I'm petite -- not really what I had in mind when I thought of "sexy" as a younger girl at 23. I was also quite insecure with my body, I never felt comfortable flashing skin or baring arms or midriffs or low cut tops. I then bought my first Stuart Weitzman 50/50 over the knee boots -- all the rage then, and equally as classic now as the Highlander is based off it. I wore them to Tokyo in the winter with a short skirt and I felt SO comfortable -- bundled up in a knit and coat, with only that small bit of thigh flashing. That made me feel sexy, and I know by the compliments I got then that it WAS sexy because I felt it, owned it, and I found MY own way of feeling sexy thanks to a specific item of clothing. I still wear that same pair of boots to this very day. I'm now 29, so while I still occasionally wear it with a mini-skirt, I have toned it down and prefer it with skinny jeans... But all the same, I feel sophisticated when those shoes go on. 5 years on, boots quite battered, but I still get compliments when I wear them. :) Still on the hunt for the next killer mainstay in my wardrobe to discover a new feeling/type of confidence in. P.S. This is when I knew for sure I never dressed up for men. The satisfaction is not as great as when you KNOW you look great because you've put an outfit together that you love and feel comfy in.
I was nodding my head like yeah throughout “designer bag” part 😂 I feel the same way, and just like you I dont have a real explanation why is it so... but it is! It feels good having designer bag to finish your outfit, it just feels right. Yes its shallow and stupid, but I cannot but feel this way.. so dont worry Lizzie, you are not alone 😎
Lizzy you are so refreshing and I’m so glad you stay completely yourself in every video (re your discussion about how numbers aren’t a motivation for you anymore which I think is awesome). I’m coming to London from Sydney in a couple of weeks and you’ve gotten me so excited I’m already putting together my Lizzy-esque outfits haha! Keep it up and congrats on 100k!!
Enjoyed it? YES. Advice we’ve all heard, “dress for the job you want”, applies as true as “dress for your mood”. Casual Friday’s are comfortable at work but I don’t feel as on my game as when I’m dressed in something sharper. If I wore my comfies I put on when I hit home outside to run errands my mood would effing plummet. I don’t want to feel schlumpy when I’m out. If I dress schlumpy I feel like crap. Everything about this video rings true. And the handbag affliction,,,I have it too. I get so much enjoyment out of a really nice quality designer bag-doesn’t matter that 98% of people don’t know if it’s Target or Givenchy. It’s never about what others think-it’s purely the enjoyment and long term use I get out of it. Thanks Lizzie, this was so good.
Elizabeth Ho love this idea, would be very intrested to see what lizzy would pick for the high street options, for me under 500 would be the affordable bag, while over that price point is luxury
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@Luis Landry I really appreciate your reply. I got to the site on google and im trying it out now. Seems to take quite some time so I will reply here later with my results.
Totally agree with you about the handbags. About 2 years ago I had a massive clear out of cheap bags and upgraded my collection to a small, curate selection of more expensive bags. It makes me feel confident knowing I can go in my closet and I will always love the bag I pick up. My budget isn't quite a high as Loewe but it is definitely on my dream list.
I completely agree with what you said about designer handbags! I love the understated luxury of a designer handbag that isn't visibly branded. I think it's mostly because of the quality of the leather, it's nearly impossible to find luxurious feeling leather on the high street!
Really enjoyed this video and agree how certain pieces you wear make you feel a certain way. It’s like for me converse is something that just makes me feel comfortable and I gravitate towards them xx
I am a college student and I would describe my style as workwear punk/grunge lol. I love wearing cropped dress pants with high top converse. turtlenecks with an oversized jacket and fitted jeans. A blazer with ripped jeans. loafers with ripped jeans and a t shirt. I would say punk bc I like combining modern clean cut pieces with faded, ripped, pieces. I love me some plaid and black. my nose ring also helps with my punk look haha. I have exams so this was such a good break! you are literally my favorite fashion channel ever. keep up the amazing work, love!
Yes Lizzy, explore your existing closet and continue this thought process. I would enjoy more videos like this. I think very soon we will all have to rethink our consumption habits, clumsily trying to fill an emotional hole that never gets filled. And destroying human life and nature while we are doing it. There is no jugement (I still love my designer bags - totally know what you mean
This is one of my favourite videos you have ever done. It's always great to hear why you wear what you wear and your thought process. I also love that you are holding back on spending tons of money. Please do more of this kind of video x
This video was so interesting! Every time I wear my Celine box bag I always feel special just like you described. By the way the Loewe hammock bag is amazing!! And it would be great to see a video on choosing jewelry or your jewelry collection
This video really resonates with me in terms of finding the wardrobe I'm happy with and can finally work with, with items that finally mix and match together, and a wardrobe more comfortable versus too-high heels and "suck in tummy" clothes all the time! It took me a bit longer - it all came together this year, at 32 years old! (And with my 2nd baby on the way. Pretty sure this journey started in 2013 with treatment for an eating disorder,, and kicked off properly when pregnant in 2014 with my first!). I still fit in my pre-pregnancy clothes, so have kept my favourites and finally started ditching the rest! Hooray! Thank you to you and around 4 other TH-camrs for helping me embrace myself and finally work out that wardrobe of mine!
i'm the opposite with handbags, i really don't get why you should spend that much money on them, but then my mum is like you and has such an incredible collection (She's obsessed with Hermes) so i guess to each their own... You should a part 2 of this btw i never get tired of listening to you talking about your style :)
I think it's very interesting and useful to know what your style or 'uniform' is, because it can prevent you from buying clothes that you eventually never wear. You have such a good sense of what you like and it makes your wardrobe very coherent. Me on the other hand, I sometimes feel as if I have ten different styles depending on my mood.
i love this video!! your explanation of how designer handbags make you feel was so on point, i completely agree, i love how certain pieces can make you feel more confident before you even begin to question how others will see them.
