Well this is what these liberal feminists want…to run around being free with their bodies with with whoever without commitment and this is the likely outcome!
It's been 60 years since Blk women have gone from the most married, to the baby mommas of the universe. They've had nothing but examples of how hard it is to be a single mother in that time.
Sound so silly or looking for a White woman. If you have a nation that's hellbent of not seeing your people succeed, who's fault is it?. who benefits off of baby mamas/daddy or incarcerated Black men?. Yes, it's personal responsibility also but look at the total situation before mounting a high horse..
That's due from an attack from the outside that removes men from homes. If we keep thinking that we're living in a post racial society since the '70s, think again..
Have nerve to be crying!!!!! should’ve thought about that 🤷🏾♂️ it’s not nobody’s fault on social media. It’s none of our business and we do not care at all!!!
That’s what they all do have kids by random dudes then be like why is my life not going good, maybe because you sleep with random thugs that’s already got kids and baby mommas 😂😂
Thank you for pointing out the obvious everyone seems to sneak around. Whole lot of people out there who apparently can't do anything but raw dawg it, no matter the consequences. You'd think she'd have understood after the first kid, but no, it took three...
I'm not sure why we as black women see nothing wrong with procreation without the commitment of marriage!! I'm married and I don't have any kids (by choice).
It’s about the power dynamic. Those that know SM homes see being a SM a position of power versus a position of submission. Which that word is misunderstood by those that didn’t grow up with a father that can lead. It just means buy into my plan and trust my lead. Those that don’t have that in their development have a difficult time trusting in that way. So they marry a beta that they can run or be a SM. Either they are in the position of power.
Yes and if we could only get your traits to become the normal trend. You’ve decided to be accountable, make good choices that fit the life you want to live and haven’t thrown away your critical thinking abilities. Not that you need a stranger on the internet to tell you but I’m old school. Great job and I wish you all the happiness this crazy world has to offer. So many in our society nowadays have forgotten that choices do have consequences. Whether we like it or not
The whole purpose of marriage is for the perpetuation of bloodlines, there is no logical reason to marry a woman if you're not going to have children with her 🤷🏾♂️ people need to realize that the primary reason for getting married has always been for the perpetuation and furtherance of bloodlines👍
As a teenager, I promised myself I would not shack up with nor have a baby with a man that didn’t think enough of me to wed me. I wanted what my mom and dad had...a family consisting of a husband and wife first. Then, become a father and mother. 38 years and 5 babies later, I'm still married to my 1st and only husband, the father of ALL 5 of my children! Despite what I was told, I knew this feminist mentality was a train wreck. Ladies, stop this mess for your children's future depends on your behaviors. 😢
3 kids by 3 different men. How many did it take for you to figure out what I'm doing isn't working. 3 and none aren't helping this is on me as the mom.
I don't think she sees any problems with 3 baby daddy's. Just the inconvenience of not working when she wants to. We celebrate her strength and independence. If you notice when young Black girls talk about their future. They usually say how many kids they want when they become a mom. They never mention marriage. Men are just sperm banks. Ask Eboni K. Williams. Raising children with half the parenting is normal. No where else but it's normal in our community.
I know someone who has 5 kids from 4 different men. Never married any of them. It's like she never figured out what happens when you have unprotected sex with multiple men.
Yes, and live in an environment that support those beliefs. Because even if you tell her, but there are an abundance of people who do not share the same values, she will be at risk of falling into a bad situation.
@@Neddie2k Nothing wrong with that. I started my daughter out early telling her about how important education and sports are and don't be concerned about boys. Not to long ago I told her that she is special to my wife and I and we want to see her exceed her mother and dad. That she is going to college and getting pregnant is not in the plan. And that we a proud of her accomplishments and that we love her.
I try to be as empathetic to people ; as I can. I am a widow. The same FatherI became a widow at 35. With a 3 year old and a 4 year old. My Mother passed away shortly after my husband. I did not have a big foundation of support. My Mother in law was a great help. It was hard but I made it. I worked , went to school. Now they are in their 20's . I'm so Proud of them . I wish this Young lady the best. I pray her situation gets better.
Your situation is different you made the right choice you just had a unfortunate circumstances. These women continue to make bad choices then cry about it and want help.
"You got 3 kids and 3 baby daddies..you single mom..you say you gone have his kids..if he's here on nah..And you single and pregnant (looking for a step daddy)..showing off the baby".
I’ve noticed that most women can’t moral word rhymes with court and potential human being because most want to be mothers. So in thier mind it’s like damn the dude I want to be a mommy now meanwhile men are focused trying to be the best version of themselves. They keep it now your a fathers by default so use protection or stay abstinent that’s the safe way
🎶You got 3 kids and 3 baby daddies..You a single mom..you say imma have his kid(s) ,if he's here or nah..and you single and pregnant (looking for a step daddy)..showing off the baby🎶🚼
I JUST had the same conversation about this with a female about this, she got a potential promotion at her job but the work hours won't permit her to look after her younger kids. She has 5 but two baby's fathers not helping.*Cue the "Single Mom" song*🎶
1 child in most cases is a mistake but 3 from 2 additional dudes!!!!????? Part of me doesn't feel sorry for her, I feel sorry for those kids because of the mother they have!
