My wife was an OFW, a missionary and went to nursing school. She’s educated, well travelled and has an amazing work ethic. Her beauty is just icing on the cake.
I knew that I had a diamond when I was chatting with 9 Filipinas and my lady and I just clicked. A great woman with the most incredible sense of humor and beyond beautiful. She is so caring loving and I am a very lucky man to have found her. 🐝❤️🦋
I had a similar experience. I had several chat mates. For about 10 months I wrote a daily blog and had 40-170 viewers. Several of those viewers became chat-mates. One of my viewers was my wife of 14 years now. She stood out from the rest in a number of ways. She was frugal, responsible. Had a wonderful extended family and two well disciplined, goal oriented children. She was kind too. And she had a nice college education and a good job. I knew she would be a wonderful mate and I was right!
Yes: no cosmetics, no paint, no lipstick, no glued-on eyelashes, false eyebrows, plastic fingernails; and no tattoos or dyed hair; those are the best by far.
For men physical attraction is important but it is just the first filter. Life is short. You can’t meet and talk to everyone. So you start with the pretty ones. You gotta start somewhere. Personality trumps looks but you’ve already filtered for looks.
when I was in the Philippines I also liked to use whitening products but since I went abroad I went to the country of Jordan, I am a provincial girl, I have really dark skin, people here appreciate my beautiful skin color so since then I don't use bleach anymore. I have become confident in myself, ofw here in jordn 😊❤️ god bless
You're welcome!! Why do you think the young girls in your country grow up thinking this way? In my opinion, the Filipina girl is not only the most beautiful in skin color, but her inner beauty is also incredible compared to another woman around the world@@Itsmewhengay
@@jamesballard6564 yes I'm so thankful for what I have Now, thanks for the people appreciate my skin color, I admit before I don't love my skin because it's brown skin, they Bullied me, but now I'm pretty having my skin color ❤️
I'm happy. 12 years in. Big age gap. She wanted kids. I gave her 2. She's beautiful and a simple province girl. Living in Cebu. Tried Canada for a year...nope. Traditional values. I provide. She nurtures.
One thing that impresses me about my GF is that whenever I mention something that she doesn't know about, she googles it and reads all about it. Then, asks me well-informed questions about it.
I had a filipina girlfriend once back in 1981. She was beautiful, going to a Jr college getting her education. Both of us were young and having fun.. So much so she became my wife in August of 81 and we're still married living here on biliran island in a house we built 30 years ago. But we're not retiring here we knew years ago the medical care here is let say not the best.. We're looking at making the move to fla. In a few years.. We will spend our golden years in an area that is better for our health as we age.. She has been the love of my life.. I have always given her the best that life can bring us. 🎉
@HenryBegun come over and enjoy this beautiful country. But it can be very hot with high humidity.. Some people can't take it.. Make sure if you have any medical issues, you bring as many meds as you can. Medical care here is not the best.. 3 words you will hear a lot is "Out of Stock," and you dont want that when it comes to medical supplies.. But you will if you stay here long time.. We're leaving here in 2 days, going back to the States for 2 months, and we do it every year.. Hopefully, in 3 years, we'll be in fla. Enjoying our senior years. Better medical facilities there, roads, drivers all better than here. And many more good restaurants to choose from.. Yes, it's more expensive there. Plan well, and you'll do well. Don't start planning retirement in your 50's or 60's that should have started back in your 20's. We did, and we have worked the plan.. Now it's paying dividends. We are celebrating our 42 wedding anniversary in Singapore this August. We love going there.
A long time ago I learned that beauty today will eventually fade tomorrow. My Filipina isn’t unattractive, but her sharp mind, her humor and the intellectual attraction we had for each other was the main points that brought us together. Years down the road those will still be there! You’ll understand when we have lunch on the 31st. Don’t forget that one of the problems in dating a Filipina is cultural differences. Both sides think and react differently. Tampo is a real thing here! 😂🤣
I agree, the morena skin and LONG completely black hair is what I find attractive. If Filipina's pay attention, most vloggers with Filipina's are with the morena ones. Outer beauty ONLY gets a man's attention and draws him to her, it is her attitude, behaviors, and personal character that makes him decide if he will stay or not. If she can bring him happiness, peace, and make his life easier he will commit to her. If she behaves in any way like a western woman, he's not going to stick around, that's what he fled his own country to get AWAY from.
