I am a college educated woman who was an elementary school teacher until I had kids. Never went back. I had worked in many daycares/preschools before become a professional teacher and NO WAY did I want that for my kids. I have horror stories. Anyways when my kids were 6 months and 1 and a half my husband abandoned us. Took all the money. I had to file bankruptcy, move home (different state) with my parents so I could still raise my kids. I was overwhelmed and devastated but NEVER put my kids in daycare not for one day. They are great now… all grown and making me proud. I miss being a stay at home Mom. It was HARD but I did it. Met a nice man who married me and adopted the kids when they were 7 and 5. He’s all they really know. Tomorrow is our 22 year anniversary. We just found out we’re gonna be first time grandparents. All the sacrifices, saying no we can’t afford that, driving one beater car forever, living in a tiny quaint mountain town so they could have an idyllic life, all those things weren’t LUCK they were CHOICES and sacrifices had to be made. I’m so glad we did that tho.
I love hearing about past struggles that are still filled with love throughout. And its great hearing from older women. It gives me hope of my own future with my children as a stay at home mom. I'm glad that those tough times brought you to this beautiful life you have now.
I think there are plenty of guys who push their wives to work as well. It’s foolish and counterproductive when not truly necessary, in my opinion, but it still happens
@@Maurinusa They do that b/c women keep saying they can do it all...if women said we can't and we need your help men wouldn't. The problem is women want their cake and eat too...they want to look tough and get help without asking for it.
@@ShaunHensley You sound like the male equivalent of a feminist, blaming the other gender for all the problems. It's silly to act like there aren't men who should up their game too
@@Maurinusa to your first post, it all depends on your lifestyle. If you live a lifestyle that requires two incomes then you don’t have a choice but for both of you to work.
My mom was a stay at home mother. She didn't start working until me and my brother were old enough to be alone. It worked out fine. She didn't even cook dinner, our father did that. She just cleaned the house, did the laundry and washed the dishes. I just don't get what our society is doing because me and my brother had a pretty relaxing life growing up. I see families today and it's just a rat race.
I did all you suggested and have been at home for 16 years in CALIFORNIA. I didn't know anyone at home but eventually found like minded women through homeschooling events. We started out so poor! And we are now debt-free and thriving. College is such a waste of $ these days. Young women need to study How to thrive on one income.
From personal experience, most mothers today divorce themselves from their children through the use of electronic devices. They fail to handle the surface level needs of a child, instead focus on selfish desires, and allow an electronic drug to soothe their children. I remember meeting a young woman with a two year old, who's complex relationship situation amounts to three children in adult bodies. She complains about her former spouse. Her current boyfriend appears emasculated. Her two year desires her attention, as he feels like he's not important to her, and so she proves it, by handing him her phone to watch vapid material. Thus, I saw her desire for public attention, and her refusal to mother her child, and neither man wished to father the child. From casual observation, most parents will provide a phone or smart pad for the child to behave in public, while the parents misbehaved in public. Most folks fail to realize children imitate you, and tell you the truths you cleverly hid from yourself. Thus children end up raised by immature adults who do not wish to mature, and do not know how to mature in adulthood. I believe we've entered a cycle of this, since the 80's at least. Hence, I do not respect single mothers all that often, with few exceptions. Namely, widows of honorable men, or victims of rape or similar circumstance.
🎞 As for your last exception,@Teresa Kane , have you ever seen the romantic comedy, 'Love, Rosie' (2014)? 😃 Now THAT is an example of a good single mother heroine! In the flick, our protagonist gets herself knocked up by the wrong guy and ends up a pregnant teen. But instead of feeling sorry for herself or dumping off her parental responsibilities on her parents, she admits to screwing up and bravely-even if sometimes clumsily-takes on the role of being a dutiful mother. She makes her share of mistakes but-and without giving too much away-ends up getting her deserving happy ending. And it is a GOOD ending because our hero EARNED it. 🍿 Enjoy!
@Teresa Kane saddest thing is the children coming from single moms who fail their kids spawn another generation of adults who will repeat or amplify the mistakes they grew up with, how can we break this cycle, Charles Manson, David Koresh were products of teen mothers, look what they got into,
@Teresa Kane I'm 66, and live in Houston. We've had some horrible stories of child abuse here over the past few years. A few weeks ago, a young boy was found dead in his apt. living with his two brothers. The mother had left these children behind weeks earlier. She was found and arrested. The dead boy had been dead for a YEAR in the apt. His brothers were fed by neighbors in the apt. complex. A very sad story. Still can't believe no one ever called the police, and got help here. Such a tragedy. I worked as libn. for the city of Houston. One day a woman came in with four small boys. She wanted liby. cards for them. All of the boys had different last names. She said to me" yes they're mine, they all have different fathers, and I'm not married to any of them". Today those boys are about 18 plus. Hope they made it to adulthood intact.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
I agree, they now have started to belittle the women not choosing the jobs they want them to. Its rediculous. Nothing wrong with being a stay at home mum and men being their their beautiful masculinity. Its about appreciating one another for what each brings to the table and appreciating that we balance each other. The problem is, modern feminazis want to control everything because deep down they are unhealed little girls angry at their fathers. Hence the projection.
19 years ago while I worked as a married woman I realized there was no way for me to make meals once I had kids. I was already exhausted once I got home from work and then I had to make a meal!?! I'm so grateful I was able to depend on a good provider and take care of each of my babies.
I always thought time was the most valuable thing I could buy. I gave up my $100k salary to buy time. Time at home, time with my kids., time to do what I want. It's worth every penny.
Wow this is the comment I needed . Currently a hairstylist wanting to start a family, but torn between being stay at home or part time work . Omg but I'm no where near 100k . Good for you ❤
This is also why families are so much smaller. There was a podcast that I listened to where it was mentioned in a book and I don't know the book. My wife wanted more than 1 but we only have one, and it's because my picture of fatherhood/motherhood looked very different. I can barely get her in the kitchen. I've never seen her mop, vacuum, clean a toilet...I do all of that. I primarily wash clothes the clothes as I schedule it as to not be over whelmed. She will was if she needs something that is not clean. And she let herself go. She does not look like she looked when we met and she won't try. She told me "The weight is there, it's not going away". And I don't feel like I'm being inconsiderate because I do a lot. And I told her I'd do more if she committed to getting in shape. But I definitely wasn't having another kid when I'm doing all of this already.
Always such a great message. I see women focused on remodeling their kitchen and amazing vacations - thus they and their husband work full time jobs while dropping their kids off at daycare etc. And then say they have to work full time.
Good episode, Suzanne! I was just thinking recently how glad I am that my wife has chosen to stay home with the kids. We’d be stressed out of our minds if we were both working
I'm listening to her list, and thinking, this is exactly what feminists have been fighting for, since before I was born... Back in the 1960s.... Men: Working for a living sucks, it's good to be home. Women: You're just saying that because you're part of the patriarchy. Women: I'm trapped at home. I wish I had a career so I could out and see the world, and spend time with other people. Later... Women: Working for a living sucks.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@reginasemenenko148 some jobs are worse than others. Some are horrible. But in some examples, women are getting angry because they feel the grass is greener for traditional housewives. They feel they were denied the option without a say in the matter. People often desire what they can't have.
Whether or not one can raise a family on one income is dependent on many variables - your skill level and the salary that your skills can command, the country that you live in and, most importantly, what you are prepared to let go from your life ( down size to a smaller home, reduce the number of vacations, reduce entertainment, recreational, personal care, dining out/takeaway, alcohol, clothing, technology, homewares expenditure etc).
One of the root problems of all this is modern women's excessive greed. Stop wanting (everything) a lot of useless stuff you don't actually need, and listening to the advertising that sells this to you.
Women today do exactly what mine did to me 20 years ago ....... if I can get this guy with a big house, land, good job, hard working, and savings accounts - then I will divorce the man and find a better one once I am free and have child support and alimony. Men have figured out marriage is not vows between man and women. It's between the man and the state government laws. All backed by a judge, getting paid by the government.
The government handsomely rewarded my ex-wife with so many benefits for divorcing me. Virtually all the bills I was paying became paid by the government. So she could live any lifestyle she wanted to, which I won't get into the details of that but you can imagine. This devastated me but it was worse for her children.
I’m a federal employee and was able to utilize 12 weeks of paid paternity leave due to a new policy that started in Oct 2020. So far, two other men in my office have used the program but not any women. Maybe because the average age of a civil servant is pretty high, there don’t seem to be a lot of women using it. Maybe women should start their careers when their kids are older. Women are living longer today than ever, so there is more time.
My parents had 4 children over a 12yr period. Number 4 was their only daughter. Both worked blue collar jobs. Fthr during the day, mthr at nite. Mthr carried the major wrk @ hm. It was probably a little easier not having all 4 very quickly. And with some outside family support. She worked very hard. And did an excellent job in both arenas. She was simply amazing.
Good mothers raise good men and women. I deliver amazon packages for a living,who's doing more essential and rewarding work? I also know a rich engineer,very important dude,but he can be replaced. Good mothers can't be replaced nor substituted. God Bless Mothers
You're expressing a very blue pill (and wrong)perspective. Good PARENTS, ESPECIALLY FATHERS can't be replaced. As long as people elevate mothers without doing the same for the even more vital father, children are doomed.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@TheSanityMachine33 I agree on both counts, TED and Suzanne. Just like CHS/ The Factual Feminist, Suzanne chameleons as a man's advocate, middle of the political road person when she's still all about the core tenants of feminism, she just dresses it up slightly different.
