1. Double texts you 2. He’s curious about details of your life 3. He initiates 4. He’s ‘good’ stalking your social media 4b. he’s following you / retweets your social media 5. He’s NOT on his phone while with you 6. He remembers things about you 7. He asks you for advice 8. He mentions reminders ( I snide jokes , common interests , fun situations ) 9. He shows you 10. He’s trying to make you happy
For somebody that gets this often, and finds it cringe... I highly advice people to be weary of people who are straight up going through this with someone else. Some people just do this to get into your bubble. Once someone gets into your bubble they can manage to control certain aspects of your life without you knowing. If you don't get this treatment often... these "signs." It's easy to think that person is being "true." This comment is just for precaution.
I think one of the reasons that a guy wants you to be happy and he wants to make you happy is because when he does something that makes you happy, what he really wants is to see you smiling at him. Guy's love when you smile at him. My late boyfriend said that the one thing that was most memorable for him was the first time I smiled at him. They love a big smile and eye contact too! ❤🎉😊
Why is being "needy " such a bad thing though? At some level we all are. We all need something. And I agree it feels good to know what the other person is thinking.
He’s married, he’s a friend, we have electric chemistry. We have not been intimate because of both our morals. I keep our distance for that reason. How do I know he cares for me or is he just playing with my emotions?
A guy likes me and mentions reminders, I'm also passionate about plants and mushrooms so I talk about them a lot so when he (and others) see an interesting mushroom or plant, they think of me and always mention it. I have become who they think about when they're outside. Being passionate about something will have others think of you in everyday moments. It will change how they experience things because you will now be associated with those things and they'll want to talk to you about it. Then you're thought of everyday. I didn't know this would happen, it's interesting though, if you like someone, develop your hobbies and do things you love, when you talk about your passions, you will light up and give them something interesting to think about.
So true. Like muscle cars from the 60s, 70s. Antique architecture, and the craftsmanship of century old homes. Trying out a new recipe. A well maintained, (must have sun though) vegetable garden, beautiful plantings and flowers, landscaping a yard so it's welcoming and comfortable,. Hiking in the woods, chilling at our secret waterfall on a hot summer day. An spur of the moment Foxwoods getaway for the day and/or night. Giving each other a warmed, scented oil, full body massage....that's what I 💘 love doing with my lovable ,handsome, sexy, hot boyfriend.
Men are complicated! They are all over you the first week, full of messages telling you how great you are, how beautiful etc.... Then by the third week of nothing but texting, you're left wondering, well, what happened to the date he was really keen to take me on??? So many times, we don't even end up meeting! What was the point of 3 weeks of solid conversation?!
Cheryl. You are lucky you are free to do what you want. If you know of a nursery school that will baby sit an adult ; 6 foot, 175 toddler that wants all my time let me know
I wish men should just simply tell they are not interested anymore.. atlst you will not expecting anything, well fellow Ladies just enjoy your day and have fun,, before I don't like hiking,hunting discovering things but now I really enjoyed it so find your happiness too☺️☺️☺️ don't get stressed with men😉
I hear you - As I said above - unfrotunately, that's not human nature. We communicate very INdirectly, which is why you need to know how men hide their true needs.
Life is so weird. I know a guy who ticks almost all of these boxes, but still, he says he doesn't like me. He also unfollowed me on social media so that I wouldn't get hurt.
Not to put too fine a point on it, but it sounds like he might be telling you the truth. Not everyone is a match. The important thing is for you to move on quickly to a man who WILL like you!
I am in relationship for almost 3 years some it’s broke it off by his friends didn’t lot of damage toxic friendship it’s still working out a lot bonding he is want to be happy
I've let the woman I like know, I think anyone who's mature would. It took a while, because of wanting to see what's in the inside before doing anything. It's up to her now, she's got my number, and had an invitation for a walk. Wrote her a letter and gave it last week. Giving her space now, while I focus on my new job, so if it's right, it'll happen. If she's really not interested, she would have told me already. Just got to wait and see. That's my advice to everyone, be direct, it's not a race, so appreciate that, but it makes sense to let them know before too long. Have a great day.
MH I remember growing up dating was so easy. Someone liked you. Asked you on a date. Then more dates. Then he would ask do you want to be my girlfriend. Then you continue dating. If things we're still progressing, then the engagement and finally the 💑. From the time of the initial date to the wedding 2 1/2 years. I wish there were more men like you. There is no guessing how you feel about someone.
