I don't think it should be your partner's responsibility to recharge you outside of work just because you choose to overload/overwork yourself. It's far healthier to have a good work balance so you aren't totally depleted outside of work and can be present with your partner. When you view it as someone else's role to recharge your energy, you're setting the relationship up to fail.
@Swim234Yes, in a relationship there should be mutual support. The part that is unhealthy is running yourself into the ground with work and feeling resentment towards your partner because they can't sufficiently refill your cup. That responsibility shouldn't be placed on someone else, especially when the other person has their own work/career too. I think the difficulty is the blurred lines of the roles within the relationship. In this scenario, Krissy was taking on the role of the main financial provider, which typically means the other partner takes on the main role of the nurturer (taking care of household tasks, looking after pets and children in a scenario where there are children). However, they had a cook and cleaner and Brett had his own career and so the roles were blurred.
Whilst I agree with most of what you’re saying - a relationship does not need to have one or the other. both partners in a relationship should aim to provide as much of both as they can (with flexibility when it comes to raising children and splitting that workload as that’s a job in itself). But there doesn’t need/ should be one and the other. Nor should it feel that if one person isn’t making as much as the other, that they have to give up on their career ambitions to be more of the support to the other. From what I understood he was a surgeon? Or some kind of doctor which is an incredibly physical and emotionally / mentally draining career so I can’t fathom how she would expect to come home and have him waiting there for her to offload on him all of her work troubles with no allowance for his own experiences
When you mentioned work/mom life brought me to tears..I feel that everyday! I'm a first time mom to a 1 1/2 year old and I started working from home since her birth to be able to be with her 24 7 and whilst I feel like it's best for her since I have no family around to help and putting her I'm daycare would break my heart. some days I'm so busy with work and I look at her in her playpen alone and I feel like an absolute failure!
@LK-tp2le Brett PhD and runs circles around her as far as smarts goes. She thinks going on a couple of dates and someone she knows for less than a week is doing what she wants. Give it 6 months if you can. You think they can keep that up? UGGHHJH Stop talking about confidential stuff about your fam. Your mom's covid vaccine heart attack, your dad being poor your brother being in jail. Wow...I would sue you of you were my sister. And STOP SWEARING
Your partner isn't there to distract you from work, girl. You need to give yourself some boundaries and learn how to clock off from work; that is NOT his responsibility. You say you want an 'alpha' who will take charge, but you'll only resent him for taking you away from the work you seem to love so much. Something's gotta give.
I really enjoy krissy content but I’m surprised at the way she’s talking about Brett. Don’t really think it’s fair talking about him in this way when he was a very private person and he didn’t really like being in the videos
While I’m no where near her net worth, I understand Krissy’s views on why her last relationship didn’t work out. Once you take money out of the equation, it seems men don’t have much else to offer. They won’t take the initiative to look at their woman and ask themselves “What can I do to make her life easier?” Can you plan a vacation? Make dinner reservations? Take my clothes to the dry cleaner? Etc Acts of service are HUGE and will be so much more appreciated than me having to tell you how to treat me.
Most guys are generally happy to protect, provide, and do WHATEVER it takes to make their woman happy. The main problem is alot of yall pass up the good guys for the bad boys and complain why said guy doesn’t treat you right. 90% of the problems Women complain about in relationships would be solved if they didn’t go for the bad boys.
Honestly, part of this interview is quite dissappointing. In what world is it appropriate to openly discuss your ex to this degree on a public podcast? I really like Krissy and her content, but it is not fair. Essentially undermining her man by saying he 'wasn't alpha' and 'he was passive' and he didn't earn enough. Imagine a man sitting there and saying 'my ex just wasn't feminine enough?'. What makes it worse is within a few minutes of this she's discussing how 'he did in a week what he never could', i mean come on? I don't know, maybe I've misunderstood as I've only watched a podcast, but I would never talk about an ex publically like this. One thing I can say for sure is the 'alpha male' she craves would be put off by a podcast like this.
It really comes down to your subjective perspective. For HER he wasn‘t enough, for someone else he might be. At the end it’s her decision who she wants as a partner and who might not be a good fitting for her. She has her right to stay true to her standards and if Brett didn‘t fit into that category than she has all rights to leave the relationship. And she CLEARLY said, that it didn‘t matter how much he earned and that it came down to his traits as a provider and a proactive person, NOT because they weren’t on the same level financially. And that she publicly discussed it can be seen as inappropriate on one side, but on the other side it can be empowering and inspiring for others to be more transparent about relationships in general on social media. So, I get your perspective, but there is no reason to criticize her standing up for herself in her own way.
Why do you think you know so much about her? She never once said he didn’t earn enough…. Just fyi so maybe don’t fabricate. I feel like you’re projecting a lot here, don’t get me wrong I think maybe she could of just said they were simply different types of people but ultimately it’s her decision and it’s actually very common for relationships to break down because of this: it’s not like she is the only person who wants a masculine man….. she put it bluntly which has clearly made you feel uncomfortable but it’s not like she actually said anything bad about him.
Totally agree! This is the second time I've heard her say something that I consider somewhat sexist. When she said "be a man" based on a restaurant reservation. It really shows more about her than about the other person, and in fact, the last time she did something similar, she said: "Someone makes you jealous and crazy because you are not like that, you are like that because of that person" which is one of the most of common excuse in domestic violence. but the saddest thing is that she thinks she is right and she is right to say it out loud just because she was the one who made the decision.
This is really distasteful. I used to follow Krissy on social media and she was showing off the relationship 24/7 and how amazing Brett was. I get things don't work out but talking about an ex on a podcast so disrespectfully is wild. I'm sure if Brett did this, she would be so hurt.
Brett dodged a bullet this girl is completely disingenuous, fake and narcissistic. Had to unfollow her after how she acted following their breakup. Just distasteful and sickening.
This is just so wrong. The only message she got across is that her future partner should be aware that no matter how long they are together if the relationship ends she will go online and diss him as an unambitious, lazy and not so “proactive” person and share everything she held against him in a relationship with millions of people. She tries so hard to say that money is not important and then complains that she was the bread-winner in the relationship, that he lived with her, and he had a cook and a cleaner under her roof. Seems so wrong towards the other person to say these things online. She tries so hard to get people to think that she is so so happy now that she even did this. I actually feel the guy is relieved he got himself out of all this.
she did not complain about her being the bread winner, she just shared that he doesn't initiate taking care of her and planning things for both of them. just also mentioned that she also had bad traits and that he deserves better. and she has every right to want whatever she wants, if he's very passive and is just laying there only receiving then what's the point of being in a relationship ?
I can’t relate and see no where to your statement on Krissy but genuinely she seems honest with the way she express. Krissy did not diss her ex partner but instead she is being real of what she wants and expects which I think it is common sense and never lower our basic standards, that’s what I love about Krissy. Everything has to have a balance, either way the partner should go well along in any situation and being 💯 supportive & importantly understanding.
I agree, this is so disrespectful of him of course we don’t know the ins and outs but the dude wasn’t a bad guy she has painted him as awful. She is so immature and really needs some lessons on how to talk - strong women are graceful this isn’t a example of a strong women.
I feel like Krissy really needs some therapy when it comes to relationships. It’s not her partners job to be her personal assistant for her outside of work life. I totally understand wanting your man to be “alpha” but just because your work/financial life is so high level, doesn’t mean his day to day stresses and life are more minimal to hers. Like he probably comes home stressed and needs emotional support too. It sounds like Krissy brought work home and wasn’t available to be that person to him either. And if she acts so alpha, I can imagine her putting her foot down with anything she can’t control. So it’s possible he became passive because of krissys need to control everything. It’s so strange to rely on your partner for your outside of work distraction lol. Both people need to be communicating and supporting each other emotionally.
@o.Nyx.o I think it’s very difficult for 2 alphas to be together too. And that it would be very difficult to be an alpha at work which takes up almost all your time anyway, and then being able to switch that alpha mode off while at home. Especially if you’re the one paying for the home, the food, the furniture, etc.. there would have to be MAJOR work done introspectively to be able to switch out of that alpha mode, but also to show your partner that you’re not the alpha in the relationship. For someone so controlling and perfectionist, I wonder if she can truly see how she can be perceived by a partner. People with that much of a need to control, then come home and start arguing with their partner on how they want stuff done and that’s what can create a passive man. Because he just wants to please her and let it be whatever way she wants. I kinda think if a truly strong alpha man came in, she’d like it for a few months and then would get real tired of it if he was putting his foot down on stuff. Like this is where we are eating, watching, doing, etc. I don’t think she’s able to let some control go honestly.
Plus it is usually the woman that is the source of emotional support in a relationship (men are less in touch with their feelings, women are) so it just makes no sense that she wanted that from him when he clearly was not the type of person
Also I'm just re-watching this to process this again and Krissy saying she won't let a man meet her family unless they are engaged.... so he doesn't get to meet the family he's marrying into before asking you to marry him? I mean, it's her life so she can move forward how she wants but I would feel so awkward in a relationship with someone long enough that I'm considering marriage but still haven't met their family? Not because I'm worried I won't like them but because I want to see my partner in a family dynamic.. how they interact with the people they care about... You're just going to hide your partner from those that mean the most to you until they propose? Puts a weird pressure on engagement.
It says a lot about a person who’s willing to come out about her private life. It’s just distasteful, with too many contradictions. Also Lucy doesn’t have to agree with everything that she says or relay everything back to her baby.
The thing is that she was the one who approached this guy and from the time she announced their relationship on IG she made it clear that he has a “DR” title, she made it a point to call him Dr. Bret on multiple occasions, I can only conclude that it was important to her for him to be “somebody” in the face of her huge female based following but you were the one who approached him, didn’t you notice he wasn’t “the alpha male” type when you approached him? Maybe he is quite content the way he is and you so desperately wanted this guy to be something he isn’t. Your expectations are not his responsibilities.
