DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: Brabham vs Trotter

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  • @Shineldove
    @Shineldove 7 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    He already said he doesn't want to be exclusive. Why are they even here?...

    • @proudmommytoowenandmilo2294
      @proudmommytoowenandmilo2294 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Shinel Thank you! I scrolled through the comments just to see if anyone else would say that. For real though, why are they there? It was pretty obvious that it wasn't going to end well, they could have just done this at home.

    • @evynewton
      @evynewton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it's good tv, they just came to see Judge Lynn!!! he didn't want to get married, he wanted to help her & those children out... she act strange, very desperate & it makes her not very attractive...

    • @tinasmith5752
      @tinasmith5752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      EXACTLY! ! !

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Truly Blessed lol. Not many men are going to over look 6 kids at 30 years old. Just like women shouldn't over look this in men either. If the fathers didn't see her as commitment material, other men won't either. Obviously she has terrible judgement and decision making skills and even if she was beautiful, that's not going to make up for the amount of baggage and nonsense that would come from committing to that circus

    • @tebelleh
      @tebelleh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      6 kids and expect monogamy? Make that sense. He is a suckered for accepting Ratchet around himself. This a sign of a man who doesn't know his value.

  • @erinwilliams6201
    @erinwilliams6201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    Don't let anyone have to tell you they don't want you twice. And he's said it EXPLICITLY.

  • @joibebebe
    @joibebebe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    She's the only one who can't see he doesn't want her

    • @prophetessesther6566
      @prophetessesther6566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ofcourse not you forgot she's beautiful lol

    • @shirleycarter6976
      @shirleycarter6976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl you need to pack your bags and hit the road with your six kids you lucky he even took you to his home. I think he feel like he Don Wong but just a person who wrong for you

    • @joymosley8997
      @joymosley8997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely

  • @erinwilliams6201
    @erinwilliams6201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    This is actually so sad. She's talking about he's "cheating" on her, but YALL ARENT EVEN TOGETHER. He doesn't want you, boo! Let it goooooooooo!

    • @nomsantuli6023
      @nomsantuli6023 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erin Williams lol

    • @adriannefrazier8892
      @adriannefrazier8892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly she needs to move on geez

    • @tinalawson5110
      @tinalawson5110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes they were together. Just because he changed words around. Still did not change the fact they were cohabitating as a couple.

    • @cocoaxoxo9230
      @cocoaxoxo9230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And he living in HER house with her kids.

    • @SuperShayla00
      @SuperShayla00 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

  • @rutendochinamira1312
    @rutendochinamira1312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    When judge said I have a great mind, great husband, great bank account - I felt that! 💁🏽‍♀️

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

  • @MistaQ3
    @MistaQ3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    I hate it when people say that they deserve something because they're beautiful. The way you look doesn't determine what you deserve. I don't even know why this lady went on the show when he already said and continued to say that he doesn't want to marry her or even have an official title as a couple with her.

    • @luvmifro1003lovesfamily
      @luvmifro1003lovesfamily 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      MistaQ3 Right! For some odd resin she needed to hear from someone else that he doesn't want to marry her....couldn't just take his word I guess

    • @sosaimblessed7230
      @sosaimblessed7230 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MistaQ3 He just wanted some booties.. that's all.

    • @drlovie
      @drlovie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true...it's is really not right. Every being with a kind soul is beautiful anyways.
      She is talking about big and fat....she should look at herself before criticizing others and look.

    • @ingridquintero4828
      @ingridquintero4828 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      MistaQ3 They don't need to be together. Dysfunctional

    • @yolandaautrey-keen7499
      @yolandaautrey-keen7499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She ain't beautiful

  • @VintageAfro91
    @VintageAfro91 7 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Honestly, dude should've left her alone from the beginning. It seems to me that he only got with her out of guilt and pity that she had 6 kids. He knew damn well he didn't want all that responsibility and rightfully so because those aren't even his kids.

  • @kennethbarnes8630
    @kennethbarnes8630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    He wants her gone and she doesn't want to leave lol

    • @yolandaautrey-keen7499
      @yolandaautrey-keen7499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kenneth Barnes ikr!

    • @AlllSmiless
      @AlllSmiless 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He needs to move out of her place

    • @OnPointWithIt
      @OnPointWithIt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He waiting for the judge to tell him go leave or doesn't have anywhere to live. He's free to break it off if he really want out.

