When a man has been thrown out by his parents after calling him a thief in front of his wife , his project has been hijacked by someone else , any man would be broken and some may get into depression too.
He is not red flag at all. He become practical, responsible. And reality makes people rigid sometime. But he is the same man who take care her girl, love her ❤
Their upbringing is different. Sharjeena comes from a family where there is love, affection, respect, understanding and even wealth. But Mustafa is different. A man for all seasons but who had been struck be storms. He wants to be a perfect husband before becoming a perfect dad. He may not show happiness on hearing this great news but he is very affectionate towards a mother to be.
Exactly! They both have very different experiences, and therefore, very different ways of dealing with stressful situations. Sherjeena has been brought up to be confident, while Mustafa has pre-existing insecurities because of how his family always treated him.
His reaction over the food sent by Sharjeena's mom was totally uncalled for. Worried if he will be the same way his parents were with him. What he faced by Joseph is what many employees face, do hard work but get no credit. His father missing him but mother praising Adeel is permanent 😂.
Their way of loving each other is just different nothing else Mustafa wants to share his happiness with her but not worries .. he wants not to get depressed with him .. and sharjeena is more about sharing the miseries ... She wants to be part of his struggles within himself and he doesn't want her to be ...
I’m absolutely loving the ups and downs in Mustafa’s character right now. His inner turmoil and his anger is 500% justifiable!! Sharjeena and Mustafa have poles apart upbringing! Sharjeena is confident, content, level headed and stable throughout the show BECAUSE she comes from a stable, happy albeit middle class but from a set of parents who are not greedy and have displayed the attitude that whether you have money or not happiness comes from the people you live with! Whereas Mustafa comes from a broken dysfunctional family! Yes I call it dysfunctional because the mother is greedy and her love is defined by the success of her children and the amount of money in their pocket! Mustafa didn’t care about what his parents thought of him because he never had anyone that appreciated him for who he was! Sharjeena came and showed Mustafa a different mirror altogether and the reason Mustafa blasts at Sharjeena because he does not want Sharjeena to start thinking of him as a lowly peasant! The sole reason for pushing her away though unintentional. That is human nature of someone that comes from a broken, mistrust and mistreated household! I’m not angry at him in fact i feel terrible for him. As a mother this is the lesson that childhood trauma LASTS forever!! If they showed Mustafa being all green then how will audiences learn that trauma to any child is NOT acceptable and that it ruins their whole life! Mistreatment ruins lives!! This was MUST to be shown and I am loving it. Also Mustafa is NOT red flag.. he is green with a glint of shine!!!!
Mustafa is scared of the pressure and responsibilities he is been put into suddenly when he is least expecting it..He was carefree and never thought about marriage at all..Then he was married all of a sudden and all the time he tried to do something he failed..He couldn't do his father's surgery,he couldn't prove his honesty infront of his own family,he couldn't give the life he dreams to Sharjeena and he is even betrayed in his work place despite of his extreme hardwork and honestly..He is scared of uncertainty of this life and fed up with this world..He feels that he couldn't handle all of this no matter how much he tries so he feels bringing a new life into this mess would be difficult..He is already guilty that he might again fail in not being able to give the child a better life..I feel Sharjeena beliefs in the plan of god and she believes Mustafa more than he believes himself,she knows he will handle somehow even if he was humourous like before..that's why she is calm and asks him to not pressure himself and do things relaxly..I thought he could atleast pretended to be happy when she announced her pregnancy..But from the starting he has been raw and real..He never put of fake expressions to satisfy anyone..He is sad if he is sad,he is happy if he is happy.. It's Sharjeena who's mastered the art of hiding all pains behind a smile..It feels like he is not being considerate like her but that's how their characters are and they are behaving perfectly how they should behave..Love to both❤
No person and no relation is perfect. We should stop searching for perfection. Everone has highs and lows in their life. Adult men also do get depressed just like women and not everyone understand how to deal with such a phase. Everything takes time...getting out of depression also. Couples should give space to eachother. I do support Mustafa. He is sincere with Sharjeena and cares for her like no one else. Drama is showing not a fantasy but the real life...
This drama is about real life steering away from same old topics that are exaggerated to get high viewer ratings.. soo believable and relatable it reminds me of the Indian movie, Saathiya…
Hi Rabia, Before talking about the drama, I want to say that you are so good at what you do. I really like your style and the way you analyze things. Love your smile, keep smiling! When I was listening to you, I thought it’s not just me who saw red flags in Mustafa, that was a relief because at first I thought may be I am thinking negatively but the truth is Mustafa is starting to scare me as his personality is changing slowly, understandably due to difficult situations he’s going through but still. I’m really scared because I don’t want him to hurt Sharjeena ever because she deserves all his love.
Mustafa is in deep depression because he never cry on a any incident happened on him or his life, he has habits of storing in his brain and heart , and because of it now his brain and heart has no space and he is blocking things to enter by ignorance, because he knows Sharleen is only responsibility and he blocked the sense of the door, it's why he is unsure of happy sense for unborn child 🧒. Why we are judging him. He change himself for Sharleen and try hard to earn money, because she said , mujha bora lagta hai jab sub tumko "Loser" bolatay hain, Mustafa acha nahi lagta, and this week , in 27 episode what mustafa said, "Tum sa related har baat mujha yaad rahati hai. He still for her only ❤❤❤❤❤.
True..He never cried once for whatever happened to him..He is holding so many emotions and ofcourse bitterness gets out unintentionally when he speaks something...He is not using her as a punching bag to vent out his frustration..Instead he is choose to be alone or not talk more so that she won't be hurt by any of his words, he started caring her time to time without speaking anything..While Sharjeena misses his old self and tries to bring him out of this lost state but fails everytime..I really feel sad for them
Mustafa’s reaction on the food is natural, because everytime both the families have time and time again brought Mustafa down by offering money and offering place, which clearly was that he cant afford. Lets not forget he brought the food for her to eat. The story is slowly turning all of this an ego issue for Mustafa, maybe the last stage of love will be the death of his ego. Still wont say he is a red flag.I just hope its a good ending with both still living together and in love. You are doing a great job Rabia!