Anton, you are the first content creator to use the word "helpmeet" when talking about marriage that I have ever seen on the internet. Congratulations, sir, you get it! Married forty nine years to the same man and I'm not going to say that there haven't been difficulties but we have always been a team. Still are.
Congratulations>>The world is waiting to see your book on how both of you made it work, because we now live in a world where it is very rare to get married and stay married for that long.
@@Black4life4that is not true if understand the Word of God and what the Bible says. Been married to my husband for 24 years two kids ages 21 and 16 it’s only through the grace of God.
That's the problem must society today trying to normalize having kids without marriage the society have been destroyed unfortunately and it's sad 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 Well that's ignorant and that's why she's currently in the predicament she's in. The benefit is the HUSBAND not the government.
Keisha only wants Pookie. Good Men get Used. That's the truth. Keisha rejected every Good Man that wanted her. Friendzoned them. Paid them no mind. Gave Pookie everything. Had his kids. Put up with all the bs from him. After all that, now she wants a Good Man. But she only wants a Good Man so he can be a Stepdady. I have no sympathy for these Keisha because they like being victims with a babydady story. They could of had a Good Man from the jump would have stuck around to be a father. But he's a lame, he corny, he not a thug etc. Lay in the bed you make...
After the first child she should’ve known how hard it is to raise a child by self, but no! You go have 2 and 3 because most times these types of women want what they want. Birth control is literally free if you can’t afford it or don’t have insurance. Somewhere in her mind she wanted 3 kids at all costs then come run tell us about her poor choices in partner selection and being a voluntary single parent and the afterthought of what she-herself chose.
Baby daddies not helping now. Wants to go back in time and tell her younger self to assure her future self to have kids when she's financially stable, but the dad's still not present 🤔 😂
Black women: you don’t have no kids? What’s wrong with you. Me: I don’t want baby mama’s I don’t want to be a baby daddy. I’m good stack bread, travel, peaceful life.
Not all black women have kids. I have zero kids & a virgin. I’m talking to a guy who is celibate & we waiting until marriage. Told him I need a ring and wedding before anything. He doesn’t have kids & is an electrical engineer. We both college educated.
Im so glad she is coming forward and saying the truth , please pray for her situation to change , because the children suffer too , and God bless her ❤️🙏
The village doesn't owe sh*t - the village has bills & jobs to go too as well. Part of being an adult is holding others accountable. Take those men to court, make the state hold them accountable for their part in raising their child, and most importantly...get your paper.
I am 57. No kids. No credit cards. No student loan. Credit score above 800. Own my own condo. Will retire in 11 years with a 30-year State pension. Will have a multiple six-figure savings account plus social security to go with retirement. Worked my ass off to get to this point in life. I think the problem is many women don't really want to work that hard. They want the easy way out which is to pray that some man will come in and rescue them if they keep having kids. The quality men they're looking for are not attracted to women with multiple baby daddies. I'm not attracted to men with multiple baby mamas.. live your best life. Just don't be upset at the consequences of your decisions..
@@ljmorris6496 This was a harsh comment but we are ALL thinking it. Very sad life. If you have no one to share all that hard work with then what's the point.
Parenthood was never designed for one parent. It takes two. Baby mommas chose to have babies, but then complain about lack of help. Take some accountability, girl.
A BW who got married first and had my 3 children by my husband. We divorced and it was hard enough dealing with one father that I was once married to. It's embarrassing that we have gotten to this point. I'm still shocked when people ask me how many fathers there are for my 3 children, like it's become a norm to expect more than one.
@@MainelySpiritual that’s how far we’ve fallen. You hear a chick has multiple kids. The standard question even if it’s not asked is how many fathers. Insane.
Being a baby-momma (not a wife) is a badge of honor in the Black community. A baby-momma put financial strain on the next man that wants a relationship because baby-momma and the kids come as a liability.
Or she could be crying out for mental support. I can guarantee you her childhood was traumatic and she hasn't healed. She had children thinking they would complete her but it put her in a tougher position. Until we can take accountability for our actions, we will not be able to move forward, successfully, with our healing so we can become better individuals, not only for ourselves, but our children. I did not come here to bash her but send peace, love, and mental clarity to her. 🙏🏽❤️
People really have to hold themselves accountable for their own life and the decisions they make. It’s really sad when people both men and women do not have they life in order and they bring children into this world to screw up they life too
It takes two responsible adult.Always hear Americans saying that.Those day long gone .Not even outside the U.S. some people have that.Thats why most plan their family.
