Love your video. Yes I am a women and I love how you explained the emelent of Haya and we feel so much pressure to be outspoken and to be bold. But you are right Hijab with out Haya doesn't serve the purpose.
It is so refreshing to hear this brother speak. I am tired of hearing Muslim Da'ees regurgitate the same "Feminist" nonsense that non-Muslims do. As a woman, I absolutely agree with him 100%! Muslim women have been subconsciously lapping up the Feminist narrative; we've been indoctrinated to believe that being brash, bold exhibitionists is a sign of success and empowerment. May Allaah honour brother Gabriel for having the courage to raise real issues and for always referring back to the Qur'aan and Sunnaah. May his call to the Haqq weigh heavily on his scale on the day of judgment, ameen.
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 dude I just went through you're comments and video...what do you think that you're saying and doing that hasn't already been said. There's nothing original to what you're trying to accomplish
I feel like a big reason for women becoming like this, more openly confident is the lack of protection and guardianship from men. You have no option but to stand up for yourself when others ( of whoms responsibility it is) don’t. It’s a vigorous cycle. I think we are all in need of Islamic guidance. But it’s very difficult in this modern age where there any appearances to keep up and many responsibilities.
@@إلياس-ل9ظ sooo true... most women now days Blaming everything on men..Allah test Not only men Also Women..And Allah will ask for ur Action on judgement day..I think they forget that.
As a Muslim sister, I totally agree! We have a unique role appointed to us by Allaah, and there's beauty in it when it is not exposed to non-mahrams. May Allaah bless you brother Gabriel
Haya is also for men. I love my husband ´s haya and his serious attitude to me. Alhamdulillah I became muslim since I met him and we have a happy marriage for 4years. I love islamic personality = khuluque
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Before marrriage, he did not want to just enjoy. He was serious from the beginning If it is hard to understand my English, it is my fault.
The problem is modesty is considered a piece of clothing now like a woman can wear a full jilbaab and not be modest by nature. Modesty is to abstain from revealing your body , protecting your mind , protecting your chastity, etc is far beyond covering your hair ....
Tbh. The world kinda ruins a girls shyness at a young age. Especially if your born and raised in the west. The school system encourages you to be outspoken, speak your mind, fight for yourself, show your body, be independent, learn how to negotiate, be fearless, to never forget that your competing with the boys. They're raised to do everything a man does "outside" and "indoors" and also in relationships they should be submissive, obedient, domestic. Women are taught these Double standards from day 1. To bring haya back to women, stop raising them in western schools, educate them and try your best to get them to work from home that way if something happens in the future they are capable of being independent as a back up. But prioritize their feminine roles as mothers and wives. Protect and shelter them but not in a way where they're naive and oblivious to the dangers of this world or how to protect themselves against harm. Dont put them in "equality" Environments but dont prevent them from thinking. Women can only be the BEST of women when their in the BEST of environments and not being "held" back from their rights but instead taught from an islamic perspective of the wisdoms behind Allah's commandments.
This brother is a legend. Being brave enough to confront the growing issues with the sisters unlike the other media imams who are busy praising and defending them in all circumstances.
I am very shy and ashamed quickly, and this appears clearly on me, which leads to my psychological suffering from this problem. I always try to get rid of this feeling, or at least that it does not appear on my face and features
actually I got confused between haya and boldness. because women get objectified for their shyness and even sexualized. and Allah told us not to soften our voice with non marham. so how can we maintain haya without getting too soft ?
as a Muslimah I agree, I have always felt pressure regarding and made to feel bad about being shy and not wanting to put myself out there, be assertive or bold like the West tells us women. it’s always felt wrong and unnatural. Alhamdullilah for Islam and the concept of Haya being something Allah has ordained for us. Allah truly knows us the best🥹🤲
brother please make a playlist how to be a man with the character of quran and sunnah that you said you saw in minority of men. I want to have this character. im 18
The sad part is where are the protectors of these women. Where are the fathers ,the brothers and the husband's of these shameless females? To be honest my own brothers daughters dress shamelessly and I have commented to them about not being able to secure the correct husbands because of their dress. I say to them you will look more appealing in more respectful dressing. May Allah swt guide us all to the correct path.
