ACT NORMAL PODCAST | EPISODE 4 "Bag Lady"
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I started tearing up when Jayda said people always highlight the materialistic gains from Gods blessings, but the real blessing is when you bounce back from something that was supposed to break you mentally. That convicted me because I was at my lowest point earlier this year and now I’m starting to feel normal again. All Glory to God
YES ❤
Yes omg same! 😮💨
👏👏👏. God does not partake in selfish gains and bragging about it. Everything is done for His glory and usually he uses us to bless others aka bring them closer to Christ!🙏🙌
amen mama amen!!!
Hallelujah
Listen!!! This episode was so therapeutic. Thank yall so much for being open and vulnerable with us. It helped me so much ❤❤❤
This was my first day tuning in and it’s crazy because I really needed to hear this. It’s definitely good to hear things other than boys!
I love everything about yall and this space. Go owf my girlssss!! Thank you Dess for letting us see the real you! ❤❤❤
Love the transparency and honesty. I can truly relate to being on this spiritual journey and having discernment about things I need to change in my life to align with my purpose. But God knows your heart and he gives us a chance everyday to get it right. Love y’all💗
I agree with Dess. A lot has changed with kids. They’re connected to internet with 24 hour news. When we were young we were outside, with our cousins, forced to go to church, limited tv time etc. Kids are not meant to be behind a screen for more than 5 hours a day, sorry.
When Dess speak abt her perspective Jayda makes it abt her and constantly speak over her 💯
Nah that’s just conversation
Fab episode!! so vulnerable and so real. God bless us all as we navigate adultinggg
Im glad they spoke on the Greg relationship, because it was def so many rumor's. Its good to know nobody has beef because he still posts them.
I love this keep them coming
Books I recommend: The Four Agreements, Acts of Faith, The Secret.
Will y’all have a fan on as a guest and they get to ask y’all questions. Lol
The way Dess called Jayda out for judging and they were able to talk about it....real friends!
the way it didn’t trigger her and she just accepted it and moved on was soooo good ! that’s growth !
Dess seems like such a beautiful person inside and out, very aware and intentional.
Exactly! Dess is very authentic. You can tell there is no phoniness
Yeah she’s a real one a raw Scorpio woman Jayda’s lucky because she is so kind and caring to Jayda not rude at all in her tone and demeanour
@@Lilbonitaawhat does being a Scorpio have to do with anything?
Favorite episode ❤❤
@@Lilbonitaawhy is Jayda lucky??
The fact that these girls are only in their 20s with so much wisdom is amazing. Give them their flowers 💐
Totally agree
My 5 Things
1. Get your credit right it’ll set you further ahead
2. Do not be worried about relationships at all.
3. Stay focused on what you want
4. Live more, be free, have fun but take care of your business
5. Follow your dreams
I'll just add mines below sis!
1. Be on ur "square" at ALLLLLLLL times....aving the FATHER, SON N D HOLY SPIRIT at ur centreeeeeee!!! Now, i know at 27 y my mama n glama had their eyes on d LORD. Tunnel vision on d God things vs d "good thing"
2. Protect ur HEART at all cost, it's where EVERYTHING flow. You can't change ppl, dat's NOT ur job!!! Ppl are in various seasons, u just ave to leave them where they are at....n HOPE they will LEVEL UP!!
3. Ppl are NOT youuuuuu!!! Stop getting UPSET wen ENERGIES are NOT reciprocated.
4. Life will be LIFE-ING but PERSPECTIVE IS EVERTHINGGGGGG!!!!!!
5.Never become DIM/ DARK/ COLD/ TOUGH/ HARD in dis WORLD!!! LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE always!!!
@@sarenabent6012I’ll write mines
1. Keep GOD FIRST ALWAYS!
2. Keep your mind sharp and stay focused on wats in front of you.
3. Never settle - whether it be wit friends, relationships, or family.
4. Be still. Never move off reactions or emotions. And stay in control.
5. Don’t be scared to fail.
@@katlina2607 L😍VE IT!!!!
"Lean not to thy own understanding...In all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight" ♥️♥️♥️Proverbs 3:5-6
Amen!
Nah episode 4 is probably the best episode so far. The journey of getting to know GOD is so challenging today I will understand and tomorrow I'm confused but at the end of the day one thing remains and it's that he love us and as long as we are trying to get right with him he will always got our back. We good even when we ain't good! Yall are some strong minded powerful ladies and yall have shown sooo much growth and I love that for our generation that's what influence is all about. And sn: yall were do chill and calm let each other talk and act important questions I love this!
