29:00 Honestly sounds like the guy was just trying to come up with fun date ideas. In my dating days I used to see lots of profiles that say "don't just ask me for a drink." Museum sounds lovely to me, especially for a non-drinker. The caller sounds totally rude and could just pick the bar he suggested if that's what she is into.
Wow, I am so not on the same page. I heard the writer asking about how to set a boundary. She wasn’t judging this person, she was saying “that’s not for me.” We don’t know anything about her health status or values, or why that matters to her. I thought J and J didn’t really read/understand her question. She wasn’t asking them to judge the worthiness of her boundaries, she was asking how/when to express you’ve realized you’re not a match, when you find things out before a first date. Also yes! It’s a turn off for people to continue to be unvaccinated. The entire reason Covid is chiller now is bc enough people got vaccinated. This is an ongoing issue, Covid itself hasn’t changed - it is a public health issue that has to be managed in an ongoing way, just like polio or the flu.
*I guess I should say it is a valid turn off for many people, tho also totally fair if it isn’t a turnoff or boundary for you (or J and J). It would be a boundary for me, for example - I was a community healthcare worker throughout the pandemic working with vulnerable populations, and am now a therapist.
29:00 Honestly sounds like the guy was just trying to come up with fun date ideas. In my dating days I used to see lots of profiles that say "don't just ask me for a drink." Museum sounds lovely to me, especially for a non-drinker. The caller sounds totally rude and could just pick the bar he suggested if that's what she is into.
I know right, people that put in the effort are dogged on….. it’s like what do you want?
Jordana’s sigh was all of us 😂1:00:02
Sounds like the guy was giving her some options. She sounds incredibly difficult.
DX hat on point
laughing at a woman’s pain is not a cute look… she dodged a bullet and the downplaying of his actions by you guys is not it.
I was cringing. I think most women would've reacted similarly. Didn't deserve to get mocked like that.
We’re still judging people by their COVID vaccination status lol. Cool!
It’s wild 😂
truly 😅🤯
Wow, I am so not on the same page. I heard the writer asking about how to set a boundary. She wasn’t judging this person, she was saying “that’s not for me.” We don’t know anything about her health status or values, or why that matters to her. I thought J and J didn’t really read/understand her question. She wasn’t asking them to judge the worthiness of her boundaries, she was asking how/when to express you’ve realized you’re not a match, when you find things out before a first date.
Also yes! It’s a turn off for people to continue to be unvaccinated. The entire reason Covid is chiller now is bc enough people got vaccinated. This is an ongoing issue, Covid itself hasn’t changed - it is a public health issue that has to be managed in an ongoing way, just like polio or the flu.
*I guess I should say it is a valid turn off for many people, tho also totally fair if it isn’t a turnoff or boundary for you (or J and J). It would be a boundary for me, for example - I was a community healthcare worker throughout the pandemic working with vulnerable populations, and am now a therapist.
Relax lmaoo