This has to be one of your best videos yet! I love androgynous styling and you're always my go to for styling inspo. On the topic of "dressing sexy"; I'm 20 and whenever I go out with friends its always tight short clothes and big brands which is fine but it really doesn't feel like me, but I always feel underdressed compared to them because I like to wear longline blazers and jeans vs. super low cut and tight things that make me feel like a really compressed sausage 😅 I'm really tall too so I feel like the more boobs legs and arms I have out the more clumsy I look? Not sure if thats just a me thing though 😂 Such a fab video 💖
Re designer bags: I used to fall into the trap of seeing them as a shortcut and thinking that as long as I slapped one on, it didn't much matter what I wore and my outfit would always look good, until I started noticing other girls who made the same mistake. It took me a while to stop relying on them - my rule now is that an outfit needs to look as good/finished without one as it would with one.
Astrid VW Lol I totally agree! But I do feel for easy slapstick dressing (white tee and a pair of jeans), a designer bag and a good shoe is really the cherry on top. Probably a placebo too hahaha you and Lizzy put it into words so well
I always go to your Instagram for inspiration when it comes to my wardrobe and what pieces invest in. Regarding the accessory bag I agree with you 100% a good quality bag can totally make the outfit
Awesome! This reminds me so much of the message in Marie Kondo's book - after discovering the items that give you the most joy, you then figure out your style and what makes you the most confident. In that way, you are truly dressing for yourself and not others. Looking forward to your next video on this topic :)
Great video Lizzy! I fully feel you about the handbags thing, I think it is a combo of the quality, durability and overall shape of designer bags which appeals to me - both functional and aesthetic xx
I loved this video, Lizzy. Thank you. I feel the same about structured coats as you do about designer bags. I don't own popular designer brand coats, but I've invested in classic 100% wool ones that just look special from a mile away. It makes me feel so put together. Thanks to channels like yours, I've slowly started swapping my wardrobe for good quality classic pieces that I will love for years. I am very much into the basics as yourself. I think it was only possible after I figured out what I like and what suits me, which has helped a lot with spending as well. In the past I would just buy many coats that would fall apart after one or two seasons but with good quality ones I always look forward to the season change so I could bring that item out again and wear it. I would also love a designer bag but I've yet to get one for myself. I think of these things as investments. Designer bags also don't really decrease in value if you were ever inclined to sell them. I would much rather buy that one special handbag than five plastic looking "dupe" ones from the high street and wear that thing until it falls apart. There are just some things you need to invest in to get good quality. Furthermore, a Topshop bag you buy on a whim doesn't offer you the emotional gratification as pouring over and deciding to buy something you have lusted over for a long time. For some it might also be a status thing but as I get older, those things become less and less important. In fact for me personally wearing anything with a visible label on it makes me embarrassed for the reason that I know it is shallow. Though if someone were to notice I am wearing Acne Studios Jensen boots because of the metal tip, for example, then they know and are probably part of the group that can appreciate them.
Lizzy I happened upon your channel awhile ago and it's so refreshing to see your take on style when it comes to androgynous pieces. When you described how a pair of loafers and a blazer made you feel I understood you completely! I love how I feel in blazers like I can conquer the world. Thank you for being you and for consistently bringing gorgeous videos and incredible style to my youtube feed! Merry Christmas and much love💕🌲📯
YES I 110% feel the same way about bags and I think you've actually explained the feeling really well. I think there's also something to be said about having an item that you literally use everyday be luxurious and of gorgeous quality. It makes day to day errands and activities feel more special you know?
I love this video! I have also gotten into this lifestyle of dressing with my confidence and not falling into fast fashion but for my personal wanting!
Great concept for a video. I think clothing and how you dress and subsequently feel also has a lot to do with how you construct your identity, discover who you are and how you want to communicate to the world. My style has evolved alongside my self exploration and the person I am trying to be. Finding a good outfit is like finally being comfortable in your own skin which is so empowering. Thanks Lizzy xxx
I loved this video so much, so inspiring. How clothes can make you feel is something I've been thinking about a lot recently, definitely want to do some changes in my wardrobe now ! Great video :)
I love this video - I guess I always thought about dressing for mood, but unconsciously. My favourite forever will be shirt and jeans! Works all throughout the year in England :D
Yes! Love this video ❤ Use your creativity and shop your wardrobe rather than constantly buying new things while wearing the same old stuff 😂 I've realised that the key to feeling sexy/confident is comfort! If you feel comfortable you project your best self out there 😊❤🎅
Love your passion in this video Lizzie. I feel the same way about shirts and blazers and I'm just starting to get into loafers too. There's something so sexy about looking very feminine in 'masculine' clothes
Such an awesome vid! You never fail to come up with new, innovative fashion videos. I totally know what you mean about the androgeny of the half-buttoned shirts and longline blazer!
i feel you on having a nice bag! i don't own any 'luxury' brand bags but I have some bags made by small ethical brands that I spent a lot on and really love. I have a leather backpack I got from a woman who makes them 3 years ago and have worn it nonstop since. love the idea of having a uniform and knowing what makes you feel good. I'm a turtleneck girl through and through - even in the summer i love a short sleeve or sleeveless turtleneck :-)
Unexpected and/or bright shoes make me feel good because they attract attention and who doesn't like a compliment? Congratulations on 100k, I love your content and the originality in your videos. And your honesty - designer handbags are a code, they send messages out to the world and back to you and if you can afford it and like the message then why not?
i love you lizzy! your style, your thought, your creativity and ideas! totally understand about handbags! keep doing such a good work! soooo inspiring!
