Coming Out - Part 2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- sorry I rambled FOREVER! happy biweek kiddos!
FOR THOSE OF U WHO HAVENT SEEN MY COMING OUT VIDEO
• my sexuality
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"One day I could be feeling ladies more...One day I could be feeling guys more" 😂I can relate so much 🌈
"I have dressed up as a little boy." You mean Broanna?
I don't know why the universe chose today to bring me just the video I needed but thank you universe. I almost came out to my mom today but chickened out for the hundredth time. But you showing me how great this past year has been for you since coming out has given me the confidence and (possibly) the courage to finally just do it. Thank you for being unapologetically you and bringing more bisexual representation to youtube!!
Brittany B glad i could help!!! good luck b❤️
YOU CAN DO IT BUDDY
Lily Zuber OMG THANK YOU FRIEND 😭❤
OF COURSE PAL
Brittany B update??
I was watching TV with my mom, and they were talking about coming out. My mom said "Why are gay coming out and not straight?" So I think I will not come out and just bring girls or boys home. Thanks you
My mom passed away 3 months ago today. I never told her im queer but she had had the idea in her head since I was young and obsessed with Carrie Underwood (lol). She brought it up to my older brother when I was 11 or 12 and he became furious saying it's impossible for me to be gay, so my mother never had the courage to talk to me about it and I never had the courage to talk to her about it... I don't know if I regret it. I haven't come out to anybody in my family because they're all very religious (myself included), and my mother was the most religious of them all, but honestly I think that means she would have handled it the best. I wish I could know what she thinks about me. One of the last things she said to me was "I want you to be happy", and I know if she were able to say more she would've. But I'm left to sit on that phrase.
I'm sorry hear of your mothers passing, my condolences🙏✝ . The fact that your mother suspected you were gay but never asked you directly, only to then leave this world by telling you that she wants you to be happy, was her way accepting you for who you are🤗🌈💖 . Love is all that matters. Sometimes a mother just knows, and she never stopped loving you👩👧 .
You are my fav bisexual ever! I’m bi too and you have helped me a lot since you posted your first coming out video. Please continue like this, I love you and thanks
Congratulations on your one year, Joanna!! It really is a journey, and you keep making it through. You have grown so much and have come so far. Year-by-year, you will learn even more about yourself, and come to love yourself more and more. We are so proud of you, as you should be of yourself as well. Simply said, we adore you, and have nothing but love for you. Here's to many more years of self- discovery, growth, love, and happiness!!
you are so right when you say it feels so good to be out and free, also i have days that i feel 50/50 when it comes to attraction and some others i am more into girls or into boys, just like you do, that's just "US" as Bisexuals and that's great!! Big hug from Colombia :)
this is like the meaning of "It gets better"
it really does!!
Love you Joanna ❤️❤️ I'm also bisexual and you are a huge role model to me
I came out to my parents as a lesbian a few months ago and it didn’t go well, but I feel better because I don’t feel like I’m hiding something anymore and I feel like they know my true colors, even if they don’t want to accept me. I gotta stay true to myself, and brave people like you make me feel validated and like I’m not totally alone. Thank you so much Jojo
Bluepony you're doing great❤️ proud of you for being who you are
I think the most important thing is to know that sexuality is fluid. That's the best thing to keep in mind. Because i always thought "Now i said it. I can't change it anymore ever again. I will destroy how serious coming out is and people will say that they told me i'd end up with a guy." So thanks for saying that again. Makes me feel so much better!
lupa
Sexuality isn't fluid. You either are or are not.
please stop spreading false BS just to make everyone feel like special snowflakes.
Esoteric Enigma I don't think it has anything to do with feeling special. It's just a thing. Some people label themselve and it turns out it was the wrong one for them. Why are you so obsessed with other people's labels, when it doesn't affect you?
Preach Amy!
