Hello :) Let's do an old school whispers and nailpolish application video! I'm recovering from cold but wanted to still hang out with you 🤗. Here's a breakdown of topics we'll chat about: 00:20 slacking on making videos 01:12 tea time 03:30 cotton rounds and alcohol ;) 05:22 my nails routine 06:25 nailpolishes for today 08:30 anxiety / taking action 11:30 posting something vs nothing 12:10 life purpose / escape 14:10 gaining weight 16:26 comfort eating 18:50 no screen - time is gold 20:05 Mila's first birthday 21:12 potential nail polish sorting video? 23:25 smash cakes 24:00 cooking is hard 25:26 a 2 minute pause in life 27:12 baby walking 28:47 nailpolishes ILNP 29:57 hello HOLO 31:20 second polish application 32:03 making a true impact on someone 33:17 our schedules 35:13 2 videos a week vs once a week 39:17 Gary Vee / content is king 41:00 favorite asmr style 43:00 final look of nails 43:55 Darryl is my rock 45:10 sleep training 47:00 mom friends 48:51 last look Thank you for spending time with me! 🤗
I saw “whisper, chit chat, and LoFi” in your video description, literally leaped for joy, picked up my one year old baby and said “nap time love!!” (At 4:00 pm 😂❤️) What a treat! Thank you for thinking of us Maria, even as you recover. I hope you’re at 100% very soon. 🙏🏾🥰
A useful tip a mom friend gave me, "Talk to yourself the way you'd talk to your daughter." Be kind and loving to yourself. Hug yourself like you hug her. Love yourself like you love her. This helped me so much. It wasn't an excuse but it did change my mindset. I wouldn't expect perfect from her, why do I expect it in myself when I'm taking care of her? Stay above water sweetie, the flood will become less, you'll be swimming along before you know it.
"I don't mind failure, I mind the crushing anxiety that comes with worrying all the time." Truer words have never been spoken. Masha... ALL THE DAMN HUGS. You are not alone. i am just so relived we are in this together. Sending you love girl.
I prefer these “real” and “normal” ASMR-videos over Roleplays or Trigger-only! You have such a healthy and easy personality! It’s just nice to listen to you as Maria ;->
Totally agree! Maria, these kinds of videos are exactly what made ASMR relaxing / anxiety relieving. Just whispering doing normal “stuff”. Thank you for continuing to post this kind of content. 💕
Can I just say, I DO NOT NEED “new/interesting ideas for content” blahblahblah! Every. Single. Video. Is. Enough. I watch every video, I LOVE every video! I prefer “lofi” old school videos. It’s where ASMR began! I think you have an amazing gift M💕 I have loved you for over 8 years, I will never not love what you do for me every day!
I wish you could see yourself from our perspective: a mom killing it with raising her daughter and still providing ah-mazing relaxing videos that help us so so much.
This was so soothing and intimate. I see how things weigh on you in your eyes. Just know that when you do one of these talks, it resonates with many of us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. And get well soon!
My son was diagnosed last year when he was 11 years old with a malignant brain tumor which is when I discovered your videos. So I know how hard this year has been. You are the only ASMR person I watch/listen to. I've always struggled with anxiety and depression but my son's diagnosis really sent me into a tailspin but then I found a strength I never knew I had because of the courage and strength that he fought his cancer with. We were so close to losing him it's unbelievable to even fathom what we can truly make it through. I am so happy to report that he is now officially in remission! Don't worry Maria! Be strong in faith and you can get through ANYTHING! Make sure to take care of your body and mind! God bless you and your family! Thank you for making these videos to help people make it through their days. You've helped me so much and continue to do so!
I am happy for you and your son. I can only imagine how difficult it has been for all of you. It's not hard to imagine that Maria has been helpful in keeping you calm enough to get through. 💜🙏🏻🦋
There is an old saying, “Anything worth doing, is worth doing poorly.” Basically, it is what your are talking about. How you have to post a video each week, even when you are not satisfied with it. It is important not only as a result, but as a process. Another way to think of it is it is better to commit 50% effort than 0%, something is better than nothing, etc. An effective moto.
Never would have thought this way. I'm going to reflect on this. Reading the saying instantly reminded me of my time as an art major, and all the drawings I deemed "not good enough." All the best students made hundreds of drawings - many unsuccessful - but their best were AMAZING. Thank you.
For anyone out there who might benefit -- When my daughter was about 6-8 months old I started getting a lot of anxiety, depression and mood swings. I started treatment for PPD and then eventually everyone figured out I had hypothyroidism. For any new moms, pregnancy can trigger this postpartum thyroiditis. Sometimes it resolves, sometimes it doesn't. If you're feeling poorly, don't stay silent thinking that's just part of being a new parent and you have to live with it. Talk to your doctor! While it could be sleep deprivation, exhaustion, and stress, it could also be something else. Either way, you deserve care and attention. ❤️
“I have no idea what I would do, you’re literally everything, that is sometimes saving me.” 😭❤️ We feel the same about you. You impact so many people on a daily basis... thank you for all you are and all you do. Your strength is amazing. You are simply gifted at this; and bringing peace to so many. Thank you Maria ❤️ Of course days... moments.. stretches of time like you describe here are ones we all face (that ironically you get us through 🤗) Thank you. 💚💛🧡❤️
This is the most real, down to earth, identifiable conversation any woman can ever have. All the outside influences in the world are stacked against us when it comes to self-worth and feelings of success. Then WE are stacked against our own selves with the anxiety and self-doubt. Girl, I feel this in the fiber of my being. You are NOT alone.
As someone who struggles tremendously with anxiety and self-image issues, I relate so much to everything you said, Maria. No one is harder on you than you. It is awful when you can’t escape criticism, because it is coming from your own mind. Just please know how much we all appreciate you, the work you do, and how much you sacrifice to continue making ASMR content. You’re amazing! And, for the record, if you’ve gained weight, I for one didn’t even notice. In fact, I’ve been marveling at how your beauty only seems to grow as time goes on!
I’m old enough to be your mom but young enough to remember when my 15 yr old daughter was a baby. She never slept for more than 4 hrs until she was a year - so neither did I. I also avoided screens and tried to be fully present as a mom. It is draining - truly work. It really is OK to leave those emails unanswered! I admire your grit and respect your desire for personal space - both good reasons to want to keep up with your ASMR work. Self care is so important and so easy to leave out of the equation. Thanks for keeping it real and remember to be kind and forgiving to yourself. You are doing your best!
I’ve been watching your videos since 2012 and this reminds me of your older content. I am 24 now and a mom to two toddlers. I was 15 watching you, reminds me of those memorable adolescent years. Thank you 💗 you are a big part of my growing years.
Take time for your health and family and don't feel pressured to please absolutely everyone with videos. You can't and shouldn't expect to. As far as the types of videos I prefer the more natural videos like this and the earliest ones you posted. Don't feel obligated to do so many camera angles and edits or lighting adjustments. Keep it laid back and natural so you're conserving your own energy and enjoy some throwback style to the first videos you ever did.
As much as she's done for everyone in the community with her hard work and the time she's taken out of her day to do all this it's only fair to appreciate it no matter the quality or quantity of content.
I totally agree! As much as we love her content we have to remember she is a real human being who has other real life obligations - a family, a brand new baby!
stop saying your videos are low quality!! regardless of their literal "technical" quality, your videos consistently bring me comfort and happiness and tingles and that makes them HIGH QUALITY. thank you for sharing your life with us in such a candid way. we LITERALLY LOVE you, your videos, and your spirit.
This is super healing and nice to know that we can all relate to one other and be honest about stress/anxiety. I love the soft whispering and genuine words. This IS good quality content.