Hey wanted to get back to you about designer handbags, I have a couple of them (mostly smaller size and cross body) but for day to day I tend to have bags/backpacks from the high street just because I am always worried about ruining or breaking them. A designer handbag will always feel more special because it is an investment that I thought about a lot or a present. Nevertheless, I think some of the bags on the high street can make a day to day outfit feel just as put together as a designer one. You should do a testing basics on crossbody bags and maybe on tote bags as I think a lot of people would find it helpful. Have a good Sunday x
To me, a part of the luxury of a luxury bag is that you will ruin it and that is okay. Using a Chanel Reissue when grocery shopping (and putting frozen peas in it, because your shopping tote is full) is far more special to me than only using the bag on special occations. The tassels on my Balenciaga City have bite marks, because my cat used to play with them when he was a kitten, and I love that.
I'm always drooling, everytime I see the Dear Frances spirit boots. Such beautiful boots. Those are definitely in my wishlist, I hope I can have it one day. 😍😍😍 Btw... Congratulations on 100K Lizzy!! 🎆🎆🎆❤❤❤
Great video, Lizzy :) love how you think about styling pieces. I can kind of understand your designer handbag thing. Although I haven't taken the plunge for one yet, I think they can really dress up/ perfect any outfit. I've been out of school and working for over a year now so I've had some time to experiment my with my business casual style. The types of items that make me feel good and confident at work are a good pair of block heel pumps (in particular, my nude/pink patent ones from Kate Spade), tailored blazers, classic crewneck cashmere sweater (in any colored and paired with black dress pants), and well fitting high waisted mid-length skirts.
I definitely feel you about the shirts, I always go for a nice shirt when i feel like dressing up a bit fancy and feeling sexy. Love the video btw It's such a creative way to look at your wardrobe!
Loved this type of video and it's important to reflect on it regarding future purchases and shopping your own wardrobe. I kind of understand what you mean by designer handbags because i felt that way everytime i wore my mulberry bag (birthday present). But now, i feel much better when i wear branded bags that are dedicated to practicality/efficiency and being eco-friendly (within reason). I love Knomo bags, Angela Roi is on my list as well as matt&nat. I like pieces that are statement but minimal but it's just my style and how they make me feel. I still love my mulberry but these days i'll only carry small shoulder bags and reserve my everyday stuff for backpacks that look good. (mostly cos i don't want to fuck up my back in the long run)
Your style and the way you dress and explain clothing is honestly fascinating and impeccable!! I really aspire to dress like this in like 4 years from now..(btw I'm 19 and I still pretty much live in thrifted denim and random Tees)
this video was absolutely amazing. you are so creative with your videos which is SO refreshing !!!! This video was inspirational yet personal and made me reflect on all the garments in my wardrobe ! I adore your love for androgynous style and how you adapt mens clothes to become more feminine and sexy
Definitely agree with buying designer handbags. I don’t own a lot of bags but all of them are designer and not heavily branded. I think I like designer ones because a bag is something you wear everyday and it makes sense to invest. I also have this idea that designer handbags are more unique (because you’re paying for design and quality) and will last longer.
Lots of interesting points! Agree with you on a lot of things - feeling comfortable is so important to me, in making me feel like myself and also confident. Also, during the colder months - the most imporant thing over all is being warm. Maybe do a testing basic using second hand and vintage pieces? Would be really interesting to see. I find that it feels less excessive since the clothes weren't produced now, and need a new home instead of being burnt.
I really love designer bags too....., love your content and your definitely unique, been a subscriber since mid last year and have enjoyed watching you evolve and grow xo
Love this video, it's something that I've been noticing for a while now in my life, it definitely affects my mood. When I dress powerful I feel on top of the world, when I throw things together , it doesn't help my mood. I wore a skirt to my friends birthday dinner two days ago, tight and uncomfortable at the waist, made even worse by trying to tuck a jumper in... My day was awful lol...i am now getting rid of that skirt. And there are certain things that I wear to work that make me feel like a lady boss even though I recently started after graduating. And you're right about the expensive understated items, I have some things like that, no one can see the brand yet I'm walking on cloud nine .
Would be cool to see a video on outfits you wear during certain emotions- like when you're sad your go to comfy outfit or when you're happy or something
Hi Lizzy! When I was in Antwerp last year, I bought a yellow coat. Firstly I thought it was a bit overwhelming and I was afraid of people looking at me, because my coat was very noticeable. However, it was a bargain and I didn't have a coat like that, so I've bought it. When I wear it now, I feel amazing. I feel like a supermodel off duty and feel very grown-up, while I'm just sixteen. If I want to make a big entrance or I just want dress up or feel good, I wear that coat and it always makes me shine. Secondly, when I want to feel sexy or something, I put on my favorite perfume. That makes me feel awake and attractive. ;) Love, Floor from Amsterdam xxx
I utterly and COMPLETELY understand what you are saying about your handbags. Only difference is my "luxury" bags (Rebecca Minkoff, Marc Jacobs, All Saints, vintage Coach) elevate my Target, TJ Maax and Nordstrom Rack apparel. ;) In addition, especially with the All Saints, I can see using the bags forever--the styling and quality is such that if I take care and keep them clean, they will last me as long as I can totter around with a bag on my shoulder!