    • @SuperShayla00
      @SuperShayla00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @TSR228
      @TSR228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He lives with her tho 🤔

  • @TSR228
    @TSR228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    He got loud and mad when she revealed that he lives with her now and the roles have reversed 😂😂😂😂

    • @lovinmycurvescurls3842
      @lovinmycurvescurls3842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He did didn't he?? He was hella cool and aloof almost during the whole proceeding until she revealed he was living with her....lmao

    • @prophetessesther6566
      @prophetessesther6566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It was the manner she said it in a demeaning manner.
      Everyone needs help once in their lives. After him taking her and her children in she shouldn't be so arrogant

    • @ziggyhype1
      @ziggyhype1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@prophetessesther6566 exactly on now she gonna tlk him down like that always remember where u r coming from

    • @sheilap9854
      @sheilap9854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sure Did his whole facial expression Changed!!!

    • @aisosaaigbovia2456
      @aisosaaigbovia2456 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@prophetessesther6566 She ended up sounding ungrateful and if the situation was reversed, she wont have taken him in. That's just my thought anyway

  • @AshleyOra
    @AshleyOra 7 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    This what happens when you have sex. Soul tying with someone will confuse situations.

  • @fluffyfloo
    @fluffyfloo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Judge Toler's famous words - CONTROL YOUR FERTILITY!!!

    • @jessjess9142
      @jessjess9142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm not judging but 6 kids and being only 30 is alot. Geesh!

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jessjess9142 Hell. 6 kids at 40 or 50 is alot

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 ปีที่แล้ว

      And get an education

  • @reneakennedy6575
    @reneakennedy6575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    don't let a man keep telling you he don't want you let it go

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Renea Kennedy
      💯
      Judge Toler always has the best advice.

    • @faithlutta351
      @faithlutta351 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Renea Kennedy ofcos the bitch knows he doesnt want her its just that the dude cares for her feelings

    • @deontei1
      @deontei1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      not wanting marriage and not wanting someone is 2 different things

  • @kyleshieldlaster9059
    @kyleshieldlaster9059 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    He's lying. He's not attracted to her. He practically whispered 'yes'.

  • @ashanelle6028
    @ashanelle6028 7 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    She needs to first love HERSELF. How she got 6 kids and can't think of nothing but having a man? Smh

  • @nolagyrl4793
    @nolagyrl4793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    She uses that “if he doesn’t want me another person will” as a defense mechanism. If another man would she would have left a long time ago. She need to focus on herself and those kids. That travelers lifestyle with all those kids should tell her that she is making bad decisions in life!

  • @unbotheredbklyn2789
    @unbotheredbklyn2789 7 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    She need to focus on her SIX KIDS. This is the damn problem. Stop expecting men to marry you just cuz you gave up the cookie. Or think you can entrap them just cuz you have their kids. Ugh...this trend need to stop.

    • @Keepcakin
      @Keepcakin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes yes yes yes yessssssssssss

    • @crissymeh
      @crissymeh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I agree. Shes so focused in getting a ring when she has SIX kids already. That sounds like a half dozen mistake already. She should focus on loving herself first and her kids before anyone else.

    • @trfaison
      @trfaison 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She didn't expect or at least demand commitment from her previous partners as she is now. She wants commitment now because she has 6 children and she sees him as a catch.

  • @PRETTYESHIA504
    @PRETTYESHIA504 7 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    They both got on my nerves. he just wanna be single and mingle. and she wants a man to help her with her kids. they both on different levels smh

    • @gillokonkwo791
      @gillokonkwo791 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      504Thickbeautyy 💯

    • @drakeovo183
      @drakeovo183 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop talking about my mom like that

    • @user-mc1ir2ri9i
      @user-mc1ir2ri9i 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@drakeovo183 lmao huh

    • @happyguy2k
      @happyguy2k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And the kids suffer with all these men in their lives

  • @kristinroberts9126
    @kristinroberts9126 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    LADY!!! He HAS a girlfriend. He told you that you all are NOT exclusive. He's just waiting until his girlfriend invites him to live with her or waiting to get his own place. Why are you on Before Your Vows? You're not getting married; this is not your fiance...hell this is not your *boyfriend* lol.

    • @misssue4328
      @misssue4328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But why did he come if he doesn't consider them to be in s relationship? He is leading her on. He dated her for awhile, then moved her and her kids in, tells her he loves her, has a sexual relationship with her, but she should just know he doesn't want her. He wanted some in-house snatch while he still weighed his options

    • @DJay123455
      @DJay123455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She moved in with him he probably feel bad if he kicked them 6 kids out tho

    • @carlpotter007
      @carlpotter007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just SAVAGE! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@misssue4328 Um. Yea. She has 6 kids and none of the dads stayed around. She's seen this situation before. I guarantee she has added to this tribe by now because she's not doing anything different or better than what she's been doing to get herself in such an untenable situation.

  • @ninadrake2167
    @ninadrake2167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Her options are not that “High” with 6 Kids! 🤷🏾‍♀️
    He felt obligated to help her due to his upbringing, not because he’s emotionally into her. He probably won’t commit to any woman.