I believe you are spot on Suzanne. In the 1970's (I know I was there) the feminists decided that most women's work was nurturing work and that the world under valued that work. I believe that was true. But their solution was to demolish the value of nurturing work all together and push women into more manly types of work. The problem arises with human nature. Women NEED to nurture! Men NEED to work. To build, to create to leave their mark. It's biological and it is very nearly universal. Many women enjoy work but they do not need it the way a man does. Just check out the suicide statistics of disabled men. Women on the other hand need to nurture. That is why even when they work outside the home they choose nurturing types of wok such as nursing. We need to value this work as a society or our future generations are doomed.
Yeah, allow personal freedom for everyone-especially the exceptions in each gender-to do what they want but do not peer pressure human beings to go against their nature.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
I've seen many women leave great jobs once they had kids. They couldn't wait to get out and be a stay at home mom. Some even made big financial sacrifices to do it. Despite what feminists preach, lots of women do want marriage and family life. It's like a dirty secret they can't share.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@TheSanityMachine33 I disagree. Suzanne is quick to point out what DNA has created cannot be undone by the superintendants of social construction. She is equally concerned about men who are caught up in today's social engineering. If you like science, I can recommend Dr. Debbie Soh and her groundbreaking research on the topic...
Back in the 70s I was an early "Dad doing it too." My ex and I agreed we would both have careers and we would both be involved in providing care and nurturing for our children. My ex was primary and I was support. We each scheduled our college classes so both she and I could provide child care. I got many a strange and often worried looks from women who noticed me with my infant children in the store without their mother. When we were both working we agreed that Monday and Wednesday nights would be her nights to work late if needed and my work late nights would be Tuesday and Thursday. And yes, being a single focused male it was a real challenge for me to care for our young children. It was so natural for me to get focused on a home repair project or studying. Several of my ex's feminist friends let her know that in being a mother my ex was 'failing the feminist agenda'. That my ex enjoyed being a mother did not seem of any importance to them.
Men and women are responsible for the situation that Western Society finds itself in. Over the last 50 years Western World governments have developed and implemented policy that has destroyed the traditional family unit and roles. Once the family unit was the foundation of a functioning society and was revered. Today, that is not the case and we all are responsible for what exists now.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
I really appreciate everybody who are trying help men, especially the women who are trying make other women aware of mens struggles but I have to admit that all this seems futile. Things aren’t going to get better anytime soon. This might sound “ out there” but look at the meta verse thing that Zuckerberg is pushing. The meta verse is going to make relationships borderline obsolete. The US is heading in the direction of Japan. You’re going to see massive isolation and depression soon. We should be teaching men how to be ok being single and alone, cause women aren’t going to change.
A rough comment Jordan Peterson made about changing the culture, before you change a system that has worked for a very long time maybe you should see if your plan works first. The modern liberals don't care if they are wrong they hope to build a 1984 style utopia. In their eyes it is a utopia as they see themselves at the top in charge. The lords over the serfs. Some have seen history but think that modern drugs and social media will give them the tools to make it work for them, this time. The mobs they use are just the "useful idiots" of the past who have not been taught to think for themselves. We may be near a tipping point. But probably not that near. Women may need to realize that they did it to themselves. Don't look to me to fix your problem. I know better. If your life is a trainwreck, well you were at the controls. Basic rights, life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are about it. Too many people think they have rights that are not rights. ( a test, does your "right" require you to take from someone else?)
Regardless it must be tried to survive. It seems completely stupid to say the obvious but if men and women don’t get together there will be no children. I am also not saying that men don’t hold the line on what they need and want.
Growing up in the 70 s no one talked or worried about money every on had what they had .we played checkers/chess and monopoly the stick ball and rode our bicycles.Phones we’re corded and had no answering machine. 99 % were happy vs today they have everything but are 99 % miserable. And I miss all the camping by a bonfire and sleeping on the floor underneath the moon and stars and Big Dipper
Modern wives have a third option; blame the husband, and expect him to do everything to her expectation for everything that she doesn’t want to do… then when he doesn’t, blame him, and file for divorce…
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
When tf did she say that? In this particular piece she points out that women were lied to due to feminism and it’s ok to not believe that lie and lean OUT
We grew up very modestly and my mom raised us until we were in 2nd grade and she was able to pick us up after school because she got a job during school hours. We had everything we needed and my parents are able to retire early if they want to. My mother in law was a sahm as well, but lived lavishly because she wanted to project an image of being a well off family. My husband told me of stories where they couldn't afford to eat a healthy dinner while living in a massive house, couldn't afford the disney channel on cable and barely any vacations. On top of that there were always fights about money. I've never heard my parents fight about money in my entire life. We're frugal as a couple because we don't want to live in a huge house with a massive backyard and all of the trinkets that would impress others who don't care at the end of the day. We're living well because of this and not having the desire to do the lifestyle creep. I don't want a bigger house than the one we have, it's perfect for us. We only need one car so that's all we have. His sisters are following in their mother's footsteps with extremely large homes and trinkets-except their kids are in daycare and they HAVE to work, even while pregnant. They refuse to not keep up with the Joneses so they have the multiple luxury cars, 70k trucks, the RVs, the boats, etc while drowning in debt payments, daycare bills, and massive mortgage payments.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Excellent comparison of motherhood & teaching profession with its invisible workload! 16 years as elementary teacher until 2 years ago when I resigned, no regrets.
The follow on question is 'Why should a middle aged man who is not a single mother's first husband help her "lean out"? ' Because if she wants to quit her income providing job, she needs a man working one to provide that income. But if she already has another man's kids and has been around the dating market a few times, it's like she had all the fun parts of the relationship with the bad boys and is showing up at the end to Mr. Dependable asking him to pay the bill. She'll say things like "nice guys win in the end". And that's ignoring the decades of demonization as well as the fact a lot of young guys have had disadvantages in education and entry-level hiring and might not have careers in order until later in life. Sorry, but a lot of modern men view modern women as *enemies* . And when your enemy suffers, you stand back and laugh. You don't help your enemy.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@nobillismccaw7450 Threats don't seek you out if you avoid them. If you're on a boat in the middle of a lake, and then all of a sudden a tiger is lunging at you or a truck is barreling in your direction, it's because an enemy is attacking you. (In this analogy that enemy seems to be a wizard, but I digress.) The reason I personally care about MGTOW is because I wanted to spend my career in the military fighting terrorists, and then politics happened and the mob decided my life would be better spent designing solar panels. In a free country that shouldn't happen. But it did. My issue shouldn't have a damn thing to do with dating. But it does. Many others who end up in this community just happen to be nerds who like anime, comics, or video games. But then the mob inserts itself into their hobby and changes it for political purposes. Again, that issue should have nothing to do with dating. Where did the mob come from? The mob happened because these witches with capital B have turned sex and reproduction into a political weapon and are using it to impose their politics on everybody. They traded their ability to have kids for power and are now using that power for petty purposes. They fill the void in their hearts from not having a family by changing anything they can, from the military to nerd hobbies to vaccinations. It affects everybody and has become the panacea issue. Hence why I used to the term 'enemy'. Because if you try to stay away from them, they'll still come after you and impose themselves into becoming your biggest problem.
Family is and always has been the basic unit of human existence throughout our lives - as children, as teenagers, as parents and as grandparents in retirements. People have forgotten that. A pseudo family in the form of a workplace community is temporary, insecure, insincere, and no substitute for family. There are too many dropouts from family relationships nowadays.
The fact that there are women like you still around makes me thing that maybe we arent screwed. Too late for me, but those that are coming, hope they can hear this.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Some women work for safety. A man that you have learned to depend on abandoned or use their income to control woman. It's not easy for men or woman. I don't blame femanision. I believe it starts in the family. Men and woman not setting a foundation together. I believe the blame came is what causes the separation and lack of appreciation of in what each person contributes. I believe their is a balance that works for both men and woman. That when we both say we and not I is a start
You're ignoring the fact that 75% of divorces are filed for by WOMEN, not men. If all a woman wants is safety and security (she doesn't) all she has to do is NOT DIVORCE THE HUSBAND AND FATHER.
@Piyath nope. It's not a mental disease. I watched my Father do this to my Mother. She was never able to trust again. Not all men do the right thing and ditto for women. I would never stop working.
@@mattobermiller5041 That is not true. Many men are cheating and abusive and often these things start after marriage. Most women will not live in an environment that is hostile or unsafe. My Father's substance abuse was the reason my Mother left. He physically abused my Mother and brothers and if it happens even once it will happen again. Most women know that a cheater will always be a cheater and an abuser will always be an abuser.
All I have heard from woman including my ex wife is women dont need men unless the man pays for things. They can do anything and if anyone says otherwise they are a toxic male. So now you got what you want and you still want more! Good Luck. You are going to find more and more men are done playing this game.
The problem is that women just ASSUME that a man who can afford to support them is a man who actually WANTS to wife them up. Ladies: What are you bringing to the table? The answer from women is always: "I AM the table." or "Well, I am just perfect as I am and that should be good enough." Sorry, but no. A man who can support a family financially has WAY too much to lose in divorce. He also (and I know this is a shocker) has PREFERENCES. Maybe think about HIS wants and needs once in a while. A man who can provide and knows his worth does not want a single mom, tatted--up, high-body count princess with a septum ring... who will nag and take him for granted. Nowadays, a lot of men who have money and resources simply stay single and will never marry, because marriage is too risky for them and the rewards are few.
