

    • @LauraCraycraft
      @LauraCraycraft 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Phanic! At the twenty øne chemical falling discøs Thats what my friend Kat and I were thinking too after talking about it. Because he broke everything down into parts. Like he said “I trusted him” & “I felt safe”. It’s safe to say those things are still true.

    • @bunny5538
      @bunny5538 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      also he said that they are soulmates, in the present tense

    • @rachelrose7948
      @rachelrose7948 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      its been 10 years of both of them not dated anyone its either because there together or they didn't want people to stop watching them because most of his fans are 12-15 year old girls with crushes who would of stop watching them once they found out they were gay. he made his cash and doesn't need youtube anymore as a source of income. thats why he stop uploading vids.
      teen = outcast kids= money

  • @coffeeqt1852
    @coffeeqt1852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I’m do happy for them honestly I’ve been a fan for so long and I’m so proud of dan for coming out, and I appreciate them so much

  • @tatltails3923
    @tatltails3923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate adding in the clip about the dickheads because it has nothing to do with Phan, it legit just hits differently after hearing the details of what Dan went through as a kid

  • @ShookBerry
    @ShookBerry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I literally went to watch old videos right after Dan’s videos and it does hit very, VERY differently

  • @emmy_platinum
    @emmy_platinum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww I adore their friendship!! To know that Phil has been there being a beacon of light and support for so many years is just so damn sweet and I strive to care about someone as much as Phil and Dan care about eachother. 😭

  • @olivianichols6105
    @olivianichols6105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Little did we know.... Phil’s video was right behind dans

  • @ajraine8728
    @ajraine8728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    These guys inspired me to study entertainment, to want to go to college, to... Get out of bed
    I wonder if they know how much they help people

  • @TearsofaGhost
    @TearsofaGhost 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The last clip with Louise "I feel a bit emotional actually" SAME

  • @cupsonhead
    @cupsonhead 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    people care too much about his relationship. just let him live

    • @s.n9154
      @s.n9154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      bloxxi were just proud of him

  • @hopejoons
    @hopejoons 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i forgot the last clip existed and now i’m crying

  • @karenfromfinance2280
    @karenfromfinance2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really love this video bc unlike others it’s not sexualizing Dan and Phil’s relationship, I’m so happy for them even if they aren’t together anymore seeing the bond the have and the impact they made on each other’s lives makes me the happiest person in the world ❤️

  • @catkingthomas
    @catkingthomas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    wHY? i wasn't crying anymore but here i go again

  • @skrinkiebimble9119
    @skrinkiebimble9119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even if they are just platonic with each other and not romantic at all they really are soulmates. Im so proud of Dan for coming out I know its a hard thing to do especially when you've kept it in for so long. I love Dan and Phil together in whatever way they want to be because lets face it they are goals. Theyve never faught or really gotten into controversy and thats huge cause theyve been on youtube for 10 years.

  • @mia92155
    @mia92155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    No but it was really all fun and games for the past 8 years until dan said “obviously it was more than just friendship” and “we’re soulmates” and we were all like: *surprised pikachu face*
    I’m just so happy dan came back like this and shared his story & struggles with us. I’m honestly proud of the phandom for being so supportive and not just making it about phan AND calling out the ppl who do.

  • @kiwinisuki
    @kiwinisuki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate that intro, as both a fan of their work and a somewhat-supporter of the phandom. It means a lot that there are people that do understand and respect Dan's words and wishes on this. We all support and love our Dannie boi

  • @libby1290
    @libby1290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    them holding the baby made me cry. they would be amazing fathers. ♥️ 😭

  • @kurtistown713
    @kurtistown713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    dan wearing a 'treat people with kindness' shirt hits different

    • @martha7939
      @martha7939 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was looking for this comment ahah

  • @ohmyohnothegrapesarecoming2011
    @ohmyohnothegrapesarecoming2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    shut up im busy
    *continues reading bluebird for the 7th time*

    • @SuperGirlSonic
      @SuperGirlSonic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is bluebird?

    • @s1ren_exe
      @s1ren_exe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SuperGirlSonic it's one of the more recognized Phanfics

    • @themagicalllama8514
      @themagicalllama8514 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it PG-13 or the cherry fic

    • @sweetalison007
      @sweetalison007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SuperGirlSonic an epic fic. By that I mean a really good fic.

    • @mayovelasco4782
      @mayovelasco4782 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      U have to read Blue Bird it is beautiful and just pulls on your heart strings

  • @DDGFK9743
    @DDGFK9743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember seeing the one where dan was holding the child before. Sure it hits differently, but it still gives me the same feeling of complete and utter peace knowing that dan and phil would make great parents for anything

  • @stvrlost-l2t
    @stvrlost-l2t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man I keep relooking at their videos and I didn't know my heart could warm up any more than it could

  • @cameroncurtis8168
    @cameroncurtis8168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Something that hits different for me after Dan’s video is “Have the courage to exist” not just because he came out, but because of his suicide attempt. Fucked me up.

  • @danipop8939
    @danipop8939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:10 I just realized he probably wearing a “treat people with kindness” shirt. You can only get those at Harry Styles concerts 😭💙 this whole Dan coming out thing has me so soft.

  • @3vieevee
    @3vieevee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel a bit emotional actually
    The way Phil leaned into the baby at the end 😩😭

  • @megandavies6526
    @megandavies6526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    they’re such a power couple, I love them with all my heart

  • @craigieburke
    @craigieburke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I get so angry when so many people have said that "Dan's confirmed everything!!" when he literally didn't. At all. I totally feel what he's said because very rarely do we come across people in our lives that as _truly_ connect with, "not just romantic" as Dan said, but on a whole other plain of existence.. nothing to do with sexuality. When you're best friend becomes more than just you're best friend that they don't even have a title anymore because no title would do them justice. It hits deep. And I'm so happy that they can experience that with each other, together.

    • @craigieburke
      @craigieburke 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @DeniseinWonderland was I did take it like that as well, especially when he said "was" more