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14:27 : I met a girl who I felt this way about in 2019. When we were together, it felt like I knew her from somewhere, I kept asking myself "where do I know her from?!" But he didn't have an answer. It seemed like it was from another life. We loved each other very much, but unfortunately we ended our relationship after 1 year and a half, as I was very emotionally disturbed, jealous, angry, etc. But it was the most beautiful experience I've ever had in my "adult life". And the interesting thing is that it was during the first long streak I did with NOFAP/ SR, I did a streak of 62 days (on day 38 I met her). And she was my first and to this day only girlfriend.
My experience of real love also coincided with my only real inexplicable SR streak to date. Psychologists will call it limerance, some call it a spiritual awakening. I have no idea. All I know is that it completely upended my life and destroyed my health. But my lust disappeared. Then again I almost feel nothing about anything
My gf of 3 years just dumped me. I never said i love youncuz i felt like words ruin thing. I tried to lead by example and be an authentic man. I felt like i wasnt meeting her “needs” of love and stuff and she dunpe me. Sucks but this video is like Exatcly what happening. Ty yash😊
Yeah I experienced unconditional love exactly once and it destroyed me. I tried to give it and she went cold on me and then played this push pull thing for months. Destroyed my health. Experiencing reality from two completely different perspectives
My girlfriend always on me about getting married i personally dont believe in it i say what you said. Id say i dont need no piece of paper to state how much i love you i will not be pressured into it and if she doesn't like it well she can lump it
I believe there is pure love, but maybe it needs to be found within first, before that level of understanding can be offered unconditionally to anyone else. Im not saying its easy, Ego likes to come and play sometimes, but at least we can catch ourselves out and try to understand the trigger.
only uncondictional Love like for a child or pet is true ... All else is puppy love /lust that Never lasts very long .......... Acim has the best insight on this i have ever come across Special Relationships Vs Holy Relationships
Yes I like that subject that Acim speaks on. I also liked that book return to love where marianne willamson (long time speaker on acim) talks about it.
If you look at the love we give to children and pets that we love no matter what, sadly we still unconsciously have tried to put conditions onto them. We want them to adapt to us. Yes guidance is needed but mostly there are conditions that are subject to what we believe is "how to be". Instead they offer the lesson to us but we think that because they depend on us that we know best. I just think its interesting. 🌸
God somehow put a high-vibing girl in my life after this inner work and SR, but she is already thinking about getting engaged right now and expects to me have the same level of attachment as she has to me. Idk if I'm in the wrong, since I love God more than her 'apperance', but I love her for essence, not her appearance. She got quite upset that I am not as attached to her as she is to me when she realized that. Idk what do, but I really hope grace will work this out somehow. I am definitely lacking as well now. Only time will tell... She told me the exact same yesterday aswell 3:55 🙃🙃
What I found really funny as well was that your video was right on the front page of my youtube, immediately the day after this took place lol, definitely not a coincidence XDD
What God has joined together, let no man separate. You are right Yash, but don't entertain a woman if you are not willing to spend the rest of your life with her. If her life path is different, you join hers and she joins yours. That's for life. That's the divine love. The total surrender to God and one to each other. "Experiences" are shallow. "Committment" is the highest experience.
but what would happen if you make them do what you want them to do but not through direct actions (forcing) but rather with your mind like kind of "manifesting"? I completely agree with your definition of real love and I've come to a similar conclusion as well.
I've been down both paths. The first one felt like I was trying to change the person. It seemed fake in their level of consciousness was never high enough. It seemed as if one party was being used. Now I'm only interested in the highest level. One where I do not have to alter anything. Has anything less would seem fake. Although it may be a nice feeling, never was worth it.
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Advanced Semen retention- th-cam.com/video/AgnnHQE7Pt8/w-d-xo.html
14:27 : I met a girl who I felt this way about in 2019. When we were together, it felt like I knew her from somewhere, I kept asking myself "where do I know her from?!" But he didn't have an answer. It seemed like it was from another life. We loved each other very much, but unfortunately we ended our relationship after 1 year and a half, as I was very emotionally disturbed, jealous, angry, etc. But it was the most beautiful experience I've ever had in my "adult life". And the interesting thing is that it was during the first long streak I did with NOFAP/ SR, I did a streak of 62 days (on day 38 I met her). And she was my first and to this day only girlfriend.