6' 4" Never created a Single Babymama Settled for Brain 🧠, Handjobs and Females I really liked....made sure we used that new invention Contraceptives 😊 Waited 2yrs into Marriage before the 1st child
I’m sorry but I have no sympathy for this woman. When you decide to lay down with these different men you know very well what could happen. When I had my son ( that was not a planned pregnancy), I made up my mind that I would not be having any more kids unless I was married to the baby’s father. My son’s father and I split up when he was 5 years old. And by this time I realized that he was not going to be around to help raise this child. I worked the graveyard shift from 3:30 am until 12:00 pm and I had to get a babysitter in the middle of the night so that I could go to work everyday. It was a struggle but I raised my son until he moved out on his own at 20 years old. He is my only child because I said that I refused to take another child through what I had to do for my son. I would have to take him to the babysitter in all kinds of weather, wake him up out of his sleep so I could drive to the babysitter’s house. After 2 babysitters, I finally got an angel that he stayed with until he was old enough to stay at home by himself. It was tough and when I look back on it now I don’t know how I did it. But I know that it wouldn’t be possible if I had 3,4, or 5 kids. You made this so much harder on yourself by having more kids and more responsibility that’s hard to do as a single person. Life is all about choices, we can’t always have it all in life, so you make sacrifices that you can handle. I hope that things will get easier for you as the children get older but, you have no one to blame but yourself.
There was a time when fathers took care of their children even out of wedlock. Grandma once said, "I don't care about the woman or the women, just make sure that you take care of my grandchildren.".
"Many people do not understand the extent of childhood trauma that Black women go through, and those raised by two parents often blame the outcomes of that trauma on others. If anything, this platform should be used to help Black women like her, but instead, we’re just going to tear her down even more. Arrgh!" and wonder why other races should respect us. That's why we get shot like animals with no remorse, cos they realise that we don't love each other. People need to read more about what childhood trauma does. Help her instead of judging her.
When they have help they push baby daddies out,so no I don't give a shit suffer .. my baby mama has three Baby dadies three kids and she is still not settled,no goals no no aspirations no idea where her life is going,at age 40 lord,she has moved from one house to another house more times then she can even keep a job,she drugs abused and suffers from bipolar & paranoia,she has the worst trust issues,she sleeps with knives under her pillow in her draws & in her son's room there is a knive,all for protection,she's thinking someone is out to get her..😭😭😂 she's Australian indigenous influenced by the broken, systematic African American Such as this one .
And those baby daddies have baby mommas and other kids themselves, you signed up for broken homes so you have to live in it. Most case for many of you black women
Some white men would tell you that they grew up with moms who had children by men of other races who have never been married. I met some who have told me this is their upbringing. So it’s not just black women.
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A weak family unit creates a weak society.
Which is our exact problem.
Another persons child ain’t my concern 😂
And yet they can’t figure out what the problem is.
And yet they can’t figure out what the problem is.
And yet they can’t figure out what the problem is.
I ain’t got no sympathy this is common sense. Two parent households have always been better!
Yup, the statistics don't lie!
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This is common in our community. Not only common, it is championed. We are sooooo far behind everyone else
You can’t tell that to some people they are addicted to sleeping around and creating broken homes
Facts
I’m grateful to be a married woman. The baby daddy agenda sounds exhausting as hell and unhealthy for all involved.
@@saradavis9137 they do it to themselves they act like they were forced to do this lol 😂 it’s astonishing
Well this is what these liberal feminists want…to run around being free with their bodies with with whoever without commitment and this is the likely outcome!
The baby daddy agenda or rather epidemic is basically all about the Black woman chasing down and lusting after men that don't want them.
Same here! I could NOT see myself trying to manage one let alone THREE children alone.
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She had 3 baby showers where all her cheerleaders at now that she needs help ?
I never heard it put like that. That's 💯
This is a super valid point were they at frfr I bet she had a million people at them 3 showers
You asking where they at they doing the same thing she doing, pookie and ray ray, drama, broken homes
HAHA I know right?! Lol none of them want to babysit 🤣🤣
They're staying in their lanes. They're not obligated to help her clean up her mess.
It's been 60 years since Blk women have gone from the most married, to the baby mommas of the universe. They've had nothing but examples of how hard it is to be a single mother in that time.
And, still, they haven't learned.
Sound so silly or looking for a White woman. If you have a nation that's hellbent of not seeing your people succeed, who's fault is it?. who benefits off of baby mamas/daddy or incarcerated Black men?.
Yes, it's personal responsibility also but look at the total situation before mounting a high horse..
and yet, they REFUSE to make the change and expect MEN to make a change by accepting a woman with multiple baby daddies
Black women are the number one woman in America🇺🇲 that's not married and number two women in America🇺🇲baby mamas single parents it's sad.
As a black woman, we live in a fantasy and the void we feel inside drives us to make these horrible decisions. Black women suffer from low self worth
The black America is screwed, a husband has been removed from the equation.
It’s like it’s not even an option it literally wasn’t an option for this one
We keep promoting fornication over discipline and structure. Just self destruction at its best.
