Hey guys!! The goal setting, tracking + planning Notion Template is now finally out!🥳 ➡Here's the video where I go over the whole system: th-cam.com/video/K5T_slA7ACg/w-d-xo.html ➡Link to the template: www.nikatemplates.com/store/p/lifedesignplanner Hope it was worth the wait 😘
I ❤ this. I agree with not telling people your goals. I made the mistake by telling people my goals and people put me down and told me I can't accomplish them. I have proved people wrong and I've accomplished them. Now they hate me even more that I've accomplished them.
At least now you know the people you can’t trust. But I completely agree with you, I’ve also made the same mistake in the past and now I rarely tell people my goals. I feel better this way ☺️
@pagangamer87 it's always easier said than done. But it could be that your too hard on yourself? Maybe instead of beating yourself have a system of praise when you do something towards your goal and be more forgiving when you don't. Even if you only get 1% better its still 1% Hope this helps
1. Set a goal How would I feel about it? 2. Don't tell people about your goals Imagine what the outcome would look like? Visualize. 3. Remove distraction - have a list of things that distract you, a List of people that don't make you feel good, and a list of energy drainers and energy accelerators, take your journal and ask yourself - when do I get distracted and if I am being honest with myself, what do I feel right before I cave into distraction? 4. Find mentors, people who can help you. Surround yourself with people like that online - follow such people, read more, listen to podcasts, etc. 5. Please be careful with your time. You can break down your goals into tasks to get closer to your goals. 6. Ask yourself this - what is the highest and best use of my time right now? 7. Create a daily routine. wake up and say - today's gonna be a great day and take your journal and write why it is going to be a great day, your intention and your whole day plan. - Have a simple gratitude list at the end of the day. - Listen to a visualization meditation and imagine your life. 8. Have a life audit once a week or daily recall. 9. Switch up your environment. 10. Set milestones and celebrate yourself.
What if the people who distract or neg you and bring you down live with you by necessity (income, relation or something else), or you have to be their legal carer or guardian? What then?
As someone older and with more experience.... Make sure to not isolate from loved ones, keep in touch, they are 80% of your life purpose. Cut Instagram, superficial stuff, entertainment, blah blah, keep tabs with your people. The rest will come together
I’m going through this now, I think my friends and family are getting offended but I feel more productive when I’m focused on my own thoughts, goals and feelings.
@@tanvisinghpilania1767 they haven’t seen me in a while not even on thanksgiving , so I think it looks bad but keeping my distance makes me feel safe and comfortable
I’ve been doing this for several months, self isolating from particular people or vibes and most importantly, using that time for self-care and healing activities instead. It’s been beautiful and I’m not done yet. Don’t be afraid to do it longer than a month! Real change takes time.
I am going to follow this self-isolation plan for the next month today is Dec 2nd and I'll come back on January 3rd to let you know how the month went, wish me luck ✨
Good luck 🤞 I'll do it after the middle of February because there are two birthdays I can't miss in any way 😅 I'll focus on my diet for 4 weeks and eating out every Sunday doesn't help at all 😅
Finally, someone saying to not tell others your goals. ❤ This is key. Of course there are people around us who vary from friends, colleagues, etc. Even outside of haters, people just change the vibe of things and often bring their own insecurities to your goals, therefore not sharing is the way. Also, it’s amazing how others take this as an opportunity to tell you why you can’t do x, y, z.
so excited to join in on the challenge! as someone who has a hard time focusing on one area in their life, this will be such a great exercise to end the year and teach me to focus on one task at a time to see actual growth. thank you!
Wow this couldn’t have come at a better time.. I’ve been trying to get back to being confident in my body before 2024 but it’s been a struggle so I’m for sure taking up this challenge
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,312 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
watching this in June 2024 and I got so happy when I went to follow your TikTok to have more healthy things on my fyp and saw that you haven't posted on there since last year
i'd like to add a slightly contrasting opinion on the dont share your goals point. i personally share my goals with very close people like my parents. it kind of acts like the accountability buddy method because my parents always remind of my goal and motivate me to work harder when i am slacking so they act as accountability buddies.
