@Sam707BFBC yes, there is something deeper going on: the fact that my dad didn't care to meet me until i was like 8, never wished me a happy birthday in 16 years, talked shit about people i love and was never actively present on my life lol KAKDKSKDKD 👁️👄👁️✌🏽
@@bellbarreiros9561 don't worry, my real dad left me when I was born for alcohol ❤ and my step dad stole from my family and the place he worked at. He has been to jail multiple times, as I was maybe 6 when he did. Um so yeah, that's my life
i was 12 when this came out now i'm almost 17 😭 the concept of time means nothing to me anymore, i miss this era so much when this song was popping everywhere. anyways i'm so proud of how far the band has come, can't wait for the second album
Alexandria Salazar same 🙄 Little tip from someone who has dated up to twice my age: age doesn’t matter majority don’t know what they’re doing if you find a good one hold tight 😂
I cant believe it has already been so long since I was obsessed with them. I was like eleven, and this song came up on autoplay and i listened to it often and then i became conpletely obsessed with all of their music. and then better by myself came out a while after, when i wasnt as into them anymore, but I still loved it. I cant believe it's already been 2 years since that song came out. time goes by so fast when your life is uneventful.
I remember jamming out to this after having broken up with my then boyfriend who was my age. I went on to date older dudes who turned out the same, if not worse. It's not about the age but the person or the characteristics that you look for in a dude. Maybe this will inspire someone to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself if you subconsciously keep on looking for the same kind of person who is not a good match for you. I know it helped me figure some stuff out.
I wish others thought like you do. Age is not the key it is character. You can be in love with a man that is 10 years older So what as long as he is a good man.
it's about character, people are often drawn to the same type of persona pretty much regardless of age difference like a moth to a flame .. setting on a path to failure cause it's what feels familiar .. and it never works out .. sad to see really females are being groomed from afar now, even music like this is directing them to older men (the ones that own the record companies and promote the music - maybe even write the songs) - it's a win for them, who else benefits? nobody.. there are guys out there, attractive young band like this telling other girls not to bother with them is part of the problem, all that this is trying to achieve is sugar daddies probaly married with kids having a young plaything to manipulate.. if you know someone who can't see how tacky that is then maybe they just need counselling for daddy issues - did he walk out from young, that lack of father figure whilst growing up manifests in all kinds of confusing ways for different people.. also girls need to stop expecting to be showered with gifts and treated like a bank account (easier for older men more established in life) and seek some relatable emotional connection instead.. this is just an extension of objectifying women and now it's even coming from women (i dunno if the band wrote the track, it looks pretty manufactured to me) aimed at younger women to make them susceptible to creeps as if being older is automatically a bonus no matter who it actually is .. yet another ad campaign by the mainstream propaganda machine If you never give anyone your age a chance, or give up after 1 or 2 bad experiences, obviously you're not gonna develop the social skills to build a relationship with someone your own age and then this song seems like the answer
Gotta start with the way you view yourself like me I was use to abuse I was putting myself down didn't love myself...so the next dude seen right through my exterior knew they could take advantage of me. Now it's different I'm a beast I got a feisty side that little boys would consider me a bitch but a real man wouldn't be scared!
Braden Ballentine No offense sweetheart but 2 years is not an age gap. I'm 29 and my man is 51. I'm not knocking your maturity level. You could be an old soul. Glad you're happy!
Okay so this is "Rena and the backup band" Why can't I see or hear the other members? If I hadn't known them I would think this was a solo song. it doesn not sound like a song by a band. I really like the song BUT for a solo. The other members deserve recognition because they are as talented as Rena is. Literally the camera didn't focus on anyone faces except Rena. No one sang a line except Rena. The should all get their solo lines. They have amazing vioces. Everyone wants to see and hear their favourites. This is a BAND. I wouldn't be surprised if all the new people think of this as a solo song.
Rena does almost all the vocals, but Miranda and Nia sing backups. This is the studio version, but when it is live all of the band is a lot more involved. It's not as electronic live. Also, if you follow them on their social medias all of the band gets attention and is credited for the song equally (except maybe Iain since he is new). I agree that many people only know Rena but that's because she is the front woman, but that happens for a lot bands. People know Luke from 5 Seconds Of Summer best because he is lead vocals and the front man. The front man/woman is always going to get the most attention. I'm happy for Hey Violet. They're finally getting the recognition they deserve with their new sound. It didn't work with alternative rock. It just didn't. I personally wasn't a fan until the Brand New Moves EP. I believe they have big things ahead for them.
Fab shes the front woman you know how paramore or tonight alive they always focus on hayley or jenna? since rena is the front woman shes the one they focus on bc shes the lead.
Lyrics I haven't seen my ex since we broke up Probably 'cause he didn't wanna grow up Now I'm out and wearing something low-cut 'Bout to get attention from a grownup 'Cause you hold me like a woman In a way I've never felt before And it makes me wanna hold on And it makes me wanna be all yours Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good All he ever wanted was to go down What we supposed to do with all his friends around? (yeah) Smoking weed, he'd never wanna leave the house Got an empty cushion on that sofa now Told him, "good luck with the next one" Maybe she'll be just as immature Gotta thank him, he's the reason That I'll find out what I'm looking for Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to please me, don't know how to read me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to tease me Don't know how to leave me, don't know how to need me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back Don't know, don't know, don't know (don't know, don't know) No, I'm never going back Don't know how to touch me, don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
Rebecca Wisniewski Weird you think this is Tumblr? because I imagine a long ass essay and linked case studies to prove why the lyrics shouldn't be taken to heart. Still a hot song.