    • @terickastidbits2342
      @terickastidbits2342 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He definitely ain’t committing to someone with 6 kids

  • @marcusfrombellsballspodcas2048
    @marcusfrombellsballspodcas2048 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I honestly believe the only reason she came on this show is because she thought Judge Toler could convince him to marry her. She is delusional in that sense that she thinks that a person outside their relationship can change his feelings. He has made it abundantly clear, he is not interested in her. She has wasted too much time focusing on a nonexistent relationship.

    • @chrisjones7289
      @chrisjones7289 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was for the check

  • @No-one20244
    @No-one20244 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    She need to move on he don't want her

  • @Cali4ah
    @Cali4ah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This episode could have been two mins long, it was easy to see that he's not in to her at all. He did a nice thing she fell in love, she just needs to focus on raising her kids. She keeps talking about she needs a man to love her and validate her, you have to do that yourself first. Or else the next guy who comes along still won't be enough.

  • @cynmille2000
    @cynmille2000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    ummmm six kids is a lot to handle. I have a set of twins too, but they all grown. I know I might get cussed out for what i am going to say but I would not date or marry someone with young children. My children are grown and i dont want to raise kids all over again. im too old to be doing it again.

    • @alisonthea6828
      @alisonthea6828 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *Tell me this, if you meet a guy who has all the requirements you want from in a man (caring, hardworking, focused...) was married but his wife passed away and He has a young son with that woman, you won't marry him?*
      Or you going to move to man who has 6 grown children and has nothing doing because he thinks has already made it in life with his 6 decisions.

    • @zoe0187
      @zoe0187 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      alison Thea Lol, why not a nice man with no kid or grown kids? Is it possible too?

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zoe F definitely possible

    • @sammypop160
      @sammypop160 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      cynthia miller I agree

    • @mwoods2375
      @mwoods2375 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Cynthia Miller I don't blame you girl I don't want to date somebody with small kids either my babies are 31 and 34. I'm done raising kids unless it's my grandkids

  • @Hopeguz3
    @Hopeguz3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    His body language is very clear he doesn’t want her and good grief there’s is so many signs.

  • @imanrashida
    @imanrashida 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Focus on providing for your six kids and put dating and marriage on hold till your kids are old and gone .

    • @emadowhatever2180
      @emadowhatever2180 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Imelda O nobody wants to stay lonely for so long. please be realistic

    • @imanrashida
      @imanrashida 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's not a punishment to be alone if you are a single mum with multiple kids, it's a sacrifice you make so that you can focus your time and resources on your kids. There is nothing realistic about having 6 kids as a single mum and continuing the search for a perfect man who will accept you and them and performing the daddy test runs on them. Not to be cruel but once you decide to give birth you sacrifice ,dedicate and loose some of your rights, needs and wants for them

    • @emadowhatever2180
      @emadowhatever2180 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I would never advice anyone to stay alone Just because of their kids. having kids should not be seen as some sort of punishment. Sometimes you are in a relationship and shit happens. AND so what you are saying is . .. this person that already Went through shit doesnt deserve a man Who treats her right for now. she Just needs to be alone. thats bs and makes no sense. The only thing i would advice is this woman is to take it easy. take time to know the man you give your heart to. But she deserves good love from a good man with or without kids. Some men have ten kids and still get married to the next chick. So if thats possible so is this.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ema dowhatever so you would love for your son to marry a woman with 6 kids in her position be honest let's not play TH-cam

    • @emadowhatever2180
      @emadowhatever2180 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      GETBIG4WARD ofcourse why not?

  • @tumama030
    @tumama030 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I cant even listen to him...he cray. and he's not attracted to her

    • @YamamotoGenryuusai
      @YamamotoGenryuusai 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      who would be?

    • @tumama030
      @tumama030 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Le Togolais that isn't nice! she's a pretty lady, shes a little round in the middle

    • @YamamotoGenryuusai
      @YamamotoGenryuusai 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ok, but with 6 kids, the last thing she wanna do is be in his face. If she keeps pressuring him, he will run away.

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Le Togolais let him run away. Who cares about him. Just because she has six children it's not the end of the world. He obviously found some sort of interest in her and he's not the only man who will.

    • @LIVEINPEACE2023
      @LIVEINPEACE2023 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Th3lite That's what she continuously said but she never left. 🤷‍♀️

  • @KeepinitKlassic101
    @KeepinitKlassic101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hahah! He got too scared when judge said put him out and keep it moving.😂😂

  • @AndyinMTL
    @AndyinMTL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    30 years old ( if she's really 30 ...regular DC viewers know what I'm talking about lol) and 6 kids wow you would think birth control doesn't exist for these people... crazy

    • @yolandaautrey-keen7499
      @yolandaautrey-keen7499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Andy M. She looks about 45

    • @discoverwithmechannel2540
      @discoverwithmechannel2540 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am married at 30 with just 1 kid.