I’d love to “lean out” in terms of housework, and allow him to pick up the slack- at least hold his end of it. Unfortunately nothing will get done for weeks. So instead I’m also in school so I can support myself enough to leave and live on my own. I’m honestly not sure what the point of having men around is anymore, and hate to admit it.
Here's the thing.. that is the problem of modernity, not the problem of a man. Men don't see what needs to be done. It's not his fault. Men and women are different. Historically a man's role is to provide and protect his family. In modern life the court requires that he still provide and women can outsource protection to the police. Your children need their father. He needs to be affirmed in his masculinity. Why do you need 2 incomes? Can you get by with 1.5 incomes? Men ain't Changing and children need them
@Kia-iq7dh then he's a bum. Don't marry him. Women confuse who she should marry with sexual attraction in the early days of a relationship. Sexual compatibility is great, but women will lose that desire if he's a bum within the first 5 years of marriage. Don't marry a guy who doesn't want to provide. Seems simple to me.
@@melanieb2132 sure but sometimes these things don't pop up until after marriage or even children. Thats the hard part, both people in the marriage have to play their role.
@Kia-iq7dh how would you not know about someone's work ethic or life philosophy before marriage? That's a think a person should observe about their potential partner.. either way, actually. People seek to have no idea what type of conversations to have with their potential partner. They ask zodiac signs, whether the person likes sushi, tattoos, music, dogs or hiking, but they have no idea about anything else. I think it's weird.
I don’t love everything about my Canadian system but the one good thing is the maternity leave. Women who are employed, not self employed, get one year off on maternity/parental leave. You will only make about half of your salary on leave but its something. I couldn’t imagine leaving my kids so soon after giving birth. There are of course going to be some people who take advantage of the system, there always are but I think that this time with your babies is an investment in society. Even listening to my mom’s story about leaving my sister with a sitter only 3 months after having her, it’s heartbreaking. She had me and my brother only on the condition that she was going to stay home because she didn’t want to go through that experience again. It’s no wonder, in my mind, why there has been such an increase in mental health issues and such over the generations. Babies are left with strangers from such a young age and that is of course going to have negative ramifications in the future. Staying home with kids isn’t always easy, but it’s likely the most rewarding work a women will do in her life.
@@stallionshark1726 you pay into Employment Insurance every check, and your employer pays too. I can’t remember what the exact percentage is but it’s around 1.5% of your gross earnings is taken off the top for EI and matched by the employer.
Mothering used to be JUST AS HARD bcs of having 200+% more kids but it was MORE FOCUSED and more kids definitely means economies of scale (usually at 4+) its CHEM BIRTH CONTROL culture which has been the wedge of this divided focus
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
This bit about the difficulty of getting a well balanced dinner on the table is exaggerated. You don't have to make everything from scratch. Costco has delicious stuff that is prepped in 30 minutes. A big salad takes 20 minutes. Potatoes, rice, etc, done in no time.
If they want to be stay at home mothers while resenting the person who would help them do that... well good luck. Only a desperate man with no self respect would go through that.
NO man wanted or asked for this. As a matter of fact just the opposite. We didn't want you on the jobsite getting in the way of progress. My grandfather told me that he worked and my grandma handled the money and the house. They raised ten kids and my grandma had a college education. The media lied to you so that they could get more money out of a household and YOU bought it, so it's up to YOU to change it because us men are sitting this one out.
@Tranzor Z A good friend of mine is a stay at home Dad. His wife is the income earner. He is unable to work as he suffers from an autoimmune illness that causes his bones to fuse. However, despite his pain, he does all the household chores for his wife and children. In his experience, men have put him down and ridiculed him for being a SAHD. His wife has always showed her support and appreciation for all that he does for her and their children.
She says as she displays her fabulous kitchen and apple lap top. No arguments from me, just pointing out the "accept less but I get to live the good life" visuals on this one.
So wives and daughters watched husband and dad come home from 10 to 12 hr shifts and collapse on the coach. And feminism convinced them that is better and more fun than chilling at home raising their kids and doing some cleaning. Lol
Don’t forget the sibling abuse while you’re at work. And then the one grown child won’t speak with you because you still do love the other child, even if they had murdered someone.
1. Feminism created this environment. 2. Equality means women have to "Man Up" and share the duties historically men were responsible for. Not saying it is fair but that is the way women wanted it.
Women are connected to children, like men are connected to providing support to the family. It`s a natural thing. The system was so much better in the past. Women had everything and wanted more. They now have what men have that being the stress and responsibility being a man. Welcome to the mans world getting on with life and not complaining about it. That was men's big mistake they should have let everyone know how hard it is being a man and providing for a family like women do about bringing up children.
I like your broadcast Suzanne. Your practical, down to earth comments along with your fair and equitable stance on gender relations is a breath of fresh air. I would caution you though about certain undertones that I get when listening to you. I'm kind of old school, I open doors, offer my seat, help with heavy bags, etc. but I an also a feminist, I believe that women should be treated fairly and given the same opportunities for the pursuit of personal happiness. I sometimes feel that you build a feminist straw man and pin all the problems of the world on it. To be sure some people take a notion to extremes but that is hardly limited to feminism is it. Also, living on the coasts and choosing to work is not the same as pledging fealty to some sisterhood. It's a choice made possible by the woman's rights movement.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Replace "society" with "other feminist women" and you'll be a lot closer to the truth. No mention of her husband whatsoever other than a reference to "dating". Sick. A sperm donor with a paycheck. I can't imagine why men would feel bad... double the workforce and you half the pay. Simple economics.
Every country where women can vote have the issues mentioned in this video. Women only vote for politicians, judges and education administrators that push the feminist narrative. While Suzanne is screaming "lean out", men are screaming "run away". There is no way to win as a male in the West; you can go to jail when your wife divorces you, takes your children and home. You, dear husband, must pay and pay and pay. If you wife does stay home with children, she can claim she was forced to give up a career, and that she deserves lifelong alimony. While Suzanne's political analysis is dead on, until women say "I don't deserve preferential treatment in family court, I don't deserve alimony", nothing will change.
The real problem is government induced massive inflation. Try talking about the real problem. Yes. You can make intelligent choices But until people change their government it won’t work for long. In 1963 my father made $6 an hour as an electrician. A decent home cost $17,000 and a car cost $3000. A day $6/hr they were paying almost no taxes. Figure it out - inflation is destroying our lives
This is why I love mocking alt-righters who blame the collapse of the Weimar Republic on perverts who aren't family minded. They would do anything not to talk about the worthless Weimar Mark.
8:22 But women will literally meet other women who stay home with their babies by staying home with their babies. Even if they don’t already know such women. I promise, you, they’ll exist everywhere. You’ll meet them at parks, playgrounds, cafes and libraries!
There an easy way to fix this one, Ladies just get an Hysterectomy to stop the baby making problem. women can do it all if they will stop making babies.
Maybe it might help if the reality of Marriage, Kids & Work life was portrayed more realistcially in media instead of the disney rom com fantasy illusions.
Women can’t lean out without the support of a man. But men are tired of being used and aren’t committing anymore. And the availability of men who could support a lean out lifestyle are few
LOL! It's hard working a crappy job and being a single mom? You broke the contract, ladies. You flooded the job market and drove wages down. You made your bed, now lie in it. This comes from a single dad with full custody since my son was three months old! You get zero empathy from me. Ladies, you're on your own.
Didn't a certain president say something like Women can do better than Men with heels on? So go on, don't complain get on those heels and double down or just don't have kids then you don't need to do that part and then Greta and Co will be happy the climate will be saved.......
I’m really trying with your channel Suzanne but you always miss a huge and essential piece of the puzzle,and I’m not sure if its deliberate or not,When will women take any responsibility for their own choices they’re always coerced,pulled,instructed,,it’s societal blah blah ,you use the language yourself, It’s never “you made your choice, so live with the consequences” feminism did play a huge part, but was pushed by the women and men (who thought they had something to gain,or were being helpful) the lack of insight is astounding, it’s like Jordan Peterson saying men have to man up, do more, lean in is there something about women today that are so fragile they can’t accept responsibility for themselves?!
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Work part time, find a flex job, or have someone in your life who is ok to support you while you care for your child and start your career anew when he/she is grown or some combo of the above.
Now THAT's a reasonable question! I have NO problem whatsoever if an ambitious woman wisely has 1-2 kids in her prime twenties and THEN decides to pursue her careerist dreams when the kids are in teenagehood or out of the house.
Let me stay out of the comments. I cant relate to some of these bitter men. Im not a feminist but i think that the feminist movemet was also fueled by men... inadequate men. And also women who were being mistreated by their husband. Many men treated their wives like shit while they provided. They put themselves as kings and the wive was the sevant. Who would want to live like that???? So women said i can work and make money. Ive never met 1 women who said she doesnt need a man. What we dont need to the oppression, the control, the mistreatment. Of course being on your own would be better than that. Women need to admit that if they want to be a stay at home wife then you ONLY date men who wants a woman to stay at home. A man that can provide you the opportunity to do that.. period. Which means you will have to be the sterotypical "gold digger". Dont date men who cant provide. Period. And maybe men will step up cauze how many men want to provide????? And have the ability to not take advantage of that??? Idk
Don’t know what’s going to happen. The majority of men are considered financially and socially unattractive. We couldn’t contribute even if had the chance to.
