Dead Meme I agree with you, but I don’t see how what I said takes away from that. Of course they should love themselves, but what I commented doesn’t take away from that. They should respect themselves enough to know better. Many women I know and many others try to delude themselves into believing that just because they have sex with a man, that men will stay with them. They also believe that the baby will somehow make that man stop acting like a boy or make him stay. The sad truth is I know too many women who have fell victim to that(both in their Teens and even thirties). Hell my sister did it three times.
Fera Blue Periodt!!! My sister and my cousin as teenagers got caught up, now I have two nephews and a baby cousin. I love them, but damn they get caught up playing house.
Plus if they want to bleach that is their business. People need to mind their business. Half the people with issues cant even make their next rent payment on time.
Politeness doesn't equate to whiteness either. I can not tell you how many times I got that I act like a white girl in middle school because of the way I speak or carry myself. Like are you saying that black people are uncouth? People don't realize how much they insult themselves while trying to undermine my blackness. And just because I'm polite doesn't mean that I'm weak either because I'll check a b*tch if I feel necessary (with class ofc).
U too? Glad to kno I’m not alone. I speak proper n I am very kind respectful n all around just a positive spirit. Not every blk girl is gonna fight u n do the most. Girl u n I are just blk as anybody else. Much love💕
Rule 1: when you witness another black woman being insulted because or her skintone or hair. Stand with her because there is unity in numbers, and when other people see you do this there is a chance it wont happen again. Rule 2: do not join with another person in the degradation of another black woman especially if you both are darkskin cause unbeknowest to you you they are insulting you too. Rule 3: Do not hold back when someone is insulting you and make it known that they should never say that again to you.
Ican4C TheFuture for rule 3 I’m kind of iffy on bcs when most ppl try me they do it make me come out of my character so why they can have a good laugh. So I’m confused like should I just ignore and leave the room or stand up for my self and get laughed at.
Yes to all but rule number 3. My life greatly improved when I started doing my best to not entertain or acknowledge people who attempt to put me down. It doesnt matter if you drag them or not. Their real goal is just to get your attention so by giving them the time of day they've already won
I really regret not standing up for a fellow black person he was a boy these girls said how do you dance in Africa in a offensive way and I didn’t say anything, I’ve always regretted that day
Don't embarrass another black woman in public. We need to appear as a united front to everyone else. If someone is wrong, don't say anything in public and correct her in private. Edit: Y'all can't read? I said "correct her in private". It's not an unheard of tactic. Therapists give this same advice to married couples. Let's not play this game today.
@@MeganAllen1738 too many trolls online unless I know the original is a African commentor then I'm not letting no one say anything crazy about my people.
As black girls we come in different shape, sizes, shades,textures personalities don’t EVER try put us in a box.. guess what we made that box Periodddddt.
@@Happypotato917 so only white girls like power puff girls?? Wtf? You must either be older or younger than nineties kids to not know how good that cartoon was, I didn't even grow up in the US and know how good power puff girls were, especially for its time! Girls every where regardless of skin color could relate to the characters. Not to mention OPs pic is obviously a satire on one of the main characters.
Yes! They discriminate against us so much. My dream is to own a beauty supply shop. It’s gonna be all sophisticated and classy with melanin girls sketched on the wall and all the black woman will stop over and spend money on people who support them.
Forget real or fake. Just don't TOUCH MY HAIR. Period. I don't really get annoyed at the "is that your real hair?". If it ain't, it ain't 🤷🏾♀️ If it is, it is.
Whenever people ask me that, I just respond with, "Does it really matter?" The reactions range from complete silence to defensive to overly apologetic.
Fighting the girl that your man cheats on you with is so pointless.😩 If he wants to cheat he’s gonna cheat regardless of who it is... move on and find someone better sis.❤️
Second to last one really got me. Black women being mistreated in healthcare (I've witnessed it firsthand with my mom and grandmother) is a big reason why I've decided to really persevere and pursue medicine. I can't wait to graduate from med school and make sure every black woman who comes to me is taken care of the way she deserves. If nobody else is gonna look out for us, we've gotta look out for each other.
I don’t believe it exists and I don’t ever instinctively assume another woman is about “code” or “sisterhood” because it almost always will lead you to disappointment. However I make it a point to hold myself to high standard and treat other women with decency. But I know and keep in mind that everyone’s morals are at different levels and reciprocity isn’t guaranteed regardless of any political or societal oppression we may have in common.
Give each other a compliment once and a while, it really makes each other’s day. I know anyone can do this, but we gotta stick together. Plus, make sure you have a couple of black female friends, you can rant and they understand you more than anyone.
This applies to us black men too.I have a black daughter and i am the one teaching her the code. she has a black friend since age 2. at this point that little girl is my step daughter. However on the other hand , i have my Black mum , i love her to bits but over the past decade i understood why she is super difficult to be friends with. she was not exactly toxic with her past friends but she has dominant personality , ever 3 years all types of black female friends deserted her.
Lechiffresix six I’m really glad you taught your daughter the code, I can already tell you’re a good dad. Sorry for you mom, she should have more friends, they bring fun and make you laugh! You black men stick together, don’t let anyone come between you guys!
Ughh YESSSSS on the different personalities one cause I am an introvert and I have social anxiety. In school, people would be like "I thought you were mean when I first met/saw you", and I'd be like.....I literally did nothing but seat here 🤣Like, I might not always talk to you first but if you talk to me, I'm always nice and friendly. Also, the one on sounding like a white girl 😑😂 Edit: And the one on giving passes for ignorance. I HATE how some Black people be praising other races for doing the BARE MINIMUM. I've been into different cultures music and shows/movies since I was a little girl in Haiti and as such, I gravitated towards anime, Asian shows and music. I can't stand when Black Kpop fans make excuses for the blatant anti-Blackness in Asian culture, specifically Korean culture. "They don't know any better" 🙄......Girl, YES. THEY. DO. Especially the ones not living in the rural areas with no internet. Anyway, lemme stop ranting in this comment section 😂
Girl yes. As an avid anime lover, and kpop fan myself, I had to distance myself from certain platforms because black girls were literally giving these people passes, handing themselves the L, and making us all look stupid. "ThEY DidnT KnOW Any BETter..." Was always their excuse. Smh I got tired of it.
I had to reeducate an Asian person on TH-cam. I was watching a young and pretty Nigerian girl trying out Korean makup styles and she looked so freaking adorable like a doll.😍😍 Than an Asian person commented sayong" She looks more Asian than me and I'm Asian". This goes back to Black girl code "Never assume a Black girl is mixed or otherwise just because she's beautiful." This young girl clearly stated she was Nigerian. So.for.this Asian person to say that was uncouth for. What were they implying that Asian people can only be beautiful that she doesn't look Nigerian? So I said " If you're Asian that was a racist thing to say about other Asians. Are you implying that all Asian look alike?" I also said that African people and those.of diaspora are blessed diversity genes/phenotypes. We all have unique beauty that stands us apart from other races. She doesnt look Asian she looks like her." These people are slick with their words.