If you experience that during sr day 38. Think about what the next one will be like at day 138 or 1038 of sr.
Think about it if you just stop counting and stop trying to measure that is unmeasurable.
There's nothing to count, nothing to force with willpower.
My experience of real love also coincided with my only real inexplicable SR streak to date. Psychologists will call it limerance, some call it a spiritual awakening. I have no idea. All I know is that it completely upended my life and destroyed my health. But my lust disappeared. Then again I almost feel nothing about anything
Your old videos are very underrated. This is deeply profound ❤️
Just now watching too 🙌🏾🙌🏾
My gf of 3 years just dumped me. I never said i love youncuz i felt like words ruin thing. I tried to lead by example and be an authentic man. I felt like i wasnt meeting her “needs” of love and stuff and she dunpe me. Sucks but this video is like
Exatcly what happening. Ty yash😊
We appreciate you Yash thank you for being you/real🎉
Love only exists if it is self love
Truly loving someone you can’t be with is the number one most painful feeling in the entire world
It’s intense
You just saved me years of life experience I really needed to hear that. Thanks for the lesson G.
Yeah I experienced unconditional love exactly once and it destroyed me. I tried to give it and she went cold on me and then played this push pull thing for months. Destroyed my health. Experiencing reality from two completely different perspectives
My girlfriend always on me about getting married i personally dont believe in it i say what you said. Id say i dont need no piece of paper to state how much i love you i will not be pressured into it and if she doesn't like it well she can lump it
..:)
Thank you so much for your advices. I will do what i have to do.
Deep af love it
Appreciate you Yash
Amazing videos! I've been watching every single one, you're the fog that keeps my clean(no homo).
Because everything is lust in disguise, there is no pure love, only in the divine realm!
I just thought of this today and now seen your comment, thanks.
I believe there is pure love, but maybe it needs to be found within first, before that level of understanding can be offered unconditionally to anyone else. Im not saying its easy, Ego likes to come and play sometimes, but at least we can catch ourselves out and try to understand the trigger.
"Lust is the mud that the lotus flower of love grows out of" - Osho
absolutely right, cant love anyone truly unless you love yourself@@sammi-loveistheanswer
100%
only uncondictional Love like for a child or pet is true ... All else is puppy love /lust that Never lasts very long .......... Acim has the best insight on this i have ever come across Special Relationships Vs Holy Relationships
Yes I like that subject that Acim speaks on. I also liked that book return to love where marianne willamson (long time speaker on acim) talks about it.
If you look at the love we give to children and pets that we love no matter what, sadly we still unconsciously have tried to put conditions onto them. We want them to adapt to us. Yes guidance is needed but mostly there are conditions that are subject to what we believe is "how to be". Instead they offer the lesson to us but we think that because they depend on us that we know best. I just think its interesting. 🌸
Great video ❤
God somehow put a high-vibing girl in my life after this inner work and SR, but she is already thinking about getting engaged right now and expects to me have the same level of attachment as she has to me. Idk if I'm in the wrong, since I love God more than her 'apperance', but I love her for essence, not her appearance. She got quite upset that I am not as attached to her as she is to me when she realized that. Idk what do, but I really hope grace will work this out somehow. I am definitely lacking as well now. Only time will tell...
She told me the exact same yesterday aswell 3:55 🙃🙃
What I found really funny as well was that your video was right on the front page of my youtube, immediately the day after this took place lol, definitely not a coincidence XDD
What God has joined together, let no man separate.
You are right Yash, but don't entertain a woman if you are not willing to spend the rest of your life with her.
If her life path is different, you join hers and she joins yours. That's for life. That's the divine love. The total surrender to God and one to each other.
"Experiences" are shallow. "Committment" is the highest experience.
but what would happen if you make them do what you want them to do but not through direct actions (forcing) but rather with your mind like kind of "manifesting"? I completely agree with your definition of real love and I've come to a similar conclusion as well.
if its in ones destiny to experiment with that then they will. Its just never been for me.
I've been down both paths. The first one felt like I was trying to change the person. It seemed fake in their level of consciousness was never high enough. It seemed as if one party was being used. Now I'm only interested in the highest level. One where I do not have to alter anything. Has anything less would seem fake. Although it may be a nice feeling, never was worth it.
So there is no long term relationship?
There can be.