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  • @yahwehsbaby
    @yahwehsbaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4704

    The second she said she looks 20 I knew she was guilty. Anyone that can lie to herself like that is capable of anything.

    • @Hshjshshjsj72727
      @Hshjshshjsj72727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Lol!

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

      Right?! I had to rewind it to make sure I heard it right. Because I thought there’s no way she said that. I thought she must’ve said “I’ve been 20”

    • @dommiedarkoh8816
      @dommiedarkoh8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ohhhsnap17
      @ohhhsnap17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      🤣🤣🤣 truth 💯

    • @yashonnacaudy6838
      @yashonnacaudy6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lol right

  • @kl4856
    @kl4856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1577

    How the detective didn’t burst out laughing when she said she looked 20 is beyond me. I would’ve lost it. She looks 50 and she knows it.

    • @cynthiabelleman6497
      @cynthiabelleman6497 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Maybe 65

    • @cjvaye99
      @cjvaye99 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      totally delusions

    • @hymatwat9412
      @hymatwat9412 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I know 75 year olds better

    • @alexisjardine4930
      @alexisjardine4930 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Reasons why I can't be a detective. It's like I recently found out why I can't work in a fish market. I can’t stay serious. I see a gutted fish, my first thought is to make a puppet out of it. I head bs like this, I bust a gut laughing. I can’t do serious or professional lol

    • @afraidofbiscuits7259
      @afraidofbiscuits7259 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If i was the detective. I'd call for a break and laugh my ass out in the comfort room.

  • @kashmir1799
    @kashmir1799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5502

    yeah she looks 20.. 20 minutes from turning 60

  • @arunpp
    @arunpp ปีที่แล้ว +1283

    She said she looks 20, deserves extra 5 years for such falsehood

    • @DaisyMae3
      @DaisyMae3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m weak 😂😂

    • @comeaux_2x
      @comeaux_2x ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣

    • @jannenefothergill2711
      @jannenefothergill2711 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣

    • @NessieNice
      @NessieNice ปีที่แล้ว +6

      20 more years, my husband said

    • @fastfootedone
      @fastfootedone ปีที่แล้ว +13

      the wife looked almost 60 -- what the hell was the guy doing married to his "mother?" --- ended up being the first of many bad choices....

  • @susanprather5962
    @susanprather5962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4865

    When you resort to handcuffing your husband to the bed so he won't cheat, it's time to call it a day. 🙄

    • @katinasvenska
      @katinasvenska 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Foolish man

    • @ameliashostak4764
      @ameliashostak4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      AMEN!!!! ( i actually just made the same comment LOL!!)

    • @metalbarbie7226
      @metalbarbie7226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Ain't that the truth

    • @TracvM320
      @TracvM320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Yea... nothing says true love like a good forced handcuffing

    • @CaitlynAmanda
      @CaitlynAmanda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      FACTS

  • @hunterlacasse9923
    @hunterlacasse9923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1565

    “I look 20” shouldve arrested her right then and there for lying to a detective during an open investigation

    • @sabrinatscha2554
      @sabrinatscha2554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Best comment

    • @Hunter00717
      @Hunter00717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ErinJeanette
      @ErinJeanette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂

    • @robw2486
      @robw2486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm amazed somebody could be that delisional, she looks at least 45, and thats being generous.

    • @cassier3544
      @cassier3544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES!! That ridiculous lie was a straight up crime then like the first 10 seconds of her speaking 😂

  • @kialuvsyoo
    @kialuvsyoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2822

    Imagine fighting this hard, to the point of murder, all for a man who doesn't even want you.

    • @blaakcoffee
      @blaakcoffee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Exactly

    • @mrguy561
      @mrguy561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Unfortunately she made it up in her delusional mind that she couldn’t live without him instead of just cutting him loose. If she had been more rational, she would have said, “If you really want to be with her so badly then go-be with her.” Instead she turned into a possessive psycho (although I have my suspicions see always has been and that’s partly the reason Sidney cheating on her in the first place), and a girl is dead because of her.

    • @kaijuteeth
      @kaijuteeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@3alaiyer Tammy literally was obsessed with heather because of her husband no longer wanting the marriage. the husband was manipulated and a coward but literally tammy wanted to control him and keep him in her life. she literally did fight for him dude, she was obsessed with keeping him in her life that it drove her to stalking and murder.

    • @gwendolyn2442
      @gwendolyn2442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@kaijuteeth I feel bad for him tbh, he’s obviously a victim of domestic abuse and no one is acknowledging that because he’s a man.

    • @kaijuteeth
      @kaijuteeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@gwendolyn2442 big agree !!! like her husband had no reason to fight for her considering he was a victim of abuse and saw an affair as an out or something along those lines, hes not innocent but he DEFINITELY is a victim of abuse and it sucks no one is talking about it

  • @ryandunn5725
    @ryandunn5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1382

    “She doesn’t seem like the type to endlessly harass a young girl” are you kidding me? Look at her face 😂😂

    • @bluskyz7398
      @bluskyz7398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Right, she is exactly the type!

    • @southernsweettea3478
      @southernsweettea3478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bulldog face. Its the ugly ones that are psycho

    • @southernsweettea3478
      @southernsweettea3478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      *by ugly I mean inside and out. I've met beautiful people with horrible attitudes that turned them ugly.. .

    • @mdiddio
      @mdiddio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She's got those crazy eyes. Lol

    • @AidenLS
      @AidenLS ปีที่แล้ว +7

      thats what I said. ive seen people like her way too much but im hoping not all of them are stupid enough to murder or lie to themself so much that they say "i look 20" to someone when they look 60 + easily

  • @Caeljharden
    @Caeljharden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4594

    We all need a Briana in our lives. “Heather.. really girl... THAT’S what you wanna go after?”

    • @MINNIE-t3u
      @MINNIE-t3u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      YESSSSS I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS

    • @Dragonette666
      @Dragonette666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      yeah but we don't know what kind of losers Briana hooks up with. Maybe Heather's response was "hey at least this old man has a job".

    • @phookiephook1043
      @phookiephook1043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @@Dragonette666 lmfao???? She probably meant he was a middle aged man WHO WAS MARRIED WITH CHILDREN. Not worth any trouble. Also, a guy having a job doesn’t make him a good person. You can date a guy with no job and so long as he isn’t mistreating you or , you know, cheating on his wife and calling you worthless when trying to act like the innocent one who did nothing wrong.

    • @kimberlyarrington5721
      @kimberlyarrington5721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @V Toxica Or You life

    • @indiashante1560
      @indiashante1560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly what I was thinking.

  • @ivorlongshot
    @ivorlongshot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +602

    Here in the UK a recent change in the law says if you don't reveal where you've disposed of a body, you don't get out of jail.

    • @Realwaltersobchak
      @Realwaltersobchak ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Most convicted killers aren’t getting out regardless. That’s how it should work if they tell or not.

    • @NessieNice
      @NessieNice ปีที่แล้ว +15

      But they still maintained their innocence, revealing where the body was would be confession, no?

    • @ivorlongshot
      @ivorlongshot ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@NessieNice I think the choice is reveal the body and you get out after a life sentence, don't and you stay in jail.

    • @sabrinatscha2554
      @sabrinatscha2554 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      As much as I believe these people are guilty and that they should both get the chair, that is a very dangerous law to pass because it could just as easily end up putting somebody innocent behind bars.
      Everybody who always complains about the US legal system being too lenient, don’t understand that there is a good reason for it. That’s why here, no body=no sentence .

    • @auntyvenom133
      @auntyvenom133 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's a couple in California City, USA, that is being charged with the murders of 2 little boy's they adopted because nobody has seen them in over a year. There's no bodies, but there's definitely murder charges

  • @missmolino9786
    @missmolino9786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3292

    I feel like Heather taking that pregnancy test sealed her fate. Once they all saw it was positive all hell broke loose. All over a worthless guy who couldn't control his own life

    • @anthonydavenport513
      @anthonydavenport513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I so agree.

    • @looking4therealrepairmanjack
      @looking4therealrepairmanjack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      His own life or wife?

    • @cinnastag
      @cinnastag 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@looking4therealrepairmanjack "Happy wife, happy life" in his case: Wife = Life

    • @SmellMeCandle
      @SmellMeCandle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      I feel like his wife made him buy the pregnancy test. Kidnapped heather and made her take the test and when it said positive the wife lost her shit and killed her.

    • @cj6281
      @cj6281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      He couldn't control his wicked desires either.

  • @GhostofZae
    @GhostofZae ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Props to the detective that didn't burst out in laughter immediately when that old lady said she looks 20.

    • @ritawashere5787
      @ritawashere5787 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know right 😂 they said she's in her forties, she looks like she's in her upper 50s. She also said she's partied with a lot of bands. She looks used up.

    • @PlayingWithWilson
      @PlayingWithWilson ปีที่แล้ว

      Context of what else she said dude, she said I lived 20. Use your head dumby

    • @AidaShawJ.D.
      @AidaShawJ.D. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      “Old lady” 😂😂😂

  • @arka5557
    @arka5557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    if she look 20, I look 2.
    And "she doesn't look like someone who would harass somebody" ? Ahhh yes she does.

