To the girl that feels upset with your bf while doing long distance in college. I totally relate to this. My fiancé is in the Navy and I made the decision to stay home instead of moving with him. I used to find myself getting upset for no reason. I talked to him about it and I realized I wouldn’t do things for me, like workout, spend time with friends, or do any of my hobbies. Once I started doing those things more I felt better for myself and our conversations were a lot more fun and light hearted rather than focusing on how sad we are when we’re apart. I hope that helps!
👶🏻currently in the newborn phase (1 month in) and it does get easier ❤ but it is extremely challenging emotionally - just the horomones and sleep deprivation make everything feel so so hard. But little things like stretching (even just for 5min), the shortest naps ever, or small walks will make such a big difference. I have a newfound respect for moms now as a new mom myself ❤
The girl in the one submission wants her boyfriend to propose to her but she is talking to her ex again and still has feelings for him!? I don't think either of them are ready for that commitment if that's their current state
@the girl trying to have a more comfortable hospital birth, I feel like maybe bringing a blanket of your own, pillow of your own, music you like, maybe bring a lamp or string lights that you can set up to not have the bright hospital lighting and make it feel more homey. Maybe your hospital or birth center might let you bring a candle or diffuser to help the scent. I think there’s plenty of ways to make it more comfortable, just figuring out what your hospital allows and what will make you feel better. There’s also many hospitals that have tubs for birthing and I saw someone else recommend a doula
To the girl getting married but doesn’t have a good relationship with dad, don’t ask permission. My husband did that out of respect and it circled back to him not asking permission to date me in the first place. Just enjoy your wedding and allow yourself some peace. I didn’t have my father walk me down the aisle but I did have my brother with me and that was far more meaningful than anything. Now my brother and I are closer than we’ve ever been and I am grateful for that relationship ❤
No the girl from 28:00 talking about “wanting to get engaged” to her current boyfriend and in the next breath talking about her ex….. you are the problem sister. Take some time to reflect and stop blaming the guys for your own issues
And even worse than that - Sarah and Lo telling her to go back to the ex and maybe it’ll make her boyfriend “get it together” is absolutely ridiculous.
I was looking for a comment like that. I am like, girl save yourself and that poor current boyfriend. You obviously dont love him, because... checking on your ex? No. Neither are okay for you. One of them feels that you re not right, and doesnt want to propose. Other one is ex for a reason. And you just want a ring on your finger. Thats not how the marriage works.
42:35 I TOTALLY get this!!! My hubby was coming home from basic training, we met at the airport to see him come home, and his mom RAN to him before I could get to him. I was 5 months pregnant and felt totally left out from welcoming him home. Then she insisted we stay at their house while he was home and before we left to where he was stationed. 😳😳
I had a home birth with my first. It was the best decision for us. My midwife traveled and would always come to us, whether that be trailer or house. I thought my midwife without having to pay the crazy hospital prices was cheap. Now... If that's still not an option for you in your area, birthing centers are the way to go. And finally if you absolutely are going to the hospital for your birth, have your husband 100% on your side for everything. You don't have to be continuously monitored, even in the hospital, you can keep that door shut at basically all times, you can tell them you only want to see one nurse, you can tell them "no" to pretty much everything. Educate yourself on the topic. If I had to have a hospital birth, I would absolutely be the biggest bitch around. But don't stress it too much. The best child birth book I've ever read was Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, if you are interested in reading more about the process
Low ferritin levels (an iron protein), can cause horrible ADD/ADHD symptoms. Other vitamin and mineral deficiencies can cause other horrible mental health issues. Make sure you are eating a whole food healthy diet, full of nutrients and drink plenty of water. It helps a ton. More than most people really understand.
Advocating for yourself doesn’t have to be against someone else. Having someone to support you letting doctors and nurses know your wishes builds the team. Going in with the mindset that advocating for yourself is against the people you need to work with will set everything off with a negative tone.