Rabia Allah said again and again said sabar.For both girls and boys best thing is to take turns to explain why you are quite or angry.I can write a book,both should not provoke each other when you talk be calm ❤❤❤❤❤
Earning money is junoon at cost of luv n care to sharjenna n little gesture of romance we r going to miss He wants to become rich quickly to prove he is not looser but Rabia u r right kya kassor hey unborn child ka ❤luv from India
Practical life changes a man and Sharjeena is a thankful and well brought up girl. The circumstances of their marriage is making Sharjeena do many things.
Yeah right Rabia mujhy bhi bht buri lgi Mustafa k yeh bat k sharjeena k mother k khana bhjny pr jo batamizi k usny yeh bht galat th r sharjeena k yeh bat bht achi lgi k kisi bhi halat mai bht pasion sy bat krti hy
I would not say red flags but he is becoming bitter with each episode. Understanding that he has faced humiliation with his loved ones but with sharjeena as a positive & sweet partner he should not behave like this. He should try to overcome this & start enjoying his life with a positive attitude.
They are showing two human beings living with each other who have flaws and behave differently. We are not perfect humans ourselves we make mistakes that's why the character Of mustafa is shown flawed also he has his own flaws, you can say red flags also. But the fact that you want to live with that person and help them overcome those red flags is what makes marriage successful or relationship successful. That's my take
6: 34 😮 wasn't expecting this . Let me take u all in past try to recall 1st few episodes How come Surjeena not considered weak n red flag She saw red flags n toxic Adeel she didn't break her Rishta Adeel broke Adeel rejected her she was gloomy heart broken she showed sadness n weakness Surjeena used to b upset she used to loose her composed personality she used to get angry after seeing Adeel with Rubab after seeing Adeel in house Ary bhai Adeel ki aaba ji ka gher he Adeel aye na aye 😅 Surjeena used to get furious Her cool calm personality exposed several times Let me remind u all , Surjeena asked Mustafa for marrige Surjeena is girl she cried alot in washroom after marrige Surjeena claimed she wouldn't change Mustafa or change his way of living but but but... guess wat she was quite pushy in positive way for making him earn money Surjeena 's father called mentioned office job Surjeena encouraging Mustafa for job after her father's call I hv many examples to prove Surjeena has more red flags In ideal world ya both Mustafa Surjeena looking cute couple with merts n demerits strength n weakness lose n gain rude or soft kind . Mustafa never brought her past he never said like typical husband Surjeena u were with my brother u both used to talk n meet he accepted Surjeena ya he was confused he didn't cry like Surjeena he was in shock marrige came as shock he was carefree he never was bad husbnd he us not bad husbnd
Solid points 🙌.. I honestly didn’t even think about the previous instances of Sharjeena.. I was just hell bent on defending Mustafa but this is the cherry on my cake 😊
Mustafa didn't shut Sharjeena only now..He did it earlier also when he listened to Adeel's conversation...He is embarrassed and humiliated to face anyone.. Specially he couldn't break down infront of her because she believes him and it's usually difficult to face someone during your failure when they had high expectations on you.. His situations are making him act bitter and he is not used to pretend to be fine when he is not.. It's true that Sharjeena doesn't deserve to bear the bitterness from him but he is not doing any of it wantedly..The maximum he can do is to avoid the conversations that triggers him and being quite so he might not hurt her..In the previous episode,I noticed everytime he spoke something he is throwing his bitterness unintentionally so I feel he stopped speaking to avoid throwing any negativity to her because his emotions are not in his control
Very typical and realistic reaction for Mustafa to retreat inwards and cut himself off from Sharjeena when he is knocked down by the world. I am interested to see if Farhat will show a redemption arc For Mustafa or not
At the same time he does take care of sharjeena so yes mustafa is caring but with his bitter experiences he is going through a lot of mood swings so maybe he does not want to do intentionally but it is just coming out naturally from him. But if he still continues with some irrational behaviour then red flags will be shown in him. But I hope mustafa comes back to his original character with things improving in his life.
I am just thinking from the first episode.....that Mustafa was a red flag in himself....careless,irresponsible even then she chose him and then he changed and they started showing green flags within him....what are they trying to..... caste an air of accepting a person with red flags? ....as you said both red and green flags are within everyone of us...
19:53 *" junoon"* is for money 💰 He wants to earn a lot of money........he wants to prove to everyone that he is not a looser......and also his kind of his ego or u can say his self respect which is hurt 🤕 And about his unborn child... I think 💬 right now Mustafa is want to earn money.......he do not want more responsibility in his life .....right now he wants to set a good standard lifestyle for or i say specially for sharjeena ....... That maybe also the reason he say that "sab kuch bhot jaldi ho raha hai" he did not wanted any further responsibility 😢 Sharjeena is happy in what condition she is living with Mustafa...but he is not...... And about the last stage *"death/mout"* .......it's not about that the two will die or one of them will die ......I don't think anyone will face such a situation........but instead their love 💕 between them will die.....😢💔 As through out the whole drama we have seen that mostly Mustafa had learnt the lessons in a hard way Matlab jab usse thokar lagti hai uske baad usse akal aati hai ......... So yaha pe jab finally sharjeena usske is bitter behaviour se tang aakar usse chor ke chali jayegi.......tab usse usi is galti ka ehsas hoga .........[ In the ep.1 of KMKT you can see that Mustafa is crying 😭 badly .....] Waiting for your reply......😊 Do u agree ?