    • @ajhaley177
      @ajhaley177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      She looks EXACTLY like she would do it

    • @SugarGliderTribe
      @SugarGliderTribe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She looks crazy!

    • @Sparkles._.
      @Sparkles._. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel insulted that she thinks she looks as young as me (i turned 20 4 months ago)

    • @arka5557
      @arka5557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ajhaley177 exactly. Her look screams " I AM CRAZY"

    • @td7802
      @td7802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yaaass!! I said the same thing lol

  • @downrightannoying3922
    @downrightannoying3922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    "I don't care, he could sleep with 100 people and I wouldn't care"
    the 1,000s of texts that suggest she does, in fact, care: okay my turn

  • @TheMovieHero1
    @TheMovieHero1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1730

    Tammy: Look, I look 20
    Arrested Development Narrator: That wasn't true.

    • @brooklynrocks2396
      @brooklynrocks2396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Only when she looks in her magic mirror.

    • @kbautista6364
      @kbautista6364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      When she's been drinking

    • @kummakummakummakummakummac8606
      @kummakummakummakummakummac8606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      More like "Arrested Development Narrator - No 20 year old woman looks like that".

    • @jennyr776
      @jennyr776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She definitely don’t look 20 in no way

    • @jeannietarantola8173
      @jeannietarantola8173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@kbautista6364 when everyone's been drinking 😆

  • @dancergal17
    @dancergal17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    How that cop kept a straight face when this lady says "I look 20" is incredible.

  • @deedeewinfrey3181
    @deedeewinfrey3181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1014

    Note to the cheaters out there...if they do it with you then they'll do it to you.

    • @michellehoffman7158
      @michellehoffman7158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      100%

    • @yvonnegrassi2701
      @yvonnegrassi2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen

    • @nicole9387
      @nicole9387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The cheater will even admit to being unable to commit and said "I will just cheat on you too". People believe others when they show you who they are, the sick need help, not more sex and more children.

    • @kimberlyrose1467
      @kimberlyrose1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      YYYYYEEEEESSSS! And every time they get away with it!! .. they get better @ hiding in evidence..
      But this young girls need to be educated on abuse/red flags est... too many of them are disappearing😢

    • @nadirimyers6643
      @nadirimyers6643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      “How you get them is how you loose them” 💯

  • @sarahewson3607
    @sarahewson3607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    It’s NEVER worth fighting over a lover, ever. Have some dignity 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @simshaver
      @simshaver 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Witty Witty you are projecting. you don't know op personally and they didn't even mention any gendered terms. if someone cheats on you then they don't want you. if a woman is cheating on you, she doesn't want you. if a man is cheating on you, he doesn't want you.

    • @kaceycruz3870
      @kaceycruz3870 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s probably more of loving the drama than the lover to be fair. Look at him! That’s what I find in these cases where women are fighting over a guy. The guy is a loser but for some reason the women keep fighting instead of giving up. They’re hype up on the drama and Adrenalin of fighting

    • @sabrinatscha2554
      @sabrinatscha2554 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Let alone THAT dude… woof 🤢

  • @TheRealInky
    @TheRealInky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +962

    Never ever cheat... it destroys people. I know this personally, and also saw what it did to my dad too

    • @GabrielleHayes1921
      @GabrielleHayes1921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Agreed, and then people are upset that they're not trusted anymore, like why would you be? You absolutely destroyed someones trust in you by doing something so awful to them, trust can't just be refueled up like a car and everything be fine to drive again, once trust is broken there's nothing you can do to ever repair that, it's gone.

    • @blueeyes6852
      @blueeyes6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@GabrielleHayes1921 Ikr?!
      You can't unring that bell! 🛎

    • @GabrielleHayes1921
      @GabrielleHayes1921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @smelly Cat and even if it is, it still needs mowed

    • @sergeantpeppers8858
      @sergeantpeppers8858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      It's like living in a house your whole life. You love that house. Soooooo many memories. And then one day a tornado comes and just smashes it into a billion tiny pieces.
      You can rebuild, but in the back of mind, you know this new house isn't the house you grew up in. That house is gone. But every now and then, you find a piece of that house, maybe the doorframe where your parents marked your growth every year, and that tears open the wound again. The hurt never goes away. It just sleeps, and wakes up every so often to pee on you, again and again and again and again.
      That's what a cheating spouse does to the other person. My ex-wife cheated with several men while I worked night shift at a prison. But her lil nighttime romances came to an end when I got a position working day shift Monday through Friday.
      It has been over 20 years since then, but every day, at some point, I'll think about what happened in October of 1999.

    • @GabrielleHayes1921
      @GabrielleHayes1921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@sergeantpeppers8858 I'm fighting tears, that explains it so well and just as deep and emotional too.
      The place/person you once loved is gone, now there's still love but it's not the same, nothing will ever be the same. That literally just broke my heart and I'm so sorry for what you went through, no one should ever go through that

  • @morganbarfield108
    @morganbarfield108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    The fact that Morgan, heathers sister, was able to feel sadness for Sidney and Tammy’s kids, just shows how much compassion heather and her family have. I don’t tell bad for Sidney or Tammy, but my heart breaks for their children 💔

  • @OGXORIRI
    @OGXORIRI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    It’s crazy seeing someone you personally knew on a random TH-cam suggestion, especially a documentary about her disappearance. My heart drops every time I run across this. Myrtle Beach thanks you for this. ❤️ #justiceforheather

    • @Jesusismyrockandfortress
      @Jesusismyrockandfortress ปีที่แล้ว

      Did she always go after ugly men? It’s funny how women feel enlightened by not going after looks. It just makes you look like a ret**d not dating someone who you’re physically attracted to. She brought all of this on herself. She gets no sympathy from me.

    • @OGXORIRI
      @OGXORIRI ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Jesusismyrockandfortress the fact you think you’re relevant enough for your sympathy to matter is beyond me.

  • @susanprather5962
    @susanprather5962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1703

    She thinks she looks 20? Try 50.

    • @vidhye8604
      @vidhye8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Elijah Earl agreed😁

    • @Aaron_Hanson
      @Aaron_Hanson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Yeah... looks 20 years older than her actual age ffs....
      Ugly dragon troll she is 🤮

    • @lyssagee3464
      @lyssagee3464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Came here to say this 😂

    • @katetan5868
      @katetan5868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I thought I heard wrongly. 20??? Unbelievable how deluded she is!

    • @TracvM320
      @TracvM320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I’m 50- and there’s no delusions here- nothing on me would pass for 20 except my sense of humor 😂

  • @bbwjunkie8321
    @bbwjunkie8321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    I feel like he set that girl up for his wife to kill her because that was the only way the psycho was going to let it go

    • @DeanneCecelia
      @DeanneCecelia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If only he had of reported his wife Tammy for her over the top behaviours or something. Before it became out of hand .

    • @rebeccamarrujo3849
      @rebeccamarrujo3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I was thinking the exact same thing! She couldn't handle the fact that her husband was able to get someone as young and as beautiful as her and she couldn't let it go it drove her nuts knowing he could go back to her.

    • @rebeccamarrujo3849
      @rebeccamarrujo3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Melinda Bloomington8! truth!!! I always put myself in that other person's shoes and wonder how they'd feel and I couldn't help but to feel her wrath and jealousy towards that beautiful young girl... Sounds crazy right! But I'm not ...I swear!!! 😂

    • @stephaniedutcher934
      @stephaniedutcher934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Why don't we blame Tammy for her behavior. Yes he is just as at fault and should be charged accordingly. But this woman clearly abused him and controlled every aspect of this. If it was reversed and he did all this to Tammy y'all would be calling spousal abuse.

    • @Skin-deepInk
      @Skin-deepInk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rebeccamarrujo3849 no your crazy I swear

  • @sabrinastarks7868
    @sabrinastarks7868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I am of the mindset that Tammy said "I WAS twenty".... meaning when she was that age she was not as wild as Heather (said in an attempt to demonize the younger girl and make herself seem more "innocent and wholesome"). She was speaking very fast and I can understand how people can be mistaken but her saying she "looked" twenty makes absolutely NO sense in the context of the rest of her statement.

    • @Sniperboy5551
      @Sniperboy5551 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly

    • @gomezk1493
      @gomezk1493 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That makes sense

    • @Alexandria87
      @Alexandria87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah that's what I thought too

    • @user-bz6gh5ng2m
      @user-bz6gh5ng2m ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Really, there is no need to defend a murderer. Lol. Let us joke about her. Its cathartic.

    • @GitanaCubana32
      @GitanaCubana32 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow. I feel so dumb. This makes so much more sense.

  • @ameliashostak4764
    @ameliashostak4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2409

    UGH!!! this married couple looks more like a mother and son than a husband and wife....

    • @ginatorres677
      @ginatorres677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Seriously!🤣🙈🤣

    • @jasonchambers4495
      @jasonchambers4495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      So?