55:42 if you are looking for an advocate for your birth you could see if there is a doula in the area. They are certified to be advocates for the person giving birth. They can also be more affordable then other options. Doulas are trained to help with everything birth related and can help you put together your birth plan. They will also advocate for keeping to your birth plan if the doctors have other ideas.
Dear girl that is getting married but doesn’t have a good relationship with her dad. Don’t ask permission! You don’t owe them anything and they can either get over it or not.
Hi, Sarah and Lo, I love your podcast and the fact that you explore different topics. But you could work on the transitions between your talks and ads. I also see that you don't include them as often now which is good. Keep going!
With those socks on, Los mic 🎙️ looks more purple then pink!! You should get it brightened up, specially since you all started this podcast with the “ theme “ pink and green!! lol
@@carol2girls lol your so right I do this all the time. I think probably 🤔 stupidly that if I don't and I have to stop watching for a couple minutes or longer to deal with something or If I have to go out and about and don't want to loose where I'm at . I have no idea if that works in reality but it always has for me. It's normally for something I don't usually watch and it's a habit I'm now in. X
I have enjoyed the podcast I'm honestly the mam of 2 men if one or both of my sons gets married without me hell will freeze lol they can have the wedding they want as long as they're paying for it and I'm there to see it happen. As for the man in the forces lol oh god I get his mother is so desperate to see her son ( because no matter how old he is married or.not he is her son andnd she has spent5 monthsworriedstressed and prayingfor her boy those feelingsNEVER change just becausehes a man and married) after 5 months of being away but like just for an hour or so or better still the next day give the young couple a chance to see each other. Definitely not be in the same room lol.
If I was lucky enough to ever see either of your families, would I be able to hug you all if I asked for permission as I love you all so much, even the kids ♥️♥️♥️🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺 Nadia from Australia 🇦🇺
there is absolutely no reason you should be saying you want to hugs their kids. that's very odd vibes. please don't ever ask a stranger on the internet, or in person to hug their child. that's unsettling
@ I’m sorry 😢 I feel so close to these families but I would never just grab any of them I’d more just want to say hi to them, it is me I’m a cancer and we’re very loving 🥰
I need to ask you a question please 🙏 I have been married for 22 years and we have not had sex in 18 years and she know how’s dementia so what should I do about it please help me ❤❤❤
Lo you use like excessively....check it before your children copy your speech pattern....not a good thing, not a good gift to give to your kids. Sarah says it less unless she gets a like attack ....or reflects your speech pattern. It distracts from what you are saying...end up just hearing the likes.... You both have important things to say , just use this filler less
@@madalynvanwormer652yes it’s not my podcast, but the pop culture intro it’s getting old. It’s not something that is important and not all are interested in “famous people’s problems”.
To the girl that feels upset with your bf while doing long distance in college. I totally relate to this. My fiancé is in the Navy and I made the decision to stay home instead of moving with him. I used to find myself getting upset for no reason. I talked to him about it and I realized I wouldn’t do things for me, like workout, spend time with friends, or do any of my hobbies. Once I started doing those things more I felt better for myself and our conversations were a lot more fun and light hearted rather than focusing on how sad we are when we’re apart. I hope that helps!
