This one hit close home. I'm an artist and my family is constantly asking me to design stuff for them for free, as in being my family automatically means they get free stuff from me, seriously that angers me
Ugh that's awful. My eldest is an artist and I insist on paying for the pieces I either want or want to commission from them. Y'all gotta make a living too!
Marriages like this are why women should stay on birth control as long as possible, do background checks on the man and his family, and have secret escape money. $1500 is not enough to cover rent and food.
If I was giving $1500 to my spouse, it would be for food, toiletries, and others with the rest going into a separate savings account. The rent and other living expenses I would have paid myself before giving her money if she didn't have a job at the time.
While I don't disagree, there are far more marriages where the woman is at fault. This channel has a few of them along with several others. Just seems like it is near impossible for Men and Women to trust each other in the modern era because of the absolute worse of the worse that exists and gets exposed.
Actually, it’s more like the man or woman should do a background check on the people they’re dating before they consider marriage. One of the big red flags should be how the would be in-laws treat you, and how your potential fiancé treats you. If they treat you with disrespect, entitlement, controlling issues, like a Mama’s Child and gas-lights you, that’s when you say “SEE YA!” and ditch them all! No need to feed the enabling toxic flames with more fuel.
I am married 34 years now. Hubby works. He has never turned his nose up at beans! Low fat, low calorie, high protein. Sure meat is awesome, but not the be all, end all of a meal. No, I do not work outside the home. I do not have a paying job. I don't buy groceries, he does. When things are bad, there are food pantries for those that need it. Thrift stores. Nails?! Nope. They would get so badly beaten up with doing dishes. They serve no purpose other than decorative.
His macros take back seat to his child. Point blank. He makes me furious because his loyal wife is doing her best even though he doesn’t deserve it. She and her child deserves the best. I love that this story has grabbed every emotion! Great job!
He's lucky to have even received the bare minimum that he had. Compared to how he is, living with his mom, he was on the lap of luxury, but he insisted on having more. What a greedy pig!
He corect on carbs and meat low carbs causes brain issues and low protein causes muscle problems main issue is his budget is way too low plus 1500 a month the average man in america makes 1100 a week He makes just over minimal wage and thinks he can suport a family alone
I agree, but i have also seen stories (not on here) but other places where the wife is unsatisfied with everything, even when the husband does everything for her, she ultimately begins cheating heavily, believing she deserves the cake AND to eat it too. While i do agree, in this video, the husband is a moron and she deserves better, alot better.
Believe it or not, 2 decades ago, my side-business went bankrupt because of those leeches/moochers/free-loaders! On another note: If you want to be treated like a King, then treat your wife like a Queen.
Finally! Someone who was raised right and has common sense! But it also goes the same for women. If you want to be treated like a queen, treat your husband like a king. But, BUT only if he/she is doing their part. It's not 50/50 like a lot of people think, its 100/100. It's not hard to treat each other equally, well, it shouldn't be that hard. This piece of trash and his birth giver need to be taught a good, hard lesson about the 21st century!!
On one hand, I can understand taking advantage of stuff that would normally be thrown out at the end of the day. After all, that is what food banks receive and distribute. On the other hand, being pushy and aggresive about getting things for free is being a thief.
Here in Los Angeles California you might be able to find a studio apartment for $1500 but that’s about it. You would not be able to pay for utilities and food.
Matters where are in uk converted to dollers on minimal wage i was making about 1k a month the average full time male worker in america makwes 1100 a week he is barely above minimal wage and is thinking he a big bad man of the house
What goes around comes back around. Husbands that talk to their wives like that , calling them dumb, stupid, etc are being mentally abusive. I’m soo glad I never had to hear such abuse from my husband. He was a great father & husband
Sandy lived happily ever after while the parasite ex-husband and evil MIL ended up wbanging their heads against their padded cell, with only a jacket to hug them as comfort.
Now if the MIL had a farm where she grew food and offered some fresh produce to her son’s family for free, that would be different. To tell someone with a farm to give them free produce on the other hand is something else.
The opposite turn of the coin is this....I have been married to my wonderful husband for 46 years. I respect him, trust him and understand him. As he does me. When there is respect and trust there is also love.
You do you. Everyone is different, we all have different emotional wants and needs, different ways of achieving happiness, and have a myriad of experiences to share or not. I have friends who’ve been single and unattached their whole lives, I’ve got friends who go from relationship to relationship and haven’t ever settled down, I have polyamorous friends, and there’s me: married three decades and still very much in love with the same person. It’s all good. Take the time to know yourself and what you need to lead a good life and go find it. As long as you’re consenting adults, it’s no one’s business what you do.
i understand that thoo im fiance to ly lovely crush and even thoo i know he can be lazy i know he will help me a lot at home and i know he care for me too :3 no one is perfect, but being able to respect ur partner and help them became better is the best to do (my opinion i understand not everyone will agree❤️)
@@pinkmonkeybird2644 I hope that with time, more and more people have this kind of view :) Live life so it makes you happy without hurting anyone. Would be great!
The first time my husband talked to me like Kyle did in the first conversation, it would be divorce or assault because no one is going to talk to me like that.
Great story! I knew someone like Kyle years ago. Unfortunately he borrowed major money from the WRONG family member and when they came to collect he disappeared after that. Just his wife and son left living in the house.
When will these young women learn, never get pregnant too soon, otherwise Opie it would have been easy to walk away from this toxic husband and ancient mum.