Bright Lilly I feel like these kind of songs portray the younger girl as empowered but they don’t show the implicit imbalance of power that comes with these types of relationships.
💯 Relationships with large age gaps can be very toxic due to the imbalance of power and experience. It should be a HUGE red flag if a man in his thirties, for example, claims he has anything in common with a girl under the age of 18.
When I was in middle school, the boys from my school acted like 2 year olds so I could relate too 😭😂 I'm in high school now and fortunately guys my age are more mature
@@kylecorreia4919 That's more of a little sister than a daughter bro (I'd say over 15 years is when it gets more like a parental age difference), but I agree. Why would any guy want to be a sugar daddy? Wouldn't it just make you feel prematurely old? MILFs are way better lol
Teenage beans like me, listen up: Like older people, whatever. That's not really something to be ashamed of, it's your preference, fine. But DO NOT go after them. It's unsafe and you can get very hurt. Always wait until you're eighteen or older. I just wanted to put that out there.
ALSO. Beware of guys significantly older than you. There's a reason women their age won't date them. And even if they're totally normal, generational gaps pose a pretty big obstacle. Not saying it can't be done, but it's hard to relate to someone that much older or younger than you.
true - love who you want but be careful. i personally think that you can date older guys at whatever age as long as you're both mature and prepared for the relationship. and also make sure you're not being manipulative and/or manipulated, cause that happens a lot with big age gaps
Sierra Jade As long as you're 18 though, it doesn't matter. Like I get that with teenagers but people who aren't minors should be able to date anyone that is also of age. Honestly, I totally disagree with the whole "you won't be able to relate to each other" thing. My parents are 18 years apart and they were together for 23 years and raised two kids, including me. Personally, I usually date women around my age (I'm 20) but I love older men. Men usually have to be at least 5 years older than me for me to be attracted to them, idk why but that is the way it is for me. My boyfriend is turning 27 in December and even though our age gap isn't as big as some others, it's still there and I don't think that it affects our relationship in any way. I tend to be attracted to men that are anywhere from 25-70, no joke. But I am completely of age so it shouldn't matter imo.
@@kylecorreia4919 Not always. Some people literally just like older men and that's it. That's the only reason that they pursue age gap relationships. I don't have any daddy issues at all and yet, I love older men. My dad died when I was young but before that, he was a wonderful father and loved me and my brother to death. You shouldn't make presumptions about people. I literally just find older men hot, there's no deeper meaning to it.
@@lauriechapdelaine3572 Who says we gonna hook up right away, anywayyyyy.. Don't you trust yourself to chat up with men without falling in love with them???...lol..jk
Brianah its not a good song for anyone. Its hyper produced brainwashing satanic shit from Holywierd. The girl is not pretty, nor talented, and the song sounds the same as every other sick POS out of the poisonous industry.
Harold Smith I think she is more than pretty, and I enjoy this song. Then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This is one of the very few songs that I do like of mainstream radio-play music. But we can all have opinions. I didn't find anything satanic about this, however. I don't understand where you're coming from with that.
I haven't seen my ex since we broke up Probably 'cause he didn't wanna grow up Now I'm out and wearing something low-cut 'Bout to get attention from a grownup 'Cause you hold me like a woman In a way I've never felt before And it makes me wanna hold on And it makes me wanna be all yours Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good All he ever wanted was to go down What we supposed to do with all his friends around? (yeah) Smoking weed, he'd never wanna leave the house Got an empty cushion on that sofa now Told him, "good luck with the next one" Maybe she'll be just as immature Gotta thank him, he's the reason That I'll find out what I'm looking for Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to please me, don't know how to read me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to tease me Don't know how to leave me, don't know how to need me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back Don't know, don't know, don't know (don't know, don't know) No, I'm never going back Don't know how to touch me, don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
Am I the only one who think this song is wrong? I mean how can you love someone just because of sex?! It is not love its called infatuation or hormones
Love this. It feels like I'm the only one who still listens to this band and everyone else grew up and forgot about them, so it's cool to see a new fan.
Years ago, I was in the middle of a voice lesson, and all of a sudden, my vocal coach just stops and throws up her hands and was like, "I want to start a band!" And talking how putting her middle school-aged daughter in it and all this stuff.. this is NOT what I had in mind AT ALL lol. The vocal coach was Miranda's Mom. 🤣🤣 So good. So genius!
Crybaby & tøp They're neither huge nor unknown. This is the band's second time sitting at "almost pop-stars." (The first time being when they had a song on the Avengers soundtrack back in 2012.)
It also goes quite well with the ridiculously attractive dads theme, eg. Hiram and FP. But yeah, the lighting is and visuals definitely have a Riverdale vibe.