    • @tjeym8897
      @tjeym8897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      they look 5 maybe 10 years apart she's probably a heavy drinker or smoker reason why she looks kinda old

    • @PamelaH_HappyVibes
      @PamelaH_HappyVibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      In person Sidney doesn't look this young. When we were younger Tammy always looked older than us though. Tammy and I hung out and were friends in middle and high school. She had a wild side and we DID have wild friends but Tammy was usually the sweet, level headed one of our group. As we got older we also kept in touch through Facebook as our kids were growing.

    • @PamelaH_HappyVibes
      @PamelaH_HappyVibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@tjeym8897 - they both smoke but yes, she is a heavy smoker.

  • @irockgame1
    @irockgame1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    He bought the pregnancy test to lure her in for a meet up. Heather was frantically calling him because she wants to make sure they are still good to meet up for such an important conversation. She had no idea Tammy was with him. She shows up and is forced to take the pregnancy test in front of both of them and it comes out positive so Tammy loses her sh*t. Tammy killed Heather but Sidney was an accessory to the crime.

    • @star-burstq7n
      @star-burstq7n ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly to a T how I played it out in my head also

    • @acrock21
      @acrock21 ปีที่แล้ว

      i doubt she took that test... Tammy was forcing Sydney as her puppet. Tammy had threaten Heather's life so many times at that point. it was going to happen dispite any test. if you ask me i think both of them should be on death row.

    • @CALIGIRL702
      @CALIGIRL702 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!!!! I think if she wasn't pregnant, she would still be here today! Tammy was THAT jealous!!

    • @Leoprincess3038
      @Leoprincess3038 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@CALIGIRL702I doubt it....Tammy was obsessed with her and stalking her. younger, was younger, smart, beautiful. She still would have done it just to destroy her because she was jealous

    • @kelelee6504
      @kelelee6504 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s not an accessory give me a break he’s just guilty, if not more, even if he didn’t stab her or whatever… he is a POS biotch of a “man” … they’re both garbage

  • @tiffkungpoify
    @tiffkungpoify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +898

    Moral of this story make damn sure the person you are perusing is single with no doubt. Dont buy that open relationship crap.

    • @askingforafriend216
      @askingforafriend216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Yes, open or not, it never ends well...during the entire time, the POS husband, to me, is insinuating that he’s so hot, that poor Heather is obsessed and wants to be with him forever and he never lead her on...he’s ego was so big cuz these women are fighting over him. I’m sorry but I just don’t see it...Heather was younger than him and most women at that age are vulnerable and when a man married or has a partner, gives special attention, unfortunately fall for their BS. Such a sad story story. If Heather’s body is found, I hope both them pay hard for what they did! I wanna believe and pray she’ll be found alive, but my heart and circumstantial evidence points otherwise. Allegedly...I don’t want someone to come legally after me...

    • @askingforafriend216
      @askingforafriend216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @ Amelia Miller. I totally agree with you...it’s wrong. I had a single work friend that got involved with a married guy and it got ugly. It didn’t end in murder, but it was ugly. The married guys wife’s BFF was a cop and they both threatened and harassed her even after the affair was over. She didn’t wanna file a complaint with authorities because she was scared of them not believing her. None of us her friends knew she was “dating”, having this affair until the harassment was happening because she had to get work involved, she was afraid to go to work, leave her house. These relationships or affairs never end well and they’re wrong no matter what. Never mess with a married person or someone in a relationship. 100% agree with you.

    • @carlimcelrath1901
      @carlimcelrath1901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      she KNEW he was married and DIDN"T CARE

    • @kasumikat
      @kasumikat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yes i honestly dont get people who do open relationship or poly relationship, it just sounds so messy and complicated and one person always ends up getting less in the relationship

    • @thisisastoryaboutagirlname5109
      @thisisastoryaboutagirlname5109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @carli and I don’t either sweetie I’m coming after your man try me bitch you’ll be the heather in that situation. ;)

  • @melvill4185
    @melvill4185 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Just awful!! Poor Heather. The whole beginning of the “relationship” was a huge red flag.
    I was in a relationship 14yrs ago. He cheated on me and left with the other women. She would call me back to back all day. Send me messages, threatening me. Remember she was the other women. Finally they moved out of state. I’ve changed my number and moved. A few yrs ago she messaged me on fb asking if I’m talking to her man 🙄 I never responded and blocked her. Then a few wks ago she somehow got ahold of my Number and sent me a message about leaving her man alone 😑.. I thought I was done with them. I don’t understand why she is so paranoid and thinks I want him.

    • @star-burstq7n
      @star-burstq7n ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That's what she gets for dating a cheater

    • @jasongarcia2140
      @jasongarcia2140 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Give me her phone number if you have it so I can tell her to leave you alone!
      Seriously that kind of crazy needs to be checked.
      I am only half joking about phone #
      I know I know totally inappropriate.
      I just feel bad for people who get F*d with and are just minding their own business.

    • @blackviolet12232000
      @blackviolet12232000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      If years have passed and she’s still stalking you like that I hope we have cyber stalker restraining orders in tact someday.

    • @haleyisgreat9265
      @haleyisgreat9265 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You could try a restraining order..

    • @Yui789esss
      @Yui789esss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She was playing with fire and got burned

  • @olgreg94
    @olgreg94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    Tammy to me looks like the kind of woman who would harrass someone. I get a very dark scary feeling when I see her face.

    • @sqaushistarship2605
      @sqaushistarship2605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She did?..so yeah?

    • @olgreg94
      @olgreg94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The narrator refers to her as someone who doesn't look like a person who would harrass another? I don't know why you needed to go out of your way to comment that.. so yeah

    • @steveng1624
      @steveng1624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes she looks like the bully type

    • @tinotino4135
      @tinotino4135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed!

    • @katieanderson2027
      @katieanderson2027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tammy looks like my ex's mom

  • @drowning7532
    @drowning7532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1381

    I can see why Sydney cheated on his great grandma with Heather.

    • @PureNightmare
      @PureNightmare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      underrated comment

    • @TokyoXtreme
      @TokyoXtreme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Can’t stop thinking about “Throw Momma from the Train”.

    • @sapphiresanders3074
      @sapphiresanders3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ahahahahahah

    • @autumnhanda2001
      @autumnhanda2001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      A real man breaks up before he cheats.

    • @usernamesrlamo
      @usernamesrlamo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Then it isn’t cheating…and that’s what makes it so thrilling

  • @stephanieballard1748
    @stephanieballard1748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +949

    I can’t figure out why she was attracted to such a troll

    • @vintaqe_vibez5978
      @vintaqe_vibez5978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Gah, me too. She was a cute girl too! She could've gotten with a dude who doesn't look like he considers using baby wipes as taking a shower. Fck he's gross and toolish looking!

    • @deniserossiter1059
      @deniserossiter1059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I hear that!! He is DISGUSTING & he definitely looks like the type to bathe in the sink of a truck stop!!! His wife also looks more like his mom!!

    • @gabriellahcorleone132
      @gabriellahcorleone132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      If you ever find an answer to that please let me know. Because I don't see what she saw in him either. He's disgusting and nasty

    • @danielalvarenga3924
      @danielalvarenga3924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      (Older man) = possible sugar baby. That's why
      .. is it not obvious

    • @trippin916
      @trippin916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Come on....you know he was paying her. Remember her tweet, "baby did a bad thing..." SHe was a sugar baby.

  • @Incaseyouhaventheard
    @Incaseyouhaventheard ปีที่แล้ว +47

    It’s bizarre seeing this story since I had friends in this exact situation. Dude was refrigeration tech, he and his wife said they had an open marriage but he would always screw women without his wife knowing. He went as far as buying a burner phone. I eventually told his wife bc he involved me in his deception, which I warned him to never involve me. His wife divorced him just in time to find out one of his side girls was pregnant. Then he married the side chick just to do the same thing again to her. I stopped our friendship after that. At that time he had 4 kids with 3 ex wives that he doesn’t see. I always thought he was joking when he said “I want to repopulate the world.” Perhaps that was the only honest statement that ever came out of his mouth.

    • @regularguy2391
      @regularguy2391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If it was a open marriage then why the guy has to buy a burner phone, I thought open marriage is that both can screw anyone they like ?

    • @tdagbo
      @tdagbo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You did the right thing

    • @hbkhiram181
      @hbkhiram181 ปีที่แล้ว

      L friends

    • @jonstewart6860
      @jonstewart6860 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's fucked up. Told on him because he ''involved'' you, what a crap excuse. You sent the man's life into a spiral. No love for cheaters but certainly none for fire-seekers such as yourself.

    • @jasongarcia2140
      @jasongarcia2140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a nasty guy. Jeez.
      Repopulate, huh? I hope that he is at least a proper father.

  • @chynabarges3126
    @chynabarges3126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    Angry wife wanted heather gone permanently! I feel that the pregnancy test was bought and heather was forced to take it. She may have been killed because she was pregnant

    • @laurieparis2203
      @laurieparis2203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      My same thoughts. Heather told him she was pregnant that night, wife made him buy a test and when it was confirmed she went off like a firecracker. Just awful. 😕

    • @RebelKitty19
      @RebelKitty19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Peroid reminds me of a movie I've seen . With Patrick Stewart

    • @user-db6el7eb9p
      @user-db6el7eb9p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeees I thought the same

    • @deniserossiter1059
      @deniserossiter1059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@laurieparis2203 I agree. Sounds like PLENTY of motive for an unstable & insanely jealous woman like Tammy. Cheating was one betrayal but to then learn that Heather was pregnant, would definitely send that woman into a murderous rage.