Kyle and his mom are really something else. Taking advantage of friends and family and acting like it's normal. This takes entitlement to a whole higher level. Yay! Michelle is free! Kyle is demanding Michelle to come back. Wow. someone came and spit in Kyle's face. He'd better be glad he didn't get punched in the face. Kyle is good at twisting the truth. It's amazing he still has a job. Kyle and his mom with the constant belittling and name calling. $1500 might work for one person but just barely. He's literally making a little over minimum wage. He's needs to be paying child support and Sandy needs to get a job.
"you could" get by with $1500 if you have no rent, no car payment, and no student loans (or any loans really) then you can live somewhat a normal life by paying utility, cellphone, food, and car petrol, barely. Dates will be difficult, but a family of three? only if you have a fully paid micro farm in your backyard.
Yes- it’s nigh impossible for a family of 3 to live on $1500/month. Like- how? And the wife even offered to go back to work to help out. You can only do so much with what you have! It’s amazing how some people seem to think things are so easy, until it’s their turn. I don’t think Kyle and his mother are enjoying each other’s company much with thar $1500.00. However, I wish you and your mom all the best! Inflation is hitting really hard right now. A trip to the grocery store has become frightening… right in time for Halloween!
I run into this same attitude with Facebook posters who are in my age range (over 65). They seem shocked when I post information about current expenses and student loans.
If you have ever read the “Little House” books by Laura Ingalls Wilder, you would learn 25 cents a day was considered a decent wage in the 1880s. Times have changed since then and today that would not be considered a decent wage.
@@krazycatz Yes, I have - many times. I know that the current minimum wage is not a living wage. I think many of my fellow old persons should be sent a large postcard listing current costs-of-living annually from the government so they stop living in the past. I know I shocked a fellow parishioner at church when I explained the minimum healthcare costs of having a baby WITHOUT complications when the parents don't have health insurance.
When my brother’s wife had their first child she was glad there were complications. The health insurance she had would not have covered the pregnancy and birth if it had been a normal one.
Trying to control the finances like that is another form of abuse. Yes, I would help Michelle too as I know someone who runs a centre to help people in bad situations like that. I'd also help her go pick up her stuff, because I'd bring along several friends who are larger than me - and I'm a big guy too - so if Kyle tried to get in the way... Well, I'll leave that to the imagination.😈
People like this never cease to amaze me. I have lent money to my parents several times. They always insisted on paying interest, and on having a contract drawn up. It would not have occurred to them to do anything else.
You can't even rent a two bedroom place in this area for that low of a salary. (Except maybe a trailer in a trailer park) Let's not even get into that $200 grocery budget.
It doesn't matter to them one way or another because they don't have to pay for anything or so they thought. If someone tells you no for free service you don't bully them until they say yes to it. that is just wrong on so many levels. Those two needs someone to teach them how to live right.
Well, getting spat on, having to move in with his mum, pay back all their friends and family that they STOLE from and now being berated constantly for "only making $1500/month", BEFORE child support and alimony deductions too, I think we can be happy in the knowledge that Michelle got far away from these 2, and that they are finally living in the REAL world, where we pay for the things we eat/drink/use etc. Good luck on 1000 bucks a month, I mean child support is gonna be necessary. Hehe, wish we could see just how far this mother and son fall after Michelle finally left that waste of space and his bullish entitled POS mum!
I love PB&J sandwiches! My wife makes great ones while I was working! (I’m retired now) The peanut butter was all the way to the crust and leaven not thick in the centre and very little near the crust. Same with the jelly. Of course it raspberry jelly! Yummy!!!!! If I talked to my wife like he does his. I’d never be able to sleep again. She’d Lorena Bobbitt me if I did! Honestly I’m kinda partial to my little fella he’s my favourite tool to use! 😈
PB&J sandwiches are one of my favorites, too. Growing up it was always Welch’s Concord grape jelly , now it’s raspberry or peach jam, even orange marmalade. Delicious, nutritious, and filling. 😊😊
1500 a month? Let's see...a work month has 160 hours...that's a whole $9.37 an hour! Wooooow! Less than min wage in most places. Dude could make 15 an hour at McDonalds in most places and around 20 an hour where I live. Must be the most low speed, high drag doofus ever.
🤔 so she lives her life by mooching off of others? MIL really knows how to get on other's nerves. I'd never expect that much stuff for free from family and the few friends I have. That's just asking to get cut out of their lives.
They could save money if they purchased dried beans, soak them overnight and cook them over low heat for several hours. They would also be avoiding all the additives that are usually found in canned beans.
You could also use the black eye peas and rice as a base (it will keep in a sealed container in the freezer) and then add your own affordable vegetables, protein, and seasoning.
$1500 is poverty level. I am on disability with my hubby. We make not much quite that ($1400ish), with spcial diet. We scrape by. Food bank really helps as well as other sources of free food, items, etc. Tg they pay for medication and dental (to a degree). Budgeting helps but not always possible. Very often more goes out than in. That hubby is friggin a moron. His mom is too.
I agree about the food banks. I get under 1000 to live on on disability. It's so tight. I really hope we get a really good raise in January and I don't mean 23 dollars like before.
Yes - budgeting only works when you have money to budget. If you find yourself living week to week- as many people do- no matter what you do, if there’s no money left over, you can’t budget nothing! I don’t think people who have never had to struggle understand this.
Thank goodness for food banks. I go to one food bank for me and a food bank for my cats once a month. It barely stretches my monthly income. With the food bank for me, I 've learned how to take what's given and cook. For what I can't use, I find someone who can use it.