Great video. Always keep this in mind guys. Regardless of the location, women are wired to tap your resources (money, housing, etc). Make absolutely sure that you do not hand your resources over to any woman. Always make sure you have total custody of your resources so if she bails, she doesn't get to take "your" resources with her... While she's with you, spoil her with your resources, but don't put yourself in a situation where she takes custody of them. This is especially important regarding housing. Marriage? As a financial advisor, I would advise you against it, just saying....
Looks fade, and sex slows down, which is normal. This doesn't mean that the honeymoon should end because a relationship needs many aspects to be whole. Be careful with separated women as they may only be separated until you come into the picture, and then the husband pops up for the financial benefits. Wait until you are retired before going overseas and plan on living there. Be very clear about your plans, so if they have ulterior motives, they can move on . Utang na loob is a real thing here, and many women are supporting their extended family, and if you get involved with this woman, then you may end up assuming her burden if she is not working. Do your research and learn the culture, especially of the women you are dating, because that can be different from each region, and you don't want to offend someone. Filipinas won't take the time to learn about your culture unless they are targeting you, so pay attention to that because a good scammer knows their victims' habits and exploits them to their own advantage . A real Filipina doesn't have time to learn about other cultures because their busy making a living, and you coming into their life is not a planned thing. Be careful of the baby trap and always use protection as stds and aids are on the rise in the philippines. If you don't plan on having any more children, then I recommend you consider having a vasectomy before you go overseas and just be honest about it with the women you meet. Younger women may be looking for this, but a woman who already has a child that is older may not. They are concerned about what they bring to the table in the relationship and will try to bolster their worth because of the competition and their own insecurities. We as men know what we are looking for in a woman and that women will stick out in the crowd. Some men are going overseas and are already done with women but want the financial benefits and warm weather as it's easier on the body. It's easy to just get a housekeeper to come in two or three times a week to clean and maybe do laundry instead of having a live in care taker because your obligations to her increase dramatically. You will need to provide room and board plus medical care, and your privacy will suffer.
With reference to your first point, my wife is not particularly dark-skinned but she's not exactly light, more like a beige colour, not that I give a crap! She used to be concerned about her complexion, investing in the skin-lightening creams, etc., like so many of her friends, but then she realised that I didn't really care and that I appreciated her tanned, blemish-free, clean appearance. She only hits the make-up tray when she has an all-Filipino function to attend, which is fine by me. I am astonishingly, Englishly, white, in spite of having lived 30 years in the tropics. My step-daughter is darkish, whille our son is clearly a light-skinned mixed race child. Regarding the issue of income, my wife didn't use me as a meal-ticket to go overseas but as a ticket to come back home - we met in HK - and we have invested our lives in this country, where we are doing just fine. Our kids - immediate and extended family - are being educated at decent establishments here in the Philippines. I support them and my only proviso is that they give back to the Philippines for a few years before going overseas, if they wish. They also know that it's not an open wallet and if they screw up, well, that's their choice and there's no safety net.
100% agree on your take on women ( I am 57 years old ). Also make sure that she has something besides beauty, if you stay with her long term. Beauty is only skin deep. Subscribed! Cheers from Denmark.
Something that is perfect is as good as it could possibly be. He spoke perfect English. Hiring a nanny has turned out to be the perfect solution. It's a perfect example of a house reflecting the person who lives there. Nobody is perfect.
If you're new to Asia you should head to Thailand and get it all out of your system. One of the worst things you can do is just be a regular guy here in the West go to the Philippines shack up and then you realize that you are not in love with a Filipina you are in love with Filipinas and now you're stuck
I like this video. When people go on dating sites, they get to filter the kind of woman they want. It's important. I'm 59 and I'm now dating a Thai girl. She slotted in to my general filters and she's great. Her age: 64! Who would have thought?
Good Video Steve 😊. When I was younger, I had the hair, body, looks however, time has set in and no turning back now. The only thing I have left is responsibility, trustworthy and charm. To old for games. Everyone asks me why are you moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭. Well, the Philippines 🇵🇭 is very beautiful and that is where I will live out the rest of my day's. I also Luv ❤️ the tan look for sure. Keep the video's comin. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏.
I agree with the skin whitening issues. I tell my GF I love the Morena look and she should embrace what God gave her. Western influence is creeping in and influencing the younger generation. I hope it doesn't destroy what makes the Philippines special..
It happens to Filipinos too, not a friend just a coworker was a retired navy mess cook born Filipino, his nurse wife he brought over from the Philippines upgraded to a doctor in the hospital she worked at.