    • @RoxiePoxi
      @RoxiePoxi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She did say she had 2 sets of twins...but ya... Still 🤔

    • @bonniegomez5333
      @bonniegomez5333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      2 sets of twins. Still a lot but not because she got preggo six times.

    • @ludeyeveillard3276
      @ludeyeveillard3276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why your judging her base on how many kids she have

  • @rabbit22o
    @rabbit22o 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    He was dropping hints all over the place to her. That it was over already or just wants a open relationship. But he is not interested anymore. those boots are made for walking👋😀 see Ya!

  • @naptowninphx3034
    @naptowninphx3034 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    No, they do not belong together and if he didn't want to be with her, he shouldn't moved into her place. Just because she has 6 children that she's taking care of, doesn't mean a good man doesn't want her. There's plenty of men out here with more than 6 children and they don't even take of them!

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tamyra Williams you are correct but it's one difference babies stay with the mother 9 times outta 10 a man with multiple kids usually comes ALL BY HIMSELF I'm just the messenger a woman takes a man with kids in he don't being kids a woman with multiple kids brings everybody

    • @gregb1374
      @gregb1374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MissTame Tho he moved her into his place

  • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
    @Rainsnowreadysetblow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    He basically strung her along but I never just blame the men in these situations because a man will continue to do what you allow. She needs to keep it moving...

    • @quielaivory5783
      @quielaivory5783 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +MissesNova u spoke the truth, the whole truth, & nothing but the truth, that's exactly what he is doing..?? & getting away with it!! & she allowing him 2 use her.

    • @AATCgal
      @AATCgal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Favsunsky you never blame men for their behavior? gtfo

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wouldn’t say he strung her along initially... Lady had 6 kids and no where to stay... She should’ve moved out, with her kids as soon as he said he wasn’t for marriage.

    • @tanmbou1510
      @tanmbou1510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AATCgal they said "in these situations" and they’re right. If someone is doing something and you stay, you’re giving them the green light to continue what they do. You allow it

  • @malikbukaiinyc900
    @malikbukaiinyc900 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Anyone hearing "if you don't, someone else will" will end up disconnected from the situation for their own protection.

  • @imMantha
    @imMantha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    He had me up until he said “what you don’t know won’t hurt you” 🤦🏽‍♀️😒

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! “ what you don’t know” can be an STD that can kill you

  • @Subliminalmessage78
    @Subliminalmessage78 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Insecurity is ripping people's lives apart. It seems like every show, one partner is asking, "Who is that calling you?" or "I was going through his/her phone...."

    • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
      @Rainsnowreadysetblow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      2626LadyLuck yup and a lack of trust, which makes no sense to be in a relationship

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What gets me is that the person whose insecure acts like that's the ONLY johnson/coochie in the world. In the words of the oracle Sweet Brown "ain't nobody got time for that". LOL

    • @charmainewalker8627
      @charmainewalker8627 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crazy. Said the same thing. Why the hell am I going to waste my time being an investigator

  • @sotheo7074
    @sotheo7074 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You mean to tell me that you had 6 kids with different men and they didn't commit to you but after 2 years of living with somebody who rescued you , whom you don't have any kid with, you want him to put a ring on it? Lady don't be delusional.

  • @bribri0786
    @bribri0786 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    It doesn't seem like he cares too much to even be there lol. He's so nonchalant about it. That shoulda told her something right there.

  • @cjrtb
    @cjrtb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He doesn't like to be direct with questions, he like to play around with his answers and try to manipulate the mind.

  • @shebeendope2322
    @shebeendope2322 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    So they went to Judge Toler to hear her tell them what they already knew they should do?

  • @jrshakinah
    @jrshakinah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Lmao!!! After hearing both sides I could tell the judge did not like this dude at all. He don't want to marry you so move on. What's the show? She didn't need judge linn to tell her its ok. Go.

    • @littleblueplanet4973
      @littleblueplanet4973 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup

    • @rayhend100
      @rayhend100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      johnny bravo The judge is on point most of the time. But in the end, she’s still a woman, and she’s still human. A big part of being a judge is being unbiased. It’s a lot harder for most to do it than we think.

  • @thomaswest4339
    @thomaswest4339 7 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    As a realistic person I believe the judge gave the right advice. This man is one who believes he is the smartest in the room. Egotistical and Narcissistic. He needs someone to bring him down. As a man I can say this.

    • @barbarasolomenakkazi8527
      @barbarasolomenakkazi8527 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But why don't u teach her what u want if u love her with those 6 kids.

    • @pspearman1815
      @pspearman1815 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@barbarasolomenakkazi8527 he doesnt love her with 6 kids. I think that's the whole issue here. He may enjoy a sense of family and playing hero coming from a single mom with a bunch of kids however that's not who he wants to marry or introduce to ppl in his circle.