Another opinion: We should Stop trying divide ourselves into different "categories" ( Lightskin, Darkskin, Brownskin, etc.) We're all *BLACK* and *BEAUTIFUL* no matter what. 👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿
Bruuuuhhh I'm dark skin y'all and everyone in the class was talking about what they're mixed with and I'm like I'm just black(not like JUST but you know) and everyone acted like I was crazy....and basically started saying that I had to be mixed with something because my hair ain't quite 4c....have you not seen the indigenous people of the HUGE continent of Africa....not everyone that's fully black has type 4 hair and not everyone with type 4 hair is fully black
Three things: 1) If you’ve never experienced a black girl struggle but another black girl/woman has, don’t assume it’s not real or that woman is seeking attention. Be open minded and help her out in overcoming that struggle. 2) Compliment a black woman’s natural hair instead of asking if she’s wearing a wig, weave, or if she’s mixed for “having good hair.” We already get enough of that from our own men and the people outside of our community. 3) Expand your options ladies. We don’t have to be race loyal when black men aren’t doing the same and expect us to continue the population of our community.
As black women we need to stand together and show how beautiful we are, cause society will always try to tear us down. And never hate another BLACK QUEEN because she's popping always show love and you will recieve💕
That "ride or die" mentality is so toxic. My ex asked me that , I looked at him like he was crazy. You want me to lay down my life for your stupid actions give you complete devotion yet you don't know if you want to marry me or even provide basics for me. If a man ask you that leave him instantly because he's all about himself. Find a man who is willing to protect you not put your life in danger! Too many women and girls have lost their lives or freedom for dusty selfish men. Never blindly follow a man!
Exactly so called "ghetto speech" doesn't indicate lack of intelligence. In my experience, many of people who use that dialect actually have the ability to understand many things that a self identified "well spoken" speaker does not.
@@Anastasia8880 I also think that we created certain slang because we did not have a separate language of our own (once we were taken from our homeland) so we can have private conversations similarly to others who speak their own languages
Ebonics or they’ll say code switching at first they used to say it was considered a language so black kids didn’t have to take a foreign language in school
This is kinda off topic but I wish we could talk about *Tekashi69* and how black women should STAY ON CODE. Black women are mad alongside these colorist black male rappers who are complaining about the culture being destroyed by male rappers like Tekashi but they dont give a single damn when it's non-black or latina women infiltrating our culture and replacing us. In fact, they go out of their way to support them. They accept them with open arms and call black women bitter for our valid complaints about the industry. But as soon as a non-black MALE rapper like Tekashi or Lil Pump is successful, suddenly men like Snoop and T.I. care about the "culture" and aren't called bitter for it. Just a thought. I don't particularly like 69 but Black women should not give a damn about his antics but I see a lot of black women angry and sticking by some of these self-hating black men on this. It actually makes me smirk a little to see 69's video get 200 million views in a week and see all these black men whining about it. Take yo medicine, black men... KTSE!
@@Flowergoatflower Exactly. A lot of black men claim black women are anti-black-men but even the ones who preach about colorism and are pro-black-female end up drifting back the other way to stand with black men. It's like we cant help ourselves or something. We are loyal to them and agree with their frustrations even when they are stabbing us in the back. If Tekashi were a female rapper and black women were complaining, most black men would say we are just jealous. We need to wake up! People think they're woke but they're really not.
@@DynamicallyDC That's the truth,and if I pick up on those bad vibes from that person/persons,I stay away or keep them away from me.🤚🏾 There's nothing like being confident with peace and joy in your life.🌺
@@ac12304 correction you ENJOY socialization. Introverts like myself find interacting with people either draining, pointless and a waste of our time. We can entertain ourselves just fine and prefer it. I'm an empath so I can figure someone out before I even know them and most ppl aren't worth the time to me to get to know. I have friends for that.
Rule One, ladies: RACE FIRST. And we need to NOT claim other non-Black wOmEn Of CoLoR as being part of OUR movements and struggles and even our own UPLIFTMENT. NO, let them do THEM over there...
My grandma still uses that word. She gave me hell for going natural. I decided to put a perm in my hair after almost three years. She had the nerves to say, “I’m proud of you” 😒
I know it's weird how that works but if we start calling ourselves that they wouldn't know what to say😁...I don't like it because of what it's attached to ...I'm really sick of people trying to hold bw heads down while they try to escape the undertow.
Omg this is such a good video because there are some unwritten rules that need to be said and rehearsed! I wana do this same video and see if I can create some other ones because I liked this a lot!!! 🖤
@@imani6357 They use excuse such as, "They don't know!" "They did a translation error!" "Yall just sensitive!" "You didn't invent ___! __ did!" And more. I hate it.
That fandom across the board is pretty toxic because it is full of v young girls who don't seem like the most switched on bunch. They make excuses for them when many of them are obviously low key racist and at the very least ignorant. The worst for me have been Exo and I cringed so badly for the bunch of fans who had one of them say that the black girls were Kai's family in such a derogatory manner. I hope they all stopped following them that day. There's so much evidence of them being colorist and nasty about his skin tone. Let's not forget them smearing that Chen character in chocolate and him screaming he looks like Kunta Kinte and Korea's own racist caricature, Michol. Search it up. There's even RM saying that it was so dark in a room once that he couldn't see JHope and Taehyung. This is just some of the stuff I've seen. The fans come in saying, 'but they apologised' ofc they did, they got pulled up on it and want international money and fame, not saying that people can't grow.
I think the problem is that too many black woman are black first and a woman second. When no one else is like that, especially black men they are male identified. More black women need to have the attitude of being a woman that’s black. That way we’re forced to put our interests first and above any thing else. We need to be more selfish and stop playing fair because nobody else is putting another persons interests above their own.
It seems like more and more black women are getting on code. Especially following accounts such as Chrissie, Paris Milan and others who promote the pro black women first agenda! Let’s keep this up and share these types of messages to our fellow sisters ❤️
I believe I'm black first. Because if there is a room full of women the black women are treated different than the nonblack women. Because they see your race before your gender.
@@BVLV she actually said it, she was saying how she wished she was white and glad she wasnt dark skinned etc. There are clips of her talking to white supremacists and tweets from like 4 years ago. She also said homophobic slurs in 2018 and other shit. She ALSO cheated on her partner who was a Confederate flag lover who hated black people.
People also don’t realize the reason why a lot of lightskins with 3a/3b hair have long hair is because they have been growing it since they were a child because society and family doesn’t see that hair as a problem. While girls with 4c hair at a young age had there moms putting perms in there hair and messing it up. My cousin has 4c hair and her mom took care of it and her hair is very long. I have 3b hair and I cut it last August to below my ears and it’s just now to my shoulders.