Mustafa kaa pregnancy vala reaction was brutally honest 😢 normal Insaan esee halato pee esa hi reaction deta 🥲 Sharjeena and MUSTAFA dono kee liyee Bora lag Raha hai............. Sharjeena kitnee khush thi Par Mustafa ko apnee unborn child se koi attachment hi nahi hai 🥲 kehta hai agar Tum ( Sharjeena) ho to Mai bhi Khush hoo 😭🤧
He didn't jump in happiness too much on his mind too many things in his plate He was caring supportive b4 her pregnancy He being extra careful n caring n sensible after knowing her pregnancy He made mango milk shake He looking after her diet He asked qustions wat doctr said Stairs etc Ab kiya kere ulta lutuk jye like monkey to entertain Surjeena how can a normal human say I lub u 24 hours how can normal person practical person show care love attention 24 hours She was on chair cleaning windows she didn't care she could fall who took care who thought about baby n her safty n health Mustafa thought Mustafa carefully picked her Circumstances made him serious n bitter she shuld understand , she was bitter too she was upset too every time after seeing Adeel who showed kindness n understanding Mustafa showed maturity he made her face reality
@@agul5758aree vai mujhe Jo Laga maire man Mai Jo Aya wo hi boli mainee Mainee thodi e KAHA ki 24 hours bas Sharjeena Sharjeena karee Clearly dikh Raha tha wo Sharjeena jitne khush thi Mustafa nahi tha Or haa wo dhayan Rakh Raha tha Sharjeena kaa Lekin bacche ko leke wo hai confused Sharjeena khud hi KAHA na ki Kash Tum e kehte tumhare or hamari bacche ke har ek bat iyaat rehta mujhee 🫠 🙂 Mene bas apnaa pov diya hai Mujhpee kutt mat paroo vai Banda aram se bhi Bata sakhtaa hai 😑
Yes we forgive mustafa. You are forgetting mustafa has had a difficult childhood with a toxic family. He has been constantly put down and he has low self esteem. He has a hard time opening up to Sharjeena. We can understand he is lot of hurt and pain. Sharjeena knows he has a loving heart. And he is just hurt.
Mustafa being practical he knows thy are depending on their pays his thinking is right in current circumstances Surjeena also was alone used to come in room she used to box herself after seeing Adeel Mustafa used to make her talk His longing for earning more n more for Surjeena n baby his responsibility n sensibility ego matters he being practical n truthful hardworking for strong reasons. Surjeena showed her weakness many time especially after seeing Adeel n when Adeel broke Rishta Surjeena broke down Mustafa embrace her bears her sadness weakness why cannot Surjeena bear his moods now y cannot Surjeena encourage his hardwork Surjeena discouraging him for office 8 to 5 job in new episode she too demanding 24 hours romance attention near to impossible Surjeena can forget Mustafa 's goodness care support hardwork I can't Surjeena ought to stand with him though tough times when he bz when he late from work when he crazy for creating game if she supportive
Rabia sis u r clearly on Surjeena 's side u r team Surjeena 😅 Lets recall previous episodes U must hv watched Surjeena used to say Mujhe tumhari jhooti tareef nahi kerni Mustafa ko job ya kuch earning kerne ko bolti ki jhooti tareef na kerni pure Ab kiya musla he ab Carefree lazy untidy light hearted Mustafa being wise practical he learnt importance of money he was mistreated disowned disrespect n think n recall who did his parents his siblings accused him for stealing for joblessness carelessness he was told off about frnds Surjeena also wanted him to earn to gain respect So ab kiya problm he is sensible hardworking matured enough to understand sensitivity he knws money ll make him run house he knows job n work important otherwise people may say he eating wife's pay Surjeena hving issues problems when Mustafa working hard he accepted office job 8 to 5 wali Surjeena not hsppy y would he rest how could he let all go his parents siblings unfair his boss gave him deception Good wrtter showed his all moods good he gets upset angry sad joyful carefree to cateful lazy to hardworking poor to rich Who are v to forgive Mustafa or Sirjeena its wrtters creation she made story with twist n turns thnk God its not monotonous
Mustafa is somewhat selfish, even in his attempts to provide Sharjeena with an affluent lifestyle. It seems his ego, rather than his love for Sharjeena, drives his ambition to become wealthy. Despite Sharjeena repeatedly expressing that money isn't her priority and that she values love, care, and togetherness more, Mustafa persists in his belief that wealth will bring her happiness, neglecting her true needs. His self-centeredness prevents him from sharing in the happiness of their upcoming baby, which is what disappoints me the most.
No red flags dear…mustafa is not being able to cope with all that has happened … he is human and not a filmy hero .. it took him a while to wven understand the sharjeena loved him He just loves her too much .. i have seen this episode 7 times so i too have not missed anything …
Sharjeena was a practical girl always doing things calculatively but now she is a emotional mess because of the love she has for Mustafa and why though because she already released after breaking up with adeel ki paisa sab kuch nhi hota ... And Mustafa being practical and mature... He changed from being an emotional person doing things instinctively.. god he married Sharjeena being emotional... And Mustafa is frustrated because he is not able to get his love what he thinks she deserves.. it's his way of love now he wants to get Sharjeena's respect back which he thinks is lost because of him being money less.. he wants to provide her with all the luxuries .. and the reason of his way of this love is because now his family had made him realise that if you get money you get love you get respect... Its very deeply and nicely written that every person has his or her own way of loving and too comes from what you go through and I don't believe that Mustafa reacted to the food because it was from his in laws he would have reacted like this no matter whoever would have sent the food because he has been so insulted that he thinks now that everyone surrounding him is mean and wants to insult him except Sharjeena and he is not manipulating her he cleary tell her time to time that this is who I am now !
And to answer your question it's his junoon not for money but money to get Sharjeena's respect back which he blames himself for and to give her the luxuries she deserves !
Mustafa just overreacted in the food scene. That food was just a mother's love like why would he insult it like that. I understand how betrayal by ur own family feels like but still sharjeena has done so much for him , he could've just eaten for her🤌. Roz roz to bna kr nhn bhej rhin na ek bar hi bheja hy as a form of love🤷♀️
6:42 Rabia uski Job chali gayi, Joseph nay usay dokha dia, insaan hay gussa to aye ga, ab agr aap ko gussa nhi pasand to Kia makers human emotion na dikhayen?
