So true Matt is a good one !! No one is perfect. So NO one has the right to judge her husband then try to be fake by being "nice"to abby,. Any good wife is protective of their man/family.
Hi Matt and Abby! Correctional Officer here in a women’s prison. I work with HUNDREDS of female offenders with violent and sexual crimes against children. People’s mother’s, babysitters, grandmothers, and family friends. Please help break the stigma and bring awareness that men are not the only predators.
Sooooo true! Woman here but I have 4 sons…and hubs with experience too unfortunately…and I’ve had to teach them even just the knowledge of being careful about the situations they can get into without even thinking for even false allegations. So sad we have to think about any of it but also the “other side” often times with primarily woman being the false accusers. Man the world is dark and scary sometimes.
I love how many times Matt's mom's frugalness played into this conversation but also, how sweet that she would also be willing to sacrifice time and gas to drive him everywhere to support his dreams as a kid. Moms are awesome! 💕
@@Black_cat_27 I think he’s convinced that it’s a team decision if she’s able to squeeze a forced “yes” from him. I don’t think he’s getting enough respect as a husband, tbh.
It seems that matt worries more about financials which is not bad for the man of the house ( better safe than sorry) its all going very fast for him and as he’s already said Abby earns more money than him so i get his concerns. They have done so well and have come so far for people of thier age! They will be fine ❤
Abby……. You should open a book shop attached to a coffee shop 😊 Then you can have a reading corner for kids where you can read to them. All your dreams in one! ❤
I don't understand the hate they get. We're all human and I think these two are some of the better people out there!!! It's so obvious they have so much love for each other and their family. It breaks my heart to see someone publicly be so rude about someone
Matt threw a fit, and complained about his wife for combining fathers day and his birthday together while she was pregnant. They also had gotten back from a trip that day even, and she was pregnant. No shit she didn't throw two seperate parties for that man child because she was probably exhausted. But now his birthday and anniversary was combined, and that man child didn't have an issue?
Most of the hate is from their earlier content. And yes i am talking about the podcast content. There were just some instances where Matt's social cue for Abby's emotions and feelings were just... off. And because of that it seemed really inconsiderate on his part towards her. I'm not saying that this is true or the actual case regarding them, I'm only speaking from the comments I've seen (I'm only on episode 32 now or somewhere there and that's when most of the hate started)
I don’t either. I think people forget that he’s still young and learning. But I’ve seen so much growth in him from first watching. I think he’s a patient guy, a good communicator and a good Dad and Husband
@@Danversdiaryhe recently got diagnosed with ADHD soooo, things like that happen. Even in "normal people" get a grip!!! No one is perfect, NEITHER ARE U 🫶🏼 or anyone else leaving hate comments
Pro moving tips: -go to liquor stores and ask if they have any boxes you can take. They’re not as big as moving boxes, but they’re perfect for books, kitchen stuff, baby stuff, or whatever else will fit! Plus they’re FREE!! -LABEL EVERYTHING😅 We used notecards and a Sharpie on the liquor boxes since they have stuff printed on them -We used big plastic tote/tubs as moving boxes. It is kinda pricy, but so convenient and reusable. I labeled them with sharpie and then wiped it off with lemon essential oil after we unpacked them -You can pay extra for movers to pack up your stuff for you if you get to the point where you’re too overwhelmed or tired to pack. I would still pack up any valuables, sentimentals, and some fragile things just to be safe. -pack a bag with a few outfits, toiletries, chargers, etc so it doesn’t get lost in all the boxes and it’s easy to grab until you can unpack everything
to see how far abby has come is INSANE!!! she’s came soooo far from the early postpartum stage to being emotional, sensitive, etc to now being so bubbly and happy is actually crazy.
I do not in any way understand the hate Mart is getting. He is clearly obsessed with Abby, seems like an amazing and involved dad, and is so so kind. Everyone words things at times in ways they didn't mean it, that doesn't make them a bad person. He seems like an awesome dad and husband and i love seeing that for Abby and the boys.
People are obsessed with hating on him. They'll go a on whole other content creators videos only to comment "matt could never" this men is living RENT FREE in people's head no problem 😵💫
@@laurahinojosa2716 literally!! And there are SO many men that are uninvolved in their child's lives and yet this is who everyone wants to call "the worst husband on the Internet"??? It's insane
He truly seems like the kindest man and best father/husband. Some people just want to tear people down because they wish they had their happiness. Matt and Abby keep telling your truths and sharing your lives because 99% of those who know you love you and love to hear your story!
I literally saw one TH-camr make a 40 min video hating on him. Granted her whole channel was just a hate channel, it was really dumb tho, cuz she has 500k subscribers. You’d think people have better things to do in their life than creating hate channels and calling themselves influencers 🤷🏽♀️
Hi Matt and Abby, I love your podcast. Im 36 weeks and 6 days pregnant and my water broke last night but because my baby is breach I’m having a c-section in about 2 hours. So now I’m watching your podcast as I’m waiting to have my baby.
Abby, my husband and I are moving from Texas to upstate New York, and we just signed our lease last night. I'm totally feeling the same doubts after getting something I really wanted. I hope it's the right decision! We've decided to make the best choice with the information we have now, and if it doesn't work out, we can always move again. Good luck with moving and buying a new house, Abby!
@44:57 omg poor Matt . Abby always looks bored when Matt talks about himself or his interests. Like her views on his ideas and goals is one of a politician? Just very vague/safe/ insincere validation Idk. I think Abby would be happier doing something else, I don’t think social media is her passion (which she’s stated multiple times) sometimes these podcasts feel forced by Abby. I feel bad for her honestly, she doesn’t seem to enjoy it the way Matt does.