I’m glad we’re laying the ground rules.. I’ve been seeing and experiencing no one having our back but I’ve been loving community time and girl time with my sisters 🥰 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👩🏾🦱🙍🏿♀️👩🏽⚖️👩🏾⚕️👧🏽
For one... I've always been tired of people asking me if I'm mixed.... I cant stand it! I have slanted eyes, lighter brown skin and loose curly hair but in reality I'm just as black and just as hated like as any other black girl.... when people tell me "omg ur so pretty" I automatically think its because they favor mixed chicks.... i dont like that! I'm black... I'm proud of it and that's that...
On Monday I had a black nurse call my hair nappy even though I have knotless braids in my hair. I thought she was complimenting my hair, but she was like not your nappy head I’m talking about her (referring to a hispanic girl sitting right next to me). I looked at like wow 😯 the self hate is real and that was uncalled for. I’ve been working at this hospital for 4 months and I have yet to see her natural hair 🤦🏽♀️.
WOW. Please check her in a nice-nasty way the next time she steps out of line like this. Even if you just say "That was very rude and uncalled for. Do not call me that in the future, racial slurs are unprofessional." Or just say "your self hate is showing..." If you don't say something she is teaching everyone there how to address and dismiss you and everyone else who looks like you that comes in. She is likely also the kind of black person who plays into respectability politics and feels threatened by you "looking black". 🙄
AJ M Yes, I’m quickly learning that I have to be nice-nasty with a lot of people up here, which is not my personality at all. I hate that I have to be on defense mode especially with majority of the time it being towards other black women.
Rules for Us Melinated queens Make sure to work as hard so you can live your dream Rule 1: Don't tear each other down 👑( We are stronger together) Rule 2: Be in yo books so society ( no matter what) cant doubt you📔📔( be happy) Rule 3: Get you a bag so you wont need no broke man 💴💴💸( it's ok to be emotional its part of being a bad bitch) Rule 4: Know your worth and know your history💎 Rule 5: Support black businesses when you can💴 Rule 6 : Don't beat your kids, teach your kids 😰 Rule 7: Be independent✨( Confidence is the key ...not cockiness ) Rule 8 : Respect yourself 🔥❤( rock your natural -- when you can) Rule 9 : Honor the strong women that came before you Rule 10: Teach, the people around you, your kids: GO TO THE MOTHERLAND🐦
I disagree with the indépendant part. It is draining. I would say live below your means so u won’t have to work too hard to compensate...also marry and have kids with a provider man and live in your femininity.
I'm a white girl and I don't think I can ever understand what it's like to be another race. I still love your videos, you're such a role model and you spread so much positivity! I learn a lot from your videos, thank youu so much
OMG!!! This video is triggering me!!!! I can relate to everything you read. My ex husband is Hispanic. I was alone with our daughter in the mall. She was about a year old. A sister approached me smiling at my baby. I knew she was coming to see the baby. Babies do attract attention. She looked at my daughter and upon seeing her light complexion asked me “...what’s she mixed with?” A question I had grown accustomed to since I am dark skinned. I replied “Her father is from El Salvador.” Without hesitation this complete stranger said, “Oh, you know you got with him so you could have a light skinned baby.” Her insecurities projected onto me, I was speechless 😶. I just walked away. 🤦🏾♀️
Ugh people are too much sometimes. My ex is Asian and I remember this lady coming up to us telling us that we’d have such cute babies together. That mess is weird.
ANOTHER RULE: Just because another black woman has long hair can y'all stop assuming that it's fake, and then when you find out it isn't assume she is mixed? How do you all get mad when "others" say we can't grow our hair long/ have long hair when you all don't even believe it about your own selves?? Lol
Not gonna lie, I try to complement my peers (black women) when I see them, but there have been quite a few times when I did and the girl responds negatively. For example, I'll say that I like her hair and sis just grills me. Its like...did I say something wrong?
Sis, I wouldn't be playing any Doja material anymore, cause she recently got exposed for being the latest member of the racist club. Not surprised, I never liked her and this proves why.
@@katybee3891 Well, me personally, I got rid of all Chris Brown, Drake and R.Kelly music years ago, so I'm good off them. Thankfully, I never got into 69 and his eardrum destroying music. All that damn yelling.
Blk women are so resilient. No other women have to do all of this. This shows strength of decent blk women. It's called a special, specific social evolution
I think one unwritten rule that should be mentioned is to not make other girls insecure about their bodies or who they are. I've been having these moments where people do it to make me feel smaller and less beautiful. Less hatred, more encouragement to celebrate how beautiful we are despite what society says.
I wish everyone will stop thinking black and brown 🦄 are mean aggressive, rude and mean just because they're not walking around with a grin on our face.
The about helping each other professionally/academically! I was talking to a black female recruiter for my city and she told me I'm not special because everyone has a masters degree and studied abroad. She was from New York
The 25 dislikes are probably from Beckys & Karens.. Bye✌🏾✌🏾 These 💎💎💎 are priceless!!! Some of us need to hear this for the 1st time and others needed this to be reiterated. Keep pushing sistren!!✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
I’m not black (I’m Chinese and Puerto Rican) but the love and sense of community u provide is so endearing! i love ur channel 🥺 black woman are so beautiful and strong. stay poppin 💘💕
When I see a black sister that’s snatched I will cross the freaking highway to tell her how amazing she looks..I’ll cross the freaking Belt Parkway in rush hour to big her up..it matters that much to me.. On a more serious note we better unite cuz it looks like it’s going to be rocky the next 4 years😔
That Girl The way things are going with Biden it seems like a shoe-in for trump to win the next four years..and if that happens it can’t possibly get better for us
It’s crazy how the black race itself is so split. From childhood we characterize light skinned people as acting “lightskinned.” We belittle others for being “too dark.” We shame others for wearing their hair in its natural state because it’s too “crazy” or straightening it because they’re trying too hard to be “European.” It’s so sad that colorism exists within our race, and in the process, our black race is being hurt, when we have bigger issues to conquer. Like maybe...racism and white supremacy. This ignorance comes from lack of education of our race IN TERMS of our race. After taking a Current Issues class as it relates to black people, I feel much more enlightened about many things. Small TH-camr, would love the support💕
Lo, you could write a book for little girls!!! It would be amazing!! You could call it "A unicorn's guide to self confidence: (Black girls love in white society)" or some ish like that. Lol. Idk. I could just see you writing a book to uplift the girls in the black community. I'd definitely buy the book. I'm biracial but my kids gon be more black than me. Lol. So I'd love to have something like that to help them as they grow. And honestly, you're just a great role model and wise spirit. P.s. I hope I didn't say anything offense or ignorant. I wanted to say something but I didn't want to word it wrong. If I did, please call me out on it. I'd rather grow and correct myself than be foolish. I say that cuz I'm trying to be an ally as apposed to another LS who is unaware of the issues. Just trying to send out Love💖💖💖
10:40 Yes! Im mixed and Ive had something similar happen where they’ll say Im pretty n ask what I am and say “oh! You cant even tell!” as if I was worried you could tell Im half black or that being half black had a factor of whether or not Im pretty🙄 If someone is pretty, theyre just pretty. Stop bringing race up with it
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BIG RULE: teach our daughters(and selves) that sex will not make a man stay and neither will a baby.