Hi Lizzy! Thank you for your refreshing views on style and fashion. You really put thoughts on creating unique YT content! Speaking about how clothes make you feel, I am wondering if you do have a "uniform" or "go-to pieces" to wear during PMS or that time of the month, to cheer you up, still feel confident but confortable, to try to still feel good about yourself when you just don't want to be noticed ;) Thanks! xx
Loved this video. For designer bags, I don’t tend to gear towards that BUT I do love a good leather bag though. I like mid range leather bags, J.Crew, Coach, Rebecca Minkoff and Matt and Natt. There is a difference with cheap high street brand to a nice leather bag 💁🏾😊💁🏾😊
I couldn't agree more! I always save for a luxury brand bag. I think bags can last so long and pass to generations and generations. A luxury bag is not only about its brand, it is also about the history and grace it represents. I also like to buy good brand shoes, because sometimes the high street ones can be very comfortable.....
love this video and your honesty about trying to worth with your wardrobe rather than purchasing new all the time. Can I ask...do you have a rubber sole added to your Gucci's? Is there a particular place you take them?
Loved this one! I think this is such a great topic and something I always consider when I'm shopping and dressing. My favourite is (much like you!) a crisp white shirt, great denim and espadrille wedges for summer nights. I also think theres something really powerful to doing a bold red lip and no other makeup. So sexy in my eyes! Love your train of thought here Lizzy!
i think especially when it comes to handbags i find really hard finding a high street handbag that is a really good quality that doesn't look cheap and i know will last me for more than one season with out falling apart or looking beaten up
I love this video Lizzy! I feel like it could be a series as well -- if you have any other thoughts on this topic I would love to see another video like this xx
Thank you for this! Like you -- I also like to wear the same things over and over again during specific periods of my life. Fashion can be both shallow and deep -- and more often than not, it's spoken about in a shallow way. I love how thoughtful you are about your clothes :D
I would so so love it if you did a testing handbags video...I totally agree with you about the designer handbags but unfortunately as a student I'm not in a position where I can shell out $2000+ dollars (that's almost tuition!!!) on a bag! Loved the video !
This is a great video. I agree with someone below you are refreshing and breath of different air for youtube. Im totally in agreement on the bag and shoe thoughts. Im deffiantly working on quality over quantity for my closet and that has helped me feel better about my wardrobe. Things I really thought about and love make me feel sexy. Not hoarders of iems I purchased just to purchase.
I totally agree with you on opening a bit more on handbags. I love handbags but have not brought anything in a very long time (broke student-problems). I have had a lot of high-street bags and they have all broken after little to no use. They are not worth the money no matter how cheep they are. I think it is better to have one bag that you love than 5 cheep bags you only like.
I 100% agree on handbags, for one big reason, which has nothing to do with the psychological boost or whatever of "owning a label": quality. I'm not saying the size of the markup for a designer bag is always totally justified, but there IS a difference in quality, which translates into both a difference in the overall look/professionalism you project AND the durability. And longer durability means that over time, you may wind up paying roughly the same per wear. I guess there's a psychological boost and confidence that comes with knowing you're projecting a professional image and carrying something of quality that will last, but that's kind of secondary to the actual benefit of...well, of actually projecting a professional image and carrying something of quality that will last. Also: sorry, but I don't think anything backless can be defined as at all "androgynous" (at least, society isn't there right now.) Ask 100 people on the street, 99 would say would say that shirt you wore is a feminine shirt with a masculine influence. "Androgynous" in theory means that it's a thing that's not easily identifiable as overtly masculine or feminine, in whatever way the majority of people in a society choose to define those terms (I mean, it's not an objective thing - it's completely subjective, defined by the culture. 300 years ago, powdered wigs and jewels and colored silks and whatever were "androgynous" things, because that's where society was back then.) In practice, "androgynous" clothing means clothing people would not quickly label as masculine or feminine. I'll grant you that you may see a fabulous gay guy here and there in a backless top, but let's be real - that's not a thing you'll see on the average guy on an average day, and until you do, no way is that "androgynous."
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I'm petite -- not really what I had in mind when I thought of "sexy" as a younger girl at 23. I was also quite insecure with my body, I never felt comfortable flashing skin or baring arms or midriffs or low cut tops. I then bought my first Stuart Weitzman 50/50 over the knee boots -- all the rage then, and equally as classic now as the Highlander is based off it. I wore them to Tokyo in the winter with a short skirt and I felt SO comfortable -- bundled up in a knit and coat, with only that small bit of thigh flashing. That made me feel sexy, and I know by the compliments I got then that it WAS sexy because I felt it, owned it, and I found MY own way of feeling sexy thanks to a specific item of clothing. I still wear that same pair of boots to this very day. I'm now 29, so while I still occasionally wear it with a mini-skirt, I have toned it down and prefer it with skinny jeans... But all the same, I feel sophisticated when those shoes go on. 5 years on, boots quite battered, but I still get compliments when I wear them. :)
Still on the hunt for the next killer mainstay in my wardrobe to discover a new feeling/type of confidence in.
P.S. This is when I knew for sure I never dressed up for men. The satisfaction is not as great as when you KNOW you look great because you've put an outfit together that you love and feel comfy in.
I was nodding my head like yeah throughout “designer bag” part 😂 I feel the same way, and just like you I dont have a real explanation why is it so... but it is! It feels good having designer bag to finish your outfit, it just feels right. Yes its shallow and stupid, but I cannot but feel this way.. so dont worry Lizzie, you are not alone 😎
and this is why i like this channel..... please do wardrobe clear out video...