    • @laurieparis2203
      @laurieparis2203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@deniserossiter1059 A pregnancy resulting from an affair changes the dynamics of the primary relationship inalterably. There's no coming back from bringing a new life into the world, it's a lifelong emotional and financial commitment. Tammy realized at that point, that Heather was never going to go away, that she was part of their life now. I sympathize with the pain, betrayal, impotence that Tammy felt, as I would hate to be put in that situation. Just not the steps she took to deal with it. Some pretty scary stuff! 😕

  • @natachalopez9693
    @natachalopez9693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    I just need them to tell us where her body is or what they did to her . This is crazy. Let this girl rest

    • @andreamariawicker223
      @andreamariawicker223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ♥️🙏

    • @prettytwistted9664
      @prettytwistted9664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@wolfensus what's funny?

    • @Alexz5040
      @Alexz5040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s probably in their yard by the fountain why else would you look through a mirror examining it

    • @Nick-kw9oz
      @Nick-kw9oz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Alexz5040 They probably washed there hands there or maybe looking for blood spatter. I highly doubt they buried her on there property. Maybe they washed the weapon off in the fountain, cleaned it and she checked it later? Said he had a truck? He could have easily transported a body in the back and cleaned it out afterwards. If my wife wanted to kill someone, id hand her ass over to the police. I cant understand why he did that for her?

    • @floramorgan6112
      @floramorgan6112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Alexz5040 but had the police really search their yard?

  • @debbiespence2121
    @debbiespence2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I am a true crime fanatic and I have seen a lot of YT channels cover the Heather Elvis case. Tons. HOWEVER, you gave some info that I haven't heard before and that is what keeps me coming back to you guys. You do your research and it shows. That makes me keep coming back to you guys. Excellent job once again. Thx for covering the true crime cases that you do. Everyone deserves to have their story heard.

  • @RandyHolidizzle
    @RandyHolidizzle ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I think the wildest twist to this story is that pay phones were still being used in 2014

    • @brosephbroman7564
      @brosephbroman7564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought that same thing lol. I haven't seen a pay phone in about a decade

    • @reidlos8084
      @reidlos8084 ปีที่แล้ว

      i went to basic training in 2013 and there were pay phones

    • @Georg3e
      @Georg3e ปีที่แล้ว

      They still have them now but some are more modern

    • @NessieNice
      @NessieNice ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brosephbroman7564 a decade is 2013, not far from '14

    • @brosephbroman7564
      @brosephbroman7564 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NessieNice 👍

  • @chenal7445
    @chenal7445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    20, ohhh someone's in denial big time 🤔

    • @d_nique
      @d_nique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She looks like 20+35 😂

    • @cmf4706
      @cmf4706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she was talkin past tense i dont like the bitch im js

    • @callianne666
      @callianne666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did I miss this? When did he say that? timestamp?

    • @d_nique
      @d_nique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@callianne666 she told the cops when she was being interrogated

    • @anttybea7839
      @anttybea7839 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Cat-ej6ji
    @Cat-ej6ji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Even Sidney's ponytail quickly left him

  • @shorty94ism
    @shorty94ism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    She was “ infatuated “ with THAT.
    *I don’t understand*

    • @breanntheartist1989
      @breanntheartist1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah. Gross! 🤢🤮

    • @RebeccaCoolidge
      @RebeccaCoolidge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      From her Twitter bio she's a Deadhead and that tends to be the type of guys they go after

    • @carrrie_lynnn
      @carrrie_lynnn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Child's brain

    • @Ambassador4Christ625
      @Ambassador4Christ625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right?!?

    • @holembac
      @holembac 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah she was infatuated with THAT THANG

  • @AUTISTICAQUARIUS
    @AUTISTICAQUARIUS ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Has people NEVERRRR heard of a block button??? I block ANYONE I protect my energy and if necessary I’ll change my number! I’m definitely NOT arguing with a 72 year old woman about her 64 year old husband 😂 And I’m definitely not involving myself with a married man! Even tho I know I can protect myself I’m still smart enough not to upset a woman that looks like she sprinkles Meth on her bagels in the morning 😂😭😂

    • @adriannroulhac576
      @adriannroulhac576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      On herrrr bagelssssssssss 🤭😮‍💨😭😭😭😭😭

    • @brittanychavez2766
      @brittanychavez2766 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is the best statement to live by.

  • @phookiephook1043
    @phookiephook1043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    “That girl is not normal” That sure is the pot calling the kettle black 😂 So tell me,Tammy--Would she be normal if she sent threatening texts and handcuffed her husband to a bed???

    • @cesarebachelli
      @cesarebachelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Don't forget forcing the tattoo of her name on his tummy

    • @mmven1101
      @mmven1101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You took the words out of my mouth

    • @TryAmazonPrimeToday
      @TryAmazonPrimeToday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      self projection

  • @qmnnvrdyz8965
    @qmnnvrdyz8965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    Getting involved with a person who's married is plain gross! Tammy obviously has some sort of fun-house mirrors, if she thinks she looks 20. I give the detective alot of credit for keeping a straight face. 😲

    • @madelainewinger7014
      @madelainewinger7014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Fun house mirrors! I spit my Cheerios!🤣

    • @veronicafox399
      @veronicafox399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Haaa!

    • @GradKat
      @GradKat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I’m 73 and I look a damn sight better than her.

    • @jaymiecanlas4995
      @jaymiecanlas4995 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      000@@GradKat

    • @birdie8006
      @birdie8006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Heather might've not made a great decision in joining this marriage more or less but she didn't know it wasn't monogamous. Please don't victim blame her and respect that she was a young woman with high emotions who maybe, just maybe, realized in a panic that she was pregnant with someone else's child.

  • @ciaravalenzuela2467
    @ciaravalenzuela2467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Ladies please hear these words... NO man is worth this! It does not matter who the man is, what he is to you or what you have with him. If he is unfaithful and is running on around on you let him go!!!! He is not worth it!

    • @SBecktacular
      @SBecktacular 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And also- if they cheat WITH you they’ll cheat ON you...
      Basically they’re a LIAR and have shaky morals/ethics....
      Quietly slip away and look for a good person or BE ALONE.

    • @nicolekaye1236
      @nicolekaye1236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep 👏

    • @kozma8362
      @kozma8362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And to the men, no woman is worth all this..

    • @MulaSaafChasers
      @MulaSaafChasers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All opinions.

    • @hipsterkennyrogers909
      @hipsterkennyrogers909 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a man, I approve of this message.

  • @dtree24
    @dtree24 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I really don't understand jurors sometimes. It's like, every little detail points toward foul play. That girl was harassed, lured, and murdered in cold blood. There are phone records, text messages, videos, and very non-consistent storylines by both of them. I just pray that Heather gets the justice she deserves and that the police find some groundbreaking evidence that will put these monsters behind bars for the rest of their lives. Rest easy princess.

    • @junemarshall-kingsley566
      @junemarshall-kingsley566 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The hold-outs were concerned because Sydney was a "father." Well, Heather was a daughter.

  • @MissHannah2036
    @MissHannah2036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    With all the speculation she may have been pregnant and the guy goes out and buys a pregnancy test at 3.00am in the morning in between calls to Heather. If that was the case this is motive for murder. She wasn't the cheater, the husband was. You're taking a huge risk sleeping with a married person as sadly these things happen and will continue too. I think they're both involved but that the wife was more of an instigator and had more involvement than the husband. I so hope they find more evidence on these people and keep them in jail for ever.

    • @debraborden3624
      @debraborden3624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She looks like something from tales of the crypt. .Aaaaa birth certificate please

    • @spookydeadite
      @spookydeadite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Basically all of then were morons , she knew he was married , didnt she ? She shouldn't never slept with that loser.... she def didn't deserve to be killed though.

    • @Alcoholpad
      @Alcoholpad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Idk why but when I worked as an overnight cashier a lot of people come in late looking for pregnancy test. They ask for the bathroom some come out crying

    • @af98
      @af98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The husband was the cheater but she didnt have to go for married man.

    • @sharkawakaorb9220
      @sharkawakaorb9220 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Alcoholpad sad

  • @debsmith5613
    @debsmith5613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I attended Tammy and Sidney's trials. There is video of everyone -Tammy, Sidney, Tammy's sister and her BF - not sure if the kids were around - detailing every inch of the car. After detailing it they threw the rags in a burn pile. There isn't any doubt for most that Heather was in their vehicle. Also, local speculation is that Tammy's father actually helped get rid of Heather's body. He died of a heart attack shortly after the kidnapping / murder. There is so much evidence that wasn't brought into the kidnapping trial but will be for a murder trial if / when Heather is found.

    • @debsmith5613
      @debsmith5613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@DubsTV93 She was looking to see if the detectives had left any bugging devices.