What. 😂😂😂😂 I haven’t started the podcast yet, BUT most people who earn their “DR” titles love to be addressed that way because they work hard to earn that title and went to school for years to get it! It is a damn big deal that most people don’t have and something to be very proud of so that’s probably why she referred to him w his earned title on multiple occasions. You’re criticizing her for nothing. I follow her and never once have I thought she was trying to make him appear to be “somebody” …especially not if she was trying to credit him for something he earned 💀
Krissy is speaking in a lot of hypotheticals😂. When she meets a man she really falls in love with, everything she is saying will go out the window. She is speaking like someone who is hyper independent ( trauma response), self absorbed (in the best way) and focused on success. The truth of the matter is, her number one priority is her businesses, her work. And that’s okay. She has been so successful in her career, that I feel she thinks that’s how her relationships should go as well. But relationships are complex and people are complex. You will never find a perfect person. Everyone needs to do the work on themselves and with their partner. I don’t believe Krissy wants a partner, she wants a “man” and those are two very different things. She wants an “alpha” who will lead her and take initiative more so than her in every aspect because that will make her feel more feminine. However, how can a man lead you when you’re okay with him not making as much money as you? How can a man lead you when you claim you don’t need a man? How can a man lead you when you are so proudly an alpha female? How can a man lead you when you’re saying you wont live together, he wont meet your family, etc? You’re already placing all these ultimatums than an alpha male will not be okay with. That alpha male you so badly want is not going to bow to your whim. She’ll realize when you’re together, sometimes you do have the same friends and the same hobbies and the same space. She’ll realize that man will take first place above family and friends and even business. Krissy is only 29 and though she may feel she knows a lot because being successful at such a young age provides a sense of independence and self assuredness, everything in life doesn’t always work the same. People are complex and if you want to find a partner, not just a “man”, you’re going to have to stick around and do the hard work and be gracious and forgiving. Brett didn’t do anything wrong, he just wasn’t the “man” she wanted. That’s okay.
Very poignant. Her number one is her business to the point that even her body shuts down but she doesn’t listen. She grew up with not much and I think it causes her to fear losing everything instead of living in faith and peace. Prayers for her soul and her peace.
Imagine how hard must be for her exes to her this after a breakup, imagine if Brett speaks out about her like she does “I don’t need an Alfa girlfriend or I need a women in the kitchen” a lot of what she says don’t make sense and other does. Let just stick with if you don’t are happy in your relationship step away but you don’t necessary have yo make comments that can and will only hurt your ex partner
This interview was beyond disappointing on so many levels. The contradictions in both their opinions was so ridiculous. Now don’t get me wrong I think krissy has done amazing professionally and I’ve followed her for some time. I have huge respect for her work ethic and her success. However you can share your personal life without bringing the other person down once you’ve separated. We’ve all had failed relationships and spoken badly of them to our girlfriends but doing it on a public platform when you have a huge following is immature. Especially when that other person does not have the platform you do. Can you imagine a male presenter turning round and saying ‘so she was living under your roof?’ The way us women would be coming for a man like that! The whole interview was nauseating and hugely disappointing.
@@omairaaortegait sounds narcissistic because she is Not saying there is no place for narcissistic people in society. There are many positives, such as their energy, often charisma and success. Issues really do come in friendships, work and personal relationships
She is a hardcore narcissist. I had to unfollow her after these shenanigans. She is dragging this man’s name through the mud on a platform of millions while currently fly flaunting another man constantly on her stories. Extremely distasteful and evil spirited. I can’t take her anymore.
I really don’t understand how this is inspiring. Having a one sided conversation about your ex personality traits online in unfair and mean. You are exposing him and can impact his next relationships. If Krissy wants so bad to keep her next relationship private, why didn’t she keep the break up private which is the graceful thing to do? If the women’s attitude all the time is ‘’I am the breadwinner, you leave under my roof, this is my house, lets do the things in my way’’ is pretty obvious any alpha male will run. It's unfair to think the problem was that he isn't alpha, he just genuinely didn’t feel like an alpha but maybe will feel in the next relationship. We can change depending on the person we are with. It's all about compatibility. So is unfair to give him this ''flaw'' labels. And also I believe any alpha male watching this podcast will be turned off. I am. This is cringe. I used to be a mega fan of Krissy but slowly I am opening my eyes and now I only see herself stroking her ego all the time. Just pay attention.
@@ArtetaPulisright? Didn’t she said Brett would force her to eat when she was too busy working and forget to.. and now on the podcast she’s saying he wouldn’t plan things and she would be hungry after work and there was no dinner/food made ??
I’ve been there done that and now i’m with a man that basically takes care of my needs and loves me entirely. If I slightly show i’m upset he’ll do ANYTHING just to make my day better. I pray for Krissy to find the love she wants! NEVER SETTLE! and the girlies that know know! What one man couldn’t provide for you someone else’s will give
what your man give maybe someone else wouldn't give,, point is no is perfect or equal. she's been in a relationship for so long time and its a waste of time for both of them. she could have worked and made him like what she wants...
So she’s an alpha female and wants a submissive man but also needs to be a bit alpha but have feminine emotional energy and think about romantic things? She’s draining she doesn’t even know what she wants
She contradicts herself a lot on her wants and needs e.g she doesnt care about money but then points out that she is a breadwinner is a clear contradiction. This podcast seems more like a therapy session than something to speak publicly about
Aww i love your podcasts and this is nothing against you Lucy, I feel Krissy has shared far too much about her ex. It's not fair to talk about someone who is not present about their financial situation, being alpha etc and what they were good/bad at in a relationship. Just move forward from it with your head high! This is where so many relationships of this day and age go wrong, unrealistic expectations and talking to other people about your issues rather than talking it through privately with who it involves. Just my opinion! But as I said love the pod!
I see your point, but I felt Krissy was extremely respectful throughout the conversation. She also mentioned on multiple occasions that her ex is a wonderful person and that it didn’t work out for mutual reasons and differences. She didn’t paint herself to be perfect. Many women follow her and look to her for real life guidance and help in tough situations. I think she should be entitled to share the realities of navigating life as a young, adult woman, not just the positives. I do agree the other individual is not there to defend themselves, but at the end of the day, she is in her right to share her truth authentically.
@cuba3rocks that was a get out, "he's the most loyal caring beautiful person but... he sucks at this this this this & this." You have to remember thousands of people know who this man is through Krissy choosing to share him online and then when it's over talking negatively about his traits is not fair to him. she could have given advice generally in a way that doesn't impact the man she claimed to have loved. If it was the other way round and the man went online sharing how Krissy is in a relationship I'm sure it would be viewed very differently and upset her tremendously to watch back. If it was a chat between two friends, fair enough, but not for the whole world to see. she even said towards the end of the relationship the man tried to adapt his ways for her and she was having none of it which is not his fault. Like I said you can have these thoughts but don't blast him on the Internet it's not cool.
is it really unrealistic to want someone to literally make an effort? take care of you? to male you laugh and have fun and deep conversations with? look how much she’s built for herself. if she thought anything was “unrealistic” she wouldn’t be where she is
Sounds like Krissy emptied her cup at work and then expected her partner to fill her cup back up for her with little reciprocity. Which is… selfish. But good luck looking for that ‘alpha’ man. I’m sure it’ll work out.
I really respect Krissy for being so open about her situation. It makes me sad to see any negative comments, I believe wether we agree or disagree with her choices, these are her choices and her life. We are all different, with different prioritise, dreams and goals in life. She just shared her own journey and I think that's so brave of her to do so. Also, let's bare in mind this was only an hour long conversation, there has been so much more going on in her life that led her to these choices and mindset that we don't know about. We all need to be more kind to each other and celebrate other's achievement. Thank you for this podcast
KRISSY my girl, you've changed my life, my mindset, and how I view my self-worth in the short year and a half that I've been following you. I will support you forever and eva, thank you for this vulnerability 💖
Love this podcast because of Krissy’s realness but a critique on podcasters end, this podcast is more about the person you’re interviewing, it’s nice to relate to some things but talking about your experience when we’re here to tune into hers kind of takes away from the podcast. Just a helpful thought but loved krissys answers
When you are an alpha woman and the provider, it's very difficult to find an alpha man to take charge of your life outside of work because alpha men are rarely attracted to alpha women as the strong masculine energy from both sides just isn't compatible.
Just because that’s the usual couple dynamic we’re used to doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist or just rarely exists. People are changing, our culture is changing. More and more woman become very successful. I almost feel like you‘re saying that you have to remain the ”smaller“ women in order to want to have an alpha male to be attracted to you. If that is so then it would all just come down to the fact that alpha men are intimidated by alpha women. That’s not right and that’s really not how it should be. And people or males, who reflect on themselves should know that.
@@sarahdarwischMy point is that two strong alphas rarely work as they're both competing for the same role in the relationship. I'm not saying it has to be the woman being less alpha, I'm saying if the woman wants to take the alpha role in the relationship, she has to accept the man will be less alpha.
Since when do we call people who brag about being able to afford anything they want, any trip they want, any item, and no man being able to live up to it humble actually? This girl does really have a big dick energy but in such an off-putting sense. Imagine being in a relationship with someone with that belittling attitude towards you. I really hope she gets all the healing she needs…
good thing she’ll never be in a relationship with you, the . also, the fact that you’re only pressed about her being able to provide for herself says a lot about you. she gave multimple examples of other things she wants in a relationship that do not include money
@@rebe94 I really have nothing against her being successful. I admit that she has done what not so many can and I truly admire her for that. It is just that in the interview she came off as too boastful about what she can provide for herself without a man and then we should call that being humble? She needs therapy before she moves on to a new man with that attitude.
@@Scottzh why does anyone need therapy if they are aware of their ability to provide for themselves without needing a relationship? would you comment that a man needs therapy if a man said he could provide for himself without a partner and worry about calling him humble? genuinely curious
@o.Nyx.o , why is it trashy? she just mentioned that she can do a lot for herself and that what she expects is something more than what she actually got? is it wrong to have standards? or to want more? she even said multiple times that money wasn't the issue at all etc, I think you're just hating to hate.
During this interview, I think Krissy didn’t use the correct wording to get her point across regarding her old relationship and what she wants in a new relationship. I could tell she wants a partner (someone to share the workload of life with), but the way she was explaining it made it seem like she wanted a personal assistant for a husband. Nothing bad against her, she just didn’t explain that right. I totally understand the feeling of being in a relationship where you do everything and you feel like your BF/GF is not supporting or sharing the relationships workload. That can be exhausting and frustrating! Both individuals need to give some effort and show that they care for each other. If she is providing a home and being the breadwinner/paying for everything, the least he can do is cook a meal and clean the house. She shouldn’t have to hire a cook and cleaner.
Interviewer … she says “ like” over and over and always gives her personal stories. I’m sorry if that’s disrespectful but Krissy Cella is the main focus here. Besides her wealth and success , she is very intelligent and charismatic. Instead of dragging her into “ dating/ who’s your next man” this interview could have covered so many important points for women out there. That’s too bad. Much love to both of you. ❤
This doesn’t sound very humble lol I feel like she’s constantly needing to remind everyone of how rich she is and how she can afford everything. Especially the part where she just threw in that she has a personal chef and cleaner at her house. I dunno.
This interview was actually difficult to listen to, there was a toxic energy and i was cringing at times. Lucy you did so well with everything. For a man step into their alpha energy, he needs a women with some feminine eneregy for balance.
We are no one to judge what someone wants from a man or a relationship. She is free to seek whatever she wants in a partner, and there’ll be a person that will fulfill her needs. I also feel like the interviewer twisted Krissys words and her follow up questions were poor. I hope Krissy doesn’t shut more interviews in the future because of this experience.
