How to be alone

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  • @naina7048
    @naina7048 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +201

    Going through a hard breakup, don’t know how will I move on .. literally not able to eat, sleep . I just want this unbearable pain gone

    • @ellishasamuels6724
      @ellishasamuels6724 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      i understand it’s truly horrible . me right now , hoping you heal :(

    • @nina.bum24
      @nina.bum24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Take care of ur physical self first! I know it’s hard, but just tell urself u have to take care of ur physical wellbeing right now, make that your focus while u repair ur mind and heart slowly!! Trust, it helps a lot and once ur heart and mind catches up in the healing process u’ll be so happy u kept it up :)

    • @naina7048
      @naina7048 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ellishasamuels6724hope you feel better ❤

    • @naina7048
      @naina7048 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nina.bum24thank you so much , I have to see this person at office everyday as he is my colleague due to family’s emotional blackmail he is getting married very soon .. and I have to see everything.. very very hard .. not able to concentrate on work .. it’s Been 3 days since I’m on sick leave 😢.. it feels like i hv lost my father for the 2nd time coz the care and love he gave me it was like father daughter care💔

    • @Estherchow0
      @Estherchow0 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      TRUST ME IT'S GONNA BE THE BESST THING EVER

  • @desdemonamaghrebi8755
    @desdemonamaghrebi8755 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    To all the people who are going through a heartbreak:
    It'll pass and you are going to be fine
    Last year I was at the same position and I thought it'll never end, it was hard, it was painful, but now it's gone, and I feel more powerful than ever.
    I couldn't trust anyone who used to tell me it'll pass and you're going to be ok, but you trust me; time will fix it all, time is a miracle, just be patient and work on urself in any way you can❤

    • @fol761
      @fol761 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I was in this space too but now I’m grateful that happened

    • @mram5152
      @mram5152 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for reassuring us!! ❤

    • @sage416
      @sage416 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re amazing!

  • @nina.bum24
    @nina.bum24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Daaaamn was literally feeling sad and alone today, been getting over a situationship gone bad and apparently the universe heard

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      You've got this!

  • @uhoh7141
    @uhoh7141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    its 28 days since our breakup and within 1 week he had a new girlfriend lol. I feel fine now, the last 3 weeks were brutal but I'm slowly coming out of my sadness.
    I think the biggest reason why it's easier for me to move on and be alone is seeing how fast he was to find someone else because he can't be alone. And I dodged a bullet to be honest.
    Thank you Lumma for your videos, they've truly been helpful the past month. God bless you always.

    • @ashnayawrr
      @ashnayawrr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      oh my god literally me

    • @yennimarya
      @yennimarya 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Girl believe me he WILL come back,😂😂 that clown will come back and text you, but it doesnt mean that he is still love you, he will lost your presence and decided text you. So my advice dont fall for his words. Because its literally happen to me 7 months ago since i watched Lumma's videos break up

    • @uhoh7141
      @uhoh7141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@yennimarya Good thing I don't want him back and will not be contacting him back in case he does contact me, which I doubt because he seems so happy with someone else. Thank you for your advice tho!
      I'm positive he won't be coming back tho :)

    • @ArunimaMandal15
      @ArunimaMandal15 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Naah that's just rebound and him coping. Don't even bother looking at him

  • @happycreature3993
    @happycreature3993 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    hey lumma, today i realized that i want to be unbreakable woman. rejection is my power: my power to get out from such situation and find another things/places that defines me BETTER. rejection is not personal and doesn't define me as a person. relationship, friendship or job, if i got rejection, i would accept it and nothing personal about it. i would walk away

    • @happycreature3993
      @happycreature3993 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      thank you the universe for delivered me this message. and thank you lumma for being a wonderful woman

  • @catherineperrot4112
    @catherineperrot4112 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    This came at the perfect time I’m trying to get over a situation ship that ended last week been trying so hard to get over it and been feeling really lonely . Trying to heal and move forward . This video helped a lot

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Aww! I've been so hard on myself always thinking that my videos aren't good enough, thank you for this comment x

    • @domenikahermida4633
      @domenikahermida4633 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lummaaziz Your videos are perfect and with so much wisdome!!!

  • @miamunguia6251
    @miamunguia6251 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’m so thankful to have found you, I truly have been able to view things differently and see how things can been okay. Even though I still feel sad over it I know I’ll make it through and move on and heal and be okay with it. I’m glad Lumma really made me realize things will turn out good. And to not depend on anyone for my happiness but me!!