Lizzy you are so refreshing and I’m so glad you stay completely yourself in every video (re your discussion about how numbers aren’t a motivation for you anymore which I think is awesome). I’m coming to London from Sydney in a couple of weeks and you’ve gotten me so excited I’m already putting together my Lizzy-esque outfits haha! Keep it up and congrats on 100k!!
Enjoyed it? YES. Advice we’ve all heard, “dress for the job you want”, applies as true as “dress for your mood”. Casual Friday’s are comfortable at work but I don’t feel as on my game as when I’m dressed in something sharper. If I wore my comfies I put on when I hit home outside to run errands my mood would effing plummet. I don’t want to feel schlumpy when I’m out. If I dress schlumpy I feel like crap. Everything about this video rings true. And the handbag affliction,,,I have it too. I get so much enjoyment out of a really nice quality designer bag-doesn’t matter that 98% of people don’t know if it’s Target or Givenchy. It’s never about what others think-it’s purely the enjoyment and long term use I get out of it. Thanks Lizzie, this was so good.
Have you done a testing basics on handbags Lizzy? Would be interesting to test your theory on luxury vs high street bags! Thanks for the video. 😊
Elizabeth Ho love this idea, would be very intrested to see what lizzy would pick for the high street options, for me under 500 would be the affordable bag, while over that price point is luxury
Yes I would be very interested on handbags testing basics!! Please!!!
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@Luis Landry I really appreciate your reply. I got to the site on google and im trying it out now.
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Love how you explain things so well, always such a joy to watch! X
You’re so creative! I always think about this but have never been able to word it the way you do :)
Thank you so much! I did find it tricky to put into words too! X
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Totally agree with you about the handbags. About 2 years ago I had a massive clear out of cheap bags and upgraded my collection to a small, curate selection of more expensive bags. It makes me feel confident knowing I can go in my closet and I will always love the bag I pick up. My budget isn't quite a high as Loewe but it is definitely on my dream list.
I completely agree with what you said about designer handbags! I love the understated luxury of a designer handbag that isn't visibly branded. I think it's mostly because of the quality of the leather, it's nearly impossible to find luxurious feeling leather on the high street!
You talk such sense, are so informative and have great great style. Joy to view over my porridge. Happy Sunday 💕
Thank you so much, so glad you enjoyed! X
I would love to see an in depth handbag collection highlighting pros/cons and different ways of styling.
Really enjoyed this video and agree how certain pieces you wear make you feel a certain way. It’s like for me converse is something that just makes me feel comfortable and I gravitate towards them xx
I am a college student and I would describe my style as workwear punk/grunge lol. I love wearing cropped dress pants with high top converse. turtlenecks with an oversized jacket and fitted jeans. A blazer with ripped jeans. loafers with ripped jeans and a t shirt. I would say punk bc I like combining modern clean cut pieces with faded, ripped, pieces. I love me some plaid and black. my nose ring also helps with my punk look haha. I have exams so this was such a good break! you are literally my favorite fashion channel ever. keep up the amazing work, love!
a strong middle part and a red lip peps me up infinitely xx
Yes Lizzy, explore your existing closet and continue this thought process. I would enjoy more videos like this. I think very soon we will all have to rethink our consumption habits, clumsily trying to fill an emotional hole that never gets filled. And destroying human life and nature while we are doing it. There is no jugement (I still love my designer bags - totally know what you mean
This is one of my favourite videos you have ever done. It's always great to hear why you wear what you wear and your thought process. I also love that you are holding back on spending tons of money. Please do more of this kind of video x
This video was so interesting! Every time I wear my Celine box bag I always feel special just like you described. By the way the Loewe hammock bag is amazing!! And it would be great to see a video on choosing jewelry or your jewelry collection
You are getting better and better and so authentic. I really enjoy your content inkl. the blog very much. Pure inspiration combined with passion.
I loved this video! It's crazy how someone dresses can say so much about how you're feeling.
I love how everything you show looks worn and unironed - this is such a little detail which makes it so authentic
This video really resonates with me in terms of finding the wardrobe I'm happy with and can finally work with, with items that finally mix and match together, and a wardrobe more comfortable versus too-high heels and "suck in tummy" clothes all the time! It took me a bit longer - it all came together this year, at 32 years old! (And with my 2nd baby on the way. Pretty sure this journey started in 2013 with treatment for an eating disorder,, and kicked off properly when pregnant in 2014 with my first!). I still fit in my pre-pregnancy clothes, so have kept my favourites and finally started ditching the rest! Hooray! Thank you to you and around 4 other TH-camrs for helping me embrace myself and finally work out that wardrobe of mine!
i'm the opposite with handbags, i really don't get why you should spend that much money on them, but then my mum is like you and has such an incredible collection (She's obsessed with Hermes) so i guess to each their own... You should a part 2 of this btw i never get tired of listening to you talking about your style :)
I think it's very interesting and useful to know what your style or 'uniform' is, because it can prevent you from buying clothes that you eventually never wear. You have such a good sense of what you like and it makes your wardrobe very coherent. Me on the other hand, I sometimes feel as if I have ten different styles depending on my mood.
I feel exactly like you when it comes to designer handbags and the understated luxury thing! xx
i love this video!! your explanation of how designer handbags make you feel was so on point, i completely agree, i love how certain pieces can make you feel more confident before you even begin to question how others will see them.