Jb Mustafa ne khany pe ghussa kiya to i was hurt i mean sharjeena bohaat respect krti hy Mustafa k parents ki to Mustafa kabhi respect nhi krta sharjeena k parents ki that reaction was really insensitive
How can v as audience call fictional Mustafa red flag after seeing him upset how 😮 Surjeena got upset n angry on various occasions Mustafa didn't mind he tried to cheer her up he ignored her bad mood he knew she was upset Adeel arrival never made Surjeena ok Mustafa even made her braver to face reality Zara sa Mustafa gusa howa zara se disappointed tu bus hum hogye juzbati urat puna jaag jata jub fictional upright husbnd upset or angry Mustafa is human he can b upset angry disappointed happy unhappy satisfied unsatisfied carefree careless careful sensible hardworking or lazy clean or untidy it's our Mustafa bhai 😅 her halat main acha n qabool he Admi kaam na kere tu problems admi kaam kere gets as busy as bee works hard harder admi too focus for work tu bhi problems Bus start ho jata gila shikwa 😅 Beachra admi Mustafa ya real asli admi kiya kere to please audience n real families. Kiya kere ?
Sharjeena will show him how bad he is behaving with her. It just needs the right time. In real life no person can a green flag without some flaws. We just need to know whether red flags are more compared to green flag. People like Mustafa need to be pointed out for their red flag so that they can reduce these flaws to beacome a good person. None is born as a good person. Who can say that Sharjeena will not show some toxicity when she faces some issues like Mustafa is facing now? Even Mustafa' s mother and Natasha are a red flag. Why don't you talk about women being red flag?
Mustafa is behaving okay in this situation, Sharjeena is little too goody. But Rabia why another review on same the topic on this private channel? you and Shazia are doing great on Fuchsia. 🤔
I find Sharjeena more annoying & unrealistic. You can’t always be positive. Especially now when they’re gonna have a baby and she’s not even letting him work always my time and attention. This is impossible in these kind of circumstances there’s no concept of Matt leave in Pakistan to so she has to think how they’re going to survive if he doesn’t have a good job. She came from a privileged family with the secure family structure on the other hand Mustafa had childhood traumas, but he still cooperating with her in every way possible he does wanna improve their lifestyle their respect and now for the baby too, I think Mustafa is being still really calm considering the circumstances. If that was somebody else they would’ve been really depressed, I think Sharjeena should give him some space to figure out things and be there & focus more on herself and her pregnancy. The only thing that bothered me was at Shazina‘s mom‘s food because that is so casual and it happens most moms do that it wasn’t from her dad it was her mom. so he was only wrong there. I think these arguments & emotions are normal & not ref flags as long couple understand each other. We need to understand men and women thrive differently. If he was lazy & wasn’t working, that would’ve been an issue too women mostly thrive when they’re financially independent,have a good relationship with supportive partner men mostly when they have a good career money, good lifestyle so they both need to understand each other. Sharjeena being too clingy and that might set them for failure. For Adeel Natasha won’t leave her husband and would refuse to have connection with Adeel I only agree with you on HR department because they have nothing to do with regular day today routine that totally separate so that is a flaw in the storyline.
Ya mustafa just overreacted when sharjeena mother send food she just send food out of love & care for her daughter. He should have understood that thing everything he should not take another meaning to it.
Surjeena was over reacting too when Adeel came back when father got sick she over reacting when Rubab came to live she showed how angry n upset she was she said Gher he ya kiya he Jo moon utha ker aajata Mustafa calmed her down he knew where she coming from wat bothering her Mustafa could can see her heart n mind Mustafa didn't mind , Adeel came to his father 's house Surjeena did mind . Her all actions justified Beachra Mustafa lovey-dovey rahe then audience happy .
I want to see Adeel in jail he must b declared characterless corrupt openly in KMKT His mother has to learn truth about her so called perfect son Adeel Kub aye ga wo lumha wo waqat jub Bushra Mama ko pata lage Adeel job per ill-gotten pesa khata raha bad kerdaar bhi he Adeel biwi n gf n Co worker ki saath involved Adeel ka Ugly face kub reveal hoga I m counting days
When a man has been thrown out by his parents after calling him a thief in front of his wife , his project has been hijacked by someone else , any man would be broken and some may get into depression too.
He is not red flag at all. He become practical, responsible. And reality makes people rigid sometime. But he is the same man who take care her girl, love her ❤
Sharjeena is a strong woman she knows what's the limit and when to back off ... And she definitely will when she feels disrespected or unloved ...
agree
Their upbringing is different. Sharjeena comes from a family where there is love, affection, respect, understanding and even wealth. But Mustafa is different. A man for all seasons but who had been struck be storms. He wants to be a perfect husband before becoming a perfect dad. He may not show happiness on hearing this great news but he is very affectionate towards a mother to be.
Exactly! They both have very different experiences, and therefore, very different ways of dealing with stressful situations. Sherjeena has been brought up to be confident, while Mustafa has pre-existing insecurities because of how his family always treated him.
Great analysis ma'am. Keep up the good work. Look beautiful along with the smile MASHA ALLAH
His reaction over the food sent by Sharjeena's mom was totally uncalled for.
Worried if he will be the same way his parents were with him.
What he faced by Joseph is what many employees face, do hard work but get no credit.
His father missing him but mother praising Adeel is permanent 😂.
Their way of loving each other is just different nothing else Mustafa wants to share his happiness with her but not worries .. he wants not to get depressed with him .. and sharjeena is more about sharing the miseries ... She wants to be part of his struggles within himself and he doesn't want her to be ...