So* asked*
I agree
I am 42 years old and the things that y’all are speaking on I’m learning now and or learned in my late 30’s. The amount of knowledge and awareness that the girls have at their age is ASTONISHING.
I love all topics discussed tonight and keep going.
#theyareonpoint 💙
Me too! I'm 36 and definitely enjoying this conversation.
@@CompletelyMzE Same!
Same
Agreed 💙💯
35:46 lmaooo “you ate me up and spit me out”, the accountability is CLOCKIN love yall relationship so cute😂🫶🏽
“Love a good casual cry” Go AWF Dess 🗣️
Water sign shit
I felt that because one thing im gonna do is cry when need be 😅
Ok! Ain’t nothing wrong with that
Each episode gets better! It takes a lot of vulnerability to discuss spirituality publicly & you both did it SO well! Keep going even when they try to take yall messages out of context! Everyone who needs to receive the messages yall give-always will! 💕💕💕
I was not expecting this from Jayda… I literally put this on as background noise but clocked in when I heard them talking about Faith and struggles of understanding why things happen the way they do.
So much respect to Jayda and Dess❤ They are definitely different than how we perceive them on social media.
5 things i wish i would’ve known when i was younger: (i’m 23)
• it’s okay not to be okay.
• don’t try to rush life, live in the moment and be present.
• don’t be so hard on yourself.
• you are so loved, give yourself grace.
• success isn’t gonna come over night.
• your best investment is in yourself, don’t sit around and wait for NOBODY to do nothing for you! go after the life you want.
🤍✨🙏🏾 ladies, i absolutely love watching this podcast! i feel like every time i watch an episode, i leave with more than i came with! y’all healing a part of me that i didn’t know needed to be healed & i’m so thankful and grateful for y’all! ✨ keep shining & doing y’all 1,2 !! love y’all! 🤍✨
i can agree so much with this!
Yall better already be making number 5
matter fact, i hope it’s done.
@@eechoppaok period
No fr lol
Deadass bro
Forreal like have it edited already too !
I think with a lot of people , they forget that Jayda has been in this industry since 16!!! Yall are literally watching her grow and practically watched her whole life damn near.. she’s learning just like everyone else has to , it’s just her life is more in the spotlight . Shes super genuine with people and if you’ve ever seen her, you know that. And sometimes she do say stuff on live that you may not understand but iyk jayda she really just talk to her supporters like they are her homegirls 😂😂😂 the weirdos be the only ones looking for the negative in it .
My struggle is letting God down after I told him I wouldn’t do certain things. God gives amazing grace.
we are not born pure. we are born into sin. and yes it’s to give the baby back to God as well. love this topic & podcast as a whole. whoever reads this, Christ loves you 🤍
Yes
Jayda face is glowing glowing! Love the natural look❤ episode is amazing
Loyal's confidence emanated from his Mum Jayda, She is so confident and Dess is a real one.
Whewww when Jayda was explaining her spiritual journey with God I got goosebumps. That’s so true everyone equates blessings with THINGS and also everyone don’t talk about how hard the walk and how confusing the journey can be. Literally took the words out of my head. ❤
Best episode by far. The vulnerability and wisdom. The gems y’all hit on was literally battles I go thru every day is far as forgiving yourself. Dress when she said we ain’t really taught self love growing up. Better overall conversation than drama or gossip
I’m starting to see that this podcast is not only an outlet for you two but almost like a therapy session. You ladies are growing and it’s amazing to witness. Thank you for the episode. God sees you both trying.
Jayda and Dess, this episode was so surreal. I love love love the transparency, the opening of you guys spiritual journey with God. In all honesty soso many people need to see this side of you all, because it’s so true. So many celebrities aren’t on the level you all are, and I thank Jesus I love 2 celebrities that are aligning their life to the word and going down the walk with Christ. This video may not reach all do to the topics but I know and believe God is doing something big always ! ❤ I love love you guys this was so good!
Des is so me. That’s a smart & sweet soul. Also very honest/holds friends accountable
I’ve been a Jayda fan since I was 17. I’m 25 now. Her growth is so incredible. Getting goose bumps listening to this conversation
Me tooo 💕 Love seeing her grow
THIS 🎯‼️
They definitely gonna be mad, but continue to show up uplifted. Its gonna be uncomfortable to receive the backlash of saying "no". But keep showing up. Nothing's wrong with hearing/saying "no".
Love this episode real bad!!! I have a book for both of yall and others in the comments. Book #1 is Let That Shit Go by Nina Purewal+Kate Petriw. Book #2 is The Confident Woman 365 Daily Devotional by Joyce Meyer(Hot Pink Book).
definitely going to check these out, thanks for the recs 💕✨
This my favorite episode because y’all kept it so real and even realer about God! Very refreshing!! And needed!!