A line has been drawn too deep in the sand. Black ppl feel like anything white ppl rep, they have to be the total opposite or they "actin white" smh.
Democrat Party is the baby DADDY for all three
That's due from an attack from the outside that removes men from homes. If we keep thinking that we're living in a post racial society since the '70s, think again..
3 Baby daddies and you on social media crying looking for sympathy??? Congratulations you played yourself... 😂😂😂
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Have nerve to be crying!!!!! should’ve thought about that 🤷🏾♂️ it’s not nobody’s fault on social media. It’s none of our business and we do not care at all!!!
Baby momma dreams ain't all they cracked up to be
@@LBrownoffical lmbo!!!! Hell naw
That’s what they all do have kids by random dudes then be like why is my life not going good, maybe because you sleep with random thugs that’s already got kids and baby mommas 😂😂
She doing all she can to NOT say the word "HUSBAND". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
I've met women like this. Mention marriage and they will tell you that's too much of a commitment
@@blackestknight1.0 yep. Hey I say LET THEM STAY WHERE THEY LAY🤣
They don't want man to control them
@butcherbay186 in her defense, her mother was probably a single mother. If that's true, she grew up not knowing what a father or a husband looks like.
@fudgematthew33 Once you know better, it's on you to do better. The scapegoat of well, "My parents was this, so I never had a chance" is 🐂💩.
If you can't manage your fertility in the 2000's, there is nothing no outsider can say.
Thank you for a commonsense observation
Thank you for pointing out the obvious everyone seems to sneak around. Whole lot of people out there who apparently can't do anything but raw dawg it, no matter the consequences. You'd think she'd have understood after the first kid, but no, it took three...
Yes, but these women choose the struggle. 1 because they want to "Trap" a man or 2 to get back at a man thru a child.
it's very simple. get married to a man who wants to raise a family with you. simple. that was all women have to do.
@@randylahey8207 *7 kids. I went to her channel.
Birth control? Condoms? Marriage? How many times can you make a “mistake” before it becomes your fault?
Its Trumps fault
No sympathy. Too bad the kids will grow up damaged
And that’s how the cycle continues without break and the generational curse.
And it is too bad for all of us. They will become the school dropouts, imprisoned, and teen parents. No value added to society.
One will end up dead or in prison.
Pookie jr is going to look great in his Orange jumpsuit 😂
I'm not sure why we as black women see nothing wrong with procreation without the commitment of marriage!! I'm married and I don't have any kids (by choice).
Black women do what they want and no one can tell them anything
It’s about the power dynamic. Those that know SM homes see being a SM a position of power versus a position of submission. Which that word is misunderstood by those that didn’t grow up with a father that can lead. It just means buy into my plan and trust my lead. Those that don’t have that in their development have a difficult time trusting in that way. So they marry a beta that they can run or be a SM. Either they are in the position of power.
Yes and if we could only get your traits to become the normal trend. You’ve decided to be accountable, make good choices that fit the life you want to live and haven’t thrown away your critical thinking abilities. Not that you need a stranger on the internet to tell you but I’m old school. Great job and I wish you all the happiness this crazy world has to offer. So many in our society nowadays have forgotten that choices do have consequences. Whether we like it or not
They like broken homes and the baby momma and baby daddy culture it’s all apart of their drama
The whole purpose of marriage is for the perpetuation of bloodlines, there is no logical reason to marry a woman if you're not going to have children with her 🤷🏾♂️ people need to realize that the primary reason for getting married has always been for the perpetuation and furtherance of bloodlines👍
Depending on a village to help after you made your decisions is wild. "The village" concept was effective back in the day. Entitlement ruined it.
Until they got sick of the BS 😕 ijs
The village would also likely be very vigilant against this kind of irresponsible behavior too.
As a teenager, I promised myself I would not shack up with nor have a baby with a man that didn’t think enough of me to wed me. I wanted what my mom and dad had...a family consisting of a husband and wife first. Then, become a father and mother. 38 years and 5 babies later, I'm still married to my 1st and only husband, the father of ALL 5 of my children! Despite what I was told, I knew this feminist mentality was a train wreck. Ladies, stop this mess for your children's future depends on your behaviors. 😢
3 kids by 3 different men. How many did it take for you to figure out what I'm doing isn't working. 3 and none aren't helping this is on me as the mom.
3 crusty dusties needed a place to stay.
Feel sorry for the kids having no father's and a poor character mothev
In her mind it’s all three of their fault.
I don't think she sees any problems with 3 baby daddy's. Just the inconvenience of not working when she wants to. We celebrate her strength and independence. If you notice when young Black girls talk about their future. They usually say how many kids they want when they become a mom. They never mention marriage. Men are just sperm banks. Ask Eboni K. Williams. Raising children with half the parenting is normal. No where else but it's normal in our community.
