What is mom so worried about the courts getting involved over? He owes back child support, that shit would instantly lose him any play he tries to make.
They probably made a custody agreement during the divorce and since she hasn’t been going over to her dads as often the past couple years, the dad could argue that he hasn’t paid child support because the mom “refused” to let him see his daughter even if it was the daughters choice to stop seeing him as often
@@abbypotato8165 she's 15. The court will allow her to decide who she can stay with and they will hear her out about the neglect from bio dad. This argument alone can double the child support and let the mom have full custody. The only way for him in this case to escape paying hefty amount of child support is if he gave up his parental rights.
Because she’s a piece of shit mom? I’m sorry, but I can’t not call her that after everything OP said. She’s a psycho religious mom who doesn’t care enough about her kid to realize she’s suffering
@@A-Lore6000 He can give up his parental rights but that does NOT release him from child support, just from the ability to be involved in his child's life unless the mother says ok.
“He deserves respect and love” my ass. This man has ditched his daughter and tossed her aside for his new family. Cheaters don’t care about anybody but themselves.
The mom is still obsessed with the “dad” and it’s disgusting because she’s still putting him above her daughter. If I was the OP I would ask the stepdad about the adoption thing because i feel like the mom is lying about that as well.
Even after OP turns 18 she can still sue the dad for unpaid child support, it doesnt go away. Thats the best thing she could do she should collect evidence of the dad buying the step kids and half sister stuff and screenshots and recordings. I do wonder how well of the dad is tho, the more well off the better it could be for OP.
Massive props to stepdad for trying to do what's best for OP when everyone else seems far more focused on themselves. Hope their relationship continues to develope
Question why aren’t you asking him yourself? Your mom could just be telling you that your stepdad doesn’t want to adopt you because she actually doesn’t want him to.
I know this sounds juvenile, but I got ticked off as soon as OP mentioned the younger stepsister commandeering 2 drawers of their 3 drawer unit for her toys. That already told me enough about 'dad'. Too busy trying to please his new family. Not on at all.
I understand how u feel. It's almost like no one wants u. Ur dad and ur step dad won't adopt you. And ur mom is just absent.like she floating through life
Same here. And better yet, OP should ask her stepdad to adopt her, because he not only has his head on straight, but also has his heart in the right place.
Op's dad was really out there saying "you're not allowed to replace me. I'm the only one that's allowed to move on and come back for you when it's convenient for me so I can keep up appearances I'm not a deadbeat." 💀 Op's mom isn't any better either. This felt so disrespectful to op's stepdad who actually treats op like one of his daughters. "Because he (Eric) is your loving dad who deserves your respect". Was mom on crack? I'll never understand a mom or a dad pushing their child to have a relationship with the other parent that gives that child nothing to work with. Op's sperm donor went and made it clear the do-over family takes all priority over his biological child. Why would you feel so comfortable pushing your child to build up their expectations and watch them get their hopes crushed. Someone said it's because op's mom hadn't let go of her feelings over her ex. I don't think that's a stretch from the truth. Also, the mom being like "You don't need therapy. Just talk to me or god". Wow. What a game changer. //sarcasm//
NTA, OPs biological is someone who wants kids but not teenage it's likely the other teenager is facing the same problem. Unfortunately, and sadly 3 years are left in their relationship OP will likely just have to bare it till then with zero improvement from biological. I doubt the biological will understand that when OP doesn't come over anymore. OPs use of child support in story may mean OPs starting to see that outside visits he is absent. High school counselor is a maybe for an outlet but likely can't do much other than recommend a possible counselor or report the biological for missing support, which by the sounds of it will do nothing but aggregate the what's left on until OP reaches 18. Good luck if you read this.
Such a heartfelt and emotional story. It's tough dealing with a parent who doesn't seem to prioritize you. I admire your strength and resilience, especially finding comfort and support from your stepdad. Keep focusing on your passions and dreams. You're not a jerk for feeling hurt and wanting better. Stay strong!
Deserves love and respect. Eric only deserves her love if he gives love to her too and he hasn't. She should take pictures of how she lives there and show her mom. Even if someone is your parent don't give them automatic respect if they have done everything to lose it. And OP mother needs to be more supportive of things. And who cares if her being adopted by her stepdad is a slap to the face for Eric. That guy hasn't acted like a father and maybe losing something would probably make him wake up and if not then he can just keep being an idiot. And talking to a therapist would help. Maybe the mother should see one too.
my life aint as f up as hers, but there were moments on which I felt she narrated my life LOL. Hope she becomes not only resilient, but also looks for a therapist help, cuz all she described may as well gift her some self-esteem , attachement and daddy issues.