Just this one your FIRST video to me and I'm in love with you, You’re like a burst of sunshine that makes everything brighter and i feel very positive and good and peaceful ❤❤❤
I Started on 1st sep 2024 and I do one task a day so as she mentioned to set a goal i did set it and wrote more About it on 1st sep on second i wrote About not sharing with these specific people. On third i wrote About distractions and so on It Just keeps me motivated to complete this challenge and helps Alot . After the last task i would simple choose another video either from her or any other positive video. My Goal is to self link my self with me to know more about Myself and to have positive thoughts even after the worst scenario . 😍💖
I love all the questions you share along the tips. It helps us realize how we can actually apply advice in a way that works for us. I've been loving your sit-down videos lately, they're so empowering :)
Thank you Nika.. really great that I found this youtube this video on my feed.. I really need these for my 'upgrade life', hope you always healthy beauty
I initially i jsut saw the thumbnail self isolation i really wanted to try it out so saved it into watch later i am watching this now .and yeah its so detailed and wonderful yeah u gave me a whole rodmap for the month amd i certainly belive it will have tremendous effect if followed dedicately .its really wonderful.i will start it right form today and.thnk u nika ❤
I just really loved being in your energy cuz let me tell you , your energy is so uplifting and happy and I felt that thank you for just bring this energy that you have 👍👍😊😊
You are such a wise person !! Thanks for these advices and I wish I was this smart at your age , so many things come only with experience and age though sometimes , so thumbs up for such high self awareness
I love all this what a great youtube find and inspiring and actionable steps to getting focused on yoiur goals! Im excited and watched the video than sat down and wrote out steps. Thank you for the awesome inspiration. Looking forward to more cool idea.
I understand what you mean with the second point but in some ways ig it's really good to tell people about your goals. Just because they can motivate and remind you that you have the goals. Like they write you sometimes and ask if you did the thing that is your goal. You know what I mean? I think telling people about your goals can be really helpful!
So nice following you since you lived with your parents some years ago and now you’re spending some time in Denmark! So nice and inspiring podcast at the same time, keep it up 😊
I read once that telling ur goals to people will make u less motivated and will make u more prone to disappointments .. and this actually makes sense now
I loved this video. And also I wanna thank you cause' I watch the video without subtitles and I understanding everything. Your English pronunciation helped me a lot.❤❤
Hey guys!! The goal setting, tracking + planning Notion Template is now finally out!🥳
➡Here's the video where I go over the whole system: th-cam.com/video/K5T_slA7ACg/w-d-xo.html
➡Link to the template: www.nikatemplates.com/store/p/lifedesignplanner
Hope it was worth the wait 😘
Not Me .....about My Goals , NOBODY can make Me FEEL Accomplished until I get It Done ! ✔️
Great, I will try...
I ❤ this. I agree with not telling people your goals. I made the mistake by telling people my goals and people put me down and told me I can't accomplish them. I have proved people wrong and I've accomplished them. Now they hate me even more that I've accomplished them.
Hell yeah xD congratulations. I feel so unmotivated though 😞 and don’t stick to everything I want to do. Not sure how to change that.
@@pagangamer87what if you write those down and create a to do list for every day.
At least now you know the people you can’t trust.
But I completely agree with you, I’ve also made the same mistake in the past and now I rarely tell people my goals. I feel better this way ☺️
It appears that it was more effective than expected. Love that for you.
@pagangamer87 it's always easier said than done. But it could be that your too hard on yourself? Maybe instead of beating yourself have a system of praise when you do something towards your goal and be more forgiving when you don't. Even if you only get 1% better its still 1%
Hope this helps
1. Set a goal
How would I feel about it?
2. Don't tell people about your goals
Imagine what the outcome would look like? Visualize.