I’m absolutely loving the ups and downs in Mustafa’s character right now. His inner turmoil and his anger is 500% justifiable!! Sharjeena and Mustafa have poles apart upbringing! Sharjeena is confident, content, level headed and stable throughout the show BECAUSE she comes from a stable, happy albeit middle class but from a set of parents who are not greedy and have displayed the attitude that whether you have money or not happiness comes from the people you live with! Whereas Mustafa comes from a broken dysfunctional family! Yes I call it dysfunctional because the mother is greedy and her love is defined by the success of her children and the amount of money in their pocket! Mustafa didn’t care about what his parents thought of him because he never had anyone that appreciated him for who he was! Sharjeena came and showed Mustafa a different mirror altogether and the reason Mustafa blasts at Sharjeena because he does not want Sharjeena to start thinking of him as a lowly peasant! The sole reason for pushing her away though unintentional. That is human nature of someone that comes from a broken, mistrust and mistreated household! I’m not angry at him in fact i feel terrible for him. As a mother this is the lesson that childhood trauma LASTS forever!! If they showed Mustafa being all green then how will audiences learn that trauma to any child is NOT acceptable and that it ruins their whole life! Mistreatment ruins lives!! This was MUST to be shown and I am loving it. Also Mustafa is NOT red flag.. he is green with a glint of shine!!!!
Exactly my words for anyone who is calling Mustafa a red flag 💯
Mustafa is scared of the pressure and responsibilities he is been put into suddenly when he is least expecting it..He was carefree and never thought about marriage at all..Then he was married all of a sudden and all the time he tried to do something he failed..He couldn't do his father's surgery,he couldn't prove his honesty infront of his own family,he couldn't give the life he dreams to Sharjeena and he is even betrayed in his work place despite of his extreme hardwork and honestly..He is scared of uncertainty of this life and fed up with this world..He feels that he couldn't handle all of this no matter how much he tries so he feels bringing a new life into this mess would be difficult..He is already guilty that he might again fail in not being able to give the child a better life..I feel Sharjeena beliefs in the plan of god and she believes Mustafa more than he believes himself,she knows he will handle somehow even if he was humourous like before..that's why she is calm and asks him to not pressure himself and do things relaxly..I thought he could atleast pretended to be happy when she announced her pregnancy..But from the starting he has been raw and real..He never put of fake expressions to satisfy anyone..He is sad if he is sad,he is happy if he is happy.. It's Sharjeena who's mastered the art of hiding all pains behind a smile..It feels like he is not being considerate like her but that's how their characters are and they are behaving perfectly how they should behave..Love to both❤
No person and no relation is perfect. We should stop searching for perfection. Everone has highs and lows in their life. Adult men also do get depressed just like women and not everyone understand how to deal with such a phase. Everything takes time...getting out of depression also. Couples should give space to eachother. I do support Mustafa. He is sincere with Sharjeena and cares for her like no one else. Drama is showing not a fantasy but the real life...
Yes javed Sheikh has done an excellent job as a father he is feeling from inside that mustafa has gone but he cannot do anything
And Mustafas reaction is very realistic in that situation. Taking responsibility of new baby is not easy
This drama is about real life steering away from same old topics that are exaggerated to get high viewer ratings.. soo believable and relatable it reminds me of the Indian movie, Saathiya…
The thing I love about Rabia is that she explains the drama as if she is talking about real life happening around us. ❤
Every person has red flags and green flags. U just need to understand the red flags that are tolerable and intolerable for you!
I am watching from Bangladesh 🇧🇩!
Hi Rabia, Before talking about the drama, I want to say that you are so good at what you do. I really like your style and the way you analyze things. Love your smile, keep smiling!
When I was listening to you, I thought it’s not just me who saw red flags in Mustafa, that was a relief because at first I thought may be I am thinking negatively but the truth is Mustafa is starting to scare me as his personality is changing slowly, understandably due to difficult situations he’s going through but still. I’m really scared because I don’t want him to hurt Sharjeena ever because she deserves all his love.
Mustafa is in deep depression because he never cry on a any incident happened on him or his life, he has habits of storing in his brain and heart , and because of it now his brain and heart has no space and he is blocking things to enter by ignorance, because he knows Sharleen is only responsibility and he blocked the sense of the door, it's why he is unsure of happy sense for unborn child 🧒. Why we are judging him. He change himself for Sharleen and try hard to earn money, because she said , mujha bora lagta hai jab sub tumko "Loser" bolatay hain, Mustafa acha nahi lagta, and this week , in 27 episode what mustafa said, "Tum sa related har baat mujha yaad rahati hai. He still for her only ❤❤❤❤❤.
True..He never cried once for whatever happened to him..He is holding so many emotions and ofcourse bitterness gets out unintentionally when he speaks something...He is not using her as a punching bag to vent out his frustration..Instead he is choose to be alone or not talk more so that she won't be hurt by any of his words, he started caring her time to time without speaking anything..While Sharjeena misses his old self and tries to bring him out of this lost state but fails everytime..I really feel sad for them
Mustafa’s reaction on the food is natural, because everytime both the families have time and time again brought Mustafa down by offering money and offering place, which clearly was that he cant afford. Lets not forget he brought the food for her to eat. The story is slowly turning all of this an ego issue for Mustafa, maybe the last stage of love will be the death of his ego. Still wont say he is a red flag.I just hope its a good ending with both still living together and in love. You are doing a great job Rabia!
Rabia Allah said again and again said sabar.For both girls and boys best thing is to take turns to explain why you are quite or angry.I can write a book,both should not provoke each other when you talk be calm ❤❤❤❤❤
Mustafa is still very caring and respectful towards Sharjeena. But he is human and he is hurt and stressed right now
Sharjeena does not deserve this behavior from Mustafa.
Earning money is junoon at cost of luv n care to sharjenna n little gesture of romance we r going to miss He wants to become rich quickly to prove he is not looser but Rabia u r right kya kassor hey unborn child ka ❤luv from India
Practical life changes a man and Sharjeena is a thankful and well brought up girl. The circumstances of their marriage is making Sharjeena do many things.