Is anyone else really tired of hearing about Matt's adhd in just about every episode, even since before he was diagnosed..... like we get it. You thought you had adhd, and now you've been told by a dr you have adhd. Congratulations! Now stop bringing it up in every episode!
Most people make emotional decisions, even if they don’t realize they are doing it. Sending a letter and family photo is always a great option to get someone to connect to you over summering else. Don’t feel weird about it ❤
Something my real estate mentioned a few weeks ago when I was selling my house is that he usually tries to get within 3% of asking. Just something to consider when putting an offer in a new house. The right one will come along soon. Good luck!
The lost colony of Roanoke 😂 I’m glad I’m not the only one who will randomly think about that. School brought it up and had no clarification or closure to the story soooo I’ve also been affected by this mystery 😅.
SOCIAL MEDIA IS SO CUTTHROAT...for real I absolutely LOVE you guys...NOBODY IS PERFECT...SHAME ON OTHER INFLUENCERS FOR NOT SUPPORTING EACH OTHER...they could use their platform to support you guys!!
As someone who thrives in unorganized chaos, I’m loving the emotional whiplash yall give us with your life updates😂😂 One month ago: “we aren’t going to move for 2 more years” now: “we put an offer on a house”
I love Matt and Abby they are soo true and real I just love their wholesome conversations 💕 and love stories and take on life. I especially love the way they hype each other up and compliment one another. You guys keep being you because we love yah!!! Much love from😊 Illinois
You Dear young whippersnappers :) The Bodyguard is a movie with Whitney Houston and Kevin Costner. It is from 1992, but if you haven't watched it, you should. Whitney is Awesome in it.
I get the temporary high aspect, I used to try and seek some sort of outings or fillers to fill the void in my life but let me tell you the day God revealed himself to me, I never had that longing feeling ever again. ❤ God bless you both!
these two are handling the hate so well. Matt has been receiving so much hate I even see hate comments(to Matt) on other content creator's videos. Its sad. Dont mind the comments Matt.
I do not understand hateful comments on anyone’s videos! It’s ludacris to me. And these two are just adorable, if people were held accountable for comments, I think a whole lot of them would stop. Y’all just keep going and doing your thing and we will pray to God that these people’s hate filled hearts chill out! lol ❤
Two things! 1. YES, ABBY! Stand up for your man anytime, anywhere. He is a good man who clearly loves you and your kids and he (and you) get entirely too much hate. I read comments here and on instagram sometimes and it just blows my mind that people can be so negative. 2. I LOVE BOOK CORNER! Please continue telling us about your books. I'm an avid reader and I love listening to people talk about their recent reads.
We just sold our house and had 5 offers in 3 days ranging from asking price to 30k over asking (8%). We took the highest offer, with no inspection and our choice of closing date. MInnesota. It’s still a sellers market.
My friend and her husband wrote a letter to the home owner when buying their first home, and even though there were multiple offers and theirs was not the highest, the home owner chose them over the others because of the letter and picture they sent in. They said they chose them because they wanted a nice family to buy their home! So I think it’s always a great idea to at least try sending in a letter/picture because it makes you stand out over others 😊
@@HandleToWatch oh that’s interesting, I wonder what the reasoning is for making it illegal? I’m from Canada and I don’t think it is illegal here, but I guess it’s always good to check with your realtor before doing so :)
Our realtor highly recommended us to write a letter and send a photo of our family. The owners absolutely loved it and even brought it up at the closing how they thought that was so sweet.
I think it’s a great idea! & def good business & personal move. , if they say no, they’re going to feel so bad knowing they turned down such a wholesome family 😊
Matt, love you but I wanted to share some advice. I think you should focus on things like getting vocal coach to help produce your songs! Your voice is great but you need some confidence and guidance. I worry your music will fall flat once your fans are saturated and start wanting higher quality music. You have everything going for you BUT I worry that with a limited voice the long term isn’t being considered. Your songs are doing good so far but you need to keep making mini hits. Music videos do not have a great ROI in general, busy especially not for a smaller artist. I’d suggest focusing on your socials (which you already are which is great) and really refining your sound and writing. Your lyrics need some polishing as well. So spend he time between releases practicing and collaborating on/ tweaking lyrics. I think you have a lot of potential but it’s easy to be distracted by doing the fun stuff. Focus on your development, and everything else will just happen and make sense! I highly recommend NOT putting chunks of your own money in to music videos at this time. Low budget, sure. But if you’re trying to go high production value, retelling a story already perfectly portrayed by the movie, hoping it will “launch” your career, you’re going to be disappointed. You can only go viral for the same thing so many times. There is always an expiration on that stuff, so make sure your talent and art is undeniable.
Matt's a man baby. Pregnant wife combined the birthday and father's day and you're being ungrateful, downing your wife who was pregnant, and complaining. But it's alright if it's your anniversary and your birthday together? Why didn't you throw a fit over that? Your wife deserves better.
It's so childish to have a little tantrum about not getting what you want on your birthday. I can't believe i just watched a grown as man with two kids complain about not getting enough attention on his birthday
I just think matt is an easy target, not because he’s dumb of anything like that, because he’s sweet, he cares about different things but fronts like he’s got everything figured out, making him an easy target, I personally love watching both of em! And yes he says BAD THINGS AT BAD TIMES LOL, but that’s life dudes give them grace
Umm or he’s getting hate for the terrible things he says/ how he treats his wife on camera. If he treats her like crap when the cameras on.. can’t imagine how it is when the cameras off. Dude literally admitted to giving her the silent treatment after she just gave BIRTH. He makes her feel like crap about herself all the time ON CAMERA. So do t be so shocked why people dislike him.
