I’m honestly pissed she stayed with him that long. Surely the red flags were there long before they got married, and why she’d ever go through with it is beyond me. Glad she finally got away tho. This is the kind of MIL I dread of having when I get into a relationship.
Some people don't have the ability to walk away from a situation like this. It seems like she didn't know how to handle it until she finally came into contact with someone going through something similar. It also sounds like from the story she didnt have family or friends to help and it can be really scary leaving on your own without a support system
How LONG she stayed and never standing up to EITHER of them PISSES ME OFF OMG. Like you've are LIVING in a FIELD of red flags and still refuse to acknowledge it? Are you KIDDING ME? She has SO MANY DAMN CHANCES to set CLEAR boundaries even though her husband would cross them, and that right there should've been a boundary. She should've left a long time ago and realized her husband never married her.
John and Susan are narcissists. You'll never win. Leave. Amends is an apology not rearranging someone's furniture to suit themselves against the wants of the person you are supposedly making amends with.
I really thought after the valentines day incident she would have given the ring to his mom and said, "Now you can finally marry since our are number one in OUR relationship."
The ruined anniversary shows that there is a very disturbing Oedipus Complex between the OP's now ex and his mother. Even if it is only emotional, it is beyond the pale. The financial matters was proof that "Susan" is a gaslighting narcissist, and "John" refusing to accept the truth that him and his mother's "relationship" is not appropriate. "John" will NEVER find a woman who is as much of a milquetoast as he is.
This was a frustrating story to listen to. The fact she put up with his mom/husbands shit for so long was infuriating. Having ur mom over with you guys on ur anniversary night? Jesus
@@liwiathan Red is in the middle of steaks because they cut it out from under the cow skin With burger meat they grind up the whole cow so Ground beef has a way higher chance of giving you dieases And even if you cook your burgers rare they taste way worse then well done ones
The OP was better off exposing her ex MIL'S actions to her now ex inlaws and how she felt compelled to walk away from the marriage because it wasn't worth fighting for and never will be plus her own MIL should take responsibility for the marriage falling apart along with her ex husband as well, so in the end the OP's ex mom in law and ex husband should be ashamed of themselves and stop playing the victim big time for good measure.
How can some people be so delusional or stupid to realize that she married a mama's boy and that she also married her mother in law. Divorce that wuss and run like hell.
I would NEVER date, let alone marry, a mommas boy!! I truly feel that I don't want to waste my very precious time on earth competing with someones' mother... PERIOD!!!
Even when I was young, I know enough to avoid men who are momma's boy. Probably why I don't want another relationship. I got lucky the first time. My former mother-in-law was the best. If you need her, she's there but she won't butt in. She knew when I needed help and she's always been blunt and funny. I hope she's resting in peace and that I am sorry I was not a good wife to his son and disappointed the family.
My worst experience with a 'nightmare mother-in-law' was when she constantly tried to interfere with our personal decisions, from how we decorated our home to how we raised our children. She would often criticize in front of others, making me feel small and uncomfortable. It took a lot of patience and communication with my partner to set clear boundaries and maintain respect for each other. In the end, it was a valuable lesson in standing up for myself while keeping a peaceful relationship with family. It's not always easy, but I believe setting boundaries is key
this story was a waste of time. she said multiple times she knew he was NOT going to changes and she still stayed. i’m more angry at OP than i am at the husband. I do hope she finds someone as annoying as this was.
If that was my husbands mom and my husband was like that I would immediately divorce him and if he came begging back to me I would be like “well why don’t you marry your mom if your are gonna let her ruin everything”
I hate Susan. She’s a red flag. She hated because you ruin John and her relationship. I also hate John. He should be on your side, but instead he’s on her side. If I was you, I will leave and never contacted any of them.
Nightmare mother-in-laws can be such a challenge to deal with! It’s so frustrating when boundaries are crossed or when they feel entitled to interfere in your life. Everyone deserves respect and peace in their relationships-especially from family. Curious to read how you handled it!