Philippines food is very high in sugar carbs, white bread.. lot of bananas, high sugar products...fruit drinks ..Gatorade...pop...the dishes are like Chinese food...great video 😊😊
Good content, this is what i have been looking to but not so much on the dating sites. I blew it about 3 years ago with a Ukrainian woman and have not found it with a Philippina so far
its the beautiful ones who ask money to,,i talked to alot of philipinas over the years,,im talking to two now,,who are not what philipinas concider beautiful girls,,,, they are very self contious about there looks,,and one is 37 the other 41,,and neither has ever even been on a date,,,becsuse they think they are not good looking enough,,both work,,,but do not date because one has crooked teeth,and the other is chubby,,neither has ever asked for a dime from me,,and im haveing a hard time chooseing between them !,,thx steve..people put to much into what a girl looks like rather than whats in her heart,,
Okay here's what you do you find a lady that works for a big reputable company. A good person that's genuine you ask her if she has any recommendations. bingo. Get on a scooter travel into the province stopped at all of the little pharmacies lots of little hidden gems that are nice people an beautiful. Go into a hospital fake a simple little injury lots of young beautiful doctors nurses physical therapist. Or if you want to make things simple just tape some pesos to your arms and legs and walk down the street you will be very popular the key is to be the best person you can be be in the best physical shape mentally and physically
I think I see the problem now Found the perfect girl for me 4 years ago. I looked for a girl with good character without baggage. Once I saw how beautiful she was, I was happy to make her mine. I found that a younger woman is like clay and we could mold each other to have a perfect fit. An older woman is more like a Stone. She's set in her ways and more difficult to mold. The gems are probably already taken.
Everyone wants a dream, and catches reality instead. How someone looks, vs how someone is on the inside can be two different things. I got fooled, so can you.
At 61, the idea of (even the word) "Dating" isn't appealing to me (putting it mildy). Yes, I want to meet (& be with) women (a woman) .. "Sure, Go Out, But (not into the serial dating ritual bs)
Really….. whitening soap. 😅 I heard about creams but never soap. I saw that in other islands people want to be whiter. I am from a islands and I remember I always have a tan and I like it. Then here in USA I am white and I go to the spa for tanning. We never happy. But islands people always have a toasty color. That’s the beauty of living in an island….In this days no one wants to accept who they are
The problem starts when a guy rates women on a 1-10 scale. Beauty only. Big mistake. Actually you should rate 3-30. 1-10 Beauty 1-10 Character 1-10 Economics It takes 10 seconds to judge beauty. It takes a few months to gauge her economic status. It takes at least a year to judge her character. If you find a girl who is 8 beauty, 5 character, and 4 economics it would be best if you moved on. If you can find a girl who rates in the mid 20's you will be a lucky man.
What it’s this equation for? Really all that crab to find love. People are so complicated. Love it’s love and that’s it. It’s not numbers or perfection.
Thanks for all of the great videos you share. I have an off-topic question for you. Does having an SRRV Visa exempt an expat from doing an Annual Report?
I hear a lot of men say never bring your foreign wife back to the US. What about split time? Does it work if you spend 4-6 months in the US and the remainder in Php... or is that still a recipe for disaster? I'm considering moving overseas but would like to maintain a second home in the US.
A 5'2 average looking Filipina isn't what I would call (model material) around the world. I know some who take care of themselves although if you ask most of them they wish to be taller and lighter skin. You can even see a few with umbrellas outside in sun. I am in mid 30s but never for a chance would I go for relationship with a 20 something as many of them have IQs of what a 12 year old western one would. Even some my age here aren't that bright I think because of the lack of education growing up. The ones who work in software development which is my field in Makiti are far more intelligent. You really need to pick carefully. For me it's better closer to my age range from 30 to 42. When I get old I would just accept it and be with someone closer to my age and more in common with. I would thing more 30 somethings here have much more in common with a 30 something partner. That's usually how it goes in all parts of the world.
I broke up with a 20 year old province farm girl because I couldn't take explaining the most basic things to them anymore. I need more than a sexy body. I need a sharp mind as well. I traded her fir a 30 something OFW and things are much better RA 10931 gives free tuition to Philippine citizens for public college. It would be nice if the US cared for its citizens as much as the Philippines does its citizens
I heard a few guys say that about the younger gals that they like more maturity in them. I could use some time with a 18-25 year old and brains come with time. Lord knows I was clueless in so many ways at that age but far from dumb.