As someone who has followed Krissy for as long as I can remember she is truly an inspiration to me. My mom fled from Kosovo to Sweden during the war and has worked really hard for me and my siblings to get an education and her willingness to sacrifice everything for us is such an inspiration for me that I am thankful for every day. Krissys hard work and dedication has motivated me since i used to watch her instagram posts workouts back in the days! She is the reason I started working out for my wellbeing. She has always remained down to earth, no matter what, an Albanian queen
I feel like there was a lot of interruption between the interview. Especially the interviewer contradicted Krissy when she asked KRISSY for HER personal view on finances within a relationship. Girl you are the one meant to interview her and wait for her answer. No offense but we wanna hear the guest’s answers, thoughts, wishes, and stories uninterrupted. Let her talk!!!
Krissy nice you’re being noble, but let’s be honest when you say ‘I’m not with a guy for the money’ yeh fine but if you want to be in your ‘feminine energy’ a man needs to be alpha and 90% men only feel alpha is financially they are the provider.
The "clock" is not a social one. NATURE puts a clock on all our lives, no matter where we are in life. The problems arise when a woman wants to have a baby and faces a lot of challenges. Age is a major factor when it comes to conceiving and the pregnancy journey itself. I make these arguments to jolt people from the wishful thinking we suffer from as a society. It takes far too long and far too late to realise where the issues were.
This was the ABSOLUTE BEST interview/podcast I’ve ever seen SO HONEST so real and raw of what we women are now and WANT in a relationship and in our single lives as well AAAAA so good BOTH of you. Krissy THANK YOU for being such an AMAZING woman. Love from Portugal ❤️
Strangely enough, I broke up with my ex husband for quite the same reason. I was tired of having to be everything in the relationship and the one who always had to step up to fix things and make things better. But then when I was down, I was so lonely because there was noone here who could step up for me.
Not me sittin here sippin a glass of wine at the airport excited to see my family who have been nothing but there and supportive for my most recent intense and beyond complex ending of a relationship. Thank you Krissy, for sharing these intimate and raw moments that were much needed for me to hear and relate to. If only we could be friends …truly an inspiration and humble badass, keep doing you girl
Diving into discussions about 'alpha' traits and star signs is SO cringe-worthy, and veers into the realm of pseudoscience. I couldn't help but notice Krissy's emphasis on intellectual stimulation in relationships, especially considering her ex's STEM background, which likely implies a different intellectual orientation. When it comes to intellectual stimulation, delving into genuinely thought-provoking content, like philosophical works or in-depth societal analyses by thinkers like Hegel, Marx, and Baudrillard, can be more enriching than some low IQ's take on psychology (*cough* The Rational Male 🤢🤮🔫). It's about exploring the complexities of life beyond surface-level perspectives. True intellectual growth often requires dedicated effort and a willingness to challenge one's own beliefs. Money can provide the luxury of time for this pursuit. On a lighter note, I'm a fan of the Oner leggings!
I love Kristy’s app. Her content has done wonders to my body, mind, and soul. As a professional, I admire how far she’s come in her career, but I can see (based on this interview) that she has a lot of inner healing work to do. What I thought at first was, “This girl wants a personal assistant”. It’s not right to talk about an ex the way she did, that’s her side of how she saw things in the relationship. There is always two sides. Although, I never met the guy, but based on what she shared on IG, he seemed very supportive of her and her career. I agree with what she said, she doesn’t know what she wants in a relationship because she wants to fill that hole she has. To have a male alpha you need to do the healing and heal your male alpha energy. Male alphas are the providers in every aspect. Female alphas need to learn how to let the male alpha take control (just like we ask them to do). I understand her, it took me a lot to heal inner child. In order to find a male alpha we need to forgive our fathers. It’s very complex to explain because this topic is a very sensitive one that can be taken out of context. Don’t give up Krissy and also don’t run away from your healing.
The interviewer keeps on interrupting the interviewee. You don't need to comment at every single phrase she says. Please let your interviewee finish what they want to say, instead of interrupting after every word.
I just watched the entire podcast and it felt like only 10min went by. Made me feel like I was catching up with some good friends ❤ Raw and inspirational, loved it !!!
I didnt like the direction of this interview I was hoping to learn how Krissy is such a phenomenal woman to inspire us fellow women but the whole time it was about her relationship like really
I had to unfollow her because of her extreme feminist victim woe is me attitude. A lot of alpha females get like this, they want an alpha male but then they also want them to love them unconditionally and be perfect, love is not perfection, love is hard work and compromise. The other part of the equation is that most alpha men don’t want alpha women they want submissive women. So that’s why you always see these beautiful, rich, smart alpha women alone. Also you need to know the kids and future things on the first date cause if you don’t align what’s the point? She’s so delusional she’s going to find someone.
I enjoyed listening to this episode and it certainly made Krissy seem really relatable. However it also felt like such a missed opportunity. She is SUCH a successful business owner and yet this was basically brushed over. We could have listened and learnt to Krissy talk about business, confidence, her career journey etc, so I was disappointed to see Lucy didn’t take it in this direction. I appreciate this it Topic Tuesday and there is a format to how the TT questions used to work on IG. However, it doesn’t really feel like TT anymore, nor does it feel like a proper podcast. For that I think you need way more focus on the guest and less on Lucy.
Lucy is a terrible interviewer. Please stop speaking over your guests and finishing their sentences. I could also tell that Krissy was getting a bit uncomfortable and exasperated when you would ask really personal questions. Do better please this was painful to watch.
Krissy, I've been there. Being in a relationship with someone passive drains the relationship. Being the to one keep the fire going is draining. One day I hope we will meet somebody who can gives us what we need and vice versa.
It’s so interesting reading these comments there’s so much to say! Suprised to see so many comments bashing Krissy but here are some of my thoughts. 1. People are saying that Krissy is wrong and two alphas in a relationship won’t work - she doesn’t want to be the alpha in the relationship! She said she wants to lean into her feminine energy and have her man take the lead. She’s happy to be the breadwinner but wants him to take the lead in other ways, which she mentioned several times. What on earth is wrong with that? 2. Expressing the areas she found dissatisfaction in her relationship does not equate to disrespecting her partner 3. This is more to do with the host but Krissy could have stepped in to defend her ex / correct the host. The phrase ‘living under your roof’ strongly implies that he was lazy and contributed nothing to running the household. Unless that is true, the statement is unfair. Granted the property might have belonged to Krissy but him living in her home is perfectly okay, so using that phrase which has negative connotations opens room for people to question his character in a negative way. This is the only thing I thing that could have been disrespectful towards him. 4. I don’t know if Krissy and the host have a genuine friendship but I hope so. This interview was leaning more towards the unprofessional side which would be fine if they actually have a friendship outside this and the concept of the podcast / episode is two friends catching up or something to that effect. The host had a lot of bias, didn’t once challenge Krissy to highlight her own flaws, and continuously projected her views towards Krissy. Interviewers need to be less biased, more open to asking questions and challenging answers rather than being so agreeable with the answers that a guest gives. I haven’t seen any other podcasts episodes so I’m not certain but I would be shocked if they weren’t friends or if this is the same vibe with other guests that the host doesn’t have a prior relationship with. 5. The internet is always so nosey and curious when people with a following enter a relationship or see one end. I can’t understand why people are upset with Krissy actually being open about the reasons her relationship broke down, like stop acting like you didn’t want to know! She said plenty of positive things about him before even talking about the things she didn’t like. Perhaps people are upset because they think he seemed like the perfect guy and that they would love someone like him. Listen very well - she said the man lacked initiative and wasn’t proactive, that’s a valid reason to walk away! I hope this inspires people not to stay in something because it feels familiar, or they’re afraid to start afresh. Be bold enough to walk away if you’re dissatisfied, know what you want and need and don’t accept less. That’s my takeaway.
Loved this!!!! I really love Krissy for being so genuine and actually funny, but seriously I loved listening to her and I hope there’s only the best things coming for her in the future
I have to say, I find it interesting that at 7:34-7:38 Krissy says her Athletes/Trainers for her brands are to know everyone's names on set, yet in Makayla Merie's "London UK Vlog - Introducing your new EvolveYou Trainer" TH-cam video at 22:31-22:52 she lists off everyone's names on set, except for one individual named Ben. I found it incredibly absent minded of Makayla to remember every crew member's name except for one. Poor Ben must have felt awful, ESPECIALLY since she was filming him. Follow through with what you preach Krissy, as not all of your athletes do it..
The problem is she pushed away a man that actually loved her before the success. Now she’s stuck dating gold digger men, or insecure men for the rest of the dating pool. Unless somehow, she manages to land a man more successful than she is, but those men come with problems of their own - bigger dating pool and selection of women, conflicting schedules etc. It’s a hard life being a woman at the top, more than 60% of women in senior positions and business owners report loneliness. I don’t envy the position she is in, she’s done so much good in her own life, and she deserves to find happiness. I’m glad she’s at least somewhat reconciled that she might be alone for a while. Most successful women in business meet their husbands much earlier in life, hopefully, she finds someone that can fit into her life soon!
I thought I was the only one going through a situation like this. But I can see it is more common than I thought. Thank god you have the money to leave. Not all of us have that privilege. You're a role model in all ways. I love you always and forever. ❤
OMG I'm an OG krissy follower, and I'm in tears, it's so relatable and so exhaustive to be in your masculine so much, I just want someone who takes care of shit at least ONCE :( everyone giving her hate for this doesn't get how exhausting it is running your own business and having a passive mate
I'm half way through this podcast, and honestly as a 24 year old - essentially 25 in a month - I will say Krissy has so much advice I have taken to heart. I am planning to go sober in January and just focus on me (not bc/of a new year's resolution - but it is a starting point for me to grow). I love my relationship, but she has given me a new way to look at it and only grow together. I hope everything lasts, and I only wish the best for Krissy as well. She has been a great inspiration for almost 2 years now, and she has opened my eyes to a whole new world of health and passion. My passion has changed, and I hope to work alongside her in some way or form in the future. Idk what yet, but I can feel it. Keep up this amazing work Krissy ❤
I wish you all the best on your journey to being sober 🫶🏼 I never was a heavy drinker but I stopped drinking alcohol 5 years completely and it was one of the best decisions I ever made.