3. Remove distraction - have a list of things that distract you, a List of people that don't make you feel good, and a list of energy drainers and energy accelerators, take your journal and ask yourself - when do I get distracted and if I am being honest with myself, what do I feel right before I cave into distraction?
4. Find mentors, people who can help you. Surround yourself with people like that online - follow such people, read more, listen to podcasts, etc.
5. Please be careful with your time. You can break down your goals into tasks to get closer to your goals.
6. Ask yourself this - what is the highest and best use of my time right now?
7. Create a daily routine. wake up and say - today's gonna be a great day and take your journal and write why it is going to be a great day, your intention and your whole day plan.
- Have a simple gratitude list at the end of the day.
- Listen to a visualization meditation and imagine your life.
8. Have a life audit once a week or daily recall.
9. Switch up your environment.
10. Set milestones and celebrate yourself.
thank you breaking it down in short😊
Thankyou
What if the people who distract or neg you and bring you down live with you by necessity (income, relation or something else), or you have to be their legal carer or guardian? What then?
Thank you 🌼🍁
Thank you dear 💓
As someone older and with more experience.... Make sure to not isolate from loved ones, keep in touch, they are 80% of your life purpose. Cut Instagram, superficial stuff, entertainment, blah blah, keep tabs with your people. The rest will come together
I’d say, keep in touch and don’t isolate from your family and close friends. But isolate from other people like your school classmates or bullies
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My energy drainers are: social media, unproductive friendships, unproductive social interactions
I’m going through this now, I think my friends and family are getting offended but I feel more productive when I’m focused on my own thoughts, goals and feelings.
why are they getting offended?
@@tanvisinghpilania1767 they haven’t seen me in a while not even on thanksgiving , so I think it looks bad but keeping my distance makes me feel safe and comfortable
I can relate as well. My isolation started back in September and with it, a lot of healing
Same I had to block and silence
I’ve been doing this for several months, self isolating from particular people or vibes and most importantly, using that time for self-care and healing activities instead. It’s been beautiful and I’m not done yet. Don’t be afraid to do it longer than a month! Real change takes time.
I am going to follow this self-isolation plan for the next month today is Dec 2nd and I'll come back on January 3rd to let you know how the month went, wish me luck ✨
Good luck 🤞 I'll do it after the middle of February because there are two birthdays I can't miss in any way 😅 I'll focus on my diet for 4 weeks and eating out every Sunday doesn't help at all 😅
@@lisamilano2019Reminder how did the month go ?
@@heyyy7591 I was supposed to start in February but I have birthdays I can't escape 😖when are you going to start?
I was literally planning my own Isolation month, and this came just at a perfect time! Thank You Nika!
My pleasure! Thank you for watching ❤
Finally, someone saying to not tell others your goals. ❤ This is key. Of course there are people around us who vary from friends, colleagues, etc. Even outside of haters, people just change the vibe of things and often bring their own insecurities to your goals, therefore not sharing is the way. Also, it’s amazing how others take this as an opportunity to tell you why you can’t do x, y, z.
I can’t tell you how grateful I am to come across your channel. I love your approach, advice and pretty much everything . God bless ❤
Another amazing video. I'm working on my house. First declutter my summer stuff in the garage and park my car in there for winter.
I was just journaling about this!! I’m taking this as a sign that I’m on the right path🥰🥰 literally love u so much!
Love you too!! 💕
so excited to join in on the challenge! as someone who has a hard time focusing on one area in their life, this will be such a great exercise to end the year and teach me to focus on one task at a time to see actual growth. thank you!
I love love love this. I have such a hard time not telling people my goals. I am so excited to join this challenge and see where I am in a month!