Well...if it helps, the new spending bill has funding for government funded child care facilites. New moms can drop them off pretty much directly after birth.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Suzanne, You never talk about female nature! Why? If you really want to help the Young people of today? Wouldn't it be beneficial to your audience to address how women naturally act and think that most men are oblivious to? How about the damages of Social Media? The global sexual market place we now live in? The crazy expectations that online dating creates? You make some good points in your videos but you are leaving a lot of meat on the bone. The bullet point suggestions in this video are great, drill down on each one and explain why driving a car for 10 years makes sense!!! These are intuitive things that young people really do not understand. Just a suggestion.
Good comment. Venker is oblivious to the origins of women working outside the home. Men's ingenuity made life so easy women became bored. Right at a time when the US started it's economic decline (1971) women were encouraged by the social engineers to alleviate their boredom with outside work. The big allure was that her earnings were "fun money" that she could keep to herself. Now, wages are low, inflation is high and work is a necessity. Funny that women caused their situation and now cry about that, as if someone should come to their rescue. I'm not sympathetic.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Most Important thing in Life here on Earth is to get Right with God, the Rest is Secondary. Please read the Gospel of John, it Explains who Jesus is and what He has done to Set Us Free from Our Sin. In Our Natural State we are Sinners and at Enmity with God, but through the Work of Jesus we can have a Relationship with God. Jesus took Our Rightful Punishment and Suffered and Died on the Cross, Resurrected on the Third Day and Defeated Death. All we have to do is Repent and Believe in Him and what He did with All Our Hearts and We are Forgiven. I was an Atheist for Most my Life so I Know this Might Sound Silly to you, but the Bible is Truth ; All the Correct Prophecy Proves it. Its the Word of God and it Also Shows How Jesus can Set us Free from Demonic Possession / Demonic Oppression. Demons Fear Jesus Christ, and Born Again Believers. Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life, No One comes to the Father but through Him. God bless
Uff... The perfect allknowing god, that knew what would happen to us, sent his son, (himself) to sacrifice himself to himself, to correct the error in his creation. We are supposed to inhabit the natural sin, after the first to humans "rebelled" against god, even though god knew, even before the creation, they would do it. We are essentially punished for a crime we didnt commit and god knew that would happen. All humans that god created and dont follow him will go to hell and suffer for eternity. That means that god knew from the start, that these people wouldnt follow him and therefore go to hell. Consider that many people are born in regions were different believes are common and never hear a word of god until their deaths. So god created many people just do suffer for eternity. Thats cruel. And thats following the assumption that the bible is real and coming from a god we havent seen anythin from in centuries. Where is the prophecy? Confirmation bias is the word. If you look for the fullfilling of a prophecy, it will certainly be fullfilled. The rider of the apocalypse: the plague? No. The spanish flu? No. All the other diseases? The ´Rona? WWI? WWII? The crusades? And yes the earth will be swallowed by the sun in probably billions of years. ...AND FIRE FELL FROM THE SKY... Good luck with prophecies.
@@frosty3693 Still Dangerous Today, thats Why they Ridicule Believers and Persecute them if they Say for Instance : God Created them Male and Female ; Two Genders. Funny Enough Leftists Girls Embrace Islam and Hate Biblical Christianity, thats what the Bible Calls the Antichrist Spirit. Its a SPIRITUAL Battle that can Only be Won with Spiritual Weapons..
@@kroikye Ideologies and nothing more. Its just poison for every society to blame one side. Right or Left... There is so much in between. But guess your religion is making you blind.
@@frosty3693 The principals are dangerous. If christians would take the bible word for word and stopped cherry picking we would be in the dark times again.
What does a woman do when her spouse always has one foot out the door to travel. He wants travel, wants this, that..... He doesn't believe in one income life. Even after conversations have been had. How can a woman lean out than? What systems do moms have in place to make it all easier?
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly. In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism. She is just more covert about it. TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
This lady complaining about the list of stuff that's overwhelming her... take off the training wheels lady. Just wait till you have to take care of someone that's dying. The list here is child's play. Count your blessings while you still have it easy.
I don't believe that this situation was entirely created by women. Men have played their part as well. For at least 5 decades government policy has slowly destroyed Christian values and the traditional family unit and roles.
@@niram6707 wrong. Men agree with equality and the ability to choose. That’s what feminism was originally about. Choice means “or” not “either/or”. That means you can be a lawyer or a mother. Not both. Women are upset because they thought “choice” meant they would get the best of both worlds. In actuality they have eroded wages and the number of jobs for men. Thus, there are less men capable of solely providing for a family. The current situation is a direct result of women’s choices.
@@pivot197 The current situation of our society is not just a result of women's choices. Both sexes are responsible and many factors are at play. The decline in morality, the acceptance of a hyper-sexualised society. For instance, I recall that the majority of the American population (men and women) applauded the very sexualised performance of JLo and Shakira (and scantily dressed attire of the women) at the Super Bowl. The minority that denounced it as inappropriate for an event marketed as family viewing were pounced on. The fact that Government and corporates do not prioritise the family unit as the cornerstone of society but profit/wealth and this has been bombarded into our brains. The majority of men and women will measure an individual as successful or not on 3 factors - occupation, salary and wealth/possessions. Also, many are adopting Marxist/Engels views on societal structure. The works of Karl Marx and Frederick Engels heavily influenced feminism. Marx denounces the nuclear family and Engels' text identifies the nuclear family construct as the root of women's oppression. And, there are males that agree with Marx's/Engel's works as to how society should be structured.
@@niram6707 I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. I also don’t hate women as Im married and have both a son and a daughter. I want women to have choice and live great lives. My wife and I are watching the mess from the background and imparting gender based advice to both our kids. Both my wife and I view the issues today as problems for women. All I have to do for my son is to teach him to workout, educate himself, and build a great career. After that he’ll have unlimited choices in wives. My daughter is more complicated. She’ll need to get an education, and/or career experience, and/or successful husband before 28. If she’s extremely lucky she can get them all but it’s a huge gamble. She may need to accept she can only have 1 or 2 things. That is life due to sexual dynamics. If women chose men who wanted to be stay at home dads they could have it all too.
I am a college educated woman who was an elementary school teacher until I had kids. Never went back. I had worked in many daycares/preschools before become a professional teacher and NO WAY did I want that for my kids. I have horror stories. Anyways when my kids were 6 months and 1 and a half my husband abandoned us. Took all the money. I had to file bankruptcy, move home (different state) with my parents so I could still raise my kids. I was overwhelmed and devastated but NEVER put my kids in daycare not for one day. They are great now… all grown and making me proud. I miss being a stay at home Mom. It was HARD but I did it. Met a nice man who married me and adopted the kids when they were 7 and 5. He’s all they really know. Tomorrow is our 22 year anniversary. We just found out we’re gonna be first time grandparents. All the sacrifices, saying no we can’t afford that, driving one beater car forever, living in a tiny quaint mountain town so they could have an idyllic life, all those things weren’t LUCK they were CHOICES and sacrifices had to be made. I’m so glad we did that tho.
I love hearing about past struggles that are still filled with love throughout. And its great hearing from older women. It gives me hope of my own future with my children as a stay at home mom. I'm glad that those tough times brought you to this beautiful life you have now.
I loved reading this...couldn't help but smile. Happy you made it through stranger
When you do lean out, as I did starting in 2017, women get no emotional support from their own feminist/working Mothers, sisters, friends.
Society doesn’t tell Women they should do it all. They tell each other that. They are slowly destroying themselves
I think there are plenty of guys who push their wives to work as well. It’s foolish and counterproductive when not truly necessary, in my opinion, but it still happens
@@Maurinusa They do that b/c women keep saying they can do it all...if women said we can't and we need your help men wouldn't. The problem is women want their cake and eat too...they want to look tough and get help without asking for it.
@@Maurinusa stop
deflecting. the blame rests squarely on women
@@ShaunHensley You sound like the male equivalent of a feminist, blaming the other gender for all the problems. It's silly to act like there aren't men who should up their game too
@@Maurinusa to your first post, it all depends on your lifestyle. If you live a lifestyle that requires two incomes then you don’t have a choice but for both of you to work.
My mom was a stay at home mother. She didn't start working until me and my brother were old enough to be alone. It worked out fine. She didn't even cook dinner, our father did that. She just cleaned the house, did the laundry and washed the dishes. I just don't get what our society is doing because me and my brother had a pretty relaxing life growing up. I see families today and it's just a rat race.
I did all you suggested and have been at home for 16 years in CALIFORNIA. I didn't know anyone at home but eventually found like minded women through homeschooling events. We started out so poor! And we are now debt-free and thriving. College is such a waste of $ these days. Young women need to study How to thrive on one income.
You remind me of my mother, and both of my grandmothers. These are my favorite 3 women I’ve known in my entire life.
From personal experience, most mothers today divorce themselves from their children through the use of electronic devices. They fail to handle the surface level needs of a child, instead focus on selfish desires, and allow an electronic drug to soothe their children.
I remember meeting a young woman with a two year old, who's complex relationship situation amounts to three children in adult bodies. She complains about her former spouse. Her current boyfriend appears emasculated. Her two year desires her attention, as he feels like he's not important to her, and so she proves it, by handing him her phone to watch vapid material. Thus, I saw her desire for public attention, and her refusal to mother her child, and neither man wished to father the child.