Modesty Describe it to men and women They are the real means of communication between us , As well as strength and courage Othman bin Affan was Like this
Jazaak Allaahu khairan for raising this point. Kindly throw some light on this point as wel as to how to balance between haya/bashfulness/shyness with elders in family and husband on one side, as compared to that with strangers especially non mahram men? Should a muslimah be bashful in front of strangers as wel? as this will lead to them getting attracted towards her which islam discourages i.e being soft in voice and behavior with strangers. And also until a woman gets married to a man, that person before the arrival of the proposal to her (and then approval and engagement and marriage) will be her non mahram and she needs to be stiff with regards to non mahram. So blankness and straightforwardness in speech and actions with strangers also counts as not having bashfulness. Kindly clarify it for people.
Another problem is that in American culture, introversion, shyness, bashfulness and reservation are seen as negative qualities, whereas in Islam they’re seen as beautiful qualities, especially in women. Lots of parents, in a bid to further their children in life, discourage the above mentioned qualities and coax their children, especially their daughters, to become ‘outgoing.’ This is what ignorance does to society.
As salamu alaykum sister. A woman and man should have haya. A woman shouldn't act like a man and man likewise. may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala guide us all to the straight path, ameen.
Brother masha a i think its only yoi who attach thos subjects and you are talkin the truth. It true we as muslims man many of us we lose that haya. Soooooo true. Masha.a ALLAH. Thos issues is real. Allah gave you vision to check umma . May ALLAH reward you. So true man cant like woman masculine soo true. Masha.a ALLAH .
Your videos are very detailed... Try looking more towards the camera while talking ( maintaining eye contact with the viewers) for better communication ..
Baraku Allāhu fik and your family. It’s all about infancy just like teaching your child what is hot and they’ll stay away from hot things. I think even in this day and age, kids need to see shows like forensic detectives because only telling them that wearing cloths of the kufār is dangerous and Hijāb has a wisdom is not enough because they’ll see the safe side of society not having shame and the reality of it’s dangers are hidden(such as shown in these documentaries above). This will instil the fear needed and to show them how distasteful it is(plus saying things when you see the western clothes) because if we stay silent they’ll be desensitised and see your reaction of silence acceptance). I think telling girls Hijāb is save and this is the wisdom behind it is passed rather SHOWING them the true dark side of women being picked up and raped and murdered, going parties or out for drinks then getting drugged, deceived by evil men in the name of “he loves me” and uncountable ways they are subjected to in the name of “freedom to choose where they go and what to wear”. However, this approach should be done with wisdom in what you show them and from what age. BUT they should be shown. I know soo many girls who were brought up to wear Hijaab but took it off(incl skirts etc) once they reached the age of 13-14(or even 15) because they don’t know the true side. And shaydhan(and his hizb, the kufaar) show things in a “good” light, falsehood as truth. And because they see the kufar ways they should be SHOWN the ugly truth, that when they will understand the wisdom behind Hijaab. Btw: no way or shape I am saying that’s the only way or reason a women is raped nor justifying the evil done to women but highlighting the actual fact. And HIJAAB and legistlation for Muslim Women is PERFECT and SAVE.
I've been watching a lot of your videos recently since the knitting video came out. Right now I'm trying to understand your mentality and idea of the 2 sexes. I've seen you focus a lot on women taking care of their children or the family unit, but what about a married woman with no children? Do they suddenly have nothing they can do? I wonder how you would address this.
I don't get your question. If she's just a wife and not a mother yet then she dedicates herself to the husband first and then she can do other things which are within the boundaries of Islam...🤷🏻♂️
@@xSunnyDaysx From my readings on this topic if she isn't married then she is first and foremost the responsibility of her father and brothers. She can do what she likes within the bounds of Islam. Whether it is studying, running a business from home, meeting up with her female friends, halal hobbies/interests and even working in the corporate world (although this is not encouraged) whilst observing Islamic restrictions such as hijab and being careful with unecessary non mahram interactions. If she has nobody then of course she has no choice but to work. Quite simple to understand I think
In Islamic societies women enjoy social interactions visiting each other after taking care of their home. And many work and are involved with charity organisations (whether or not they have children). There are even many female scholars teaching Islam and various other sciences... however, the righteous do not frequent public places or expose themselves etc. (Being modest doesn't mean you lock yourself at home)💕
@@OnePunchMuslim I guess that's where the 'miscommunication' is. Too many people are shouting for women to literally stay in their homes/at their houses and to not get involved in anything that plays 'outside'. It just doesn't work. Even for mothers... they have to go outside to take the kids to school or sports. For some reason when people hear that women are outside... i guess they have this image of them hanging outside with dudes and doing inappropiate things... like teenagers. I just don't know.