@@jessicawamsley1652 he's always telling her how beautiful she is and complimenting her. Plus he gave her the silent treatment because she refused to give the baby formula when the baby wouldn't eat. He was worried about their child and she was hell bent on doing things her way! He obviously loves her and is always doing things with his kids. The women always putting him down are jealous or just hate men in general because he's not a bad guy. A little immature yes, but he's still a good guy
@@jessicawamsley1652what do you even know about their personal lives just be quiet and mind your own business. This couple is much better than a lot of them out there.
Fun fact that isn't commonly known; none of the witches in salem were burned at the stake. They were hanged, but the burnings took place in whats today Peabody, Ma (I grew up in the next town over from Salem in Lynn)
I see some people often talk about how Abby and Matt seem to disagree a lot. We are all different. No two people are identical. I believe that when a married couple agrees about everything, it is often because one or both are scared of conflict. It's perfectly fine to not agree about everything. It's natural. How you handle disagreements and conflicts is what matters. I like that Abby and Matt both are comfortable voicing their different opinions. It's a sign of a healthy marriage in my opinion.
I love Abby’s book corner segment! I read the perfect marriage and loved it! Looks like my next book is the bodyguard since you gave it a 5/5. Also a busy mom that’s trying to squeeze in reading anytime I can, except now when I’m watching the podcast instead haha
You can go to safari parks in USA too. They are not that huge, but it’s a blast. Even before having kids we enjoyed driving in our car through the park, meeting and feeding animals, it was a wonderful experience.
I’m with Matt, I wanna flip a house into an Airbnb or something so bad but they look like a lot of work and money, but it’s also something I really wanna do
Matt and Abby get so much hate but I really do see how much Matt compliments Abby in a deep genuine way every episode. I think sometimes his words come out the wrong way that he doesn’t mean. They couldn’t make me hate you guys. Lots of love here!! ❤
For those of you not familiar with Phoenix, it sometimes takes 2 hrs from one end to the other depending on if there are accidents, roadwork, vokume, etc.
Ahh Matthew, there is no way you will be in that new house for 20 years, the lead prosecutor will do anything to cut a deal now because it is the number 1 thing in their life.
Homeschooling is amazing! I homeschool my two boys and they thoroughly enjoy the freedom that comes with it. Arizona also offers ESA which helps aid in curriculum and so many other things and supplies for you to educate your child at home. Definitely worth looking into if you stay in Arizona 🌵
I can totally envision your vision of your song video Matt. I just picture you like Benjamin button older man sitting in your porch reading the paper and reminiscing your younger self grabbing Abby from her waist while she is either cooking or doing dishes and starting to dance together then your boys joining in the dance around your kitchen. Then you pick each of them up and throw them up in the sky as the camera lens go back from outside the window and into your old eyes... Lol can't wait to see if our visions align hehe
I’m a teacher in NC and I had to teach about the lost colony of roanoke for the first time this year and I was so confused and haven’t stopped thinking about it since either lol.
Fellow fourth grade teacher in NC here! I've found some great Lost Colony resources that might help. My students especially love Roanoke: The Lost Colony - An Unsolved Mystery from History by Jane Yolen. It's out of print, but I bet you can find it through a library or used book sale. There's an interesting History Comic on it, and a good background book by Jean Fritz. There's lots of video options out there. I like the one from the History Channel best. There's also a good video from PBS SciTech about recent archaeological findings.
I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!! Thank you Abby for addressing this ridiculous hate towards Matt. You all are amazing people and have a great relationship. Keep being you! Love your videos!
While it is interesting that all of the sudden they might move somewhere, it seems wrong to judge their whole marriage by this. While they seem to disagree a lot, one thing to keep in mind is that they really put themselves out here on the internet. They get vulnerable and share a lot of things in the moment that most people wouldn’t share or show about their own life or especially their marriage. So while they may seem to disagree as a married couple more than the average couple would, also good to keep in mind they show much more than the average couple would.
The more they share the more money they make. These two know what sells and doesn’t and use it to monetize from it. Abby is a business women and it show. No hate for that but it’s a struggle watching them lately.
Love your Podcast! I went on several Safaris and even a walking Safari but it is super important to get a Guide with some great knowledge because it always depends on your behaviour. Animals just want to live their life and are much more peaceful than humans but you need to experience it yourself.
Interesting they allowed you to submit a letter and photo with your offer for the house. Here in St. Louis, our realtor this past month actually said they have passed laws you can no longer do that because it opens up the possibility for discrimination…. Idk if this was an addition to the fair housing act or something.
Explain in detail what is so amazing about this couple. It drives me crazy when people say shit like that because they don’t know their real lives. These comments are just sucking up.
Lets goooo !!!! Matt and Abby are an insane couple. Love you both, and abby im learning to be a girls girl later in life, its not so easy these days but you keep making me try❤ thank you
Abby! I am a member of the Lumbee Tribe out of North Carolina. I do believe that our tribe was formed from The Lost Colony! It’s really interesting to research. Hope this helps your curious mind lol
I felt the same way about “Five Survive”! I would give it 3/5 too because with a mystery, I want to be able to go back and see what clues I missed. It’s a good book, but I don’t think I would be able to figure it out if I went back and read it again. I liked the plot a lot though.
Matt and Abby, I'm excited about the music video. Abby, the way you feel about the house sounds like me kinda you want something now that you may get it, it seems scary to do the move. I'll definitely going to feel that way when my family moves out of the house we live in.