From casual observation, most parents will provide a phone or smart pad for the child to behave in public, while the parents misbehaved in public.
Most folks fail to realize children imitate you, and tell you the truths you cleverly hid from yourself. Thus children end up raised by immature adults who do not wish to mature, and do not know how to mature in adulthood. I believe we've entered a cycle of this, since the 80's at least.
Hence, I do not respect single mothers all that often, with few exceptions. Namely, widows of honorable men, or victims of rape or similar circumstance.
Underrated comment. Well said. 👏 👏 👏
I call a widow a widow, deliberately, to demonstrate respect.
Single mothers deserve to be judged.
🎞 As for your last exception,@Teresa Kane , have you ever seen the romantic comedy, 'Love, Rosie' (2014)?
😃 Now THAT is an example of a good single mother heroine!
In the flick, our protagonist gets herself knocked up by the wrong guy and ends up a pregnant teen. But instead of feeling sorry for herself or dumping off her parental responsibilities on her parents, she admits to screwing up and bravely-even if sometimes clumsily-takes on the role of being a dutiful mother.
She makes her share of mistakes but-and without giving too much away-ends up getting her deserving happy ending. And it is a GOOD ending because our hero EARNED it.
🍿 Enjoy!
@Teresa Kane saddest thing is the children coming from single moms who fail their kids spawn another generation of adults who will repeat or amplify the mistakes they grew up with, how can we break this cycle, Charles Manson, David Koresh were products of teen mothers, look what they got into,
@Teresa Kane I'm 66, and live in Houston. We've had some horrible stories of child abuse here over the past few years. A few weeks ago, a young boy was found dead in his apt. living with his two brothers. The mother had left these children behind weeks earlier. She was found and arrested. The dead boy had been dead for a YEAR in the apt. His brothers were fed by neighbors in the apt. complex. A very sad story. Still can't believe no one ever called the police, and got help here. Such a tragedy. I worked as libn. for the city of Houston. One day a woman came in with four small boys. She wanted liby. cards for them. All of the boys had different last names. She said to me" yes they're mine, they all have different fathers, and I'm not married to any of them". Today those boys are about 18 plus. Hope they made it to adulthood intact.
This has been an issue for 50 years. Feminism lost no time belittling stay-at-home moms.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
I agree, they now have started to belittle the women not choosing the jobs they want them to. Its rediculous. Nothing wrong with being a stay at home mum and men being their their beautiful masculinity. Its about appreciating one another for what each brings to the table and appreciating that we balance each other. The problem is, modern feminazis want to control everything because deep down they are unhealed little girls angry at their fathers. Hence the projection.
19 years ago while I worked as a married woman I realized there was no way for me to make meals once I had kids. I was already exhausted once I got home from work and then I had to make a meal!?! I'm so grateful I was able to depend on a good provider and take care of each of my babies.
I always thought time was the most valuable thing I could buy. I gave up my $100k salary to buy time. Time at home, time with my kids., time to do what I want. It's worth every penny.
Wow this is the comment I needed . Currently a hairstylist wanting to start a family, but torn between being stay at home or part time work . Omg but I'm no where near 100k . Good for you ❤
This is also why families are so much smaller. There was a podcast that I listened to where it was mentioned in a book and I don't know the book. My wife wanted more than 1 but we only have one, and it's because my picture of fatherhood/motherhood looked very different. I can barely get her in the kitchen. I've never seen her mop, vacuum, clean a toilet...I do all of that. I primarily wash clothes the clothes as I schedule it as to not be over whelmed. She will was if she needs something that is not clean. And she let herself go. She does not look like she looked when we met and she won't try. She told me "The weight is there, it's not going away". And I don't feel like I'm being inconsiderate because I do a lot. And I told her I'd do more if she committed to getting in shape. But I definitely wasn't having another kid when I'm doing all of this already.
Always such a great message. I see women focused on remodeling their kitchen and amazing vacations - thus they and their husband work full time jobs while dropping their kids off at daycare etc. And then say they have to work full time.
Good episode, Suzanne! I was just thinking recently how glad I am that my wife has chosen to stay home with the kids. We’d be stressed out of our minds if we were both working
I'm listening to her list, and thinking, this is exactly what feminists have been fighting for, since before I was born...
Back in the 1960s....
Men: Working for a living sucks, it's good to be home.
Women: You're just saying that because you're part of the patriarchy.
Women: I'm trapped at home. I wish I had a career so I could out and see the world, and spend time with other people.
Later...
Women: Working for a living sucks.
Funny as hell. (They never listen."
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@TheSanityMachine33 Her bias comes through now and then. But I don't find it to be extreme or offensive.
I don't know why people complain about working. It's never going to be fun, and most adults know that it will be hard.
@@reginasemenenko148 some jobs are worse than others.
Some are horrible.
But in some examples, women are getting angry because they feel the grass is greener for traditional housewives. They feel they were denied the option without a say in the matter.
People often desire what they can't have.
money is not more important than raising your children. you can live on ONE income.
We couldn't and many others could not.
Whether or not one can raise a family on one income is dependent on many variables - your skill level and the salary that your skills can command, the country that you live in and, most importantly, what you are prepared to let go from your life ( down size to a smaller home, reduce the number of vacations, reduce entertainment, recreational, personal care, dining out/takeaway, alcohol, clothing, technology, homewares expenditure etc).
One of the root problems of all this is modern women's excessive greed. Stop wanting (everything) a lot of useless stuff you don't actually need, and listening to the advertising that sells this to you.
Preach
Trying being a lumberjack, or a roofer in the South in the summer, then report back.
Women today do exactly what mine did to me 20 years ago ....... if I can get this guy with a big house, land, good job, hard working, and savings accounts - then I will divorce the man and find a better one once I am free and have child support and alimony. Men have figured out marriage is not vows between man and women. It's between the man and the state government laws. All backed by a judge, getting paid by the government.
The government handsomely rewarded my ex-wife with so many benefits for divorcing me. Virtually all the bills I was paying became paid by the government. So she could live any lifestyle she wanted to, which I won't get into the details of that but you can imagine. This devastated me but it was worse for her children.
I’m a federal employee and was able to utilize 12 weeks of paid paternity leave due to a new policy that started in Oct 2020. So far, two other men in my office have used the program but not any women. Maybe because the average age of a civil servant is pretty high, there don’t seem to be a lot of women using it. Maybe women should start their careers when their kids are older. Women are living longer today than ever, so there is more time.
My parents had 4 children over a 12yr period. Number 4 was their only daughter. Both worked blue collar jobs. Fthr during the day, mthr at nite. Mthr carried the major wrk @ hm. It was probably a little easier not having all 4 very quickly. And with some outside family support. She worked very hard. And did an excellent job in both arenas. She was simply amazing.
Good mothers raise good men and women. I deliver amazon packages for a living,who's doing more essential and rewarding work? I also know a rich engineer,very important dude,but he can be replaced. Good mothers can't be replaced nor substituted. God Bless Mothers
You're expressing a very blue pill (and wrong)perspective. Good PARENTS, ESPECIALLY FATHERS can't be replaced. As long as people elevate mothers without doing the same for the even more vital father, children are doomed.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@mattobermiller5041 he's asleep in the matrix
@@TheSanityMachine33 I agree on both counts, TED and Suzanne. Just like CHS/ The Factual Feminist, Suzanne chameleons as a man's advocate, middle of the political road person when she's still all about the core tenants of feminism, she just dresses it up slightly different.
@@mattobermiller5041 Technical he is right. There is a different between get rid of someone and replace them.
I believe you are spot on Suzanne. In the 1970's (I know I was there) the feminists decided that most women's work was nurturing work and that the world under valued that work. I believe that was true. But their solution was to demolish the value of nurturing work all together and push women into more manly types of work. The problem arises with human nature. Women NEED to nurture! Men NEED to work. To build, to create to leave their mark. It's biological and it is very nearly universal. Many women enjoy work but they do not need it the way a man does. Just check out the suicide statistics of disabled men. Women on the other hand need to nurture. That is why even when they work outside the home they choose nurturing types of wok such as nursing. We need to value this work as a society or our future generations are doomed.
Yeah, allow personal freedom for everyone-especially the exceptions in each gender-to do what they want but do not peer pressure human beings to go against their nature.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
I've seen many women leave great jobs once they had kids. They couldn't wait to get out and be a stay at home mom. Some even made big financial sacrifices to do it. Despite what feminists preach, lots of women do want marriage and family life. It's like a dirty secret they can't share.
Absolutely!! 100% agree with you!
"Leaning out" is also the antidote to the destructive economics of consumerism...
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@@TheSanityMachine33 I disagree. Suzanne is quick to point out what DNA has created cannot be undone by the superintendants of social construction.
She is equally concerned about men who are caught up in today's social engineering.
If you like science, I can recommend Dr. Debbie Soh and her groundbreaking research on the topic...
@@oxigenarian9763men still do a better job of following our true nature then modern women do.
Back in the 70s I was an early "Dad doing it too." My ex and I agreed we would both have careers and we would both be involved in providing care and nurturing for our children. My ex was primary and I was support. We each scheduled our college classes so both she and I could provide child care. I got many a strange and often worried looks from women who noticed me with my infant children in the store without their mother. When we were both working we agreed that Monday and Wednesday nights would be her nights to work late if needed and my work late nights would be Tuesday and Thursday. And yes, being a single focused male it was a real challenge for me to care for our young children. It was so natural for me to get focused on a home repair project or studying. Several of my ex's feminist friends let her know that in being a mother my ex was 'failing the feminist agenda'. That my ex enjoyed being a mother did not seem of any importance to them.