I loved this conversation! Both Krissy and Lucy being open and honest. I think most the comments don't get the concept of this podcast, it's a conversation not an interview
Love Krissy but it is truly sad how the topic of her relationship dominated most of this interview, appreciate she was just answering the question but why was the relationship / break up raised first, before anything else, by the interviewer? So many other topics could have been covered that are actually central to her and her business / journey
women bringing down a woman in this comment section just cause she shared her thoughts and what went wrong is so mind blowing, you ladies are the worst enemies of any other woman on this planet. I am not really a fan of her, but I appreciate her honesty, she even shared that it was her fault too but she just had more expectations and that she wanted more, I think anyone can relate to the feeling of just wanting to leave when you're no longer happy, he just didn't provide for her the love she needed, he's passive or not, he just has his own love language and they didn't succeed in making it work. I see nothing disrespectful here, and I am sure he has his own pov, plus she already said that she said these exact same things to him. I don't know why people are mad.
I couldn’t have enjoyed this video more! I was watching/ listening to it while getting my steps in and absolutely loved it. I couldn’t have related with Krissy more in so many aspects. The way she has been grown over the past few years it’s insane, so inspirational. I was reading few messages below the video from other women for having to say that it’s not your partner’s responsibility to help you switch off from work etc. But without wanting to be rude, like helloooo. That’s the whole point, if he/she cannot read the room when I’m back from work to help me switch off when I’m stressing about, by doing simple things to make me feel better/ happier/ home, then why is he/she there for?! We are human beings not instrument to press a switch on/off button. Anyway, love yous both! Incredible Tuesday’s topic. Lucy keep it up xxx
Damn. This was dissapointing. I've loved watching Krissy and watching her create her brand from when she was waitressing and always supported and admired her resistance, but listening to her belittle her ex that she initially pursued was so off putting. There was no need for it to be so personal. Really sad.
This is by far the most refreshing and wonderfully candid interview I've watched in a LONG time! Going through the exact same thing right now, and I am sure thousands of others watching this video are too. You are never too candid, Krissy. You are real and relatable, and it's made me love you so much more! xx
I wish this host would let Krissy finish her thoughts. She kept interrupting to input every thought that crossed HER mind first and then would follow with a whole new question. I would look forward to her answer but she continued to get cut off ☹️. I understand she’s a new podcaster and there’s always room to grow and improve so I hope this observation comes across as positive criticism . Much love ❤️
Appreciate you Krissy for being honest with us on your journey of life. Continue to stay strong and you owe no one an explanation to your love life or to someone “claim as you are the problem” which girllll, never lower your standards. Meet your mental needs ❤ or else will suffer internally! Just a tiny advice! Would wish the question to be gradually asked according to the emotion of the interviewer, eg: 22:45 where Krissy were sharing something very personal abt her family lives, it felt a drastic change of question to her new dating life, it could make people feel uncomfortable but all is well if Krissy is fine with it! Overall love the Interview thank you!
I really like Krissy, she is good at what she does and some how I agreed with some of her comments but I feel she felt the pressure to go beyond the answer she wanted to give because the interviewer keep adding questions. I like the Popcast still, she is happy and thats what matters.
First of all i love you krissyy! I hope you find love and happiness. Your videos and energy helped me alot in the past. I think you are not asking for too much all women deserve princess treatment. Sometimes when men are not giving it to us we tend to take matter into out own hands and start acting like moms. I can’t imagine how draining it is running buisnesses and going home and still feeling like you have to make decisions for your relationship. when we grow up seeing our moms working so hard and our dads doing nothing around the house we are more likely to fall into this again. It’s good that you realise this and don’t settle ❤️ you will find someone who will be there to make your life better.
Did not enjoy this interview. It’s men bashing which I don’t think is the answer. I like Krissy as a fitness influencer but she and the interviewer both don’t get it I think. If you have a boss babe attitude like I don’t need no man (although I really want one) but I am too good for any man, then how are they ever going to have a successful long term relationship with a high value man? What alpha male is going to be happy living with a woman with this kind of an attitude? Also there are always two sides to a story with break ups and both parties should take accountability.
Ok hear me out. I think Krissy wants a successful man the equivalent of her but she wants consistency with him making EFFORT to WANT her and not get comfortable. Had she not experienced the level of success she has, she would more than likely settle with someone like Brett AND be happy. She would be doing life having babies and cracking on. When you have success that is this extreme, you are going to subconsciously never be happy with mediocre. It is not enough. You expect better because your professional life is always about pursuing better. In business especially hers, you have billion dollar companies fighting for their space. How are you going to come home and get off on mr average? You aint. It’s not sustainable. You think you want it because it gives you a timeout from the pressures of running a multi million pound company. But in reality you want your equal so that you can feel supported, strengthened, solid and it’s attractive. That’s where longevity is because if someone is equally ambitious and successful they won’t want to stop at mediocre either. They want you because you’re the ‘best’ and for THAT they HAVE to work to keep you. That’s why they can’t afford to get comfortable. Krissy is way to ambitious professionally to ever be ok with anyone who isn’t on her level and doesn’t think the sun shines out of her arse 24/7. And rightly so.
I agree with this, but from my pov it seems that she is in denial about her standards and expectations. She obviously wants MORE, but so many of her points were contradictory. I believe that the fact that she has been in relationships so much has made her somewhat dependent, and I think she really would benefit from having some time off, so she can learn to fill her own emotional cup. Also, I am a bit confused about her statements here, because she was always hinting that she wanted her ex to propose? I don’t understand how that can change in just a couple of months
I have no idea why people are slating her….. she is literally asking for what everyone wants too. She is actually so much more strong for saying what all of us think. Fair enough to her and I’m super inspired by her saying don’t settle because she is right. I think some people just except everything to be sugar coated but sometimes the truth is uncomfortable for people.
Why is this woman lying? And why is the host not calling out her. Krissy Lie-la, has forgotten and has now deleted the photos of her boyfriend serving her food while she's all busy "working". Gosh..this woman is such a scam.
I was thinking this as well! She always posted stories of him giving her flowers, or hand written cards saying we are going on holiday. The last time they went on vacation she was like putting her hand in his face being like when are you going to put a ring on it.
I had to cut this short she needs to watch some sprinkle sprinkle or something . The reason why you won’t respect your partner and will keep wanting more is because he doesn’t earn as much. It goes down to the science of women. We respect men who are providers anything less and we hold it against them.
Thank you Krissy for being so real and honest. I am so sorry that in doing that you now feel you have to defend yourself and your decision. But know that you don’t. I have felt sooo guilty for years because I felt like if I ended by long term relationship for very similar reasons of needing a man to take the lead, to stand up for me, to make decisions for himself, to plan something etc that everyone around me wouldn’t understand because he’s so kind and nice and an overall great person. And he is all those things, he’s incredible and I love him and always will but these smaller things which might not be important to others are important to me. I spent years communicating my needs only to be met with the whole “I am the same person I have always been, so why do you now have a problem with it” and I just want to scream because I have grown as an individual and with that what I want for myself has changed too. You feel like you are asking for the world and man it is draining. Every aspect of it is draining and complicated because you love them but you also need to love yourself. I am proud of you for putting yourself first and doing what you needed to do for yourself. No one else needs to understand it or agree with it, it’s your decision and your life, now go and enjoy it 💗
Love Krissy! Shes so strong and brave. I hope she finds a good man that deserves her. This woman is truly an absolute inspiration and has a heart of gold. ❤️❤️❤️
I guess this is what happens when you openly talk about your love life to the public. You open yourself up for good and bad comments. People also feel they have the right to judge you. Krissy is living her life, just like we all are. She likes to be open. She’s doing what SHE wants and if that triggers you, move on and heal it’s that simple. She’s one of the best people that I follow and I hope she is not discouraged to still be open to the community. Love you Krissy ❤
YES KRISSY! You shared so many parts of you that truly show what an incredible woman you are. I relate to so much and just loved everything about this episode. Both of you were beyond great! 👏🏽👏🏽
we love you krissy and i think you shared enough because there is always someone out there going through the same struggles and i know you helped someone!
I LOVE this new Krissy era. Unapologetically herself. People will judge yet preach “team female” - what a beautiful conversation between you two. LOVVVVVED 💘💘💘💘💘
I truly am so grateful for this conversation. I relate a lot to you walking away from your relationship. Hearing this is reaffirming what I did was correct 😭
This is absolutely disappointing. When she was a guest on The Diary of CEO, she adored Brett, valued the business they built together and wished for a nice new girlfriend for him. And now this? She is delusional.
The host said "like" SO MANY TIMES! girlllll..... also the title is so misleading thought this was going to be more about business but it was all about her previous relationship
I don't think it should be your partner's responsibility to recharge you outside of work just because you choose to overload/overwork yourself. It's far healthier to have a good work balance so you aren't totally depleted outside of work and can be present with your partner. When you view it as someone else's role to recharge your energy, you're setting the relationship up to fail.
@Swim234Yes, in a relationship there should be mutual support. The part that is unhealthy is running yourself into the ground with work and feeling resentment towards your partner because they can't sufficiently refill your cup. That responsibility shouldn't be placed on someone else, especially when the other person has their own work/career too. I think the difficulty is the blurred lines of the roles within the relationship. In this scenario, Krissy was taking on the role of the main financial provider, which typically means the other partner takes on the main role of the nurturer (taking care of household tasks, looking after pets and children in a scenario where there are children). However, they had a cook and cleaner and Brett had his own career and so the roles were blurred.
Whilst I agree with most of what you’re saying - a relationship does not need to have one or the other. both partners in a relationship should aim to provide as much of both as they can (with flexibility when it comes to raising children and splitting that workload as that’s a job in itself). But there doesn’t need/ should be one and the other. Nor should it feel that if one person isn’t making as much as the other, that they have to give up on their career ambitions to be more of the support to the other. From what I understood he was a surgeon? Or some kind of doctor which is an incredibly physical and emotionally / mentally draining career so I can’t fathom how she would expect to come home and have him waiting there for her to offload on him all of her work troubles with no allowance for his own experiences
When you mentioned work/mom life brought me to tears..I feel that everyday! I'm a first time mom to a 1 1/2 year old and I started working from home since her birth to be able to be with her 24 7 and whilst I feel like it's best for her since I have no family around to help and putting her I'm daycare would break my heart. some days I'm so busy with work and I look at her in her playpen alone and I feel like an absolute failure!
Wow she has gotten such an ego and has such ridiculous expectations. You dodged a bullet Jack!!! And the 2nd one.
@LK-tp2le Brett PhD and runs circles around her as far as smarts goes. She thinks going on a couple of dates and someone she knows for less than a week is doing what she wants. Give it 6 months if you can. You think they can keep that up?
UGGHHJH
Stop talking about confidential stuff about your fam.
Your mom's covid vaccine heart attack, your dad being poor your brother being in jail. Wow...I would sue you of you were my sister.
And STOP SWEARING
Your partner isn't there to distract you from work, girl. You need to give yourself some boundaries and learn how to clock off from work; that is NOT his responsibility. You say you want an 'alpha' who will take charge, but you'll only resent him for taking you away from the work you seem to love so much. Something's gotta give.