5:03 I kinda relate to this part,my mum (when we were in a diff city) said to me to ask my dad to come with us to new city we go to,but then says she doesn’t want him to come,he ended up staying there..gosh
Best thing to do is try to get through to specifically the oldest stepsister and Alejandra. It's obvious that the sephora middle child and spoiled youngest kid won't listen or properly comprehend things, along with that, your mother won't listen, your father won't listen, and your stepfather you have trouble get alone time with.
At one point I waned to be a teacher when I was younger and one day my dad asked me what I wanted to be when grew up, and I told him that I wanted to be a teacher, and he got mad and told me that all teachers are bad and their all old people who hate their lives. That’s why my mom is my favorite…
The mom is sketchy, wont go after sperm donor in the courts, actively denies your feelings, are you sure your dad doesn’t want to adopt you? Or does she not want you to be adopted?
Euhm the only perspective we get from the step dad is through the mom and she might be lying or twisting his words Also mom is extremely suspicious and is as bad as dad trust me my mom is the same
So something i found alittle off about the story is the slight obsession with the child support coming from the op (who is a child at the moment). Its one thing if your mother wasnt able to support her and you but it doesnt sound like or it wasnt elaborated on that the mom and step father was going threw hard to times or struggling to make ends meet. It seems to more of a jealous thing that one family children were getting more lavious and expensive gift while he wasnt paying for her. It just seems to be an odd thing in the story. Its obvious the mother doesnt really care about it. I just dont know.
Anyone else getting "moody teenager" vibes from this post? Like OP is just exaggerating everything? Like, dad wants to call, text, wants her to visit even though it upsets his wife. OP wants to do stuff like when she was a kid? as a teenager? Sure, he doesn't pay child support and he could fix his shit but he is far from deadbeat. I think ALL teenagers grow distant from their parents, divorced or not. Teenagers dont go to the zoo every week with their parents and it seems OP it's twisting this into more drama than it is. Stepdad was wonderful all this time? But was never mentioned while throough around all the good things bio dad did? You hardly say anything positive about him but you want him to adopt you. You treat him like an escape and an afterthought.
I don’t see how op would know the child support arrangement. Mother doesn’t seem the type to discuss it with them, so for all we know he might be paying 🤷🏻♀️
Another case of oarents more engrossed in their personal.lives than their child. Pure and simple. As for the stepdad, he may not be an entirely bad guy but he hasn't really stepped up as a father should/would. In the end, all the adults provide just the minimum or maybe even just a token form of care and really nothing else. Poor daughter.
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What is mom so worried about the courts getting involved over? He owes back child support, that shit would instantly lose him any play he tries to make.
They probably made a custody agreement during the divorce and since she hasn’t been going over to her dads as often the past couple years, the dad could argue that he hasn’t paid child support because the mom “refused” to let him see his daughter even if it was the daughters choice to stop seeing him as often
@@abbypotato8165 she's 15. The court will allow her to decide who she can stay with and they will hear her out about the neglect from bio dad.
This argument alone can double the child support and let the mom have full custody.
The only way for him in this case to escape paying hefty amount of child support is if he gave up his parental rights.
Because she’s a piece of shit mom? I’m sorry, but I can’t not call her that after everything OP said. She’s a psycho religious mom who doesn’t care enough about her kid to realize she’s suffering
@@A-Lore6000 He can give up his parental rights but that does NOT release him from child support, just from the ability to be involved in his child's life unless the mother says ok.
@@abbypotato8165 That reasoning won't fly in court. He has to pay the support whether or not he sees Op.
“He deserves respect and love” my ass. This man has ditched his daughter and tossed her aside for his new family. Cheaters don’t care about anybody but themselves.
The mom is still obsessed with the “dad” and it’s disgusting because she’s still putting him above her daughter. If I was the OP I would ask the stepdad about the adoption thing because i feel like the mom is lying about that as well.
sue him for the child support.. i dont get what mom is worried about.. maybe hes not the Father, that would be a turn of events ha
Highly doubt that's the case, since he treated her like daughter up until he met his new family.
Even after OP turns 18 she can still sue the dad for unpaid child support, it doesnt go away. Thats the best thing she could do she should collect evidence of the dad buying the step kids and half sister stuff and screenshots and recordings. I do wonder how well of the dad is tho, the more well off the better it could be for OP.