As this problem took a few generations to be made, it will take generations to solve.
Men and women are responsible for the situation that Western Society finds itself in. Over the last 50 years Western World governments have developed and implemented policy that has destroyed the traditional family unit and roles. Once the family unit was the foundation of a functioning society and was revered. Today, that is not the case and we all are responsible for what exists now.
😔 You may be right...
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
I really appreciate everybody who are trying help men, especially the women who are trying make other women aware of mens struggles but I have to admit that all this seems futile. Things aren’t going to get better anytime soon. This might sound “ out there” but look at the meta verse thing that Zuckerberg is pushing. The meta verse is going to make relationships borderline obsolete. The US is heading in the direction of Japan. You’re going to see massive isolation and depression soon. We should be teaching men how to be ok being single and alone, cause women aren’t going to change.
That’s the paradox. We have to be present for our children to fix the problem.
A rough comment Jordan Peterson made about changing the culture, before you change a system that has worked for a very long time maybe you should see if your plan works first.
The modern liberals don't care if they are wrong they hope to build a 1984 style utopia. In their eyes it is a utopia as they see themselves at the top in charge. The lords over the serfs. Some have seen history but think that modern drugs and social media will give them the tools to make it work for them, this time.
The mobs they use are just the "useful idiots" of the past who have not been taught to think for themselves.
We may be near a tipping point. But probably not that near.
Women may need to realize that they did it to themselves. Don't look to me to fix your problem. I know better. If your life is a trainwreck, well you were at the controls.
Basic rights, life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are about it. Too many people think they have rights that are not rights. ( a test, does your "right" require you to take from someone else?)
Regardless it must be tried to survive. It seems completely stupid to say the obvious but if men and women don’t get together there will be no children. I am also not saying that men don’t hold the line on what they need and want.
Isolation and depression are already here.
Quitting is not a strategy. At least not a good one anyway...
Growing up in the 70 s no one talked or worried about money every on had what they had .we played checkers/chess and monopoly the stick ball and rode our bicycles.Phones we’re corded and had no answering machine. 99 % were happy vs today they have everything but are 99 % miserable. And I miss all the camping by a bonfire and sleeping on the floor underneath the moon and stars and Big Dipper
Modern wives have a third option; blame the husband, and expect him to do everything to her expectation for everything that she doesn’t want to do… then when he doesn’t, blame him, and file for divorce…
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
When tf did she say that? In this particular piece she points out that women were lied to due to feminism and it’s ok to not believe that lie and lean OUT
@@2davivadiva Suzanne didn't say that. Women do though, at a rate of 50.5% of all marriages.
@@Angryboganit’s actually 56%
@@mistergoodcitizen9914 Thank you, sir. My data might be a little out of date. Strengthens the argument
We grew up very modestly and my mom raised us until we were in 2nd grade and she was able to pick us up after school because she got a job during school hours. We had everything we needed and my parents are able to retire early if they want to. My mother in law was a sahm as well, but lived lavishly because she wanted to project an image of being a well off family. My husband told me of stories where they couldn't afford to eat a healthy dinner while living in a massive house, couldn't afford the disney channel on cable and barely any vacations. On top of that there were always fights about money. I've never heard my parents fight about money in my entire life. We're frugal as a couple because we don't want to live in a huge house with a massive backyard and all of the trinkets that would impress others who don't care at the end of the day. We're living well because of this and not having the desire to do the lifestyle creep. I don't want a bigger house than the one we have, it's perfect for us. We only need one car so that's all we have. His sisters are following in their mother's footsteps with extremely large homes and trinkets-except their kids are in daycare and they HAVE to work, even while pregnant. They refuse to not keep up with the Joneses so they have the multiple luxury cars, 70k trucks, the RVs, the boats, etc while drowning in debt payments, daycare bills, and massive mortgage payments.
Sounds like a lot of self inflicted wounds. It would make sense once you stop caring what's other people think about you.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Excellent comparison of motherhood & teaching profession with its invisible workload! 16 years as elementary teacher until 2 years ago when I resigned, no regrets.
The follow on question is 'Why should a middle aged man who is not a single mother's first husband help her "lean out"? ' Because if she wants to quit her income providing job, she needs a man working one to provide that income. But if she already has another man's kids and has been around the dating market a few times, it's like she had all the fun parts of the relationship with the bad boys and is showing up at the end to Mr. Dependable asking him to pay the bill. She'll say things like "nice guys win in the end".
And that's ignoring the decades of demonization as well as the fact a lot of young guys have had disadvantages in education and entry-level hiring and might not have careers in order until later in life. Sorry, but a lot of modern men view modern women as *enemies* . And when your enemy suffers, you stand back and laugh. You don't help your enemy.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
all facts. 🍻
Not enemies. High risk threats (like tigers and trucks with no brakes).
@@nobillismccaw7450 Threats don't seek you out if you avoid them. If you're on a boat in the middle of a lake, and then all of a sudden a tiger is lunging at you or a truck is barreling in your direction, it's because an enemy is attacking you. (In this analogy that enemy seems to be a wizard, but I digress.)
The reason I personally care about MGTOW is because I wanted to spend my career in the military fighting terrorists, and then politics happened and the mob decided my life would be better spent designing solar panels. In a free country that shouldn't happen. But it did. My issue shouldn't have a damn thing to do with dating. But it does.
Many others who end up in this community just happen to be nerds who like anime, comics, or video games. But then the mob inserts itself into their hobby and changes it for political purposes. Again, that issue should have nothing to do with dating.
Where did the mob come from? The mob happened because these witches with capital B have turned sex and reproduction into a political weapon and are using it to impose their politics on everybody. They traded their ability to have kids for power and are now using that power for petty purposes. They fill the void in their hearts from not having a family by changing anything they can, from the military to nerd hobbies to vaccinations. It affects everybody and has become the panacea issue.
Hence why I used to the term 'enemy'. Because if you try to stay away from them, they'll still come after you and impose themselves into becoming your biggest problem.
Family is and always has been the basic unit of human existence throughout our lives - as children, as teenagers, as parents and as grandparents in retirements. People have forgotten that. A pseudo family in the form of a workplace community is temporary, insecure, insincere, and no substitute for family. There are too many dropouts from family relationships nowadays.
The fact that there are women like you still around makes me thing that maybe we arent screwed. Too late for me, but those that are coming, hope they can hear this.
They aren't extinct, just extremely rare, and unlikely to change.
I'm a new subscriber to your channel and would like to say. Your content is truly appreciated for its sincere approach. Be blessed 🙌 lady.
My advice (which I can give away because I’m not using it) is to live your own life and not what you think someone else’s idea of your life should be.
Poor women. It’s tough to get what you said you wanted. Enjoy!
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite.
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Some women work for safety. A man that you have learned to depend on abandoned or use their income to control woman. It's not easy for men or woman. I don't blame femanision. I believe it starts in the family. Men and woman not setting a foundation together. I believe the blame came is what causes the separation and lack of appreciation of in what each person contributes. I believe their is a balance that works for both men and woman. That when we both say we and not I is a start
You're ignoring the fact that 75% of divorces are filed for by WOMEN, not men. If all a woman wants is safety and security (she doesn't) all she has to do is NOT DIVORCE THE HUSBAND AND FATHER.
@Piyath nope. It's not a mental disease. I watched my Father do this to my Mother. She was never able to trust again. Not all men do the right thing and ditto for women. I would never stop working.
@@mattobermiller5041 That is not true. Many men are cheating and abusive and often these things start after marriage. Most women will not live in an environment that is hostile or unsafe. My Father's substance abuse was the reason my Mother left. He physically abused my Mother and brothers and if it happens even once it will happen again. Most women know that a cheater will always be a cheater and an abuser will always be an abuser.
All I have heard from woman including my ex wife is women dont need men unless the man pays for things. They can do anything and if anyone says otherwise they are a toxic male. So now you got what you want and you still want more! Good Luck. You are going to find more and more men are done playing this game.
The problem is that women just ASSUME that a man who can afford to support them is a man who actually WANTS to wife them up.
Ladies: What are you bringing to the table?
The answer from women is always: "I AM the table." or "Well, I am just perfect as I am and that should be good enough."
Sorry, but no. A man who can support a family financially has WAY too much to lose in divorce. He also (and I know this is a shocker) has PREFERENCES.
Maybe think about HIS wants and needs once in a while.
A man who can provide and knows his worth does not want a single mom, tatted--up, high-body count princess with a septum ring... who will nag and take him for granted.
Nowadays, a lot of men who have money and resources simply stay single and will never marry, because marriage is too risky for them and the rewards are few.
"I AM the table." Is an express ticket to Box wine and Cat land.
Stick it, Jeffery. You're as incoherent as ever.
Most of the time all a woman brings to the table is a kid or two from some other dude or dudes.
Pssshhhht, if shes the table ....then theres no need to support it lol
@@BOBANDVEG Stolen. Well said lolz.
"The crazy train has no brakes."
This reminds me of that river in the Crimea.
What's it called ... ? Ah, yes.
Crimea River.
WOMEN need to listen to this, men already understand it
I’d love to “lean out” in terms of housework, and allow him to pick up the slack- at least hold his end of it. Unfortunately nothing will get done for weeks. So instead I’m also in school so
I can support myself enough to leave and live on my own.