    • @happy_bubble7
      @happy_bubble7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@DubsTV93 looking for bugs from police seems unlikely to me, I would assume she was looking for blood splatter. At this point they were still cleaning up their mess and didnt have police looking at them until later.

    • @l-b284
      @l-b284 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      30:41 who's that? where did this take place?

    • @debsmith5613
      @debsmith5613 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@l-b284 Tammy's sister and it took place at Tammy's house.

  • @VickyRenee
    @VickyRenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +762

    Heather didn't realize what she was getting into, but I don't think you should blame her age for it. People make mistakes ALL the time no matter what age they are.
    Unfortunately she ran into the path of a psycho. Most people do NOT get killed over this.

    • @VickyRenee
      @VickyRenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@daphne4983 ??

    • @VickyRenee
      @VickyRenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@daphne4983 Ohhh LOL I'm sorry 😁

    • @madelineroberts4693
      @madelineroberts4693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Absolutely. No one deserves to have their life ended over these things. That man took advantage of both women and they were both naive and blind to fall for it, even though they were way different in age. Sometimes the only way to learn is through mistakes. It's a shame Heather didn't get to learn from it and grow. And a shame that Brianna never wanted to

    • @ddl4374
      @ddl4374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But enough do to factor that into your cost/benefit analysis !

    • @buddychubbs743
      @buddychubbs743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Something tells me you’re that “older” lady that is a side piece 😂 and will never learn and will make the same mistakes over and over

  • @astralwarlock
    @astralwarlock ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What an amazingly affective narrator. Blessed be, goodness what a voice, approach and ride on the story. Clearly a forensic files fan. You are so fantastic at what you do. This can't be learned or taught.

    • @SpaceJockey805
      @SpaceJockey805 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dude, it’s a text-to-voice generator. 🤦‍♂️

  • @rosellacobiskey2484
    @rosellacobiskey2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    I know this is trivial, but please note that unless special circumstances are explicitly stated, your boss cannot demand that you take a pregnancy test and actually can't ask you for the results of that test either.

    • @spiritwalker9903
      @spiritwalker9903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Her boss was her friend and mentor. I saw her testimony in all three trials. She had to order new bra sizes for her restaurant uniform. She knew that she was having an affair with Sydney and gained a lot of weight so she asked Heather if she wanted to take a pregnancy test. Heather took the test in the presence of Jessica at the restaurant. They both saw the results saying error..heather probably did not get enough urine directly on the test.

    • @AH-tu3km
      @AH-tu3km 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@spiritwalker9903 thank you, it sounded weird without context. I figured her boss was just close with her but I've never had a boss so involved with my life. Sad to hear the boss lost a friend. :(

    • @spiritwalker9903
      @spiritwalker9903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AH-tu3km it would have been extremely unethical huh?

    • @mamakitty6549
      @mamakitty6549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I legit thought this too lol

    • @rv292
      @rv292 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It was CLEARLY out of concern for her, just as the rest of her co-workers, they ALL could see that she was going downhill, while she kept denying. So if she was pregnant, THEY WOULD ALL take a deep breath.
      It looks like she was in fact pregnant, but instead of opening up to her work circle (who cared deeply about her), she used it as a weapon to get at that crazy woman and TWEETED IT instead. Which led to the man buying a pregnancy test and calling her to meet him. It was obviously a set up by the wife, but Heather thought the man was interested and just wanted to make sure she was ''really'' pregnant.

  • @TheSBTF2009
    @TheSBTF2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Tammy is the type to never tell where they put the body. She likes having that control in the situation and probably feels like she has a one up on the girl. I bet if this girl wasn’t so attractive, making her feel like she could actually lose him to her, it wouldn’t have gone that far.

  • @LittleBakedMedia
    @LittleBakedMedia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    If Tammy got an emotional reaction when seeing Heathers sister, is it possible somehow Lawyers/Law Enforcement could use Heathers sister to try and get a confession out of Tammy? If Tammy has an emotional reaction when just seeing Heathers sister it seems like that should be a point of interest?

  • @jennahyser7245
    @jennahyser7245 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I haven’t finished the video but I think they set a trap for her, him saying they were going to get back together and to meet up so they could kill her.

  • @madelainewinger7014
    @madelainewinger7014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    "I look 20..." no, no honey, you do not look 20, not even close. "I don't care if he sleeps with 100 people"...and she's calling Heather "not right". Dang....this is messed up.

  • @ameliashostak4764
    @ameliashostak4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Open marriage = Open cases!!!! remember that folks...

    • @csauzier
      @csauzier 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not open marriage was just for her to have boyfriends as soon as he found someone her jealousy got the best of her like a spoilt brat she can have everything he has to just be her puppet..boyfriends to make her feel better maybe so her delusional mind thinks she is 20 maybe...who knows what went on in her crazy mind..I think when she saw his text messages with heather she realised wasn't a sex thing that he prob really liked heather and was scared he would leave her...

    • @krystatinyy9652
      @krystatinyy9652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not... not always? Lol. I’m in an extremely open relationship with my girlfriend. We’re 100% honest with eachother. We see other people. We are incredibly happy together. Because we both have the same views and feelings about being in a relationship, and it’s what works for us. So yeah, it is possible. Lol. But he lied about his open marriage, which is super fucked up. This whole case is just a mess.

    • @samantham8696
      @samantham8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@krystatinyy9652 You aren’t in love with her then. Mostly just “friends with benefits”. One day (if you are even capable) you will fall in love and then the two of you will actually cherish each other. Hope you are practicing safe sex. This is so sad and degrading for the both of you.

    • @user-jc9mu1ek6f
      @user-jc9mu1ek6f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@samantham8696 Imagine being so arrogant you think you understand other people's emotions better than they do

    • @samantham8696
      @samantham8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@user-jc9mu1ek6f Imagine being so ignorant you don’t understand your own human nature.

  • @carolina0120
    @carolina0120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I'm from Myrtle Beach, South Carolina and this was a huge case!

    • @lyndamoong5142
      @lyndamoong5142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      stay safe

    • @_OHEN
      @_OHEN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Watching this now, crazy . So many mugshots ? Did they been arrested multiple times??

    • @carolina0120
      @carolina0120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@_OHEN Sidney had his trial and it came back as a hung jury. They had a retrial and he was ultimately convicted of 30 years. He is currently incarcerated at Lee Correctional Facility in South Carolina. This is a very notorious dangerous maximum security prison. There was a major prison riot there just a few years back. Numerous prisoners were murdered viciously. It is right where he deserves to be. Sidney's wife was bat shit crazy and she indeed would handcuff Sidney to the bed so he would not go cheat on her with Heather. Both Sidney and Tammy have never confessed or told where Heather's remains are. Her poor family deserves that closure!

    • @PrinceofDrill
      @PrinceofDrill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm had just moved out of the Carolina Forest area on River Oaks a few months before she disappeared. I have lived in Horry County for 23 years and have lived in and worked in Myrtle Beach. I remember when this was everywhere. I'm glad this case is getting the attention it deserves.

    • @marlataylor5435
      @marlataylor5435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I miss the beach. It's been too long.

  • @777hathor
    @777hathor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Sydney was a week man. He wanted Heather but was easily manipulated by his wife. Love at first sight is a power drug, you need a friend to investigate this new man. You should never get involved with a married man, it’s morally wrong. How many stories like this do you need to see. Stay save out there. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @worldofdaisy._
      @worldofdaisy._ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Weak

    • @ritawashere5787
      @ritawashere5787 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was weak , I wonder if Tammy wore the pants in that relationship? Heather was young, we don't know if maybe she would have learned from that mistake. Also, women that are pregnant and find themselves murdered, the father of the child is usually involved.

    • @jasongarcia2140
      @jasongarcia2140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude I'm not as old as Sydney and Heather (bless her poor sweet heart) looks so very young to me.
      I mean what in the actual F
      38 years old actually interested in a 20 year old EW!
      No disrespect only love for Heather.
      But EW EW GUYS CAN BE SO GROSS.

  • @RosesTeaAndASD
    @RosesTeaAndASD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    Please forgive the armchair detective work, but I just thought I'd give it a go.
    I believe Tammi read Heather's Tweets and completely lost her mind thinking Heather was pregnant.
    Judging by the fact that she feared losing her husband - and Heather having his child could make that a possibility - I believe she planned on forcing Heather to take the pregnancy test and when it came back as confirmed, she killed her.
    This would explain why he bought the pregnancy test and lured Heather out there with Tammi in the truck under the guise of re-uniting with Heather.
    Given that Tammi had already imprisoned her husband once before I would not be surprised if she had already planned out how to kidnap Heather.
    This would account for the short time frame the truck was out there: if Heather had been rendered unconscious by some means and kidnapped and taken elsewhere.
    I believe Tammi would have made Heather take the test, punished her the way she felt Heather deserved and then killed her and buried her in the unknown location.
    Sorry if that was very graphic or confusing.
    I'm autistic and I struggle with wording so I edited it a lot.

    • @erikapearl6946
      @erikapearl6946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      You did a great job explaining and I really like your thoughts.:)

    • @bree4807
      @bree4807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@chelleyd4020 the wood chipper??? That’s so frickin sad 😥

    • @kenmarelove9176
      @kenmarelove9176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You did a great job! 👍🏻💜

    • @madalice5134
      @madalice5134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good theory. It sounds like the most plausible course of events. This is a sad case. Unfortunately for her family, I don't think Heather will ever be found.