You've truly became a wonder woman and I am so happy to have seen that happen over the past year
Thank you for inspiring me and many others to come out ❤️❤️❤️
i'm SO happy you talked about sexuality being fluid but also about how sometimes you dress all girly and some other times you dress more like a boy, because i have encountered myself feeling feminine some days and totally masculine other days, and i've struggled a bit trying to understand why that is; I'm not sure if it even has to do with being bisexual, but I'm glad you feel that way too, it relieves me. LOVE YOU ❤️
Thank you Joanna. Me a couple years ago could of really needed this. And I am totally proud of how far you've come. Keep going we are all here supporting you. And as you said so perfectly
"Sexuality is fluid" ❤️💛💚💙💜
YESSS JO!!! So proud of who you are, kid
True sexuality is so fluid.
Like ur the bi role model we neeed
Thank you for being you and existing. You’re amazing. I’m bisexual and have yet to come out, but you continue to be a role model for me. Love you lots, thank you for videos like these.
Congrats on 1 year Joanna!!!! We all love you!!! xx
Super Meme ❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️
“i love being out. i love being my authentic self.”
🌈 love u jo 🌈
I needed to hear all of this. Thank you! :)
I'm bisexual. I'm 19, still in the closet, and want to start dating girls. My problem: parents. That's always the issue with EVERYONE. How CAN I get over the assumed-trama I work myself over in my thoughts of outing myself to them?! Like, it's soooo easy to tell everyone else in my life but my immediate fam...forget about it lol. I know you say (as well as everyone else that's out) "I came out to my parents and they were over it eventually and accepted me and/or didn't care".. what if everything's not fine? What if they disrespect it and act as if it's a "phase" or treat me differently or oppose to me having girls over? I don't feel safe coming out..but I also don't feel safe sneaking around and wearing a mask just to please them...I just really feel hopeless in my sexuality. I'm so gay that I'm ashamed of myself even being it because of how I know it will affect the relationships I have with my family.. I'm so closeted, yet so gay. I've been in here for 5 years and have even been attracted for women muchhhh longer as Ive come to realize and relish on as I've grown older (I WAS SO GAY EVEN AS A CHILD). I've definitely had my fair share of private relationships with women..but that's exactly what I don't want them to be anymore. Private. I know it's hard for everyone but it seems so extra for me lol. I'm proud of you Joanna and thanks for helping me see myself on the other side through you, but I really just don't know what the fuck to do..help?!
abigail first thing: breathe. It's a hard thing to face but it's so much harder when you play the whole thing out in your head, by yourself.
Is there any member of your immediate family that you trust enough to talk to about it or a friend you trust enough to be with you? Especially if you don't feel safe.
No matter what happens, there's an entire world ready to be there for you. :) One day at a time.
Jen Just Being awww well thank you that makes me feel better in my skin knowing someone I don't know cares about people like me struggling... lol it suckkks being like this but I appreciate your response and reassurement
abigail Do it in your own time. You'll know when. And I PROMISE, it'll all be ok.
I feel the same way, I guess that someday it'll get easier so don't worry. Talk to someone you trust about it. As Jen said, there's an entire world ready to be there for you.
If you ever need to talk hmu c:
Isabel
Thanks so much for this. I'm so scared to come out, but watching this has really made me feel better. You've really helped me accept and love who I am. Thanks so much for this.💕
I'm proud to see you grow jojo. a year has gone by SO fast and also you need to upload more thank you bye
1. This is honestly the reason why I have hope, not just for myself but for others who are struggling with coming out. You are such a genuine and kind hearted human being. I wish that everybody else was more like you.
2. You have literally changed my life. If it wasn't for you I wouldn't have had the courage to come out to anyone. Thank you Joanna. I love this and everything else about you.
3. I've heard that everyone has their flaws but I have yet to see one in you.
4. Love you, Joanna. I'm so proud of you. Keep up the great work.
Love this. Love you. One year isn't long but it can also feel like a lifetime. Thank you for sharing your story!
This was a good video, and you're a good person. I liked it, and I like you. Keep it up, you're doing great!
This was so nice to watch. I'm so happy to see you happy and enjoying yourself fully and entirely. Much love!!💕💕
it's so special to be here along your journey of self discovery and even cooler that I'm on my own too! it makes me feel connected to you as silly as it may sound haha happy bi week to us!