Please tell Abby that libraries totally take volunteers!!! We go to story time regularly, and there is a volunteer that helps read the books and basically assists the children’s librarian with story time. Also, I volunteered at the library regularly as a teen and usually helped with the summer reading program.
Matt is torn between Abby’s desires and her family it seems lol I was surprised when he mentioned how her mom didn’t like the idea of them supposedly moving to Nashville to peruse His dreams 😢
Abby you should visit Manteo in the OBX of NC- you can go to a museum where the colony was and in the summer the outdoor theater has a show about it that’s actually really well done!
I know you guys mostly don’t read comments BUT You guys are amazing! I’m so sorry for the hate. I pray and hope you guys don’t even focus on that. There is so much love for you guys! You’re both genuine and real and it’s obviously foreign to the social media world that people have to hate on it. We love you guys and Matt you’re an amazing husband, father, son, friend and businessman (just to name a few!).
The letter I wrote to the seller did make a difference! We offered under asking after 3 days on the market and we got it. They left us a letter in the house saying it was because of our letter.
You guys briefly talked about sparatically going on a safari in Africa. I was fortunate enough to go on one in Tanzania through an amazing company in the summer of 2023. A couple things: 1) Animals are often as scared of us as we are of them. They won’t approach your vehicle unless provoked. 2) if an animal does try to come up to your vehicle, your safari guide should be aware enough to drive away fast enough to keep anything from happening. 3) At least where I went, in the Serengeti in Tanzania, rhinos are very rare and endangered. Most people when they go don’t get to see one at all. We were able to see one from afar, and it was amazing. Depending on where you go, rhinos shouldn’t be a problem. 4) Your tour guides should be able to drive away fast enough and keep anything from happening. They are trained and should be able to see what the animals body language is saying, and they’ll know when it’s safe to stay or whether to drive away. Dont let those horror stories on the news keep you from doing something like this! Most of the time, it’s people being crazy, (like people that get out to go pet a wild lion) and the animals are gentle and don’t care much for people. If you ever have the chance, I would definitely go. Hope this helps!
17:03 "and if you hate on my man, you don't actually like me... I DON'T CLAIM YOU!" 😂😂😂 YES, ABBY! YOU BETTER SAY IT!
So true Matt is a good one !! No one is perfect. So NO one has the right to judge her husband then try to be fake by being "nice"to abby,. Any good wife is protective of their man/family.
Hi Matt and Abby! Correctional Officer here in a women’s prison. I work with HUNDREDS of female offenders with violent and sexual crimes against children. People’s mother’s, babysitters, grandmothers, and family friends. Please help break the stigma and bring awareness that men are not the only predators.
👏 EXACTLY!!!!!
Yes! Thank you!
Sooooo true! Woman here but I have 4 sons…and hubs with experience too unfortunately…and I’ve had to teach them even just the knowledge of being careful about the situations they can get into without even thinking for even false allegations. So sad we have to think about any of it but also the “other side” often times with primarily woman being the false accusers. Man the world is dark and scary sometimes.
I love how many times Matt's mom's frugalness played into this conversation but also, how sweet that she would also be willing to sacrifice time and gas to drive him everywhere to support his dreams as a kid. Moms are awesome! 💕
THIS. ❤❤❤
So I see Matt lost the house argument completely lol. And he was the sensible one!
For real lol. You’d think they’d make big decisions like that together
@@Black_cat_27 I think he’s convinced that it’s a team decision if she’s able to squeeze a forced “yes” from him. I don’t think he’s getting enough respect as a husband, tbh.
@@Light-tc8xcA bad husband… lol.
@@Light-tc8xcI agree.
It seems that matt worries more about financials which is not bad for the man of the house ( better safe than sorry) its all going very fast for him and as he’s already said Abby earns more money than him so i get his concerns. They have done so well and have come so far for people of thier age! They will be fine ❤
Abby……. You should open a book shop attached to a coffee shop 😊 Then you can have a reading corner for kids where you can read to them.
All your dreams in one! ❤
Yes!! I was thinking the same 😊thing
And she can include her bake goods too.
I don't understand the hate they get. We're all human and I think these two are some of the better people out there!!! It's so obvious they have so much love for each other and their family. It breaks my heart to see someone publicly be so rude about someone
Matt threw a fit, and complained about his wife for combining fathers day and his birthday together while she was pregnant. They also had gotten back from a trip that day even, and she was pregnant. No shit she didn't throw two seperate parties for that man child because she was probably exhausted. But now his birthday and anniversary was combined, and that man child didn't have an issue?
"ill never trust a chimp" i NEED THAT ON A T SHIRT ...abby is so funny
Matt- (and Abby :) put your identity in Christ. He will never let you down.
This is the biggest thing they’re missing!!! Truly! I hope his brother and sister-in-law can witness to them and continue to be an example for them!
Also the conflict resolution that comes with having a biblical marriage and following biblical roles of each spouse!
Amen 🙏
I agree! That’s missing… praying they find Christ one day!
I cannot understand any hate for Matt, he’s genuinely nice and so patient.
Most of the hate is from their earlier content. And yes i am talking about the podcast content. There were just some instances where Matt's social cue for Abby's emotions and feelings were just... off. And because of that it seemed really inconsiderate on his part towards her.