Steve , I hope we can meet and become friends some day , but !! How shallow do you think most of us viewers are ? I prefer no makeup and inner beauty. Just a little surprised on today's VLOG. I don't think most of your viewers are sexpats so the point is moot. Long time viewer first time commenter.
The number one problem you’re dealing with is the law that any Filipino has to follow, which is 195, 196 law. Which says in essence, anything the girl makes she must use to support her family, brothers and sisters. And when you get married, she is automatically gets 50% of what you make. Unless, now listen to this. Before you leave the United States get a prenup done professionally. It may cost you $2000 to $3000 to get a professional prenup document. But the minute the girl signs the prenup document with you.. Your new wife doesn’t have the right to 50% of your money. Nor does her family.. And of course this would save you thousand and one headaches later.
There is more to this to get out from underneath its reach. Disability Money is different and many here are under SSDI or Service Disability’s or both in rare cases.
@@MrSteven5975 you’re right there is more issues to deal with here, because you waited until now to deal with it. And now It’s time to still think a minute.. if you still have enough funds left. It’s time to look for a local attorney and really understand what your options are.
I watched your videos to show support for your channel, but have to be honest since getting married back in May videos on dating don't really appeal to me anymore and not just yours but all videos now on the subject. Good video Steve.
@@jd1811 - I am still in commuter mode. I can re-evaluate once I am full-time in the Philippines. And as far as experiencing things, these eyes have seen a lot as well. At least the OFW will have some understanding of that.
My wife stopped using those whitening soaps because I have my nephew always send a Balikbayan box and it always has blocks of dove soap in it. I’m just not so sure how safe those whitening soaps and whitening creams are. I love her olive colored skin now better then before I came here when she was trying to whiten her skin. It just looks fake to me
Could you go into that topic when you get time. Married women? Like that Seinfeld one where sometimes she was pretty and other times, not so much. Are you saying most of the women resemble Michael Jackson? If l use that soap ,will i be clear?
No you sure can meet and marry a girl in the first month that you arrive, but it will be a big mistake because you don't know her heart yet she could be a serial killer so think twice and guard your wallet with your life lol 😂
My wife was an OFW, a missionary and went to nursing school. She’s educated, well travelled and has an amazing work ethic. Her beauty is just icing on the cake.
I knew that I had a diamond when I was chatting with 9 Filipinas and my lady and I just clicked. A great woman with the most incredible sense of humor and beyond beautiful. She is so caring loving and I am a very lucky man to have found her. 🐝❤️🦋
I had a similar experience. I had several chat mates. For about 10 months I wrote a daily blog and had 40-170 viewers. Several of those viewers became chat-mates. One of my viewers was my wife of 14 years now. She stood out from the rest in a number of ways. She was frugal, responsible. Had a wonderful extended family and two well disciplined, goal oriented children. She was kind too. And she had a nice college education and a good job. I knew she would be a wonderful mate and I was right!
9 Filipinas wow
Give it time.
I like a woman that looks good without any makeup
Lol. Good luck with that ..only under 20 years old with no kids.
Yes: no cosmetics, no paint, no lipstick, no glued-on eyelashes, false eyebrows, plastic fingernails; and no tattoos or dyed hair;
those are the best by far.
For men physical attraction is important but it is just the first filter. Life is short. You can’t meet and talk to everyone. So you start with the pretty ones. You gotta start somewhere. Personality trumps looks but you’ve already filtered for looks.
when I was in the Philippines I also liked to use whitening products but since I went abroad I went to the country of Jordan, I am a provincial girl, I have really dark skin, people here appreciate my beautiful skin color so since then I don't use bleach anymore. I have become confident in myself, ofw here in jordn 😊❤️ god bless
Your beautiful just the way you are, I love your dark skin!!!
Thank you, I appreciate now my dark skin color, no more Kojic soap 😂
You're welcome!! Why do you think the young girls in your country grow up thinking this way? In my opinion, the Filipina girl is not only the most beautiful in skin color, but her inner beauty is also incredible compared to another woman around the world@@Itsmewhengay
I've always envied people with darker skin. I burn so easily. Be thankful for what you have.😊
@@jamesballard6564 yes I'm so thankful for what I have Now, thanks for the people appreciate my skin color, I admit before I don't love my skin because it's brown skin, they Bullied me, but now I'm pretty having my skin color ❤️
I'm happy. 12 years in. Big age gap. She wanted kids. I gave her 2. She's beautiful and a simple province girl. Living in Cebu. Tried Canada for a year...nope. Traditional values. I provide. She nurtures.