34 years ago my postpartum depression went by the cutesy and dismissive nickname of ‘baby blues’. I too felt inadequate, tired, overwhelmed, overweight and just plain sad. But, how could I feel so sad when I had just given life to such a beautiful boy? My ex-husband was a police officer with crazy hours and a very busy dating life, (he didn’t realize that he should have stopped dating after we were married), so my son and I were always alone. He cried for the first three months of his life because of his colic. I cried because I couldn’t do anything right. I began to self medicate. Slowly at first. ‘Just to calm myself’, until I just became drunk. My point is, there’s nothing wrong with the way you feel. You’re not doing everything, or even, ANYTHING wrong. You are just a new mother beginning a new job. And motherhood is a job. One you will never retire from. Your efforts will constantly be taken for granted. You’ll, more often than not, be denied the gratitude and recognition you deserve, or crave. I truly hope that you are able to figure out the best course to help you through this time in your life. You should talk to your doctor. If that doesn’t help, talk to a different doctor. You’re a beautiful soul and you’ve been blessed. Now give yourself some slack for being human.
@@advantage82 I’m sorry to hear that any new mom is depressed when what we’ve done are simply miracles. And this horrible year is just that, horrible. But, you have to help yourself and allow yourself to see the ‘happy’. Sometimes we really are alone, but that just makes us more resilient and stronger. Congratulations on your baby. Good luck, God bless. It will get better. We need to believe that and repeat it to ourselves, sometimes like crazy people.
I love your honesty and realness. I have the same issue with anxiety - I have to at least work towards a little goal, or I'll feel so bad about doing nothing that I can't even approach it anymore. You're doing great, and I know you know better than to strive for perfection. You're a wonderful human being no matter what. 🤗 Side note, I have that exact same ILNP (was going to apply it tomorrow!) and that made me so happy. 😁
I had the worst anxiety attack today and I could not hold myself together. I was crying my eyes out just a few minutes ago, but once I started listening to you everything was ok and my heart and head can finally rest. Thank you so much! You do not need high quality videos, these are just as great.
Anxiety comes and goes like any emotion, it's just energy in your body. Just try and find those still moments to breathe, meditate and be creative. You're doing just fine! Really appreciate you posting today, it was a very relaxing video
I get what you mean, but anxiety isn't an emotion. And a lot of times it isn't that easy. It doesn't come and go, you learn to live with it (or not). Therapists, psychiatrists and psychologists would be jobless if it was like any other emotion.
@@Blankie112 I guess everyone's experience is different, but I know that my anxiety comes and goes, and I truly believe that no thought, emotion or energy in the body is permanent. Everything is temporary and changes into something else. So while I understand what you're saying, that hasn't been my personal experience with it
@Starlight ・゚:* Hi, yes I am well aware as I experience that particular mental illness from time to time. I am sorry I didn't have the Oxford dictionary out when I wrote that comment, but anxiety (emotion or not) does come and go for many people. I was just trying to post some words of comfort and kindness.
I have a toddler son at home and so many things you said really hit home for me! I always say that the first year felt like a blur and I was just going through the motions. It is the hardest yet most rewarding job. Thank you for being so vulnerable and using your platform to speak about your hardships. Seeing you be so relatable is refreshing. Hope you can find some peace within yourself Mama you’re amazing!!
OMG girl, hearing you talk about how the first year with your baby you are purely surviving constant exhaustion and just float through it is the best description EVER! So so so true. Plenty of mamas out here who felt the exact same way. Feel better soon and know you aren’t alone - your sister ms around the world are feeling you back!! X x x sending strength and love x x x
Maria, you have a special energy. I've watched your videos for years. Especially recently, on days when I've not wanted to talk to anyone, when everything has seemed way too much, there has only been one person in this whole world who I've felt able to listen to and spend time with- you! Thanks so much for sharing your kind spirit.
This style is my favorite asmr style 😋 I love when people just sit down and do a task while soft speaking or whispering and just talking about life or giving advice. I love to hear your advice as I look up to you. Don’t ever feel bad about the content you put out I love it all and so do a lot of people! ❤️ you’re doing great & you’re an awesome mom
I’m almost 34 and my new husband and I are going to start trying to have kids. I feel terrified, but I am so grateful that you talk about motherhood. It gives me strength. ❤️
I remember that first year as such a blur. You're doing great - be kind to yourself! I'd love more videos like this one. Painting nails and rambling... Thanks!
I'm laying here with my 19 month old sleeping while I decompress from the day. I feel so many topics in this. You are rocking it momma ❤ Mila is so lucky to have you, and how much you care! You can do it, and make sure you are looking out for you too! Xoxo
You're such a sweetheart, I really like when you are just being yourself. I hope the anxiety passes quickly. From my own experience it is much easier to panic and have anxiety when you are tired and don't sleep well. It's like the body is too tired to fight it. Hope it gets better once Mila gets older and sleep better herself.
You are so raw and real and I LOVE IT!!! Adulting is hard. Parenting is hard. There are a lot of people who paint their lives as perfect and that’s not how real life is. I appreciate your real-ness and honesty. My kids are bigger and I have to say that there will be different challenges along the way as your daughter gets bigger. You learn from each other. I loved it when you said when it all becomes too much, just walk away. Take a few minutes for yourself and just breathe. My favorite videos of yours are when you are just chit chatting. It is like catching up with an old friend. And it’s never selfish. Don’t beat yourself up for not always being on top of everything. It’s not always possible. Life happens. Take care Maria! ❤️
Maria, it was just meant to be that I came back to you today after a while. I’m a new mom too, my daughter turned one last month. And this whole year was just like you described it for me too. Exhausting has a completely new meaning to me now! So glad that you talk about all this so openly. This helps me a lot. Knowing that I am not the only one struggling while everyone around me has these unicorn babies. Or at least this is what they say. Becoming a mom is really a challenge nobody can prepare for, you just have to go with it and you will learn everyday. It’s always hard to accept that things don’t go as expected. Especially when not only you have high expectations for yourself but also society. Since I am a mom I feel that I am constantly justifying my decisions to everybody. Because everybody seems to know it better. And I am trying hard not to give too much attention to this but stay focused what I think works for me and my child. I don’t remember too much details from this last year. Especially because I had to cope with my mom passing away only weeks after giving birth to my baby. But I am feeling that things are slowly getting better. I send you a lot of love from Germany! 💜 Keep going and stay strong and healthy!
Yes, for me it's the same. I really appreciate that you're talking about what it means to be a new mom so honestly. My daughter is 15 months old and although I knew it would be getting hard to have a baby, I wasn't expecting how challenging and exhausting that whole new life would be. We have the same sleeping issues and sometimes I've been wondering what the hell I am doing wrong when all the others seem to do it right. I know that's wrong to think about it like this, but sometimes it's just hard moving on and staying convinced that this is OUR way which is as right as all the others. In general I think people should talk about these topics more openly in society, not only always mentioning the wonderful parts of having a child but also about the hardships, the frustrations, sleep deprivations, self-doubts, challenges for you and your relationships. What strikes me most is how deeply connected I am with my daughter, how much I love her despite all these hardships that you're going through. That's just crazy. Thank you for another great video and keep it calm concerning your self-expectations. I'Ve been following you here for six years and I've never expected anything extraordinary from you. I'm just pleased and happy when you upload a new video, that's it! You will always be my favourite ASMRtist even if you won't upload for a year or so :-) I send you my best wishes from Germany!
Love this video! I am a mother off two and work full time and can relate to so much of what you are going through as a new mother. You are doing amazing and I've enjoyed your videos for years now. this is by far the most relaxing thing i can do for myself every day is watch one of your videos! So happy to see such beautiful moments from your life happening! As mothers, we are all in a special club with each other even when we feel alone.