    • @dawghousefitness4017
      @dawghousefitness4017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@barbarasolomenakkazi8527 you don't teach her shit. You call the other dads and let them work it out. There's a reason those other men came inside her and didn't stay. It isn't a man's job to rebuild a woman.

    • @tebelleh
      @tebelleh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This man was being a fool a suckered for an egotistical woman who doesn't deserve a great man like this. She has fuck up her life and is now talking like she is a prize for men out there. The De k is extremely stacked against her thinking that there are suckered out there willing to commit to her overweight self and this Ratchet attitude.

  • @kaymartin7988
    @kaymartin7988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    He talks a good game but I don't think he's relationship material.
    She needs to stop nagging him.

    • @trahapace150
      @trahapace150 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mykaia Martin neither is she

  • @theveeshow6433
    @theveeshow6433 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I don't have anything against anyone with 5,6 or more kids, but I don't think I could be with someone with that many kids it's just too much. The guy clearly don't want her and she talks too much and kept interrupting. their just too much and they clearly annoy each other, good lord 😑😑😑

    • @stephthachochic1152
      @stephthachochic1152 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tasha Golden
      Ikr !!! 3 prior relationships=3 baby daddy's, at least....
      I could not eeeevvvven imagine trying to be in a relationship....my focus would be my kids......

  • @vangelinajolie
    @vangelinajolie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Because I'm a beautiful woman, I deserve it" LOL

  • @AreneStheme
    @AreneStheme 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Months later these two were on the Robert Irvin show as well and saying the same thing.
    Robert said she had a low self esteem and she must because what other show will they shown up to with her saying the same thing?
    His point- six kids- no thanks
    Her point-marry me please please, I'm beautiful and I have a self esteem.
    Reality is there are many beautiful women who do not have six kids with the package.
    Nothing is wrong with having kids but right now they should be the priority and not her trying to tie down a man who does not want her.
    If he wants to commit to you , it would have happened by now.
    When a person shows you who they are believe them.
    She said if God can't do it, Judge Toler can't do it then no body can.
    Why then did she go crying the same song on the Robert Irvin show?
    Girl just say to this guy b"ye Felecia "

  • @lkcjr58
    @lkcjr58 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you Judge Lynn ! Direct straight to the point on your closing statement . I am appreciative that you open her eyes .

  • @alexmichaels8024
    @alexmichaels8024 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    try loving yourself.

  • @charlzwill495
    @charlzwill495 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    he thinks his slick judge saw right through him so did i with all those long explanations

    • @slaveobey1172
      @slaveobey1172 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charlene Williams 😂 and the shit ain’t eem make no sense 😂 it’s was a bunch of rambling

  • @trudijones6992
    @trudijones6992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She said, " my house", she moved in with him!

    • @PUXXYCAAT
      @PUXXYCAAT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No he moved in with her after

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    She needs to stop waiting to exhale. He doesn't care and he's not ready. AND they need to invest in some serious birth control.

    • @sisteryaya24
      @sisteryaya24 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The definition of insanity is to continue doing the same thing and expecting things to change.

  • @sasa2979
    @sasa2979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When judge Toler tild her to kick him out he was shook. I think that explains the real reason why he's messing with her.

  • @kenyak2959
    @kenyak2959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He was shook when the judge gave that advice at the end🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @DeviancyBehavir
    @DeviancyBehavir 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Homeboy was talking a lot of extra mumbo jumbo, but, homegirl should've been hipped to it and dipped out in a few months. She's got six kids, she should've known better to be trying to catch feelings and ask for a commitment, just because he put her and the kids in his place. That's the problem, you fall for a somebody, because they're convenient, but not because you're both compatible with each other. She'll find herself in that same position if she doesn't wise the fuck up and this whole not getting the milk for free bullshit, you got six damn kids, dudes were milking your ass a whole lot, now is not to the time to give us this faux I'm a grown woman speech, cuz, ain't nobody buying that shit.

    • @hangtyme765
      @hangtyme765 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i hate that i can't "like" your comment more than once.

    • @drlovie
      @drlovie 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      For real...say it!

    • @draeday7207
      @draeday7207 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Deviancy Behavir I think its funny how everyone is so judgemental when it comes to women having kids, but when its a man its no big deal. I just watched a different episode where the guy had 6 kids (4 from previous relationships) but the only negative comments were "Why would she get pregnant by him? She shouldn't have had kids with him." Do guys seriously not think they're responsible for the reproductive process?