    • @bobmarley3957
      @bobmarley3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes and im sure her working at the same place as the husband did, while co-workers noticing she was getting heavier and associating it to being pregnant and already knew of the affair she was having.
      Would not suprise me if they talked about this at work, which eventually got back to the husband and wife, instigating the event you have already outlined

  • @jabellatv3240
    @jabellatv3240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I would never as a wife force my husband to stop cheating if that's what he chooses then he can count me out. Heather was definitely murdered by them and it's sad asf

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They did too obvious.

  • @tpenoel88
    @tpenoel88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    you should NEVER cheat in the first place

    • @DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA
      @DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @steven berthy, Understandably, but that's NO reason to kill someone. P.S. it takes 2 to tango....

    • @rogueann5821
      @rogueann5821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      He should not have your right , nor should he have lied. To both woman, no man is worth someone’s life.

    • @tiffkungpoify
      @tiffkungpoify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I swear I thought I was the only one thinking this. Cheating and betraying your spouses trust makes most people a special kind of crazy especially if your spouse knocks up the chick.

    • @TheDrakelicious
      @TheDrakelicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tiffkungpoify so, it would make you? Scarry

    • @melodytate4501
      @melodytate4501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      No you should never Cheat...But Tammy Took Her Anger Out on The Wrong Person...!

  • @hezsurnarcissus1460
    @hezsurnarcissus1460 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Terrible what happened to Heather, but I laughed out loud when he told the investigators that he and his dusty-uterused wife were trying for a baby.

  • @dreamsicle3113
    @dreamsicle3113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    Poor Heather, she never got a chance to truly live. And not to be cliche, but why him? Let this be a lesson to women to be more picky in choosing partners.

    • @kasumikat
      @kasumikat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      As someone still in their early 20s, this made me feel grateful that im still single and got time to pick the right person compare to a lot of people my age moving quickly in their relationship, experimenting with things and having kids

    • @melodiechartier5173
      @melodiechartier5173 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Teena Courtney attractive???

    • @ajay-naz6996
      @ajay-naz6996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Lesson to women? Me when looking at the character of Tammy as a wife I would also say lesson to men when choosing a wife.

    • @ISeeWhatYouDidThere
      @ISeeWhatYouDidThere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Heather made her own decision. She chose to endanger herself, and this is where it got her.

    • @wisdomseeker3362
      @wisdomseeker3362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ajay-naz6996
      As you _intelligently_ mentioned above, as just one lesson in choosing a wife, all men should pay careful attention and when coming across
      a woman matching anything close to _Tammy_ ....do this.....
      🏃‍♂️🏃🏻‍♂️🏃🏼‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️❗

  • @rhonda9250
    @rhonda9250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    My daughter worked with Heather. My son and daughter went to school with her and Heather came to my house to hang out. Sidney and Tammy lived literally a minute from me and Peachtree was also right by my house. Everyone has gone to the landing for everything from fishing, boating, kayaking or to just drink some beer, smoke some weed and stare at the water. The memorial shows just how loved Heather was. There is so much not said in this story and hopefully it will update. They both deserve to sit in jail. Tammy's mother was getting all sorts of harassment and Tammy's father died of a massive heart attack not long after Tammy went to jail. Some say her father also helped get rid of Heather's body. He had a yard work business and it's been speculated that Heather was put in the wood chipper and then she was spread all over the place from SC to Florida and California. A grown ass man and woman killing a child is just wrong.

    • @deniserossiter1059
      @deniserossiter1059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Wow!!! Well, whatever they did, they made sure she wasn't found. So it's reasonable to believe they had help. The video of them cleaning out their truck after her disappearance is also damning. And that bizarre video of Tammy w/ a mirror searching their property? Strange. His lies about buying a pregnancy test that very same night for his wife? Come on. That’s the motive. I hope Heather’s family can someday get the closure they need, though it will never bring her back. I can't imagine the pain they live with. It's such a sad story. Take care.

    • @tamatama5181
      @tamatama5181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That woodchipper thing sounds like a typical ridiculous internet myth but yeah they do deserve to be jailed for sure.

    • @ellamayoxoxo9510
      @ellamayoxoxo9510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg 😳

    • @candycanezz956
      @candycanezz956 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow

    • @CALIGIRL702
      @CALIGIRL702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I kinda thought they threw her in the water and gators got her :-( such a gorgeous girl

  • @mesmartgnome
    @mesmartgnome 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I’ve heard this story before but you guys bring much more detail than any other I’ve seen.

  • @ChaosDave2
    @ChaosDave2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Here’s something I’ve never understood. If a person finds out their significant other is cheating, why instantly get upset at the other person? They were probably lied to and manipulated just as much. There’s no reason to harass the other person unless the circumstances dictate it.

    • @junemarshall-kingsley566
      @junemarshall-kingsley566 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's like the Jerry Springer show, where the wife goes after the girlfriend while the husband stands by, watching them fight over him. And usually he is nothing to fight for or over.

  • @KJandtheGemsMom
    @KJandtheGemsMom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Woah. I can’t believe this story made this page. Thank you for sharing! I went to school with heather. We weren’t “friends” but we knew each other and said hi every now and again. We’re still friends on Facebook today! I remember the day she went missing... my Facebook feed blew up. I didn’t want to believe it. This story has been playing out for years. They still do trials for Tammy & Sydney often. Those people live 5 minutes up the road from me. It’s just crazy that something so close to home goes viral like this. It’s very upsetting, the entire situation. Hopefully she’ll get justice soon. A piece of me believes or hopes she’s still alive somewhere.

  • @chrispalm5455
    @chrispalm5455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    40 year old who looks 60 :
    "I look 20."
    Me:
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cadeem88
      @cadeem88 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @sharonlefebvre7292
    @sharonlefebvre7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    You can see the lies, deceit and guilt in both of their eyes! They killed this girl.

  • @kristinekoski7345
    @kristinekoski7345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love your voice!
    and ,,
    I LOVE your sarcastic tone , as you narrate ,
    especially when you , mimic read text messages ect !
    You are totally awesome at what you do,,
    Even though , your show is only your voice with clips of cases ,,
    That's all it takes ,,
    You have so much personality in just your voice with much expression !
    ,,"Sensational"!

  • @Vnnvbel
    @Vnnvbel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    "I look 20" says the gremlin.
    Also
    "We have an open marriage" and then proceeded to harass her husbands girlfriend and talks about how he cheated?? Like what.

    • @uttersolitude
      @uttersolitude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this right here. Yet there's way too many people in these comments blaming the murder victim. As if married men don't prey on young women on purpose, as if they make it clear that they're married and never lie about that. This dude told her he was in an open marriage, she's not at fault for continuing it.
      People need to start finally blaming the person who did the crime, not the victim. The "don't fuck married men, hyuck!" comments are not the wise wisdom dumbass people think it is.

    • @AVMermaid
      @AVMermaid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nooo, don’t insult Gremlins! Lol 😆

    • @les_5184
      @les_5184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "says the gremlin" has me DYING 😂

    • @loobell3236
      @loobell3236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@uttersolitude I think they got wind somehow that Heather may be pregnant, I think that is why he called her and said he wanted to work things out, then invited her to meet him, went back to his place, took the test, prob positive, Heather got her head smashed near on t1he statue, which is why Tammy was searching for blood there.Then they buried her somewhere. RIP Heather

    • @breanntheartist1989
      @breanntheartist1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tammy looks like she speaks fluent cave troll

  • @kaileyselin8453
    @kaileyselin8453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I’ve seen this story on so many channels on TH-cam from That Chapter to Trace Evidence Podcast and that couple is guilty as sin. For such a beautiful girl it’s a shame she fell for such a deadbeat. She didn’t deserve to die. 💔

    • @david8962
      @david8962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I love "that chapter" so much...

    • @Cat-ej6ji
      @Cat-ej6ji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@david8962 Agree, I'm a Mike groupie too. 🤳

    • @vanessagallegos2003
      @vanessagallegos2003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well if she knew he was married then yeah

    • @madalice5134
      @madalice5134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@TheDramacist That's messed up. She bought into the "open relationship" bs that a lot of cheaters like to use. She was young, naive and made a bad decision. She didn't deserve to be harassed and murdered because of it.

    • @Jessicaro
      @Jessicaro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@TheDramacist really? did you not hear where they said they had an open relationship?
      where he told her his wife didn't care.
      so you think killing her is the answer?

  • @yannadiamond2420
    @yannadiamond2420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I grew up in SC seeing signs everywhere about this case turns out Heather actually lived right up the road from me. Very sad story ☹️

  • @prettybrowneyez3338
    @prettybrowneyez3338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Correction: Tammy, when interrogated by the police, said that she "was (as in, used to be) 20 yrs old". Not that she "looks" 20.... The narrator, unfortunately, stated it wrong.