As a fellow Cancer and mom, I feel this deep in my heart. Always being on high alert about literally everything. It naturally comes with the territory of being a perfectionist which is your Cancer nature. It's so sweet to watch you go through this journey though. I say that because I've been there, done that, sometimes still doing it. I have 3 kids, ages 5,4, and 2. It's been a crazy 5 years 😂 but it does get easier, but there are always a new set of challenges the older they get. But you cross those bridges when you there or else you will go mad. When you get to crossing those bridges, all you can do is your best. I've been around since the beginning of your journey with asmr and I appreciated you then, and I appreciate you just as much, if not more, now. You are doing so so so great hon. Keep doing what you're doing because there is nothing wrong with it, let some of the pressure go 💜💕
Quote " Always being on high alert about literally everything. It naturally comes with the territory of being a perfectionist." Me too! I'm not a Cancer though.
You’re such a beautiful soul, Maria. Thank you for being so genuine in a world that too often tries to put on a brave face or fake smile to seem like they have everything together. I struggle with that personally. I’m due with my first baby in a week (!!) and these vulnerable mom moments are so helpful. It’s a whole new world...💕
I love these videos! I love that you share your life so transparently... I like knowing that many of us are going through the same challenges. Finding time for self care, being a mom, making friends, all great topics and I can relate.
Please *do* do a nail routine video, yes! I like doing gel nails at home, too, and clear gel nails are genius. Honestly Maria you have the best beauty hacks 😂😂
Maria you have no idea how much this helped me. Its 1:00a.m. and I woke up from a fever heating my bed up, and I felt extremely dizzy and nauseous. Thanks for always being here when we most need it 💖
I am the same with my work. Even if I only do a few hours it’s enough to keep the momentum going, if I slip into doing nothing then the motivation just goes. This is such a sweet video and I love that you made something like this for us to enjoy and relax with you, thank you
This is what I love about Maria's ASMR. So refreshing to hear and see people who speak honestly from their heart about the daily problems we all experience, than just seeing a beautiful face on Instagram or whatever that changes from view to view all around the world, and just make you feel so miserable. Social media can be devastating, but can also be comforting. Knowing that everyone has problems, and not only do I eat myself with endless self-criticism. Thank you so much Maria , love your ASMR, and a big fan for many years 🌸
I remember when Maria taught me how to spot a good tea by shaking the bag over my hand and seeing if particles dropped down from the tea bag. Thanks Maria!
Listening to you I feel like I'm talking to an old friend. Older sister. Mother. Myself. You just always seem so transparent and genuine. I love these talks Maria. Please never stop doing asmr. Not even for us but for yourself. I'm so happy you find purpose in this ❤️🙏🏻 sending good energy to you and your family
I just wanted to take a moment to show my appreciation for you! You’re unwell, taking care of your beautiful girl and still providing effortless content. You are literally superwomen! Thank you from the bottom of my heart Maria❤️
I loved this video. Thank you for opening up to us and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. The mom struggle is real; finding balance, getting sleep, feeling whole. I understand.
I’m totally with you on loving “procedural” ASMR. That’s why I love the Baumgartner painting restoration/conservation channel! ...I hope I spelled that right lol. He does both talking and no talking videos - I highly recommend checking it out.
My have to just say that as soon as I see her face, I am immediately relaxed and calm. Then when I hear her voice...totally without any worries. How lucky is lil Mila!?!
Thank you Maria for being so honest and listening to your whisper whilst going through some tough reflections felt really supportive. It's difficult to feel that you're good enough, and I often have these down-times too. Sometimes life is just overwhelming and exhausting and you're too tired to even yell. That's okay and everyone feel like that sometimes and maybe all the time. Thank you for always sharing your feelings and take really good care of yourself. We appreciate anything from you, but most of all, we want you to be well, so here we go. Much love to you and your family and it's so nice to hear that Mila is so strong-willed! Happy early Birthday to her and hope you have a nice day!
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with such bad anxiety etc... all of us could not be more appreciative of these videos and the time you spend on them. Thanks so much!
Hopefully everyone here just values Maria and her dedication to our tingles so they won’t be poopy heads about the video not taking being 40+hrs of production time. Thank you Maria, we hope you feel better soon.
This was so sweet and intimate! I’m so sorry you’ve been sick, I really hope you feel better soon. And I’m really *really* sorry to hear about the anxiety. I’ve had some serious struggles with that as well and would never wish it on anyone. Thank you for always giving us such great content, even when you’re not feeling well!
We truly are blessed to have maria shes been making asmr for years and has gone through so much and even now still cares about the quality of her videos and still genuinely enjoys doing it. Bless you maria bless your husband and bless your child and every person you've ever met
Never ever feel you have to apologize or say “this is it”! Everything you do is wonderful and I know I speak for all of your fans/followers when I say we love all of your videos! Personally I think you’re a rock star doing all that you do AND taking care of us. 🥰🥰 Much love and thanks from upstate New York!
Maria you're a blessing 💖 I discovered your channel 7 years ago. I was dealing with extreme anxiety and insomnia during my pregnancy and you helped me get through it all. I didn't sleep at all the first year and I felt anxious and overwhelmed all the time. It will get better. Hang on 💖 You are a wonderful woman... You make this world a better place 😘
I absolutely love this video. This type of authentic, real, soothing and calm whisper is my favourite. Listened to this video many, many times. Thank you❤
I deal with anxiety and depression too. Asmr helps me stop dwelling on the things I can't change and shut my mind off and listen. It helps be be present in the moment. You are my favorite artist and I support you no matter what! Love you!!!!
I know we will never know each other in real life, but I really look up to you Maria! My mother unfortunately took her own life when I was little so thank you Maria. Stay positive and know we love you ❤️
It’s so beautiful how real you are with ‘us’ - the weird, real people that look to you for comfort every week - just know that we are here for you as well - we love you ♥️
I've worked very well with gentle whispers to get to sleep... Have done all my life. My mum used to whisper a prayer beside me each night when I was very little and I would just drift off to sleep and be out like a light before she finished. The only thing with these videos, is that any other sounds like crinkling paper or tapping or deep sighs, will instantly disturb me and bring me back!. I then have to start all over again. But on the whole, the ASMR (never knew for the last 44 years that it had a name!) works well for me... Thank you. God bless you ❤️
Can I just say how adorable you are talking about your life and motherhood! I love this video and love listening to you whisper! Feel better and we are here for you! I appreciate your work and dedication.
Thank you for being in the same community for so long, even after growing your family. Please do it at your pace and take care of yourself :). We love you for you and will keep following you regardless! I love more casual videos like this. You helped me so much during a dark time several years ago, and I remember your earlier nail videos with care tips and random chit chat calming me and inspiring me to have my best/longest/always-painted nails ever for two years straight haha (work priorities recently have made me cut them short and leave clear). I love the wisdom you share in these videos. Thank you so much Maria.
also!!!!! I really felt the friendship part, I hope you'll find some amazing friends to hang out with because I know I'd love to be friend with such a sweet and funny person like you!!!
Anxiety is the worst. Sometimes I wake up nervous about nothing, just with the feeling on my chest. The pressure of being correct and perfect is immense for a lot of us.... Those moments of asmr I manage to actually take deep breaths and calm, listening to you or other relaxation magicians.
I’m so impressed to hear how self aware you are about the transformation you’re experiencing-motherhood changes everything. I agree sleep deprivation can heighten anxiety and elevate appetite. (For me, sugar cravings pop up most often when I’m mentally drained or haven’t had enough restful sleep). If I could go back & tell my “new mom self” one thing, it would have been - to relax more. I wish I knew then how much being present with my babies would have improved my self esteem & confidence as a mom. It’s obvious in your TH-cam & Instagram posts that your baby is very vibrant and happy...you’re doing an amazing job!
lofi videos like this are the ones that relax me the most and give me the most tingles and i’ve been super stressed out with school and audition lately so thanks sm maria!💕💕
Maria you do great videos and the best part is that they are genuine, I can truly feel that you want to help people. Your videos have helped me manage my anxiety, when life gets too crazy your videos are an escape for me ❤️
Lovely day we are having, the beautiful lovely Maria surprises us with a quality video as always. Hello to everyone in the comments section, have a nice wonderful day!