I really enjoy krissy content but I’m surprised at the way she’s talking about Brett. Don’t really think it’s fair talking about him in this way when he was a very private person and he didn’t really like being in the videos
She seems really demanding and pushy.. that’s all I got from this podcast ..😅
While I’m no where near her net worth, I understand Krissy’s views on why her last relationship didn’t work out. Once you take money out of the equation, it seems men don’t have much else to offer. They won’t take the initiative to look at their woman and ask themselves “What can I do to make her life easier?” Can you plan a vacation? Make dinner reservations? Take my clothes to the dry cleaner? Etc Acts of service are HUGE and will be so much more appreciated than me having to tell you how to treat me.
Agreed 100%
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Most guys are generally happy to protect, provide, and do WHATEVER it takes to make their woman happy. The main problem is alot of yall pass up the good guys for the bad boys and complain why said guy doesn’t treat you right. 90% of the problems Women complain about in relationships would be solved if they didn’t go for the bad boys.
@@a1rjordan655this comment is screaming tone deaf blanket statement
100%
Honestly, part of this interview is quite dissappointing. In what world is it appropriate to openly discuss your ex to this degree on a public podcast? I really like Krissy and her content, but it is not fair. Essentially undermining her man by saying he 'wasn't alpha' and 'he was passive' and he didn't earn enough. Imagine a man sitting there and saying 'my ex just wasn't feminine enough?'. What makes it worse is within a few minutes of this she's discussing how 'he did in a week what he never could', i mean come on? I don't know, maybe I've misunderstood as I've only watched a podcast, but I would never talk about an ex publically like this. One thing I can say for sure is the 'alpha male' she craves would be put off by a podcast like this.
Totally agree!
It really comes down to your subjective perspective. For HER he wasn‘t enough, for someone else he might be. At the end it’s her decision who she wants as a partner and who might not be a good fitting for her. She has her right to stay true to her standards and if Brett didn‘t fit into that category than she has all rights to leave the relationship. And she CLEARLY said, that it didn‘t matter how much he earned and that it came down to his traits as a provider and a proactive person, NOT because they weren’t on the same level financially. And that she publicly discussed it can be seen as inappropriate on one side, but on the other side it can be empowering and inspiring for others to be more transparent about relationships in general on social media. So, I get your perspective, but there is no reason to criticize her standing up for herself in her own way.
Why do you think you know so much about her? She never once said he didn’t earn enough…. Just fyi so maybe don’t fabricate.
I feel like you’re projecting a lot here, don’t get me wrong I think maybe she could of just said they were simply different types of people but ultimately it’s her decision and it’s actually very common for relationships to break down because of this: it’s not like she is the only person who wants a masculine man….. she put it bluntly which has clearly made you feel uncomfortable but it’s not like she actually said anything bad about him.
I think she thinks she wants an “alpha male” but she most likely wants to be the alpha/in control in the relationship.
Totally agree!
This is the second time I've heard her say something that I consider somewhat sexist.
When she said "be a man" based on a restaurant reservation. It really shows more about her than about the other person, and in fact, the last time she did something similar, she said: "Someone makes you jealous and crazy because you are not like that, you are like that because of that person" which is one of the most of common excuse in domestic violence.
but the saddest thing is that she thinks she is right and she is right to say it out loud just because she was the one who made the decision.
This is really distasteful. I used to follow Krissy on social media and she was showing off the relationship 24/7 and how amazing Brett was. I get things don't work out but talking about an ex on a podcast so disrespectfully is wild. I'm sure if Brett did this, she would be so hurt.
Brett dodged a bullet this girl is completely disingenuous, fake and narcissistic. Had to unfollow her after how she acted following their breakup. Just distasteful and sickening.
This is just so wrong. The only message she got across is that her future partner should be aware that no matter how long they are together if the relationship ends she will go online and diss him as an unambitious, lazy and not so “proactive” person and share everything she held against him in a relationship with millions of people. She tries so hard to say that money is not important and then complains that she was the bread-winner in the relationship, that he lived with her, and he had a cook and a cleaner under her roof. Seems so wrong towards the other person to say these things online. She tries so hard to get people to think that she is so so happy now that she even did this. I actually feel the guy is relieved he got himself out of all this.
she did not complain about her being the bread winner, she just shared that he doesn't initiate taking care of her and planning things for both of them. just also mentioned that she also had bad traits and that he deserves better. and she has every right to want whatever she wants, if he's very passive and is just laying there only receiving then what's the point of being in a relationship ?
I feel like you‘re projecting your own problems onto her because most of the things you‘ve interpreted have nothing to do with the things she said.
@@LuluLolitta💯.
I can’t relate and see no where to your statement on Krissy but genuinely she seems honest with the way she express. Krissy did not diss her ex partner but instead she is being real of what she wants and expects which I think it is common sense and never lower our basic standards, that’s what I love about Krissy. Everything has to have a balance, either way the partner should go well along in any situation and being 💯 supportive & importantly understanding.
I agree, this is so disrespectful of him of course we don’t know the ins and outs but the dude wasn’t a bad guy she has painted him as awful.
She is so immature and really needs some lessons on how to talk - strong women are graceful this isn’t a example of a strong women.
I feel like Krissy really needs some therapy when it comes to relationships. It’s not her partners job to be her personal assistant for her outside of work life. I totally understand wanting your man to be “alpha” but just because your work/financial life is so high level, doesn’t mean his day to day stresses and life are more minimal to hers. Like he probably comes home stressed and needs emotional support too. It sounds like Krissy brought work home and wasn’t available to be that person to him either. And if she acts so alpha, I can imagine her putting her foot down with anything she can’t control. So it’s possible he became passive because of krissys need to control everything.
It’s so strange to rely on your partner for your outside of work distraction lol. Both people need to be communicating and supporting each other emotionally.
@o.Nyx.o I think it’s very difficult for 2 alphas to be together too. And that it would be very difficult to be an alpha at work which takes up almost all your time anyway, and then being able to switch that alpha mode off while at home. Especially if you’re the one paying for the home, the food, the furniture, etc.. there would have to be MAJOR work done introspectively to be able to switch out of that alpha mode, but also to show your partner that you’re not the alpha in the relationship. For someone so controlling and perfectionist, I wonder if she can truly see how she can be perceived by a partner. People with that much of a need to control, then come home and start arguing with their partner on how they want stuff done and that’s what can create a passive man. Because he just wants to please her and let it be whatever way she wants. I kinda think if a truly strong alpha man came in, she’d like it for a few months and then would get real tired of it if he was putting his foot down on stuff. Like this is where we are eating, watching, doing, etc. I don’t think she’s able to let some control go honestly.
Plus it is usually the woman that is the source of emotional support in a relationship (men are less in touch with their feelings, women are) so it just makes no sense that she wanted that from him when he clearly was not the type of person
Also I'm just re-watching this to process this again and Krissy saying she won't let a man meet her family unless they are engaged.... so he doesn't get to meet the family he's marrying into before asking you to marry him? I mean, it's her life so she can move forward how she wants but I would feel so awkward in a relationship with someone long enough that I'm considering marriage but still haven't met their family? Not because I'm worried I won't like them but because I want to see my partner in a family dynamic.. how they interact with the people they care about... You're just going to hide your partner from those that mean the most to you until they propose? Puts a weird pressure on engagement.
@@gabbys2468I think it’s best when two people are emotionally intelligent and have both masculine and feminine energy. She doesn’t seem to get that
It says a lot about a person who’s willing to come out about her private life. It’s just distasteful, with too many contradictions.
Also Lucy doesn’t have to agree with everything that she says or relay everything back to her baby.
The thing is that she was the one who approached this guy and from the time she announced their relationship on IG she made it clear that he has a “DR” title, she made it a point to call him Dr. Bret on multiple occasions, I can only conclude that it was important to her for him to be “somebody” in the face of her huge female based following but you were the one who approached him, didn’t you notice he wasn’t “the alpha male” type when you approached him? Maybe he is quite content the way he is and you so desperately wanted this guy to be something he isn’t. Your expectations are not his responsibilities.
What. 😂😂😂😂 I haven’t started the podcast yet, BUT most people who earn their “DR” titles love to be addressed that way because they work hard to earn that title and went to school for years to get it! It is a damn big deal that most people don’t have and something to be very proud of so that’s probably why she referred to him w his earned title on multiple occasions. You’re criticizing her for nothing. I follow her and never once have I thought she was trying to make him appear to be “somebody” …especially not if she was trying to credit him for something he earned 💀
Where does she talk about approaching/pursuing brett? Ive never heard this
💯. She spoke about approaching his at the gym and pasting him into her life. And then complains of him being passive?
Krissy is speaking in a lot of hypotheticals😂. When she meets a man she really falls in love with, everything she is saying will go out the window. She is speaking like someone who is hyper independent ( trauma response), self absorbed (in the best way) and focused on success. The truth of the matter is, her number one priority is her businesses, her work. And that’s okay. She has been so successful in her career, that I feel she thinks that’s how her relationships should go as well. But relationships are complex and people are complex. You will never find a perfect person. Everyone needs to do the work on themselves and with their partner. I don’t believe Krissy wants a partner, she wants a “man” and those are two very different things. She wants an “alpha” who will lead her and take initiative more so than her in every aspect because that will make her feel more feminine. However, how can a man lead you when you’re okay with him not making as much money as you? How can a man lead you when you claim you don’t need a man? How can a man lead you when you are so proudly an alpha female? How can a man lead you when you’re saying you wont live together, he wont meet your family, etc? You’re already placing all these ultimatums than an alpha male will not be okay with. That alpha male you so badly want is not going to bow to your whim. She’ll realize when you’re together, sometimes you do have the same friends and the same hobbies and the same space. She’ll realize that man will take first place above family and friends and even business. Krissy is only 29 and though she may feel she knows a lot because being successful at such a young age provides a sense of independence and self assuredness, everything in life doesn’t always work the same. People are complex and if you want to find a partner, not just a “man”, you’re going to have to stick around and do the hard work and be gracious and forgiving. Brett didn’t do anything wrong, he just wasn’t the “man” she wanted. That’s okay.
That’s a really good comment 👏🏼
If she reads any comment it should be yours..
Mic drop 🎤
Very poignant. Her number one is her business to the point that even her body shuts down but she doesn’t listen. She grew up with not much and I think it causes her to fear losing everything instead of living in faith and peace. Prayers for her soul and her peace.