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Andriel Long we know we are responsible but if a woman has a baby by a man who has plenty kids it's her fault he didn't rape you,just like it would be my fault to give the woman with 6 kids a 7th kid there is now way I would even kiss a woman with 6 kids I'm being honest here

    • @draeday7207
      @draeday7207 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      GETBIG4WARD 😂😂😂😂 I like your response

  • @Soyosan22
    @Soyosan22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As soon as she said she has 6 kids, any man with self respect should run as fast as he can.

  • @sandrahunter5904
    @sandrahunter5904 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    she got too many kids.

  • @Mrs.ParkerMrs.Parker
    @Mrs.ParkerMrs.Parker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Judge Toler backing that UHaul up is priceless! 🛻

  • @RiddyOnline
    @RiddyOnline 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Pretty obvious what was going on here....he was caping so he could hit it but he ain really tryna be with a woman with 6 kids and I don't blame him. If she can't understand that then I dunno what else to say.

  • @sunflowertulip9346
    @sunflowertulip9346 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She would irritate me so much, I could scream.

  • @9mysteriestarot344
    @9mysteriestarot344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Everyone is bashing her but he is saying that he doesn't want commitment but they are using words like "cheating" in reference to their relationship. He is playing a game too.

  • @kennethbarnes8630
    @kennethbarnes8630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Where are the kids fathers at? how do you have all those kids and no dad? She's looking to get saved. don't let her guilt you like that smh

  • @kanishacarnation8966
    @kanishacarnation8966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m soooo lost at his organizational speech 🤔

  • @SoccerHockeyFan1
    @SoccerHockeyFan1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes judge Lynn!!!!!!!. Totally agree. This lady had the nerves to say she love watching judge Lynn and don't know judge Lynn most famous rulles to women... Please! Women need to start LOVING THEMSELVES and STOP DEPENDING ON A MAN TO DEFINE THEIR HAPPINESS!! Stop it! I was young once. But at what point will you decide to grow up? If you are grown enough to have sex and tell others you love them. Tick tick ... Time to grow up ppl. Then when you have kids ... You gotta put those childish ish aside.. Your kids are learning from you. Do right by them..

  • @rochellemyrie6314
    @rochellemyrie6314 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    he's a snake never wanted her that's why he has so many dumb excuse

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He took in a women with 6 kids... Good luck finding that kind a guy in today’s social climate... Maybe being one of 7 siblings turned him off from the idea of marriage...

  • @misslauren6798
    @misslauren6798 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What he's saying is "I can take you or leave you."

  • @TanAfrika
    @TanAfrika 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She deserves better life, dude keep it moving and don't hang around wasting her time!

    • @erinwilliams6201
      @erinwilliams6201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      TanAFRIKA Ho'Dini it's not his fault. He's told her he doesn't want her! THEYRE NOT EVEN EXCLUSIVE. She's actually pathetic.

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Erin Williams it is his fault because his behavior and his talk is very confusing. Do you think if she felt like he wasn't moving forward that she would have wasted her time. He seem to have the behavior of someone who cared but in the end he showed that he really didn't. When people are misleading it is their fault because they are liars.

    • @mylifeisinhishandsamen4167
      @mylifeisinhishandsamen4167 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thid is true...i have been in a similar situation before....men like this make you go crazy.....this guy is a piece of shit

    • @damienkirksey7026
      @damienkirksey7026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Th3lite You must have bump your head...No It's her fault

    • @damienkirksey7026
      @damienkirksey7026 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mylifeisinhishandsamen4167 No that's you

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Him helping her out is nobel, but she should realize it's nothing more then that. Because he doesn't want to be serious with you or take on the responsibility of you and the kids.

    • @tinalawson5110
      @tinalawson5110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes sad he just got free in-house sex. But outside she is not his woman.

    • @dawghousefitness4017
      @dawghousefitness4017 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      the other dads didn't stay and wife it up....so why should another man? One kid cool, two ok.....but once you have all those damn kids men look at you as just a warm body to get a nut off of. No commitment whatsoever, just friends with benefits.

  • @crystalbookie5330
    @crystalbookie5330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Judge speaking mad words of wisdom as usual. Love her xx

  • @tripleekitchen...6676
    @tripleekitchen...6676 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He look stressed out..
    They need to go their separate way..

  • @mrsrunmemymoney497
    @mrsrunmemymoney497 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The cookie.... Chile please .... She got crumbs after 6 kids. She looks way older than 30 more like 40.

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spicy Creole Lady that was a real ugly comment

  • @not2old2rocit19
    @not2old2rocit19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Why in God's name would a Man marry a woman with six kids!??.... I wouldn't encourage my son to do so... He's wrong too, be/c he knows he really doesn't want her.... And she knows it too. But packing up to leave with six kids isn't easy, he's gonna catch hell getting her out of his house!!!