  • @kiram.3256
    @kiram.3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Tammy claims that she has no love for her husband after finding out he cheated, yet she hand cuffs him to the bed, followed him to and from work and takes his phone. A rational person would let their cheating husband dig his own grave and divorce him, if truly there was no love.

    • @Alcoholpad
      @Alcoholpad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Obsession

    • @amandaschmucker2787
      @amandaschmucker2787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If there's another woman and my husband would rather have her than me, he's all hers!

  • @TaraDactyl83
    @TaraDactyl83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    19:30 * " I couldn't care less." Everyone always saying " I could care less", implying you do care to some extent.

    • @deniserossiter1059
      @deniserossiter1059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, that was the dumbest thing she could've said to a detective. Especially w/ her text history. Did she think they really wouldn't dive any deeper & find out the truth?

    • @ashdixon945
      @ashdixon945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes! It irks me when people use that sentence incorrectly.

    • @leanie9660
      @leanie9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashdixon945 yes...it's one of those annoying "quirky expressions". Ugh

    • @TaraDactyl83
      @TaraDactyl83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chrisw6164 I couldn’t agree that’s true, it’s just they couldn’t care less.

    • @Blech-h9z
      @Blech-h9z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. It drives me nuts. That and irregardless.

  • @WholesaleTurbos
    @WholesaleTurbos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I believe tammy misspoke or the recording isnt clear enough. She said straight after that "she wasnt that kind of girl" and "I had friends". Both of these are past tense references

    • @helenafrozze
      @helenafrozze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I think she said I've looked 20..

  • @DiaryOfALesbianGamer
    @DiaryOfALesbianGamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This could have been prevented if people would just freaking split the hell up if you don't trust your partner. Also don't cheat on your partner or jump into a relationship with someone that's with someone. It never ends well.

    • @mandarina4157
      @mandarina4157 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The woman doesn’t seem sane enough to just split. This goes behind a cheating husband and a mad wife. She’s an obsessive psycho and someone else in her life would’ve ended up dead sooner or later if it hadn’t been Heather.

    • @mandarina4157
      @mandarina4157 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *goes BEYOND

  • @cleanserene6330
    @cleanserene6330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    So his alibi is: he and his wife were together the whole time, first at home, being intimate, she's drinking wine, then they go to one gas station where he gets gas, a second gas station where he parks across the street so Tammy can't see him go use the payphone to call Heather, who hasn't been harassing him, to tell her to stop harassing him, she just thinks he's going in the store for something, then he goes to another store for a home pregnancy test, because they want to have a baby, nvmnd she's in her 40's, drinking wine, toxic marriage, then they go home to be intimate again, all at 3am...sounds legit

  • @Astrocam88
    @Astrocam88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Maybe Tammy had Sidney lure Heather into meeting him at the landing (by telling her he wanted to get back with her), then he invited her into his vehicle where she left her car behind. He took Heather to his and Tammy's home and they killed her in their yard near the fountain and Tammy was inspecting it to be sure there were no blood stains? Then they took Heather's body into their truck and dumped her somewhere. It seems odd that they would kill someone in their yard though, I just don't understand why Tammy would be inspecting the fountain so closely unless she was worried there might be evidence on it.

    • @Michellee970
      @Michellee970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ithink that's exactly what happened! Think about it, as a young woman, pregnant with his baby, and he calls saying, "let's be together." The calls line up with her car being how it was found. I think she went there, got into his truck, he drove her to his house, the crazy wife attacked... But pretty much the same as you. 🙃

    • @Michellee970
      @Michellee970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dot Matrix True 👍

    • @Astrocam88
      @Astrocam88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @G VC Yeah, that is a possibility as well.

    • @Michellee970
      @Michellee970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @G VC Ohhh snap... You're right!

  • @SweetTater
    @SweetTater 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a local tragedy that begun shortly after I moved to the area. I never knew Heather or the family, although I did meet the father, Terry. There were no words to say to soothe his pain, which is quite understandable. A 20 year old woman looking to embark on a career, meet a man to fall in love with and have her happily ever after, was just a youthful fantasy. The crazy woman was Tammy, who admitted in one of her writings that she used to sleep with rock stars when they toured. She lies like Amber Heard and I'm so happy she's not there to raise her children, so they have a chance at life. This is an all around tragedy for this beautiful family. I pray for the Elvis family every day.

  • @clemintide
    @clemintide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    i’m a little surprised the young girl didn’t block this woman’s number after having been sent home for receiving so many calls during work or contact police

    • @oicuff1635
      @oicuff1635 ปีที่แล้ว

      She shouldn't have to do that. She also was a very young girl. Sometimes People cannot think of things that may be obvious to others.

  • @TheGreekGoddess369
    @TheGreekGoddess369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    U should never cheat ever if your not happy with your other half then bloody live go get lost . Don't f around with others when your married that's just wrong I hate cheaters there the worst

  • @sunflowersntee
    @sunflowersntee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Definitely doesn't look 20 but sure does favor chucky 😂

    • @perrydowd9285
      @perrydowd9285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG I couldn't work out who she reminds me of til I read that.🤭

    • @mkervelegan
      @mkervelegan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not even Bride of Chucky?

    • @OanhSchlesinger
      @OanhSchlesinger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chucky, your friend till the end? Nah, he looks better.

  • @erincogan1
    @erincogan1 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I went to school with Heather Elvis and was in class with her brother. She was a very sweet girl, and this murder shocked our community. I'll never know why she was messing around with Sidney Moorer. I remember different people trying to get arrested when Tammy was in jail so they could maybe have an opportunity to put hands on her. Tammy is a complete psychopath. I remember when Heather posted on FB "Yea, I'm a homewrecker as in I will literally swing a wrecking ball through your home." I was about to reach out, but I assumed it was just a funny post. It's still so crazy to me. Glad EWU covered this.

  • @davidmcmanus4751
    @davidmcmanus4751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have zero doubts that Sidney was manipulated into luring Heather to the docks. I mean, he did allow himself to be manipulated to put that mad-woman's name on his stomach. He shouldn't get any less time, or rather, death penalty than his crazy wife.

  • @IamwhoIam79
    @IamwhoIam79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I doubt she looked 20 when she was actually 20!!!! These people are guilty as sin and should rot in jail! He went after a younger girl and toyed with her head and wifey was angry!!!

    • @dzenitacuric2777
      @dzenitacuric2777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA

    • @ddl4374
      @ddl4374 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably the girl toyed with the head of a weak man with a mad mate but you don't kill a KITTEN for being frisky and playful unless youre evillll and need to pay. !

  • @josephdillard9907
    @josephdillard9907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I'm 40 years old, and if there's one thing I've learned over the course of my life, it's that the whole "open relationship" thing is a complete goddamn lie. It doesn't work, even if the people involved truly believe in it, it always falls apart or leads to some heavy conflict and drama, and people should stay away from anyone who claims to be in one.

    • @prettybrowneyez3338
      @prettybrowneyez3338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Agreed! But in this case, I don't think these people had an open relationship to begin with. Sydney lied to Heather about it to get in her pants. And Tammy lied to the police about it, thinking they wouldn't be investigated. She was wrong.

    • @Pandidolod
      @Pandidolod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol where did you get your relationship counseling certification? Or is it a PhD in psychology?

    • @MidnightSonnet
      @MidnightSonnet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My fiance's brother is in an open relationship with his wife and girlfriend. Apparently their marriage wasn't going so well, so they went to couples counseling. He opened up about wanting an open marriage, to which his wife agreed to make him happy. Apparently it's actually improved the marriage. I met his girlfriend, who is really smart and sweet. If it works for them, more power to them. I'm not one to judge. I could never do it, but I know some people enjoy being poly, which is fine.

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MidnightSonnet it's like roommates with side kick I guess

  • @vannalikehannah6776
    @vannalikehannah6776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Life has been hard on Tammy. It shows all over her face. She was desperate not to lose what she thought was hers. Neither men nor women are possessions.
    Innocence can end your life before you begin. Sorry Heather. Should have never ventured into the lives of deranged ppl.
    All for nothing, little love.
    You made a big mistake.
    And with your toe in the water they pulled you under. RIP.

  • @13ird
    @13ird 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    & that’s why I love your channel ! Closed captioning already! ❤️🥰 thanks for listening & interacting w/ your subscribers. It means the world to me. Thank you again! 🤙🏽❤️

  • @Tiniestmoon
    @Tiniestmoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I dont understand why people cheat just leave ur couple . and then go with the other person u like without hurting anybody

    • @sergeantpeppers8858
      @sergeantpeppers8858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It would still hurt, just not as bad as getting your heart completely ripped out of your body and then thrown away like a piece of trash. I have first hand knowledge of that feeling.

    • @Directory1
      @Directory1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stockholm syndrome .

    • @tarantellalarouge7632
      @tarantellalarouge7632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      jealousy is such a powerful feeling, a lot of crimes had been committed about that !

    • @normanthomas9065
      @normanthomas9065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its not that easy.

    • @Kuwkay
      @Kuwkay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cuz they’re selfish and want both

  • @daisylounoquera2972
    @daisylounoquera2972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Cheaters this days🤦🤦 i don't know why they need to cheat. Why not end the relationship before having another relationship to avoid hurting someones feeling. There's just so many evil lurking the world this days. Tempting those people who has a little of Gods faith.