@inquizative44 As a mom, I'd have to check myself. It's on me. I'm picking the same dudes if I'm getting the same outcome
I know someone who has 5 kids from 4 different men. Never married any of them. It's like she never figured out what happens when you have unprotected sex with multiple men.
People who have multiple baby mother/fathers never stop sleeping around for a fact
They don't even have the kids either, someone else stepped in and took custody.
I wonder why these women think there story is different than the next woman? Like, she surely not the 1st woman to be in this situation.
They think the world revolves around them
They have no less than a billion different examples in the last 40 years alone of how hard it is to be a single mother.
A lot of them think their special lol
They all like sharing the same baby daddies basically, sad world we live in
@@michiganpyroaddicts4482lol you said it
I plan to tell my daughter to wait until she is married. No accountability in this woman.
My kid is 7, I we already talking about marriage, call it brainwashing, I started early.
Yes, and live in an environment that support those beliefs. Because even if you tell her, but there are an abundance of people who do not share the same values, she will be at risk of falling into a bad situation.
@@Neddie2k Nothing wrong with that. I started my daughter out early telling her about how important education and sports are and don't be concerned about boys. Not to long ago I told her that she is special to my wife and I and we want to see her exceed her mother and dad. That she is going to college and getting pregnant is not in the plan. And that we a proud of her accomplishments and that we love her.
She’s not a single mother, she’s a breeder with three kids from different daddies
Exactly they go after the dudes with multiple baby mommas and kids on purpose to enter the drama
Facts.😂😂😂
Lmao breeder is wild but accurate 😂
@@manuelmezaR34 *7 kids. I found her channel last night.
Zero lies detected in this comment.
I try to be as empathetic to people ; as I can. I am a widow. The same FatherI became a widow at 35. With a 3 year old and a 4 year old. My Mother passed away shortly after my husband. I did not have a big foundation of support. My Mother in law was a great help. It was hard but I made it. I worked , went to school. Now they are in their 20's . I'm so Proud of them . I wish this Young lady the best. I pray her situation gets better.
Don’t pray for her women like this needs to talked down on. You should not support bad behavior and poor adult judgement.
Your situation is different you made the right choice you just had a unfortunate circumstances. These women continue to make bad choices then cry about it and want help.
She doesn't think getting married should have been her first thought. Wow. She is so LOST!!!
She let him hit it raw now she a single mom!
Women have a disdain towards men. That's the undertone in these types of conversations.
Like the majority of them✌🏽
"You got 3 kids and 3 baby daddies..you single mom..you say you gone have his kids..if he's here on nah..And you single and pregnant (looking for a step daddy)..showing off the baby".
She never planned on getting married or having a real family that’s the problem she just wants to sleep around and do her
That's the problem with having multiple baby daddies, even if they do step in it's going to be for their child only not the others.
yeah but how about each one stepping up to their own child?
@@tonyebiere551How about have a baby with a person who actually wants to be a father first. She picked those men to lay down with
*Do you know why women have kids with different men?* 🤨
It's too maximize child support. Yes, it's about the money. 😮
@@BDAthleticInsider I think the men just wanted sex but failed to use protection. I do not believe anyone of them intended to procreate with this lady
Actions have consequences, consequences that can last years.
These women just be having kids just because. Can’t blame everything on men. It’s sad how these women just get pregnant and struggling
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They love the feeling of warm skeet inside them by random men
But she looks like she hasn't eaten in days & she's driving a 1979 Pinto wagon.
I’ve noticed that most women can’t moral word rhymes with court and potential human being because most want to be mothers. So in thier mind it’s like damn the dude I want to be a mommy now meanwhile men are focused trying to be the best version of themselves. They keep it now your a fathers by default so use protection or stay abstinent that’s the safe way
This why I’m never having kids or getting married!! I couldn’t imagine being a single mother!! Hell no ain’t no way
My heart goes out to her.
😬😬😬 That’s 4 grown people with 4 different schedules. She’s painted herself into a corner.
She reminds me of my sister in-law.
You let him hit it raw without a second thought now you a Single Mom.....
She said she gon have his kids...don't care if he's there or not...
🎶You got 3 kids and 3 baby daddies..You a single mom..you say imma have his kid(s) ,if he's here or nah..and you single and pregnant (looking for a step daddy)..showing off the baby🎶🚼
Why you dissing? Dame you vicious.
@@preciouscryit’s a song
@@preciouscryby brandon jamal
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Why do they keep doing this to themselves and their children???
@@AngelaStarr right then they will say there wasn’t no good black men, there’s thousands of black men with no kids and no baby mommas
FREE EVERYTHING did you see she wasn't driving a shty PINTO
I JUST had the same conversation about this with a female about this, she got a potential promotion at her job but the work hours won't permit her to look after her younger kids. She has 5 but two baby's fathers not helping.*Cue the "Single Mom" song*🎶
Who knocked that up??? Ewww 🤮
Black dudes
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You hear that lisp? That top is gon be 🔥🔥 lmfao 🤣
😂😂😂😂@@zion_lion340
Ninjas will hit anything. Classic
Those poor children.