As salamu alaykum brother Gabriel, could we also talk about the western society discriminating practicing muslim women? Here in Germany, muslim sisters wearing the hijab are being fired from their jobs. And not considered a suitable employee despite having studied and apprenticeship in the exact fields. The issue is ONLY us wearing the hijab. We hear things like ‚either you take it off or you can go home‘ and they try to oppress us. Wearing long dresses and abayas are ‚extremism‘. What should we do? Some brothers and sisters say women don’t have to work, stay at home. But that is not possible if a sister is unmarried and / or her parents are divorced and maybe live in other countries or don’t think about the issue of finding someone suitable for marriage. We are for example 3 girls and we all have to work to be able to pay our rent and expenses. Also in a lot of marriages the wage of the husband is not enough / inadequate and the wife has to be employed. So this don’t seems like a possible solution. I would be happy, if we could speak and discuss these issues and spread awareness. Jazak Allahu Khairan.
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If you look around, if you show your self to religious and kind people will straight away try to drow over you and use you ,you need to be able to talk back and don't take peoples nonsence! But only if it needs not othervise! and if someone came and hit you and start a real fight with you you shall be able to protect your self, As a quite calm girl I know that people really looking for that persenallity to really abuse, and scare you with fsycol fights, then when you blow up and protect your self and don't take nothing then they stop doing this! Then people say "I doing know you cud have attitude or even be angry" no cuz why shall I act that way if I don't need to, but please don't make women or girls think it is bad to be able to protect them self ! Usually hijabis being so mind gamed in work plases and school,
I doubt most men or any man wants* to get married to a women who is more masculine than him lol i feel speaking from experience, having non Muslim friends, being in a family that is disjointed and having gaps in you because of poor parenting , it creates uncertainty and anxiety which then leads to haram. That's why Allahumdurillah i caught myself early before i went to far but that's because i grew up in africa and moved to the 1st world when i was 18, so i feel from a young age 1st world youngsters aren't aware of how or when to draw the line. The reason why i recognized where to draw the line was because of the environment i grew up in, the culture, society and neighborhood. Here in the 1st world its like you live in the gray area without even realizing it, almost born and raised in the gray area for about 2 generations so its difficult to change what is normal especially when there isn't anything directly saying it is wrong, then again the culture , society and behavior of the muslims pushes you away from the deen and makes the Haram look easier and more desirable (when you have anxiety and sadness) . i believe its going to take future generations to be on true clear path of deen, as an umah i feel all we can do is improve each generation as much as possible so that the next after that will be better than the previous, but the signs are all around us, we cant say Kiyamah will come when everything is good ? there needs to be really bad things to happen and really bad people for Kiyamah to come at its correct time, i personally got to make sure myself and future generations from me remain on the Straight and narrow Path and that's only possible if i continue to learning and experience life truthfully to be able to pass on true authentic wisdom of the current world we live in. All we can really say is that Allah picked your family and yourself to be on this deen and we just got maintain and take your relationship with Allah to the next level as an act of gratitude. inshallah
With all due respect, your argument is ridiculous, empowerment of women is not equivalent to a lack of haya..... who are you to tell women and young girls that they can’t stand up for their right to be heard , a Muslim woman’ s haya is not her silence , you want quiet women , you want mimes ... just say it . islam and the prophet P.B.U.H said a Muslim woman has to have manners and carry herself with dignity .in today’s world . women are oppressed by men ! Yes by men and have no choice but to stand up to their oppressors in terms of their right to equal opportunities, education , reproductive right , etc . Don’t tell young women haya is silence . Please think before unloading your ideology and masking it as “ sunnah “ . It’s ppl like you that drive ppl away from Islam .
Put your focus on your Muslim brothers who some of them have narcissist tendecy.also the ones who smoke and get themselves in haram relashionships and opress their wives .thanx for your concern but Muslim men are not going to go to jannah for JUST BEING MEN. Have balance with your advise.