I posted this on fb and my crush (mid 40s) started flirting with me. But he controlled/manipulated me thinking I was young and dumb. Be careful of older men, ladies...they want to use and abuse you...not all men tho. I'm way happier with my boyfriend who is 2 months younger than me. He just gets me and respects me as an equal. I feel like this relationship is healthier.
my boyfriend is 2 months younger than me too.... are we soul sisters???? 😳 also, thanks for pointing out the dangers of dating with an age gap without generalizing. advice done right 🖤🖤
I used to love this song when I was a teen, now I see it in a way different light. Age gaps are a different thing between 2 adults, but teenager +adult is wrong, even if its just 3 or 4 years different. If he‘s dating highschoolers it’s not bc he thinks you’re his soulmate. It’s bc women his age won’t touch him. You probably just realize it, when you’re his age and see people the age you were. Be safe 💗
tHE AESTHETIC AND EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS VIDEO AND SONG AHH
jessiepaege JESSIE HI OMG
jessiepaege OMG HI MERMAID MOM
jessiepaege aaa Jessie!! ILYSM
jessiepaege HI MOM ILYSM
jessiepaege mommmmm
damn this song really brings out the worst about my daddy issues
I would like the comment but it's at 69, and I'm a childish 15 year old soo...
(Update, I can like the comment now🎉)
painfully true ;(
No joke here 😂😂😂
@Sam707BFBC yes, there is something deeper going on: the fact that my dad didn't care to meet me until i was like 8, never wished me a happy birthday in 16 years, talked shit about people i love and was never actively present on my life lol KAKDKSKDKD 👁️👄👁️✌🏽
@@bellbarreiros9561 don't worry, my real dad left me when I was born for alcohol ❤ and my step dad stole from my family and the place he worked at. He has been to jail multiple times, as I was maybe 6 when he did. Um so yeah, that's my life
This is my life's song damn, WHERE HAS THIS GIRL BEEN ALL MY LIFE
The band but okay
Ikr
jongin is mah baby I got you, hit me up 😁. I like cigars, a good scotch, and keeping it classy. Give me a chance?
i feel ya, the song makes me feel some type of way
KPop.
The angst this song gave me at the ripe age of 14 is amazing. Came back at 18 and Its a banger still
Same
Same I’m like yeah…
Myn was 15 then came back now at 20 and still hits 😭
She looks like a mix of Lucy hale and bebe rhexa and her voice is like a mixture of Melanie martinez and Halsey which gives me the chills
JIshwa Dun and Tyjo are my cell mates ikr
Freaking yes
Such a good description
JIshwa Dun and Tyjo are my cell mates yess omg
JIshwa Dun and Tyjo are my cell mates yesss
this video is just so aesthetically pleasing and i love that about it, bless.
same lmao
same. aesthetic than my ig feed 😂
yess
yasssss
your comment is so aesthetically please too, cause there's no caps and the grammar is perfect
I'm obsessed with this song. I heard it on the radio and had to look it up
Me too!
mee to
me toó 😂
Dо yоu knоw what YOUR mаn is thinking? twitter.com/2b221f57eb75c29b8/status/804693412402241537 Hey Violеet Guуs Мy Аgе
Shelly Mcclure same here ❤
i was 12 when this came out now i'm almost 17 😭 the concept of time means nothing to me anymore, i miss this era so much when this song was popping everywhere. anyways i'm so proud of how far the band has come, can't wait for the second album
samee except i was 10 when it came out and now i’m almost 18, but i miss this era of songs
This band is literally full of the most attractive people i've ever seen omg my gay heart
That drummer tho...yum!
Lol
You haven't seen many attractive people I guess
Am I the only guy that actually likes these chicks? I feel like it’s just lesbians.
Well, look wise lol
I'll forever call this the Sugar Daddy song
P I P S C H T I C K yeeeah buddy 😎😎😎😎
More like the Sugar Baby Anthem
Haha im sure its a banger in strip clubs.
Nah it's that Lana song... "West coast".. shiz, "Ride" also has reverse cougar energy!
Or the “groomed anthem”
Me after realizing that all my celebrity crushes are old enough to be my father
mood
My celebrity crush is clint eastwood😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm a straight dude but Robert Downey Jr. and Jonny Depp still look too good
🤣
Coochiejuice 4lyfe ... I have a crush on Mia talerico 😂(don’t worry I’m her age)
HAVEN'T HEARD THIS SONG IN YEARS SO NOSTALGIC also I'm not forgiving any of you for not making this song more famous
I know!!! I just came back to this song after like 6 years of not hearing it! But hey 44million views is pretty good
I love the aesthetics of this music video - the colour palette, its sweeteness, cotton candy and neons, this combinations is soo pleasant
I would love it if someone made a mashup of this and "teacher's pet" by Melanie Martinez
Oh my gosh that would be freaking amazing
YES
Welp you know that someone can be you.
@@pls_hush2004 see I had the same idea as them but I can't do it because I'm big dumb and dunno how to lol
I was just thinking that!!
I'm 25 years old and guys my age STILL don't know how to treat me. 🤣
Alexandria Salazar same 🙄
Little tip from someone who has dated up to twice my age: age doesn’t matter majority don’t know what they’re doing if you find a good one hold tight 😂
Teach them
Okay....lol
Alexandria Salazar can’t even agree more
Maybe you don't know how to treat them xD
I cant believe it has already been so long since I was obsessed with them. I was like eleven, and this song came up on autoplay and i listened to it often and then i became conpletely obsessed with all of their music. and then better by myself came out a while after, when i wasnt as into them anymore, but I still loved it. I cant believe it's already been 2 years since that song came out. time goes by so fast when your life is uneventful.