Not even halfway through the video and I came to the comments to see all the support and supportive moms as well. Having just had a baby 4 months ago, I found myself getting a little emotional watching this. All the times I get so overtired, the realization that I’ve lost hair, the really fussy nights when I’m the only one for my baby to cling to, etc. has all been stressful and we question if we’re doing it right. I just felt this video. It was real. It was life It was peaceful alone time. You’re doing great. 😊
i have been into ASMR since 2012, still using your vids to get rid of anxiety, sleepless nights and ptsd. i have turned so many people i know suffering same or similar symptoms on to your Gentle Whispering and always tell them to explore the thousands of other ASMR out there, but that you are my GO TO!
Sending you lots of love and strength. I was a single parent with no family. It's rough but speaking from experience, don't beat yourself up. My son's 21 now & told me awhile back he's lucky I'm his mom. I stressed and knew I was failing but it all works out. Don't waste time & energy on doubting yourself
I hope you feel better real soon!! Thank you for still making a video even though you're feeling sick, I'm 10 weeks pregnant and im not sleeping well at all so your videos always help me relax. So seeing that you added a new one will definitely help me sleep better tonight. Thank you Maria!
Your nails are beautiful! Would love to see how you prep them like you said with the gel!! I am so sorry about the anxiety! That can be tough. I am also a perfectionist and strive to do similar to you. Sometimes it is too much though and we have to do the best we are able. Thank you for your honesty and showing your real self. It makes us feel more connected to you and appreciate you more!! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers 🤗💗
Currently awake, suffering from anxiety and looking for a video to help me sleep BUT, Maria, I felt like you were literally talking to me. As a mother of a precious but demanding 6 month old and also dealing with weight gain/body image issues I can relate so much to what you’re going through. Thank you for this video! I appreciate your honesty and you sharing your heart!
You are amazing as just YOU!! Don’t be so critical of yourself. The simple chill whisper session is just what we all needed. Mommy hood is amazing because it teaches you to be easier on yourself as you teach them the same when they get older. It gets easier!
A woman that can handle with everything is good for everybody, just not to herself. You're amazing Maria. Thanks for every video, and just do what you think is best for you!!
I have been watching your ASMR videos since the start and you have helped me so much through high school, college, and now nursing school. My schedule is also difficult between nursing classes, hospital clinicals, studying, homework, working, and the lack of sleep lol. You are such an inspiration to stay positive and take things "one day at a time." I am so happy whenever a new video of yours is posted, no matter the content. I have a little over 5 months left of college before I graduate and want to thank you for helping me along in my journey. You are absolutely amazing!
Was planning to do my nails tonight anyway; I'm very happy to do them with you! I quite enjoy these lofi, casual, personal videos. Their simplicity is very calming and comforting. Keep your chin up, friend! We have faith in you! 💜
No matter the “quality” (I still think this was very well lit and clear) I will still watch your videos. The tone of your whispers and your word choices (i love the way you say schedule(s)) give me the most consistent tingles. I have tried many ASMR and most are good but yours is consistently peak tingle for me. Please take care of yourself. I don’t know you or you know me but I hope you understand me when I say I have love for you.
Rachel, sometimes when I'm angry or upset, I think about Maria's voice and personality, and bam! Calm again. She's like a therapist, even when she's not there. Amazing 🖤
I'm in such a very busy phase of life now (creatively, and also as a parent), and hearing you talk so honestly and graciously honestly helped me be kinder to *myself* this week. Less pressure is good. Something is better than nothing...I'm so glad you chose to post this.
I’m so happy that making videos is a pure pleasure for her or an “escape” as she puts it. I want her to be as happy/at peace as we are when we watch her videos! (Reciprocation) lol
Just have to remember you are never alone when it comes to anxiety. You definitely have helped me at times when I need to settle down and relax. You are a soothing person. We all love you and support whatever you have to do to help you feel better.
Your videos have been there for me through some of the worst days of my adult life and there is nothing I could ever do to repay you for how much you’ve helped me. Thank you sososo much 💗
Hearing your honest self-criticizing ebb and flow into patience with yourself and refocusing on all you are doing and accomplishing is really helpful! Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us
Oh Maria, you’ve no idea how much I love these old school whah ever you want to call them asmr videos from you.. I’m sorry you felt anxiety about not having a video up.. I think I speak for most of us when I say we will always love you regardless and understand.. all my love to you and your beautiful family:)xxx
I love these simple videos. You keep saying they lack quality but the quality is you girl! We just love your voice and having an excuse to relax is amazing. Thanks for all you do for this community.
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Hello :) Let's do an old school whispers and nailpolish application video! I'm recovering from cold but wanted to still hang out with you 🤗. Here's a breakdown of topics we'll chat about:
00:20 slacking on making videos
01:12 tea time
03:30 cotton rounds and alcohol ;)
05:22 my nails routine
06:25 nailpolishes for today
08:30 anxiety / taking action
11:30 posting something vs nothing
12:10 life purpose / escape
14:10 gaining weight
16:26 comfort eating
18:50 no screen - time is gold
20:05 Mila's first birthday
21:12 potential nail polish sorting video?
23:25 smash cakes
24:00 cooking is hard
25:26 a 2 minute pause in life
27:12 baby walking
28:47 nailpolishes ILNP
29:57 hello HOLO
31:20 second polish application
32:03 making a true impact on someone
33:17 our schedules
35:13 2 videos a week vs once a week
39:17 Gary Vee / content is king
41:00 favorite asmr style
43:00 final look of nails
43:55 Darryl is my rock
45:10 sleep training
47:00 mom friends
48:51 last look
Thank you for spending time with me! 🤗
Hope you feel better soon! ❤🤗
As usual, I stop doing whatever I’m doing to watch your videos 😍
you are too kind to consider us even in your illness. ❤️💅🏼
I saw “whisper, chit chat, and LoFi” in your video description, literally leaped for joy, picked up my one year old baby and said “nap time love!!” (At 4:00 pm 😂❤️) What a treat! Thank you for thinking of us Maria, even as you recover. I hope you’re at 100% very soon. 🙏🏾🥰
Gentle Whispering ASMR LOVE these videos!!!!💕💕💕💕💕 thank you for this and I hope you feel better soon!!😘
A useful tip a mom friend gave me, "Talk to yourself the way you'd talk to your daughter." Be kind and loving to yourself. Hug yourself like you hug her. Love yourself like you love her. This helped me so much. It wasn't an excuse but it did change my mindset. I wouldn't expect perfect from her, why do I expect it in myself when I'm taking care of her? Stay above water sweetie, the flood will become less, you'll be swimming along before you know it.
that's a lovely sentiment! :)
This is excellent advice!
That is some sound advice. So glad I stumbled upon your comment and I hope Maria sees it too!
What a great mindset to have! Thank you for that! 💜
Yes wonderful advice! Thank you!
"I don't mind failure, I mind the crushing anxiety that comes with worrying all the time." Truer words have never been spoken. Masha... ALL THE DAMN HUGS. You are not alone. i am just so relived we are in this together. Sending you love girl.
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I prefer these “real” and “normal” ASMR-videos over Roleplays or Trigger-only! You have such a healthy and easy personality! It’s just nice to listen to you as Maria ;->
I agree although I go through phases of liking one or the other. But mostly I just like No-talking asmr.
i really love trigger videos like tapping and others with her whispering in the back :)
What would happen to green if everyone liked red?