I have a young admirer at work. I'm older he's 31. Has a gf. Don't worry I don't break people up. I've done nothing to encourage it just doing my job and being friendly to everyone he just stands out. He stares at me he chats to me he laughs with me he winds me up he gets me small snacks he does many things. We haven't said anything different about why u staring etc this is daily. I wave in the morning. He remembers things I said he never mentions his gf I never ask. He's a lovely guy easy on the eye too I'm flattered we get on. It's just lovely. I'll enjoy it and I'm sure he's liking my attention too x it's just in the day he doesn't do anything else and certainly not text me. I'm fine with that. He says im beautiful. I'm a patch above the previous receptionist they had it's a big building. Little things add up we just friends it's good x
@@connectwithhim I will thank you. I'm enjoying every minute x think he does too and it's sort of expected between us in day it's lovely. Today it was busy for us both not much interaction but I sensed his stare even without noticing. He has gorgeous eyes 👀. Cheers
My guy has Facebook but he’s not a big social media guy and he is awesome and loves me so some guys can be crazy about you but don’t show it on Facebook or social media cause maybe he’s really private about his relationships or just shy online!
Well, he doubled texted me the other day, he asked me how was I doing, after 20 minutes that passed without me responding back, he said, well bye, and he did that like another time the same day, threatening with a goodbye, of course I replied back after some minutes with a, hey what's up... and he responded, but he has me confused,,, why did he do that? He had not done that before, he usually waited for my response without reacting... hum, carlos can you help me interpret this behavior please??
Ok Carlos Ya so what if he’s showing me finally, right? But what about if he’s a unicorn and works a lot has a kick ass Hobbie and is about a hour and a half away???? Hmmmm Let me just say I think he thinks I’m just as unicornish. What if he doesn’t know what to do about it until next year? (I’ve dropped hints) that I’m moving closer to him. I think he knows who I am for him finally……… he’s just waiting and so am I
Mine thought about me a lot. Made lots of fake accounts. Did all that. But....Everytime I talked to him, he wanted to do some funny stuff with money . So .....
@@connectwithhim I got stuck on analyzing him. Haha! Now he's posting on his fake pages that he did care about me and one day I will realize the pain I've caused him, etc ... But, he always wanted to do funny stuff with money. He drove me nuts and this is someone I know in real life.
1. Double texts you
2. He’s curious about details of your life
3. He initiates
4. He’s ‘good’ stalking your social media
4b. he’s following you / retweets your social media
5. He’s NOT on his phone while with you
6. He remembers things about you
7. He asks you for advice
8. He mentions reminders ( I snide jokes , common interests , fun situations )
9. He shows you
10. He’s trying to make you happy
For somebody that gets this often, and finds it cringe... I highly advice people to be weary of people who are straight up going through this with someone else. Some people just do this to get into your bubble. Once someone gets into your bubble they can manage to control certain aspects of your life without you knowing.
If you don't get this treatment often... these "signs." It's easy to think that person is being "true."
This comment is just for precaution.
Thanks! I need you to do my timecodes. :-D But you need the information, so watch the video! ;-)
@@jessicarubymartinez2917 You are so fucking amazing.
Thank you for listening them 🤩
Lol in my dreams :( feel lonely
I think one of the reasons that a guy wants you to be happy and he wants to make you happy is because when he does something that makes you happy, what he really wants is to see you smiling at him. Guy's love when you smile at him. My late boyfriend said that the one thing that was most memorable for him was the first time I smiled at him. They love a big smile and eye contact too! ❤🎉😊
I would prefer if a man tells me straight up what he's thinking and feeling, especially if he's into me. 🌞🙏 It feels good to hear it.
I hear you - unfortunately, that's not human nature. We communicate very INdirectly, which is why you need to know how men hide their true needs.
Then you take him as needy and take him for granted.
@@awmy3109 it's a double edge sword as the same goes for women too, one can't win sometimes
@@patriciawesson1181 that is so true!
Why is being "needy " such a bad thing though? At some level we all are. We all need something. And I agree it feels good to know what the other person is thinking.
If this guy tells me a bed time story I'd fall asleep before the end of the story,,,,What a soothing & charming voice,,,,Oh my goodness💜🥰⚘
I love this, i experienced all this signs in my relationship and i thank God for grace of fasting and prayer about him , i do appreciate.
Great!
read 8 dates by Gottman. The best
He’s married, he’s a friend, we have electric chemistry. We have not been intimate because of both our morals. I keep our distance for that reason. How do I know he cares for me or is he just playing with my emotions?
I am so happy if I know he is thinking about me and about our future
It's validating, ,isn't it?
@@connectwithhim what you mean?