Imagine how hard must be for her exes to her this after a breakup, imagine if Brett speaks out about her like she does “I don’t need an Alfa girlfriend or I need a women in the kitchen” a lot of what she says don’t make sense and other does. Let just stick with if you don’t are happy in your relationship step away but you don’t necessary have yo make comments that can and will only hurt your ex partner
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This interview was beyond disappointing on so many levels. The contradictions in both their opinions was so ridiculous. Now don’t get me wrong I think krissy has done amazing professionally and I’ve followed her for some time. I have huge respect for her work ethic and her success. However you can share your personal life without bringing the other person down once you’ve separated. We’ve all had failed relationships and spoken badly of them to our girlfriends but doing it on a public platform when you have a huge following is immature. Especially when that other person does not have the platform you do.
Can you imagine a male presenter turning round and saying ‘so she was living under your roof?’ The way us women would be coming for a man like that!
The whole interview was nauseating and hugely disappointing.
She’s clearly talking from the anger , maybe she should had wait to talk about it. Seems very narcissistic the way she explained things here
@@omairaaortegait sounds narcissistic because she is
Not saying there is no place for narcissistic people in society. There are many positives, such as their energy, often charisma and success. Issues really do come in friendships, work and personal relationships
She is a hardcore narcissist. I had to unfollow her after these shenanigans. She is dragging this man’s name through the mud on a platform of millions while currently fly flaunting another man constantly on her stories. Extremely distasteful and evil spirited. I can’t take her anymore.
If anything it makes sense why she isn’t married and keeps losing long term relationships now in a new one the girl needs help
Hello! Timestamps would really help on navigating easily through the video. Thank you
I really don’t understand how this is inspiring. Having a one sided conversation about your ex personality traits online in unfair and mean. You are exposing him and can impact his next relationships.
If Krissy wants so bad to keep her next relationship private, why didn’t she keep the break up private which is the graceful thing to do?
If the women’s attitude all the time is ‘’I am the breadwinner, you leave under my roof, this is my house, lets do the things in my way’’ is pretty obvious any alpha male will run. It's unfair to think the problem was that he isn't alpha, he just genuinely didn’t feel like an alpha but maybe will feel in the next relationship. We can change depending on the person we are with. It's all about compatibility. So is unfair to give him this ''flaw'' labels.
And also I believe any alpha male watching this podcast will be turned off. I am. This is cringe.
I used to be a mega fan of Krissy but slowly I am opening my eyes and now I only see herself stroking her ego all the time. Just pay attention.
And she lying so many times as well
@@ArtetaPulisright? Didn’t she said Brett would force her to eat when she was too busy working and forget to.. and now on the podcast she’s saying he wouldn’t plan things and she would be hungry after work and there was no dinner/food made ??
I’ve been there done that and now i’m with a man that basically takes care of my needs and loves me entirely. If I slightly show i’m upset he’ll do ANYTHING just to make my day better. I pray for Krissy to find the love she wants! NEVER SETTLE! and the girlies that know know! What one man couldn’t provide for you someone else’s will give
what your man give maybe someone else wouldn't give,, point is no is perfect or equal. she's been in a relationship for so long time and its a waste of time for both of them. she could have worked and made him like what she wants...
So she’s an alpha female and wants a submissive man but also needs to be a bit alpha but have feminine emotional energy and think about romantic things? She’s draining she doesn’t even know what she wants
She contradicts herself a lot on her wants and needs e.g she doesnt care about money but then points out that she is a breadwinner is a clear contradiction. This podcast seems more like a therapy session than something to speak publicly about
My bf and I both have masculine and feminine energy emotional intelligence goes along way along with active listening
Why did she asked “was he living under your root? 😫🤯 that’s a crazy question 😂😂😂
Exactly what I thought. They decided to live together, she didn’t take him out of the street. Weeird.
Aww i love your podcasts and this is nothing against you Lucy, I feel Krissy has shared far too much about her ex. It's not fair to talk about someone who is not present about their financial situation, being alpha etc and what they were good/bad at in a relationship. Just move forward from it with your head high! This is where so many relationships of this day and age go wrong, unrealistic expectations and talking to other people about your issues rather than talking it through privately with who it involves. Just my opinion! But as I said love the pod!
Why you so pressed
I see your point, but I felt Krissy was extremely respectful throughout the conversation. She also mentioned on multiple occasions that her ex is a wonderful person and that it didn’t work out for mutual reasons and differences. She didn’t paint herself to be perfect.
Many women follow her and look to her for real life guidance and help in tough situations. I think she should be entitled to share the realities of navigating life as a young, adult woman, not just the positives.
I do agree the other individual is not there to defend themselves, but at the end of the day, she is in her right to share her truth authentically.
@cuba3rocks that was a get out, "he's the most loyal caring beautiful person but... he sucks at this this this this & this." You have to remember thousands of people know who this man is through Krissy choosing to share him online and then when it's over talking negatively about his traits is not fair to him. she could have given advice generally in a way that doesn't impact the man she claimed to have loved. If it was the other way round and the man went online sharing how Krissy is in a relationship I'm sure it would be viewed very differently and upset her tremendously to watch back. If it was a chat between two friends, fair enough, but not for the whole world to see. she even said towards the end of the relationship the man tried to adapt his ways for her and she was having none of it which is not his fault. Like I said you can have these thoughts but don't blast him on the Internet it's not cool.
@selenacalvillo5876 why you so pressed by my opinion?
is it really unrealistic to want someone to literally make an effort? take care of you? to male you laugh and have fun and deep conversations with?
look how much she’s built for herself. if she thought anything was “unrealistic” she wouldn’t be where she is
The relationship feels like one for a bestfriend, not for a public podcast. Feels like airing dirty laundry.
Lucy please let Krissy talk about her life and not you about yours!!
Yes omg
Sounds like Krissy emptied her cup at work and then expected her partner to fill her cup back up for her with little reciprocity. Which is… selfish. But good luck looking for that ‘alpha’ man. I’m sure it’ll work out.
I really respect Krissy for being so open about her situation. It makes me sad to see any negative comments, I believe wether we agree or disagree with her choices, these are her choices and her life. We are all different, with different prioritise, dreams and goals in life. She just shared her own journey and I think that's so brave of her to do so. Also, let's bare in mind this was only an hour long conversation, there has been so much more going on in her life that led her to these choices and mindset that we don't know about. We all need to be more kind to each other and celebrate other's achievement. Thank you for this podcast
Krissy saying she wants to keep her next relationship private…ummmm🧐 she’s plastered it on her social media more than Brett
KRISSY my girl, you've changed my life, my mindset, and how I view my self-worth in the short year and a half that I've been following you. I will support you forever and eva, thank you for this vulnerability 💖
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Love this podcast because of Krissy’s realness but a critique on podcasters end, this podcast is more about the person you’re interviewing, it’s nice to relate to some things but talking about your experience when we’re here to tune into hers kind of takes away from the podcast. Just a helpful thought but loved krissys answers
totally agree! hope she sees these comments and can learn from it
When you are an alpha woman and the provider, it's very difficult to find an alpha man to take charge of your life outside of work because alpha men are rarely attracted to alpha women as the strong masculine energy from both sides just isn't compatible.
Just because that’s the usual couple dynamic we’re used to doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist or just rarely exists. People are changing, our culture is changing. More and more woman become very successful. I almost feel like you‘re saying that you have to remain the ”smaller“ women in order to want to have an alpha male to be attracted to you. If that is so then it would all just come down to the fact that alpha men are intimidated by alpha women. That’s not right and that’s really not how it should be. And people or males, who reflect on themselves should know that.
@@sarahdarwischMy point is that two strong alphas rarely work as they're both competing for the same role in the relationship. I'm not saying it has to be the woman being less alpha, I'm saying if the woman wants to take the alpha role in the relationship, she has to accept the man will be less alpha.
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Since when do we call people who brag about being able to afford anything they want, any trip they want, any item, and no man being able to live up to it humble actually? This girl does really have a big dick energy but in such an off-putting sense. Imagine being in a relationship with someone with that belittling attitude towards you. I really hope she gets all the healing she needs…
good thing she’ll never be in a relationship with you, the .
also, the fact that you’re only pressed about her being able to provide for herself says a lot about you.
she gave multimple examples of other things she wants in a relationship that do not include money
@@rebe94 I really have nothing against her being successful. I admit that she has done what not so many can and I truly admire her for that. It is just that in the interview she came off as too boastful about what she can provide for herself without a man and then we should call that being humble? She needs therapy before she moves on to a new man with that attitude.
@@Scottzh why does anyone need therapy if they are aware of their ability to provide for themselves without needing a relationship? would you comment that a man needs therapy if a man said he could provide for himself without a partner and worry about calling him humble? genuinely curious
@@littleamy20 if he has the need to boast about it in front of millions and belittle the opposite sex of not being able to do it too then yeah
@o.Nyx.o , why is it trashy? she just mentioned that she can do a lot for herself and that what she expects is something more than what she actually got? is it wrong to have standards? or to want more? she even said multiple times that money wasn't the issue at all etc, I think you're just hating to hate.
During this interview, I think Krissy didn’t use the correct wording to get her point across regarding her old relationship and what she wants in a new relationship. I could tell she wants a partner (someone to share the workload of life with), but the way she was explaining it made it seem like she wanted a personal assistant for a husband. Nothing bad against her, she just didn’t explain that right. I totally understand the feeling of being in a relationship where you do everything and you feel like your BF/GF is not supporting or sharing the relationships workload. That can be exhausting and frustrating! Both individuals need to give some effort and show that they care for each other. If she is providing a home and being the breadwinner/paying for everything, the least he can do is cook a meal and clean the house. She shouldn’t have to hire a cook and cleaner.
Interviewer … she says “ like” over and over and always gives her personal stories. I’m sorry if that’s disrespectful but Krissy Cella is the main focus here. Besides her wealth and success , she is very intelligent and charismatic. Instead of dragging her into “ dating/ who’s your next man” this interview could have covered so many important points for women out there. That’s too bad.
Much love to both of you. ❤
Yeah it felt a bit like those people’s magazines.
This doesn’t sound very humble lol I feel like she’s constantly needing to remind everyone of how rich she is and how she can afford everything. Especially the part where she just threw in that she has a personal chef and cleaner at her house. I dunno.
This interview was actually difficult to listen to, there was a toxic energy and i was cringing at times. Lucy you did so well with everything.
For a man step into their alpha energy, he needs a women with some feminine eneregy for balance.
Lucy should learn patience and how to listen to a guest more!!! We came here to hear Krissy❤️
thissssss
Omg! YES! I was listening on Spotify and I came here just to make this comment!! She doesn’t let Krissy speak 😅
i thought the same!!!! it was annoying every time she cuts her
Yes! I was listening to it in the car, and I had to constantly change the volume, she was so loud, and was interrupting Krissy so many times. :/
She was making a fool of herself...the host had to interrupt
We are no one to judge what someone wants from a man or a relationship. She is free to seek whatever she wants in a partner, and there’ll be a person that will fulfill her needs. I also feel like the interviewer twisted Krissys words and her follow up questions were poor. I hope Krissy doesn’t shut more interviews in the future because of this experience.