This has to be one of your best videos yet! I love androgynous styling and you're always my go to for styling inspo. On the topic of "dressing sexy"; I'm 20 and whenever I go out with friends its always tight short clothes and big brands which is fine but it really doesn't feel like me, but I always feel underdressed compared to them because I like to wear longline blazers and jeans vs. super low cut and tight things that make me feel like a really compressed sausage 😅 I'm really tall too so I feel like the more boobs legs and arms I have out the more clumsy I look? Not sure if thats just a me thing though 😂 Such a fab video 💖
This is the best video I’ve watched in awhile - please keep doing these ❤️
Re designer bags: I used to fall into the trap of seeing them as a shortcut and thinking that as long as I slapped one on, it didn't much matter what I wore and my outfit would always look good, until I started noticing other girls who made the same mistake. It took me a while to stop relying on them - my rule now is that an outfit needs to look as good/finished without one as it would with one.
Astrid VW Lol I totally agree! But I do feel for easy slapstick dressing (white tee and a pair of jeans), a designer bag and a good shoe is really the cherry on top. Probably a placebo too hahaha you and Lizzy put it into words so well
I always go to your Instagram for inspiration when it comes to my wardrobe and what pieces invest in. Regarding the accessory bag I agree with you 100% a good quality bag can totally make the outfit
Awesome! This reminds me so much of the message in Marie Kondo's book - after discovering the items that give you the most joy, you then figure out your style and what makes you the most confident. In that way, you are truly dressing for yourself and not others. Looking forward to your next video on this topic :)
Great video Lizzy! I fully feel you about the handbags thing, I think it is a combo of the quality, durability and overall shape of designer bags which appeals to me - both functional and aesthetic xx
I loved this video, Lizzy. Thank you. I feel the same about structured coats as you do about designer bags. I don't own popular designer brand coats, but I've invested in classic 100% wool ones that just look special from a mile away. It makes me feel so put together. Thanks to channels like yours, I've slowly started swapping my wardrobe for good quality classic pieces that I will love for years. I am very much into the basics as yourself. I think it was only possible after I figured out what I like and what suits me, which has helped a lot with spending as well. In the past I would just buy many coats that would fall apart after one or two seasons but with good quality ones I always look forward to the season change so I could bring that item out again and wear it. I would also love a designer bag but I've yet to get one for myself. I think of these things as investments. Designer bags also don't really decrease in value if you were ever inclined to sell them. I would much rather buy that one special handbag than five plastic looking "dupe" ones from the high street and wear that thing until it falls apart. There are just some things you need to invest in to get good quality. Furthermore, a Topshop bag you buy on a whim doesn't offer you the emotional gratification as pouring over and deciding to buy something you have lusted over for a long time. For some it might also be a status thing but as I get older, those things become less and less important. In fact for me personally wearing anything with a visible label on it makes me embarrassed for the reason that I know it is shallow. Though if someone were to notice I am wearing Acne Studios Jensen boots because of the metal tip, for example, then they know and are probably part of the group that can appreciate them.
I’m obsessed with your channel! Every video is interesting and intelligent and honest
Lizzy I happened upon your channel awhile ago and it's so refreshing to see your take on style when it comes to androgynous pieces. When you described how a pair of loafers and a blazer made you feel I understood you completely! I love how I feel in blazers like I can conquer the world. Thank you for being you and for consistently bringing gorgeous videos and incredible style to my youtube feed! Merry Christmas and much love💕🌲📯
Definitely my STYLE ICON.
YES I 110% feel the same way about bags and I think you've actually explained the feeling really well. I think there's also something to be said about having an item that you literally use everyday be luxurious and of gorgeous quality. It makes day to day errands and activities feel more special you know?
I love this video! I have also gotten into this lifestyle of dressing with my confidence and not falling into fast fashion but for my personal wanting!
Totally agree with the designer handbag thing. I was also wondering where the beautiful floor lap is from, the one next to your sofa? X
Great concept for a video. I think clothing and how you dress and subsequently feel also has a lot to do with how you construct your identity, discover who you are and how you want to communicate to the world. My style has evolved alongside my self exploration and the person I am trying to be. Finding a good outfit is like finally being comfortable in your own skin which is so empowering. Thanks Lizzy xxx
I loved this video so much, so inspiring. How clothes can make you feel is something I've been thinking about a lot recently, definitely want to do some changes in my wardrobe now ! Great video :)
I love this video - I guess I always thought about dressing for mood, but unconsciously. My favourite forever will be shirt and jeans! Works all throughout the year in England :D
Yes! Love this video ❤ Use your creativity and shop your wardrobe rather than constantly buying new things while wearing the same old stuff 😂
I've realised that the key to feeling sexy/confident is comfort! If you feel comfortable you project your best self out there 😊❤🎅
Congrats on 100k Lizzy!! Very much deserved!😁
I really enjoyed this and appreciated the way you presented it.
This woman is just so inspiring and different, is so refreshing:')
Love your passion in this video Lizzie. I feel the same way about shirts and blazers and I'm just starting to get into loafers too. There's something so sexy about looking very feminine in 'masculine' clothes
Really like this. I love that you’re doing meaningful things in your channel.
Such an awesome vid! You never fail to come up with new, innovative fashion videos. I totally know what you mean about the androgeny of the half-buttoned shirts and longline blazer!
i feel you on having a nice bag! i don't own any 'luxury' brand bags but I have some bags made by small ethical brands that I spent a lot on and really love. I have a leather backpack I got from a woman who makes them 3 years ago and have worn it nonstop since. love the idea of having a uniform and knowing what makes you feel good. I'm a turtleneck girl through and through - even in the summer i love a short sleeve or sleeveless turtleneck :-)
Hey Lizzy, you might be interested in the book "Women in clothes" it addresses why we wear what we wear. xx
I think this is a great concept for a video. Most of my outfit decisions revolve around how I feel rather than what's on trend.