First of all, women are obliged to cover their faces. And even if a woman follows the opinion that she does not have to cover face, she's still not allowed to display herself in front of many men. Whilst she is givign a lecture, men look at her like it's normal. Is a man supposed to look at a woman's face?! Didn't Allaah order men to lower their gaze?! Then why is she giving such a lecture in front of thousands of men. It's absuuurd. Completely disrespectful of hijab. Hijab is supposed to hide u, not display u. Most importantly, what is her aqeedah?? She has never talked about tawheed, which is the core of the religion. She never warned of shirk. Then what dawah is she doing? Some heart softeners?! Even a nonmuslim can give heart softeners. It's not a big deal. Tawheed is the essence of this entire religion. If that isn't taught, why do u even listen to her
@@nidaeshaque Every time a woman talks to a man face to face, she's 'displaying' herself. The man can lower his gaze; they can do that whether she speaks to them face to face or on a stage. As long as she conveys herself respectfully and is not flagrant (which I don't gather that she is), then I don't think she is disrespectful of hijab. And saying that she never talks about tawheed is not a strong argument that she contradicts the sunnah, in my opinion. You can listen to other speakers who fulfill the topic of tawheed for you, if she doesn't
Nooooooo, use your common sense cmonnnn💀💀🤦, did you watch the entire video or did you just read the title, look at the prophet's wives as an example, you'll realise how uneducated you sound by saying that 💀💀💀😬
@@yasinfazley8313 why are you being so disrespectful you could have just said in a nice manner The prophet (S.A.W) would want us to be respectful in our speech. Practice what you preach.
@@kimyn7159 I'm sorry, but that comment was full of stupidity, I don't think she actually thought deeply before commenting that, yes I shouldn't speak like that, thank you for advising me.
Alright, how is a woman supposed to make her point in this world without raising her voice. No body will listen. Try debating whilst being timid and you will get walked all over. Why is speaking a woman passionately so feared by some men? And if your answer to me is that women don't need to make their point, or they should shut up and stay at home because their opinions don't matter then please don't bother replying.
@Sohaib Siddiqui oh yeah lest the men become unable to control themselves incase they hear that a woman has a functioning brain. Look it's simply impractical to ask half of the population to not speak to the other half and stay at home. How is it fair for women to throw away any talents they may have because of people like you. People should be able to communicate but they should maintain a distance and observe modesty. Putting extra boundaries so that people don't cross the boundaries allah asked us to maintain will just create frustration. it isn't written anywhere that men and women shouldn't converse unless that conversation will lead them to sin.
NO ONE fears you speaking up. Were you even listening to Gabriel? Your ideas come from your perceptions. Stop blaming others for your own insecurities.
@@tabiakhan9870 alright let me clarify something for you,im a men. Men only talk to women if they have to like in everyday life,at work etc. Outiside of this any talking that is done is purely flirting. Men change around women,talk different around women,behave different around women, look different around women.you dont know men true nature because your a women and you never been in a enviromment with only men. When i got married i was shocked about stuff women would talk between themselfs when my wife told me.trust me your shock would be 10x
@Sohaib Siddiqui the only beautiful Islamic society is in the rich gulf countries. The rest of Muslim countries especially the poor ones don't seem to be beautiful. A lot of abuse. No opportunity to work for women if she is left without husband. No opportunity to work even for men.
Because we are guardians over women. It is our job to guide them when they are going astray. The brother also talks about women. The prophet sallallahu alihi wasalam gave a khutbah specifically to women on eid,that is his sunnah.
You're equating those women who fought tooth and nail for all of Islam's principles. Today majority of the women are influenced by liberal ideas I wouldn't equate the two
Why do i have to speak to men if i spoke to women this video is for Muslim women if u don't like it just go to another what is this nonsense imagine when the prophet pbuh told the believing women to wear their veils if a random women said "what about the men" this is not a competition nd the brother mostly talk about the men
Lol - so women are supposed to live their whole lives bashful - even when they don't feel like it !lol , Who knew not being bashful is equivalent to manliness.
@@shadowstorm5261khawlah bint Al azwar was a proud female warrior in the prophets lifetime . Many of you males and male scholars are such liars and so dishonest in your bid to remove women from mainstream society . it's funny how ignorant anyone can be to think think every women in the world was born with bashfullness and shyness . It's really sad how women have been deceived that men are the smart ones - yet we have people like you with your astounding ignorance and misogyny on full display . There is nothing I hate like arrogance and stupidity in a person .
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Love your video. Yes I am a women and I love how you explained the emelent of Haya and we feel so much pressure to be outspoken and to be bold. But you are right Hijab with out Haya doesn't serve the purpose.
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 your're the fitnah here man. Just get out.
Haya is also for men. Outspoken and bold is in context not that women can't be.
@@aliay2743 Haya is more encouraged for women I don't get it why some women get triggered over the rulings of Islam fear Allah
It is so refreshing to hear this brother speak. I am tired of hearing Muslim Da'ees regurgitate the same "Feminist" nonsense that non-Muslims do. As a woman, I absolutely agree with him 100%! Muslim women have been subconsciously lapping up the Feminist narrative; we've been indoctrinated to believe that being brash, bold exhibitionists is a sign of success and empowerment. May Allaah honour brother Gabriel for having the courage to raise real issues and for always referring back to the Qur'aan and Sunnaah. May his call to the Haqq weigh heavily on his scale on the day of judgment, ameen.