From dat openin PRAYER! My support went ovaaaa d roof!!!! Like, wen i can see ppl PRAISE HIM d same way he's BLESSING US!!!.....especially in these utube streetzzzzz is a different type of WARMTH come ova MEEEEE!!
Des has grown SO MUCH and isn't the same Des I knew 2 years ago; you can defiantly see and hear the growth!! Great episode gurlssss
th-cam.com/video/yzsYNgCaCd4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Az0D_wb03ViOfVkb😊❤❤
HANDS DOWN MY FAVORITE EPISODE!!!! 10 outta 10 y'all did your BIG one with this right here.
Des got angel numbers going on , she reads the bible 3 pages at a time she on chapter 3 in her book and she moved out with 3 thousand dollars which was 3 times the rent
Bruhhh finally! Make sure to post more episodes in December and make it a PodcastMAS! Thank me later mwah 💋
Great idea!
@@LikeAStarrx33thanks!!!!!
yesssssss ! 🙌🏾
@@ascendingLOTUS dyg!!!?!?!?!?
Omg for us,yesssss
I think Dearra should come on the show !!! I feel like all 3 of yall can really tap into how yall grew especially after being in relationships!! It takes a lot and I know yall can really connect there
The conversation is super elevated! Loving it ladies
Nahhh! Jayda & Dess y’all taking it to another level with this episode y’all gon loose alot of people when you start talking that real real life GODLY life ! This is the side that y’all need to fully embrace & step into in these next years I am impressed God Bless xoxo
love the fact yall go an hr long , not just a quick 30-40 minute podcast. this is healing.
wow i’m literally in tears love it. we all getting closer to God
Baby Loyal Is Going Places Chile❤I Love His Personality He's So Smart And Funny☺️
This was just TOO GOOD! Good yet deep Adult conversations with so much substance🖤✨👏🏾
I’m 22 & here’s what I’ve learned
•Build a relationship with GOD! If nobody got you God got you & he won’t put you through nothing you can’t get through! Everything happens for you not to you! God got you!
•don’t rush! Life is not a race it’s a marathon!
•don’t lose yourself in relationships! You can’t pour into someone else without pouring into yourself! Fill your cup
•go through the healing journey! Don’t sweep stuff under the rug! Figure out why certain thing trigger you & why you feel the emotions you feel in certain situations
•always have pure intentions! Move out of love! Don’t be out here hurting people & moving slimey! You will reap what you sow & when you sit with yourself make sure you moved in a way that allows you to be proud of yourself!
•be grateful! In a lot of situations we are quick to be like more more more when we’re sitting in an answered prayer! Be grateful for where you are! Be present! Be in the moment!
Dess is the friend I need. Don't tell me what I want to hear... tell me what I need to hear. & Jayda is the friend I need also because don't get an attitude or mad when I tell you about yourself. I see why their friendship is so genuine.
Why can’t I listen to the podcast …I don’t wanna have to watch a video while I’m on the go
This was such an amazing podcast! Being black women in their 20s is so hard, it’s so much growing and learning that comes within that space in life and thank you both for being like big sisters to those younger than you.
Yup!
No shadeeeee! This was one of them ones. I LOVEDDDDD THIS EP! I was one of the people on the fence but idk God definitely placed it on my heart to watch this ep! This just blessed me!
Each episode speaks to my life at the exact moment! Love y’all ❤
Perfect way to end my night
The podacast we didn't know we needed !! Their friendship is so authentic and they keep each other accountable with love and still uplift each other at the same time!
definitely cried when Dess mentioned her faith walk because I’m in a similar point in my life. To be still is not easy especially when you are used to moving a certain way. The stillness has made me closer to God and made me reevaluate my goals that I really want. I’ve lost alottttt but I’m so much more is on the way. I’m now at the park about to journal thank y’all for this🫶🏾getting better every episode❤️❤️❤️
We all need a friend like Dess
I really love that you guys spoke on God and your personal relationships with him in this season of your lives. A lot of people of influence do not speak about God, it’s refreshing and it’s so important. I’ve been on my journey with God for two years and can say the more you seek him the more he’ll reveal himself and help you understand the things you are dealing with on a spiritual level. Keeping you both in prayer and keep being the beautiful people you guys are ❤
Dess is very attractive
The fact that everyone is going through it and getting through it I love it ❤
I have so much respect for Jayda saying she’s not forcing her spirituality on her son and wants him to find his own way of connecting with God…that’s literally why so many people turn away because they don’t have their own personal relationship…personal relationship with God is way more important than what religion you identify with
I love both of these women, but it’s something about Dess that i relate to a lot more. She is so authentic & self aware
Yess agreed
This might be the realest podcast I have ever watched in my life! Great job ladies. Much Respect to yall !!