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being here x

  • @ankitaacore
    @ankitaacore 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Needed this fr , i was thinking being alone is hard but now my perspective changed and i feel like being alone is not hard it's okay as i am learning to do things that i never used to do ;)

  • @Leasophia337
    @Leasophia337 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Taking that deep breath with you helped so much right now

  • @nadirahmuhammad747
    @nadirahmuhammad747 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Divine timing Lumma 🤞🏽❤️thank you for being you , I appreciate you and your videos. They continue to help me no matter where I am in life. Partner or no partner , emotional rollercoasters, anxiety and stress, productivity, family and friends … JUST EVERYTHING 🙏🏽my favorite TH-cam girly !

  • @shotzbydani13
    @shotzbydani13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    you’re literally my comfort person

  • @mermaidavenue8363
    @mermaidavenue8363 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lumma I think this is my favorite video from you it feels so real and relatable but also uplifting and motivating! I love this style of videos

  • @DayandyDissanayaka-eb1zh
    @DayandyDissanayaka-eb1zh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Happy to see ma kind of people❤who are spiritually awaken in their journey...I felt so alone bcz I 'm so different from most of the people even from my family...but when I listen to you and others like jay shetty,lavendaire etc. I feel like connect with the right people❤love u lumma I'm just 20 years old listening to u ❤Love from sri lanka 🇱🇰

  • @atticusv45
    @atticusv45 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Don’t listen to those influencers who act like they on top of their sh*t doing emails and grinding work on flights! Resting, relaxing and refilling your cup again is just as important service TO YOURSELF! Trust, they got their lazy days off cam like all of us 😂

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You're right, thank you!

  • @KaylaBayot
    @KaylaBayot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i did love this video! i’m actually going to the philippines in july with my family and u just got me extra excited about it. i also am at a time and place where i’m realizing that i need to just be alone. like literally stop trying to date and live in my aloneness and just be happy. ty for the advice!!

  • @globuspallidus2457
    @globuspallidus2457 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really like your mindset, I consider you to be wise

  • @hanhvu3716
    @hanhvu3716 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Going through a worst state of a breakup process now. Literally lost appetite! But thank you for your wonderful video! I will take things step by step!

    • @Diogonwa
      @Diogonwa 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too. How do you feel now?

    • @DhairyaShah-k5m
      @DhairyaShah-k5m 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How do you feel now? Please update

    • @alejandrapalacio5423
      @alejandrapalacio5423 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hi, I'm going through a breakup too, I feel so lonely and I've been trying so hard to be okay but I feel nothing is working

    • @DhairyaShah-k5m
      @DhairyaShah-k5m 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alejandrapalacio5423 wana connect ? Let's be friends and go through this together (I'm a girl not a creep 😂)

  • @amimusiic
    @amimusiic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Lumma. I started watching you around 5 months ago - your content has helped me through some dark days. To answer your question - I love this style of video!! But sometimes I listen to you while walking to work etc. It would be helpful if you could put a little tag in the video for when the pep talk starts so we can skip if we're unable to watch. Keep it up - you're my faveee!!

  • @ayaelhazime5091
    @ayaelhazime5091 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for your incredible videos. They have been a great source of comfort and strength for me during a very difficult time. Your advice and insights have truly helped me heal and move forward after a heartbreak. I can't express enough how grateful I am for the positive impact you've had on my life. Keep up the amazing work, and please know that you're making a real difference in people's lives. Thank you!🥺❤️

  • @cheyennecarroll2626
    @cheyennecarroll2626 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My favorite video so far. So relatable. Thank you Lumma for being so real.

  • @rihab8720
    @rihab8720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like seeing you hang out before talking it is normal and inspiring

  • @OrlandoOsuna
    @OrlandoOsuna 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for being real and sharing how hard things can be. I feel like most people on youtube only make it seem like life is always rosie and beautiful all the time...and actually life can be pretty hard and that happens more often than not.

  • @sarahunoke2116
    @sarahunoke2116 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much Lumma. I've been feeling this way for a while now so this video is a blessing to me rn

  • @Annie14941
    @Annie14941 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    WOW GURLLLL THAT WAS AMAZING, its 7pm on a friday, im drawing a cute cooking monkey I found on pinterest and just listening to you I know you gonna be my new fav youtuber, i m a 15 yo girl who is all about self growth and I recently discovered that soetimes this is all that I need, thank you for making resting feel good

  • @chloeduffyboland3042
    @chloeduffyboland3042 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you 🥰❤️✨

  • @swastidas7422
    @swastidas7422 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girll.. beauty behind the madness?? U won me again ❤

  • @nwabisasibanda4622
    @nwabisasibanda4622 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lumma this video hit. But thank you for giving such amazing advice. It has opened my eyes to a new perspective. Love your videos

  • @heartshapedglasses1340
    @heartshapedglasses1340 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    divine right timing💞

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being here x

  • @thaatsdopee
    @thaatsdopee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please make a podcast. I can listen to you talk all day😊

  • @Angeladwani9
    @Angeladwani9 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wld suggest to make a vid on discussing how to actually work hard manage life after getting out of heartbreak or depression how to again restart life?