Her outfit is so cute
trinity sowers yeah
ikr !!
Yeahh😍😍
Cute? It's fucking hot.
Haha no
Me, 2018: Guys my age don't know how to treat me..
Me, 2020: *lesbean*
Exactly
You know even though I'm a lesbian, it's still the same...
CATE BLANCHETT PLEASE GIVE ME ATTENTION
Lol same
Asf
Same asf
I remember jamming out to this after having broken up with my then boyfriend who was my age. I went on to date older dudes who turned out the same, if not worse. It's not about the age but the person or the characteristics that you look for in a dude. Maybe this will inspire someone to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself if you subconsciously keep on looking for the same kind of person who is not a good match for you. I know it helped me figure some stuff out.
I wish others thought like you do. Age is not the key it is character. You can be in love with a man that is 10 years older So what as long as he is a good man.
it's about character, people are often drawn to the same type of persona pretty much regardless of age difference
like a moth to a flame .. setting on a path to failure cause it's what feels familiar .. and it never works out .. sad to see really
females are being groomed from afar now, even music like this is directing them to older men (the ones that own the record companies and promote the music - maybe even write the songs) - it's a win for them, who else benefits? nobody.. there are guys out there, attractive young band like this telling other girls not to bother with them is part of the problem, all that this is trying to achieve is sugar daddies probaly married with kids having a young plaything to manipulate.. if you know someone who can't see how tacky that is then maybe they just need counselling for daddy issues - did he walk out from young, that lack of father figure whilst growing up manifests in all kinds of confusing ways for different people.. also girls need to stop expecting to be showered with gifts and treated like a bank account (easier for older men more established in life) and seek some relatable emotional connection instead.. this is just an extension of objectifying women and now it's even coming from women (i dunno if the band wrote the track, it looks pretty manufactured to me) aimed at younger women to make them susceptible to creeps as if being older is automatically a bonus no matter who it actually is .. yet another ad campaign by the mainstream propaganda machine
If you never give anyone your age a chance, or give up after 1 or 2 bad experiences, obviously you're not gonna develop the social skills to build a relationship with someone your own age and then this song seems like the answer
Gotta start with the way you view yourself like me I was use to abuse I was putting myself down didn't love myself...so the next dude seen right through my exterior knew they could take advantage of me. Now it's different I'm a beast I got a feisty side that little boys would consider me a bitch but a real man wouldn't be scared!
J
As Taylor Tomlinson said " i quit dating losers..... yeah no one realizes how hard that is...." love her to death
I can't be the only one who comes back to this. It brings back memories ❤
ive been obsessed with this song for years
Same bestie 😂👌
everyone in this band is attractive like, goddamn so beautiful
Yeah in their own nice way.
uhh no, the singer is hideous
+g33k0f9x Oh my god, I think you need your eyes checked. Are you experiencing blurry vision or dizziness?
yeah because I have a photo on my profile?
+g33k0f9x sure that must be it
I swear she said "cause you hold me like a walnut"
Lololol
Who doesn't want to be held like a walnut..? 🤔
Someone said that when the song first came out and I've never been able to hear anything else lol.
😂
Stop this madness
I can't be the only one who still comes back to this. It brings back those memories ❤
As someone in an age gap relationship, I can totally relate. Guys my age don't know shit... Healthiest relationship I've ever been in 😍
Mary Jane Octane same. I'm 19 and my gf is 17 and she loves it cuz she says I'm wayyyyy more mature.
lol im 19 and my man is 29 almost 30. two years isnt that much
Braden Ballentine No offense sweetheart but 2 years is not an age gap. I'm 29 and my man is 51. I'm not knocking your maturity level. You could be an old soul. Glad you're happy!
I'm sorry but I can't help but laugh at when someone says 'my man'. I just laugh my ass off.
21secondsatthedisco lol why does it make you laugh so hard?
HER HAIR IS GOALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Issie x her hair is lit
Issie x yassss
Issie x the whole band is goals
0:19-0:35 gives me goosebumps, love the whole song but that beat at the start 😍
Fuck that part is literally my fav it's sooo good 😮🥺🥺🥺🥺
The beats on this song are absolutely sick AF! Love it!
and she is sooooo hot!
@@DonRobertson82 have you had a chance to check out Dua LIPA or Ava Max? Those two are absolutely adorably gorgeous as well?
I'm in love with the girl that's playing the drum.
Just WOW. She's stunning and got that something in her eyes.
Never seen something like this before.
Dominika Maciejasz I agree
Dominika Maciejasz Yahs Nia is gorgeous!
Dominika Maciejasz ikr she's so gorgeous and talented♡
Dominika Maciejasz Nia slays my life
Dominika Maciejasz I agree omg
Okay so this is "Rena and the backup band" Why can't I see or hear the other members? If I hadn't known them I would think this was a solo song. it doesn not sound like a song by a band. I really like the song BUT for a solo. The other members deserve recognition because they are as talented as Rena is. Literally the camera didn't focus on anyone faces except Rena. No one sang a line except Rena. The should all get their solo lines. They have amazing vioces. Everyone wants to see and hear their favourites. This is a BAND. I wouldn't be surprised if all the new people think of this as a solo song.
some of them already did
Ever since the new ep it has been Rena and frens not hey Violet and I hate it
Starr Little i agree. But Miranda and Nia did sing backup and it shows in some parts of the video. Maybe not for long but it still showed.