Good stuff
Well said.
One thing that impresses me about my GF is that whenever I mention something that she doesn't know about, she googles it and reads all about it. Then, asks me well-informed questions about it.
Better than most people ..
Shes a keeper
The attractiveness and beauty is necessary for me to knock on the door... All the OTHER qualities determine whether or not I stay in the room.
I like it 😊
Amen
I had a filipina girlfriend once back in 1981. She was beautiful, going to a Jr college getting her education. Both of us were young and having fun.. So much so she became my wife in August of 81 and we're still married living here on biliran island in a house we built 30 years ago. But we're not retiring here we knew years ago the medical care here is let say not the best.. We're looking at making the move to fla. In a few years.. We will spend our golden years in an area that is better for our health as we age.. She has been the love of my life.. I have always given her the best that life can bring us. 🎉
Any tips to go over there ? For first time
@HenryBegun come over and enjoy this beautiful country. But it can be very hot with high humidity.. Some people can't take it.. Make sure if you have any medical issues, you bring as many meds as you can. Medical care here is not the best.. 3 words you will hear a lot is "Out of Stock," and you dont want that when it comes to medical supplies.. But you will if you stay here long time.. We're leaving here in 2 days, going back to the States for 2 months, and we do it every year.. Hopefully, in 3 years, we'll be in fla. Enjoying our senior years. Better medical facilities there, roads, drivers all better than here. And many more good restaurants to choose from.. Yes, it's more expensive there. Plan well, and you'll do well. Don't start planning retirement in your 50's or 60's that should have started back in your 20's. We did, and we have worked the plan.. Now it's paying dividends. We are celebrating our 42 wedding anniversary in Singapore this August. We love going there.
A long time ago I learned that beauty today will eventually fade tomorrow. My Filipina isn’t unattractive, but her sharp mind, her humor and the intellectual attraction we had for each other was the main points that brought us together. Years down the road those will still be there!
You’ll understand when we have lunch on the 31st.
Don’t forget that one of the problems in dating a Filipina is cultural differences. Both sides think and react differently. Tampo is a real thing here! 😂🤣
I was in doldrums until I met gorgeous Vietnamese woman with Breathtaking beauty. She’s just friend, but set me on course to find Asian woman!!
I agree, the morena skin and LONG completely black hair is what I find attractive. If Filipina's pay attention, most vloggers with Filipina's are with the morena ones. Outer beauty ONLY gets a man's attention and draws him to her, it is her attitude, behaviors, and personal character that makes him decide if he will stay or not. If she can bring him happiness, peace, and make his life easier he will commit to her. If she behaves in any way like a western woman, he's not going to stick around, that's what he fled his own country to get AWAY from.
Majority of Filipinas prefer similar aged Filipino guys for partners and western expats more of a financial source.
You're one hell of a great guy. Any women who gets you is a very lucky lady.
Great video.
Always keep this in mind guys. Regardless of the location, women are wired to tap your resources (money, housing, etc). Make absolutely sure that you do not hand your resources over to any woman. Always make sure you have total custody of your resources so if she bails, she doesn't get to take "your" resources with her...
While she's with you, spoil her with your resources, but don't put yourself in a situation where she takes custody of them. This is especially important regarding housing. Marriage? As a financial advisor, I would advise you against it, just saying....
Looks fade, and sex slows down, which is normal. This doesn't mean that the honeymoon should end because a relationship needs many aspects to be whole. Be careful with separated women as they may only be separated until you come into the picture, and then the husband pops up for the financial benefits. Wait until you are retired before going overseas and plan on living there. Be very clear about your plans, so if they have ulterior motives, they can move on . Utang na loob is a real thing here, and many women are supporting their extended family, and if you get involved with this woman, then you may end up assuming her burden if she is not working. Do your research and learn the culture, especially of the women you are dating, because that can be different from each region, and you don't want to offend someone. Filipinas won't take the time to learn about your culture unless they are targeting you, so pay attention to that because a good scammer knows their victims' habits and exploits them to their own advantage . A real Filipina doesn't have time to learn about other cultures because their busy making a living, and you coming into their life is not a planned thing. Be careful of the baby trap and always use protection as stds and aids are on the rise in the philippines. If you don't plan on having any more children, then I recommend you consider having a vasectomy before you go overseas and just be honest about it with the women you meet. Younger women may be looking for this, but a woman who already has a child that is older may not. They are concerned about what they bring to the table in the relationship and will try to bolster their worth because of the competition and their own insecurities. We as men know what we are looking for in a woman and that women will stick out in the crowd. Some men are going overseas and are already done with women but want the financial benefits and warm weather as it's easier on the body. It's easy to just get a housekeeper to come in two or three times a week to clean and maybe do laundry instead of having a live in care taker because your obligations to her increase dramatically. You will need to provide room and board plus medical care, and your privacy will suffer.