    • @ginajames9803
      @ginajames9803 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not2old2rocit

    • @chessmovesofawoman5705
      @chessmovesofawoman5705 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sorry to bust your bubble its scripted we are happily married couple thanks for watching

    • @bajanzelly
      @bajanzelly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Who wrote the script & why? Where did they find you? Do you actually have 6 children? Is the judge a part of the script?

    • @chessmovesofawoman5705
      @chessmovesofawoman5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      First of all you are so late because we did get married so you should really stop for me I love the woman doesn’t matter how many kids she has He excepts her and her package and plus I have my own job on my own house my own career I don’t need a man to help me do anything and he was begging to marry me so you don’t know what you’re talking about this was all a made up story it was for a storyline

    • @chessmovesofawoman5705
      @chessmovesofawoman5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @L C Whatever you say definitely not being hostile I’m letting you know it was a storyline and we actually got married right after it

  • @qui.jparker3100
    @qui.jparker3100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    His hands aren't all the way clean, little settle hints and things that he would say and how he would skate around direct questions makes me believe he led her on a little too.

  • @bakihanma6770
    @bakihanma6770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He wants to stay single but have benefits. She has 6 kids!!! Come on man, this is not a potential married couple.

  • @ishtaroshun7429
    @ishtaroshun7429 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What's with so many black women not wanting to submit to the man they love? But wanting to get married ? How does that make sense

    • @jacpppp
      @jacpppp 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh shut up. Speak for yourself. If submitting is what YOU think one needs to do in a relationship with a man YOU do that. Not everyone follows your moral code

    • @ishtaroshun7429
      @ishtaroshun7429 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      jacpppp lol triggered

    • @GoddessIsIs999
      @GoddessIsIs999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is going to find another male who would do what she wants, want ego based. What about what she and the children need vice want. Sometimes, the quickest way a male will make like magic and disappear, is giving the male ultimatums. When it comes to submitting, both parties are to submit to each other, not just one submitting. The submitting I am referencing is, harmony, order, and balance to each other. A lot of people aren't free critical thinkers, because if they were, they would not need to go before a judge to give judges permission to think for them. So many people are clueless, as to how the Brain mind works, subconscious, conscious and super conscious. When people can not control their words, they can not control the rest of their body.
      As Bob Marley quotes said: FUSSING AND FIGHTING, IS SAYING PRAYERS TO THE DEVIL.

    • @katelynn767
      @katelynn767 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What doesn't that even mean? Submit? Do you mean let him head the household? Sure, if he's bringing home the bread and I'm a stay at home mom, of course. I'll submit to him in bed and take care of the house/children. If we both work, then why would I let him entirely head the household? I;m financially supporting the family just as much as he is. Parenting is a two parent job anyway, so I should and will have a say in how the kids are brought up and whatever happens pertaining to them.
      If you mean submitting by being a doormat and shutting up and letting him dictate how I look, where we go, what I do and everything else, then you can miss me with that BS. What do you think this is? Women are not inferior.
      I'm all for loving and listening to my man, but I will not be walked over on.

    • @bobbywishbone8056
      @bobbywishbone8056 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree It makes no sense to marry a female who doesn't know her place and roles as a wife

  • @andrewnambota9729
    @andrewnambota9729 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    nahhh mehn!! she has 6 kids with people she aint married, why should he?FOH

    • @LMcD-bx4np
      @LMcD-bx4np 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      These MGTOW channels would have field day with these divorce court proceedings, including this one.

  • @madukes7640
    @madukes7640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was sooo glad when she said she saw what he was doing because he would NEVER give a straight answer. He is one of those people that talks around an answer. He had that lady there for convenience. That is all lol.

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So in essence, she was like "you rescued me, now MARRY me"....Man she had some nerve. BUT, she's not original. I'll tell these cats out here, STOP dating and sexing these women with kids. This is what you get.

  • @ValerieBernard1
    @ValerieBernard1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This man saw an opportunity to bring a sex object into his house. The six children didn't matter. Men don't care what a women looks like they will have sex with a cow or chicken. At the end of the show he said " I am looking forward to the single life." So he really was stringing her along. If he ever wants to get married he is going to reap what he sowed. She will reject him, tell him he is not good enough and do what he did to this woman.

    • @terickastidbits2342
      @terickastidbits2342 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He didn’t strong her along. He flat out told her he didn’t want to commit

  • @drakeovo183
    @drakeovo183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi guys. Im the son of Shelly brabham and that relationship been over. Kenneth was abusive and not in the right mind so please stop saying this and that about my mom

  • @cynthiakila1161
    @cynthiakila1161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He sounds like an Aquarius; I can be the same way at times with mirroring people possessiveness just for the hell of it

  • @princesses0609
    @princesses0609 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    30 with 6 kids 😳

  • @brittanyreid5180
    @brittanyreid5180 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    girl let him go.!