Rena does almost all the vocals, but Miranda and Nia sing backups. This is the studio version, but when it is live all of the band is a lot more involved. It's not as electronic live. Also, if you follow them on their social medias all of the band gets attention and is credited for the song equally (except maybe Iain since he is new). I agree that many people only know Rena but that's because she is the front woman, but that happens for a lot bands. People know Luke from 5 Seconds Of Summer best because he is lead vocals and the front man. The front man/woman is always going to get the most attention. I'm happy for Hey Violet. They're finally getting the recognition they deserve with their new sound. It didn't work with alternative rock. It just didn't. I personally wasn't a fan until the Brand New Moves EP. I believe they have big things ahead for them.
Fab shes the front woman you know how paramore or tonight alive they always focus on hayley or jenna? since rena is the front woman shes the one they focus on bc shes the lead.
Nobody:
Me falling in love with Robert Downey Jr who is 54 years old:
relatable 😂
This is how it really be 😍
One of the best examples how cool never ages...
Literally me but with Johnny Depp
Ariyana Kennedy 🤤🤤🤤
Who’s here 2024?
It was 7 years ago...
Still new for me 😂
Lyrics
I haven't seen my ex since we broke up
Probably 'cause he didn't wanna grow up
Now I'm out and wearing something low-cut
'Bout to get attention from a grownup
'Cause you hold me like a woman
In a way I've never felt before
And it makes me wanna hold on
And it makes me wanna be all yours
Guys my age don't know how to treat me
Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
Guys my age don't know how to keep me
Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
All he ever wanted was to go down
What we supposed to do with all his friends around? (yeah)
Smoking weed, he'd never wanna leave the house
Got an empty cushion on that sofa now
Told him, "good luck with the next one"
Maybe she'll be just as immature
Gotta thank him, he's the reason
That I'll find out what I'm looking for
Guys my age don't know how to treat me
Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
Guys my age don't know how to keep me
Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
Guys my age don't know how to treat me
Don't know how to please me, don't know how to read me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
Guys my age don't know how to tease me
Don't know how to leave me, don't know how to need me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
So I'm never going back
Don't know, don't know, don't know (don't know, don't know)
No, I'm never going back
Don't know how to touch me, don't know how to love me good
So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
I remember when this first came out I was afraid to like it just in case my mom figured out I did.
HAHA
SAME LMAO
I was thinking the opposite before I read this. As the mom.
3dolla SpicyRamen I didnt know what the song meant at the time but now it's another story😏
*daddy kink has entered the chat*
Oml there's a comment above yours saying *daddy kink anthem*
XD
Indeed. 👌
LeAnn Stark 0-0
Are you related to Tony Stark in any way, if so I am sorry for you loss
6 years ago!? Damn. Time flys fr
0:18
*Cause you hold me like a wallnut*
Gabbage
XD
Am I the only person that hear "woman" not "wallnut" ???
Pauline Lov LMFAOO I DID TOO I thought she just liked the way people hold walnuts?? but it’s “woman” lmaoo
Lol
I hear a mix of women and wallnut ;-;
*wallman*
I HATE MYSELF FOR HEARING THIS UNDERRATED SONG SO LATE:( BUT IM GLAD THAT I DID IT NOW:)
Same
@@rheasantosh4796 okay)
SAME GIRL
same, girl, same
@@daludna omg
Not relatable
I can't even get guy
Mary 2000 get urself a kim taehyung
Mai Trinh
Oh my god so true for me lol
ilikebts get ur self a yoongi lol he’s perfect
I realised I have a daddy kink because of bts smuts and this song.
*_and i oop-_*
😹😹😹OMGG ARMY
7 years and still listening to this song
This is "aesthetically" pleasing.
(Is that how you say it?)
I think so...
Yes!
Asssss
@@dd-yy4yc lol.... assssss????
Nevaeh Hunter I’m choking on air. 😂
the drummer is gorgeous I'm in love
she is nia, who is rena's (the lead singer) sister :)
kirsty wade same
Isobella Austin ah thank you!
i know right
That's Nia she's Rena's sister the pink haired girl they are beautiful I love them alot
When you break up with your 12 year old Minecraft boyfriend for a 12 and a half year old Minecraft boi
@@vxera2973 🤣🤣🤣
Vxera lmao
Vxera 💀
Tae💖
Vxera that’s BTS Taehyung actually
Ong I keep coming back I love her songs sm she's so underated
This video is the definition of Tumblr
Rebecca Wisniewski lol so true....
Rebecca Wisniewski Weird you think this is Tumblr? because I imagine a long ass essay and linked case studies to prove why the lyrics shouldn't be taken to heart. Still a hot song.
Rebecca Wisniewski best comment all day.
#tumblr #grunge #artsy = hey violet music videos
A .H PRODUCTIONS I can't get this song out of my head.............