Totally agree! Maria, these kinds of videos are exactly what made ASMR relaxing / anxiety relieving. Just whispering doing normal “stuff”. Thank you for continuing to post this kind of content. 💕
Saaaaaaame!
Can I just say, I DO NOT NEED “new/interesting ideas for content” blahblahblah! Every. Single. Video. Is. Enough. I watch every video, I LOVE every video! I prefer “lofi” old school videos. It’s where ASMR began! I think you have an amazing gift M💕 I have loved you for over 8 years, I will never not love what you do for me every day!
Agree!!
100%!
Absolutely
I agree old style videos is the best. But new subscribers interested in something new and creative. I enjoy both type of videos.
What you said is so true, she could sit in the dark with no props and whisper or softly talking and that's it ,and we would all love it!
I wish you could see yourself from our perspective: a mom killing it with raising her daughter and still providing ah-mazing relaxing videos that help us so so much.
00juls00 YES! Agreed.
I don't want to ruin the 123 likes! But I must😔
This was so soothing and intimate. I see how things weigh on you in your eyes. Just know that when you do one of these talks, it resonates with many of us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. And get well soon!
My son was diagnosed last year when he was 11 years old with a malignant brain tumor which is when I discovered your videos. So I know how hard this year has been. You are the only ASMR person I watch/listen to. I've always struggled with anxiety and depression but my son's diagnosis really sent me into a tailspin but then I found a strength I never knew I had because of the courage and strength that he fought his cancer with. We were so close to losing him it's unbelievable to even fathom what we can truly make it through. I am so happy to report that he is now officially in remission! Don't worry Maria! Be strong in faith and you can get through ANYTHING! Make sure to take care of your body and mind! God bless you and your family! Thank you for making these videos to help people make it through their days. You've helped me so much and continue to do so!
Brendalee Irizarry all the best for you and your incredibly strong son! Keep fighting, believing and stay strong ❤️
I am happy for you and your son. I can only imagine how difficult it has been for all of you. It's not hard to imagine that Maria has been helpful in keeping you calm enough to get through. 💜🙏🏻🦋
Wishing you love to you and your brave little boy. What a shitty time xxxxxx
Best news ever!
дай бог сил и здоровья вам, вашему сыну и всем вашим близким.
There is an old saying, “Anything worth doing, is worth doing poorly.”
Basically, it is what your are talking about. How you have to post a video each week, even when you are not satisfied with it. It is important not only as a result, but as a process.
Another way to think of it is it is better to commit 50% effort than 0%, something is better than nothing, etc. An effective moto.
Ooofff. Writing this down
Really needed to read this. Thank you
Never would have thought this way. I'm going to reflect on this. Reading the saying instantly reminded me of my time as an art major, and all the drawings I deemed "not good enough." All the best students made hundreds of drawings - many unsuccessful - but their best were AMAZING.
Thank you.
I feel like lofi ASMR is underrated
@Norma Edwards it means with a lower quality of equipment. No special lightning of expensive mic. Just simple old school style
Lofi is awesome. Especially with the 1$ mini mics 😆
I love it too.
It's my favorite. It's got that nostalgic feel that my 90s baby self needs.
Now that I know what it is, I like it a lot too!
For anyone out there who might benefit -- When my daughter was about 6-8 months old I started getting a lot of anxiety, depression and mood swings. I started treatment for PPD and then eventually everyone figured out I had hypothyroidism. For any new moms, pregnancy can trigger this postpartum thyroiditis. Sometimes it resolves, sometimes it doesn't. If you're feeling poorly, don't stay silent thinking that's just part of being a new parent and you have to live with it. Talk to your doctor! While it could be sleep deprivation, exhaustion, and stress, it could also be something else. Either way, you deserve care and attention. ❤️
“I have no idea what I would do, you’re literally everything, that is sometimes saving me.” 😭❤️ We feel the same about you. You impact so many people on a daily basis... thank you for all you are and all you do. Your strength is amazing. You are simply gifted at this; and bringing peace to so many. Thank you Maria ❤️ Of course days... moments.. stretches of time like you describe here are ones we all face (that ironically you get us through 🤗) Thank you. 💚💛🧡❤️
This is the most real, down to earth, identifiable conversation any woman can ever have. All the outside influences in the world are stacked against us when it comes to self-worth and feelings of success. Then WE are stacked against our own selves with the anxiety and self-doubt. Girl, I feel this in the fiber of my being. You are NOT alone.
As someone who struggles tremendously with anxiety and self-image issues, I relate so much to everything you said, Maria. No one is harder on you than you. It is awful when you can’t escape criticism, because it is coming from your own mind. Just please know how much we all appreciate you, the work you do, and how much you sacrifice to continue making ASMR content. You’re amazing! And, for the record, if you’ve gained weight, I for one didn’t even notice. In fact, I’ve been marveling at how your beauty only seems to grow as time goes on!
Ikr?!? She's so beautiful 🌼!..
100th like. I feel special :3
Maura Clark exactly. I know how you feel. We are harder on ourselves than anyone. This is such a good video.
Beautifully said 💕
That's what I was thinking, she just keeps getting prettier ❤
I’m old enough to be your mom but young enough to remember when my 15 yr old daughter was a baby. She never slept for more than 4 hrs until she was a year - so neither did I. I also avoided screens and tried to be fully present as a mom. It is draining - truly work. It really is OK to leave those emails unanswered! I admire your grit and respect your desire for personal space - both good reasons to want to keep up with your ASMR work. Self care is so important and so easy to leave out of the equation. Thanks for keeping it real and remember to be kind and forgiving to yourself. You are doing your best!
I’ve been watching your videos since 2012 and this reminds me of your older content. I am 24 now and a mom to two toddlers. I was 15 watching you, reminds me of those memorable adolescent years. Thank you 💗 you are a big part of my growing years.
This video is everything, and I really hope to see more laid back content. Don’t exhaust yourself for us. These chit chat videos are so relaxing
Take time for your health and family and don't feel pressured to please absolutely everyone with videos. You can't and shouldn't expect to. As far as the types of videos I prefer the more natural videos like this and the earliest ones you posted. Don't feel obligated to do so many camera angles and edits or lighting adjustments. Keep it laid back and natural so you're conserving your own energy and enjoy some throwback style to the first videos you ever did.
Calamity 1313 Well said
As much as she's done for everyone in the community with her hard work and the time she's taken out of her day to do all this it's only fair to appreciate it no matter the quality or quantity of content.
I totally agree! As much as we love her content we have to remember she is a real human being who has other real life obligations - a family, a brand new baby!
@@magikatmagikat amen! Well put👏🏽
stop saying your videos are low quality!! regardless of their literal "technical" quality, your videos consistently bring me comfort and happiness and tingles and that makes them HIGH QUALITY. thank you for sharing your life with us in such a candid way. we LITERALLY LOVE you, your videos, and your spirit.
This is super healing and nice to know that we can all relate to one other and be honest about stress/anxiety. I love the soft whispering and genuine words. This IS good quality content.
When Mama Maria says anxiety is crushing her: we must destroy ALL ANXIETY!
Yes!!!
Sarah Trimble - Quite simply ? Death to Anxiety . Dusts off hands , walks away ....
34 years ago my postpartum depression went by the cutesy and dismissive nickname of ‘baby blues’. I too felt inadequate, tired, overwhelmed, overweight and just plain sad. But, how could I feel so sad when I had just given life to such a beautiful boy? My ex-husband was a police officer with crazy hours and a very busy dating life, (he didn’t realize that he should have stopped dating after we were married), so my son and I were always alone. He cried for the first three months of his life because of his colic. I cried because I couldn’t do anything right. I began to self medicate. Slowly at first. ‘Just to calm myself’, until I just became drunk.