For real
I agree mash Allah.
@@nasraqaali7050 Why am I reminded of Nasra Qareeb Lee? 🤣😅
@@absolutelynobody3837 Never heard of her.
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 dude I just went through you're comments and video...what do you think that you're saying and doing that hasn't already been said. There's nothing original to what you're trying to accomplish
I feel like a big reason for women becoming like this, more openly confident is the lack of protection and guardianship from men. You have no option but to stand up for yourself when others ( of whoms responsibility it is) don’t. It’s a vigorous cycle. I think we are all in need of Islamic guidance. But it’s very difficult in this modern age where there any appearances to keep up and many responsibilities.
@@إلياس-ل9ظ sooo true... most women now days Blaming everything on men..Allah test Not only men Also Women..And Allah will ask for ur Action on judgement day..I think they forget that.
@@إلياس-ل9ظ so true bro so true
I agree. There is a huge imbalance
Stop blaming men for your actions. You do wrong then you alone will be put in jahannam
@@jasonbourne5941 I will be put in jahanam… thanks for telling me based on a TH-cam comment .
As a Muslim sister, I totally agree! We have a unique role appointed to us by Allaah, and there's beauty in it when it is not exposed to non-mahrams. May Allaah bless you brother Gabriel
Haya is also for men. I love my husband ´s haya and his serious attitude to me. Alhamdulillah I became muslim since I met him and we have a happy marriage for 4years. I love islamic personality = khuluque
What's the connection between Haya and a serious attitude?
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Serious means not just for enjoying or fluttering. He wanted to marry with me from the beginning
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Before marrriage, he did not want to just enjoy. He was serious from the beginning
If it is hard to understand my English, it is my fault.
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 she dose not feel like that
But surprisingly you do 😂😂
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 She feels fine why are you causing an argument, you love commenting so much bro 👨🦯
The problem is modesty is considered a piece of clothing now like a woman can wear a full jilbaab and not be modest by nature. Modesty is to abstain from revealing your body , protecting your mind , protecting your chastity, etc is far beyond covering your hair ....
I agree but u can't choose one of them it's a whole backache
@@jinkeezpasha2769 all must be fulfilled
Modesty Is an attitude. I agree.
Jazaka allah khayran
May God bless you
Tbh. The world kinda ruins a girls shyness at a young age. Especially if your born and raised in the west. The school system encourages you to be outspoken, speak your mind, fight for yourself, show your body, be independent, learn how to negotiate, be fearless, to never forget that your competing with the boys. They're raised to do everything a man does "outside" and "indoors" and also in relationships they should be submissive, obedient, domestic. Women are taught these Double standards from day 1. To bring haya back to women, stop raising them in western schools, educate them and try your best to get them to work from home that way if something happens in the future they are capable of being independent as a back up. But prioritize their feminine roles as mothers and wives. Protect and shelter them but not in a way where they're naive and oblivious to the dangers of this world or how to protect themselves against harm. Dont put them in "equality" Environments but dont prevent them from thinking. Women can only be the BEST of women when their in the BEST of environments and not being "held" back from their rights but instead taught from an islamic perspective of the wisdoms behind Allah's commandments.
Absolutely! May Allah guide us and keep our hearts firm on his deen Ameen 🤲🏼
MashaAllah ,,so true,and courageous. Keep it up.
As always our brother enlighten us about important issues and provides practical solutions. May Allah give you best of both worlds.
Marshallah nice to see someone talking about real issues affecting are Muslim women and men allowing this to carry on!!! May Allah guide you.
This brother is a legend. Being brave enough to confront the growing issues with the sisters unlike the other media imams who are busy praising and defending them in all circumstances.
May Allah protect us. Jezklahu kayren.
I am very shy and ashamed quickly, and this appears clearly on me, which leads to my psychological suffering from this problem. I always try to get rid of this feeling, or at least that it does not appear on my face and features
Why would you want to get rid of it?
@@firmman4505 because it is debilitating being a naturally shy person. People can walk all over u
There nothing wrong in being shy with outsiders
Don’t be shy with your halal lover that’s all matters
Shyness is good in women
actually I got confused between haya and boldness. because women get objectified for their shyness and even sexualized. and Allah told us not to soften our voice with non marham. so how can we maintain haya without getting too soft ?