Jesus you wrote a letter. It’s a comment not a book
With reference to your first point, my wife is not particularly dark-skinned but she's not exactly light, more like a beige colour, not that I give a crap! She used to be concerned about her complexion, investing in the skin-lightening creams, etc., like so many of her friends, but then she realised that I didn't really care and that I appreciated her tanned, blemish-free, clean appearance. She only hits the make-up tray when she has an all-Filipino function to attend, which is fine by me. I am astonishingly, Englishly, white, in spite of having lived 30 years in the tropics. My step-daughter is darkish, whille our son is clearly a light-skinned mixed race child.
Regarding the issue of income, my wife didn't use me as a meal-ticket to go overseas but as a ticket to come back home - we met in HK - and we have invested our lives in this country, where we are doing just fine. Our kids - immediate and extended family - are being educated at decent establishments here in the Philippines. I support them and my only proviso is that they give back to the Philippines for a few years before going overseas, if they wish. They also know that it's not an open wallet and if they screw up, well, that's their choice and there's no safety net.
100% agree on your take on women ( I am 57 years old ). Also make sure that she has something besides beauty, if you stay with her long term. Beauty is only skin deep. Subscribed! Cheers from Denmark.
Something that is perfect is as good as it could possibly be.
He spoke perfect English.
Hiring a nanny has turned out to be the perfect solution.
It's a perfect example of a house reflecting the person who lives there.
Nobody is perfect.
It may have worked in the 70s, however today one has to look hard for the correct one.
If you're new to Asia you should head to Thailand and get it all out of your system. One of the worst things you can do is just be a regular guy here in the West go to the Philippines shack up and then you realize that you are not in love with a Filipina you are in love with Filipinas and now you're stuck
I like this video. When people go on dating sites, they get to filter the kind of woman they want. It's important. I'm 59 and I'm now dating a Thai girl. She slotted in to my general filters and she's great. Her age: 64! Who would have thought?
Great video,your on point the information you put out is invaluable especially for the newbies .
i dont care much about look . most importants is the heart an character
Good Video Steve 😊. When I was younger, I had the hair, body, looks however, time has set in and no turning back now. The only thing I have left is responsibility, trustworthy and charm. To old for games. Everyone asks me why are you moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭. Well, the Philippines 🇵🇭 is very beautiful and that is where I will live out the rest of my day's. I also Luv ❤️ the tan look for sure.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏.
Another video of wisdom. Thanks steve , appreciate your content
I've always loved "natural beauty" (naturally beautiful) fully grown up & "mature" women.. I don't want to relive my youth (been there done that) ..
All very good advise.
I am a Filipina and I am amazed of how much you know about Filipinas😯
Great information.
Have a blessed day/night, everyone, and stay safe!
Love your content, keep it going.
Great information
I agree with the skin whitening issues. I tell my GF I love the Morena look and she should embrace what God gave her. Western influence is creeping in and influencing the younger generation. I hope it doesn't destroy what makes the Philippines special..
It’s the same in Thailand and most of S/E Asia sadly.
It's far more eastern than western...
@@302Rmack absolutely! Black women are hot in the West are hot!
Let younger people do as they choose. They have their life ahead and they want to do what they feel is best for them
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life.
Never make a pretty woman your wife.
Good video
It happens to Filipinos too, not a friend just a coworker was a retired navy mess cook born Filipino, his nurse wife he brought over from the Philippines upgraded to a doctor in the hospital she worked at.
✨️💯 Love is waiting in the Phillipine Islands ... 💞💸
Philippines food is very high in sugar carbs, white bread.. lot of bananas, high sugar products...fruit drinks ..Gatorade...pop...the dishes are like Chinese food...great video 😊😊
Pay the woman?!?!?!? You pay them to leave….not to hang out 24/7! LMAO
Good content, this is what i have been looking to but not so much on the dating sites. I blew it about 3 years ago with a Ukrainian woman and have not found it with a Philippina so far
I love the dark brown skin
I would just like one who can actually speak English, as they are supposed to.