  • @alwaysawinner44
    @alwaysawinner44 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dude run she already has 6 kids. Enough with the having babies lady. She said he wasn't going get the milk for free anymore lady you already gave it away TO other men. Calling him a dog but you easy ..hes not perfect. He Don t want take on you and your 6 kids I don't blame him.

  • @pinkprincess124
    @pinkprincess124 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Never let a man tell you that he doesn't want you twice. It's sad but it's true. My ex always said he loved me everyday but his actions never match. I watched Judge Lynn saying this over and over and it gave me the strength to leave. Two and a half years later I am getting married to the man of my dreams this December. He is everything I wanted... needed and more ❤

  • @rachke16
    @rachke16 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    honestly, his mannerism and the way he answers the questions (or rather respond without giving a straignt answer) alarm me a lot! i'm no doctor but i'm thinking he could be narcissistic.

    • @baraamalek3321
      @baraamalek3321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My thoughts exactly, i believe he showers her with love when she tries to leave then pushes her away when she wants commitment from him, i hope she finds a good man.

  • @ronmendoza4916
    @ronmendoza4916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A mother with 6 kids going husband hunting? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wait until you invite him to your house with 6 kids. He'll just run back to his car with tires smoking getting the heck out of there. 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

  • @broganlambert8820
    @broganlambert8820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Seems like everyone is hung up on these 6 kids he knew she had them it wasn’t a secret and he took her in bare in mind they were dating it wasn’t taking a friend in then it manifests they were already a couple it’s not unreasonable for her to want a commitment some people need to know their relationship has direction and purpose and not a smash and grab situation

  • @davidtoldon9853
    @davidtoldon9853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    run brotha run!!!

  • @brebox____6157
    @brebox____6157 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I thought divorce court was for already married people? I still live judge lynn

    • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
      @Rainsnowreadysetblow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sunsh9 Vibe She does before your vows shows too where she gives advice to couples who are considering marriage. It's called divorce court but she incorporates that into the show as well. :)

  • @tinalawson5110
    @tinalawson5110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm confused so He was chivalrous to welcome her into his home.he was caring ,had a big heart to help her. But now he can get the sex but don't want to commit. Leave him.

  • @sisteryaya24
    @sisteryaya24 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1st of all you can't force someone to have a commitment who doesn't want it and why would you want to. "What you don't know won't hurt you" means he will withhold the truth whenever possible. Obviously, he's a player. I wouldn't waste all my good energy on someone who had no interest in commitment or marriage if that's what I wanted. Plus, even if he does agree to marry her doesn't mean he won't continue to cheat.

  • @niqbrown1774
    @niqbrown1774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂 The reactions from Judge Toler and the people in the audience are hilarious… this lady is all over the place.

  • @Victoria77P
    @Victoria77P 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i just think she don't have to criticise how his friend looks. that's just plain rude.

    • @drlovie
      @drlovie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly...she needs to work on her looks herself.

  • @ChrissyLovesU2
    @ChrissyLovesU2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why are they there?! He said in so many words he doesn't want her and she brought him there for the judge to convince him otherwise? Why? I can't.

  • @BuddaB83
    @BuddaB83 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    to be completely honest here the dating scene is going to be very challenging for her due to the fact she has 6 kids with different baby father's unless she find a man equal to her.

  • @monkamdominic6262
    @monkamdominic6262 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I see why the other six baby daddy's or whatever left her...if you have that energy to always make ur partner feel you can move on to the next available man then there's no hope.

  • @hildajensen6263
    @hildajensen6263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man, I feel sorry for those 6 kids.

  • @josecartersr.670
    @josecartersr.670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She had all 6 of those kids before they met, but she wants him to commit, but can she commit to not having anymore kids. Because she needs to realize that he also has to commit to the kids that aren't his. That's not easy for people to do.

  • @ixamxmsright
    @ixamxmsright 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why don't women believe what comes out of a man's mouth when he tells them ,"You're not my type for a wife" nah she is going to continue to ignore that...... and hear what she wants to hear ,He told her in a million different ways...smh.

  • @HEAVYCHEVY409
    @HEAVYCHEVY409 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man 6 kids at 30 and he 30 with one kid and a job and a house shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid I be out like the lights lol

  • @LoveDuah
    @LoveDuah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    30 years and six kids. How do these girls pull this off.

    • @TheRedScareIsAlive
      @TheRedScareIsAlive 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      EvelynLove Fosu-Duah apparently 2 sets of twins...
      this bitch got worse luck than a black cat wearing a hoodie in an all white neighborhood in Kentucky

  • @tashagrimes5199
    @tashagrimes5199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a woman she should have took the help
    Worked stacked and moved out ... if there was a relationship to be had it would have after she got reestablished .... smh she brought this foolery on Herself
    He was helping her the end ...