This sounds like 2009 music blended with mainstream now. I likeee itttt boi
James Chew same
I was just thinking this!! I feel like I am way too old to be listening to this but I can't stopppp lol
was this song written by aria montgomery
pinkbutterfly413 I swear Aria Montgomery is a character from pretty little liars? Lmao
pinkbutterfly413 I just understood what you meant lmao
IM DEAD LMAO
bahahah
pinkbutterfly413 lol 😂😂😂 i understand now 😂😂
I met the drummer once at a party, she is so amazing!
*listens to this song
Dates a guy that is a month older
*Me "I'm such a rebel"
it’s a great song, but PSA for teens, older people can and will use your naivety to their advantage. Be careful!!!
Bright Lilly I feel like these kind of songs portray the younger girl as empowered but they don’t show the implicit imbalance of power that comes with these types of relationships.
So true!!
That’s a good psa
💯 Relationships with large age gaps can be very toxic due to the imbalance of power and experience. It should be a HUGE red flag if a man in his thirties, for example, claims he has anything in common with a girl under the age of 18.
++
** Dates guy 2 years older **
*listens to song on repeat for a week*
I actually have a classmate that is 2 years older but who cares 😂
Dates boy one year older
Quotes this song for days
Bella Tan that is literally me right now😂😂😂
*18years older lmfao
StarHaze Galaxy My mom is 41 and my dad is 37,4 years older....
The way this song had a grip on me when I was a teenager...now everything turns out to be painfully true👀
I'm 20 and all men my age act like they're 16. So this song resonates with me 😂
When I was in middle school, the boys from my school acted like 2 year olds so I could relate too 😭😂 I'm in high school now and fortunately guys my age are more mature
The guys of my college are so childish...
I've dated guys 10+ older than me (they were in their 40ies or more). Some of them act like kids still.
Same
I'm 44...how u doin 😘🤔😉
'Cause you hold me like a walnut
Oh my! XD Thanks for the laugh!
Kaitlyn Lewis omg I heard that too and I laugh everytime lmao
josé queso cheese dip omg yes every time
I thought that to lol😂😂
Kaitlyn Lewis what does she even say
I love the way she just plays with the microphone at 3:11😂
Jordyn I was at that part when I read this lol
Same
Jordyn damn, that's hot...
This was the song that made me a fan of Hey Violet all those years ago. Crazy the band is now getting ready to close up shop.
I saw this the day this came out but this song is gonna blow up so I'm here to leave my mark
noice name, I think I've heard it somewhere but I don't remember when..
Same!!!!!
It never blew up
You better clean that up afterwards.
I listened to this song for the first time back in August of 2016 when Hey Violet were the opening acts for 5sos, and suddenly I've loved them since.
Seriously, the drummer is so ridiculously cute...
Carol Tucker yep she's fine
Carol Tucker agree
right
Its a girl
Agreeee they're all hot asf.
No one:
Literally nobody:
All 15 y/o girls:
13y/o*
yeah even 12 years old but mainly 13 years old talking about there ex didnt know how the thread her right. or what ever.
grow the fuck up..
Dont come at me like that
@@squidink5338 yo lol i feel u m8
@Deathmations you are 12? since you replied to my comment :)
Me after realizing I’m 14 and My celebrity crush is older than my biological father
👁👄👁
Oh shi-
@@barenjablue7162 he’s my grandparents age🧍🏻♀️
😂💜
same
@@H3ll0Ch3rry Bro- you good?
*guys my age don't know how to keep me*
Me: But girls do
I like her hair, it looks really pretty
"Now I'm out and wearin' somethin low-cut" the shot looks like she has a turtleneck on
True
Twigpalm - it’s a choker if you look closely
I think low-cut was referring to jeans
Yea
It's just a song
Nostalgia hits
this song made me want to hit up my old chemistry teacher
Gabriella Beauty same
Gabriella Beauty Lmao did you pass on spelling?
Gabriella Beauty lmho 😂
Gabriella Beauty i think you need to hit up your old english teacher
Did not expect that bass int he begin yesssss
I forgot the name of this song so I legit put 'aesthetic song about older men' and this was the first one that popped up.
oo kaay LOOOOL AND LANA DEL REY "Summer time sadness"
Jasmine YasmineFatima summer time sadness is about her friend who committed suicide
@@ajeel1961 u mean Lolita by Lana del rey?
Ruined this song
😂😂
sugar daddy anthem
Exactly LoL
I'm in my mid 30s I'd NEVER date a GIRL in her 20s..I don't need a daughter.
@@kylecorreia4919 you should read black dragon blog then
@@goldenmemes51 why?
@@kylecorreia4919 That's more of a little sister than a daughter bro (I'd say over 15 years is when it gets more like a parental age difference), but I agree. Why would any guy want to be a sugar daddy? Wouldn't it just make you feel prematurely old? MILFs are way better lol
this song got me groomed
Teenage beans like me, listen up: Like older people, whatever. That's not really something to be ashamed of, it's your preference, fine. But DO NOT go after them. It's unsafe and you can get very hurt. Always wait until you're eighteen or older. I just wanted to put that out there.