❤❤❤
Nika, post your videos as podcast so we can listen to the audios pleaseeee!! love your videos so muchh❤️
I am SO grateful I found your channel, you deserve 10million subscribers seriously
The life audit tip sounded so fresh and amazing to me! Thanks for this :D
Wow this couldn’t have come at a better time.. I’ve been trying to get back to being confident in my body before 2024 but it’s been a struggle so I’m for sure taking up this challenge
I will also leave an update here for self accountability purposes xx haha
Does anyone else find it motivational to tell someone there goals because it gives us more reasoning to do better and actually accomplish the goal
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,312 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Thank you, Nika. I reached my goal to stop smoking!
watching this in June 2024 and I got so happy when I went to follow your TikTok to have more healthy things on my fyp and saw that you haven't posted on there since last year
You don't know how much you helped me with this.
Thankyouuuu. ❤
awhh I'm so so glad! 💕
i'm starting today, August 10th. will update next month.
i'd like to add a slightly contrasting opinion on the dont share your goals point. i personally share my goals with very close people like my parents. it kind of acts like the accountability buddy method because my parents always remind of my goal and motivate me to work harder when i am slacking so they act as accountability buddies.
I’ve watched this video multiple times and just saved it to watch again. Love the message and tangible tasks to follow up with, great video.
That sounds awesome I used the welcome bonus myself boosted my play a ton
Oh gosh, switching up our environment is sooooo crutial. Loved this so much! The whole video was just amaaaazing!! Thank you dear one!
Sometimes I tell people because it helps me to hold myself accountable!
I don't like sharing my goals so someone else can't sabotage it
This video inspired me to start trying for my goal and make an easy and doable plan for it.
Just this one your FIRST video to me and I'm in love with you, You’re like a burst of sunshine that makes everything brighter and i feel very positive and good and peaceful ❤❤❤
i haven't even watched it and im already loving it, just by the title 😍 so promising!!
u deserve millions of subscribers. thank you for existing.
I love this and the idea of writting why the dy is great before is great idea ! Made my vision board just for this current month on what I want
i have watched alot of videos and this is the best so far
I Started on 1st sep 2024 and I do one task a day so as she mentioned to set a goal i did set it and wrote more About it on 1st sep on second i wrote About not sharing with these specific people. On third i wrote About distractions and so on It Just keeps me motivated to complete this challenge and helps Alot . After the last task i would simple choose another video either from her or any other positive video. My Goal is to self link my self with me to know more about Myself and to have positive thoughts even after the worst scenario . 😍💖
I'm very excited to join this challenge
Insha'Allah I'LL make the best use of this isolation time. Thanks Nika
Love from 🇧🇩❤️
Amazing video! Thank you so much❤
I love all the questions you share along the tips. It helps us realize how we can actually apply advice in a way that works for us. I've been loving your sit-down videos lately, they're so empowering :)
awh I'm so glad, thank you! I'll def. keep them coming 💕
Thank you Nika.. really great that I found this youtube this video on my feed.. I really need these for my 'upgrade life', hope you always healthy beauty
Just Watched your video for the first time ...nd i feel like I kn you for so long ..you are really a comfort person...loved your SIMPLICITY ❤
Doing this till the end of January! Power!
I'm with it!!!!! Doing this!!!!!
Thank you so much for this video! I can’t wait to start focusing on myself and reaching my goals. This is a perfect way on breaking everything down!
Hope everyone reaches their dreams
I initially i jsut saw the thumbnail self isolation i really wanted to try it out so saved it into watch later i am watching this now .and yeah its so detailed and wonderful yeah u gave me a whole rodmap for the month amd i certainly belive it will have tremendous effect if followed dedicately .its really wonderful.i will start it right form today and.thnk u nika ❤
I love all of your content. Now, I want to become fluent in English.. so I'll try to learn English from your TH-cam Channel. Thank you so much!
You always look amazing!!! You're so motivating in your vids!! Keep it up!!! You are helping so many of us!!
You are so Amazing Mika! Thank you so much, your channel is so precious. May you keep living all your dreams every moments, enjoy 💖🙌✨
This video was very useful. In this month i'll try to improve my English
I just really loved being in your energy cuz let me tell you , your energy is so uplifting and happy and I felt that thank you for just bring this energy that you have 👍👍😊😊
my energy always BOOSTS when I see a new video from Nika
haiiiii, first time i saw your video and i immediately like it. thanks for sharingg
i cant get out of this video thanks NIKA😍
another authentic content ⭐to follow.