My point is, there’s nothing wrong with the way you feel. You’re not doing everything, or even, ANYTHING wrong. You are just a new mother beginning a new job. And motherhood is a job. One you will never retire from. Your efforts will constantly be taken for granted. You’ll, more often than not, be denied the gratitude and recognition you deserve, or crave.
I truly hope that you are able to figure out the best course to help you through this time in your life. You should talk to your doctor. If that doesn’t help, talk to a different doctor. You’re a beautiful soul and you’ve been blessed. Now give yourself some slack for being human.
Wow. You described my first months of motherhood. Still depressed but fighting
Amazing comment
@@advantage82 I’m sorry to hear that any new mom is depressed when what we’ve done are simply miracles. And this horrible year is just that, horrible. But, you have to help yourself and allow yourself to see the ‘happy’. Sometimes we really are alone, but that just makes us more resilient and stronger. Congratulations on your baby. Good luck, God bless. It will get better. We need to believe that and repeat it to ourselves, sometimes like crazy people.
I love your honesty and realness. I have the same issue with anxiety - I have to at least work towards a little goal, or I'll feel so bad about doing nothing that I can't even approach it anymore. You're doing great, and I know you know better than to strive for perfection. You're a wonderful human being no matter what. 🤗 Side note, I have that exact same ILNP (was going to apply it tomorrow!) and that made me so happy. 😁
I had the worst anxiety attack today and I could not hold myself together. I was crying my eyes out just a few minutes ago, but once I started listening to you everything was ok and my heart and head can finally rest. Thank you so much! You do not need high quality videos, these are just as great.
Anxiety comes and goes like any emotion, it's just energy in your body. Just try and find those still moments to breathe, meditate and be creative. You're doing just fine! Really appreciate you posting today, it was a very relaxing video
Catherine i find your words comforting. “Anxiety comes and goes like any emotion” xx
@@hayley86bright Aw, I'm glad! I find it really comforting too. Sending love to you x
I get what you mean, but anxiety isn't an emotion. And a lot of times it isn't that easy. It doesn't come and go, you learn to live with it (or not). Therapists, psychiatrists and psychologists would be jobless if it was like any other emotion.
@@Blankie112 I guess everyone's experience is different, but I know that my anxiety comes and goes, and I truly believe that no thought, emotion or energy in the body is permanent. Everything is temporary and changes into something else. So while I understand what you're saying, that hasn't been my personal experience with it
@Starlight ・゚:* Hi, yes I am well aware as I experience that particular mental illness from time to time. I am sorry I didn't have the Oxford dictionary out when I wrote that comment, but anxiety (emotion or not) does come and go for many people. I was just trying to post some words of comfort and kindness.
Whoever tells you to quit is extremely foolish, and possibly from the dark side. I'll watch you for 50+ years lol you're the queen.
I have a toddler son at home and so many things you said really hit home for me! I always say that the first year felt like a blur and I was just going through the motions. It is the hardest yet most rewarding job. Thank you for being so vulnerable and using your platform to speak about your hardships. Seeing you be so relatable is refreshing. Hope you can find some peace within yourself Mama you’re amazing!!
I can’t even imagine a person more gentle and kind than her. Such a pure and genuine soul.
OMG girl, hearing you talk about how the first year with your baby you are purely surviving constant exhaustion and just float through it is the best description EVER! So so so true. Plenty of mamas out here who felt the exact same way. Feel better soon and know you aren’t alone - your sister ms around the world are feeling you back!! X x x sending strength and love x x x
Maria, you have a special energy. I've watched your videos for years. Especially recently, on days when I've not wanted to talk to anyone, when everything has seemed way too much, there has only been one person in this whole world who I've felt able to listen to and spend time with- you! Thanks so much for sharing your kind spirit.
This style is my favorite asmr style 😋 I love when people just sit down and do a task while soft speaking or whispering and just talking about life or giving advice. I love to hear your advice as I look up to you. Don’t ever feel bad about the content you put out I love it all and so do a lot of people! ❤️ you’re doing great & you’re an awesome mom
I have been thinking about doing videos like this where I do my nails or organize things, but filmed from my point of view. I'm just too chicken XD
@Alternative Princess You should go for it!
Alternative Princess you should! Those are my favorite and no one does them anymore.
I really enjoy when you teach us about something that's important to you in your videos! Or simply flipping through a catalog and commenting on it
I’m almost 34 and my new husband and I are going to start trying to have kids. I feel terrified, but I am so grateful that you talk about motherhood. It gives me strength. ❤️
It's a beautiful journey, hard as hell but 100% worth it. I send you all the baby dust 🖤
Katie Howell good luck to you & your husband :)
So sorry you’ve been sick. It’s so hard when you have a baby because you don’t get total rest. These are my favorite types of videos. Thank you queen
I remember that first year as such a blur. You're doing great - be kind to yourself! I'd love more videos like this one. Painting nails and rambling... Thanks!
I'm laying here with my 19 month old sleeping while I decompress from the day. I feel so many topics in this. You are rocking it momma ❤ Mila is so lucky to have you, and how much you care!
You can do it, and make sure you are looking out for you too! Xoxo
You're such a sweetheart, I really like when you are just being yourself. I hope the anxiety passes quickly.
From my own experience it is much easier to panic and have anxiety when you are tired and don't sleep well. It's like the body is too tired to fight it. Hope it gets better once Mila gets older and sleep better herself.
You are so raw and real and I LOVE IT!!! Adulting is hard. Parenting is hard. There are a lot of people who paint their lives as perfect and that’s not how real life is. I appreciate your real-ness and honesty. My kids are bigger and I have to say that there will be different challenges along the way as your daughter gets bigger. You learn from each other. I loved it when you said when it all becomes too much, just walk away. Take a few minutes for yourself and just breathe. My favorite videos of yours are when you are just chit chatting. It is like catching up with an old friend. And it’s never selfish. Don’t beat yourself up for not always being on top of everything. It’s not always possible. Life happens. Take care Maria! ❤️
Maria, it was just meant to be that I came back to you today after a while. I’m a new mom too, my daughter turned one last month. And this whole year was just like you described it for me too. Exhausting has a completely new meaning to me now! So glad that you talk about all this so openly. This helps me a lot. Knowing that I am not the only one struggling while everyone around me has these unicorn babies. Or at least this is what they say. Becoming a mom is really a challenge nobody can prepare for, you just have to go with it and you will learn everyday. It’s always hard to accept that things don’t go as expected. Especially when not only you have high expectations for yourself but also society. Since I am a mom I feel that I am constantly justifying my decisions to everybody. Because everybody seems to know it better. And I am trying hard not to give too much attention to this but stay focused what I think works for me and my child. I don’t remember too much details from this last year. Especially because I had to cope with my mom passing away only weeks after giving birth to my baby. But I am feeling that things are slowly getting better. I send you a lot of love from Germany! 💜 Keep going and stay strong and healthy!
Yes, for me it's the same. I really appreciate that you're talking about what it means to be a new mom so honestly. My daughter is 15 months old and although I knew it would be getting hard to have a baby, I wasn't expecting how challenging and exhausting that whole new life would be. We have the same sleeping issues and sometimes I've been wondering what the hell I am doing wrong when all the others seem to do it right. I know that's wrong to think about it like this, but sometimes it's just hard moving on and staying convinced that this is OUR way which is as right as all the others. In general I think people should talk about these topics more openly in society, not only always mentioning the wonderful parts of having a child but also about the hardships, the frustrations, sleep deprivations, self-doubts, challenges for you and your relationships. What strikes me most is how deeply connected I am with my daughter, how much I love her despite all these hardships that you're going through. That's just crazy. Thank you for another great video and keep it calm concerning your self-expectations. I'Ve been following you here for six years and I've never expected anything extraordinary from you. I'm just pleased and happy when you upload a new video, that's it! You will always be my favourite ASMRtist even if you won't upload for a year or so :-) I send you my best wishes from Germany!