Unexpected and/or bright shoes make me feel good because they attract attention and who doesn't like a compliment? Congratulations on 100k, I love your content and the originality in your videos. And your honesty - designer handbags are a code, they send messages out to the world and back to you and if you can afford it and like the message then why not?
i love you lizzy! your style, your thought, your creativity and ideas! totally understand about handbags! keep doing such a good work! soooo inspiring!
Hey wanted to get back to you about designer handbags, I have a couple of them (mostly smaller size and cross body) but for day to day I tend to have bags/backpacks from the high street just because I am always worried about ruining or breaking them. A designer handbag will always feel more special because it is an investment that I thought about a lot or a present. Nevertheless, I think some of the bags on the high street can make a day to day outfit feel just as put together as a designer one. You should do a testing basics on crossbody bags and maybe on tote bags as I think a lot of people would find it helpful. Have a good Sunday x
To me, a part of the luxury of a luxury bag is that you will ruin it and that is okay. Using a Chanel Reissue when grocery shopping (and putting frozen peas in it, because your shopping tote is full) is far more special to me than only using the bag on special occations. The tassels on my Balenciaga City have bite marks, because my cat used to play with them when he was a kitten, and I love that.
YES! I love this ! Bang on ! More please 😍😍😍 ! Xoxo
Wow I really felt like we are in the same room talking to each other. Loved the video, amazing pieces.
forever my gal crush. Totally with you on the bag front too - always a designer bag in tow!
I'm always drooling, everytime I see the Dear Frances spirit boots. Such beautiful boots. Those are definitely in my wishlist, I hope I can have it one day. 😍😍😍
Btw... Congratulations on 100K Lizzy!! 🎆🎆🎆❤❤❤
Great video, Lizzy :) love how you think about styling pieces. I can kind of understand your designer handbag thing. Although I haven't taken the plunge for one yet, I think they can really dress up/ perfect any outfit. I've been out of school and working for over a year now so I've had some time to experiment my with my business casual style. The types of items that make me feel good and confident at work are a good pair of block heel pumps (in particular, my nude/pink patent ones from Kate Spade), tailored blazers, classic crewneck cashmere sweater (in any colored and paired with black dress pants), and well fitting high waisted mid-length skirts.
I definitely feel you about the shirts, I always go for a nice shirt when i feel like dressing up a bit fancy and feeling sexy. Love the video btw It's such a creative way to look at your wardrobe!
Totally agree with you about designer bags.. i am the same way. Love this video... love your content lately.. a lot of originality in your videos!
Thank you so so much xxx
Loved this type of video and it's important to reflect on it regarding future purchases and shopping your own wardrobe. I kind of understand what you mean by designer handbags because i felt that way everytime i wore my mulberry bag (birthday present). But now, i feel much better when i wear branded bags that are dedicated to practicality/efficiency and being eco-friendly (within reason). I love Knomo bags, Angela Roi is on my list as well as matt&nat. I like pieces that are statement but minimal but it's just my style and how they make me feel. I still love my mulberry but these days i'll only carry small shoulder bags and reserve my everyday stuff for backpacks that look good. (mostly cos i don't want to fuck up my back in the long run)
Thanks for the tips! Kinda obsessed & loving your style; effortless! 😘 lots of love from Malaysia!
really love this video Lizzy, such a nice and different take! please explore this topic more!!
Your style and the way you dress and explain clothing is honestly fascinating and impeccable!!
I really aspire to dress like this in like 4 years from now..(btw I'm 19 and I still pretty much live in thrifted denim and random Tees)
this video was absolutely amazing. you are so creative with your videos which is SO refreshing !!!! This video was inspirational yet personal and made me reflect on all the garments in my wardrobe ! I adore your love for androgynous style and how you adapt mens clothes to become more feminine and sexy
Lizzy, your personality and your videos are awesome and I love how creative you are!
Definitely agree with buying designer handbags. I don’t own a lot of bags but all of them are designer and not heavily branded. I think I like designer ones because a bag is something you wear everyday and it makes sense to invest. I also have this idea that designer handbags are more unique (because you’re paying for design and quality) and will last longer.
Lots of interesting points! Agree with you on a lot of things - feeling comfortable is so important to me, in making me feel like myself and also confident. Also, during the colder months - the most imporant thing over all is being warm. Maybe do a testing basic using second hand and vintage pieces? Would be really interesting to see. I find that it feels less excessive since the clothes weren't produced now, and need a new home instead of being burnt.
I'd love a video of Lizzy digging thru the racks at a vintage shop!
Would also love to see an in depth review of your celine loafers!
this is such a cool video concept! x
I really love designer bags too....., love your content and your definitely unique, been a subscriber since mid last year and have enjoyed watching you evolve and grow xo
where's the beautiful floor lamp next to your sofa from? and also wondering about the two prints on the wall behind you? much love x
Love this video, it's something that I've been noticing for a while now in my life, it definitely affects my mood. When I dress powerful I feel on top of the world, when I throw things together , it doesn't help my mood.
I wore a skirt to my friends birthday dinner two days ago, tight and uncomfortable at the waist, made even worse by trying to tuck a jumper in... My day was awful lol...i am now getting rid of that skirt. And there are certain things that I wear to work that make me feel like a lady boss even though I recently started after graduating. And you're right about the expensive understated items, I have some things like that, no one can see the brand yet I'm walking on cloud nine .
Your style so reminds of Dianne Keaton 😍
Exactly!!!!
Would be cool to see a video on outfits you wear during certain emotions- like when you're sad your go to comfy outfit or when you're happy or something
Hi Lizzy!