So, he's making 9.58 an hour. McDonald's might give better wages. Time for her to go to the food bank. Friends and family discount? Fine. Hopes she makes sure they know how much money the husband bring home.
A food bank is a good idea, only you should learn about the requirements for the food bank you use. I know some food banks require some documents to use their service. Others might only allow you to use their services so many times in a set amount of time. It’s not that they are trying to be rude to anyone. They are just trying to help as many people as possible to get back on their feet again.
The first time that scumbag of a husband call d me lazy and dumb I would have been gone making 1500 dollars a month is impossible to live on, he could have done better working fast good and that mother was horrible, they say the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree
Hey, Kyle. I’ve got a perfect comment for you: You’re talking to a girl who’s said “You’re Lying!” less than half as many times as you have, and gotten disciplined for that. I’m JEALOUS. 😁
I'm really not sure what Kyle's icon is supposed to represent. It looks like a plate of beef buttholes with a garnish of mashed potatoes and parsley. He did say he wanted more meat.
It's okay to ask every once in a while to see if a friend can lend something, like once every 3 months or more, but asking for free things every time is ridiculous, there's a limit to generosity. If they say no, you accept that and back off. I asked my cousin if I could have a video game she had and she said she'll let me borrow it for a little bit and I accepted that because I CAN GET MY OWN! And also my mom and I are friends with the owner of a salon/spa, if I go with my mom to her appointments and they have room, they squeeze me in but we still pay! Because we don't exploit her, her and her employees are amazing and do great work so we pay them the money their work is worth. People are allowed to refuse and request payment for what you ask for
I was the free family babysitter, because, "you want to help (name of person) don't you?" I cut them out of my life now. Moochers can be anyone in your life. Mooching makes Everyone's life harder than it needs to be. Family and friends who do this need a huge wake up call. No sympathy for the husband and his mom. These stories also have the running theme that wives are to obey their husbands and their MILs. The Bible also teaches men to treat their wives with love. Proverbs 31 comes to mind. The perfect wife helps pay the bills by working. That also honors her husband. Men are to leave their parents and to join one's self to his wife. I take that to mean to take his wife's side over his mom, lol. No momma's boy here.
My wife can stretch a dollar so far that George will sing soprano. If she says she needs more money I don't question it. She is a Proverbs 31 wife and I am very proud of her. The reason we have what we have is because she makes it work. I've never had a big income but we don't have a mortgage or rent to pay either. She is a natural beauty so she doesn't wear makeup except for lipstick when we go somewhere special. I have never gotten tired of looking at her and as I have often said, one of my favorite forms of entertainment is watching her. I've only been married to her for 35 short years and I hope to stay married to her forever.
I dated once a guy who didn't do his own laundry, his mum did it (he wasn't even living with her anymore). - he didn't clean his own house, his flatmates mum did it for them. The house was a mess, smell, and dirty. I left him right after seeing hos house and hearing him say he would never do laundry on his own when I told him i won't do his own laundry he tolde, and i Quote "it doesn't matter there are enough women who would do it for free"
Seen this type of story a lot lately. So as this story can easily stress people out (it did me). I want you to know that I am sharing my love for you all. I am here if you ever need to chat.
YES!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 One 16 oz. can of beans costs about $2.39 where I live. In the same grocery store you can purchase a 24 oz. bag of dried beans for $1.79. You will need to soak the beans overnight and cook them over low heat for several hours. Plus as an added bonus you will not be eating all the additives that are usually found in canned beans.
She was stupid for even engaging MIL. Mine tried something like this at the very beginning of our marriage. I said “Thank you (her name) for calling. My marriage is none of your business. This is the last time I will even acknowledge that you are talking about this. Goodbye”. She called my husband, who told her the same thing (which is why we are still married) and hung up. She never tried again.
Good lord you don't mooch off people like that, no matter who they are. If you can't afford a haircut save the up for it or if the person is a friend or family member ask you can trade services. EX: If you grow a vegetable garden and you end up with more than you can eat. See if you can exchange veggies for a haircut. If they say yes it's yes, if they say no it's no. And if it's no still offer the veggies so they know that they are not being used.
Agree I have bartered in the past myself. The only time I accepted something for free was shortly after my husband and I got married. There was a baker’s school that I used to pass every day on my way to work. Sometimes in the evening when I was on my way home, there would be students out front giving away bags or boxes of the baked goods they did not sell that day. I was given bread, cookies, cakes, tarts, etc. Of course I went there whenever I needed to order some baked goods for something. The school sadly for me moved to a new location, but I hope they all had successful careers.
It is easy to say of get a backbone or grow a spine and divorce. But the sad reality is, it's not that easy for either to do as it could take months to years
He is making about $350. a week. I make $400 in TWO days. He calls her a failure as a wife. He is an abysmal failure as a husband and bread winner. They would make more money on welfare.
Never skimp on money on doctor or dentist! You get what you pay for and you would need to pay more for repairs than you did if you did your annual check up and cleaning!. Leave the free stuff to people who actually need it! If you want a cheap massage or cheap haircut, go to a massage school or beauty school for the interns to polish their skills. That way both people benefit. I wonder if dentist in training need people to practice on to keep their skills sharp. Any dentist ( current, former or retired) or dentist interns out there can answer this question for me please? FYI it's illegal for massage interns in my state (tx) to accept any tips from clients because we don't havr our own license and practicing under school license. My school had undercover people that test the interns by leaving tips for them to test if they take the tip or not.