Vagichristmas vagichristmas 🤣🤣🤣 omg i cackled hahahahhah
👶🏻currently in the newborn phase (1 month in) and it does get easier ❤ but it is extremely challenging emotionally - just the horomones and sleep deprivation make everything feel so so hard. But little things like stretching (even just for 5min), the shortest naps ever, or small walks will make such a big difference. I have a newfound respect for moms now as a new mom myself ❤
The girl in the one submission wants her boyfriend to propose to her but she is talking to her ex again and still has feelings for him!? I don't think either of them are ready for that commitment if that's their current state
@the girl trying to have a more comfortable hospital birth, I feel like maybe bringing a blanket of your own, pillow of your own, music you like, maybe bring a lamp or string lights that you can set up to not have the bright hospital lighting and make it feel more homey. Maybe your hospital or birth center might let you bring a candle or diffuser to help the scent. I think there’s plenty of ways to make it more comfortable, just figuring out what your hospital allows and what will make you feel better. There’s also many hospitals that have tubs for birthing and I saw someone else recommend a doula
To the girl getting married but doesn’t have a good relationship with dad, don’t ask permission. My husband did that out of respect and it circled back to him not asking permission to date me in the first place. Just enjoy your wedding and allow yourself some peace. I didn’t have my father walk me down the aisle but I did have my brother with me and that was far more meaningful than anything. Now my brother and I are closer than we’ve ever been and I am grateful for that relationship ❤
No the girl from 28:00 talking about “wanting to get engaged” to her current boyfriend and in the next breath talking about her ex….. you are the problem sister. Take some time to reflect and stop blaming the guys for your own issues
And even worse than that - Sarah and Lo telling her to go back to the ex and maybe it’ll make her boyfriend “get it together” is absolutely ridiculous.
I was looking for a comment like that. I am like, girl save yourself and that poor current boyfriend. You obviously dont love him, because... checking on your ex? No. Neither are okay for you. One of them feels that you re not right, and doesnt want to propose. Other one is ex for a reason. And you just want a ring on your finger. Thats not how the marriage works.
42:35 I TOTALLY get this!!! My hubby was coming home from basic training, we met at the airport to see him come home, and his mom RAN to him before I could get to him. I was 5 months pregnant and felt totally left out from welcoming him home. Then she insisted we stay at their house while he was home and before we left to where he was stationed. 😳😳
I had a home birth with my first. It was the best decision for us. My midwife traveled and would always come to us, whether that be trailer or house. I thought my midwife without having to pay the crazy hospital prices was cheap. Now... If that's still not an option for you in your area, birthing centers are the way to go. And finally if you absolutely are going to the hospital for your birth, have your husband 100% on your side for everything. You don't have to be continuously monitored, even in the hospital, you can keep that door shut at basically all times, you can tell them you only want to see one nurse, you can tell them "no" to pretty much everything. Educate yourself on the topic. If I had to have a hospital birth, I would absolutely be the biggest bitch around. But don't stress it too much. The best child birth book I've ever read was Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, if you are interested in reading more about the process
You’re right- it’s Biblical to leave your mother and cleave too your wife. This mom is WAY out there!
Low ferritin levels (an iron protein), can cause horrible ADD/ADHD symptoms. Other vitamin and mineral deficiencies can cause other horrible mental health issues. Make sure you are eating a whole food healthy diet, full of nutrients and drink plenty of water. It helps a ton. More than most people really understand.
Lo's impression of Chapell 😂
Advocating for yourself doesn’t have to be against someone else. Having someone to support you letting doctors and nurses know your wishes builds the team. Going in with the mindset that advocating for yourself is against the people you need to work with will set everything off with a negative tone.
loved to just chill on weekend and listen to you guys talkingg
You guys should add a table in the middle and use it as a leg rest. You look uncomfortable sitting in that position. It would help you guys
I agree. The podcast gives very cozy, girls night vibes, but the way they sit in the chairs and look uncomfortable... they need something!
I second that! ❤
If a guy wants an open relationship - HE’s NOT THAT IN TO YOU.
55:42 if you are looking for an advocate for your birth you could see if there is a doula in the area. They are certified to be advocates for the person giving birth. They can also be more affordable then other options. Doulas are trained to help with everything birth related and can help you put together your birth plan. They will also advocate for keeping to your birth plan if the doctors have other ideas.
Really great advice about how to deal with ADHD
Lauren is right at 25:00 ..have him cut that guy out of his life. He will keep trying to get him to cheat.
Dear girl that is getting married but doesn’t have a good relationship with her dad. Don’t ask permission! You don’t owe them anything and they can either get over it or not.