I really got pissed halfway through the story because of her blindness to stay. There were at least ten moments in which I would've gotten up and left. You can try to work things out but you also need to set clear boundaries for yourself and your happiness!!
MIL is a controlling narcissist and the Husband is a spineless excuse of a man. Honestly I know that a couples counseling is for the couple and that it’s supposed to be a calm and neutral place… but I’m surprised OP didn’t just yell at the MIL to “shut the fuck up and that she’s not supposed to be there” because last OP saw the MIL wasn’t married to the husband, and told her husband he’s a “spineless man who doesn’t care about his wife” and said she’s done and wants a divorce. OP also should have said “If you love your mother so much just marry her instead”. But hey that’s my opinion of what should have happened.
I’m a momma’s boy. I love my mum, but I’m not IN love with her. I’m capable of being in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend. This dude’s got a weird ass version of the Oedipal complex.
She shoulda turned to casper the ghost the second he raised his fist at her… coz wht tf and how the tf do you think its ok for you to eveb THINK about laying hands on your spouse… she said for faarrrr too long
Look i am not siding with susan but MOMS COME FIRST whatever happens i will sacrifice everything i have except my own children fir my mom i am not siding with john but YOU GETTING PISSED FOR HIM SAYING HIS MOM COMES FIRST NAH
In this case, I don't even feel sorry for the OP. When you have so little self-respect and constantly let others walk all over you, it's impossible to expect respect from others.
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I’m honestly pissed she stayed with him that long. Surely the red flags were there long before they got married, and why she’d ever go through with it is beyond me. Glad she finally got away tho. This is the kind of MIL I dread of having when I get into a relationship.
Bro this is not parental love, this is emotional incest
Me too
Hey, manipulators can hold back their true colors for a good while. That’s what they’re good at. Manipulating
Some people don't have the ability to walk away from a situation like this. It seems like she didn't know how to handle it until she finally came into contact with someone going through something similar. It also sounds like from the story she didnt have family or friends to help and it can be really scary leaving on your own without a support system
FR like I understand toxic relationships and abuse are hard/almost impossible to pull away from but God listening to this was so frustrating 😂
How LONG she stayed and never standing up to EITHER of them PISSES ME OFF OMG. Like you've are LIVING in a FIELD of red flags and still refuse to acknowledge it? Are you KIDDING ME? She has SO MANY DAMN CHANCES to set CLEAR boundaries even though her husband would cross them, and that right there should've been a boundary. She should've left a long time ago and realized her husband never married her.
John and Susan are narcissists. You'll never win. Leave. Amends is an apology not rearranging someone's furniture to suit themselves against the wants of the person you are supposedly making amends with.
She was crazy in love youll understand when your in a position with your loved one but yeah no hes an asshole
He should marry his mum
Like Oedipus Rex, he "really" loves his mother.
Fr he should marry his mom I'm sure the mother is in love with her son
Sweet home alabama
His mother has more of a role then the wife
REAL 😂
I really thought after the valentines day incident she would have given the ring to his mom and said, "Now you can finally marry since our are number one in OUR relationship."
This woman is so unbelievably loyal! He f@cked his golden ticket. If he wanted his mother into his marriage, he could just marry her himself!
Frrr😂😂😂😂
The ruined anniversary shows that there is a very disturbing Oedipus Complex between the OP's now ex and his mother. Even if it is only emotional, it is beyond the pale. The financial matters was proof that "Susan" is a gaslighting narcissist, and "John" refusing to accept the truth that him and his mother's "relationship" is not appropriate. "John" will NEVER find a woman who is as much of a milquetoast as he is.
This was a frustrating story to listen to. The fact she put up with his mom/husbands shit for so long was infuriating. Having ur mom over with you guys on ur anniversary night? Jesus
The dude is clearly a mama's boy. Putting his mom before anyone or anything.