Relationship over religion >>>> all dayyyyyy ❤
Dess is right, God is merciful. We can't just think God stops loving us. Nothing separates us from the love of God.
I feel like such a proud big sis watching this episode. Seeing y’all evolve and being intentional with your relationship with God is beautiful. Keep glowing ladies and allow God to do a good work in you in His way.💛✨
People probably are watching this podcast because yall are Jayda & Dess but I’m watching it because I love yall as individuals (internally) the parts yall let us see. This podcast is soooo dope. It touched a lot of things I’ve been talking about lately with my close friend and also things I’ve read in my Bible❤ I feel like it lowkey gave me confirmation!!! I’ve watched all 4 episodes.
With me being 20 & every video y’all make on this podcast relate to my everyday life but this one at this exact video is what I needed to hear. God put this vision on y’all hearts not only for y’all good but for me as well as an eye opener for my life. I’m definitely healing and this video is making me self reflect heavily like every topic every explanation is so on point😭 yall friendship reminds me of one of my good friends continue being great & im tuning into every podcast 🥰🫶🏽 love y’all down !
Jayda always remember God works everything out for our good! Even when it’s hard, it will work out for your good and his glory.
i love Dess! she knows how to carry a conversation so well
Im not gonna yiee I can’t finish an episode in one sitting I be splitting it in half like my chipotle bowl.
Get tae on there
Special Guest
1. Saucy Santana
2. Trina
3. Keke Palmer
4. Tokyo Vanity
5. Monica
5 things I wish I knew when I was 20
1. Actions prove why words mean nothing, believe people actions the first time, don’t paint your own picture of what you “hope” for them to be.
2. You do not owe social media an explanation. People are actually intrigued with what they don’t know.
3. It’s okay to say no. You can’t pour more into others glass while yours is getting empty.
4. Be careful of how highly you ride or speak on someone; you never know what’s being done behind your back.
5. Breathe and enjoy life; you have to live for you, you take care of you. No one is answering to you so you don’t have to answer to anyone.
Overall great episode ladies!!!
I say Whoooooo babyyyy #4 is a word!!! & definitely a lesson that hits different when u learn firsthand from your own naiveté
& mistrust
Way to go Jayda and Dess this was a great episode!!!!!!! i loved the topic about yall walk with God!!!!!! ❤
This episode was by far the best one this made me want to continue to be more self aware & continue my self love journey & my walk with god 💞 every episode resonates at the perfect time thank you 🙏🏿
Bring Lil Baby on the pod
I love her confidence even though the internet trying to do they big one on her every chance they get, she seems so at peace outside of the internet, while the main ones that be commenting on her be miserable
Jayda,… I want to respond to why do people get baptized, the whole meaning is to become a follower of Christ it’s deep, I’m so sorry you experienced that at that church it’s giving they had good intentions trying to show you off 😂 setting a good example. I wish they would have asked first not just doing it outa no where ion like that either I get where your coming from both pov. All I know is no one can ever take my faith from me I was also raised Catholic (Mexican parents) it’s in our culture and for good reason a lot of miracles no other religions can compare I do feel Satan is out there to separate all of us from god he will come in many ways and forms and in the book of revelations he gets in the church and it all falls apart… so with that being said don’t ever lose your faith and please please always remember god always forgives he always is there waiting for us to go back to him he knows evil is out there constantly trying to get us against him, what’s right is right and what’s wrong is wrong, god doesn’t accept these new modern things that people are trying to normalize and make “okay” there’s good and evil and evil is trynna appear good but it’s not!! Only god can judge and he will judge in the end!! I would recommend finding a humble church or humble church people with knowledge that can explain and answer your questions in the church, there’s so many nice saints out there, our goal on earth is to become saints as well no we are not perfect but god wants us to try and to follow his path being good to one another and doing what’s right it’s easier said than done but never give up god is always number one above all like the first commandment says he’s number 1 no one else before him
At 31yrs old I’m just now starting to “do everything with intentions” and I love it! I have definitely seen a lot of my manifestation come to life
My best episode, I felt it when Jayda said “ I beat myself up” cos that’s me. I don’t appreciate my work I feel like I can do more 😢❤
Bag lady being this title is so on point. And yall singing was funny asf! keep these episodes coming and don’t listen to what anyone says. Being a newborn Christian/baby Christian or whatever they want to call it is so hard. Ignorance is truly bliss. Because once you see things for what it is, you can’t even sin the same. I’m definitely hard on myself and have to stop and give myself grace lol. We’ll never be perfect so it’s ok. This podcast was my confirmation ❤️🫶🏼
I think you all should do like a zoom meeting bible study group maybe once a month. Doing it that way will prevent you from having to meet up with strangers.