I'm so late watching this, but it's been a week.. SO HERE I AM. Joanna I'm so proud of where you are today, you do you girl! Love ❤️
This video gives me life, you deserve so much love thank you for doing what you do you are incredible
Your story with your grandpa reminded me of how my Grandma, who wouldn’t exactly see eye to eye with the LGBT community, saw my post about trans individuals and how they are people, told me that it didn’t matter who I am that she’s going to love and support me through anything. It helps to have that support in life from friends and/or family, it makes life feel better 😌
Love you JoJo! Love that you're your authentic self and happier now!
You see so many gay coming out videos but yours is the first bisexual video I ever saw and helped me so much
5 years of questioning my sexuality , took me that long as I'm also in an amazing relationship with a guy an still am but like such a happy person after having finally stopped questioning and I just can't explain it , my wider family doesn't know and I will keep it that way but that's due them being very judgemental
Thank you for your honesty, thank you for your bravery, thank you for your support, thank you for this video!
i love you. thank you for everything you’ve done for me and the bisexual community.
I thought I was bisexual for like a year, but as time went on I slowly stopped being attracted to boys and found my true self of loving girls more. I still haven't come out to my parents, only a few of my close friends know. I'm proud of who I am I just worry what my family and friends will think.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with this. I only came to terms with being bisexual (and i'm kind of not sure if i'm still attracted to guys at this point) several months ago when I realizes I would want more than a physical experience with a girl. I hope I can feel the same sense of freedom that comes with being out and fully myself one day, but until I figure out the right time to do that, I have people like you who know what I'm going through.
i love how happy and comfortable you have become with ur sexuality thanks to your previous video i have come out as bi to a couple of my friends who have been super supportive and this video now gave me the courage to come out to more of my friends and one day my parents because i want to be as happy and confident in my sexuality as you are
Kadija Osman proud of you❤️
I remember that it was around this time 8 years ago when I ever said the words out loud "I am gay." Coming out was the scariest thing I have ever done because I didn't know how people were going to take it especially my mother. But once I did it was the best thing ever because for the first time in mY life I felt like I could finally breathe,like a huge weight had been lifted off my chest and I didn't have to pretend to be somebody I'm not. It took me a long time to be comfortable and happy with who I am and I wouldn't have it any other way.
thankyou for being a relatable human and for loving us, im so proud to look up to you
When I got the notification for this vid I legit almost cried was so excited
I love you Joanna, may our lord Rihanna bless you. SO👏PROUD👏OF👏YOU 😩❤️❤️❤️
Is this a reference to something she’s said or are you just obsessed with Ri-Ri? Either works for me 😂
I can relate so much to this video, I came out a year ago to my family and I told them that I like boys and girls and that I was very confused, but now that it’s 2018 I have found myself to be completely into girls but sometimes I find Guys attractive but I don’t see my self dating them. This video helped a lot and I hope it helped other people.
a legend
Lovely video!! Thank you so much for being so cute and inspiring! Also, happy biweek xx
Happy biweek ❤️❤️❤️❤️
so proud of you ❤️
thank you for making such an honest & genuine video. keep spreading the love :)
I’m bi and I knew I’m into girls too since high school but I lived in a very religious country and it’s hard to tell people what I really feel cause I was scared to be judge so I’ve kept it until now that I already moved to america with my relatives who happens to be also very religious. I’ve been into lgbt parades and parties here in NYC and I’ve never been so happy! I just wish I could get the courage to finally tell my family who I really am
Love you, Joanna! Proud of you! ❤️
Hi Jojo, thank you for being my inspiration..I'm also a BI and im proud of you😍
I love you Joanna! Proud of you ✨❤️
How was that coming out video a year ago 💀
Thank you so much for this video Joanna it's really helped me understand my own sexuality I've recently came out as trans to some friends and family but I haven't come out as bi yet but this has been so helpful so thank you!