OMG this guy thinking $200 a month can feed a family of 3 is laughable I spend more than that in a week for 3 people and one is my 9 yr old son. Edit: where are they living where they can live off $1500 , that is no where near enough to support a family of 3 rent in $1500 without food, bills, and gas. Divorce is all I can say bye bye
@@krazycatz especially in today's economy even then I know farmers that are struggling and $1500 isn't even enough to feed chickens so that wouldn't work either
Wouldn't contacting the "network" be MORE embarrassing for Kyle?? I don't understand Kyle and Sandy at all- mates rates are OFFERED, not demanded by the supplicant!! And if my husband spoke to me like that- well, he wouldn't be my husband anymore
Taking care of the house and children is a full time job. Men like Kyle know nothing about the hats a wife wears. If she were paid for doing those jobs, she would make more than $1500 a month. As for MIL taking from friends and family is wrong.
Rule number one: Never ask just one person for their opinion on something like this. You should ask as many different people as possible. Rule number two: If you think something is so easy to do, don’t complain about it. Do it yourself for about six months or a year (keeping all the receipts and other documents) and prove how easy it is to do.
Congrats to Michelle being a free bird. Fed up with Kyle's lack of money, his mom sends him out every night to do some street corner job at 12AM for more dough. Rumour has it that she has him do 24 appointments lasting 30 min each, only to end with Kyle always going home at dawn walking funny and only a few pennies everytime, whining and bitching how"tired and exhausted he really is" and asking his own mother to cut up his food into much smaller portions. Poor Kyle....lol!
Geez! These people live in a whole other reality! So glad it all blew up in their faces, but they're too narcissistic to reflect on their own actions. Blaming others and making others out to be the bad guy, the true trademark of a self-entitled narcissist. I should know, I've dealt with one. ;P
Why do people think being a house wife is useless. Being a wife and mother is a lot of work
This one hit close home. I'm an artist and my family is constantly asking me to design stuff for them for free, as in being my family automatically means they get free stuff from me, seriously that angers me
Ugh that's awful. My eldest is an artist and I insist on paying for the pieces I either want or want to commission from them. Y'all gotta make a living too!
Just say NO CANT HELP YOU. OR do the same thing back. See how they react.
Present your price list and don't release art until paid in full ...
Don't do that to yourself ...
Does a mechanic work for free? Does an accountant work for free?
So just tell your family you can do half off but free is off the table.
Marriages like this are why women should stay on birth control as long as possible, do background checks on the man and his family, and have secret escape money. $1500 is not enough to cover rent and food.
If I was giving $1500 to my spouse, it would be for food, toiletries, and others with the rest going into a separate savings account. The rent and other living expenses I would have paid myself before giving her money if she didn't have a job at the time.
While I don't disagree, there are far more marriages where the woman is at fault. This channel has a few of them along with several others.
Just seems like it is near impossible for Men and Women to trust each other in the modern era because of the absolute worse of the worse that exists and gets exposed.
Actually, it’s more like the man or woman should do a background check on the people they’re dating before they consider marriage.
One of the big red flags should be how the would be in-laws treat you, and how your potential fiancé treats you.
If they treat you with disrespect, entitlement, controlling issues, like a Mama’s Child and gas-lights you, that’s when you say “SEE YA!” and ditch them all!
No need to feed the enabling toxic flames with more fuel.
I am married 34 years now. Hubby works. He has never turned his nose up at beans! Low fat, low calorie, high protein. Sure meat is awesome, but not the be all, end all of a meal.
No, I do not work outside the home. I do not have a paying job. I don't buy groceries, he does.
When things are bad, there are food pantries for those that need it. Thrift stores.
Nails?! Nope. They would get so badly beaten up with doing dishes. They serve no purpose other than decorative.
You're right, $1500 a month is not enough for rent and food. I say that from experience and I'm on my own.
"I make $9.375/hour and my mommy said that was plenty of money for a family of three", therefore everything is your fault.
It's starting to be a challenge of how long it takes for me to hate the antagonist. We aren't getting past one sentence.
Thats not budgetting thats what i call begging and leeching
Three people on that salary probably qualifies for food stamps
His macros take back seat to his child. Point blank. He makes me furious because his loyal wife is doing her best even though he doesn’t deserve it. She and her child deserves the best. I love that this story has grabbed every emotion! Great job!
I love how his friends and family are willing to help the wife out but cut all connections to the son and mother.
He's lucky to have even received the bare minimum that he had. Compared to how he is, living with his mom, he was on the lap of luxury, but he insisted on having more. What a greedy pig!
He corect on carbs and meat low carbs causes brain issues and low protein causes muscle problems main issue is his budget is way too low plus 1500 a month the average man in america makes 1100 a week He makes just over minimal wage and thinks he can suport a family alone
I agree, but i have also seen stories (not on here) but other places where the wife is unsatisfied with everything, even when the husband does everything for her, she ultimately begins cheating heavily, believing she deserves the cake AND to eat it too.
While i do agree, in this video, the husband is a moron and she deserves better, alot better.
Believe it or not, 2 decades ago, my side-business went bankrupt because of those leeches/moochers/free-loaders!
On another note: If you want to be treated like a King, then treat your wife like a Queen.
I believe that.
People like this are the worst.