Make ur voice deep or try to. Also were things like abaya that don’t show the shape of body.
@@umar9174 Jazakallahu khairan, brother.
@@angelinataherin3102 ur welcome sister.
We need more of this.
as a Muslimah I agree, I have always felt pressure regarding and made to feel bad about being shy and not wanting to put myself out there, be assertive or bold like the West tells us women. it’s always felt wrong and unnatural. Alhamdullilah for Islam and the concept of Haya being something Allah has ordained for us. Allah truly knows us the best🥹🤲
brother please make a playlist how to be a man with the character of quran and sunnah that you said you saw in minority of men. I want to have this character. im 18
Try to lower your gaze when you see a women it's the first step of haya
The sad part is where are the protectors of these women. Where are the fathers ,the brothers and the husband's of these shameless females? To be honest my own brothers daughters dress shamelessly and I have commented to them about not being able to secure the correct husbands because of their dress. I say to them you will look more appealing in more respectful dressing. May Allah swt guide us all to the correct path.
Facts
Ameen
it is not only in women. but men also have lack of haya
Modesty Describe it to men and women They are the real means of communication between us , As well as strength and courage Othman bin Affan was Like this
Jazaak Allaahu khairan for raising this point. Kindly throw some light on this point as wel as to how to balance between haya/bashfulness/shyness with elders in family and husband on one side, as compared to that with strangers especially non mahram men? Should a muslimah be bashful in front of strangers as wel? as this will lead to them getting attracted towards her which islam discourages i.e being soft in voice and behavior with strangers. And also until a woman gets married to a man, that person before the arrival of the proposal to her (and then approval and engagement and marriage) will be her non mahram and she needs to be stiff with regards to non mahram. So blankness and straightforwardness in speech and actions with strangers also counts as not having bashfulness. Kindly clarify it for people.
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Stfu
👍👍👍👍👍ان من كلام النبوة الاولى .اذا لم تستح فاصنع ماشئت. وهذا يشمل الرجال والنساء
Another problem is that in American culture, introversion, shyness, bashfulness and reservation are seen as negative qualities, whereas in Islam they’re seen as beautiful qualities, especially in women. Lots of parents, in a bid to further their children in life, discourage the above mentioned qualities and coax their children, especially their daughters, to become ‘outgoing.’ This is what ignorance does to society.
But it is very important when women learn.. they don’t have to be shy. I think haya is humbleness.
As salamu alaykum sister. A woman and man should have haya. A woman shouldn't act like a man and man likewise. may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala guide us all to the straight path, ameen.
A woman with shyness is amazing, and a man with shyness is beyond amazement - Hazrat Abu Bakr (ra)
There is a specific situations no all the way
I haya equals no modesty. Which means it is gonna be really really really hard to go to paradise. If they repent then Allah swt is the most forgiving.
Wallah ya Akhi this is soo true
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 what do you mean
@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Your face is pathetic.
Brother masha a i think its only yoi who attach thos subjects and you are talkin the truth. It true we as muslims man many of us we lose that haya. Soooooo true. Masha.a ALLAH. Thos issues is real. Allah gave you vision to check umma . May ALLAH reward you.
So true man cant like woman masculine soo true. Masha.a ALLAH .
287 likes from good Muslimahs inshallah.
Your videos are very detailed...
Try looking more towards the camera while talking ( maintaining eye contact with the viewers) for better communication ..
Brother I agree, it’s just like the west where I live now.
Baraku Allāhu fik and your family.
It’s all about infancy just like teaching your child what is hot and they’ll stay away from hot things. I think even in this day and age, kids need to see shows like forensic detectives because only telling them that wearing cloths of the kufār is dangerous and Hijāb has a wisdom is not enough because they’ll see the safe side of society not having shame and the reality of it’s dangers are hidden(such as shown in these documentaries above). This will instil the fear needed and to show them how distasteful it is(plus saying things when you see the western clothes) because if we stay silent they’ll be desensitised and see your reaction of silence acceptance). I think telling girls Hijāb is save and this is the wisdom behind it is passed rather SHOWING them the true dark side of women being picked up and raped and murdered, going parties or out for drinks then getting drugged, deceived by evil men in the name of “he loves me” and uncountable ways they are subjected to in the name of “freedom to choose where they go and what to wear”. However, this approach should be done with wisdom in what you show them and from what age. BUT they should be shown. I know soo many girls who were brought up to wear Hijaab but took it off(incl skirts etc) once they reached the age of 13-14(or even 15) because they don’t know the true side. And shaydhan(and his hizb, the kufaar) show things in a “good” light, falsehood as truth. And because they see the kufar ways they should be SHOWN the ugly truth, that when they will understand the wisdom behind Hijaab.