1 child in most cases is a mistake but 3 from 2 additional dudes!!!!????? Part of me doesn't feel sorry for her, I feel sorry for those kids because of the mother they have!
Aint no "mistake" having kids.... most of them are ADULTS. Hold them ACCOUNTABLE.
Facts!
But I love my food stamps & Gov. check I mean my kids I loves my children's.
They turn to the internet for attention and validation. There are a bunch of people on the internet just like her.B Birds of a feather…….
Anton, you are the first content creator to use the word "helpmeet" when talking about marriage that I have ever seen on the internet. Congratulations, sir, you get it! Married forty nine years to the same man and I'm not going to say that there haven't been difficulties but we have always been a team. Still are.
KS always did too
That's a record in this day and age. 🎉
Congratulations>>The world is waiting to see your book on how both of you made it work, because we now live in a world where it is very rare to get married and stay married for that long.
!! 0:25 BUT THEY DID TELL HER NOT TO BE FAST AND CHASING BOYS, SHE JUST DID NOT LISTEN! SO SAD, TOO BAD. NO SYMPATHY FOR HER CONSEQUENCES !!
Wow where is her team at it's messed up because no one well not help that's crazy. Sometimes it's the company you do keep
How bout not having kids till you’re married.
Marriage don’t work it’s the same thing
@@Black4life4 Thats not true tho
@@Black4life4that is not true if understand the Word of God and what the Bible says. Been married to my husband for 24 years two kids ages 21 and 16 it’s only through the grace of God.
@@uwaohi2386 you in denial
To much of a Commitment they will rather be a baby mama then be a wife
The Sistahood at its best! Whoa me! What embracing and celebrating the Single Black Mother Culture look like!🤔🎯
That's the problem must society today trying to normalize having kids without marriage the society have been destroyed unfortunately and it's sad 😢😢😢😢😢😢
The teeth and the lisp I can’t get past
6:32-AD…”Aww s#!+”🤣🤣🤣🤣
A team? You mean a husband? You still haven't learned.
*If she gets married now, she may no longer qualify for benefits.*
That is why she said "team" and not husband.
@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 Well that's ignorant and that's why she's currently in the predicament she's in. The benefit is the HUSBAND not the government.
@@saje1988 *I agree, but we are fighting a culture, and cultures take a long time to reform.*
Sht being stupid or playing stupid pays off.
I just went on this broad "IG" and it is so repulsive, that those tears of sadness are well deserved.
@@tyreeknyc1980 What is her Instagram?
What is it
The fact that she’ll go to the food pantry, before asking their fathers for food to feed the kids is insane. I c to
She would do anything for her kids except what they need…a stable 2 parent home.
Keisha only wants Pookie.
Good Men get Used.
That's the truth.
Keisha rejected every Good Man that wanted her. Friendzoned them. Paid them no mind.
Gave Pookie everything.
Had his kids.
Put up with all the bs from him.
After all that, now she wants a Good Man. But she only wants a Good Man so he can be a Stepdady.
I have no sympathy for these Keisha because they like being victims with a babydady story.
They could of had a Good Man from the jump would have stuck around to be a father.
But he's a lame, he corny, he not a thug etc.
Lay in the bed you make...
After the first child she should’ve known how hard it is to raise a child by self, but no! You go have 2 and 3 because most times these types of women want what they want. Birth control is literally free if you can’t afford it or don’t have insurance. Somewhere in her mind she wanted 3 kids at all costs then come run tell us about her poor choices in partner selection and being a voluntary single parent and the afterthought of what she-herself chose.
This is unacceptable and the women applaud this behavior...
That’s why who even cares anymore
@@johnwilliams5680 but Simone Biles got dragged for having a whole husband. We're so lost, it's not funny.
@@fudgematthew33 facts! They were dragging her for being married cause they miserable
That weekly daycare bill definitely ain't no joke which is why I only had 1 son but she knew that and still had 2 more kids smh that's tough lol
Baby daddies not helping now. Wants to go back in time and tell her younger self to assure her future self to have kids when she's financially stable, but the dad's still not present 🤔 😂
Black women: you don’t have no kids? What’s wrong with you.
Me: I don’t want baby mama’s I don’t want to be a baby daddy. I’m good stack bread, travel, peaceful life.
That’s why they go after the dudes with multiple baby mommas and kids because they know it will ruin they kids lives and start drama
Whatever happened to woman’s intuition I guess it failed her in this instant😂
Crazy how people think having multiple kids and multiple babymothers/fathers is normal, sounds like an excuse because you want to sleep around
Not all black women have kids. I have zero kids & a virgin. I’m talking to a guy who is celibate & we waiting until marriage. Told him I need a ring and wedding before anything. He doesn’t have kids & is an electrical engineer. We both college educated.