  • @JenniferBañaga-Salva
    @JenniferBañaga-Salva 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am happy to hear that you've had so much fun when you visited our country - the Philippines🇵🇭.

  • @Japhiaaa
    @Japhiaaa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I always look forward to your videos, thank you for spreading your love and light!🤍🤍

  • @AllAboutFriday
    @AllAboutFriday 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your videos give me life :’)

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for being here x

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In June 2019 I hang out with a friend and I felt so much anxiety after that meeting that I made it thing to be alone for a while.
    Now I can even travel alone without feeling anxious .

  • @kawya7292
    @kawya7292 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always love your videos lumma❤I feel good and wholesome.This video popped up on the exact right time that i wanted.Im living alone with a busy schedule at work which doesnt give me a much me time.can u do more videos like this.I want to travel alone also but im scared of procedures..Thankyou lumaa❤

  • @Apraasharma
    @Apraasharma 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this was just a real one lumma... thankyou for being so damn real :)

  • @Desireebelveal
    @Desireebelveal 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I always had a boyfriend and best friend. After me and my boyfriend of 14 years broke up.. my best friend followed. So these last 2 years ive learned to be alone and make new friends and new experiences. When things like that happen.. you literally have to learn how to be alone.

  • @user1r7513
    @user1r7513 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idk what it is about this video but it’s really calming and entertaining keep it up gurl 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @heidecali88
    @heidecali88 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    more vlogs and pep talks pls!!! 🥹 I'm always looking forward to watch your videos. Sending love from the PH ❤

  • @joyceomg9125
    @joyceomg9125 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for this!!!I really need this

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww! Thank you for commenting

  • @saseezg
    @saseezg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear sis Lumma
    Thañks for being a great sister 💗

  • @smickos
    @smickos 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    New apartment is dope

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're dope

  • @user-eh1es3hr9u
    @user-eh1es3hr9u 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thankful for finding you and your helpful content

  • @zkrhysf
    @zkrhysf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LUMMA SO PRETTY

  • @MissAri23
    @MissAri23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    curious as to how you and your boyfriend maintain your connection/relationship if it seems like the two of you never spend time together. What’s keeping you guys together ? genuinely interested, maybe a video?

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean we live together! HAHAH I didn’t explain very well. We’ll sit together and do a video in the next few weeks x

  • @Denghuysmans
    @Denghuysmans 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I literally wanna be your friend!We just bought a house in Spain but then it’s cancelled because the seller suddenly did not respond anymore! I’m so frustrated! And Lately I’ve been feeling so confused and lost to what God wants me to do. Feeling a bit stuck but I know for sure that I just need to be patient because everything has its own perfect time! BUT YOU KNOW WHAT! ONCE THIS HOUSE PURCHASE IS DONE, Come to Spain!! It’ll be so crazy to meet you! Let’s meeeet! ❤ Btw I’m originally from Philippines and like you I feel like I don’t belong anywhere! The worst part is I feel like I also don’t belong to my hometown anymore! I’m just navigating life as it is! But I truly enjoy every moment of Now. That’s what I’m trying to learn is to be more present and not really think too much of the past and the future! 🙏

  • @karenkado2755
    @karenkado2755 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    just passed divorce. ur advice helps a lot. hope one day i`ll do as better as you did.

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being here x

    • @BirBahadurTamang-d6c
      @BirBahadurTamang-d6c 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      More power to you❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @daniellaaas
    @daniellaaas 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love that robe!!!

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      From Target!

  • @itsbettyjohnson
    @itsbettyjohnson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so I totally thought the light in the kitchen was a disco ball😂 and now I kinda want one in my kitchen

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get one!! It's so dope

  • @lenaa.8887
    @lenaa.8887 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hi lumma, i have a question for you doing a video about an important topic.. its about losing your friends,, and why its happening and what is happening.. you would really save my life bcs thats currently my life right now. 3 months ago everything started without any reasons and i know u could help me to organize my thoughts... and btw i lovee your videos and i am always thinking about your advice❤❤❤ much love your friend

  • @sherylbelsolis9941
    @sherylbelsolis9941 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow …thank you for Good review in our country Philippines ..im your followers im listening all your Blog

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm actually Filipina!! Best country

  • @Maaaay2
    @Maaaay2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much, Lumma!