Finally! Someone who was raised right and has common sense! But it also goes the same for women. If you want to be treated like a queen, treat your husband like a king. But, BUT only if he/she is doing their part. It's not 50/50 like a lot of people think, its 100/100. It's not hard to treat each other equally, well, it shouldn't be that hard. This piece of trash and his birth giver need to be taught a good, hard lesson about the 21st century!!
@@golden_leader9227 Right!
@@jessicadanna5206 I know, right..
And vice versa, as well.
Good Lord. Kyle is the kind of guy to put me in a rage. And Sandy's no different. She's mostly a choosy beggar.
this is a whole higher level of entitlement.
On one hand, I can understand taking advantage of stuff that would normally be thrown out at the end of the day. After all, that is what food banks receive and distribute. On the other hand, being pushy and aggresive about getting things for free is being a thief.
Kyle eventually swallowed his pride and had to work in the seedy neon light district to make $1,500 every night to learn his lesson
The seedy neon light district?
Red light district
$1,500 a month. That guy is sad. It's more sad when a guy thinks that's a lot.
and he wondered why pb&j? Even that isn't cheap anymore.
I'm a 18 year old high-schooler I make 1800 a month thats just pathetic
$1500 a month is good for a 14-16 year old just entering the workforce.
Here in Los Angeles California you might be able to find a studio apartment for $1500 but that’s about it. You would not be able to pay for utilities and food.
Matters where are in uk converted to dollers on minimal wage i was making about 1k a month the average full time male worker in america makwes 1100 a week he is barely above minimal wage and is thinking he a big bad man of the house
What goes around comes back around. Husbands that talk to their wives like that , calling them dumb, stupid, etc are being mentally abusive. I’m soo glad I never had to hear such abuse from my husband. He was a great father & husband
Exactly in my case on the moment a guy is going to try to be abusive with me he is out of my life right away the second he pulls that stuff on me
Sandy lived happily ever after while the parasite ex-husband and evil MIL ended up wbanging their heads against their padded cell, with only a jacket to hug them as comfort.
@@shawngilbert4306 agree
Most people hear it every day. Unless independently wealthy, women need a job and money kept aside otherwise they become trapped
Sadly, I've known a few toxic males like that, and to a man-child, they were utter mama's boys
These kinds of mothers are disgusting ...
200 a month? that’s what i spend a week for a family of 4. prices are soaring.
Now if the MIL had a farm where she grew food and offered some fresh produce to her son’s family for free, that would be different. To tell someone with a farm to give them free produce on the other hand is something else.
Guys like Kyle are why I’m against relationships
This is why I'll Never date!
The opposite turn of the coin is this....I have been married to my wonderful husband for 46 years. I respect him, trust him and understand him. As he does me. When there is respect and trust there is also love.
You do you. Everyone is different, we all have different emotional wants and needs, different ways of achieving happiness, and have a myriad of experiences to share or not. I have friends who’ve been single and unattached their whole lives, I’ve got friends who go from relationship to relationship and haven’t ever settled down, I have polyamorous friends, and there’s me: married three decades and still very much in love with the same person. It’s all good. Take the time to know yourself and what you need to lead a good life and go find it. As long as you’re consenting adults, it’s no one’s business what you do.
i understand that thoo im fiance to ly lovely crush and even thoo i know he can be lazy i know he will help me a lot at home
and i know he care for me too :3
no one is perfect, but being able to respect ur partner and help them became better is the best to do (my opinion i understand not everyone will agree❤️)
@@pinkmonkeybird2644 I hope that with time, more and more people have this kind of view :)
Live life so it makes you happy without hurting anyone. Would be great!
Give his mum the $200 plus all the food requirements and let her try to buy enough.
The first time my husband talked to me like Kyle did in the first conversation, it would be divorce or assault because no one is going to talk to me like that.
Oh god me too! I would also leave one plate,one fork,one spoon, and I knife. Mean old man
Great story! I knew someone like Kyle years ago. Unfortunately he borrowed major money from the WRONG family member and when they came to collect he disappeared after that. Just his wife and son left living in the house.
That's terrible!
Sounds like the wife and son lucked out.
When will these young women learn, never get pregnant too soon, otherwise Opie it would have been easy to walk away from this toxic husband and ancient mum.
Are all these couples time travelers from the 50s? 😂
They should go back and stay there.
“Living off canned beans.”
- Make sure to stay upwind of them. 💨
Kyle and his mom are really something else. Taking advantage of friends and family and acting like it's normal. This takes entitlement to a whole higher level. Yay! Michelle is free! Kyle is demanding Michelle to come back. Wow. someone came and spit in Kyle's face. He'd better be glad he didn't get punched in the face. Kyle is good at twisting the truth. It's amazing he still has a job. Kyle and his mom with the constant belittling and name calling. $1500 might work for one person but just barely. He's literally making a little over minimum wage. He's needs to be paying child support and Sandy needs to get a job.
These two definitely belong to r/choosingbeggars.
Right nowadays you make more than $1500 a month at McDonalds.
"you could" get by with $1500 if you have no rent, no car payment, and no student loans (or any loans really) then you can live somewhat a normal life by paying utility, cellphone, food, and car petrol, barely. Dates will be difficult, but a family of three? only if you have a fully paid micro farm in your backyard.
1500 for the month!? That's 375 a week? Is he working high school hours at McDonald's???
I've noticed a lot of these videos have them earning yhat much a month 😳
@@thedarkestzenitheon3340 maybe it's a over seas to US currency and they didn't convert it correctly
Kyle is one of the people who should have stayed snapped by thanos
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And his piece of excrement mom.