This drama has my whole heart
Rabia what you’re saying is very true you covered every single thing ❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah right Rabia mujhy bhi bht buri lgi Mustafa k yeh bat k sharjeena k mother k khana bhjny pr jo batamizi k usny yeh bht galat th r sharjeena k yeh bat bht achi lgi k kisi bhi halat mai bht pasion sy bat krti hy
Yeah right ✅️
Very sad to see that you are so underrated among our drama reviewers!
She is not underrated at all
Going through tough times and finding life challenging to deal with is NOT a red flag
I would not say red flags but he is becoming bitter with each episode. Understanding that he has faced humiliation with his loved ones but with sharjeena as a positive & sweet partner he should not behave like this. He should try to overcome this & start enjoying his life with a positive attitude.
They are showing two human beings living with each other who have flaws and behave differently. We are not perfect humans ourselves we make mistakes that's why the character Of mustafa is shown flawed also he has his own flaws, you can say red flags also. But the fact that you want to live with that person and help them overcome those red flags is what makes marriage successful or relationship successful. That's my take
Junoon will start from this point
6: 34 😮 wasn't expecting this .
Let me take u all in past try to recall 1st few episodes
How come Surjeena not considered weak n red flag
She saw red flags n toxic Adeel she didn't break her Rishta Adeel broke Adeel rejected her she was gloomy heart broken she showed sadness n weakness
Surjeena used to b upset she used to loose her composed personality she used to get angry after seeing Adeel with Rubab after seeing Adeel in house
Ary bhai Adeel ki aaba ji ka gher he Adeel aye na aye 😅
Surjeena used to get furious
Her cool calm personality exposed several times
Let me remind u all , Surjeena asked Mustafa for marrige Surjeena is girl she cried alot in washroom after marrige
Surjeena claimed she wouldn't change Mustafa or change his way of living but but but... guess wat she was quite pushy in positive way for making him earn money
Surjeena 's father called mentioned office job Surjeena encouraging Mustafa for job after her father's call
I hv many examples to prove Surjeena has more red flags
In ideal world ya both Mustafa Surjeena looking cute couple with merts n demerits strength n weakness lose n gain rude or soft kind .
Mustafa never brought her past he never said like typical husband Surjeena u were with my brother u both used to talk n meet he accepted Surjeena ya he was confused he didn't cry like Surjeena he was in shock marrige came as shock he was carefree he never was bad husbnd he us not bad husbnd
Solid points 🙌.. I honestly didn’t even think about the previous instances of Sharjeena.. I was just hell bent on defending Mustafa but this is the cherry on my cake 😊
U are right the word junnon sounds vague. Ya hr department sees to all resumes & they don't offer coffee 😂
Mustafa didn't shut Sharjeena only now..He did it earlier also when he listened to Adeel's conversation...He is embarrassed and humiliated to face anyone.. Specially he couldn't break down infront of her because she believes him and it's usually difficult to face someone during your failure when they had high expectations on you.. His situations are making him act bitter and he is not used to pretend to be fine when he is not.. It's true that Sharjeena doesn't deserve to bear the bitterness from him but he is not doing any of it wantedly..The maximum he can do is to avoid the conversations that triggers him and being quite so he might not hurt her..In the previous episode,I noticed everytime he spoke something he is throwing his bitterness unintentionally so I feel he stopped speaking to avoid throwing any negativity to her because his emotions are not in his control
I have watched this with my girl every episode, sometimes you just need to sit together on floor and stand by each other .
Mustafa is at junoon stage that's why he reacts in the way he does towards Sharjeena
Very typical and realistic reaction for Mustafa to retreat inwards and cut himself off from Sharjeena when he is knocked down by the world. I am interested to see if Farhat will show a redemption arc For Mustafa or not
At the same time he does take care of sharjeena so yes mustafa is caring but with his bitter experiences he is going through a lot of mood swings so maybe he does not want to do intentionally but it is just coming out naturally from him. But if he still continues with some irrational behaviour then red flags will be shown in him. But I hope mustafa comes back to his original character with things improving in his life.
I am just thinking from the first episode.....that Mustafa was a red flag in himself....careless,irresponsible even then she chose him and then he changed and they started showing green flags within him....what are they trying to..... caste an air of accepting a person with red flags? ....as you said both red and green flags are within everyone of us...
Exactlyy
19:53 *" junoon"* is for money 💰
He wants to earn a lot of money........he wants to prove to everyone that he is not a looser......and also his kind of his ego or u can say his self respect which is hurt 🤕
And about his unborn child...
I think 💬 right now Mustafa is want to earn money.......he do not want more responsibility in his life .....right now he wants to set a good standard lifestyle for or i say specially for sharjeena .......
That maybe also the reason he say that "sab kuch bhot jaldi ho raha hai" he did not wanted any further responsibility 😢
Sharjeena is happy in what condition she is living with Mustafa...but he is not......
And about the last stage *"death/mout"* .......it's not about that the two will die or one of them will die ......I don't think anyone will face such a situation........but instead their love 💕 between them will die.....😢💔
As through out the whole drama we have seen that mostly Mustafa had learnt the lessons in a hard way
Matlab jab usse thokar lagti hai uske baad usse akal aati hai .........
So yaha pe jab finally sharjeena usske is bitter behaviour se tang aakar usse chor ke chali jayegi.......tab usse usi is galti ka ehsas hoga .........[ In the ep.1 of KMKT you can see that Mustafa is crying 😭 badly .....]
Waiting for your reply......😊
Do u agree ?
Rabia Jee ap love hain .... I'll working wid u please guide kijiye kese apki team ka part ban skte hain ?
even in humsafar Fawad Khan did the same....he was an insecure hero
Mustafa kaa pregnancy vala reaction was brutally honest 😢 normal Insaan esee halato pee esa hi reaction deta 🥲
Sharjeena and MUSTAFA dono kee liyee Bora lag Raha hai.............