You are such a wise person !! Thanks for these advices and I wish I was this smart at your age , so many things come only with experience and age though sometimes , so thumbs up for such high self awareness
amazing, thank you ❤
Thank you so much for this video- extremely helpful!
Girl ❤❤❤❤such a wise and amazing person thank you for these tips !!! Sending love xxx
I’m starting tomorrow May 3rd, someone tag me in one month to find out how it went.
how it went tell us?
How it went?
How's it going mate?
@pennykaranja7202 how it went
How it went?????
I love all this what a great youtube find and inspiring and actionable steps to getting focused on yoiur goals! Im excited and watched the video than sat down and wrote out steps. Thank you for the awesome inspiration. Looking forward to more cool idea.
I'm starting it from tomorrow
Wish me luck🤞🍀
good luck, God bless how is it going so far?
I hope it went amazingly well!!
Hi! I'm from Brazil thank you for this video i need change my life and i start with this things! 😊❤
I understand what you mean with the second point but in some ways ig it's really good to tell people about your goals. Just because they can motivate and remind you that you have the goals. Like they write you sometimes and ask if you did the thing that is your goal. You know what I mean? I think telling people about your goals can be really helpful!
I didn’t know this was an actual thing. I’ve been doing this for years to reach goals. I have lost friends though because of this laser focus.
I like the concept. Accepted. I'll come back after a month.
Very good videoo dear reallyy inspiring ❤Thank you so muchh❤❤❤
İ am starting it from tomorrow inshalah . Wish me luck ❤
I liked it Thank you very much for sharing your knowledge 😉
thanks for advicee! Their tech keeps all my deposits safe and makes withdrawing winnings easy as pie
Great video - you could warn us to grab a pen and paper at the beginning - I’m always scrambling for one to join in 😅
loved this video, def will do so, and use this moment to learn more about myself and set system for my next year goals ♥ 🌟
Great video. These tips are practical enough that I feel like I’ll actually stick to it
thank you nika, your videos are always so motivating.
So nice following you since you lived with your parents some years ago and now you’re spending some time in Denmark! So nice and inspiring podcast at the same time, keep it up 😊
Let’s Do it Girl! ✋🏽
The value you give is just phenomenal! Thank you so much ❤❤❤
You know in Islam it is advices that " Never tell your goals and plans until you accomplish them".
I read once that telling ur goals to people will make u less motivated and will make u more prone to disappointments .. and this actually makes sense now
Ohh, we don't want to know islam..we have our own religious beliefs 😊
I’m a new subscriber, this is the video I needed! Thank you 😊
Absolutely LOVED your video. You’re incredibly informative and helpful to so many people out there. Keep up the great work x
Will start tomorrow so it's Monday ❤
I loved this video. And also I wanna thank you cause' I watch the video without subtitles and I understanding everything. Your English pronunciation helped me a lot.❤❤
I will keep clapping for others until it's my turn 🎉🎉
Thank you for sharing this content!!!!! It is perfect for starting 2024 in the right foot.
I am impressed! Really good and useful video! Very good explanation. Thank you I will use it all during this month and maybe from now on. :)
i'm joining! i am so excited to join.. This is a great idea, I am starting out with Keto and two hours of cardio a day.. ❤❤
LOOOOOVED THIS SO MUCH!! ❤
thankyou for sharing this, very motivating. ❤❤❤
You’re about to spill your tea
It's amazing I'm going to try this from today and hope I can stick to it.😅
wow! really liked this video! thank youuu ❤
thankyou so much.. just what I needed..
Hey, Nike! Many thanks for the content... Greetings from Brazil :)
This was Amazing!
Ma'am You're doing a great work 👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Keep going lovely you’re awesome,such an inspiring person 🥰🥰🥰
u r my favorite youtuber , keep it up
Great video and content! Truly inspired me ❤