Of course not all who said all ..?. Statistically a large number of them do have children by a small minority of men..
You’re either in a relationship or not?
Great…. Now to get the other 99.5 million of y’all on board.
When you say not all black women have children, what was your point in pointing out the obvious thing that everyone knows already?
Yeah some don’t have kids but to many of them do have kids and they all share the same baby daddies so that’s there problem
I wanna know the 3 dudes who decided to have babies with
...thissss
Pookie and ray ray
@@WTtv-mp2osand tyrone
All of 3 of her BD’s hit that after midnight, none of them wants to be seen with her?
@@adaptivevision44hell naw
@@TyroneDewayneit was you ☝🏿
At what point do you look at other people struggling and tell yourself to not make the same mistakes 🤡🎪
This!
Im so glad she is coming forward and saying the truth , please pray for her situation to change , because the children suffer too , and God bless her ❤️🙏
She set her life 10 years back and don’t get me started with that leeeeeth
You know what these single mothers do in their spare time. 👀
@@Goldcoast030😂😂😂😂
😲😲😲
10?!? 15-20 minimum. No support system! Most opportunities you'll never achieve if her aim was high
What is that?
The village doesn't owe sh*t - the village has bills & jobs to go too as well. Part of being an adult is holding others accountable. Take those men to court, make the state hold them accountable for their part in raising their child, and most importantly...get your paper.
I am 57. No kids. No credit cards. No student loan. Credit score above 800. Own my own condo. Will retire in 11 years with a 30-year State pension. Will have a multiple six-figure savings account plus social security to go with retirement.
Worked my ass off to get to this point in life. I think the problem is many women don't really want to work that hard. They want the easy way out which is to pray that some man will come in and rescue them if they keep having kids.
The quality men they're looking for are not attracted to women with multiple baby daddies. I'm not attracted to men with multiple baby mamas..
live your best life. Just don't be upset at the consequences of your decisions..
And will pass away with housecats and your estate turned over to a bank...
Sounds like a sad life 😩🤷🏽♀️
@@ljmorris6496 This was a harsh comment but we are ALL thinking it. Very sad life. If you have no one to share all that hard work with then what's the point.
Exactly, she's not in a better position just cuz she has money
So your saying your going to help her out with a large amount of MONEY Bless your heart did you see how thin she was thanks for helping her out.
Smh. Consequences of promiscuity????.
Parenthood was never designed for one parent. It takes two. Baby mommas chose to have babies, but then complain about lack of help. Take some accountability, girl.
I JUST WENT OVER THERE...SHE HAS 7 KIDS¡!!!!!!!!!!!! 7 KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
7 kids smdh
You just went over there? Like that's your friend or something? If so you're disloyal
@@SNPDemon Ummmmm, I meant her channel. I went over to her channel.
What, I know you lying.
@@djhayes3105 Brittanyplus7 is her TH-cam channel. I couldn't believe it.
A BW who got married first and had my 3 children by my husband. We divorced and it was hard enough dealing with one father that I was once married to. It's embarrassing that we have gotten to this point. I'm still shocked when people ask me how many fathers there are for my 3 children, like it's become a norm to expect more than one.
@@MainelySpiritual that’s how far we’ve fallen. You hear a chick has multiple kids. The standard question even if it’s not asked is how many fathers. Insane.
3 children by 1 man who makes $50k +/- a year is less in child support vs. 3 children by 3 men who make $150k collectively..... That's the game.
Give the fathers custody.
Being a baby-momma (not a wife) is a badge of honor in the Black community. A baby-momma put financial strain on the next man that wants a relationship because baby-momma and the kids come as a liability.
Ppl are so mean 😢
Black Women LOVE Pookie..
Multiple unplanned and out of wedlock kids = no sympathy given.
I bet when they were hitting it from the bike were was this attitude!
So no one told you before to wait? No one??
If she didn't figure it out after the first baby or even the second baby, she is the one who is sickening.
But she's very thin did you see her rib cage poor poor woman
Or she could be crying out for mental support. I can guarantee you her childhood was traumatic and she hasn't healed. She had children thinking they would complete her but it put her in a tougher position. Until we can take accountability for our actions, we will not be able to move forward, successfully, with our healing so we can become better individuals, not only for ourselves, but our children. I did not come here to bash her but send peace, love, and mental clarity to her. 🙏🏽❤️
That’s why my wife and I were married ten years before we had kids!!
Social Media Has Ruined Alot Of Our Women....
People really have to hold themselves accountable for their own life and the decisions they make. It’s really sad when people both men and women do not have they life in order and they bring children into this world to screw up they life too
You are such a voice of common sense, which is needed right now!
It takes a village to raise a kid
It takes two responsible adult.Always hear Americans saying that.Those day long gone .Not even outside the U.S. some people have that.Thats why most plan their family.
