HOW TO CELEBRATE PRIDE MONTH IN THE CLOSET
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- HOW TO CELEBRATE PRIDE SECRETLY 🌈 Need ways to celebrate pride month at home, alone, or at school? I've got you covered!! Here's my tips on celebrating pride month in the closet x
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0:00 Why I Made This Video
0:44 Learn The History
1:05 Wear The Rainbow
1:25 Tie-Dye in Pride Colours
1:43 Watch LGBTQ+ Content
2:41 Gay Movie Night
2:49 Watch/Make Gay TikToks
3:15 LGBTQ+ Music
3:44 Add Pronouns to Instagram
4:10 Go to Pride as an Ally
4:42 Buy From Queer Businesses
5:18 Find Your People
5:42 Final Thoughts
(lol sorry about 1:30 it was supposed to be the lesbian flag but my harddrive switched it with something random yikes)
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Have any tips for celebrating pride in the closet? It might help a fellow gay if you leave them below 🖤 P.S If you missed it, Teaching My Mum LGBT Terms PART 2 IS UP!! th-cam.com/video/l6GBv5tn2tM/w-d-xo.html
What would you say to young guys who have some serious fear issues about coming out? Lol even just perusing straight relationships, or any affection at all...
I'm not even bad looking, but I'm just scared of showing love due to PTSD. Even though I know the LGBT community is welcoming, I'm frigiyer than Jack Frost.⛄
It's hard for me not to detail an essay about my mental situation, I've already deleted two or three as to keep it readable...
I don’t know if you’ll see this but, you have really helped me to come out to myself and some of my family. And I just feel so happy when I watch these videos! It’s good to have a fellow Australian Lesbian. Thanks 😊
Me, who's been fully out for nearly two years now: Yes, this seems like a good thing to watch.
lol
Ikr me never in my life will I come out lol 😂 no then pride month comes and basically attacks me and says hi hi come here tell them about it tell them me still not telling anyone but my friends anything
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HAHAHA YES 😂
Makeing pride flags in games like Minecraft, researching things and saying it’s for a project if I get caught, colors, and listening to songs/watching movies and youtubers are what I’ve been doing. My mom and them are none the wiser.
I’m out to one of my cousins and I’m going to schedule a hangout night with her to celebrate a little bit.
I’m also out to online friends whom I talk to regularly and I’m planning to come out to my irl best friend.
Yea then there is me never in my life will I come out lol 😂
I actually have a pride flag world in minecraft, I think my mom is suspecting I'm gay though because I had my noise canceling headphones in and she came into my room while I was writing a letter in the world about being gay and I turn around and she's there, she saw my pride world🥴
Massive brain chad here. Thank you so much.
I’m out to some of my friends! + online friends
If you're a lesbian and want to listen to a lesbian song, you can listen to girls by girl in red if you haven't already. Happy Pride Month!!! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Yea happy pride month
OMG I love girl I red! I found her before even finding out I'm a Lesbian but I've been listening to her since
Ya'll are valid and loved, in or out of the closet! PS listen to Kat Cunning, particularly my masc enby babes - their music is divine ♡
Yes yes yes 💗🥺 to everything
Thank you!
Also, thanks for the new music artist recommendation!!
omg im so glad u made this
Thank you so much for this! I was kinda sad this month cuz it's my first pride month knowing I'm not straight and it feels like I can't do anything to celebrate because I'm not out of the closet yet. Tysm you're awesome Lauren
You are so welcome! Now you know that you can still have a good pride month and celebrate it even if you’re not out 🖤🖤
Me too
I'm biromantic asexual
@@laurenelloise yeah lol I just entered my “baby gay” phase after exiting my “hardcore denial” phase 😅 tryna get into that Bloomer phase 🤞🏻
Omg same 😭
Even the intro alone was so heartwarming and uplifting ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I love girl in red
❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Me too!!! 🥺 she’s awesome
@@laurenelloise I know right 😁
THANKYOU!!!!!! i've just been listening to Girl in Red my entire walk home (which is what i usually do anyway so it's not a lot)
Aw this is cute! Also ur welcome 😇
You saved me
Thank you so much 😭 my family AND I are VERY Christian, but I’m worried they won’t accept me. I am still questioning myself. I currently think I am bi, I am mostly attracted to males, but if a girl asked me out I would say yes.