Love this video! I am a mother off two and work full time and can relate to so much of what you are going through as a new mother. You are doing amazing and I've enjoyed your videos for years now. this is by far the most relaxing thing i can do for myself every day is watch one of your videos! So happy to see such beautiful moments from your life happening! As mothers, we are all in a special club with each other even when we feel alone.
As a fellow Cancer and mom, I feel this deep in my heart. Always being on high alert about literally everything. It naturally comes with the territory of being a perfectionist which is your Cancer nature. It's so sweet to watch you go through this journey though. I say that because I've been there, done that, sometimes still doing it. I have 3 kids, ages 5,4, and 2. It's been a crazy 5 years 😂 but it does get easier, but there are always a new set of challenges the older they get. But you cross those bridges when you there or else you will go mad. When you get to crossing those bridges, all you can do is your best. I've been around since the beginning of your journey with asmr and I appreciated you then, and I appreciate you just as much, if not more, now. You are doing so so so great hon. Keep doing what you're doing because there is nothing wrong with it, let some of the pressure go 💜💕
Quote " Always being on high alert about literally everything. It naturally comes with the territory of being a perfectionist." Me too! I'm not a Cancer though.
You’re such a beautiful soul, Maria. Thank you for being so genuine in a world that too often tries to put on a brave face or fake smile to seem like they have everything together. I struggle with that personally. I’m due with my first baby in a week (!!) and these vulnerable mom moments are so helpful. It’s a whole new world...💕
I appreciate you being willing to do something, even when sick. All my love! Hope you get back to 100% soon
I agree, this is devotion indeed!!! Feel better soon, Maria and anyone else who’s sick right now x
I love these videos! I love that you share your life so transparently... I like knowing that many of us are going through the same challenges. Finding time for self care, being a mom, making friends, all great topics and I can relate.
Please *do* do a nail routine video, yes! I like doing gel nails at home, too, and clear gel nails are genius. Honestly Maria you have the best beauty hacks 😂😂
Maria you have no idea how much this helped me. Its 1:00a.m. and I woke up from a fever heating my bed up, and I felt extremely dizzy and nauseous. Thanks for always being here when we most need it 💖
I am the same with my work. Even if I only do a few hours it’s enough to keep the momentum going, if I slip into doing nothing then the motivation just goes. This is such a sweet video and I love that you made something like this for us to enjoy and relax with you, thank you
This is what I love about Maria's ASMR. So refreshing to hear and see people who speak honestly from their heart about the daily problems we all experience, than just seeing a beautiful face on Instagram or whatever that changes from view to view all around the world, and just make you feel so miserable. Social media can be devastating, but can also be comforting. Knowing that everyone has problems, and not only do I eat myself with endless self-criticism. Thank you so much Maria , love your ASMR, and a big fan for many years 🌸
I remember when Maria taught me how to spot a good tea by shaking the bag over my hand and seeing if particles dropped down from the tea bag. Thanks Maria!
Is it good tea or bad tea if it drops down??? I need answers.
Which video did she teach about that??
Yes!! I also remember it and it's funny because I actually do it whenever I prepare tea 😅
@@HkToria10 It's bad quality if it drops down, since the paper used for it is cheap and particles will get in your tea.
Miho U It was mentioned in
"Teas Please, ASMR Soft Spoken Crinkling Tapping" she mentions it right away, in the first 3 minuets I believe
Listening to you I feel like I'm talking to an old friend. Older sister. Mother. Myself. You just always seem so transparent and genuine. I love these talks Maria. Please never stop doing asmr. Not even for us but for yourself. I'm so happy you find purpose in this ❤️🙏🏻 sending good energy to you and your family
I just wanted to take a moment to show my appreciation for you! You’re unwell, taking care of your beautiful girl and still providing effortless content. You are literally superwomen! Thank you from the bottom of my heart Maria❤️
I loved this video. Thank you for opening up to us and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. The mom struggle is real; finding balance, getting sleep, feeling whole. I understand.
I’m totally with you on loving “procedural” ASMR. That’s why I love the Baumgartner painting restoration/conservation channel! ...I hope I spelled that right lol. He does both talking and no talking videos - I highly recommend checking it out.
Ohh yeah Julian is great. Love his videos, they're informative and relaxing.
redmanish bless you! Yesterday I read this comment and looked up his videos, today I am an expert art conservator! 😂 I’m obsessed!
Yes he's a favorite of mine too
Your everyday beauty, resilience, and glowing energy are dazzling. Doing this for yourself is so healthy. You’re doing amazing, and thank you Maria.
My have to just say that as soon as I see her face, I am immediately relaxed and calm. Then when I hear her voice...totally without any worries. How lucky is lil Mila!?!
Very 😊💕
Oh that sweet little baby is so precious! She certainly has a blessed momma! ❤️❤️
Thank you Maria for being so honest and listening to your whisper whilst going through some tough reflections felt really supportive. It's difficult to feel that you're good enough, and I often have these down-times too. Sometimes life is just overwhelming and exhausting and you're too tired to even yell. That's okay and everyone feel like that sometimes and maybe all the time. Thank you for always sharing your feelings and take really good care of yourself. We appreciate anything from you, but most of all, we want you to be well, so here we go. Much love to you and your family and it's so nice to hear that Mila is so strong-willed! Happy early Birthday to her and hope you have a nice day!
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with such bad anxiety etc... all of us could not be more appreciative of these videos and the time you spend on them. Thanks so much!
Hopefully everyone here just values Maria and her dedication to our tingles so they won’t be poopy heads about the video not taking being 40+hrs of production time.
Thank you Maria, we hope you feel better soon.
This was so sweet and intimate! I’m so sorry you’ve been sick, I really hope you feel better soon. And I’m really *really* sorry to hear about the anxiety. I’ve had some serious struggles with that as well and would never wish it on anyone. Thank you for always giving us such great content, even when you’re not feeling well!
We truly are blessed to have maria shes been making asmr for years and has gone through so much and even now still cares about the quality of her videos and still genuinely enjoys doing it. Bless you maria bless your husband and bless your child and every person you've ever met
Maria, I have a 5 month old baby and hearing this tonight has given me so much comfort to know I’m not alone. Thank you ❤️
Never ever feel you have to apologize or say “this is it”! Everything you do is wonderful and I know I speak for all of your fans/followers when I say we love all of your videos! Personally I think you’re a rock star doing all that you do AND taking care of us. 🥰🥰 Much love and thanks from upstate New York!
These are my favorite videos: they feel like those incredibly calming quiet moments in time that a lot of ASMR tries to recreate.
Maria you're a blessing
💖 I discovered your channel 7 years ago. I was dealing with extreme anxiety and insomnia during my pregnancy and you helped me get through it all. I didn't sleep at all the first year and I felt anxious and overwhelmed all the time. It will get better. Hang on 💖 You are a wonderful woman... You make this world a better place 😘
I had a very rough day today (my parents' divorce is one big mess) and I'm so thankful for this video ❤ I hope you all have a good night of sleep!
I feel u girl stay strong x♡
Good luck, I hope you're holding in there ❤
All the best hun. I know how difficult divorce can be. All my love 💕
Hopefully tomorrow will be a little better 🌞
Stay strong angel! ❤️
I absolutely love this video. This type of authentic, real, soothing and calm whisper is my favourite. Listened to this video many, many times. Thank you❤
I deal with anxiety and depression too. Asmr helps me stop dwelling on the things I can't change and shut my mind off and listen. It helps be be present in the moment. You are my favorite artist and I support you no matter what! Love you!!!!
