11:31 "Admitting to yourself that the relationship is already lost" - this really resonated. I'd taken the huge step of moving out, he insisted it was fixable and we agreed to use the time of my six-month lease to work on ourselves. At times, it felt we were closer than ever. But when his attacks and contempt restarted, it felt intolerable after I'd given so many chances. During one attack I totally "checked out" and realised it's over, my trust and love had just taken too much of a hammering. I guess I was pre-grieving. It was, and still is, so sad.
You're welcome, many of them are videos I wished I could have found when googling in incognito mode at 2am in the morning trying to decide what to do. Good luck with everything.
@@freedomfromabuse I’m doing so much better than when I made this original comment. I have your videos on a playlist and I would watch them almost everyday repeatedly for a while. I’m so greatful for you putting this information out there, it was so well explained. Thank you
I am a Christian. Learning how to “respond” in the Spirit of “self control“ rather than “react” in our (my) flesh brings true peace of mind. I do not have control over what others say or do, but with God’s help I do have control over what I choose to say and do. Satan is the father of lies. Jesus is TRUTH. John 14:6 and John 10:10 (KJB). We react on our beliefs. The best COUNSELOR is Jesus. Shaneen Megji has some very good you tube videos for Christians. She doesn’t use the King James Bible. Good wisdom and insight in this video.
I recently left an abusive relationship. And I’m having a hard time with his absence. ☹️ I took the proper steps but still feels awful.
I understand
Good luck with everything :)!
11:31 "Admitting to yourself that the relationship is already lost" - this really resonated. I'd taken the huge step of moving out, he insisted it was fixable and we agreed to use the time of my six-month lease to work on ourselves. At times, it felt we were closer than ever. But when his attacks and contempt restarted, it felt intolerable after I'd given so many chances. During one attack I totally "checked out" and realised it's over, my trust and love had just taken too much of a hammering. I guess I was pre-grieving. It was, and still is, so sad.
Good luck with everything.
I feel like your the first person to really answer my questions.
Good luck with everything :)!
Thank you for being so validating and acknowledging that it's okay to feel the grief. Still working through it but this helped 💙
You're welcome, you deserve it :). Good luck with everything!
You’re absolutely amazing! Please don’t stop making these videos and helping others.
Thank you :).
Thank you.
Great video thankyou x
Very helpful thank you
Thanks for sharing these videos.
You're welcome, many of them are videos I wished I could have found when googling in incognito mode at 2am in the morning trying to decide what to do. Good luck with everything.
Such a good video thank you
You're welcome! Good luck with everything.
@@freedomfromabuse I’m doing so much better than when I made this original comment. I have your videos on a playlist and I would watch them almost everyday repeatedly for a while. I’m so greatful for you putting this information out there, it was so well explained. Thank you
I am a Christian. Learning how to “respond” in the Spirit of “self control“ rather than “react” in our (my) flesh brings true peace of mind. I do not have control over what others say or do, but with God’s help I do have control over what I choose to say and do. Satan is the father of lies. Jesus is TRUTH. John 14:6 and John 10:10 (KJB). We react on our beliefs. The best COUNSELOR is Jesus. Shaneen Megji has some very good you tube videos for Christians. She doesn’t use the King James Bible. Good wisdom and insight in this video.