My suggestion is to see how they would react to an LGBTQIA+ person on tv or out in public, if you see someone watch how they react, if they dont seem bothered, you can try it a few more times until you feel safe. But dont feel pressured into coming out. Come out when you feel ready and your environment feels safe. It might also help to wait until you have the ability to provide for yourself so you can give them some space to process it or if things go wrong.
Another thing I do is make pride flags in video games. I have a private Minecraft world with my pride flags, and some pride flags in my custom designs in Animal Crossing New Horizons.
LOVE LOVE LOVE this
Tysm!!! For pride month I asked my mom for a big bag of skittles, (my excuse was it was for a end of the school year thing-) and I’ve been eating one rainbow of skittles everyday, Best and easiest way I’ve ever celebrated pride month in the closet UwU
Amazing video my friend, happy Pride Month, I'll always support you as a friend and ally, positive vibes. ❤️🙏🌈
@@laurenelloise You're very welcome
Thabk you so much for your support! Happy pride 🌈 (idk why but yt delete my reply)
@@laurenelloise You're welcome, it's all good
Hi Lauren! And I kind of needed this, so thank you! Lol 💜
@@laurenelloise
@@laurenelloise Its ok!
These videos are amazing Lauren , I'm so happy you're doing this for all the people who need it
Ahhh fankssssss heaps! 🥰
Happy pride month^^
Thanks for the tips^^🏳️🌈🤍
Happy pride 🖤 also you are very welcome !
Lauren I love your videos 😭💛💛 please keep making more it really feels safe here in this channel
You don’t understand how happy this makes me feel when I hear this! 🖤 this is exactly how I want my channel/videos to feel, safe !! Of course, I’ll keep making more!!
Being in the closet is so difficult. When I first started questioning I never really realised how hard this journey of figuring myself out was going to be. I know I am Lesbian but I don't know how my family will react to me telling them. I think my mum will accept me but I don't know about my dad, I think my grandparents will but you know different generation and all that 😐 It doesn't help that one of the only women in the media and on American TV (Ellen Degeneres) is leaving her show and all that other "cancel culture" drama is happening and it makes me sad. I am really struggling now 😢 She was the first woman that I saw that was gay that made me realise that what I was feeling was ok and that I could still be happy. I just don't know what to do with myself,sometimes I wake up and I feel like telling my mum but then I just don't and I have been up and down about it for months. It sometimes feels that I will be stuck in the closet forever 😢 I would like a girlfriend but fear is stopping me.
I know this comment is personal but I really needed to get my feelings out . I hope you can understand.
Listen I’m here for you it’s has being closeted I was in it for years as a gay man but it was had because people bullied me for it
It gets better trust me
Ooo I like the raindbow idea to wear each day one colour. That is so awesome.
@@laurenelloise yes it is great people won't know.
A good example of a bold but subtle gay show is “The Owl House” where the main character Luz has a girlfriend called Amity. (That’s pretty much what the show says) But also not having that be the main plot, but there are little snippets of gay e.g when Amity kisses Luz on the cheek.
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk
When you recommended TH-camrs I’m like now I add them all 🥰
I really needed this today, thank you for making my day loads better! Love from England 😊💞
EEEEeeeeen you are so welcome!
*when you came out June 1st cuz u didn't realize you could celebrate pride month in the closet*
The funny thing is I'm out to basically everyone except my family. Anyways, I'm celebrating pride month by changing my discord profile pic to another lbgt anime character every other day, which makes a change from my usual one lol
Yea same
i love your eyeshadow!!!
thank you!!!
Hehe I love how you add your own channel. Well your channe is the best.
Thanks for this video . 🏳️🌈
first
(also this is rlly helpful ty 🥰)
i watch your videos all the time,im 11 years old and im still in the closet but i will definitely try most of it, and you are so cool !!!
Just remember this no matter what anyone tells nothing is wrong with deciding young
@@euphoriaanimatesthanks, i needed that
Thank you so much-! I’m so happy I saw this
I'm 13 and I never really thought about me being part of the lgbtq+ community, plenty of my friends are so it has crossed my mind but I've never seriously thought about it. Recently a lot of your videos have been coming onto my recommended page and well I think you know where I'm going with this-
Point of the story is now I have a crush on my friend and I'm bad at hiding it, so as you may have been able to tell it's going great
i went through the same thing and i confessed and got turned down 2 days ago- if you need to vent please do i know how it hurts
It so does being rejected is the worsts thing and when people keep talking to you about it it’s the worst feeling
Thank you so much!!!! It's rea;ly scary facing new feelings like this and I think this will help me a lot.