To OP: Congrats man. I’m sorry that you had to deal with so much because of your husband and I hope things get better.
He definitely has his priorities out of wack. YOUR MOM flipping shows up for therapy AND a romantic evening. Hello? 😮
2:17 that burger is so undercooked it is just disgusting
I was wondering when someone would finally notice!
@@JustSomeoneFromEarthall i think about is worms if anyone eat
That burger is perfect
@@liwiathan Red is in the middle of steaks because they cut it out from under the cow skin With burger meat they grind up the whole cow so Ground beef has a way higher chance of giving you dieases And even if you cook your burgers rare they taste way worse then well done ones
The OP was better off exposing her ex MIL'S actions to her now ex inlaws and how she felt compelled to walk away from the marriage because it wasn't worth fighting for and never will be plus her own MIL should take responsibility for the marriage falling apart along with her ex husband as well, so in the end the OP's ex mom in law and ex husband should be ashamed of themselves and stop playing the victim big time for good measure.
How can some people be so delusional or stupid to realize that she married a mama's boy and that she also married her mother in law. Divorce that wuss and run like hell.
Mama comes first but sometimes you take it way too far. He's delusional.
0:10 will no one talk about how raw the chicken is??
He put it in the oven later
Salmonella speedrunq
I would NEVER date, let alone marry, a mommas boy!! I truly feel that I don't want to waste my very precious time on earth competing with someones' mother... PERIOD!!!
Even when I was young, I know enough to avoid men who are momma's boy. Probably why I don't want another relationship. I got lucky the first time. My former mother-in-law was the best. If you need her, she's there but she won't butt in. She knew when I needed help and she's always been blunt and funny. I hope she's resting in peace and that I am sorry I was not a good wife to his son and disappointed the family.
I really hope this was an AI story because no one should be that dumb. How many times did he have to show her that his mother came first??
It’s ai but the unhealthy mama boys are a real think and where mothers see the husband wife as a threat
Nah, how many epiphanies do you need
Queen of doormats, took her long enough
GENUINELY! She fr said "it finally opened my eyes." like 4 times- 😭
My Eyes Opened
I Finally Saw
I Realised
Fr Like this Sounds Like ChatGPT
Moment anniversary thing happened. I would’ve just stood up and yelled. I wanted a divorce.
My worst experience with a 'nightmare mother-in-law' was when she constantly tried to interfere with our personal decisions, from how we decorated our home to how we raised our children. She would often criticize in front of others, making me feel small and uncomfortable. It took a lot of patience and communication with my partner to set clear boundaries and maintain respect for each other. In the end, it was a valuable lesson in standing up for myself while keeping a peaceful relationship with family. It's not always easy, but I believe setting boundaries is key
this story was a waste of time. she said multiple times she knew he was NOT going to changes and she still stayed. i’m more angry at OP than i am at the husband. I do hope she finds someone as annoying as this was.
3:09 bro he’s a serious red flag
He's a serious mommy's boy ngl shocked that after the wife filed for divorce he didn't try to marry his mom
7:50 the fact that Susan is there that is pissing me off
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If that was my husbands mom and my husband was like that I would immediately divorce him and if he came begging back to me I would be like “well why don’t you marry your mom if your are gonna let her ruin everything”
I hate Susan. She’s a red flag. She hated because you ruin John and her relationship. I also hate John. He should be on your side, but instead he’s on her side. If I was you, I will leave and never contacted any of them.
Should have told John to marry his mother.
bro john looooooves his mom so much that i think john wouldve married his mom
this story pissed me off. i wouldve been better off not listening to this.
She stayed after he raised a fist to her. I am glad in the end she left.
Nightmare mother-in-laws can be such a challenge to deal with! It’s so frustrating when boundaries are crossed or when they feel entitled to interfere in your life. Everyone deserves respect and peace in their relationships-especially from family. Curious to read how you handled it!
the food in the video is unforgivably vile
Haha fr
you should have called the pollice on your husbends mother bc she came to your house uninvited meaning its tresspassing
Every single time he shows that he considers his mom his first priority.