Just stay in the West. English is just our second language.
its the beautiful ones who ask money to,,i talked to alot of philipinas over the years,,im talking to two now,,who are not what philipinas concider beautiful girls,,,, they are very self contious about there looks,,and one is 37 the other 41,,and neither has ever even been on a date,,,becsuse they think they are not good looking enough,,both work,,,but do not date because one has crooked teeth,and the other is chubby,,neither has ever asked for a dime from me,,and im haveing a hard time chooseing between them !,,thx steve..people put to much into what a girl looks like rather than whats in her heart,,
Okay here's what you do you find a lady that works for a big reputable company. A good person that's genuine you ask her if she has any recommendations. bingo. Get on a scooter travel into the province stopped at all of the little pharmacies lots of little hidden gems that are nice people an beautiful. Go into a hospital fake a simple little injury lots of young beautiful doctors nurses physical therapist.
Or if you want to make things simple just tape some pesos to your arms and legs and walk down the street you will be very popular the key is to be the best person you can be be in the best physical shape mentally and physically
I noticed you can not find a quality Filipina on date website because the regulations in the matrix.
Sold advance. 👍
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Adrian, she was played by Talia Shire.
I think I see the problem now Found the perfect girl for me 4 years ago. I looked for a girl with good character without baggage. Once I saw how beautiful she was, I was happy to make her mine. I found that a younger woman is like clay and we could mold each other to have a perfect fit. An older woman is more like a Stone. She's set in her ways and more difficult to mold. The gems are probably already taken.
Very good video Steve your one of the few in my opinion that tells it like it is.
Rocky the women named Adrian played by tallia shire
Everyone wants a dream, and catches reality instead. How someone looks, vs how someone is on the inside can be two different things. I got fooled, so can you.
At 61, the idea of (even the word) "Dating" isn't appealing to me (putting it mildy). Yes, I want to meet (& be with) women (a woman) .. "Sure, Go Out, But (not into the serial dating ritual bs)
Really….. whitening soap. 😅 I heard about creams but never soap. I saw that in other islands people want to be whiter. I am from a islands and I remember I always have a tan and I like it. Then here in USA I am white and I go to the spa for tanning. We never happy. But islands people always have a toasty color. That’s the beauty of living in an island….In this days no one wants to accept who they are
The problem starts when a guy rates women on a 1-10 scale. Beauty only. Big mistake.
Actually you should rate 3-30.
1-10 Beauty
1-10 Character
1-10 Economics
It takes 10 seconds to judge beauty.
It takes a few months to gauge her economic status.
It takes at least a year to judge her character.
If you find a girl who is 8 beauty, 5 character, and 4 economics it would be best if you moved on.
If you can find a girl who rates in the mid 20's you will be a lucky man.
Good words 👏 😊.
What it’s this equation for? Really all that crab to find love. People are so complicated. Love it’s love and that’s it. It’s not numbers or perfection.
Lol most expats partners are in the tens by that equation.
Thanks for all of the great videos you share. I have an off-topic question for you. Does having an SRRV Visa exempt an expat from doing an Annual Report?
Yes
Adriannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn was her name
I hear a lot of men say never bring your foreign wife back to the US. What about split time? Does it work if you spend 4-6 months in the US and the remainder in Php... or is that still a recipe for disaster? I'm considering moving overseas but would like to maintain a second home in the US.
A bit off topic, but do you or any or your followers have any information on private investigators in Manila? My wife's family is in need of one.
Filipina are obsessed about their kojik soap
Find a girl with bad teeth. Get them fixed, and when she smiles...WOW!
Lol
Now that’s funny!!
I am currently doing that very thing. 😊
'Yo Adrianne... especially don't take them to Greater Boston...Lowell, Haverhill, etc...' I enjoy your vids buddy.
Thanks 👍
2 Br, in Boston "average" $ 3,300 Portsmouth, NH $2,400. "Aint getting "much" under $ 2000.
That's actually not much money anymore. In places like Singapore it is much more
Boston bumped out NY for 2nd highest in the US .. Sorry, 3,300 Is up there & Not Cheap, most places in the world .. @@jacked6
I was home based in Singapore in early 2000's .. A large % of resident's Housing is Gov Subsidized @@jacked6
Nice hat
A 5'2 average looking Filipina isn't what I would call (model material) around the world. I know some who take care of themselves although if you ask most of them they wish to be taller and lighter skin. You can even see a few with umbrellas outside in sun. I am in mid 30s but never for a chance would I go for relationship with a 20 something as many of them have IQs of what a 12 year old western one would. Even some my age here aren't that bright I think because of the lack of education growing up. The ones who work in software development which is my field in Makiti are far more intelligent. You really need to pick carefully. For me it's better closer to my age range from 30 to 42. When I get old I would just accept it and be with someone closer to my age and more in common with. I would thing more 30 somethings here have much more in common with a 30 something partner. That's usually how it goes in all parts of the world.