Angel Kingsley if you educate women you can mend almost any big issue. Teenage pregnancy.
Wtfff how about "teach our daughters (and selves) to LOVE OURSELVES"
Dead Meme
I agree with you, but I don’t see how what I said takes away from that.
Of course they should love
themselves, but what I commented doesn’t take away from that. They should respect themselves enough to know better.
Many women I know and many others try to delude themselves into believing that just because they have sex with a man, that men will stay with them. They also believe that the baby will somehow make that man stop acting like a boy or make him stay. The sad truth is I know too many women who have fell victim to that(both in their Teens and even thirties). Hell my sister did it three times.
Fera Blue Periodt!!! My sister and my cousin as teenagers got caught up, now I have two nephews and a baby cousin. I love them, but damn they get caught up playing house.
I felt this so deeply *sigh* you live and you learn I guess.
Not every black girl is loud and EXTRAAA. Some of us are quiet and that’s fine.
I'm very quiet and shy and tbh it made people like me more for some reason. So that's a good thing that came out of it
Jasmine Harris same
Yep the introvert life lol
For me I always get the “why you always so quiet” question.
I Do Covers same
If black women came together we would literally be unstoppable
Tanya Out Loud Amen!
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I agree!
Each one of us is already unstoppable if we came together we can rule the world
❤️❤️❤️
Another rule: Just because someone is getting lighter during certain seasons doesn’t mean they are bleaching! Stop pushing that narrative.
Thank you! It’s apart of being brown skin, why can’t people understand that.
YES. Because if y'all remember the "SKINGATE" situation with India.Arie...they did her WRROOOONNNNG
Plus if they want to bleach that is their business. People need to mind their business. Half the people with issues cant even make their next rent payment on time.
Shadi I’m going through the same thing. Tho I’m mixed, but I’m definitely on the darker end of the “lightskin spectrum” same as you.
Ar P wait so why can they bleach but non black woman cant tan? i’m not hating i’m just curious
Politeness doesn't equate to whiteness either. I can not tell you how many times I got that I act like a white girl in middle school because of the way I speak or carry myself. Like are you saying that black people are uncouth? People don't realize how much they insult themselves while trying to undermine my blackness. And just because I'm polite doesn't mean that I'm weak either because I'll check a b*tch if I feel necessary (with class ofc).
U too? Glad to kno I’m not alone. I speak proper n I am very kind respectful n all around just a positive spirit. Not every blk girl is gonna fight u n do the most. Girl u n I are just blk as anybody else. Much love💕
Same 🙋🏾♀️ People think I’m trying to be condescending and act better than them when in reality it’s just how I talk.
My own daddy asked if I hung around white ppl my freshman year in high school... I only had one white friend at the time...
Chan Marr omg same like this is just how I am I’m not trying to do anything except be myself 🤦🏽♀️
Aw shit, lemme get into this b/c I was so confused
Rule 1: when you witness another black woman being insulted because or her skintone or hair. Stand with her because there is unity in numbers, and when other people see you do this there is a chance it wont happen again.
Rule 2: do not join with another person in the degradation of another black woman especially if you both are darkskin cause unbeknowest to you you they are insulting you too.
Rule 3: Do not hold back when someone is insulting you and make it known that they should never say that again to you.
Ican4C TheFuture for rule 3 I’m kind of iffy on bcs when most ppl try me they do it make me come out of my character so why they can have a good laugh. So I’m confused like should I just ignore and leave the room or stand up for my self and get laughed at.
Yes to all but rule number 3. My life greatly improved when I started doing my best to not entertain or acknowledge people who attempt to put me down. It doesnt matter if you drag them or not. Their real goal is just to get your attention so by giving them the time of day they've already won
@@BVLV I understand in that case you need to use an alternative to stand up for yourself
@@justcallmeteacup4711 I guess but still don't make people walk all over you
I really regret not standing up for a fellow black person he was a boy these girls said how do you dance in Africa in a offensive way and I didn’t say anything, I’ve always regretted that day
Don’t say you’re pretty for a black girl. Thats wrong, black girls are pretty. Periodt!!! 👸🏾 Speak up and check that BS.
You gotta put a comma after that “no” mama...I read that wrong! 😢
Yea you gotta edit that real quick, sis. Just so nobody else is confused 😕
Queen Ki oh thanks. Lol.
A Pimp Named Slickback changed all the way. No confusion now. Lol.
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Another unspoken rule: buy BLACK!! Especially black women‼️
You're gorgeous!!
Leila Dennis thank you love!!!
@@whitebrick87 You're welcome
Yess I told myself that when everything is back to normal, I'm not getting my nails done anywhere unless it's black owned
Black women do not support each other
Don't embarrass another black woman in public. We need to appear as a united front to everyone else. If someone is wrong, don't say anything in public and correct her in private.
Edit: Y'all can't read? I said "correct her in private". It's not an unheard of tactic. Therapists give this same advice to married couples. Let's not play this game today.
Even online. Tbvh I used to do this. But now even if a black woman says something wrong, I'm not saying nothing.
I agree. Fighting out in public undermines us as a group and makes the rest us look really stupid
@@MeganAllen1738 too many trolls online unless I know the original is a African commentor then I'm not letting no one say anything crazy about my people.
SILENT DISAPPROVAL!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Disrespect and correcting someone are two different things tho..
A rule: don’t tear each other down!!! 😤😤
beauty Should be Rule # 1
Exactly TF!!
Exactly we already have enough people doing it.
As black girls we come in different shape, sizes, shades,textures personalities don’t EVER try put us in a box.. guess what we made that box Periodddddt.
True! But I hate how we always claim our versatility with skin tones/ textures but show a limited aspect of us.
puppy princess, facts💯 that’s what we definitely need to change
The Black community is diverse overall.
This maybe true to a extent but we all know what black looks like. Cardie will never....
I hate when people tell me I speak weird (good English) for a black person, not all black people don't speak in a slang way!
random stuff inc but your profile pic is white so what does that say about you 🤨
@@Happypotato917 that black girl can have a profile picture with a white female characters whitout changing Their skin color??????
@@Happypotato917 so only white girls like power puff girls?? Wtf? You must either be older or younger than nineties kids to not know how good that cartoon was, I didn't even grow up in the US and know how good power puff girls were, especially for its time! Girls every where regardless of skin color could relate to the characters.
Not to mention OPs pic is obviously a satire on one of the main characters.
Stefania Ogun understood ma’m
@@Happypotato917 i like the power puff girls....
Another rule: stop shopping at Asian owned beauty supply shops and nail places.
Yes! They discriminate against us so much. My dream is to own a beauty supply shop. It’s gonna be all sophisticated and classy with melanin girls sketched on the wall and all the black woman will stop over and spend money on people who support them.