When I'm old enough I'm going to a pride event (btw I'm only 13)
You’ll love it when you go! They have the best atmosphere.
@@laurenelloise hope i would be able to have a friend to join me
Agree
Same
Hey Lauren!!😁 Long time no see😥 I was off-line for two years and finally back on last year or this year sorry. I'm just happy to see you and your videos. Always keep on doing what you're doing. Love you as a youtuber. Stay strong stay Gay😃😁😊😇😎
Omg love Noah and love your content already 😭
I am not gonna lie I am literally terrified to come out to my mom 🤕👏😭👏
Me to
thank you for the ideas to celebrate pride month your the best youtuber i have ever watched and you and your gal pal are so cute together!
Thank you so much!!
Now this is what I've been looking for :D
Xana is one of my favorite lesbian artists!! Also something I did last year was I wore bracelets in the color of my flag on my wrists, and super fun and not that noticeable!
I love Cavetown! Their music is so cozy ☺️
Me too!!!
Thank u so much Lauren
Ur videos are amazing❤️
Thank you so much!! ur welcome!!
Ok yes I needed this
I've been in the closet for IDK a year by now?
Also, love the video! Really helps!
This is my first pride month recognizing myself as a lesbian...thank you so much.
Also if ur closeted and ur nervous about ur parents finding out you can do small things: like taking markers that ur pride flags color And put them on ur desk. Or you can make brackets with the colors.
I did this accidently but my parents don't know anything about LGBTQIA+ so it's not gonna work lol
@@rebekahmcc23 my parents do know like everything about lgbtq but they think I just like colors no I’m just pan pls understand this lol 😂 but no it’ll never happen lol 😝
@@animevibes5867 haha I understand 😫
omg thank u so much so helpful‼️💖🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
I just watch TH-camrs in English with LGBT content because my family just speak Spanish 😜 that's another way to celebrate when you're still in the closet 🥳🥰
i love how ur make up is the lesbian flag colors
Thank you for noticing hehehe
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 2024!🏳🌈
I'm literally listening to You Need To Calm Down by Taylor Swift on repeat
Happy pride month! 2 LGBT artists I recommend are Mxmtoon and Chloe Moriondo
Please your eye makeup in this video 😍 also loved this video idea!
On the films/ tv shows, for the subtle gay has charlie's angels and the runaways both have Kristen Stewart in❤🌈
This is great advice and I enjoyed this great video and thank you for this video and headphones are fantastic
I love ur channel sm
THANKUUUU
2:19 LOL I'm subscribed to them all😆
LEGEND
I went to my first pride event with a friend today! It was rlly fun : )
Ahhhh that’s so exciting! I’m so glad you had a good time! Was it what you expected ?
@@laurenelloise yes! It was really nice being in a place I knew I was welcome to be who I really am :)
My subtle way to celebrate pride was painting my nails with the bi flag. My friends totally got it, my students thought I was going for a galaxy theme lol.
Thank you so much!!! I am out to my family and close friends but not the world. Also I did not know where to put this but my mom tried to buy me pride crocs today!!! It was so thoughtful but I don’t want them so I said no❤️
3:34 another great lgbtq song is only the brave by Louis Tomlinson (some may not agree)
yes !! i love louis (and that song) !!
YOU ARE THE BEST!
Another band that has has some nice LGBTQ+ content is The Crane Wives. A lot of their songs have really subtle gay undertones (and I mean REALLY subtle, so if people hear it they’re probably not gonna figure it out at all!), and plus their music is just amazing. They’re such an underrated band, too.
This Video Is Very Helpful. 😭
watching this with the volume on full blast
I love listening to lgbtq+ playlists
You could watch The Prom on Netflix, or you could listen to its soundtrack. You could also watch Victorious on Netflix too, or possibly listen to its soundtrack as well.
Happy pride month!
I know im two years late but clairio and baby queen and orla gartland are some of my favorite LGBTQ+ singers!
Me sitting in supportive mom and un supportive dad: hello
SaLaMi
GIVE ME BACK MY HAMSTER
DONT YOU JUMP AT ME ILL STAN YOUR PARENTS
Yes thanks 🤠
"Watch gay stuff"
... when do I not, though? Lol tysm for posting this
Happy pride month! 🏳️🌈
gonna go listen to panic at the disco now
Such a lovely video. Thanks for suport and happy pride💜💙💚💛❤
You are so kind, happy pride!!!