Dess is a true Scorpio we don't judge 💯✌️
😂😂
When it comes to the kids going to church topic. It’s a lot worse these days because like Dess said instead of going to church they’re on the internet. When we were growing up a great number of us were in church multiple times a week. It may not have stuck back then but now that we’re older we know to go back to that (Christ). These children are not doing that and they are also being raised by people who were church hurt so they’re not being exposed to Christ in a good way or at all.
Now that I’ve moved back to my hometown I’ve decided that my son needs to be attending the church that I grew up in. He may not understand it now but when he gets our age he will.
Amen this so true 🙏
I’ve been feeling like God doesn’t hear me. But I need to get closer to Him because I know I won’t make it if I lose my faith in Him 💎 thank yall for this podcast needed to hear this 🙏🏽
Favorite episode!!!! Btw, I saw some other comments mention that humans are born into sin (the technical word for this is "iniquity" - it's basically sin that you did not commit yourself but has been passed down in your bloodline), and I just wanted to cosign that and leave a Scripture for direction. "Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned-" - Romans 5:12 ....and this is why Jesus is AMAZING because when we believe He died for our sins and are reborn, spiritually, we become a part of His bloodline. Since he never sinned, we don't have any iniquity anymore. God's mind is dope.
we need loyal on an episode !!
Dess and Jayda I think both of you ladies should surrender the area of your life when it comes to relationships. Stop settling when it comes to men. God has already written and assigned someone to you to be your partner. If yall keep settling for situationships yall will keep blocking the person who God sent for YOU 🙌🏾🫶🏾 yall both are worthy of the best and don’t have to settle especially for WORDLY men. Be patient and when you’re aligned with God and his will for your life you can trust him with every aspect of your life♥️
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 What a lovely conversation ❤️
Dess is me in real life ❣️ Jayda is like my spirit animal ... i love & look up to both ladies !!!
PERSPECTIVE IS EVERYTHING!!!!! To whoever is battling the condemnation of forgiving yourself, think about it like this >>>> (Your biggest enemy is your "inner me") If God forgives you, who are you to think that you cant forgive "you" 💖 Definitely gotta stop being so hard on ourselves 👏🏾👏🏾 good job girliess , may God continue to guide & bless you all & everyone watching rooting for you 🙏🏾
Why is it called crew kids ???? Are they minors Bec it's maakih me think about all this stuff about the drake n Kendrick beef to expose that all these girls are minors idk like the free mason favorite number is 13 Bec Aaliyah is 13 idk things is going on but just a thought
38:27 love what Dess said here admitting she’s doing worldly things and she knows they aren’t of God which shows she’s open to change and God’s CONVICTION GOD DOESNT CONDEM HE CONVICTS meaning he tells you where you are wrong so next time you can correct that behavior. Conviction is a huge sign that the Holy Spirit is within you.
I can relate to the spiritual journey. These religious folks be sending out the wrong messages at times like everything that has to do with being saved means you have to have no flaws when the Bible doesn’t support that ifykyk my mom always told me to read the Bible for myself and pray to the Father for understanding. ❤
Loyal is so sweet and smart ❤ he makes my day when I see him on the gram
Yes we must NOT judge BUT … you can judge rightly
“Do not judge by appearance [superficially and arrogantly], but judge fairly and righteously.””
John 7:24 AMP
Hopefully that clears it up cause it all lies on your heart posture and your intention especially if you have the Holy Spirit he will give you, a feeling of conviction that you did it in an unholy manner.
The fact that y’all have conviction “beating yourself up” as you say it, about your decisions, your sins, your disobedience please know you are on the right track. You’re exactly where GOD wants you to be at this time. Give yourself grace sis 🤍 love y’all to life 💕
The custom of baptizing infants dates back to the origin of the Church. If we read the Bible carefully, we will see that adult baptism was the most common practice in the early Church.
But we will not find any text against infant baptism. On the contrary, there are indications where the practice of baptizing them is implicit.
In the letter to the Corinthians, the Apostle Paul says: "I also baptized the household of Stephana" (1 Cor 1:16). It is assumed that in a family there are children.
In the book of the Acts of the Apostles, Paul tells us how, in the city of Philippi, he baptized a lady called Lydia "with all her household" (Acts 16:15). And speaking of his jailer to Philip, he says: "he was baptized with all his household" (Acts 16:33).
Jayda and Dess I love you your so pure your lives are definitely representing your hearts.