Sarah, you need to let people talk! Lol damn you keep cutting people off
yay!!! yay!!! you posted!!!
Hi, Sarah and Lo, I love your podcast and the fact that you explore different topics. But you could work on the transitions between your talks and ads. I also see that you don't include them as often now which is good. Keep going!
My mom and stepdad did the engagement party-into the surprise wedding situation and it was so fun and beautiful to see everyone’s reactions!
Everyone wants Caroline and Claus together the writers knew what they were doing😢
With those socks on, Los mic 🎙️ looks more purple then pink!! You should get it brightened up, specially since you all started this podcast with the “ theme “ pink and green!! lol
Chappell Roan is openly diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Hope you didn’t know this before commenting on her behavior…
Getting your hairline done is not a one size fits all, why do u not talk about it like we all cant tell?
Which one?
Funny how everyone clicks the thumbs up button but doesn’t watch video yet. It’s only been 1 min
I usually do that before I watch or listen when it’s a TH-camr that I watch all there videos because I know it will be good.
@@carol2girls lol your so right I do this all the time. I think probably 🤔 stupidly that if I don't and I have to stop watching for a couple minutes or longer to deal with something or If I have to go out and about and don't want to loose where I'm at . I have no idea if that works in reality but it always has for me. It's normally for something I don't usually watch and it's a habit I'm now in. X
@@Louisescarr1972 It will still save your place.
The credit thing that mom low key should be in prison. That’s fraud hahahaha.
Now it's 1 day, less than 600 likes, 12K views...it's not everyone😅
wait where do we submit our questions?!!
Not VAGI-CHRISTMAS
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If her ex is in the picture she is already checkeddd the fuck out lol maybe he ain’t proposing bc ur texting ur ex ahahaha
wtf happened at 31:21
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Sarah, you didn’t stick with NIOXIN
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I have enjoyed the podcast I'm honestly the mam of 2 men if one or both of my sons gets married without me hell will freeze lol they can have the wedding they want as long as they're paying for it and I'm there to see it happen. As for the man in the forces lol oh god I get his mother is so desperate to see her son ( because no matter how old he is married or.not he is her son andnd she has spent5 monthsworriedstressed and prayingfor her boy those feelingsNEVER change just becausehes a man and married) after 5 months of being away but like just for an hour or so or better still the next day give the young couple a chance to see each other. Definitely not be in the same room lol.
If I was lucky enough to ever see either of your families, would I be able to hug you all if I asked for permission as I love you all so much, even the kids ♥️♥️♥️🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺 Nadia from Australia 🇦🇺
there is absolutely no reason you should be saying you want to hugs their kids. that's very odd vibes. please don't ever ask a stranger on the internet, or in person to hug their child. that's unsettling
@ I’m sorry 😢 I feel so close to these families but I would never just grab any of them I’d more just want to say hi to them, it is me I’m a cancer and we’re very loving 🥰
How is this podcast still going on?! The views don’t match the subs! But the views do match the content! 🤪
I need to ask you a question please 🙏 I have been married for 22 years and we have not had sex in 18 years and she know how’s dementia so what should I do about it please help me ❤❤❤
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Lo why are you purple?
Lo you use like excessively....check it before your children copy your speech pattern....not a good thing, not a good gift to give to your kids. Sarah says it less unless she gets a like attack ....or reflects your speech pattern. It distracts from what you are saying...end up just hearing the likes....
You both have important things to say , just use this filler less
This pop culture beginning in every video it’s getting old girls…..🙄
Maybe skip? 🤔
@ maybe not and switch it up 👀
It's not your podcast, they can do it however they want. If you don't like it, go elsewhere😆
@@madalynvanwormer652yes it’s not my podcast, but the pop culture intro it’s getting old. It’s not something that is important and not all are interested in “famous people’s problems”.
You’re right- it’s Biblical to leave your mother and cleave too your wife. This mom is WAY out there!