I'm not saying that this is true or the actual case regarding them, I'm only speaking from the comments I've seen (I'm only on episode 32 now or somewhere there and that's when most of the hate started)
I don’t either. I think people forget that he’s still young and learning. But I’ve seen so much growth in him from first watching. I think he’s a patient guy, a good communicator and a good Dad and Husband
@@Danversdiaryhe recently got diagnosed with ADHD soooo, things like that happen. Even in "normal people" get a grip!!! No one is perfect, NEITHER ARE U 🫶🏼 or anyone else leaving hate comments
@@laurahinojosa2716 but i wasn't leaving a hate comment... I was just explaining where the hate has come from regarding OTHER people
@@laurahinojosa2716also having a wife who literally said she wanted to make fun of him for having it cant be good for you either.
Pro moving tips:
-go to liquor stores and ask if they have any boxes you can take. They’re not as big as moving boxes, but they’re perfect for books, kitchen stuff, baby stuff, or whatever else will fit! Plus they’re FREE!!
-LABEL EVERYTHING😅 We used notecards and a Sharpie on the liquor boxes since they have stuff printed on them
-We used big plastic tote/tubs as moving boxes. It is kinda pricy, but so convenient and reusable. I labeled them with sharpie and then wiped it off with lemon essential oil after we unpacked them
-You can pay extra for movers to pack up your stuff for you if you get to the point where you’re too overwhelmed or tired to pack. I would still pack up any valuables, sentimentals, and some fragile things just to be safe.
-pack a bag with a few outfits, toiletries, chargers, etc so it doesn’t get lost in all the boxes and it’s easy to grab until you can unpack everything
Excellent advice
to see how far abby has come is INSANE!!! she’s came soooo far from the early postpartum stage to being emotional, sensitive, etc to now being so bubbly and happy is actually crazy.
I’m from Jacksonville, IL…I love that your values and aren’t willing to compromise. The right part will come along when it’s the right time.
I’m so proud of you, Abby, for saying no to the audition because of your values! It’s so important to not compromise and I know that will be honored!❤
I do not in any way understand the hate Mart is getting. He is clearly obsessed with Abby, seems like an amazing and involved dad, and is so so kind. Everyone words things at times in ways they didn't mean it, that doesn't make them a bad person. He seems like an awesome dad and husband and i love seeing that for Abby and the boys.
People are obsessed with hating on him. They'll go a on whole other content creators videos only to comment "matt could never" this men is living RENT FREE in people's head no problem 😵💫
@@laurahinojosa2716 literally!! And there are SO many men that are uninvolved in their child's lives and yet this is who everyone wants to call "the worst husband on the Internet"??? It's insane
He truly seems like the kindest man and best father/husband. Some people just want to tear people down because they wish they had their happiness. Matt and Abby keep telling your truths and sharing your lives because 99% of those who know you love you and love to hear your story!
Haters are just Jeleous. It actually says more about them having to twist shit & bad mouth someone they don't even know personally
I literally saw one TH-camr make a 40 min video hating on him. Granted her whole channel was just a hate channel, it was really dumb tho, cuz she has 500k subscribers. You’d think people have better things to do in their life than creating hate channels and calling themselves influencers 🤷🏽♀️
Hi Matt and Abby, I love your podcast. Im 36 weeks and 6 days pregnant and my water broke last night but because my baby is breach I’m having a c-section in about 2 hours. So now I’m watching your podcast as I’m waiting to have my baby.
Good luck with everything ❤
Praying for a healthy delivery and baby! ❤
Good luck!🩷
Good luck! Praying for a healthy baby!
Congratulations on your healthy baby ❤
Abby, my husband and I are moving from Texas to upstate New York, and we just signed our lease last night. I'm totally feeling the same doubts after getting something I really wanted. I hope it's the right decision! We've decided to make the best choice with the information we have now, and if it doesn't work out, we can always move again. Good luck with moving and buying a new house, Abby!
Not at all surprised they put an offer on a house. From a previous podcast it was obvious Abby wanted a new house and Abby gets what Abby wants!
As she should 💅🏼
@@Gina-ur9wt Huh? In a marriage there is compromise. She should not always get her way. Sorry.
@Gina-ur9wt that's not how a adult relationship goes. Abby has some hard lessons to learn.
Finally someone said it!
@@Gina-ur9wtWhy should she? Matt was right, and Abby is impulsive.
Who sees the Father’s Day balloons in the back 😂
@44:57 omg poor Matt . Abby always looks bored when Matt talks about himself or his interests. Like her views on his ideas and goals is one of a politician? Just very vague/safe/ insincere validation Idk. I think Abby would be happier doing something else, I don’t think social media is her passion (which she’s stated multiple times) sometimes these podcasts feel forced by Abby. I feel bad for her honestly, she doesn’t seem to enjoy it the way Matt does.
She's just more down to earth/real. He's vain, long winded, and doesn't have self awareness. I was yawning too....his "music career" is an eyeroll
Y’all need to have Elise Myers on the podcast!!!!!! she’s also a music artist and ADHD lol she reminds me a lot of y’all!!!
YES!!!! She would be a perfect guest!!!
@@Angie74057💜💜💜
Is anyone else really tired of hearing about Matt's adhd in just about every episode, even since before he was diagnosed..... like we get it. You thought you had adhd, and now you've been told by a dr you have adhd. Congratulations! Now stop bringing it up in every episode!
As someone with ADHD, I sincerely hope that Matt continues to talk about ADHD.
How rude! If you don't like it, don't watch. It's quite simple.
Most people make emotional decisions, even if they don’t realize they are doing it. Sending a letter and family photo is always a great option to get someone to connect to you over summering else. Don’t feel weird about it ❤
After watching your debate on buying a house as soon as this fall, I chuckled seeing the title of this video 😂
Something my real estate mentioned a few weeks ago when I was selling my house is that he usually tries to get within 3% of asking. Just something to consider when putting an offer in a new house. The right one will come along soon. Good luck!