Btw: no way or shape I am saying that’s the only way or reason a women is raped nor justifying the evil done to women but highlighting the actual fact. And HIJAAB and legistlation for Muslim Women is PERFECT and SAVE.
I've been watching a lot of your videos recently since the knitting video came out. Right now I'm trying to understand your mentality and idea of the 2 sexes. I've seen you focus a lot on women taking care of their children or the family unit, but what about a married woman with no children? Do they suddenly have nothing they can do?
I wonder how you would address this.
I don't get your question. If she's just a wife and not a mother yet then she dedicates herself to the husband first and then she can do other things which are within the boundaries of Islam...🤷🏻♂️
@@OnePunchMuslim Then a second question arises: what about women who are not married? What is she suppose to focus on?
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From my readings on this topic if she isn't married then she is first and foremost the responsibility of her father and brothers.
She can do what she likes within the bounds of Islam. Whether it is studying, running a business from home, meeting up with her female friends, halal hobbies/interests and even working in the corporate world (although this is not encouraged) whilst observing Islamic restrictions such as hijab and being careful with unecessary non mahram interactions.
If she has nobody then of course she has no choice but to work.
Quite simple to understand I think
In Islamic societies women enjoy social interactions visiting each other after taking care of their home. And many work and are involved with charity organisations (whether or not they have children). There are even many female scholars teaching Islam and various other sciences... however, the righteous do not frequent public places or expose themselves etc. (Being modest doesn't mean you lock yourself at home)💕
@@OnePunchMuslim I guess that's where the 'miscommunication' is. Too many people are shouting for women to literally stay in their homes/at their houses and to not get involved in anything that plays 'outside'. It just doesn't work. Even for mothers... they have to go outside to take the kids to school or sports.
For some reason when people hear that women are outside... i guess they have this image of them hanging outside with dudes and doing inappropiate things... like teenagers. I just don't know.
As salamu alaykum brother Gabriel, could we also talk about the western society discriminating practicing muslim women?
Here in Germany, muslim sisters wearing the hijab are being fired from their jobs. And not considered a suitable employee despite having studied and apprenticeship in the exact fields. The issue is ONLY us wearing the hijab. We hear things like ‚either you take it off or you can go home‘ and they try to oppress us.
Wearing long dresses and abayas are ‚extremism‘.
What should we do?
Some brothers and sisters say women don’t have to work, stay at home. But that is not possible if a sister is unmarried and / or her parents are divorced and maybe live in other countries or don’t think about the issue of finding someone suitable for marriage.
We are for example 3 girls and we all have to work to be able to pay our rent and expenses.
Also in a lot of marriages the wage of the husband is not enough / inadequate and the wife has to be employed. So this don’t seems like a possible solution.
I would be happy, if we could speak and discuss these issues and spread awareness.
Jazak Allahu Khairan.
In men too, like the Mohammed Hijab and Ali Dawah type
Indeed.... ❤️❤️❤️👍
I used to be very shy not anymore
And why is that?
@@salimalkatiri7014
because I grow up I don't take shite from no one
@@yasminenazarine1629 watch the full video please
@@yasminenazarine1629 you are lost.
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Give us a solid definition of Hayah
If you look around, if you show your self to religious and kind people will straight away try to drow over you and use you ,you need to be able to talk back and don't take peoples nonsence! But only if it needs not othervise! and if someone came and hit you and start a real fight with you you shall be able to protect your self,
As a quite calm girl I know that people really looking for that persenallity to really abuse, and scare you with fsycol fights, then when you blow up and protect your self and don't take nothing then they stop doing this!