I felt the exact same way
As someone who has followed Krissy for as long as I can remember she is truly an inspiration to me. My mom fled from Kosovo to Sweden during the war and has worked really hard for me and my siblings to get an education and her willingness to sacrifice everything for us is such an inspiration for me that I am thankful for every day. Krissys hard work and dedication has motivated me since i used to watch her instagram posts workouts back in the days! She is the reason I started working out for my wellbeing. She has always remained down to earth, no matter what, an Albanian queen
I relate to this too! She really makes us proud. Albanian queen!!! ❤️🇦🇱
I feel like there was a lot of interruption between the interview. Especially the interviewer contradicted Krissy when she asked KRISSY for HER personal view on finances within a relationship. Girl you are the one meant to interview her and wait for her answer. No offense but we wanna hear the guest’s answers, thoughts, wishes, and stories uninterrupted. Let her talk!!!
She’s gunna find it very difficult to find someone with that grandiosity, a alpha male wants someone submissive not another alpha
Exactly!!💯💯💯💯📣📣📣
I had no idea about this alpha thing until I got here, still not sure what is is.😅
Krissy nice you’re being noble, but let’s be honest when you say ‘I’m not with a guy for the money’ yeh fine but if you want to be in your ‘feminine energy’ a man needs to be alpha and 90% men only feel alpha is financially they are the provider.
The "clock" is not a social one. NATURE puts a clock on all our lives, no matter where we are in life. The problems arise when a woman wants to have a baby and faces a lot of challenges. Age is a major factor when it comes to conceiving and the pregnancy journey itself. I make these arguments to jolt people from the wishful thinking we suffer from as a society. It takes far too long and far too late to realise where the issues were.
This was the ABSOLUTE BEST interview/podcast I’ve ever seen SO HONEST so real and raw of what we women are now and WANT in a relationship and in our single lives as well AAAAA so good BOTH of you. Krissy THANK YOU for being such an AMAZING woman. Love from Portugal ❤️
Strangely enough, I broke up with my ex husband for quite the same reason. I was tired of having to be everything in the relationship and the one who always had to step up to fix things and make things better. But then when I was down, I was so lonely because there was noone here who could step up for me.
Ya a relationship takes two to tangle. Two people have to put in the effort to want it to work.
Not me sittin here sippin a glass of wine at the airport excited to see my family who have been nothing but there and supportive for my most recent intense and beyond complex ending of a relationship. Thank you Krissy, for sharing these intimate and raw moments that were much needed for me to hear and relate to. If only we could be friends …truly an inspiration and humble badass, keep doing you girl
Diving into discussions about 'alpha' traits and star signs is SO cringe-worthy, and veers into the realm of pseudoscience. I couldn't help but notice Krissy's emphasis on intellectual stimulation in relationships, especially considering her ex's STEM background, which likely implies a different intellectual orientation.
When it comes to intellectual stimulation, delving into genuinely thought-provoking content, like philosophical works or in-depth societal analyses by thinkers like Hegel, Marx, and Baudrillard, can be more enriching than some low IQ's take on psychology (*cough* The Rational Male 🤢🤮🔫).
It's about exploring the complexities of life beyond surface-level perspectives.
True intellectual growth often requires dedicated effort and a willingness to challenge one's own beliefs. Money can provide the luxury of time for this pursuit.
On a lighter note, I'm a fan of the Oner leggings!
I love Kristy’s app. Her content has done wonders to my body, mind, and soul. As a professional, I admire how far she’s come in her career, but I can see (based on this interview) that she has a lot of inner healing work to do. What I thought at first was, “This girl wants a personal assistant”. It’s not right to talk about an ex the way she did, that’s her side of how she saw things in the relationship. There is always two sides. Although, I never met the guy, but based on what she shared on IG, he seemed very supportive of her and her career.
I agree with what she said, she doesn’t know what she wants in a relationship because she wants to fill that hole she has. To have a male alpha you need to do the healing and heal your male alpha energy. Male alphas are the providers in every aspect. Female alphas need to learn how to let the male alpha take control (just like we ask them to do). I understand her, it took me a lot to heal inner child. In order to find a male alpha we need to forgive our fathers. It’s very complex to explain because this topic is a very sensitive one that can be taken out of context.
Don’t give up Krissy and also don’t run away from your healing.
Also, she needs to heal her female energy. Her soul is very wounded.
The interviewer keeps on interrupting the interviewee. You don't need to comment at every single phrase she says. Please let your interviewee finish what they want to say, instead of interrupting after every word.
Agreed. It was a bit annoying.
I just watched the entire podcast and it felt like only 10min went by. Made me feel like I was catching up with some good friends ❤ Raw and inspirational, loved it !!!
I didnt like the direction of this interview I was hoping to learn how Krissy is such a phenomenal woman to inspire us fellow women but the whole time it was about her relationship like really
I had to unfollow her because of her extreme feminist victim woe is me attitude. A lot of alpha females get like this, they want an alpha male but then they also want them to love them unconditionally and be perfect, love is not perfection, love is hard work and compromise. The other part of the equation is that most alpha men don’t want alpha women they want submissive women. So that’s why you always see these beautiful, rich, smart alpha women alone.
Also you need to know the kids and future things on the first date cause if you don’t align what’s the point? She’s so delusional she’s going to find someone.
I enjoyed listening to this episode and it certainly made Krissy seem really relatable. However it also felt like such a missed opportunity. She is SUCH a successful business owner and yet this was basically brushed over. We could have listened and learnt to Krissy talk about business, confidence, her career journey etc, so I was disappointed to see Lucy didn’t take it in this direction.
I appreciate this it Topic Tuesday and there is a format to how the TT questions used to work on IG. However, it doesn’t really feel like TT anymore, nor does it feel like a proper podcast. For that I think you need way more focus on the guest and less on Lucy.
Lucy is a terrible interviewer. Please stop speaking over your guests and finishing their sentences. I could also tell that Krissy was getting a bit uncomfortable and exasperated when you would ask really personal questions. Do better please this was painful to watch.
I feel like the host didn't allow Krissy to properly express herself, words got twisted...
„I want everyone around me to not worry about the money, because what is the point of me having a lot of it“ .. your heart is so big and genuine 💕💕
Krissy, I've been there. Being in a relationship with someone passive drains the relationship. Being the to one keep the fire going is draining. One day I hope we will meet somebody who can gives us what we need and vice versa.
It’s so interesting reading these comments there’s so much to say! Suprised to see so many comments bashing Krissy but here are some of my thoughts.
1. People are saying that Krissy is wrong and two alphas in a relationship won’t work - she doesn’t want to be the alpha in the relationship! She said she wants to lean into her feminine energy and have her man take the lead. She’s happy to be the breadwinner but wants him to take the lead in other ways, which she mentioned several times. What on earth is wrong with that?
2. Expressing the areas she found dissatisfaction in her relationship does not equate to disrespecting her partner
3. This is more to do with the host but Krissy could have stepped in to defend her ex / correct the host. The phrase ‘living under your roof’ strongly implies that he was lazy and contributed nothing to running the household. Unless that is true, the statement is unfair. Granted the property might have belonged to Krissy but him living in her home is perfectly okay, so using that phrase which has negative connotations opens room for people to question his character in a negative way. This is the only thing I thing that could have been disrespectful towards him.
4. I don’t know if Krissy and the host have a genuine friendship but I hope so. This interview was leaning more towards the unprofessional side which would be fine if they actually have a friendship outside this and the concept of the podcast / episode is two friends catching up or something to that effect. The host had a lot of bias, didn’t once challenge Krissy to highlight her own flaws, and continuously projected her views towards Krissy. Interviewers need to be less biased, more open to asking questions and challenging answers rather than being so agreeable with the answers that a guest gives. I haven’t seen any other podcasts episodes so I’m not certain but I would be shocked if they weren’t friends or if this is the same vibe with other guests that the host doesn’t have a prior relationship with.
5. The internet is always so nosey and curious when people with a following enter a relationship or see one end. I can’t understand why people are upset with Krissy actually being open about the reasons her relationship broke down, like stop acting like you didn’t want to know! She said plenty of positive things about him before even talking about the things she didn’t like. Perhaps people are upset because they think he seemed like the perfect guy and that they would love someone like him. Listen very well - she said the man lacked initiative and wasn’t proactive, that’s a valid reason to walk away!
I hope this inspires people not to stay in something because it feels familiar, or they’re afraid to start afresh. Be bold enough to walk away if you’re dissatisfied, know what you want and need and don’t accept less. That’s my takeaway.
Loved this!!!! I really love Krissy for being so genuine and actually funny, but seriously I loved listening to her and I hope there’s only the best things coming for her in the future
I have to say, I find it interesting that at 7:34-7:38 Krissy says her Athletes/Trainers for her brands are to know everyone's names on set, yet in Makayla Merie's "London UK Vlog - Introducing your new EvolveYou Trainer" TH-cam video at 22:31-22:52 she lists off everyone's names on set, except for one individual named Ben. I found it incredibly absent minded of Makayla to remember every crew member's name except for one. Poor Ben must have felt awful, ESPECIALLY since she was filming him. Follow through with what you preach Krissy, as not all of your athletes do it..
What are you fishing for? Everyone can forget a name ffs
This is so dramatic lol. Have you never forgotten a name in your life?
The problem is she pushed away a man that actually loved her before the success. Now she’s stuck dating gold digger men, or insecure men for the rest of the dating pool. Unless somehow, she manages to land a man more successful than she is, but those men come with problems of their own - bigger dating pool and selection of women, conflicting schedules etc. It’s a hard life being a woman at the top, more than 60% of women in senior positions and business owners report loneliness. I don’t envy the position she is in, she’s done so much good in her own life, and she deserves to find happiness. I’m glad she’s at least somewhat reconciled that she might be alone for a while. Most successful women in business meet their husbands much earlier in life, hopefully, she finds someone that can fit into her life soon!
I thought I was the only one going through a situation like this. But I can see it is more common than I thought. Thank god you have the money to leave. Not all of us have that privilege. You're a role model in all ways. I love you always and forever. ❤
OMG I'm an OG krissy follower, and I'm in tears, it's so relatable and so exhaustive to be in your masculine so much, I just want someone who takes care of shit at least ONCE :( everyone giving her hate for this doesn't get how exhausting it is running your own business and having a passive mate
My dads got the velcro wallet and he LOVES them 😭😭always tells me to get a new multi fold one😂❤ sweetest softest funniest man ever 🥰
the comments are all over the place but i feel like Krissy handled this with grace. you go girl 🌟
Also, YES to not living together!! Healthy boundaries in a relationship are essential too. We waited till marriage and it was so worth it 🤍
But what if you got married and then found that you're not compatible in the way you each live in your marital home? Hairbrained idea, to me!