@@laurenelloise oo thank you. Btw I am wearing NB flag colers, Watched feel good TV series and as always listenned a ton of pride playlists on spotify. Thank you for awsome suggestions.
Reneè Rapp she is Bi and is a artist and a actress ❤
First comment but I can tell this is gonna be fun
Yessss 🥺 hope you find it helpful (idk why but yt delete my reply)
Yes, it was great keep it up ❤️loads of love from India 🥺🙏🏻
I have an idea!!
rainbow pins!!! You can just say you like rainbow!!! 😊
Thank youuuuuuu
Me: Looking on the list to try and find The Owl House and remembering that it isn't on Netflix
Kinda early?-
But thank you! I’m out to my dad, mom, brother, and my big brothers friend but no one else accept 2 of my friends. So I can do this and my grandparents and others won’t really know.
I love wearing headphones and listining to gay music while I am near my family and feeling like, what would they say, if they know what music i am listinig to.
I seriously am subscribing to her/you because um-
I think I’m bi, but my mom and dad are kinda homophobic-
Not really, they support the LGBTQ+ community, but they think I’m ‘too young’.
Like if I can date guys, and see guys and girls kissing, hugging, etc., I can see girls kissing, hugging, (etc.) too.
I’m rlly lucky to have a lesbian principal bc last pride month everyone brought in pride flags and it was so nice!
oh my god thats so wholesome!!
For anyone who wants some animated subtle gay shows, there’s also The Owl House, and She-Ra.
I love your eye makeup
thank you!!! i try ahahha still learnin'
Honestly I’ve been In the closet for so long that I don’t think I’ll ever come out to my family. My family consists of my Christian mother and younger sister so it would suck to loose them because our beliefs are different. I’m not the most obvious gay person but I don’t try to hide it most of the time I just don’t bring it up unless there’s something to say like a joke. It’s a big risk and I’d rather be that one aunt who decided to never marry for some reason instead of the black sheep who was perfect in every way from grades to friends to activities and work and handling responsibilities but turned out to be gay, damning them all and throwing away everything they sacrificed because I “decided” to be gay.
Its wonderful how you value your family but sometimes its healthy to put yourself first, im not pressuring you into anything, and i think that you should do what makes you happy, any way you want. The way i see it, you only have one life and you should live it any way you want despite what others think of you, living like that is freeing. But i also think that you should decide for yourself. You know more than anyone what you need and want so you should do what you feel is right!
also if you want, you can try to test the waters to see how your family reacts to homosexuality, like seeing a gay couple on tv and seeing what their reaction is. You should do what makes you feel safe in the end, finding peace with yourself and your surroundings can make everything better so its up to you and where you feel the most comfortable!
I've been wanting to go to pride but I don't think they're doing it in Indiana due to Covid....
I'm scared to celebrate pride because my parents are Christian and they do not support LGBT at all and if I make it obvious I'm scared they are going to take me to church to “Get the disease out of me”, that is what they said when I asked what they would do if I became a lesbian and since I still live with my parents I have no actual free will
So this actually helped *a lot*
Great vid, across the ditch friend❤️
Thanks for watching Stephen!!
thank you thank you thank you so much. My mother will flip out if she knows.
I use very subtle wallpaper on my phone in the lesbian flag colors
highly underrated lesbian singer: clairo i love her
you guys should listen to wish you were gay by Billie Eilish - it’s such a relaxing song with a really good meaning behind it!!
I'm not out to my family but I wear rainbow bracelets for a little touch of pride and they don't think anything of it
I did tie-dye of pride flags 😂 i have a pansexual one, a trans one and a rainbow one 😅
Domo Wilson has really great music
I listen to honey by Kehlani 24/7 and girls like Girls by Hayley
highly recommend ratched
HOW GOOD WAS IT!!??
Oooh yes, I've been debating doing the tie dye shirt thing I just haven't gotten around to tie dying any shirts yet. Also I don't know which flag is mine yet either...
you could totally just do a rainbow tie dye, that covers everything and you can still use it once you do figure out what flag is yours!
@@laurenelloise Oh yeah! Thanks! I think I'll do that once the weather clears up.
Happy Pride Month everyone and I been out as Bi and sadly my parents don’t support it at all cause they are homophobic and I chose to not come out as non binary or demisexual but I have a lot of pride merch in my room
Wow I love this! #HappyLGBTQPrideMonth2022