The lost colony of Roanoke 😂 I’m glad I’m not the only one who will randomly think about that. School brought it up and had no clarification or closure to the story soooo I’ve also been affected by this mystery 😅.
They put on a play about it in the outer banks. It’s great!
Yes! I did so many papers over this!!
No honestly lmaooo supernatural also had an episode and it messed me up lol
SOCIAL MEDIA IS SO CUTTHROAT...for real I absolutely LOVE you guys...NOBODY IS PERFECT...SHAME ON OTHER INFLUENCERS FOR NOT SUPPORTING EACH OTHER...they could use their platform to support you guys!!
Y’all should have Chip and Joanna on the podcast!
30 minutes away is NOT far at all. LOL
As someone who thrives in unorganized chaos, I’m loving the emotional whiplash yall give us with your life updates😂😂
One month ago: “we aren’t going to move for 2 more years” now: “we put an offer on a house”
I love Matt and Abby they are soo true and real I just love their wholesome conversations 💕 and love stories and take on life. I especially love the way they hype each other up and compliment one another. You guys keep being you because we love yah!!! Much love from😊 Illinois
This is laughable. They only show you what they want you to see about them. It’s a form of gaslighting.
You Dear young whippersnappers :) The Bodyguard is a movie with Whitney Houston and Kevin Costner. It is from 1992, but if you haven't watched it, you should. Whitney is Awesome in it.
Anyone cultured knows this but they’re religious…. They don’t like culture.
One of the best movies of all time in my opinion!
I love that movie!
I get the temporary high aspect, I used to try and seek some sort of outings or fillers to fill the void in my life but let me tell you the day God revealed himself to me, I never had that longing feeling ever again. ❤
God bless you both!
I was thinking the same thing girl! Amen!
these two are handling the hate so well. Matt has been receiving so much hate I even see hate comments(to Matt) on other content creator's videos. Its sad. Dont mind the comments Matt.
Exactly.. I really like these people, they are open and honest and learning life as they go.
I think it’s bc Matt said they cannot afford another house. It’s not in the budget
I do not understand hateful comments on anyone’s videos! It’s ludacris to me. And these two are just adorable, if people were held accountable for comments, I think a whole lot of them would stop. Y’all just keep going and doing your thing and we will pray to God that these people’s hate filled hearts chill out! lol ❤
They just want to hate on men. This guy hasn't hurt anyone
@@DorcasDiaries no he hasn’t
YES keep Abby’s book corner!!! I’m not even kidding I love her book suggestions!
Two things!
1. YES, ABBY! Stand up for your man anytime, anywhere. He is a good man who clearly loves you and your kids and he (and you) get entirely too much hate. I read comments here and on instagram sometimes and it just blows my mind that people can be so negative.
2. I LOVE BOOK CORNER! Please continue telling us about your books. I'm an avid reader and I love listening to people talk about their recent reads.
I love y'all so much! I, a stranger, will always defend y'all against other strangers. 😂
Abby please please drop your Goodreads!!🥰🫶
Yes please!!
We just sold our house and had 5 offers in 3 days ranging from asking price to 30k over asking (8%). We took the highest offer, with no inspection and our choice of closing date. MInnesota. It’s still a sellers market.
My friend and her husband wrote a letter to the home owner when buying their first home, and even though there were multiple offers and theirs was not the highest, the home owner chose them over the others because of the letter and picture they sent in. They said they chose them because they wanted a nice family to buy their home! So I think it’s always a great idea to at least try sending in a letter/picture because it makes you stand out over others 😊
It’s illegal to do that in some states
@@HandleToWatch oh that’s interesting, I wonder what the reasoning is for making it illegal? I’m from Canada and I don’t think it is illegal here, but I guess it’s always good to check with your realtor before doing so :)
Our realtor highly recommended us to write a letter and send a photo of our family. The owners absolutely loved it and even brought it up at the closing how they thought that was so sweet.
That’s actually a great idea !
I think it’s a great idea! & def good business & personal move. , if they say no, they’re going to feel so bad knowing they turned down such a wholesome family 😊
My best friend just got her dream home by doing this, and the sellers had 10+ offers, one of which was $20k over asking!!
When we recently sold our home, everyone wrote a letter. In the end it was the offer that mattered.
We got a house based upon my letter, even beat out a higher bidder.
I love the new segment - Abby's book corner!
Matt, love you but I wanted to share some advice.
I think you should focus on things like getting vocal coach to help produce your songs! Your voice is great but you need some confidence and guidance. I worry your music will fall flat once your fans are saturated and start wanting higher quality music.
You have everything going for you BUT I worry that with a limited voice the long term isn’t being considered.
Your songs are doing good so far but you need to keep making mini hits. Music videos do not have a great ROI in general, busy especially not for a smaller artist.
I’d suggest focusing on your socials (which you already are which is great) and really refining your sound and writing. Your lyrics need some polishing as well. So spend he time between releases practicing and collaborating on/ tweaking lyrics.
I think you have a lot of potential but it’s easy to be distracted by doing the fun stuff. Focus on your development, and everything else will just happen and make sense!
I highly recommend NOT putting chunks of your own money in to music videos at this time. Low budget, sure. But if you’re trying to go high production value, retelling a story already perfectly portrayed by the movie, hoping it will “launch” your career, you’re going to be disappointed. You can only go viral for the same thing so many times. There is always an expiration on that stuff, so make sure your talent and art is undeniable.