I'm half way through this podcast, and honestly as a 24 year old - essentially 25 in a month - I will say Krissy has so much advice I have taken to heart. I am planning to go sober in January and just focus on me (not bc/of a new year's resolution - but it is a starting point for me to grow). I love my relationship, but she has given me a new way to look at it and only grow together. I hope everything lasts, and I only wish the best for Krissy as well. She has been a great inspiration for almost 2 years now, and she has opened my eyes to a whole new world of health and passion. My passion has changed, and I hope to work alongside her in some way or form in the future. Idk what yet, but I can feel it. Keep up this amazing work Krissy ❤
I wish you all the best on your journey to being sober 🫶🏼 I never was a heavy drinker but I stopped drinking alcohol 5 years completely and it was one of the best decisions I ever made.
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I loved this conversation! Both Krissy and Lucy being open and honest. I think most the comments don't get the concept of this podcast, it's a conversation not an interview
Love Krissy but it is truly sad how the topic of her relationship dominated most of this interview, appreciate she was just answering the question but why was the relationship / break up raised first, before anything else, by the interviewer? So many other topics could have been covered that are actually central to her and her business / journey
I still have Krissy’s original PDF from 10 years ago and use it to this day. Love her ❤️
From where can i get that
women bringing down a woman in this comment section just cause she shared her thoughts and what went wrong is so mind blowing, you ladies are the worst enemies of any other woman on this planet. I am not really a fan of her, but I appreciate her honesty, she even shared that it was her fault too but she just had more expectations and that she wanted more, I think anyone can relate to the feeling of just wanting to leave when you're no longer happy, he just didn't provide for her the love she needed, he's passive or not, he just has his own love language and they didn't succeed in making it work. I see nothing disrespectful here, and I am sure he has his own pov, plus she already said that she said these exact same things to him. I don't know why people are mad.
I couldn’t have enjoyed this video more! I was watching/ listening to it while getting my steps in and absolutely loved it. I couldn’t have related with Krissy more in so many aspects. The way she has been grown over the past few years it’s insane, so inspirational. I was reading few messages below the video from other women for having to say that it’s not your partner’s responsibility to help you switch off from work etc. But without wanting to be rude, like helloooo. That’s the whole point, if he/she cannot read the room when I’m back from work to help me switch off when I’m stressing about, by doing simple things to make me feel better/ happier/ home, then why is he/she there for?! We are human beings not instrument to press a switch on/off button. Anyway, love yous both! Incredible Tuesday’s topic. Lucy keep it up xxx
What a beautiful conversation!☺️ Love watching Krissy grow!!
Damn. This was dissapointing. I've loved watching Krissy and watching her create her brand from when she was waitressing and always supported and admired her resistance, but listening to her belittle her ex that she initially pursued was so off putting. There was no need for it to be so personal. Really sad.
Where does she talk about initially approaching/pursuing brett? Do you have a link? Ive never heard this before
@@Alisha-zc2zt She made many videos about it on her Instagram when they met
This is by far the most refreshing and wonderfully candid interview I've watched in a LONG time! Going through the exact same thing right now, and I am sure thousands of others watching this video are too. You are never too candid, Krissy. You are real and relatable, and it's made me love you so much more! xx
I wish this host would let Krissy finish her thoughts. She kept interrupting to input every thought that crossed HER mind first and then would follow with a whole new question. I would look forward to her answer but she continued to get cut off ☹️. I understand she’s a new podcaster and there’s always room to grow and improve so I hope this observation comes across as positive criticism . Much love ❤️
Appreciate you Krissy for being honest with us on your journey of life. Continue to stay strong and you owe no one an explanation to your love life or to someone “claim as you are the problem” which girllll, never lower your standards. Meet your mental needs ❤ or else will suffer internally!
Just a tiny advice! Would wish the question to be gradually asked according to the emotion of the interviewer, eg: 22:45 where Krissy were sharing something very personal abt her family lives, it felt a drastic change of question to her new dating life, it could make people feel uncomfortable but all is well if Krissy is fine with it! Overall love the Interview thank you!
I really like Krissy, she is good at what she does and some how I agreed with some of her comments but I feel she felt the pressure to go beyond the answer she wanted to give because the interviewer keep adding questions. I like the Popcast still, she is happy and thats what matters.
I met her this summer at the airport while I was working and it’s amazing that she is the same as we see online. A truly role model ❤️
First of all i love you krissyy! I hope you find love and happiness. Your videos and energy helped me alot in the past. I think you are not asking for too much all women deserve princess treatment. Sometimes when men are not giving it to us we tend to take matter into out own hands and start acting like moms. I can’t imagine how draining it is running buisnesses and going home and still feeling like you have to make decisions for your relationship. when we grow up seeing our moms working so hard and our dads doing nothing around the house we are more likely to fall into this again. It’s good that you realise this and don’t settle ❤️ you will find someone who will be there to make your life better.
I found this so relatable and I thank you a ton for sharing your story. You’ve helped more people than you know!!
Did not enjoy this interview. It’s men bashing which I don’t think is the answer. I like Krissy as a fitness influencer but she and the interviewer both don’t get it I think. If you have a boss babe attitude like I don’t need no man (although I really want one) but I am too good for any man, then how are they ever going to have a successful long term relationship with a high value man? What alpha male is going to be happy living with a woman with this kind of an attitude? Also there are always two sides to a story with break ups and both parties should take accountability.
Ok hear me out. I think Krissy wants a successful man the equivalent of her but she wants consistency with him making EFFORT to WANT her and not get comfortable. Had she not experienced the level of success she has, she would more than likely settle with someone like Brett AND be happy. She would be doing life having babies and cracking on. When you have success that is this extreme, you are going to subconsciously never be happy with mediocre. It is not enough. You expect better because your professional life is always about pursuing better. In business especially hers, you have billion dollar companies fighting for their space. How are you going to come home and get off on mr average? You aint. It’s not sustainable. You think you want it because it gives you a timeout from the pressures of running a multi million pound company. But in reality you want your equal so that you can feel supported, strengthened, solid and it’s attractive. That’s where longevity is because if someone is equally ambitious and successful they won’t want to stop at mediocre either. They want you because you’re the ‘best’ and for THAT they HAVE to work to keep you. That’s why they can’t afford to get comfortable. Krissy is way to ambitious professionally to ever be ok with anyone who isn’t on her level and doesn’t think the sun shines out of her arse 24/7. And rightly so.
I agree with this, but from my pov it seems that she is in denial about her standards and expectations. She obviously wants MORE, but so many of her points were contradictory. I believe that the fact that she has been in relationships so much has made her somewhat dependent, and I think she really would benefit from having some time off, so she can learn to fill her own emotional cup. Also, I am a bit confused about her statements here, because she was always hinting that she wanted her ex to propose? I don’t understand how that can change in just a couple of months
I have no idea why people are slating her….. she is literally asking for what everyone wants too. She is actually so much more strong for saying what all of us think. Fair enough to her and I’m super inspired by her saying don’t settle because she is right. I think some people just except everything to be sugar coated but sometimes the truth is uncomfortable for people.
Why is this woman lying? And why is the host not calling out her. Krissy Lie-la, has forgotten and has now deleted the photos of her boyfriend serving her food while she's all busy "working". Gosh..this woman is such a scam.
I was thinking this as well! She always posted stories of him giving her flowers, or hand written cards saying we are going on holiday. The last time they went on vacation she was like putting her hand in his face being like when are you going to put a ring on it.
I had to cut this short she needs to watch some sprinkle sprinkle or something . The reason why you won’t respect your partner and will keep wanting more is because he doesn’t earn as much. It goes down to the science of women. We respect men who are providers anything less and we hold it against them.
in the future, i think it would be much better if you silence the swear words instead of the harsh "bleep" sound. but great podcast! loved it!
This was by far the best podcast yet. The conversation just flowed and she was a great guest! Excited to see who’s next
Thank you Krissy for being so real and honest. I am so sorry that in doing that you now feel you have to defend yourself and your decision. But know that you don’t. I have felt sooo guilty for years because I felt like if I ended by long term relationship for very similar reasons of needing a man to take the lead, to stand up for me, to make decisions for himself, to plan something etc that everyone around me wouldn’t understand because he’s so kind and nice and an overall great person. And he is all those things, he’s incredible and I love him and always will but these smaller things which might not be important to others are important to me. I spent years communicating my needs only to be met with the whole “I am the same person I have always been, so why do you now have a problem with it” and I just want to scream because I have grown as an individual and with that what I want for myself has changed too. You feel like you are asking for the world and man it is draining. Every aspect of it is draining and complicated because you love them but you also need to love yourself. I am proud of you for putting yourself first and doing what you needed to do for yourself. No one else needs to understand it or agree with it, it’s your decision and your life, now go and enjoy it 💗
Two inspirational real and smart women sharing their beautiful knowledge and journey with the world. Thank you for this content, it’s a blessing ❤
Love Krissy! Shes so strong and brave. I hope she finds a good man that deserves her. This woman is truly an absolute inspiration and has a heart of gold. ❤️❤️❤️
Amen!
“Full time mom and work full time” cannot coexist. One will take from the other.
She's having a baby now, this is so crazy how much life can change. So proud of her for everything she's achieved!
I guess this is what happens when you openly talk about your love life to the public. You open yourself up for good and bad comments. People also feel they have the right to judge you. Krissy is living her life, just like we all are. She likes to be open. She’s doing what SHE wants and if that triggers you, move on and heal it’s that simple. She’s one of the best people that I follow and I hope she is not discouraged to still be open to the community. Love you Krissy ❤
YES KRISSY! You shared so many parts of you that truly show what an incredible woman you are. I relate to so much and just loved everything about this episode. Both of you were beyond great! 👏🏽👏🏽
“Men don’t have the hormones”- please can you just stop talking if you don’t know what you’re on about 🥴😂
we love you krissy and i think you shared enough because there is always someone out there going through the same struggles and i know you helped someone!
I LOVE this new Krissy era. Unapologetically herself. People will judge yet preach “team female” - what a beautiful conversation between you two. LOVVVVVED 💘💘💘💘💘
I truly am so grateful for this conversation. I relate a lot to you walking away from your relationship. Hearing this is reaffirming what I did was correct 😭
This is absolutely disappointing. When she was a guest on The Diary of CEO, she adored Brett, valued the business they built together and wished for a nice new girlfriend for him. And now this? She is delusional.
Stop interrupting and making it about your stories. Let the people you are interviewing finish!!!
The host said "like" SO MANY TIMES! girlllll..... also the title is so misleading thought this was going to be more about business but it was all about her previous relationship