@@dikshithaariyawansa1299Most people would be surprised by how many credit cards one can max out and how many loans and mortgages one can take.
Omg, the nursing home for both the mom and dad abt to be lit
Ikr lets get those preparations ready🙃
Massive props to stepdad for trying to do what's best for OP when everyone else seems far more focused on themselves.
Hope their relationship continues to develope
Question why aren’t you asking him yourself? Your mom could just be telling you that your stepdad doesn’t want to adopt you because she actually doesn’t want him to.
I know this sounds juvenile, but I got ticked off as soon as OP mentioned the younger stepsister commandeering 2 drawers of their 3 drawer unit for her toys. That already told me enough about 'dad'. Too busy trying to please his new family. Not on at all.
"You know I love you, right"
"No, no I don't."
Period
Lol id be low contact with all of these awful people.
She's 15, she doesn't really have that option. She can block her dad but that is about it.
@@mikeconnors9287 just predicting the future, homie lol
I understand how u feel. It's almost like no one wants u. Ur dad and ur step dad won't adopt you. And ur mom is just absent.like she floating through life
I'd say get a lawyer for the unpaid child support
Same here. And better yet, OP should ask her stepdad to adopt her, because he not only has his head on straight, but also has his heart in the right place.
Mom is lying once again/some more; the stepdad isn't the one who doesn't want the daughter adopted by him.
That 200$ and 'buy something for yourself'.... just ugh....
The Op Should really talk to op stepdad cause it seems like the stepdad would actually care
I agree with you 💯%.
I would have just dedicated the book to step dad and I am so angry she didnt just say "I love Step Dad more than you."
Her dad is SLUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT
Erm actually the correct term would be "f**kboy"
Op's dad was really out there saying "you're not allowed to replace me. I'm the only one that's allowed to move on and come back for you when it's convenient for me so I can keep up appearances I'm not a deadbeat." 💀
Op's mom isn't any better either. This felt so disrespectful to op's stepdad who actually treats op like one of his daughters. "Because he (Eric) is your loving dad who deserves your respect". Was mom on crack?
I'll never understand a mom or a dad pushing their child to have a relationship with the other parent that gives that child nothing to work with. Op's sperm donor went and made it clear the do-over family takes all priority over his biological child. Why would you feel so comfortable pushing your child to build up their expectations and watch them get their hopes crushed.
Someone said it's because op's mom hadn't let go of her feelings over her ex. I don't think that's a stretch from the truth. Also, the mom being like "You don't need therapy. Just talk to me or god". Wow. What a game changer. //sarcasm//
NTA Obviously. When you get married, you know who you want to walk you down the aisle.
NTA, OPs biological is someone who wants kids but not teenage it's likely the other teenager is facing the same problem. Unfortunately, and sadly 3 years are left in their relationship OP will likely just have to bare it till then with zero improvement from biological. I doubt the biological will understand that when OP doesn't come over anymore. OPs use of child support in story may mean OPs starting to see that outside visits he is absent. High school counselor is a maybe for an outlet but likely can't do much other than recommend a possible counselor or report the biological for missing support, which by the sounds of it will do nothing but aggregate the what's left on until OP reaches 18. Good luck if you read this.
Such a heartfelt and emotional story. It's tough dealing with a parent who doesn't seem to prioritize you. I admire your strength and resilience, especially finding comfort and support from your stepdad. Keep focusing on your passions and dreams. You're not a jerk for feeling hurt and wanting better. Stay strong!
Deserves love and respect. Eric only deserves her love if he gives love to her too and he hasn't. She should take pictures of how she lives there and show her mom. Even if someone is your parent don't give them automatic respect if they have done everything to lose it. And OP mother needs to be more supportive of things. And who cares if her being adopted by her stepdad is a slap to the face for Eric. That guy hasn't acted like a father and maybe losing something would probably make him wake up and if not then he can just keep being an idiot. And talking to a therapist would help. Maybe the mother should see one too.
Actions speak louder than words.The bio dad is in denial
These two care more about a deadbeat than the well-being of a child
Props to the op for writing 2 books and writing a third one at 15
Nursing home bout to have lots of dramas with the mom and dad in there soon.
The "Hello!" Was so out of nowhere 😂😂😂😂 I can't stop laughing 😂😂😂😂😂
This ai voice just makes this story so much better.
"HELLO!" 😂
my life aint as f up as hers, but there were moments on which I felt she narrated my life LOL. Hope she becomes not only resilient, but also looks for a therapist help, cuz all she described may as well gift her some self-esteem , attachement and daddy issues.