I know we will never know each other in real life, but I really look up to you Maria! My mother unfortunately took her own life when I was little so thank you Maria. Stay positive and know we love you ❤️
It’s so beautiful how real you are with ‘us’ - the weird, real people that look to you for comfort every week - just know that we are here for you as well - we love you ♥️
Dagný Valgeirsdóttir yes ♥️
I've worked very well with gentle whispers to get to sleep... Have done all my life. My mum used to whisper a prayer beside me each night when I was very little and I would just drift off to sleep and be out like a light before she finished.
The only thing with these videos, is that any other sounds like crinkling paper or tapping or deep sighs, will instantly disturb me and bring me back!. I then have to start all over again.
But on the whole, the ASMR (never knew for the last 44 years that it had a name!) works well for me...
Thank you. God bless you ❤️
Can I just say how adorable you are talking about your life and motherhood! I love this video and love listening to you whisper! Feel better and we are here for you! I appreciate your work and dedication.
Thank you for being in the same community for so long, even after growing your family. Please do it at your pace and take care of yourself :). We love you for you and will keep following you regardless! I love more casual videos like this. You helped me so much during a dark time several years ago, and I remember your earlier nail videos with care tips and random chit chat calming me and inspiring me to have my best/longest/always-painted nails ever for two years straight haha (work priorities recently have made me cut them short and leave clear). I love the wisdom you share in these videos. Thank you so much Maria.
also!!!!! I really felt the friendship part, I hope you'll find some amazing friends to hang out with because I know I'd love to be friend with such a sweet and funny person like you!!!
I am such a huge fan of the "old school" ASMR videos. So relaxing. Thank you Maria!
Anxiety is the worst. Sometimes I wake up nervous about nothing, just with the feeling on my chest. The pressure of being correct and perfect is immense for a lot of us.... Those moments of asmr I manage to actually take deep breaths and calm, listening to you or other relaxation magicians.
I’m so impressed to hear how self aware you are about the transformation you’re experiencing-motherhood changes everything. I agree sleep deprivation can heighten anxiety and elevate appetite. (For me, sugar cravings pop up most often when I’m mentally drained or haven’t had enough restful sleep). If I could go back & tell my “new mom self” one thing, it would have been - to relax more. I wish I knew then how much being present with my babies would have improved my self esteem & confidence as a mom. It’s obvious in your TH-cam & Instagram posts that your baby is very vibrant and happy...you’re doing an amazing job!
lofi videos like this are the ones that relax me the most and give me the most tingles and i’ve been super stressed out with school and audition lately so thanks sm maria!💕💕
Maria you do great videos and the best part is that they are genuine, I can truly feel that you want to help people. Your videos have helped me manage my anxiety, when life gets too crazy your videos are an escape for me ❤️
Lovely day we are having, the beautiful lovely Maria surprises us with a quality video as always. Hello to everyone in the comments section, have a nice wonderful day!
NFSMAN50 thankyou, you too❤️
What a sweet thing to say. You too!
Not even halfway through the video and I came to the comments to see all the support and supportive moms as well. Having just had a baby 4 months ago, I found myself getting a little emotional watching this. All the times I get so overtired, the realization that I’ve lost hair, the really fussy nights when I’m the only one for my baby to cling to, etc. has all been stressful and we question if we’re doing it right.
I just felt this video.
It was real.
It was life
It was peaceful alone time.
You’re doing great. 😊
I love how down to earth and, yeah old school this is.
i have been into ASMR since 2012, still using your vids to get rid of anxiety, sleepless nights and ptsd. i have turned so many people i know suffering same or similar symptoms on to your Gentle Whispering and always tell them to explore the thousands of other ASMR out there, but that you are my GO TO!
Sending you lots of love and strength. I was a single parent with no family. It's rough but speaking from experience, don't beat yourself up. My son's 21 now & told me awhile back he's lucky I'm his mom. I stressed and knew I was failing but it all works out. Don't waste time & energy on doubting yourself
I hope you feel better real soon!! Thank you for still making a video even though you're feeling sick, I'm 10 weeks pregnant and im not sleeping well at all so your videos always help me relax. So seeing that you added a new one will definitely help me sleep better tonight. Thank you Maria!
Your nails are beautiful! Would love to see how you prep them like you said with the gel!!
I am so sorry about the anxiety! That can be tough. I am also a perfectionist and strive to do similar to you. Sometimes it is too much though and we have to do the best we are able. Thank you for your honesty and showing your real self. It makes us feel more connected to you and appreciate you more!! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers 🤗💗
She has a nail care video on her vlog channel, I believe!
Annette Ford thank you!!
Currently awake, suffering from anxiety and looking for a video to help me sleep BUT, Maria, I felt like you were literally talking to me. As a mother of a precious but demanding 6 month old and also dealing with weight gain/body image issues I can relate so much to what you’re going through. Thank you for this video! I appreciate your honesty and you sharing your heart!
Its 22:22pm in ireland and its just in time for bed thank u maria from the bottom of my heart thank u for sending me to sleep since 2013 xxxxxxxx
Oiche maith
You are amazing as just YOU!! Don’t be so critical of yourself. The simple chill whisper session is just what we all needed. Mommy hood is amazing because it teaches you to be easier on yourself as you teach them the same when they get older. It gets easier!
A woman that can handle with everything is good for everybody, just not to herself. You're amazing Maria. Thanks for every video, and just do what you think is best for you!!
I have been watching your ASMR videos since the start and you have helped me so much through high school, college, and now nursing school. My schedule is also difficult between nursing classes, hospital clinicals, studying, homework, working, and the lack of sleep lol. You are such an inspiration to stay positive and take things "one day at a time." I am so happy whenever a new video of yours is posted, no matter the content. I have a little over 5 months left of college before I graduate and want to thank you for helping me along in my journey. You are absolutely amazing!
Was planning to do my nails tonight anyway; I'm very happy to do them with you!
I quite enjoy these lofi, casual, personal videos. Their simplicity is very calming and comforting. Keep your chin up, friend! We have faith in you! 💜
No matter the “quality” (I still think this was very well lit and clear) I will still watch your videos. The tone of your whispers and your word choices (i love the way you say schedule(s)) give me the most consistent tingles. I have tried many ASMR and most are good but yours is consistently peak tingle for me. Please take care of yourself. I don’t know you or you know me but I hope you understand me when I say I have love for you.
Rachel, sometimes when I'm angry or upset, I think about Maria's voice and personality, and bam! Calm again. She's like a therapist, even when she's not there. Amazing 🖤
Maria is the reason I'm so into ASMR since 2016 and i really love her she's literally the ASMR queen🥺😍❤
I'm in such a very busy phase of life now (creatively, and also as a parent), and hearing you talk so honestly and graciously honestly helped me be kinder to *myself* this week. Less pressure is good. Something is better than nothing...I'm so glad you chose to post this.
I’m so happy that making videos is a pure pleasure for her or an “escape” as she puts it. I want her to be as happy/at peace as we are when we watch her videos! (Reciprocation) lol
Just have to remember you are never alone when it comes to anxiety. You definitely have helped me at times when I need to settle down and relax. You are a soothing person. We all love you and support whatever you have to do to help you feel better.
Your videos have been there for me through some of the worst days of my adult life and there is nothing I could ever do to repay you for how much you’ve helped me. Thank you sososo much 💗
*Proud to be part of the most supportive community on TH-cam!*
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Hearing your honest self-criticizing ebb and flow into patience with yourself and refocusing on all you are doing and accomplishing is really helpful! Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us
Oh Maria, you’ve no idea how much I love these old school whah ever you want to call them asmr videos from you.. I’m sorry you felt anxiety about not having a video up.. I think I speak for most of us when I say we will always love you regardless and understand.. all my love to you and your beautiful family:)xxx
I love these simple videos. You keep saying they lack quality but the quality is you girl! We just love your voice and having an excuse to relax is amazing. Thanks for all you do for this community.