Are you a successful criticizer? - Parashat Devarim - Rabbi Alon Anava
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- The Torah commands us to give rebuke to our fellow friend when needed. Many times we rebuke, criticize and judge our friends and family from a good place with good intentions but it's not accepted and even rejected. How can I do that successfully when my intentions are pure and good?
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Great job Rabbi thank you
Shalom to everybody , from Montreal!
תודה לאל אל הרבי Alon Anava!
אני מקווה שיום אחד אני יכולה לנסוע להארץ עוד פעם ולבקר את ירושלים וגם צפת. שלום וברכה לרבי וגם המשפחה שלו וגם לכולם שעוזרים את הרב לעשות לנו כל הוידאות! תודה רבה לכם! אסתר מפינלנד
What great advice and timeless information. Thank you very much. Blessings 🕊
Thank you HaRav for the precious lecture.
There is an old video of a gal who went to work with her whole shirt unbuttoned and her lacy bra showed ...no one would tell her shirt was open...no one...the guys stared and the women were embarrassed for her...sociological study of who was really a friend...thank you...a gift always.
Thank you Rabbi 👏🏼✨💗🙏🏼
Todah Rabah Rabbi Anava for this great teaching of how Moshe was spoken out of love for his beloved people
Your teaching will help us to think before we speak and always with love of HaShem inside our hearts
Shalom and Blessings to you and your family
Thank you
Baruch HaShem. Krusty the Rebbe!!!!. It totally makes sense why you are my favorite! Your humility is the best teacher. Thanks so much for what you do
השם עליכם
Yes he makes me laugh too, that Crusty the Clown analogy is a classic.
Yes he is an amazing teacher, such a blessing to us all. B"H
Yes, it's pointing out there shortcomings.... and they hate that ... I tell mine kids when I say something.... I say it out of love ❤ for you...to save you from... evil.... I don't saying it to upset you ....
thank you rabbi
May we all pray for redemption in the name of Messiah Ben David brothers and sisters! Spiritual red alert!
This has to be my favorite video to date. I had just rebuked a friend, which was months in coming and very difficult to do. I chose my words carefully, and delivered it with a sense that I could also be tempted this way and could be in that same position. She did not accept what I said, but I hope she will really think about what I (finally) had to say, and will align herself with the commandments. It was affirming to hear what Rabbi said about failing to rebuke makes you a partaken of another’s sins. I was feeling this way beforehand, but now I feel delivered.
Great message! Such an important topic
"My Zeidi" is my favorite piece of poetry, followed at a distant second by Shemer's "Shel Zahav." Right hand on fire :))
Thank you from Holland 🙏🏻💐
Yes we are to call out evil and destroy it. If not we’re in agreement with their evil deeds and their sin.
this section of teachings are much assertive and with a heart i repeated over and over,and keep finding more little things in it and it becomes more clear all God ways and reasoning and laws ❤
I have understand your transformation and I tink that you were always a good man,you just got lost in the world of darkness,but you becomes a great teacher now blessing for you w your family a wife and were you needed
Rabi Alanon 👏😊👏
I will definitely have to listen all again.
Thank you for this teaching.
This one needs to be heard well as we reflect on our lives and those around us.
Shalom
Thank you.
A spectacular commentary. Great. Cazach.
Baruch HaShem
Beautiful Torah Lesson, once again. I just wanted to add. One tactic to rebuke was taught to us by Moshe Rebbenu who rebuked the nation at the beginning of Devarim by subliminally referring to all the places the nation travelled in the desert, knowing that each place represented a place where they sinned. So in fact he didn’t tell them directly, but indirectly, and this shows a lot of class and tact. Another note and very important in today’s times, people have a tendency of hiding behind their phones because they lack the courage to confront a person face to face or with direct conversation. How many tomes have we texted, with good intentions and good heart, but the person reading the text says, I can sense your anger or frustration. Then you have to text on explaining that your message was misinterpreted. The lesson here is to muster up the courage and, without embarrassing the person, privately and with a lot of love and compassion, deliver your rebuke. The results will be good for everyone involved.
Have a great day, and GD Bless❣️
Oops, I added this comment before I finished listening to the entire video 🤓. Rav Alon explained the rebuke of Moshe very eloquently! BH
Thank You Rabbi
Wow, perfect timing for me. I asked a passive aggressive person to please remove my address from her email blasts. She asked me why. I tried to explain that it was because every encounter I have had was painful, so I just wanted to remove myself from the undercuts, the jabs, the barbs that were just hurtful. She took it like a freight train plowing into a dumpster fire...
I know because I have friends that is christians and I care for them and love them and it hard to talk to them about the Torah but what I do is share the Torah bit by bit
Now, after listening to this, we all obligated because we can’t play the “I didn’t know card” anymore. 😳😱😰
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נכון! זה ממש קשה לומר את התגובה עם האהבה!
I sometimes try to correct people, but they seem to think that I am a "busy-body." lol
Can someone please tell me what the name of this beautiful music at the start is?
A week ago I tried to give feedback to a young woman standing on the street. She looked like one of those ladies in the western movies waiting for some company. So I got shocked and I asked her if she forgot her skirt at home and why she's half naked. "I'm not naked", she replied. " I think I look - piiiip - good today!", she replied. So I got irritated of her bad language and I said maybe her hormones are talking. She was even more angry, so I left but she screamed: "Shut up! So I turned back and said that she cannot boss around with me while she's looking like a prostitute 😟 oh dear! I think I failed! She repeated the words: "So I look like a prostitute?! like she was schocked... Ladies, should I have just ignored her in her outfit or what? Summer heat +30 degrees and both men and women are wearing beach clothes ⛱️ in the city center... I have found the importance of being tsinuah so it hurts me to see the young people half naked.... 🙄
So last night I mentioned to my boyfriend that he criticized me, and that he had done it several times. Then, he says he didn't mean any malice by it. I say, "ok, I believe you." Then he says I'm too sensitive, and breaks up with me. What can I learn from this? I'm broken-hearted.
i saw the video you mentioned . i thought nothing about the hair sticking out . you were in a hurry , the wind was blowing , it got caught by something , whatever , and you didn't notice . same thing happened to me many times , nobody tells me , i'm embarrassed.
I chose my parents - they were wrong, but I loved them - to tell them their mistake due to freedom and that they have to go on in another way to come to paradise.
I have no contact, but I live in WWIII since then. I'm nearly 40 years old now. But still they want to kill me.
REPENTING FROM ANTHONY JONES IS GOOD THANKS