The startup success rate would probably be something much higher if this video was mandatory viewing for all first time founders. Incredible stuff. Infinite gratitude.
If you ever in YC then do not complain about how hard life is. Imagine having these guys to talk to all day? Making things easier for the lucky ones in YC.
On attachment styles, related to the last question, someone can, indeed, become "acquired secure." Meaning they didn't grow up that way but learned it as an adult. Also, there are 4 attachment styles actually: the fourth is Anxious-Avoidant or Disorganized Attachment. It sounds paradoxical and is. Sometimes the result of abusive parents where the person both received love and abuse from the same person as a child. The book Attachment Effect is a great read on Attachment styles in general. This talk is just what I needed this week. Perfect timing.
Don't forget as well that people change and their needs too in the span of 10 years. Are they able to learn to adapt and share with you when they feel they needs have changed? they want family, etc.
When I see a link in the video, I feel frustration and anger, because I need convenience to save the time on typing it in. Would you be able to add an active link in description or as a popup? Thank you!
Is there empirical evidence this works? The time and effort needed to deal with this level of touch seems resource consuming beyond benefit at least at first glance to me. I feel like if there is sufficient professionalism much of this is not needed. Then again I am a solo founder so mountain of salt on my words
Instant loss of credibility when you say you can predict the success of a marriage with 94 percent certainty. Seriously that’s insulting to your intelligence to even say that
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Can we get the lecture slides, please? The link above doesn't work.
The startup success rate would probably be something much higher if this video was mandatory viewing for all first time founders. Incredible stuff. Infinite gratitude.
or lower, cause many founders would reconsider
True
If you ever in YC then do not complain about how hard life is. Imagine having these guys to talk to all day? Making things easier for the lucky ones in YC.
This is amazing stuff!! Not just for founders but anyone in general! Thank you for it
On attachment styles, related to the last question, someone can, indeed, become "acquired secure." Meaning they didn't grow up that way but learned it as an adult. Also, there are 4 attachment styles actually: the fourth is Anxious-Avoidant or Disorganized Attachment. It sounds paradoxical and is. Sometimes the result of abusive parents where the person both received love and abuse from the same person as a child. The book Attachment Effect is a great read on Attachment styles in general.
This talk is just what I needed this week. Perfect timing.
Can confirm that secure attachment can be acquired.
Kevin Hale talks are great!
This years videos are awesome
I love the table after 15mins and move to a Friday meeting and by then many of them resolve themselves.
I'm picking up my jaw from the floor right now. What an incredibly good lecture.
Fascinating talk. Did not expect it to be packed full of psychology tips. I'll follow up and read the suggested links. Thank you!
Wow this is a must watch not just for founders, but for all leaders - clear, actionable, and inspiring! Thank you Kevin!
It is one of the most interesting video i have ever seen.
Incredible content. Can't believe this is free
i am very amazed. every time i listen to a presentation from Y Combinator!
This is an excellent talk and really found it helpful, I also love some of the tools presented to help us all. Thanks Kevin!
This is super useful, every college grad (or a drop out) preparing to work in teams should see this
love these videos!
This talk is gold
This is amazing! Thank you
When [YC posts a video on TH-cam], I feel [elated], because I’m needing some [mastery]. Would you be able to [ommmgggg never leave me]?
Well done, sir.
Brilliant. Kevin delivers!
Fantastic approach to problem solving
Amazing video!
I feel like I’ve been to a therapist with out me talking at all and for free! This is amazingly useful information.
Awesome content and delivery! Kevin always finds a way to make his talks funny and engaging
Also, I laughed very hard at 36:35 :))
wow, really thanks!
Really helpful. Thanks!
Can you share the PDF with evaluative emotions Kevin talks about on 18:30?
This talk is really great !!
This is a GOLLD! Thanks a lot!
Such a valuable presentation - great job
I appreciate the tips Kevin 🙏
One of the most amazing speech. 🤓
This is very helpful information, thanks a lot sir.
Amazing talk, really interesting
Love this!
Great stuff...learning to take action.
Great talk.
could you please guys publish the links?
How to save this video twice?
Download it! Lols
I cant find the slides in the link, great content obviusly love it
Can we get the lecture slides, please? The link above doesn't work.
👍great
Don't forget as well that people change and their needs too in the span of 10 years. Are they able to learn to adapt and share with you when they feel they needs have changed? they want family, etc.
Incorrect link to the slides in the description. Please, correct it
"God forbid, seven of you!"
XDXDXD
Makes me think if a partnership in business is overrated
When I see a link in the video, I feel frustration and anger, because I need convenience to save the time on typing it in. Would you be able to add an active link in description or as a popup? Thank you!
Gottman is the model for couples counseling. No one does it like him.
Is there empirical evidence this works? The time and effort needed to deal with this level of touch seems resource consuming beyond benefit at least at first glance to me. I feel like if there is sufficient professionalism much of this is not needed. Then again I am a solo founder so mountain of salt on my words
MAHALOS
The video about attachment styles, mentioned by the lecturer, is available at: th-cam.com/video/2s9ACDMcpjA/w-d-xo.html
Attachment styles
th-cam.com/video/2s9ACDMcpjA/w-d-xo.html
this was corny basically you have to teach people common sense nowadays
Instant loss of credibility when you say you can predict the success of a marriage with 94 percent certainty. Seriously that’s insulting to your intelligence to even say that
Ugh, don't recommend School of Life. Toxic video series.