Factsss! Girl thats what i been doin lately! It feels relieving 🤷🏾🙌🏽
Ashea E I hope it’s gonna be in Dallas girl! I’ll be a faithful customer ❤️
Tati yeees! I have been protesting indefinitely since 2018 and it’s worth it! I want more black women to follow suit!
YESSSS! I’m learning how to do my own work on myself
Forget real or fake. Just don't TOUCH MY HAIR. Period. I don't really get annoyed at the "is that your real hair?". If it ain't, it ain't 🤷🏾♀️ If it is, it is.
periodt💅
Periodt
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Whenever people ask me that, I just respond with, "Does it really matter?" The reactions range from complete silence to defensive to overly apologetic.
Fr, why do you even want to know?
Fighting the girl that your man cheats on you with is so pointless.😩 If he wants to cheat he’s gonna cheat regardless of who it is... move on and find someone better sis.❤️
Second to last one really got me. Black women being mistreated in healthcare (I've witnessed it firsthand with my mom and grandmother) is a big reason why I've decided to really persevere and pursue medicine. I can't wait to graduate from med school and make sure every black woman who comes to me is taken care of the way she deserves. If nobody else is gonna look out for us, we've gotta look out for each other.
When do you graduate??
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Another rule: PLEASE stop saying you don’t like black girls IN FRONT of a black girl 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I get p’ssed at people who say they hate girl code, like wtf why
Cause some of it doesn’t make sense
It's cus some of them are why those rules were treated and others are probably because they never had true friends on those codes with/ for said ppl
I don’t really believe in girl code because it doesn’t make sense most of the time. What Eloho is saying is human decency.
I don’t believe it exists and I don’t ever instinctively assume another woman is about “code” or “sisterhood” because it almost always will lead you to disappointment. However I make it a point to hold myself to high standard and treat other women with decency. But I know and keep in mind that everyone’s morals are at different levels and reciprocity isn’t guaranteed regardless of any political or societal oppression we may have in common.
I just want to do my own thing lol what do I gotta stay in code for?
Give each other a compliment once and a while, it really makes each other’s day. I know anyone can do this, but we gotta stick together. Plus, make sure you have a couple of black female friends, you can rant and they understand you more than anyone.
This applies to us black men too.I have a black daughter and i am the one teaching her the code. she has a black friend since age 2. at this point that little girl is my step daughter. However on the other hand , i have my Black mum , i love her to bits but over the past decade i understood why she is super difficult to be friends with. she was not exactly toxic with her past friends but she has dominant personality , ever 3 years all types of black female friends deserted her.
Lechiffresix six I’m really glad you taught your daughter the code, I can already tell you’re a good dad. Sorry for you mom, she should have more friends, they bring fun and make you laugh! You black men stick together, don’t let anyone come between you guys!
I think this is just online - a lot of teenage black girls around me are pick mes
@@PrincessYonna1 right
Lechiffresix six, You are a great father for teaching her the code and responsibilities🥰
Ughh YESSSSS on the different personalities one cause I am an introvert and I have social anxiety. In school, people would be like "I thought you were mean when I first met/saw you", and I'd be like.....I literally did nothing but seat here 🤣Like, I might not always talk to you first but if you talk to me, I'm always nice and friendly. Also, the one on sounding like a white girl 😑😂
Edit: And the one on giving passes for ignorance. I HATE how some Black people be praising other races for doing the BARE MINIMUM. I've been into different cultures music and shows/movies since I was a little girl in Haiti and as such, I gravitated towards anime, Asian shows and music. I can't stand when Black Kpop fans make excuses for the blatant anti-Blackness in Asian culture, specifically Korean culture. "They don't know any better" 🙄......Girl, YES. THEY. DO. Especially the ones not living in the rural areas with no internet. Anyway, lemme stop ranting in this comment section 😂
Girl yes. As an avid anime lover, and kpop fan myself, I had to distance myself from certain platforms because black girls were literally giving these people passes, handing themselves the L, and making us all look stupid. "ThEY DidnT KnOW Any BETter..." Was always their excuse. Smh I got tired of it.
🙃 same here and on top if the fact that I am an intp. Most of the I am in my own little world. 🤷🏾♀️
Girl let's be friends. We have so much in common 🤷🏾♀️
I had to reeducate an Asian person on TH-cam. I was watching a young and pretty Nigerian girl trying out Korean makup styles and she looked so freaking adorable like a doll.😍😍 Than an Asian person commented sayong" She looks more Asian than me and I'm Asian". This goes back to Black girl code "Never assume a Black girl is mixed or otherwise just because she's beautiful." This young girl clearly stated she was Nigerian. So.for.this Asian person to say that was uncouth for. What were they implying that Asian people can only be beautiful that she doesn't look Nigerian? So I said " If you're Asian that was a racist thing to say about other Asians. Are you implying that all Asian look alike?" I also said that African people and those.of diaspora are blessed diversity genes/phenotypes. We all have unique beauty that stands us apart from other races. She doesnt look Asian she looks like her." These people are slick with their words.
@@jasminealexander5050 what is the video you talking about, bc it seems like i've seen this comment before
Another opinion: We should Stop trying divide ourselves into different "categories" ( Lightskin, Darkskin, Brownskin, etc.) We're all *BLACK* and *BEAUTIFUL* no matter what.
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Thank you!! Often times we have more similar experiences than not. It is hard for ALL black women.
Bruuuuhhh I'm dark skin y'all and everyone in the class was talking about what they're mixed with and I'm like I'm just black(not like JUST but you know) and everyone acted like I was crazy....and basically started saying that I had to be mixed with something because my hair ain't quite 4c....have you not seen the indigenous people of the HUGE continent of Africa....not everyone that's fully black has type 4 hair and not everyone with type 4 hair is fully black
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Truuu
Exactly
Agreed my cousin is black and white and she has 4c hair, a hair texture does not make someone a certain ethnicity
@@bossgirl8139 um if someone is mixed they are still black. The black gene is much stronger so it takes over the white gene.
Three things:
1) If you’ve never experienced a black girl struggle but another black girl/woman has, don’t assume it’s not real or that woman is seeking attention. Be open minded and help her out in overcoming that struggle.
2) Compliment a black woman’s natural hair instead of asking if she’s wearing a wig, weave, or if she’s mixed for “having good hair.” We already get enough of that from our own men and the people outside of our community.
3) Expand your options ladies. We don’t have to be race loyal when black men aren’t doing the same and expect us to continue the population of our community.
I said on the post and I'll say it again:
Respect skinny sistahs. 💜
Yes ma’am 💕
Your ryt , I wish I was a skinny sista sometimes 😅
As black women we need to stand together and show how beautiful we are, cause society will always try to tear us down. And never hate another BLACK QUEEN because she's popping always show love and you will recieve💕
That "ride or die" mentality is so toxic. My ex asked me that , I looked at him like he was crazy. You want me to lay down my life for your stupid actions give you complete devotion yet you don't know if you want to marry me or even provide basics for me. If a man ask you that leave him instantly because he's all about himself. Find a man who is willing to protect you not put your life in danger! Too many women and girls have lost their lives or freedom for dusty selfish men. Never blindly follow a man!