Sharjeena kitnee khush thi
Par Mustafa ko apnee unborn child se koi attachment hi nahi hai 🥲 kehta hai agar Tum ( Sharjeena) ho to Mai bhi Khush hoo 😭🤧
He didn't jump in happiness too much on his mind too many things in his plate
He was caring supportive b4 her pregnancy He being extra careful n caring n sensible after knowing her pregnancy
He made mango milk shake
He looking after her diet
He asked qustions wat doctr said
Stairs etc
Ab kiya kere ulta lutuk jye like monkey to entertain Surjeena how can a normal human say I lub u 24 hours how can normal person practical person show care love attention 24 hours
She was on chair cleaning windows she didn't care she could fall who took care who thought about baby n her safty n health Mustafa thought Mustafa carefully picked her
Circumstances made him serious n bitter she shuld understand , she was bitter too she was upset too every time after seeing Adeel who showed kindness n understanding Mustafa showed maturity he made her face reality
@@agul5758aree vai mujhe Jo Laga maire man Mai Jo Aya wo hi boli mainee
Mainee thodi e KAHA ki 24 hours bas Sharjeena Sharjeena karee
Clearly dikh Raha tha wo Sharjeena jitne khush thi Mustafa nahi tha
Or haa wo dhayan Rakh Raha tha Sharjeena kaa
Lekin bacche ko leke wo hai confused
Sharjeena khud hi KAHA na ki Kash Tum e kehte tumhare or hamari bacche ke har ek bat iyaat rehta mujhee 🫠 🙂
Mene bas apnaa pov diya hai
Mujhpee kutt mat paroo vai
Banda aram se bhi Bata sakhtaa hai 😑
Kya baat karte ho Mustafa itni mehnat ke baad ye result Mila Joseph se aap aadmi ko change nhi kar sakte sharjeena sahi kr rahi hai
i see your points......but in real life thats how things are 😕
Yes we forgive mustafa. You are forgetting mustafa has had a difficult childhood with a toxic family. He has been constantly put down and he has low self esteem. He has a hard time opening up to Sharjeena. We can understand he is lot of hurt and pain. Sharjeena knows he has a loving heart. And he is just hurt.
Mustafa being practical he knows thy are depending on their pays his thinking is right in current circumstances
Surjeena also was alone used to come in room she used to box herself after seeing Adeel Mustafa used to make her talk
His longing for earning more n more for Surjeena n baby his responsibility n sensibility ego matters he being practical n truthful hardworking for strong reasons.
Surjeena showed her weakness many time especially after seeing Adeel n when Adeel broke Rishta Surjeena broke down Mustafa embrace her bears her sadness weakness why cannot Surjeena bear his moods now y cannot Surjeena encourage his hardwork Surjeena discouraging him for office 8 to 5 job in new episode she too demanding 24 hours romance attention near to impossible
Surjeena can forget Mustafa 's goodness care support hardwork I can't Surjeena ought to stand with him though tough times when he bz when he late from work when he crazy for creating game if she supportive
Rabia sis u r clearly on Surjeena 's side u r team Surjeena 😅
Lets recall previous episodes
U must hv watched
Surjeena used to say
Mujhe tumhari jhooti tareef nahi kerni Mustafa ko job ya kuch earning kerne ko bolti ki jhooti tareef na kerni pure
Ab kiya musla he ab Carefree lazy untidy light hearted Mustafa being wise practical he learnt importance of money he was mistreated disowned disrespect n think n recall who did his parents his siblings accused him for stealing for joblessness carelessness he was told off about frnds Surjeena also wanted him to earn to gain respect
So ab kiya problm he is sensible hardworking matured enough to understand sensitivity he knws money ll make him run house he knows job n work important otherwise people may say he eating wife's pay
Surjeena hving issues problems when Mustafa working hard he accepted office job 8 to 5 wali Surjeena not hsppy y would he rest how could he let all go his parents siblings unfair his boss gave him deception
Good wrtter showed his all moods good he gets upset angry sad joyful carefree to cateful lazy to hardworking poor to rich
Who are v to forgive Mustafa or Sirjeena its wrtters creation she made story with twist n turns thnk God its not monotonous
Mustafa is somewhat selfish, even in his attempts to provide Sharjeena with an affluent lifestyle. It seems his ego, rather than his love for Sharjeena, drives his ambition to become wealthy. Despite Sharjeena repeatedly expressing that money isn't her priority and that she values love, care, and togetherness more, Mustafa persists in his belief that wealth will bring her happiness, neglecting her true needs.
His self-centeredness prevents him from sharing in the happiness of their upcoming baby, which is what disappoints me the most.
He is not a Red flag he even admits he said it more in anger
No red flags dear…mustafa is not being able to cope with all that has happened … he is human and not a filmy hero .. it took him a while to wven understand the sharjeena loved him
He just loves her too much .. i have seen this episode 7 times so i too have not missed anything …
Sharjeena was a practical girl always doing things calculatively but now she is a emotional mess because of the love she has for Mustafa and why though because she already released after breaking up with adeel ki paisa sab kuch nhi hota ... And Mustafa being practical and mature... He changed from being an emotional person doing things instinctively.. god he married Sharjeena being emotional... And Mustafa is frustrated because he is not able to get his love what he thinks she deserves.. it's his way of love now he wants to get Sharjeena's respect back which he thinks is lost because of him being money less.. he wants to provide her with all the luxuries .. and the reason of his way of this love is because now his family had made him realise that if you get money you get love you get respect... Its very deeply and nicely written that every person has his or her own way of loving and too comes from what you go through and I don't believe that Mustafa reacted to the food because it was from his in laws he would have reacted like this no matter whoever would have sent the food because he has been so insulted that he thinks now that everyone surrounding him is mean and wants to insult him except Sharjeena and he is not manipulating her he cleary tell her time to time that this is who I am now !
And to answer your question it's his junoon not for money but money to get Sharjeena's respect back which he blames himself for and to give her the luxuries she deserves !