Bro took family first to a whole another level
"Ugh.. Susan 😒" (ifykyk)
The trip thing would've been the end for me. You allowed him to believe he was right. And he took advantage of that
These videos make me so god damn hungry.
Doing that to a kitchen that's not yours is an unwritten rule of cooking
Never stay with a mama's boy. They will always stay with the mom, and ofcourse it's the fault of the mom for turning him into it.
No marriage therapist would allow an in law in sessions.
I really got pissed halfway through the story because of her blindness to stay. There were at least ten moments in which I would've gotten up and left. You can try to work things out but you also need to set clear boundaries for yourself and your happiness!!
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I'm so fucked off she let this go on so long.
at least you got out at some point, should have left sooner because he betrayed you and didn’t listen to your wishes.
NGL I’m mad at her it was clear how massed up he was yet she still stayed
If you refuse to set boundaries for yourself how do you expect others to do it for you?
MIL is a controlling narcissist and the Husband is a spineless excuse of a man. Honestly I know that a couples counseling is for the couple and that it’s supposed to be a calm and neutral place… but I’m surprised OP didn’t just yell at the MIL to “shut the fuck up and that she’s not supposed to be there” because last OP saw the MIL wasn’t married to the husband, and told her husband he’s a “spineless man who doesn’t care about his wife” and said she’s done and wants a divorce. OP also should have said “If you love your mother so much just marry her instead”. But hey that’s my opinion of what should have happened.
I was just watching a new #Dramashort, and the premise was honestly absurd until thos story now😂😂😂
Who let you sit in their McLaren?
The glaze on his mom is crazy, Susan is demon and so is John, bro will never find a girl again
Fr
Did the family believe her or him?
Mommas boy for sure
I’m a momma’s boy. I love my mum, but I’m not IN love with her. I’m capable of being in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend.
This dude’s got a weird ass version of the Oedipal complex.
We've never seen the assholes perspective in any of these stories and I think it would be funny
ro got too dependent on his mother
JUST LEAVE HIM MY GOD
1:09 for short people (your short af)
Oh my god, why she waited that long
its giving mommy’s boy
She shoulda turned to casper the ghost the second he raised his fist at her… coz wht tf and how the tf do you think its ok for you to eveb THINK about laying hands on your spouse… she said for faarrrr too long
IMO John is borderline abusive but Idk I may be too young to understand it entirely
Mother and son are definitely banging. This is way too deep of a relationship not to be romantic.
1:19 for shorts people
1:20 for people who came from shorts:)
Just break up with him
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Look i am not siding with susan but MOMS COME FIRST whatever happens i will sacrifice everything i have except my own children fir my mom i am not siding with john but YOU GETTING PISSED FOR HIM SAYING HIS MOM COMES FIRST NAH
Regardless,She is his mom and he should care for her
There's a difference between caring and being a creep
My mom will ALWAYS come first. Shes been the only one there for me. No matter what, my mom comes first. Even death.(ILL SAVE HER FIRST OMG BRO)
But not THAT much
Yh agreed
I don't have much sympathy for her putting up being treated like that for so long.
OP is at fault here.... for staying with John for that long
If you don't hve support it can be hard to leave in a situation like this.
Op is a door mat
just f ing leave
Everyone in this story is ah , seriously everyone op , husband , mil everyone is ah
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In this case, I don't even feel sorry for the OP. When you have so little self-respect and constantly let others walk all over you, it's impossible to expect respect from others.
Thirt
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i feel like you should have a bit more spine
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@@ElijahMitchelbro shut up💀
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Im done with these stupid reddit users 100% your fault
Should’ve been left so you went through all that is a YOU Problem 😂😂
Well your husband is spineless so no wonder why he didn't stand up for you 🤣 (No offense and I said this before watching the video).
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He should marry his mom