    • @Cat-ej6ji
      @Cat-ej6ji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MatanuskaHIGH yum, cake

    • @TheDrakelicious
      @TheDrakelicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So, you think if he told Tammy that he did not love her, this would not hurt her feelings? Crazy insecure mediocre possesive people always react badly. They can't take a no. They can't take the truth. Their reactions are so over exagerated many choose to lie to them. How sad to be thus pathetic.

    • @TheDrakelicious
      @TheDrakelicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So, you think if he told Tammy that he did not love her, this would not hurt her feelings? Crazy insecure mediocre possesive people always react badly. They can't take a no. They can take the truth. Their reactions are so over exagerated many choose to lie to them. How sad to be thus pathetic.

    • @debbierae9683
      @debbierae9683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My kids dad cheated on me for 13 years with a prostitute. He made up lies about me in court to take my kids as I was taken off my mother as a baby and she went jail for gbh to me I was adopted eventually but me and my brother were messed up because of what happened. I went through a bad time and took drugs but got clean when pregnant but as he was a police informant and had no police record but I did he won. I am in pain every day as because I wouldn’t get back with him he beat me in front of my 6 year old boy. He locked me in so only way out was window. He pushed me and I broke both bones in my leg and my ankle was smashed to pieces. I have a metal frame on my leg now. That prostitute janine sallis has text me telling me to leave etc that her and my kids dad were going to be together. I don’t understand why people cheat. I have left my kids dad and they are both to blame when they both know the situation. I hate cheats. If a guy cheats leave as he won’t stop or change. If he loved you he wouldn’t do it.

    • @nohomo4774
      @nohomo4774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not Christian for a married father to divorce his wife to pursue a young woman.
      - The children need a father
      - The wife needs a husband
      - The young woman should pursue a man within her age range so that she can spend as much of her time with him, and so can her children (if an old man with children of his own wants more children in the first place)
      Seemed like the husband couldn't stand up for himself, which left a power vacuum that Tammy had to fill in her own way.

  • @laceyhogue
    @laceyhogue ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Its Always 3am. Always. My mom always said nothing good ever happens that late

  • @TheLike_Button
    @TheLike_Button 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    So why didn’t heather just block Tammy? Get a new phone number, never talk to Sidney. Problem solved

    • @RosesTeaAndASD
      @RosesTeaAndASD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      She probably just thought that this was no big deal, her and Sidney were in love and THEY were going to be an exclusive couple and that Tammi would stop being a crazy ex after awhile and go away eventually.
      When you're young and naive you can get blinded by love and miss the obvious red flags.
      (Older people too obviously, but most of us have the "dumb relationship regret" moment when we're younger)

    • @icyflame2564
      @icyflame2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Do u Really think it’s that easy? Omg 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @icyflame2564
      @icyflame2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Crazy is CRAZY. Tammy STILL would have came for her. She would find her follow her stalk her

    • @marietaylor9032
      @marietaylor9032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I tried blocking a guy yesterday. Says he’s block but I’m still getting his texts.

    • @northernstar5339
      @northernstar5339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sad story. Poor girl probably was caught up in emotions and believed everything sidney told her

  • @candyrain09able
    @candyrain09able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    The wife is disgusting. Handle it like a real woman and just leave him for cheating. I pray Heather is in heaven just soaring with wings. Happy as ever. And that God will bless her family with the discovery of her body and that Gods Peace surrounds them. So tragic and very unnecessary of this grown woman 💔.

    • @ginomartell4237
      @ginomartell4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@evilangel2918 Aaahh here we go with the praying shit...

    • @cesarebachelli
      @cesarebachelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@ginomartell4237 let people be. Their intention is kindness and empathy. Don't make us, agnostic or atheist, look like an arrogant douche by mocking how others handle their sadness. When people pray, that's how they cope. It won't hurt other people. Be humble, and understanding

    • @ginomartell4237
      @ginomartell4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cesarebachelli Yeah I'll let people be delusional.

    • @cesarebachelli
      @cesarebachelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ginomartell4237 don't be arrogant, and act like we are above others just because we are atheists.

    • @ginomartell4237
      @ginomartell4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cesarebachelli If you think stating facts is arrogance then that's your problem. Don't act like a pansy.

  • @leonweskeradac8239
    @leonweskeradac8239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Everyone here saying, getting a divorce would've avoid this but considering how crazy the wife is, it wouldn't made a difference. Also why such a beautiful women went after him? Both women baffled me

    • @carlimcelrath1901
      @carlimcelrath1901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      becasue that's what home-wrecking whores do they don't care

    • @winter550
      @winter550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Money

    • @TheLike_Button
      @TheLike_Button 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Teena Courtney meh, that’s kinda how I would want a woman to act if their “faithful” husband was having an affair. Women gotta protect what’s theirs. The abuse is a bit much though

    • @jennifermalone7481
      @jennifermalone7481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Teena Courtney you look like trash . Let me guess you can’t find a man and no one wants you

    • @KatMoleZA
      @KatMoleZA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@carlimcelrath1901 Heather was NOT married, Sydney was. Why do women get called home wrecking hoes? I just don't get it? Men get away with worst behaviour, NO CONSEQUENCES! Wtf?

  • @kerrieleidig
    @kerrieleidig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think they definitely planned together to lure Heather into a trap. That's why they parked _across the street_ from the gas station at which Sidney called her from a payphone & got gas at a different station - they didn't want to show up on surveillance footage. Heather then got in the truck, which is why they were cleaning it out the next day. Maybe Tammy popped up from behind her with a cord or something right then, but that doesn't explain the fountain. The fountain means either Heather was there at their house & touched or bled on it, OR that 1 or both of them cleaned their hands off in it. If they took her back to their house, it was either forced or under the guise of "let's all end the question of your pregnancy once & for all & we'll all work together to deal with the results". I think they went with the latter based on his having bought a celebratory cigar in addition to the pregnancy test, to make Heather think they were all going to take it as good news & celebrate it if positive, & if negative they'd all just go their separate ways. Heather went in the bathroom, the test came back positive, Tammy murdered her, & they both disposed of the body together, possibly at/near the dock.
    Just my opinion.

  • @TheSlashSlingingSlasher
    @TheSlashSlingingSlasher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Hugs for the early crew. 2020 ain't over yet.

  • @ameliashostak4764
    @ameliashostak4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    yeah i've seen this story done sooo many times...i always said, if i gotta handcuff my hubby to the bed at night, it's probably time to tapout!!!!

  • @ashleestephens9927
    @ashleestephens9927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My stoned ass only just realised what EWU crew stands for

    • @carlasullivan3637
      @carlasullivan3637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm stoned too, what does it mean? Lol 🌿🔥💨👍

    • @__-Victory-__
      @__-Victory-__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@carlasullivan3637 🤣 I just took a couple hits and I was wondering the same thing...I need what she's smoking I guess.

    • @__-Victory-__
      @__-Victory-__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@carlasullivan3637 Hint, look at the name of the channel...I should be the detective! 😉

    • @ashleestephens9927
      @ashleestephens9927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@carlasullivan3637 I'm going to have to agree with victory 😂 look at the name of the channel

    • @noone5796
      @noone5796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My stoned ass was convinced they are saying “evil crew”

  • @ljoanshevchenko5884
    @ljoanshevchenko5884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The Heather Elvis story never fails to make me sad. She deserved so much more than what life gave her.
    Edit: Heather was definitely wrong for going after a married man. That’s never excusable, and is something no one should ever do. But, I still feel sympathy for her, as she was young, and no one should ever lose their life over something like this. An older, married man shouldn’t have been reciprocating her advances.

    • @Sniperboy5551
      @Sniperboy5551 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I mean to be fair though, she did make a terrible decision by going after a married man to begin with. It’s not all her fault, but she does share some of the blame.

    • @sabrinatscha2554
      @sabrinatscha2554 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s really sad (and I hope these people go to prison for the rest of their lives), but her tale is a cautionary one... there was nothing about that man that said “good boyfriend material”. He wasn’t even attractive. What was she thinking?
      What a terrible decision to make, even if it didn’t end up taking her life. The dude is straight-up gross

    • @TheBekacuda
      @TheBekacuda ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@Sniperboy5551she was told it was an open relationship

  • @mpalmer7800
    @mpalmer7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I would never hurt a woman over a man!!! Never!! Much less a young girl??? Dear God she’s old n evil.

    • @caroljonas939
      @caroljonas939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes ma'am I agree

    • @stephanieclark1487
      @stephanieclark1487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah from the Vice perspective it should’ve just been all in the husband. There’s no sense in harassing some young girl when your husband’s out there carousing. Sure the girls chose to be with a married man and that was bad but I don’t think it was worth stocking her. Take care your house at home with your own husband you know

    • @briannemarie9214
      @briannemarie9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And dusty

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With how you look, you don’t have a man to fight over in the first place

    • @briannemarie9214
      @briannemarie9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@torachan23 talk s*** when you post a picture of your f****** face it's always people with no profile pictures I run their mouths and there's a reason why they don't show off their faces