i love this! and you! i'm very proud. congrats
omg im soo proud of u and Love ur eyebrows 😍
so proud of u amy💗💗
I never had to actually come out to my dad. I just started to add "or girls" to his sentences whenever he talked about us(my sisters and I) bringing boys home. At first he kind of looked confused but always said"yeah or girls". And I don't know if my mom (who I came out to october last year) ever told him anything about me being queer but he just gradually began to add it by himself. He also gradually stopped making fun of queer people all the time which is nice. I knew that he wasn't homophobic he is just not familiar with our community and jokes are his way to get used to something because it makes him talk about it. I don't think anyone in my family knows besides my aunt(who just asked me super casually and I just said "yes" being a little perplexed) and my sisters but I don't feel the need to tell them anything 'cause I don't have a girlfriend so what's the point if I only see them 5 times a year. But all of my friends from college know and I told all of my friends from school at the start of my senior year of high school and they were all super cool with it. So I just wanted to write this to let anyone who reads this know that it doesn't have to be a big deal. I know that for a lot of people it is important to talk to every family member or friend they have but you don't have to. Coming out can be just another thing you share with someone like telling them you started to play the guitar. I know that this doesn't work for everyone but it does work for some and they shouldn't stress about coming out being this huge thing if they don't feel like it's a big deal to them.
Shout out to Joanna releasing all of this amazing videos!👏😊
you’ve grown so much i’m so proud
Joanna!!!! I love you so much! You make me really happy! 😘😘😘
Just wanted to say you're awesome. And I didn't even realise it had been a full yr already.
i am still afraid coming out to my female friends as bisexual. What if they will hate me because they are straight.. what if they think that i am sneaky and cheeky little bisexual.. i just can't over it.. HELP
We get more comfortable with who we are everyday and i love that :)
I feel so proud and Happy that this video is made. Ilysm💕💕
Merci pour cette video!! Je croyais que j'étais seule à être comme ca, un jour à m'habiller en fille et un jour en garçon ! Merci beaucoup ça m'a soulager de voir qu'on est tous pareil!
I have came a year ago and had a bad experience there were tears and my mom and dad ended up rejecting my sexuality and how they only view me as straight. My mother told me if you ever dates a girl I'm going to have to kick you out. So, hence then it's like I'm back in my sad little closet. It hurts when you no one takes my bisexuality as a legitimate think. Everyone keeps telling me "oh no you're 100% lesbian" and it hurts not being validated.
Joanna ily so much! ♥♥
You are so sweet. Thanks for being who you are.
YOURE SO BRAVE!!!
thank you!
can't wait to feel like this someday
love you. And im so proud of you.
Proud of u
ERICA FRIAS I subscribed and u should also subscribe to me
You are sooo pretty!!!
For me your amazing and has a big heart
I always watch your video every time u post
But i feel bad this time because i didn't watch this video quick because busy schedule in work
But im happy to see u
God bless and have a good health always
#big hug
#big kisses
#big lovee
YOU ARE AMAZING I LOVE YOU
So much respect for you queen, wow I love a bisexual icon
Ilysm QUEEN ❤️❤️
"You dont even have to come out to anyone because it would just be normal..."
yes jo,i can relate 100%
If only everyone was as acceptable as your family. I've been struggling to come out to my family mainly because they are all mainly super religious people. I grew up in a religious Christian family since I was 10 and now I'm 26 years old. But luckily I have very supportive friends who I've only told about my bisexuality. I hope someday I will be able to do the same thing and love whoever the fudge I want. Btw I'm a female and I've only dated guys but I'm looking forward to what the future has in store. Thanks Joanna! Btw I'm loving the short hair and you're very beautiful! Eres una mujer hermosa y maravillosa! Viva el amor!
LOVE u JOJO 💙💙💙
“Sexuality is fluid” YES PREACH you’ve come so far and so many people are going to be in that place where they’re questioning themselves and they’re going to come across your videos and everything is going to click and I’m just so proud of u omg also I love u pls date me
When you want to hear Joanna talk about this all day long , just because you get her, and feel the same way.
I wish there was bi week here in Brazil! And since I'm wishing, it would be nice to meet you
She's so cute
I really needed to hear this.. thank you so much ❤🌈
true bi role model
You are so pretty
When you said "late" I expected it to be ..... like, late? 😂
It's 10:15 PM where I am
i thought it was going to take forever to upload so i didn't wanna get your hopes up!!!!
Oh, well that's late hah. it's 7:16 pm here
Thank you ;')
You are ridiculously beautiful 😍
As long as you are bi I will keep watching this channel :)
you are so pretty and you have a lovely speaking voice. i thought i should comment that. ;)
anyway i'm in love with you you're doing GREAT jojo
thank you so much for this