Exactly so called "ghetto speech" doesn't indicate lack of intelligence. In my experience, many of people who use that dialect actually have the ability to understand many things that a self identified "well spoken" speaker does not.
There are people who can't read and comprehend that speak both ways (sad regardless)👍
@@Anastasia8880 I also think that we created certain slang because we did not have a separate language of our own (once we were taken from our homeland) so we can have private conversations similarly to others who speak their own languages
Ebonics or they’ll say code switching at first they used to say it was considered a language so black kids didn’t have to take a foreign language in school
Unspoken rule: don't support European Products (Gucci, Versace, etc). Instead, support black cosmetics, fashion, etc.
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OOH Yes! I like this alot!
“Don’t settle for struggle love in the name of black love"... I felt that fr. Struggle is STRUGGLE
Black love is beautiful!!
This is kinda off topic but I wish we could talk about *Tekashi69* and how black women should STAY ON CODE. Black women are mad alongside these colorist black male rappers who are complaining about the culture being destroyed by male rappers like Tekashi but they dont give a single damn when it's non-black or latina women infiltrating our culture and replacing us. In fact, they go out of their way to support them. They accept them with open arms and call black women bitter for our valid complaints about the industry. But as soon as a non-black MALE rapper like Tekashi or Lil Pump is successful, suddenly men like Snoop and T.I. care about the "culture" and aren't called bitter for it. Just a thought. I don't particularly like 69 but Black women should not give a damn about his antics but I see a lot of black women angry and sticking by some of these self-hating black men on this. It actually makes me smirk a little to see 69's video get 200 million views in a week and see all these black men whining about it. Take yo medicine, black men... KTSE!
@@Flowergoatflower Exactly. A lot of black men claim black women are anti-black-men but even the ones who preach about colorism and are pro-black-female end up drifting back the other way to stand with black men. It's like we cant help ourselves or something. We are loyal to them and agree with their frustrations even when they are stabbing us in the back. If Tekashi were a female rapper and black women were complaining, most black men would say we are just jealous. We need to wake up! People think they're woke but they're really not.
facts
THIS😫 I just don't get the hype around him. Plus why is noone talking about him saying the n word like...🤔 He is not black as far as I know.
💯👍🏾 I sit back & enjoy the show 🤣 it’s hilarious!
Im against him because he filmed child pornography with a 13 year old girl.
Being confident with no jealously for others.
I've never been the jealous type,No Need for that!
Agreed, it's so unnecessary & it speaks volumes of that person's insecurities. 🔝🙌🏾
Facts
@@DynamicallyDC That's the truth,and if I pick up on those bad vibes from that person/persons,I stay away or keep them away from me.🤚🏾
There's nothing like being confident with peace and joy in your life.🌺
Some people aren't there yet. I'm glad you got there.....but some women need to get there.
@@marquitaharold7255
Thank you,I pray that they will.I want to see my sister's happy.
YES!!!! @11:56.... I'm not stuck up or antisocial, I'm an Introvert!.... LEAVE ME ALONE! 😂😂💖
People need to understand this😭
Oh my goodness! I thought I was the only one! I have been accused of it all.. stuck up, antisocial, uppity, mean.... I'm an introvert.
Same with extroverts! We're not overconfident, we're social butterflies and we know how to socialize!
@@ac12304 correction you ENJOY socialization. Introverts like myself find interacting with people either draining, pointless and a waste of our time. We can entertain ourselves just fine and prefer it. I'm an empath so I can figure someone out before I even know them and most ppl aren't worth the time to me to get to know. I have friends for that.
Ppl say that to me but those know me no. I MIND MY DAMN BUSINESS!!🙄🙄😅
When you see another black woman or girl its okay to smile and speak.
Don’t bash other black women and don’t put a man before your family and friends.
The hair store is a no judgement zone. Periodt.
Respect.
"GOD AIN'T PUT ME HERE TO RIDE OR DIE!!!" I'm weak but did she lie though?
Did she frickin lieeeeeee (In Nicki Minaj Voice)
Nah she didn’t
No she didn’t ✨🥀
A rule: Love yourself first before you can love anyone else PERIODT!
Rule One, ladies: RACE FIRST. And we need to NOT claim other non-Black wOmEn Of CoLoR as being part of OUR movements and struggles and even our own UPLIFTMENT. NO, let them do THEM over there...
Asé!!! SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK!💯👏👏👏
I don't like the word *'NAPPY'*
MY Family doesn't use that *Verbiage* 😩
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We need to add the n word to that list
My grandma still uses that word. She gave me hell for going natural. I decided to put a perm in my hair after almost three years. She had the nerves to say, “I’m proud of you” 😒
I know it's weird how that works but if we start calling ourselves that they wouldn't know what to say😁...I don't like it because of what it's attached to ...I'm really sick of people trying to hold bw heads down while they try to escape the undertow.
Sippycharmz Hendrix wowww .. crazy they just born in a different time than us
As soon as you played doja I remembered that shes trending now for racist ish loool
Bruhh same! 😅
Yeah, she even did a video about her recently lol
She just did a video on her
rightttt me tooooo
I'm just gonna listen to her songs that aren't racist
Omg this is such a good video because there are some unwritten rules that need to be said and rehearsed! I wana do this same video and see if I can create some other ones because I liked this a lot!!! 🖤
That mixed thing annoys me. I am dark skinned. Eloho's tone. I have had some black men ask me if I was mixed because they found me attractive 🙄
I listen to kpop but i am balanced. But black kpop stan. Don't get me started on the excuses they make.
What excuses? Spill the tea
@@imani6357 They use excuse such as, "They don't know!" "They did a translation error!" "Yall just sensitive!" "You didn't invent ___! __ did!" And more. I hate it.
@@imani6357 oh btw, I'm black lol
That fandom across the board is pretty toxic because it is full of v young girls who don't seem like the most switched on bunch. They make excuses for them when many of them are obviously low key racist and at the very least ignorant.
The worst for me have been Exo and I cringed so badly for the bunch of fans who had one of them say that the black girls were Kai's family in such a derogatory manner. I hope they all stopped following them that day. There's so much evidence of them being colorist and nasty about his skin tone.
Let's not forget them smearing that Chen character in chocolate and him screaming he looks like Kunta Kinte and Korea's own racist caricature, Michol. Search it up. There's even RM saying that it was so dark in a room once that he couldn't see JHope and Taehyung.
This is just some of the stuff I've seen. The fans come in saying, 'but they apologised' ofc they did, they got pulled up on it and want international money and fame, not saying that people can't grow.
@@imani6357 they do t know, it's part of their culture. And many more dumb excuses.