ALSO. Beware of guys significantly older than you. There's a reason women their age won't date them. And even if they're totally normal, generational gaps pose a pretty big obstacle. Not saying it can't be done, but it's hard to relate to someone that much older or younger than you.
true - love who you want but be careful. i personally think that you can date older guys at whatever age as long as you're both mature and prepared for the relationship. and also make sure you're not being manipulative and/or manipulated, cause that happens a lot with big age gaps
Sierra Jade As long as you're 18 though, it doesn't matter. Like I get that with teenagers but people who aren't minors should be able to date anyone that is also of age. Honestly, I totally disagree with the whole "you won't be able to relate to each other" thing. My parents are 18 years apart and they were together for 23 years and raised two kids, including me. Personally, I usually date women around my age (I'm 20) but I love older men. Men usually have to be at least 5 years older than me for me to be attracted to them, idk why but that is the way it is for me. My boyfriend is turning 27 in December and even though our age gap isn't as big as some others, it's still there and I don't think that it affects our relationship in any way. I tend to be attracted to men that are anywhere from 25-70, no joke. But I am completely of age so it shouldn't matter imo.
@@xotbirdox Sounds like my ex gf..if they are pushing 60 she's into them. It's called "daddy issues".
@@kylecorreia4919 Not always. Some people literally just like older men and that's it. That's the only reason that they pursue age gap relationships. I don't have any daddy issues at all and yet, I love older men. My dad died when I was young but before that, he was a wonderful father and loved me and my brother to death. You shouldn't make presumptions about people. I literally just find older men hot, there's no deeper meaning to it.
so tumblr, aesthetically pleasing. This song is liiifeee right now. I'm glad i found her. 💜
Aaliyah Marie same here
Aaliyah Marie her? dude, their a band, not just her
zoe perreira *they're
Aaliyah Marie oh shit 😂😂 soz
i'm 20, but always crushing on 30+ years old ppl
Gimme ur email
but i'm not single lmao
@@lauriechapdelaine3572
Liar..You know you wouldn't mind a 37 yr.old side man😉...lol..jk
@@lauriechapdelaine3572
Who says we gonna hook up right away, anywayyyyy..
Don't you trust yourself to chat up with men without falling in love with them???...lol..jk
the guy who’s replying to you is a clear reason why older men are SOMETIMES predatory or controlling...
On repeat, on repeat, on repeat
This is too good and too real, i love it
Daddy issues anthem
Shannon Daylie
What about the song daddy issues doe?
can't have daddy issues if you don't have a dad 😎
IM CACKLING
Evija Cernisa Oh shit-
I just listened to the song anddd i understand now
heard this song on Radio Disney. RADIO DISNEY!!!!! IM APPALLED!!!!
Amanda Conrad I mean, it's a good song, but definitely not for tweens..
i know!!! Not for the 8 year old I nanny!!! I didn't realize radio disney played this crap!
That is sick
Brianah its not a good song for anyone. Its hyper produced brainwashing satanic shit from Holywierd. The girl is not pretty, nor talented, and the song sounds the same as every other sick POS out of the poisonous industry.
Harold Smith I think she is more than pretty, and I enjoy this song. Then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This is one of the very few songs that I do like of mainstream radio-play music. But we can all have opinions. I didn't find anything satanic about this, however. I don't understand where you're coming from with that.
I haven't seen my ex since we broke up
Probably 'cause he didn't wanna grow up
Now I'm out and wearing something low-cut
'Bout to get attention from a grownup
'Cause you hold me like a woman
In a way I've never felt before
And it makes me wanna hold on
And it makes me wanna be all yours
Guys my age don't know how to treat me
Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
Guys my age don't know how to keep me
Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
All he ever wanted was to go down
What we supposed to do with all his friends around? (yeah)
Smoking weed, he'd never wanna leave the house
Got an empty cushion on that sofa now
Told him, "good luck with the next one"
Maybe she'll be just as immature
Gotta thank him, he's the reason
That I'll find out what I'm looking for
Guys my age don't know how to treat me
Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
Guys my age don't know how to keep me
Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
Guys my age don't know how to treat me
Don't know how to please me, don't know how to read me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
Guys my age don't know how to tease me
Don't know how to leave me, don't know how to need me
Guys my age don't know how to touch me
Don't know how to love me good
So I'm never going back
Don't know, don't know, don't know (don't know, don't know)
No, I'm never going back
Don't know how to touch me, don't know how to love me good
So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)
Am I the only one who think this song is wrong? I mean how can you love someone just because of sex?! It is not love its called infatuation or hormones
@@kpoppergirl7810 same I do too it creeps me out I'm just here for the comments
@-that_burnt_potato gacha wolf i think she/he coppied &pasted it😂😂
Thank you for these lyrics, but I believe that after "Gotta thank him he's the reason" that it goes "that I know now what I'm looking for."
It thought it was “maybe she’ll be just as in the drug”
...just hearing this for the first time.but This is literally now the theme song for this very chapter of my life. Yes. Just so yes!
Love this. It feels like I'm the only one who still listens to this band and everyone else grew up and forgot about them, so it's cool to see a new fan.