I bring home $2000-2400 a month and add in my mother's SSI, we're just barely comfortable. Not starving, but not exactly living well.
Yes- it’s nigh impossible for a family of 3 to live on $1500/month. Like- how? And the wife even offered to go back to work to help out. You can only do so much with what you have!
It’s amazing how some people seem to think things are so easy, until it’s their turn. I don’t think Kyle and his mother are enjoying each other’s company much with thar $1500.00.
However, I wish you and your mom all the best! Inflation is hitting really hard right now. A trip to the grocery store has become frightening… right in time for Halloween!
I run into this same attitude with Facebook posters who are in my age range (over 65). They seem shocked when I post information about current expenses and student loans.
If you have ever read the “Little House” books by Laura Ingalls Wilder, you would learn 25 cents a day was considered a decent wage in the 1880s. Times have changed since then and today that would not be considered a decent wage.
@@krazycatz Yes, I have - many times. I know that the current minimum wage is not a living wage. I think many of my fellow old persons should be sent a large postcard listing current costs-of-living annually from the government so they stop living in the past. I know I shocked a fellow parishioner at church when I explained the minimum healthcare costs of having a baby WITHOUT complications when the parents don't have health insurance.
When my brother’s wife had their first child she was glad there were complications. The health insurance she had would not have covered the pregnancy and birth if it had been a normal one.
Trying to control the finances like that is another form of abuse. Yes, I would help Michelle too as I know someone who runs a centre to help people in bad situations like that. I'd also help her go pick up her stuff, because I'd bring along several friends who are larger than me - and I'm a big guy too - so if Kyle tried to get in the way... Well, I'll leave that to the imagination.😈
I would bring my truck in case Kyle needs to be taken out into the middle of BFE and given some physical re-education.
Ok children. Can you say Kyle? Now can you say PARASITE?!?!?!
I'm so glad that guy is back with his mommy where he belongs. Hopefully, he won't be an issue for any other partners ever, what a stupid jerk.
People like this never cease to amaze me. I have lent money to my parents several times. They always insisted on paying interest, and on having a contract drawn up. It would not have occurred to them to do anything else.
You can't even rent a two bedroom place in this area for that low of a salary. (Except maybe a trailer in a trailer park)
Let's not even get into that $200 grocery budget.
Damn, this barely started and I already hate Kyle.
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It doesn't matter to them one way or another because they don't have to pay for anything or so they thought. If someone tells you no for free service you don't bully them until they say yes to it. that is just wrong on so many levels. Those two needs someone to teach them how to live right.
Well, getting spat on, having to move in with his mum, pay back all their friends and family that they STOLE from and now being berated constantly for "only making $1500/month", BEFORE child support and alimony deductions too, I think we can be happy in the knowledge that Michelle got far away from these 2, and that they are finally living in the REAL world, where we pay for the things we eat/drink/use etc. Good luck on 1000 bucks a month, I mean child support is gonna be necessary. Hehe, wish we could see just how far this mother and son fall after Michelle finally left that waste of space and his bullish entitled POS mum!
I love PB&J sandwiches! My wife makes great ones while I was working! (I’m retired now) The peanut butter was all the way to the crust and leaven not thick in the centre and very little near the crust. Same with the jelly. Of course it raspberry jelly! Yummy!!!!! If I talked to my wife like he does his. I’d never be able to sleep again. She’d Lorena Bobbitt me if I did! Honestly I’m kinda partial to my little fella he’s my favourite tool to use! 😈
🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I wonder how many younger people know what you are talking about?
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I want a PB&J sandwich now.
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PB&J sandwiches are one of my favorites, too. Growing up it was always Welch’s Concord grape jelly , now it’s raspberry or peach jam, even orange marmalade. Delicious, nutritious, and filling. 😊😊
“Friends and family help each other out”
What do they do to help anyone out? 😂
$1500.00?! Per month?! Where does he work, part time at McDonald's?
1500 a month isn't very much for a job that's only 18000 a year considering 80000 dollars a year is mid income for a family
1500 a month? Let's see...a work month has 160 hours...that's a whole $9.37 an hour! Wooooow! Less than min wage in most places. Dude could make 15 an hour at McDonalds in most places and around 20 an hour where I live.
Must be the most low speed, high drag doofus ever.
🤔 so she lives her life by mooching off of others? MIL really knows how to get on other's nerves. I'd never expect that much stuff for free from family and the few friends I have. That's just asking to get cut out of their lives.
and mooching is not budgeting, budgeting is buying the essentials first but you also need enough money to budget right.
Thank God I'm not this kind of mother in law 🙏💕
I love stories where the wife gets rid of the worthless mama’s boy, and his worthless mama, too! 😈😈
Well at least canned beans have protein AND carbs for his precious macros!
I live canned beans but wouldn't want to eat them at every meal. But at least Kyle is now getting pleanty of protein. X
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They could save money if they purchased dried beans, soak them overnight and cook them over low heat for several hours. They would also be avoiding all the additives that are usually found in canned beans.
I love black eyed peas and rice, but I can't live on that every day.
You could also use the black eye peas and rice as a base (it will keep in a sealed container in the freezer) and then add your own affordable vegetables, protein, and seasoning.
$1500 is poverty level. I am on disability with my hubby. We make not much quite that ($1400ish), with spcial diet. We scrape by. Food bank really helps as well as other sources of free food, items, etc. Tg they pay for medication and dental (to a degree).
Budgeting helps but not always possible. Very often more goes out than in.