I’m honestly not sure what the point of having men around is anymore, and hate to admit it.
Here's the thing.. that is the problem of modernity, not the problem of a man.
Men don't see what needs to be done. It's not his fault.
Men and women are different.
Historically a man's role is to provide and protect his family. In modern life the court requires that he still provide and women can outsource protection to the police.
Your children need their father.
He needs to be affirmed in his masculinity.
Why do you need 2 incomes? Can you get by with 1.5 incomes? Men ain't Changing and children need them
@@melanieb2132 what about men who don't see importance in providing and leaving it to you?
@Kia-iq7dh then he's a bum. Don't marry him.
Women confuse who she should marry with sexual attraction in the early days of a relationship. Sexual compatibility is great, but women will lose that desire if he's a bum within the first 5 years of marriage.
Don't marry a guy who doesn't want to provide. Seems simple to me.
@@melanieb2132 sure but sometimes these things don't pop up until after marriage or even children. Thats the hard part, both people in the marriage have to play their role.
@Kia-iq7dh how would you not know about someone's work ethic or life philosophy before marriage? That's a think a person should observe about their potential partner.. either way, actually.
People seek to have no idea what type of conversations to have with their potential partner. They ask zodiac signs, whether the person likes sushi, tattoos, music, dogs or hiking, but they have no idea about anything else.
I think it's weird.
I don’t love everything about my Canadian system but the one good thing is the maternity leave. Women who are employed, not self employed, get one year off on maternity/parental leave. You will only make about half of your salary on leave but its something. I couldn’t imagine leaving my kids so soon after giving birth. There are of course going to be some people who take advantage of the system, there always are but I think that this time with your babies is an investment in society. Even listening to my mom’s story about leaving my sister with a sitter only 3 months after having her, it’s heartbreaking. She had me and my brother only on the condition that she was going to stay home because she didn’t want to go through that experience again. It’s no wonder, in my mind, why there has been such an increase in mental health issues and such over the generations. Babies are left with strangers from such a young age and that is of course going to have negative ramifications in the future. Staying home with kids isn’t always easy, but it’s likely the most rewarding work a women will do in her life.
Who is paying for the 50% of the salary that women receive during maternity leave?
@@stallionshark1726 you pay into Employment Insurance every check, and your employer pays too. I can’t remember what the exact percentage is but it’s around 1.5% of your gross earnings is taken off the top for EI and matched by the employer.
I'm no liberal, but I have no desire to be a mother. But I agree with you 100% for women who choose motherhood.
Mothering used to be
JUST AS HARD bcs of
having 200+% more kids
but it was MORE FOCUSED
and more kids definitely
means economies
of scale (usually at 4+)
its CHEM BIRTH CONTROL
culture which has been
the wedge of this
divided focus
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
This worked back when children became free farm labor, and when older siblings could be drafted into raising the younger ones.
Stunning.
Powerful.
Practical.
This bit about the difficulty of getting a well balanced dinner on the table is exaggerated. You don't have to make everything from scratch. Costco has delicious stuff that is prepped in 30 minutes. A big salad takes 20 minutes. Potatoes, rice, etc, done in no time.
Loss of mothers is lose of community.
If they want to be stay at home mothers while resenting the person who would help them do that... well good luck. Only a desperate man with no self respect would go through that.
NO man wanted or asked for this. As a matter of fact just the opposite. We didn't want you on the jobsite getting in the way of progress. My grandfather told me that he worked and my grandma handled the money and the house. They raised ten kids and my grandma had a college education. The media lied to you so that they could get more money out of a household and YOU bought it, so it's up to YOU to change it because us men are sitting this one out.
@Tranzor Z A good friend of mine is a stay at home Dad. His wife is the income earner. He is unable to work as he suffers from an autoimmune illness that causes his bones to fuse. However, despite his pain, he does all the household chores for his wife and children. In his experience, men have put him down and ridiculed him for being a SAHD. His wife has always showed her support and appreciation for all that he does for her and their children.
@Tranzor Z disgruntled?
She says as she displays her fabulous kitchen and apple lap top. No arguments from me, just pointing out the "accept less but I get to live the good life" visuals on this one.
Ever notice the loudest critics of society always come from a position of affluence?
If she earned it and spent and saves wisely, no need to condemn someone for their living standards.
So wives and daughters watched husband and dad come home from 10 to 12 hr shifts and collapse on the coach. And feminism convinced them that is better and more fun than chilling at home raising their kids and doing some cleaning. Lol
I think it basically comes down to, stuff out time with your children. My personal opinion.
Thanks for sharing this. 😊
Don’t forget the sibling abuse while you’re at work. And then the one grown child won’t speak with you because you still do love the other child, even if they had murdered someone.
Awesome!
1. Feminism created this environment. 2. Equality means women have to "Man Up" and share the duties historically men were responsible for. Not saying it is fair but that is the way women wanted it.
You have a new fan in Woodstock Ontario
Homework. Ironing for husband and continue your own education to keep up with the new technology. It doesn't end.
Omg truer words haven’t been spoken!
Very well said!
Women are connected to children, like men are connected to providing support to the family. It`s a natural thing. The system was so much better in the past. Women had everything and wanted more. They now have what men have that being the stress and responsibility being a man. Welcome to the mans world getting on with life and not complaining about it. That was men's big mistake they should have let everyone know how hard it is being a man and providing for a family like women do about bringing up children.
I dont have a single maternal bone in my body so im happy to go out to work like a "man" does and be the provider. I love my job.
@@kelliejackson3563 Exactly, I really get sick of people saying that women all eventually get baby rabies and a desire to nest.
This is true. I've done it.
I like your broadcast Suzanne. Your practical, down to earth comments along with your fair and equitable stance on gender relations is a breath of fresh air. I would caution you though about certain undertones that I get when listening to you. I'm kind of old school, I open doors, offer my seat, help with heavy bags, etc. but I an also a feminist, I believe that women should be treated fairly and given the same opportunities for the pursuit of personal happiness. I sometimes feel that you build a feminist straw man and pin all the problems of the world on it. To be sure some people take a notion to extremes but that is hardly limited to feminism is it. Also, living on the coasts and choosing to work is not the same as pledging fealty to some sisterhood. It's a choice made possible by the woman's rights movement.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
How do mothers keep a toe in the professional world while staying home and mothering?
On point.
Replace "society" with "other feminist women" and you'll be a lot closer to the truth. No mention of her husband whatsoever other than a reference to "dating". Sick. A sperm donor with a paycheck. I can't imagine why men would feel bad... double the workforce and you half the pay. Simple economics.
The lady's long imaginary list said nothing about making her husband her top priority, or even making him a priority in any way.
Every country where women can vote have the issues mentioned in this video. Women only vote for politicians, judges and education administrators that push the feminist narrative. While Suzanne is screaming "lean out", men are screaming "run away". There is no way to win as a male in the West; you can go to jail when your wife divorces you, takes your children and home. You, dear husband, must pay and pay and pay. If you wife does stay home with children, she can claim she was forced to give up a career, and that she deserves lifelong alimony. While Suzanne's political analysis is dead on, until women say "I don't deserve preferential treatment in family court, I don't deserve alimony", nothing will change.
The real problem is government induced massive inflation. Try talking about the real problem. Yes. You can make intelligent choices But until people change their government it won’t work for long. In 1963 my father made $6 an hour as an electrician. A decent home cost $17,000 and a car cost $3000. A day $6/hr they were paying almost no taxes. Figure it out - inflation is destroying our lives
You're saying you DON'T like competing for jobs with women in the workforce and then competing with your wife at home? 😮
🤷 Restore the gold standard?
This is why I love mocking alt-righters who blame the collapse of the Weimar Republic on perverts who aren't family minded. They would do anything not to talk about the worthless Weimar Mark.
I guess companies will have to start paying a living wage, I’m all for that
These comments are entertaining, if predictable, on all sides and perspectives.
One thing that can make it possible is an extended Family. But you can't do it alone.
Sounds like you are suggesting delegating your children to other people. Who exactly gave birth to these children?
@@man-observing-world It's not 'Other People'. It's Family. And it's reciprocal.
8:22 But women will literally meet other women who stay home with their babies by staying home with their babies. Even if they don’t already know such women. I promise, you, they’ll exist everywhere. You’ll meet them at parks, playgrounds, cafes and libraries!
There an easy way to fix this one, Ladies just get an Hysterectomy to stop the baby making problem. women can do it all if they will stop making babies.
They want it all.....and their pursuit of it ruins it all.
@@johngalt6838 If men will get a Vasectomy to stop their baby trap and stop her child support.
… who is John Galt???
Maybe it might help if the reality of Marriage, Kids & Work life was portrayed more realistcially in media instead of the disney rom com fantasy illusions.
Women can’t lean out without the support of a man. But men are tired of being used and aren’t committing anymore. And the availability of men who could support a lean out lifestyle are few
LOL! It's hard working a crappy job and being a single mom? You broke the contract, ladies. You flooded the job market and drove wages down. You made your bed, now lie in it. This comes from a single dad with full custody since my son was three months old! You get zero empathy from me. Ladies, you're on your own.
No Take Backs.
Thought this was about women losing weight.
Didn't a certain president say something like Women can do better than Men with heels on? So go on, don't complain get on those heels and double down or just don't have kids then you don't need to do that part and then Greta and Co will be happy the climate will be saved.......