Omg I've never heard about her before WHY? this is so good omg I love this
Sophia Sunhill yeah it's a band
Sophia Sunhill its a band
It's a band. smh :/
Uhm okay, you don't have to tell me four times in a row... She's the one that stood out to me
Can't give a compliment these days without being corrected, smh.. I kind of JUST discovered THEM
0:18 Cause you hold me like a walnut 😂
Salty Draws can't unhear it
...... god damnit
Salty Draws XD
Cartoon
100th liker, I feel so proud
The drummer has awesome hair.
I thought she was a guy and I said "damn, he is cute." then the camera focused on her and I was like 'wtf?!"
Azra Su Akbaş Then did you think 'damn she is cute?'
Sammy Ariel NIAAAAA😍😍
@@NotAnotherKuromiI found my comment and I actually want to to say, turns out I'm a lesbian 🗿 I started to date with girls like right after this MV 💀
this song is intoxicating
Ezra and Aria
-A
donna wallin 😂😂😂😂
I was just thinking about them. i was like uh this sounds like Aria and Ezra.
Omfg so true😂😂
My name's Ezri, lol
donna wallin OMGGGGG SHIPPP
GUYS MY AGE DON'T KNOW HOW TO buy me pizza and leave
lmao lol same
This Is My Life In A Quote
Ness yessss
bro i watch this everyday
I swear modern women are all the same
damn I'm addicted in this song. it's so good
Literally so good! I love the production of the sound!
My family:he’s 40
Me:Andddd whats your point geese leave me and Tom Alone 🙄🤌🏽
rly like this song, even tho i've never listened to a hey violet song b4.
Ametaf Johora samee
Ametaf Johora same
Ametaf Johora same
Ametaf Johora same
Ametaf Johora me too
this song should be in pretty little liars when the girl was kissing the teacher
Omg yes
emma Harley quinn lover woodley lol no way he's still super young? He's like mid twenties early thirties doesn't count
ikr
Courtlovesgucci their relationship was still illegal....
I think you meant aria and Ezra*
painfully relatable.
Abrienne W would you get married sexy I want to OK
Years ago, I was in the middle of a voice lesson, and all of a sudden, my vocal coach just stops and throws up her hands and was like, "I want to start a band!" And talking how putting her middle school-aged daughter in it and all this stuff.. this is NOT what I had in mind AT ALL lol. The vocal coach was Miranda's Mom. 🤣🤣 So good. So genius!
finally i can say i am an early fan of someone i seriously like this and fuqboi a lot
Crybaby & tøp they used to be called Cherri bomb
Deonta Bowen i know but they still are quite unknown
This song is currently at #25 on Billboard's Top Pop Songs chart.
www.billboard.com/charts/pop-songs
Noah Weisbrod i know but they dont even habe a half a million followers on insta whulst when i started liking tøp they had 4 million
Crybaby & tøp They're neither huge nor unknown. This is the band's second time sitting at "almost pop-stars." (The first time being when they had a song on the Avengers soundtrack back in 2012.)
That drummer be lookin hella cute, I mean-- 😳😍😍😍😍
guys my age dont know how to love me
me; gives the 35 y/o indian dude in my dms a chance
😅😂🤣
im dyin’ HAHAHHAAH
Thats cute😊
What about a 78 year old white boy like me baby?
Feel You. Doing it right now xD
I love Hey Violet
are we ever gonna get an album bc I'm tired of waiting when we get amazing songs like this but not an album full of them
just download the album on spotify
drunk uncle syd they're working on an album that should be out next year
HEYITSADRIANA 1000000001 they dont have an album yet
HEYITSADRIANA 1000000001 they don't have an album they only had EPs
She’s so pretty and I’m out here looking like a cereal box
It's okay, cereal boxes hold amazingness. What else could you really want for breakfast?
I can stare at a cereal box for hours.
Army
At least you don't have beanbags for thighs 😂😂😂
@@irajohnson7824 but beanbags are so comfy.... What else is a better chair?
Is it just me that this music video has the riverdal vibe and aesthetic??
*riverdale
Yeah! Just more pastel
It also goes quite well with the ridiculously attractive dads theme, eg. Hiram and FP. But yeah, the lighting is and visuals definitely have a Riverdale vibe.
YES
Still stunning 2024 🎉
I posted this on fb and my crush (mid 40s) started flirting with me. But he controlled/manipulated me thinking I was young and dumb. Be careful of older men, ladies...they want to use and abuse you...not all men tho. I'm way happier with my boyfriend who is 2 months younger than me. He just gets me and respects me as an equal. I feel like this relationship is healthier.
my boyfriend is 2 months younger than me too.... are we soul sisters???? 😳 also, thanks for pointing out the dangers of dating with an age gap without generalizing. advice done right 🖤🖤
Latte & Miele if you don't mind me asking how old were you at the time ?
Well said
@@pixiefairy0455 fr..not to be rude tho
Xgg
Sad but true
Shawty Imma Party Till The Sundown CHOGIWAA
CHOGIWAAAAAAA
how is it sad
Indeed
Shawty Imma Party Till The Sundown true
my favorite song I luv it
ikr me too💖
I used to love this song when I was a teen, now I see it in a way different light. Age gaps are a different thing between 2 adults, but teenager +adult is wrong, even if its just 3 or 4 years different. If he‘s dating highschoolers it’s not bc he thinks you’re his soulmate. It’s bc women his age won’t touch him. You probably just realize it, when you’re his age and see people the age you were. Be safe 💗