That hubby is friggin a moron. His mom is too.
I'm on disability and only get 1000. With everything sky rocketing it gets harder and harder. The food banks are a life saver literally.
I agree about the food banks. I get under 1000 to live on on disability. It's so tight. I really hope we get a really good raise in January and I don't mean 23 dollars like before.
80000 dollars a year is reasonable for a family
Yes - budgeting only works when you have money to budget. If you find yourself living week to week- as many people do- no matter what you do, if there’s no money left over, you can’t budget nothing!
I don’t think people who have never had to struggle understand this.
Thank goodness for food banks. I go to one food bank for me and a food bank for my cats once a month. It barely stretches my monthly income. With the food bank for me, I 've learned how to take what's given and cook. For what I can't use, I find someone who can use it.
So, he's making 9.58 an hour. McDonald's might give better wages.
Time for her to go to the food bank.
Friends and family discount? Fine. Hopes she makes sure they know how much money the husband bring home.
A food bank is a good idea, only you should learn about the requirements for the food bank you use. I know some food banks require some documents to use their service. Others might only allow you to use their services so many times in a set amount of time. It’s not that they are trying to be rude to anyone. They are just trying to help as many people as possible to get back on their feet again.
The husband's attitude that others would think badly of him because his wife worked for money would have been outdated in 1982.
1500.00 month won't even pay rent anymore.
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Fairly standard classic story. Still funny as hell though 🤣🤣
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Wow both the husband and mother in law are nuts
Call me dumb and lazy and I swear that is me and the kids out the door.
Oooh, this guy already makes me furious 🤯. What a porker 🤬. And mommy calling! That is just sad 😔
The first time that scumbag of a husband call d me lazy and dumb I would have been gone making 1500 dollars a month is impossible to live on, he could have done better working fast good and that mother was horrible, they say the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree
Hey, Kyle. I’ve got a perfect comment for you:
You’re talking to a girl who’s said “You’re Lying!” less than half as many times as you have, and gotten disciplined for that. I’m JEALOUS. 😁
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I'm really not sure what Kyle's icon is supposed to represent. It looks like a plate of beef buttholes with a garnish of mashed potatoes and parsley. He did say he wanted more meat.
Kyle needs to spit the binky out and grow up
It's okay to ask every once in a while to see if a friend can lend something, like once every 3 months or more, but asking for free things every time is ridiculous, there's a limit to generosity. If they say no, you accept that and back off. I asked my cousin if I could have a video game she had and she said she'll let me borrow it for a little bit and I accepted that because I CAN GET MY OWN!
And also my mom and I are friends with the owner of a salon/spa, if I go with my mom to her appointments and they have room, they squeeze me in but we still pay! Because we don't exploit her, her and her employees are amazing and do great work so we pay them the money their work is worth.
People are allowed to refuse and request payment for what you ask for
Well, beans are protein....
1500 a month, I wouldn't even get involved with someone if thats all I got for working
I was the free family babysitter, because, "you want to help (name of person) don't you?" I cut them out of my life now. Moochers can be anyone in your life. Mooching makes Everyone's life harder than it needs to be. Family and friends who do this need a huge wake up call. No sympathy for the husband and his mom.
These stories also have the running theme that wives are to obey their husbands and their MILs. The Bible also teaches men to treat their wives with love. Proverbs 31 comes to mind. The perfect wife helps pay the bills by working. That also honors her husband. Men are to leave their parents and to join one's self to his wife. I take that to mean to take his wife's side over his mom, lol. No momma's boy here.
My wife can stretch a dollar so far that George will sing soprano. If she says she needs more money I don't question it. She is a Proverbs 31 wife and I am very proud of her. The reason we have what we have is because she makes it work. I've never had a big income but we don't have a mortgage or rent to pay either. She is a natural beauty so she doesn't wear makeup except for lipstick when we go somewhere special. I have never gotten tired of looking at her and as I have often said, one of my favorite forms of entertainment is watching her. I've only been married to her for 35 short years and I hope to stay married to her forever.
@@danielbutler578 That is just so romantic. Hold each other close and kiss often. 😊
I dated once a guy who didn't do his own laundry, his mum did it (he wasn't even living with her anymore). - he didn't clean his own house, his flatmates mum did it for them. The house was a mess, smell, and dirty. I left him right after seeing hos house and hearing him say he would never do laundry on his own when I told him i won't do his own laundry he tolde, and i Quote "it doesn't matter there are enough women who would do it for free"
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Bloody hell a choosing entitled bagger husband and MIL. I get the feeling these guy only had friends cause they wanted something from them.
Seen this type of story a lot lately.
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honey , i know dishwashers that make more than 1500.00 a month.
These things would be over so quick messing with me I'm very hard headed I wouldn't listen to either one of them
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Canned beans? Canned beans are expensive. If you *really* want to save money, dried beans are the way to go.
YES!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 One 16 oz. can of beans costs about $2.39 where I live. In the same grocery store you can purchase a 24 oz. bag of dried beans for $1.79. You will need to soak the beans overnight and cook them over low heat for several hours. Plus as an added bonus you will not be eating all the additives that are usually found in canned beans.
1500 might might support 1 person , but 3 people?! The only way that might work if they take turns eatting food
It also depends on where you live. Where I live that’s about what it costs to rent a studio apartment.
@@krazycatz that not included food?
That’s just for the apartment. It does not include food, utilities, transportation, etc.