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I agree with this.
Abby all happy, got her way with a house. The difference.
Matt's a man baby. Pregnant wife combined the birthday and father's day and you're being ungrateful, downing your wife who was pregnant, and complaining. But it's alright if it's your anniversary and your birthday together? Why didn't you throw a fit over that? Your wife deserves better.
It's so childish to have a little tantrum about not getting what you want on your birthday.
I can't believe i just watched a grown as man with two kids complain about not getting enough attention on his birthday
Widow = woman loses spouse
Widower = man looses spouse
I just think matt is an easy target, not because he’s dumb of anything like that, because he’s sweet, he cares about different things but fronts like he’s got everything figured out, making him an easy target, I personally love watching both of em! And yes he says BAD THINGS AT BAD TIMES LOL, but that’s life dudes give them grace
I honestly think he's on the autism spectrum. My daughter is autistic too and they have very very similar qualities. She has ADHD too like Matt does
@@yvonne8786I think he’s autistic as well. My husband is and they act soooo similar
Umm or he’s getting hate for the terrible things he says/ how he treats his wife on camera. If he treats her like crap when the cameras on.. can’t imagine how it is when the cameras off. Dude literally admitted to giving her the silent treatment after she just gave BIRTH. He makes her feel like crap about herself all the time ON CAMERA. So do t be so shocked why people dislike him.
@@jessicawamsley1652 he's always telling her how beautiful she is and complimenting her. Plus he gave her the silent treatment because she refused to give the baby formula when the baby wouldn't eat. He was worried about their child and she was hell bent on doing things her way! He obviously loves her and is always doing things with his kids. The women always putting him down are jealous or just hate men in general because he's not a bad guy. A little immature yes, but he's still a good guy
@@jessicawamsley1652what do you even know about their personal lives just be quiet and mind your own business. This couple is much better than a lot of them out there.
It helps to be content. After you move, will you find another dream house a year later?
I love hearing about books Abby and Matt are reading!
Fun fact that isn't commonly known; none of the witches in salem were burned at the stake. They were hanged, but the burnings took place in whats today Peabody, Ma (I grew up in the next town over from Salem in Lynn)
The perfect marriage is such a good book. You’ll love reading it
I see some people often talk about how Abby and Matt seem to disagree a lot. We are all different. No two people are identical. I believe that when a married couple agrees about everything, it is often because one or both are scared of conflict. It's perfectly fine to not agree about everything. It's natural. How you handle disagreements and conflicts is what matters.
I like that Abby and Matt both are comfortable voicing their different opinions. It's a sign of a healthy marriage in my opinion.
Many times I need this energy.
Thank God.
After watching this,I will be good to face the day
I LOVED the bodyguard! We read it in our book club and it’s one of my favorite reads!
staying up late cleaning DUB i get to see the brand new episode keep going guy we love yall
I love Abby’s book corner segment! I read the perfect marriage and loved it! Looks like my next book is the bodyguard since you gave it a 5/5. Also a busy mom that’s trying to squeeze in reading anytime I can, except now when I’m watching the podcast instead haha
Thanks for book recommendations! I just finished The Bodyguard and loved it!!😊
Abby's on such a high at the beginning here. So cute, so happy for her!
What is meant to be will be!! Trust the process! Y’all got THIS!!!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love seeing Abby finding herself outside of motherhood again its awesome 🥹
49:50 “I’ll never trust a chimp” why did that sound so funny 🤣
You are in for it on the perfect marriage! My jaw was on the floor.😅 love your content, thank you for all you do ❤️
You can go to safari parks in USA too. They are not that huge, but it’s a blast. Even before having kids we enjoyed driving in our car through the park, meeting and feeding animals, it was a wonderful experience.
Hush abby you’ve been dying to move 😂
Matt's reassurance about figuring out the house thing was so precious. 🥹
I’m with Matt, I wanna flip a house into an Airbnb or something so bad but they look like a lot of work and money, but it’s also something I really wanna do
They actually have one already!
Matt and Abby get so much hate but I really do see how much Matt compliments Abby in a deep genuine way every episode. I think sometimes his words come out the wrong way that he doesn’t mean. They couldn’t make me hate you guys. Lots of love here!! ❤
You guys inspired me to make my own family vlogs, I love these videos so much 🥹💞💞
Family blogging is such a joke
Do not put your children’s faces online ❤
I had asked what had happened to your Airbnb in a short for this episode. I should have waited to watch this episode.
For those of you not familiar with Phoenix, it sometimes takes 2 hrs from one end to the other depending on if there are accidents, roadwork, vokume, etc.
THE LOST COLONY OF ROANOKE HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂that had me dead
Abby!! I love reading too! You should start an online book review page
Wishing you and your family the best.
Love your banter! May I ask where your couch is from that you are filming on in this episode? It looks very comfy.
Omg I love the Bodyguard!! I also just finished Five Survive yesterday and I didn’t love it either.
PLEASE make a Goodreads and link it cuz I’d love to be a part of your little bookclub!
I see all the animals like a Disney animals too 😂 48:53
Ahh Matthew, there is no way you will be in that new house for 20 years, the lead prosecutor will do anything to cut a deal now because it is the number 1 thing in their life.
KEEP the book talk Abby! So fun.
Homeschooling is amazing! I homeschool my two boys and they thoroughly enjoy the freedom that comes with it. Arizona also offers ESA which helps aid in curriculum and so many other things and supplies for you to educate your child at home. Definitely worth looking into if you stay in Arizona 🌵
I can totally envision your vision of your song video Matt.