I think the problem is that too many black woman are black first and a woman second. When no one else is like that, especially black men they are male identified. More black women need to have the attitude of being a woman that’s black. That way we’re forced to put our interests first and above any thing else. We need to be more selfish and stop playing fair because nobody else is putting another persons interests above their own.
That is the truth!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It seems like more and more black women are getting on code. Especially following accounts such as Chrissie, Paris Milan and others who promote the pro black women first agenda! Let’s keep this up and share these types of messages to our fellow sisters ❤️
I believe I'm black first. Because if there is a room full of women the black women are treated different than the nonblack women. Because they see your race before your gender.
Omds the one about personality! I think as a shy black girl, people have assumed that i'm "stuck up" when really I'm just quiet :(
Positive vibes sweet heart
eloho: dances to doja cat at the end of this video
eloho's next video: "DOJA CAT WHAT IS THIS??"
THE iROnY 😂😭
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
STOP THE MAMMIE BEHAVIOR... CUT 👏🏾 IT 👏🏾 OUT!
It drives me nuts !
Brianna Robinson yes I would like to know as well
The say so song at the end didn't age well with Doja cat willingly claiming she is a white supremacist and how black lives are valueless
Wait a damn minute🤨
Doe Cho did she say that or is it a rumor?
@@BVLV she actually said it, she was saying how she wished she was white and glad she wasnt dark skinned etc. There are clips of her talking to white supremacists and tweets from like 4 years ago. She also said homophobic slurs in 2018 and other shit. She ALSO cheated on her partner who was a Confederate flag lover who hated black people.
Royalty Subliminals check out Lovelyti’s Instagram post about it. It will shock you cause I had no clue doja was a racist.
@@Tafara7 wow 😮
TH-cam would be dry and lifeless without Eloho!!!!❤️❤️
Yes so true
Why does light skin and long hair automatically go together?
Yeah I wondered the same
Light is close to white and white people “have long hair”.
As a light skin African i have no white in me so
Dame, right I'm light skin with short type 4 c hair. I hate this stereotype 😒
People also don’t realize the reason why a lot of lightskins with 3a/3b hair have long hair is because they have been growing it since they were a child because society and family doesn’t see that hair as a problem. While girls with 4c hair at a young age had there moms putting perms in there hair and messing it up. My cousin has 4c hair and her mom took care of it and her hair is very long. I have 3b hair and I cut it last August to below my ears and it’s just now to my shoulders.
I’m glad we’re laying the ground rules.. I’ve been seeing and experiencing no one having our back but I’ve been loving community time and girl time with my sisters 🥰 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👩🏾🦱🙍🏿♀️👩🏽⚖️👩🏾⚕️👧🏽
For one... I've always been tired of people asking me if I'm mixed.... I cant stand it! I have slanted eyes, lighter brown skin and loose curly hair but in reality I'm just as black and just as hated like as any other black girl.... when people tell me "omg ur so pretty" I automatically think its because they favor mixed chicks.... i dont like that! I'm black... I'm proud of it and that's that...
Omg 😭the unicorn is squished in the back
Maybe it’s been sat on.. 😳🙄🤣
Baftagirl London slept on* 🤣🥰
😂
He aided another unicorn into Dreamland tho!! Look at how he's watching her, he's in pure bliss 🥰🥰
@@iameloho718 you tryna kill my piggacorn
“We taught the white people” yess preach this needs to be common knowledge!
White ppl DID NOT WASH before they entered the Arab/ African world. This is factss😭😭
@R. S24 each one TEACH ONE
GIRL WE NEED A VID ON DOJA CAT🤭
I was like PLEASE EDIT OUT THAT DOJA CAT IN THE BACKGROUND. She isn't black so BGC (black girl code) doesn't extend to her... 💅🏿
I was just thinking that, cuz gurl...
YESSS!!!!
Wait, what did she say/do?
Poppy Joanson she’s does not like black people 😂
I just love the vibes that this new wave of black sisterhood is giving me😩💕
I hope it continues 🥺
On Monday I had a black nurse call my hair nappy even though I have knotless braids in my hair. I thought she was complimenting my hair, but she was like not your nappy head I’m talking about her (referring to a hispanic girl sitting right next to me). I looked at like wow 😯 the self hate is real and that was uncalled for. I’ve been working at this hospital for 4 months and I have yet to see her natural hair 🤦🏽♀️.
WOW. Please check her in a nice-nasty way the next time she steps out of line like this. Even if you just say "That was very rude and uncalled for. Do not call me that in the future, racial slurs are unprofessional." Or just say "your self hate is showing..." If you don't say something she is teaching everyone there how to address and dismiss you and everyone else who looks like you that comes in. She is likely also the kind of black person who plays into respectability politics and feels threatened by you "looking black". 🙄
AJ M Yes, I’m quickly learning that I have to be nice-nasty with a lot of people up here, which is not my personality at all. I hate that I have to be on defense mode especially with majority of the time it being towards other black women.
Woah! What?! Nappy? I would have questioned that. Uncalled for. And you are right, what is her hair like, how does she feel about herself?
@@ajm935 Yes. Sickening.
Man this spoke volumes to meeeee like it’s crazy how black woman act towards eachother
Rules for Us Melinated queens
Make sure to work as hard so you can live your dream
Rule 1: Don't tear each other down 👑( We are stronger together)
Rule 2: Be in yo books so society ( no matter what) cant doubt you📔📔( be happy)
Rule 3: Get you a bag so you wont need no broke man 💴💴💸( it's ok to be emotional its part of being a bad bitch)
Rule 4: Know your worth and know your history💎
Rule 5: Support black businesses when you can💴
Rule 6 : Don't beat your kids, teach your kids 😰
Rule 7: Be independent✨( Confidence is the key ...not cockiness )
Rule 8 : Respect yourself 🔥❤( rock your natural -- when you can)
Rule 9 : Honor the strong women that came before you
Rule 10: Teach, the people around you, your kids: GO TO THE MOTHERLAND🐦
Yes ma'am!
Rule 4 & 6 are the best rules!!
I disagree with the indépendant part. It is draining. I would say live below your means so u won’t have to work too hard to compensate...also marry and have kids with a provider man and live in your femininity.
Iya kakou I think it’s great to be independent, and if you are rocking independence, it isn’t draining. ✨
😂Your unicorn in the background like, "Dang. I want my makeup done too. She really forgot about me."
I'm a white girl and I don't think I can ever understand what it's like to be another race. I still love your videos, you're such a role model and you spread so much positivity! I learn a lot from your videos, thank youu so much
OMG!!! This video is triggering me!!!! I can relate to everything you read. My ex husband is Hispanic. I was alone with our daughter in the mall. She was about a year old. A sister approached me smiling at my baby. I knew she was coming to see the baby. Babies do attract attention. She looked at my daughter and upon seeing her light complexion asked me “...what’s she mixed with?” A question I had grown accustomed to since I am dark skinned. I replied “Her father is from El Salvador.” Without hesitation this complete stranger said, “Oh, you know you got with him so you could have a light skinned baby.” Her insecurities projected onto me, I was speechless 😶. I just walked away. 🤦🏾♀️
Abrazos
Ugh people are too much sometimes. My ex is Asian and I remember this lady coming up to us telling us that we’d have such cute babies together. That mess is weird.