@@connectwithhim yes validating, a warm, happy feeling, if only we could know
This is such a great video.
Honest, relatable, and inspiring.
Thank you so much ❤️🙏
You're so welcome!
I’m so in love with my bookie… even tho he’s a puppy 🐶 🤷🏾♀️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Woof lol xxx aww iv got 2 dogs x
A guy likes me and mentions reminders, I'm also passionate about plants and mushrooms so I talk about them a lot so when he (and others) see an interesting mushroom or plant, they think of me and always mention it. I have become who they think about when they're outside. Being passionate about something will have others think of you in everyday moments. It will change how they experience things because you will now be associated with those things and they'll want to talk to you about it. Then you're thought of everyday. I didn't know this would happen, it's interesting though, if you like someone, develop your hobbies and do things you love, when you talk about your passions, you will light up and give them something interesting to think about.
Great connection
So true. Like muscle cars from the 60s, 70s. Antique architecture, and the craftsmanship of century old homes. Trying out a new recipe. A well maintained, (must have sun though) vegetable garden, beautiful plantings and flowers, landscaping a yard so it's welcoming and comfortable,. Hiking in the woods, chilling at our secret waterfall on a hot summer day. An spur of the moment Foxwoods getaway for the day and/or night. Giving each other a warmed, scented oil, full body massage....that's what I 💘 love doing with my lovable ,handsome, sexy, hot boyfriend.
Love your videos , you make a lot of sense & yes l think he loves me !!
Nicely presented Carlos. I love your voice!
Men are complicated! They are all over you the first week, full of messages telling you how great you are, how beautiful etc.... Then by the third week of nothing but texting, you're left wondering, well, what happened to the date he was really keen to take me on??? So many times, we don't even end up meeting! What was the point of 3 weeks of solid conversation?!
Cheryl. You are lucky you are free to do what you want. If you know of a nursery school that will baby sit an adult ; 6 foot, 175 toddler that wants all my time let me know
😂you're amazing, love your comment @@patriciamartin6756
I wish men should just simply tell they are not interested anymore.. atlst you will not expecting anything, well fellow Ladies just enjoy your day and have fun,, before I don't like hiking,hunting discovering things but now I really enjoyed it so find your happiness too☺️☺️☺️ don't get stressed with men😉
I hear you - As I said above - unfrotunately, that's not human nature. We communicate very INdirectly, which is why you need to know how men hide their true needs.
@@kristykreme2623 lol... One day someone will hunt you I mean love and care you😊
Ja . Men are so complicated . Who has time for game playing and nonsense
Very well said
Sorry to say it but men leave ya hangin so they can come back and act like nothing happened
If this happens then call him out and see what happens
Fantastic Stuff as usual, really need to know this stuff. Thank you!
Life is so weird. I know a guy who ticks almost all of these boxes, but still, he says he doesn't like me. He also unfollowed me on social media so that I wouldn't get hurt.
Not to put too fine a point on it, but it sounds like he might be telling you the truth. Not everyone is a match. The important thing is for you to move on quickly to a man who WILL like you!
@@connectwithhim Thanks for the reply! 😊 I'm gonna keep that in mind.
Awesome as always Sir!! Thank you.
My pleasure!
Thank you for all these tips. I love watching you.
I am in relationship for almost 3 years some it’s broke it off by his friends didn’t lot of damage toxic friendship it’s still working out a lot bonding he is want to be happy
Awesome videos Carlos, thanks, I was missing a lot of clues, duhh!. Thanks.
For sure - thanks, Deb!
Thank you Carlos 💗💗💗 you have reassured me tonight 😊
Great video, great advice Carlos✨❤
Thank you!
@@connectwithhim you more than welcome🙏❤
Thank you for the Great Advice 🙏🏻
Thanks!
Thank you very good video
yes this is true really..thank you
I have experience real relationship and this I know from years ago
Thanks Carlos
This would help me because I am love with the boy told thousands already and he won’t
Just being single is the best way to be in 2021.Just new someone in,but what the meaning if someone asking you by keeping his number??
How do he blacklist after getting in love
What if he does them all, including going m.i.a.?
I know sign in relationship
I've let the woman I like know, I think anyone who's mature would. It took a while, because of wanting to see what's in the inside before doing anything. It's up to her now, she's got my number, and had an invitation for a walk. Wrote her a letter and gave it last week. Giving her space now, while I focus on my new job, so if it's right, it'll happen. If she's really not interested, she would have told me already. Just got to wait and see. That's my advice to everyone, be direct, it's not a race, so appreciate that, but it makes sense to let them know before too long. Have a great day.