When I was in Antwerp last year, I bought a yellow coat. Firstly I thought it was a bit overwhelming and I was afraid of people looking at me, because my coat was very noticeable. However, it was a bargain and I didn't have a coat like that, so I've bought it. When I wear it now, I feel amazing. I feel like a supermodel off duty and feel very grown-up, while I'm just sixteen. If I want to make a big entrance or I just want dress up or feel good, I wear that coat and it always makes me shine.
Secondly, when I want to feel sexy or something, I put on my favorite perfume. That makes me feel awake and attractive. ;)
Love,
Floor from Amsterdam xxx
I agree with you on the handbags
I utterly and COMPLETELY understand what you are saying about your handbags. Only difference is my "luxury" bags (Rebecca Minkoff, Marc Jacobs, All Saints, vintage Coach) elevate my Target, TJ Maax and Nordstrom Rack apparel. ;) In addition, especially with the All Saints, I can see using the bags forever--the styling and quality is such that if I take care and keep them clean, they will last me as long as I can totter around with a bag on my shoulder!
This was so so good!
Hi Lizzy! Thank you for your refreshing views on style and fashion. You really put thoughts on creating unique YT content! Speaking about how clothes make you feel, I am wondering if you do have a "uniform" or "go-to pieces" to wear during PMS or that time of the month, to cheer you up, still feel confident but confortable, to try to still feel good about yourself when you just don't want to be noticed ;) Thanks! xx
Do you think you could do a Testing Basics with over-the-knee boots (in particular with the Stuart Weitzman-style ones that you have).
I'm pretty sure she already did one
One of your best videos !! Love your channel ! Lucia :)
Loved this video. For designer bags, I don’t tend to gear towards that BUT I do love a good leather bag though. I like mid range leather bags, J.Crew, Coach, Rebecca Minkoff and Matt and Natt. There is a difference with cheap high street brand to a nice leather bag 💁🏾😊💁🏾😊
I couldn't agree more! I always save for a luxury brand bag. I think bags can last so long and pass to generations and generations. A luxury bag is not only about its brand, it is also about the history and grace it represents. I also like to buy good brand shoes, because sometimes the high street ones can be very comfortable.....
love this video and your honesty about trying to worth with your wardrobe rather than purchasing new all the time. Can I ask...do you have a rubber sole added to your Gucci's? Is there a particular place you take them?
Loved this one! I think this is such a great topic and something I always consider when I'm shopping and dressing. My favourite is (much like you!) a crisp white shirt, great denim and espadrille wedges for summer nights. I also think theres something really powerful to doing a bold red lip and no other makeup. So sexy in my eyes! Love your train of thought here Lizzy!
i think especially when it comes to handbags i find really hard finding a high street handbag that is a really good quality that doesn't look cheap and i know will last me for more than one season with out falling apart or looking beaten up
I love this video Lizzy! I feel like it could be a series as well -- if you have any other thoughts on this topic I would love to see another video like this xx
I’m totally the same with handbags, but I’m the one who loves a good LV monogram 😂😍✨
Great video and your hair looks beautiful here xx
Thank you for this! Like you -- I also like to wear the same things over and over again during specific periods of my life.
Fashion can be both shallow and deep -- and more often than not, it's spoken about in a shallow way. I love how thoughtful you are about your clothes :D
Could you do a video on your favourite or most worn pieces of jewellery currently?
I love this so much! 👏
I would so so love it if you did a testing handbags video...I totally agree with you about the designer handbags but unfortunately as a student I'm not in a position where I can shell out $2000+ dollars (that's almost tuition!!!) on a bag! Loved the video !
This is a great video. I agree with someone below you are refreshing and breath of different air for youtube. Im totally in agreement on the bag and shoe thoughts. Im deffiantly working on quality over quantity for my closet and that has helped me feel better about my wardrobe. Things I really thought about and love make me feel sexy. Not hoarders of iems I purchased just to purchase.
I totally agree with you on opening a bit more on handbags. I love handbags but have not brought anything in a very long time (broke student-problems). I have had a lot of high-street bags and they have all broken after little to no use. They are not worth the money no matter how cheep they are. I think it is better to have one bag that you love than 5 cheep bags you only like.
Hi Lizzy! In love with this video. Can you tell us where those necklaces you were wearing from? They look absolutely gorgeous 💙
I 100% agree on handbags, for one big reason, which has nothing to do with the psychological boost or whatever of "owning a label": quality. I'm not saying the size of the markup for a designer bag is always totally justified, but there IS a difference in quality, which translates into both a difference in the overall look/professionalism you project AND the durability. And longer durability means that over time, you may wind up paying roughly the same per wear. I guess there's a psychological boost and confidence that comes with knowing you're projecting a professional image and carrying something of quality that will last, but that's kind of secondary to the actual benefit of...well, of actually projecting a professional image and carrying something of quality that will last.
Also: sorry, but I don't think anything backless can be defined as at all "androgynous" (at least, society isn't there right now.) Ask 100 people on the street, 99 would say would say that shirt you wore is a feminine shirt with a masculine influence. "Androgynous" in theory means that it's a thing that's not easily identifiable as overtly masculine or feminine, in whatever way the majority of people in a society choose to define those terms (I mean, it's not an objective thing - it's completely subjective, defined by the culture. 300 years ago, powdered wigs and jewels and colored silks and whatever were "androgynous" things, because that's where society was back then.) In practice, "androgynous" clothing means clothing people would not quickly label as masculine or feminine. I'll grant you that you may see a fabulous gay guy here and there in a backless top, but let's be real - that's not a thing you'll see on the average guy on an average day, and until you do, no way is that "androgynous."
Really enjoyed watching this.