I just picture you like Benjamin button older man sitting in your porch reading the paper and reminiscing your younger self grabbing Abby from her waist while she is either cooking or doing dishes and starting to dance together then your boys joining in the dance around your kitchen. Then you pick each of them up and throw them up in the sky as the camera lens go back from outside the window and into your old eyes...
Lol can't wait to see if our visions align hehe
what a great call back with benjamin button such a great movie, so underrated and funny stuff
I’m a teacher in NC and I had to teach about the lost colony of roanoke for the first time this year and I was so confused and haven’t stopped thinking about it since either lol.
Fellow fourth grade teacher in NC here! I've found some great Lost Colony resources that might help. My students especially love Roanoke: The Lost Colony - An Unsolved Mystery from History by Jane Yolen. It's out of print, but I bet you can find it through a library or used book sale. There's an interesting History Comic on it, and a good background book by Jean Fritz. There's lots of video options out there. I like the one from the History Channel best. There's also a good video from PBS SciTech about recent archaeological findings.
I love Abby's book corner. More please ❤😊
I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!! Thank you Abby for addressing this ridiculous hate towards Matt. You all are amazing people and have a great relationship. Keep being you! Love your videos!
While it is interesting that all of the sudden they might move somewhere, it seems wrong to judge their whole marriage by this. While they seem to disagree a lot, one thing to keep in mind is that they really put themselves out here on the internet. They get vulnerable and share a lot of things in the moment that most people wouldn’t share or show about their own life or especially their marriage. So while they may seem to disagree as a married couple more than the average couple would, also good to keep in mind they show much more than the average couple would.
The more they share the more money they make. These two know what sells and doesn’t and use it to monetize from it. Abby is a business women and it show. No hate for that but it’s a struggle watching them lately.
say this LOUDER!!!!!
Love your Podcast! I went on several Safaris and even a walking Safari but it is super important to get a Guide with some great knowledge because it always depends on your behaviour. Animals just want to live their life and are much more peaceful than humans but you need to experience it yourself.
Interesting they allowed you to submit a letter and photo with your offer for the house. Here in St. Louis, our realtor this past month actually said they have passed laws you can no longer do that because it opens up the possibility for discrimination…. Idk if this was an addition to the fair housing act or something.
I love your podcast !
Hi Matt and Abby u guys are so amazingg !!!!! ❤💕
Explain in detail what is so amazing about this couple. It drives me crazy when people say shit like that because they don’t know their real lives. These comments are just sucking up.
i need abby's book corner every podcast from now on tyvm
Lets goooo !!!! Matt and Abby are an insane couple. Love you both, and abby im learning to be a girls girl later in life, its not so easy these days but you keep making me try❤ thank you
Abby! I am a member of the Lumbee Tribe out of North Carolina. I do believe that our tribe was formed from The Lost Colony! It’s really interesting to research. Hope this helps your curious mind lol
I felt the same way about “Five Survive”! I would give it 3/5 too because with a mystery, I want to be able to go back and see what clues I missed. It’s a good book, but I don’t think I would be able to figure it out if I went back and read it again. I liked the plot a lot though.
Matt and Abby, I'm excited about the music video. Abby, the way you feel about the house sounds like me kinda you want something now that you may get it, it seems scary to do the move. I'll definitely going to feel that way when my family moves out of the house we live in.
Please tell Abby that libraries totally take volunteers!!! We go to story time regularly, and there is a volunteer that helps read the books and basically assists the children’s librarian with story time. Also, I volunteered at the library regularly as a teen and usually helped with the summer reading program.
Matt is torn between Abby’s desires and her family it seems lol I was surprised when he mentioned how her mom didn’t like the idea of them supposedly moving to Nashville to peruse His dreams 😢
Probably because her parents moved to Arizona to help them & be around the grandkids.
Abby you should visit Manteo in the OBX of NC- you can go to a museum where the colony was and in the summer the outdoor theater has a show about it that’s actually really well done!
I know you guys mostly don’t read comments BUT You guys are amazing! I’m so sorry for the hate. I pray and hope you guys don’t even focus on that. There is so much love for you guys! You’re both genuine and real and it’s obviously foreign to the social media world that people have to hate on it. We love you guys and Matt you’re an amazing husband, father, son, friend and businessman (just to name a few!).
The letter I wrote to the seller did make a difference! We offered under asking after 3 days on the market and we got it. They left us a letter in the house saying it was because of our letter.
You guys briefly talked about sparatically going on a safari in Africa. I was fortunate enough to go on one in Tanzania through an amazing company in the summer of 2023. A couple things: 1) Animals are often as scared of us as we are of them. They won’t approach your vehicle unless provoked. 2) if an animal does try to come up to your vehicle, your safari guide should be aware enough to drive away fast enough to keep anything from happening. 3) At least where I went, in the Serengeti in Tanzania, rhinos are very rare and endangered. Most people when they go don’t get to see one at all. We were able to see one from afar, and it was amazing. Depending on where you go, rhinos shouldn’t be a problem. 4) Your tour guides should be able to drive away fast enough and keep anything from happening. They are trained and should be able to see what the animals body language is saying, and they’ll know when it’s safe to stay or whether to drive away.
Dont let those horror stories on the news keep you from doing something like this! Most of the time, it’s people being crazy, (like people that get out to go pet a wild lion) and the animals are gentle and don’t care much for people. If you ever have the chance, I would definitely go.
Hope this helps!
I love Nashville. We lived there and in California. Still thinking of coming back to Nashville because of its nature, people, etc.
Nah