She was stupid for even engaging MIL. Mine tried something like this at the very beginning of our marriage. I said “Thank you (her name) for calling. My marriage is none of your business. This is the last time I will even acknowledge that you are talking about this. Goodbye”. She called my husband, who told her the same thing (which is why we are still married) and hung up. She never tried again.
Thanks for the video. He made me mad from the beginning. Thank goodness she got out. Have a good evening
Good lord you don't mooch off people like that, no matter who they are. If you can't afford a haircut save the up for it or if the person is a friend or family member ask you can trade services. EX: If you grow a vegetable garden and you end up with more than you can eat. See if you can exchange veggies for a haircut. If they say yes it's yes, if they say no it's no. And if it's no still offer the veggies so they know that they are not being used.
Agree I have bartered in the past myself. The only time I accepted something for free was shortly after my husband and I got married. There was a baker’s school that I used to pass every day on my way to work. Sometimes in the evening when I was on my way home, there would be students out front giving away bags or boxes of the baked goods they did not sell that day. I was given bread, cookies, cakes, tarts, etc. Of course I went there whenever I needed to order some baked goods for something. The school sadly for me moved to a new location, but I hope they all had successful careers.
"Let me help." means "Let me listen to your budget breakdown. Let's see what we can do about making adjustments so your costs are more streamlined."
I don't think I will ever get married. Being single is great. I am 46 and have not found my person yet and I am content with being single.
Kyle and Sandy Took Cheapness To A Whole New Level! They Put Mr. Krabs To Shame!
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As I always say, when it comes to work and products that the work sells, there are no such things as friends or family.
It's rare to find someone so bull-headed and narrow minded, thank god that woman was able to get away from that man.
He makes $12/hr? Duuuuude....
Useless Husband work $9.38 per hour. $1,500 a month.
Why would you stay with this man and his mother. I would be way gone..get a back bone and divorce this crazy family..
It is easy to say of get a backbone or grow a spine and divorce. But the sad reality is, it's not that easy for either to do as it could take months to years
He thinks 1500 is enough for 3 people.
It is, if you do not include housing, transportation, taxes, utilities, and insurance.
Canned bean, huh? Well, at least the jerk is getting his protein!
Bunch of sponges
$1500 a month, take home pay? Wow, what does he get paid? Minimum wage?
He is making about $350. a week. I make $400 in TWO days. He calls her a failure as a wife. He is an abysmal failure as a husband and bread winner. They would make more money on welfare.
Never skimp on money on doctor or dentist! You get what you pay for and you would need to pay more for repairs than you did if you did your annual check up and cleaning!. Leave the free stuff to people who actually need it! If you want a cheap massage or cheap haircut, go to a massage school or beauty school for the interns to polish their skills. That way both people benefit. I wonder if dentist in training need people to practice on to keep their skills sharp. Any dentist ( current, former or retired) or dentist interns out there can answer this question for me please?
FYI it's illegal for massage interns in my state (tx) to accept any tips from clients because we don't havr our own license and practicing under school license. My school had undercover people that test the interns by leaving tips for them to test if they take the tip or not.
OMG this guy thinking $200 a month can feed a family of 3 is laughable I spend more than that in a week for 3 people and one is my 9 yr old son.
Edit: where are they living where they can live off $1500 , that is no where near enough to support a family of 3 rent in $1500 without food, bills, and gas.
Divorce is all I can say bye bye
Unless they were living on a farm and were able to raise all their food themselves, there is no way they could survive on $1500 a month.
@@krazycatz especially in today's economy even then I know farmers that are struggling and $1500 isn't even enough to feed chickens so that wouldn't work either
1500 for a single woman without a vehicle doesn't even come close to covering it
I can't fathom why she stayed as long as she did. Kyle needs an attitude adjustment...say, with a 2x4.
Wouldn't contacting the "network" be MORE embarrassing for Kyle?? I don't understand Kyle and Sandy at all- mates rates are OFFERED, not demanded by the supplicant!! And if my husband spoke to me like that- well, he wouldn't be my husband anymore
Taking care of the house and children is a full time job. Men like Kyle know nothing about the hats a wife wears. If she were paid for doing those jobs, she would make more than $1500 a month.
As for MIL taking from friends and family is wrong.
long story short he's been severely misinformed right along with it crazy mama no disrespect intended course
Rule number one: Never ask just one person for their opinion on something like this. You should ask as many different people as possible. Rule number two: If you think something is so easy to do, don’t complain about it. Do it yourself for about six months or a year (keeping all the receipts and other documents) and prove how easy it is to do.
Congrats to Michelle being a free bird. Fed up with Kyle's lack of money, his mom sends him out every night to do some street corner job at 12AM for more dough. Rumour has it that she has him do 24 appointments lasting 30 min each, only to end with Kyle always going home at dawn walking funny and only a few pennies everytime, whining and bitching how"tired and exhausted he really is" and asking his own mother to cut up his food into much smaller portions. Poor Kyle....lol!
KYLE WHAT A MOMMY BOY AND LET KYLE MOVE BACK IN WITH IN WITH HIS MOM SANDY
Geez! These people live in a whole other reality! So glad it all blew up in their faces, but they're too narcissistic to reflect on their own actions. Blaming others and making others out to be the bad guy, the true trademark of a self-entitled narcissist. I should know, I've dealt with one. ;P
I would have walked out on Kyle long before her mil called. 1500$ doesn’t support three people in this day in age.
I honestly hate the husband divorce because I can't live like that
I can see Kyle and Sandy on a episode of Extreme Cheapskates.