Ask your stepdad himself. Quit using your Mom as a go between.
Damn dude, situation sucks.
5:03 I kinda relate to this part,my mum (when we were in a diff city) said to me to ask my dad to come with us to new city we go to,but then says she doesn’t want him to come,he ended up staying there..gosh
Cheaters are filthy
Best thing to do is try to get through to specifically the oldest stepsister and Alejandra. It's obvious that the sephora middle child and spoiled youngest kid won't listen or properly comprehend things, along with that, your mother won't listen, your father won't listen, and your stepfather you have trouble get alone time with.
Op’s lucky you had that stress at 15 and not 8 like I did TwT
Once you turn 18 and graduate from high school, pack everything you have and move on.
At one point I waned to be a teacher when I was younger and one day my dad asked me what I wanted to be when grew up, and I told him that I wanted to be a teacher, and he got mad and told me that all teachers are bad and their all old people who hate their lives. That’s why my mom is my favorite…
I know how you feel. I haven't seen my dad in 7 years and only talk on holiday and my birthday
Reminds me of my aunt, the relation is no longer what it used to be. But we still do meet from time to time. Move on and adapt.
At first I thought they were like my dad. No, they're better.
Do you know where I can get the books?
Could you link the post op made, id like to read it in my spare time and maybe reach out as this is a issue i also have and am having
Every adult in her life failed her
Omg, this poor child is surrounded by idiots! The mom is no better than the dad, the dad is a jerk.
am i the only one who chuckled when the AI said the word upda-tee?
The mom is sketchy, wont go after sperm donor in the courts, actively denies your feelings, are you sure your dad doesn’t want to adopt you? Or does she not want you to be adopted?
Whoever owns that tooth brush ( 9:39 ) must be going through it.
The title is a lie she NEVER TOLD HIM
NTA GET a job 😊be prepared for new life with out your dead bet beo father
9:32 instead of updated said up daddy😂😂
I wonder what type of books op writes
Both parents are awful
3:56 HELLO!
Euhm the only perspective we get from the step dad is through the mom and she might be lying or twisting his words
Also mom is extremely suspicious and is as bad as dad trust me my mom is the same
She made and published books at 15
Took 10 minutes to get to the root of the issue but once it did it all makes sense
It usually winds up being old people beliefs or some overly religious nonsense that people ignore how the kids feel
*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!*
*7!*
NTA please no contact to hem .please 😄
10:27 fake a suicide, leave a note that says i prayed God and nothing happend expect he wished me to die :3
anyone know if there is a part 2 to thi video
Yiyipee
this is rage bait
So something i found alittle off about the story is the slight obsession with the child support coming from the op (who is a child at the moment). Its one thing if your mother wasnt able to support her and you but it doesnt sound like or it wasnt elaborated on that the mom and step father was going threw hard to times or struggling to make ends meet. It seems to more of a jealous thing that one family children were getting more lavious and expensive gift while he wasnt paying for her. It just seems to be an odd thing in the story. Its obvious the mother doesnt really care about it. I just dont know.
Anyone else getting "moody teenager" vibes from this post? Like OP is just exaggerating everything? Like, dad wants to call, text, wants her to visit even though it upsets his wife. OP wants to do stuff like when she was a kid? as a teenager? Sure, he doesn't pay child support and he could fix his shit but he is far from deadbeat. I think ALL teenagers grow distant from their parents, divorced or not. Teenagers dont go to the zoo every week with their parents and it seems OP it's twisting this into more drama than it is.
Stepdad was wonderful all this time? But was never mentioned while throough around all the good things bio dad did? You hardly say anything positive about him but you want him to adopt you. You treat him like an escape and an afterthought.
It does give that sorta vibe.
No.
I don’t see how op would know the child support arrangement. Mother doesn’t seem the type to discuss it with them, so for all we know he might be paying 🤷🏻♀️
The fuck do you mean he stopped paying child support????
Im sorry about how your dad has been treating you but id just like to know what are the names of the books you have written?
Another case of oarents more engrossed in their personal.lives than their child. Pure and simple. As for the stepdad, he may not be an entirely bad guy but he hasn't really stepped up as a father should/would. In the end, all the adults provide just the minimum or maybe even just a token form of care and really nothing else. Poor daughter.
"No, I don't know you love me. I'm not your daughter. I'm an unwanted houseguest."
She already has 2 books published at age 15? Sounds suspicious.