Mgr yeh bat bhi hy k reality tou yeh h hy k mard isi. tarah react krty hain jb koi bury halat aty hain bht km h asy hoty hain jo calm rehty hon
Adeel deserve krta hy k usk sth asa h ho
I feel like Mustafa had so much downs in his life last few episodes that he started doing this sort bad behavior with Sharjeena
Mustafa just overreacted in the food scene. That food was just a mother's love like why would he insult it like that. I understand how betrayal by ur own family feels like but still sharjeena has done so much for him , he could've just eaten for her🤌. Roz roz to bna kr nhn bhej rhin na ek bar hi bheja hy as a form of love🤷♀️
Yeah right k HR kio personal secerty waly kam krrahi hu
Sharjeena excellent 👌 but aaj kal ladkiyaan aisi nahi hai on the other hand Mustafa insulted by his parents to much isi liye woh aisa hai
6:42 Rabia uski Job chali gayi, Joseph nay usay dokha dia, insaan hay gussa to aye ga, ab agr aap ko gussa nhi pasand to Kia makers human emotion na dikhayen?
Jb Mustafa ne khany pe ghussa kiya to i was hurt i mean sharjeena bohaat respect krti hy Mustafa k parents ki to Mustafa kabhi respect nhi krta sharjeena k parents ki that reaction was really insensitive
Am I the only one wondering why we desis glorify men saying that they will feel reduced if they have to go live with their in laws??? Wah hai yaar
Mujhy bhi yeh samjh nhi aya k junoon kio likh hoa aya k kis chez k junoon hy mustaftko
Uff.Pakistanis ka seekhnay pay he kyo zore hay? Enjoy.relax
Sharjeena is a calm personality.that is beneficial to others.thats it.
How can v as audience call fictional Mustafa red flag after seeing him upset how 😮
Surjeena got upset n angry on various occasions Mustafa didn't mind he tried to cheer her up he ignored her bad mood he knew she was upset Adeel arrival never made Surjeena ok Mustafa even made her braver to face reality
Zara sa Mustafa gusa howa zara se disappointed tu bus hum hogye juzbati urat puna jaag jata jub fictional upright husbnd upset or angry
Mustafa is human he can b upset angry disappointed happy unhappy satisfied unsatisfied carefree careless careful sensible hardworking or lazy clean or untidy it's our Mustafa bhai 😅 her halat main acha n qabool he
Admi kaam na kere tu problems admi kaam kere gets as busy as bee works hard harder admi too focus for work tu bhi problems
Bus start ho jata gila shikwa 😅
Beachra admi Mustafa ya real asli admi kiya kere to please audience n real families. Kiya kere ?
Sharjeena will show him how bad he is behaving with her. It just needs the right time. In real life no person can a green flag without some flaws. We just need to know whether red flags are more compared to green flag. People like Mustafa need to be pointed out for their red flag so that they can reduce these flaws to beacome a good person. None is born as a good person. Who can say that Sharjeena will not show some toxicity when she faces some issues like Mustafa is facing now?
Even Mustafa' s mother and Natasha are a red flag. Why don't you talk about women being red flag?
Mustafa is behaving okay in this situation, Sharjeena is little too goody.
But Rabia why another review on same the topic on this private channel? you and Shazia are doing great on Fuchsia. 🤔
I find Sharjeena more annoying & unrealistic. You can’t always be positive. Especially now when they’re gonna have a baby and she’s not even letting him work always my time and attention. This is impossible in these kind of circumstances there’s no concept of Matt leave in Pakistan to so she has to think how they’re going to survive if he doesn’t have a good job. She came from a privileged family with the secure family structure on the other hand Mustafa had childhood traumas, but he still cooperating with her in every way possible he does wanna improve their lifestyle their respect and now for the baby too, I think Mustafa is being still really calm considering the circumstances. If that was somebody else they would’ve been really depressed, I think Sharjeena should give him some space to figure out things and be there & focus more on herself and her pregnancy. The only thing that bothered me was at Shazina‘s mom‘s food because that is so casual and it happens most moms do that it wasn’t from her dad it was her mom. so he was only wrong there.
I think these arguments & emotions are normal & not ref flags as long couple understand each other. We need to understand men and women thrive differently. If he was lazy & wasn’t working, that would’ve been an issue too women mostly thrive when they’re financially independent,have a good relationship with supportive partner men mostly when they have a good career money, good lifestyle so they both need to understand each other. Sharjeena being too clingy and that might set them for failure.
For Adeel Natasha won’t leave her husband and would refuse to have connection with Adeel
I only agree with you on HR department because they have nothing to do with regular day today routine that totally separate so that is a flaw in the storyline.
Ya mustafa just overreacted when sharjeena mother send food she just send food out of love & care for her daughter. He should have understood that thing everything he should not take another meaning to it.
Surjeena was over reacting too when Adeel came back when father got sick she over reacting when Rubab came to live she showed how angry n upset she was she said
Gher he ya kiya he Jo moon utha ker aajata
Mustafa calmed her down he knew where she coming from wat bothering her Mustafa could can see her heart n mind
Mustafa didn't mind , Adeel came to his father 's house Surjeena did mind .
Her all actions justified
Beachra Mustafa lovey-dovey rahe then audience happy .
Rabia jee please jwb dijiyega
I want to see Adeel in jail he must b declared characterless corrupt openly in KMKT
His mother has to learn truth about her so called perfect son Adeel
Kub aye ga wo lumha wo waqat jub Bushra Mama ko pata lage Adeel job per ill-gotten pesa khata raha bad kerdaar bhi he Adeel biwi n gf n Co worker ki saath involved
Adeel ka Ugly face kub reveal hoga I m counting days
Nobody is perfect anyways people will end up marrying with their cousins and in their own family/sect so its useless to put your mind such things.
Thanks for 300 subscribers
Narcissist hai mustafa
Assmaaan pr bethaty hain phr giradyty
Dosra bnda us aasman wali feeling k chakar mei usk pechay bhagta rehta hai