I’m really trying with your channel Suzanne but you always miss a huge and essential piece of the puzzle,and I’m not sure if its deliberate or not,When will women take any responsibility for their own choices they’re always coerced,pulled,instructed,,it’s societal blah blah ,you use the language yourself, It’s never “you made your choice, so live with the consequences” feminism did play a huge part, but was pushed by the women and men (who thought they had something to gain,or were being helpful) the lack of insight is astounding, it’s like Jordan Peterson saying men have to man up, do more, lean in is there something about women today that are so fragile they can’t accept responsibility for themselves?!
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite...
In group preference at work
I live completely on my microwave and toaster
Society wants her to do all that? Nah, that’s feminist propaganda.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Do you have advice for how to keep a toe in professional waters?
Work part time, find a flex job, or have someone in your life who is ok to support you while you care for your child and start your career anew when he/she is grown or some combo of the above.
Work part time. consult. Do contract work.
Now THAT's a reasonable question!
I have NO problem whatsoever if an ambitious woman wisely has 1-2 kids in her prime twenties and THEN decides to pursue her careerist dreams when the kids are in teenagehood or out of the house.
Let me stay out of the comments. I cant relate to some of these bitter men. Im not a feminist but i think that the feminist movemet was also fueled by men... inadequate men. And also women who were being mistreated by their husband. Many men treated their wives like shit while they provided. They put themselves as kings and the wive was the sevant. Who would want to live like that???? So women said i can work and make money. Ive never met 1 women who said she doesnt need a man. What we dont need to the oppression, the control, the mistreatment. Of course being on your own would be better than that. Women need to admit that if they want to be a stay at home wife then you ONLY date men who wants a woman to stay at home. A man that can provide you the opportunity to do that.. period. Which means you will have to be the sterotypical "gold digger". Dont date men who cant provide. Period. And maybe men will step up cauze how many men want to provide????? And have the ability to not take advantage of that??? Idk
Don’t know what’s going to happen. The majority of men are considered financially and socially unattractive. We couldn’t contribute even if had the chance to.
Well...if it helps, the new spending bill has funding for government funded child care facilites. New moms can drop them off pretty much directly after birth.
This is just sad.
so instead of taking care of their own children they work and pay taxes so other women take care of them instead, genius
a woman complaining about working and being a mom
what a surprise
"Working women" should never become mothers. A woman in "working condition" belongs by her husband's side.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Suzanne, You never talk about female nature! Why? If you really want to help the Young people of today? Wouldn't it be beneficial to your audience to address how women naturally act and think that most men are oblivious to? How about the damages of Social Media? The global sexual market place we now live in? The crazy expectations that online dating creates? You make some good points in your videos but you are leaving a lot of meat on the bone. The bullet point suggestions in this video are great, drill down on each one and explain why driving a car for 10 years makes sense!!! These are intuitive things that young people really do not understand. Just a suggestion.
Her new book is all about this
Good comment. Venker is oblivious to the origins of women working outside the home. Men's ingenuity made life so easy women became bored. Right at a time when the US started it's economic decline (1971) women were encouraged by the social engineers to alleviate their boredom with outside work. The big allure was that her earnings were "fun money" that she could keep to herself. Now, wages are low, inflation is high and work is a necessity. Funny that women caused their situation and now cry about that, as if someone should come to their rescue. I'm not sympathetic.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
@sam Walton.... Great point. I replied but see they are deleting comments now! Ha!. Just goes to prove my point.
Most Important thing in Life here on Earth is to get Right with God, the Rest is Secondary. Please read the Gospel of John, it Explains who Jesus is and what He has done to Set Us Free from Our Sin. In Our Natural State we are Sinners and at Enmity with God, but through the Work of Jesus we can have a Relationship with God. Jesus took Our Rightful Punishment and Suffered and Died on the Cross, Resurrected on the Third Day and Defeated Death. All we have to do is Repent and Believe in Him and what He did with All Our Hearts and We are Forgiven. I was an Atheist for Most my Life so I Know this Might Sound Silly to you, but the Bible is Truth ; All the Correct Prophecy Proves it. Its the Word of God and it Also Shows How Jesus can Set us Free from Demonic Possession / Demonic Oppression. Demons Fear Jesus Christ, and Born Again Believers. Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life, No One comes to the Father but through Him. God bless
Uff...
The perfect allknowing god, that knew what would happen to us, sent his son, (himself) to sacrifice himself to himself, to correct the error in his creation. We are supposed to inhabit the natural sin, after the first to humans "rebelled" against god, even though god knew, even before the creation, they would do it. We are essentially punished for a crime we didnt commit and god knew that would happen.
All humans that god created and dont follow him will go to hell and suffer for eternity. That means that god knew from the start, that these people wouldnt follow him and therefore go to hell. Consider that many people are born in regions were different believes are common and never hear a word of god until their deaths.
So god created many people just do suffer for eternity. Thats cruel.
And thats following the assumption that the bible is real and coming from a god we havent seen anythin from in centuries.
Where is the prophecy? Confirmation bias is the word. If you look for the fullfilling of a prophecy, it will certainly be fullfilled.
The rider of the apocalypse: the plague? No. The spanish flu? No. All the other diseases? The ´Rona? WWI? WWII? The crusades?
And yes the earth will be swallowed by the sun in probably billions of years. ...AND FIRE FELL FROM THE SKY... Good luck with prophecies.
Even if you don't believe in God, the principals taught are good ones. Too simple and yet dangerous for the leaders in Jesus' time.
@@frosty3693 Still Dangerous Today, thats Why they Ridicule Believers and Persecute them if they Say for Instance : God Created them Male and Female ; Two Genders. Funny Enough Leftists Girls Embrace Islam and Hate Biblical Christianity, thats what the Bible Calls the Antichrist Spirit. Its a SPIRITUAL Battle that can Only be Won with Spiritual Weapons..
@@kroikye Ideologies and nothing more. Its just poison for every society to blame one side. Right or Left... There is so much in between. But guess your religion is making you blind.
@@frosty3693 The principals are dangerous. If christians would take the bible word for word and stopped cherry picking we would be in the dark times again.
What does a woman do when her spouse always has one foot out the door to travel. He wants travel, wants this, that..... He doesn't believe in one income life.
Even after conversations have been had. How can a woman lean out than? What systems do moms have in place to make it all easier?
My comments are being deleted...
FeeFails got what they wanted. Now blame Men. And remember to attempt to shame Men for not signing up for a bad deal.
But we dont know if a woman’s successful is by her own merits or if it’s a quota hire.
Correct.........stem to stern.
Isn’t feminism brilliant…
Guy’s used to be happy with stay at home wife.
Suzanne is pretty slick and sly.
In her narrative women are the victims in Western society... just like with Feminism.
She is just more covert about it.
TED Talks are Feminist/Marxist organization.
Men try to save women from this kind of life, but was shamed for it. You made your bed, no sleep in it!
There is a simpler solution. Don’t have children.
This lady complaining about the list of stuff that's overwhelming her... take off the training wheels lady. Just wait till you have to take care of someone that's dying. The list here is child's play. Count your blessings while you still have it easy.
How about coaching women to making marriage safe for men again?
Ahh, the sound of a women complaining about the situation they created.
I don't believe that this situation was entirely created by women. Men have played their part as well. For at least 5 decades government policy has slowly destroyed Christian values and the traditional family unit and roles.
@@niram6707 wrong. Men agree with equality and the ability to choose. That’s what feminism was originally about.
Choice means “or” not “either/or”. That means you can be a lawyer or a mother. Not both.
Women are upset because they thought “choice” meant they would get the best of both worlds. In actuality they have eroded wages and the number of jobs for men. Thus, there are less men capable of solely providing for a family.
The current situation is a direct result of women’s choices.
@@pivot197 The current situation of our society is not just a result of women's choices. Both sexes are responsible and many factors are at play. The decline in morality, the acceptance of a hyper-sexualised society. For instance, I recall that the majority of the American population (men and women) applauded the very sexualised performance of JLo and Shakira (and scantily dressed attire of the women) at the Super Bowl. The minority that denounced it as inappropriate for an event marketed as family viewing were pounced on. The fact that Government and corporates do not prioritise the family unit as the cornerstone of society but profit/wealth and this has been bombarded into our brains. The majority of men and women will measure an individual as successful or not on 3 factors - occupation, salary and wealth/possessions. Also, many are adopting Marxist/Engels views on societal structure. The works of Karl Marx and Frederick Engels heavily influenced feminism. Marx denounces the nuclear family and Engels' text identifies the nuclear family construct as the root of women's oppression. And, there are males that agree with Marx's/Engel's works as to how society should be structured.
Young Men are happily enjoying the dating apps believe me.... women didn’t create this it’s a symptom of a consumerist culture and bad social policy
@@niram6707 I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. I also don’t hate women as Im married and have both a son and a daughter. I want women to have choice and live great lives.
My wife and I are watching the mess from the background and imparting gender based advice to both our kids. Both my wife and I view the issues today as problems for women.
All I have to do for my son is to teach him to workout, educate himself, and build a great career. After that he’ll have unlimited choices in wives.
My daughter is more complicated. She’ll need to get an education, and/or career experience, and/or successful husband before 28. If she’s extremely lucky she can get them all but it’s a huge gamble. She may need to accept she can only have 1 or 2 things.
That is life due to sexual dynamics.
If women chose men who wanted to be stay at home dads they could have it all too.