Or just one good father
The way how things going it looks the village is tired of these baby mamas. The village is actually running away from pookies' and Ray Rays' kids.😂
@@charlziedouglas-mo7ucthat way
Yea the village is tired of pookie jr
Its always someone else's fault 🙄
Right 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
BUT WHY AREN’T THE 6 FEET TALL MEN WITH ALL THE SWAG AND DRIP💧NOT HELPING THESE SINGLE MOTHERS THEY CREATED? 🤔🤔
The BBC correspondent is on to another story...
Because they have No Idea what a Father is...
Plus its hard to be up in the club chasing booty when you gotta raise kids... So they just bounce...
They was just droppin D off
6' 4"
Never created a Single Babymama
Settled for Brain 🧠, Handjobs and Females I really liked....made sure we used that new invention
Contraceptives 😊
Waited 2yrs into Marriage before the 1st child
@@Tre38843 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m sorry but I have no sympathy for this woman. When you decide to lay down with these different men you know very well what could happen. When I had my son ( that was not a planned pregnancy), I made up my mind that I would not be having any more kids unless I was married to the baby’s father. My son’s father and I split up when he was 5 years old. And by this time I realized that he was not going to be around to help raise this child. I worked the graveyard shift from 3:30 am until 12:00 pm and I had to get a babysitter in the middle of the night so that I could go to work everyday. It was a struggle but I raised my son until he moved out on his own at 20 years old. He is my only child because I said that I refused to take another child through what I had to do for my son. I would have to take him to the babysitter in all kinds of weather, wake him up out of his sleep so I could drive to the babysitter’s house. After 2 babysitters, I finally got an angel that he stayed with until he was old enough to stay at home by himself. It was tough and when I look back on it now I don’t know how I did it. But I know that it wouldn’t be possible if I had 3,4, or 5 kids. You made this so much harder on yourself by having more kids and more responsibility that’s hard to do as a single person. Life is all about choices, we can’t always have it all in life, so you make sacrifices that you can handle. I hope that things will get easier for you as the children get older but, you have no one to blame but yourself.
3 bd ? Really ????
3x3
She is completely lost. No guidance whatsoever or if anything the wrong guidance and examples.
Okay let me have more kids because it will totally benefit my first kid 😂😂😂, no common sense you people down bad these days
There was a time when fathers took care of their children even out of wedlock. Grandma once said, "I don't care about the woman or the women, just make sure that you take care of my grandchildren.".
Man single mothers complain too much. I'm a single father, it ain't that bad. As adults we figure shit out and keep it pushin.
But but she's pushing the wrong way
Ridiculous
She complaining but she ain't saying nothing about giving the kids to their father cuz she don't want to give up that big tax return
My brotha I’m rockin wit you 💪🏾
Not to long a ago wasn't it $1500 per kid
See this is exactly what these people do wrong they do everything backwards and that's the truth too it😊😊
🗣 Sounds Like She Doesn’t Even Get Child Support, Not That It Matters 7
Kinda hard getting child support from pookie and ray ray when the ain't got jobs smfh.
It's always back pay
Pookie ain't no money he broke 😂
That's what she says but it sounds & smells like BULL SHT to me. She wasn't driving no Pinto wagon
"Many people do not understand the extent of childhood trauma that Black women go through, and those raised by two parents often blame the outcomes of that trauma on others. If anything, this platform should be used to help Black women like her, but instead, we’re just going to tear her down even more. Arrgh!" and wonder why other races should respect us. That's why we get shot like animals with no remorse, cos they realise that we don't love each other. People need to read more about what childhood trauma does. Help her instead of judging her.
When they have help they push baby daddies out,so no I don't give a shit suffer .. my baby mama has three Baby dadies three kids and she is still not settled,no goals no no aspirations no idea where her life is going,at age 40 lord,she has moved from one house to another house more times then she can even keep a job,she drugs abused and suffers from bipolar & paranoia,she has the worst trust issues,she sleeps with knives under her pillow in her draws & in her son's room there is a knive,all for protection,she's thinking someone is out to get her..😭😭😂 she's Australian indigenous influenced by the broken, systematic African American Such as this one .
Who decided to put kids in this woman 😂😂😂😂 we need him in the army he doesn’t care
7:12 All I can do is laugh. You put yourself in that position, literally.
Family and friends probably was behind her and helping her but she kept having kids.what did she think was going to happen?
Can't afford food for your children but you got the new iPhone....
😂😂😂😂
And those baby daddies have baby mommas and other kids themselves, you signed up for broken homes so you have to live in it. Most case for many of you black women
another single mom wanting sympathy 🥱🥱🥱
Right they think they can sleep around with random dudes then blame good men 😂
She says that like someone didn't tell her that very thing. She didn't listen then, she wouldn't listen to herself if she could go back in time.
Some white men would tell you that they grew up with moms who had children by men of other races who have never been married. I met some who have told me this is their upbringing. So it’s not just black women.
So what! White men are the original baby daddies. All those children they left behind with black women during slavery!
no but. a great many do..... its in the culture no way to sugar coat it.