5'2" -- you like'm tall
I broke up with a 20 year old province farm girl because I couldn't take explaining the most basic things to them anymore. I need more than a sexy body. I need a sharp mind as well.
I traded her fir a 30 something OFW and things are much better
RA 10931 gives free tuition to Philippine citizens for public college. It would be nice if the US cared for its citizens as much as the Philippines does its citizens
I agree
I heard a few guys say that about the younger gals that they like more maturity in them. I could use some time with a 18-25 year old and brains come with time. Lord knows I was clueless in so many ways at that age but far from dumb.
@@dwarvenaled - I was getting flashbacks of when I was younger and working help desk ;)
18 to 25's are fine for guys in their 20s but let's be real most older guys have hardly anything in common with Gen Zs
@@elitepctechhow did you meet your current ofw girlfriend?
if she is kind at 25 she will be kind at 75
It seems to me that only the young handsome guys get the good looking high class girls. At least the videos give me that impression.
Steve , I hope we can meet and become friends some day , but !! How shallow do you think most of us viewers are ? I prefer no makeup and inner beauty. Just a little surprised on today's VLOG. I don't think most of your viewers are sexpats so the point is moot.
Long time viewer first time commenter.
The number one problem you’re dealing with is the law that any Filipino has to follow, which is 195, 196 law. Which says in essence, anything the girl makes she must use to support her family, brothers and sisters.
And when you get married, she is automatically gets 50% of what you make. Unless, now listen to this. Before you leave the United States get a prenup done professionally. It may cost you $2000 to $3000 to get a professional prenup document. But the minute the girl signs the prenup document with you.. Your new wife doesn’t have the right to 50% of your money. Nor does her family.. And of course this would save you thousand and one headaches later.
There is more to this to get out from underneath its reach. Disability Money is different and many here are under SSDI or Service Disability’s or both in rare cases.
@@MrSteven5975 you’re right there is more issues to deal with here, because you waited until now to deal with it. And now It’s time to still think a minute.. if you still have enough funds left. It’s time to look for a local attorney and really understand what your options are.
@@user-dw5yo9ne5t I’m not the one with the issue thank God.
I watched your videos to show support for your channel, but have to be honest since getting married back in May videos on dating don't really appeal to me anymore and not just yours but all videos now on the subject.
Good video Steve.
I understand
Magandang hapon po Steven, how long have you been vlogging?
6 years
Oh yes, I forgot. OFW are far less likely to ask for money
Most of them don’t ask. Some do still
But you are ok with all the things the OFW has experienced when they were an OFW, and it’s affect on ability to pair bond, just food for thought?
@@jd1811 - I am still in commuter mode. I can re-evaluate once I am full-time in the Philippines.
And as far as experiencing things, these eyes have seen a lot as well. At least the OFW will have some understanding of that.
OFW..have family commitments..maybe need money more …
My wife stopped using those whitening soaps because I have my nephew always send a Balikbayan box and it always has blocks of dove soap in it. I’m just not so sure how safe those whitening soaps and whitening creams are. I love her olive colored skin now better then before I came here when she was trying to whiten her skin. It just looks fake to me
Trust not safe at all. And stupid too😊
@@daisyapontehavenmemoriestr8552 I think so also.
1st thing qualify her...
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Could you go into that topic when you get time. Married women? Like that Seinfeld one where sometimes she was pretty and other times, not so much. Are you saying most of the women resemble Michael Jackson? If l use that soap ,will i be clear?
Here's another expert opinion. 😂
No you sure can meet and marry a girl in the first month that you arrive, but it will be a big mistake because you don't know her heart yet she could be a serial killer so think twice and guard your wallet with your life lol 😂
Sorry, what is OFW? Overseas Foreign Wife?
OFW = Overseas Foreign Worker.
@@deltachris gracias DC
Never take her to U.S
Salt and sugar, yes the whole world is full of goofiness. Beauty is more than skin deep. I use to think you were perty till you changed hats
That's a nice hat also.
keep you cash in your pocket and keep your pants on until you're married.