Your skin is so clear!! I be breaking out for daays
Omg same it makes me so upset 😭 I need some new skin care products
I used accutane. Works wonders for me
ANOTHER RULE: Just because another black woman has long hair can y'all stop assuming that it's fake, and then when you find out it isn't
assume she is mixed? How do you all get mad when "others" say we can't grow our hair long/ have long hair when you all don't even believe it about your own selves?? Lol
Not gonna lie, I try to complement my peers (black women) when I see them, but there have been quite a few times when I did and the girl responds negatively. For example, I'll say that I like her hair and sis just grills me. Its like...did I say something wrong?
Yasss. You making this lockdown bearable🤎🤎🤎
WWOOW Im so happy my comment was chosen. Plus I Agree 100% with these comments.
It's time to start a new era for the black community ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
21:29 “If u gon keep taking him back, just let the man cheat in peace” ✌🏽 🤣✨
Yes! Finally an upload from Eloho! ❤ been needing good content lol
Sis, I wouldn't be playing any Doja material anymore, cause she recently got exposed for being the latest member of the racist club. Not surprised, I never liked her and this proves why.
Smh, not listening to her anymore. I’m taking Say So off my playlist
What I miss? 👀 link?
People be sad out here luv. But we stay striving 🤷🏾
Ashea E are you also taking the men off your playlist who have physically and sexually abused women or children?
@@katybee3891
Well, me personally, I got rid of all Chris Brown, Drake and R.Kelly music years ago, so I'm good off them. Thankfully, I never got into 69 and his eardrum destroying music. All that damn yelling.
THE BEST EVER!!!!!!!! Black Girl Magic!!! Unapologetically BLACK!!!! I love this channel!!!!
oop girl wrong time to start playing doja's music💀
Right? 😅
This was probably recorded before the mess😅
Come through with the looks, the facts, and the tea 👀☕️
Blk women are so resilient. No other women have to do all of this. This shows strength of decent blk women. It's called a special, specific social evolution
@3:06 Not a girl but my teacher asked me if my hair was real😭😭😭 It was long and curly at the time😂😂 I had a good laugh
😂😂😂😂
I think one unwritten rule that should be mentioned is to not make other girls insecure about their bodies or who they are. I've been having these moments where people do it to make me feel smaller and less beautiful. Less hatred, more encouragement to celebrate how beautiful we are despite what society says.
Bruh I used to be called a white black girl just because I was unproblematic, nice, and quiet like tf?
LOFL Doja Cat at the end 😭😬
I wish everyone will stop thinking black and brown 🦄 are mean aggressive, rude and mean just because they're not walking around with a grin on our face.
Respect
The Doja Cat song at the end 😳😳 triggered
Its so anoying when people ask if my fro is real 👩🏽🦱
duh it took me 7years to grow it back 💁🏽♀️
Hi Eloho,sending love and positive vibes all the way from South Africa.
The about helping each other professionally/academically! I was talking to a black female recruiter for my city and she told me I'm not special because everyone has a masters degree and studied abroad. She was from New York
😞 You're gonna be a great success sis.✊
@@k.c.5426 I hope so. and thank you
Never been this early 😭
I'm gonna have a cup of tea and patiently wait for the Doja Cat video (: ☕
Gathering screenshots now 🤣
@@iameloho718 it's a lot. a whole lot girl
I Am Eloho yes! I don’t have twitter so I’m lost
"Where we riding too and why i gotta die?!"
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LOL Eloho!
Don’t tear each other down. Help your sista out. Fix her crown 👸🏾 👑
When Lo said "Let me love this" I felt that🥰
The 25 dislikes are probably from Beckys & Karens.. Bye✌🏾✌🏾
These 💎💎💎 are priceless!!! Some of us need to hear this for the 1st time and others needed this to be reiterated. Keep pushing sistren!!✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Ok, kind of an unpopular opinion: Don't relax your child's hair. It's problematic and it just causes more problems within our community.
I’m not black (I’m Chinese and Puerto Rican) but the love and sense of community u provide is so endearing! i love ur channel 🥺 black woman are so beautiful and strong. stay poppin 💘💕
You’re so beautiful, Eloho 🧡
Irrelevant, but I just heard tiktoks with "if the shoe fits, wear it. And if it doesn't, you not Cinderella" & recognised your voice. Iconic 👌🏽🔥
Since nobody is talking about the Doja Cat situation can you PLEASE make a vid 🥴‼️
Ik!
When I see a black sister that’s snatched I will cross the freaking highway to tell her how amazing she looks..I’ll cross the freaking Belt Parkway in rush hour to big her up..it matters that much to me..
On a more serious note we better unite cuz it looks like it’s going to be rocky the next 4 years😔
What do you mean next 4 years? Elections?
That Girl The way things are going with Biden it seems like a shoe-in for trump to win the next four years..and if that happens it can’t possibly get better for us
We all need to get on the same page as a group.
It’s crazy how the black race itself is so split. From childhood we characterize light skinned people as acting “lightskinned.” We belittle others for being “too dark.” We shame others for wearing their hair in its natural state because it’s too “crazy” or straightening it because they’re trying too hard to be “European.” It’s so sad that colorism exists within our race, and in the process, our black race is being hurt, when we have bigger issues to conquer. Like maybe...racism and white supremacy. This ignorance comes from lack of education of our race IN TERMS of our race. After taking a Current Issues class as it relates to black people, I feel much more enlightened about many things.
Small TH-camr, would love the support💕
And keeps going and going.
Oh the irony of her playing “Say So” at the end of this video lol.
Lo, you could write a book for little girls!!! It would be amazing!! You could call it "A unicorn's guide to self confidence: (Black girls love in white society)" or some ish like that. Lol. Idk. I could just see you writing a book to uplift the girls in the black community. I'd definitely buy the book. I'm biracial but my kids gon be more black than me. Lol. So I'd love to have something like that to help them as they grow. And honestly, you're just a great role model and wise spirit. P.s. I hope I didn't say anything offense or ignorant. I wanted to say something but I didn't want to word it wrong. If I did, please call me out on it. I'd rather grow and correct myself than be foolish. I say that cuz I'm trying to be an ally as apposed to another LS who is unaware of the issues. Just trying to send out Love💖💖💖
There is nothing more dangerous than a well read black woman if we would stick together than god himself can’t stop us
10:40 Yes! Im mixed and Ive had something similar happen where they’ll say Im pretty n ask what I am and say “oh! You cant even tell!” as if I was worried you could tell Im half black or that being half black had a factor of whether or not Im pretty🙄 If someone is pretty, theyre just pretty. Stop bringing race up with it