  • @boitumelo2582
    @boitumelo2582 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pls 😭 i need someone who’s actually alone to do this

  • @reeedle
    @reeedle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we broke up recently because her family forced us to. shes actually the love of my life and we are being punished for being sinners. i am a sin. i have to wait until she comes back. i honestly feel like dying and i want to better myself but at the same time i want to give up. she told me we have to work on ourselves and she cant be with me right now. we cried together and we kissed goodbye for the last time. we cant be in contact with each other. i dont know if i can keep going. it feels like i cant breathe and my heart is shattered, will she wait for me ? will she still love me ? what would have happened if i had been born as a man. i dislike myself

  • @aliciacarreno5855
    @aliciacarreno5855 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love what you do ♡

  • @Alicaprile
    @Alicaprile 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really needed this

  • @fhay1
    @fhay1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you’re going to LA, you should try to get on the Viall Files podcast. You’d be great for giving people advice plus your story

  • @JJG604
    @JJG604 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know if this sounds strange but when you move to somewhere new and everything like that, how do you make friends? Like what steps do you take to find those people

  • @بتولرزاقفليححسن
    @بتولرزاقفليححسن 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    maybe when i visit LA i will meet u ❤🎉

  • @SamuelSurbrook98
    @SamuelSurbrook98 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could see you being a good friend. What have you thought 💭 about being a massage 💆‍♀️ therapist? That would be a riot.

  • @sadiasayeed5172
    @sadiasayeed5172 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been having a hard time moving on from my ex I don’t know who I am or what I like it’s sad and idk what to do

  • @stephaniemarieshephard3848
    @stephaniemarieshephard3848 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello from New York! ❤❤

  • @theonlyone332
    @theonlyone332 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost my best friend,my boyfriend and now I am all alone.I feel lonely

  • @Meeeeeeeee377
    @Meeeeeeeee377 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s been 1 year 2 months of my breakup……I still miss him…..he got married 3 months ago….I want to completely move on…..what to do?

  • @boop3260
    @boop3260 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    How did you meet your new partner?

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      We need to do a video! The story is pretty crazy

  • @kaylacoates1361
    @kaylacoates1361 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Come to the US❤❤

  • @sofief2671
    @sofief2671 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is she still with Louis?

  • @deanneazalea1326
    @deanneazalea1326 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wheres your podcast 😭😭😭😭

  • @rhen64
    @rhen64 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Are you eating Pansit Luma???? 😀😀😀 anyways been following you since the break-up video ♥️

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hehe yess

  • @ziaakbar2535
    @ziaakbar2535 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are so beautiful love cute. Love you so much ❤

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love you!

  • @trshajsl
    @trshajsl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @Tatiana-rz6nk
    @Tatiana-rz6nk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s your height? Love your channel

  • @dengma8246
    @dengma8246 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello,how can I reach out to you? I’m a single person and looking for a meaningful relationship

  • @alaskayoung777
    @alaskayoung777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    create a group chat pleaseeeee

  • @RihabElMoutaki
    @RihabElMoutaki 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lumma Im a girl and i really wanna be ur friend

  • @jazmynejackson6866
    @jazmynejackson6866 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TIMING

  • @alexklara816
    @alexklara816 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @emelynortiz8289
    @emelynortiz8289 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cue paramore ain’t it fun

  • @deeburns6
    @deeburns6 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Could I get to know you

  • @raidtheairwaves42
    @raidtheairwaves42 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Babe, being lonely and spending 1 month away from your man who already isn’t around much is not gonna help your loneliness. Wish the best for you fr!!

  • @devenderkhanna8517
    @devenderkhanna8517 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lumma.
    Mama podcastt on Spotify when???

  • @skk175
    @skk175 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is stupid to be in the past.
    Men have fear to be rejected by any hot woman. Woman have fear to be rejected by any hot guy. All we have different kinds of a hot Girl.
    In my case I ❤ Latinas ( Jenna Ortega is definitely my type) .
    But, also I love Hot Girls that are Brunette, Blondes and Red Head.
    I love Black Girls that are very hot .
    Like Tate Mcrae says :
    I want to love myself
    Sammy R.G

  • @jman1263986
    @jman1263986 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i fucking love your energy 24/7. you bring me out of the trenches 🫶🫶

  • @asiakaylynn
    @asiakaylynn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so inspiring lumma 🤍

  • @yeuruuerueeheue
    @yeuruuerueeheue 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes to more real vlogs like thissss

  • @deiitime
    @deiitime 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    your videos got me through one of my biggest heartbreaks, your pep talks are so helpful to another LEVEL. you guide me to become a better version of myself 🤍🤍