"Let a woman you like know" A letter. A walk. Phone number. I have no words. Only deep sorrow. "Are you crying again?"
MH I remember growing up dating was so easy. Someone liked you. Asked you on a date. Then more dates. Then he would ask do you want to be my girlfriend. Then you continue dating. If things we're still progressing, then the engagement and finally the 💑. From the time of the initial date to the wedding 2 1/2 years.
I wish there were more men like you. There is no guessing how you feel about someone.
Great insite. Just wish i had the $48 to learn more. Nice advertising.
I think you'll find that my programs are worth every dollar... Especially when you consider what I give away for free. ;-) Thanks, Natalie
I have a young admirer at work. I'm older he's 31. Has a gf. Don't worry I don't break people up.
I've done nothing to encourage it just doing my job and being friendly to everyone he just stands out.
He stares at me he chats to me he laughs with me he winds me up he gets me small snacks he does many things. We haven't said anything different about why u staring etc this is daily. I wave in the morning. He remembers things I said he never mentions his gf I never ask. He's a lovely guy easy on the eye too I'm flattered we get on. It's just lovely. I'll enjoy it and I'm sure he's liking my attention too x it's just in the day he doesn't do anything else and certainly not text me. I'm fine with that. He says im beautiful. I'm a patch above the previous receptionist they had it's a big building. Little things add up we just friends it's good x
He's flirting and may just not have a lot of excitement in his current relationship. Watch and see what happens. :-)
@@connectwithhim I will thank you. I'm enjoying every minute x think he does too and it's sort of expected between us in day it's lovely. Today it was busy for us both not much interaction but I sensed his stare even without noticing. He has gorgeous eyes 👀. Cheers
I guess he’s crazy about me then … I will never be able to work out what goes on in a man’s brain 🙄😂
You can work it out. That's what I teach you! :-) Keep watching these vids, and check out my programs.
So true…
And what the fuck I got by him thinking of me ya,, MAN up guys hahahah
Lol
Thanks Carlos - I have more of an understanding now x
My guy has Facebook but he’s not a big social media guy and he is awesome and loves me so some guys can be crazy about you but don’t show it on Facebook or social media cause maybe he’s really private about his relationships or just shy online!
Well, he doubled texted me the other day, he asked me how was I doing, after 20 minutes that passed without me responding back, he said, well bye, and he did that like another time the same day, threatening with a goodbye, of course I replied back after some minutes with a, hey what's up... and he responded, but he has me confused,,, why did he do that? He had not done that before, he usually waited for my response without reacting... hum, carlos can you help me interpret this behavior please??
What about if a guy don't have a social media page that's personal only a business page
Why is a guy on his phone like a woman a red flag? My x was always on phone. I often wondered if he had a problem.
What if he your guy best friend and he kinda shy. I have no clue if he like me or not.
Thinking about me, oh my god so loving, this afternoon just tell me he chose and selected others lady, what is going on now, I am confused
I love your videos Carlos.
Thanks!
I want the man to initiate!
Fazza yes I love you No crying crying Jesus Christ God bless him Amen
Ok Carlos
Ya so what if he’s showing me finally, right?
But what about if he’s a unicorn and works a lot has a kick ass Hobbie and is about a hour and a half away????
Hmmmm
Let me just say I think he thinks I’m just as unicornish.
What if he doesn’t know what to do about it until next year? (I’ve dropped hints) that I’m moving closer to him.
I think he knows who I am for him finally……… he’s just waiting and so am I
Hi
6.14 p.m.
women should also initiate not wait
Guess he doesn't think
Mine thought about me a lot. Made lots of fake accounts. Did all that. But....Everytime I talked to him, he wanted to do some funny stuff with money . So .....
I'm sure you're glad he's gone now. You don't need that kind of complication in your life
@@connectwithhim I got stuck on analyzing him. Haha! Now he's posting on his fake pages that he did care about me and one day I will realize the pain I've caused him, etc ... But, he always wanted to do funny stuff with money. He drove me nuts and this is someone I know in real life.
@@connectwithhim And he lives in a million dollar house and I'm working class.
@@Jeanninecomeau he was using you and manipulating you move on .
Tamil translation
Sick of their blasted games!
Social and relationship "games" are simply the way we interact emotionally. Don't hate the game! Be a better player! :-D
I never respond because I'm not interested in them
Love your man mind help!
555
Social media is a girl thing . Real men play sport
YES! And even girls need to spend more time WITH the girls!
@@connectwithhim yup