Then people say "I doing know you cud have attitude or even be angry" no cuz why shall I act that way if I don't need to, but please don't make women or girls think it is bad to be able to protect them self ! Usually hijabis being so mind gamed in work plases and school,
I doubt most men or any man wants* to get married to a women who is more masculine than him lol i feel speaking from experience, having non Muslim friends, being in a family that is disjointed and having gaps in you because of poor parenting , it creates uncertainty and anxiety which then leads to haram. That's why Allahumdurillah i caught myself early before i went to far but that's because i grew up in africa and moved to the 1st world when i was 18, so i feel from a young age 1st world youngsters aren't aware of how or when to draw the line. The reason why i recognized where to draw the line was because of the environment i grew up in, the culture, society and neighborhood. Here in the 1st world its like you live in the gray area without even realizing it, almost born and raised in the gray area for about 2 generations so its difficult to change what is normal especially when there isn't anything directly saying it is wrong, then again the culture , society and behavior of the muslims pushes you away from the deen and makes the Haram look easier and more desirable (when you have anxiety and sadness) . i believe its going to take future generations to be on true clear path of deen, as an umah i feel all we can do is improve each generation as much as possible so that the next after that will be better than the previous, but the signs are all around us, we cant say Kiyamah will come when everything is good ? there needs to be really bad things to happen and really bad people for Kiyamah to come at its correct time, i personally got to make sure myself and future generations from me remain on the Straight and narrow Path and that's only possible if i continue to learning and experience life truthfully to be able to pass on true authentic wisdom of the current world we live in. All we can really say is that Allah picked your family and yourself to be on this deen and we just got maintain and take your relationship with Allah to the next level as an act of gratitude. inshallah
masha allah.
With all due respect, your argument is ridiculous, empowerment of women is not equivalent to a lack of haya..... who are you to tell women and young girls that they can’t stand up for their right to be heard , a Muslim woman’ s haya is not her silence , you want quiet women , you want mimes ... just say it . islam and the prophet P.B.U.H said a Muslim woman has to have manners and carry herself with dignity .in today’s world . women are oppressed by men ! Yes by men and have no choice but to stand up to their oppressors in terms of their right to equal opportunities, education , reproductive right , etc . Don’t tell young women haya is silence . Please think before unloading your ideology and masking it as “ sunnah “ . It’s ppl like you that drive ppl away from Islam .
The shyness is here haya that is what the prophet Muhammad said. If their being oppressed then it is ok
Put your focus on your Muslim brothers who some of them have narcissist tendecy.also the ones who smoke and get themselves in haram relashionships and opress their wives .thanx for your concern but Muslim men are not going to go to jannah for JUST BEING MEN. Have balance with your advise.
he does, there are many videos of his putting down these men.
i guess you only hear what you want
You are so triggered
Go through his channel before making absurd claims and slandering him putting words in his mouth
You are lost you need guidance
I think Yasmeen mojahed is a great example of haya and how women can and should take positions of influence while maintaining haha.
Puh-leeeez! If you knew the basics of Islam, then you'd know that what Yasmine Mogahed is doing totally contradicts the sunnah
@@nidaeshaque can you please explain i do agree with u. But just want to know.
@@nidaeshaque How?
First of all, women are obliged to cover their faces. And even if a woman follows the opinion that she does not have to cover face, she's still not allowed to display herself in front of many men. Whilst she is givign a lecture, men look at her like it's normal. Is a man supposed to look at a woman's face?! Didn't Allaah order men to lower their gaze?! Then why is she giving such a lecture in front of thousands of men. It's absuuurd. Completely disrespectful of hijab. Hijab is supposed to hide u, not display u.
Most importantly, what is her aqeedah?? She has never talked about tawheed, which is the core of the religion. She never warned of shirk. Then what dawah is she doing? Some heart softeners?! Even a nonmuslim can give heart softeners. It's not a big deal. Tawheed is the essence of this entire religion. If that isn't taught, why do u even listen to her
@@nidaeshaque Every time a woman talks to a man face to face, she's 'displaying' herself. The man can lower his gaze; they can do that whether she speaks to them face to face or on a stage. As long as she conveys herself respectfully and is not flagrant (which I don't gather that she is), then I don't think she is disrespectful of hijab.
And saying that she never talks about tawheed is not a strong argument that she contradicts the sunnah, in my opinion. You can listen to other speakers who fulfill the topic of tawheed for you, if she doesn't
So a woman standing up for herself means she has no haya? So we cant defend ourselves and other women?
Nooooooo, use your common sense cmonnnn💀💀🤦, did you watch the entire video or did you just read the title, look at the prophet's wives as an example, you'll realise how uneducated you sound by saying that 💀💀💀😬
Do you know what haya means?
@@yasinfazley8313 why are you being so disrespectful you could have just said in a nice manner The prophet (S.A.W) would want us to be respectful in our speech. Practice what you preach.
@@kimyn7159 I'm sorry, but that comment was full of stupidity, I don't think she actually thought deeply before commenting that, yes I shouldn't speak like that, thank you for advising me.
@@yasinfazley8313 Yw
I cant relate at all. May Be the title shoukd be " of some muslim women " , not generalize like that.
Alright, how is a woman supposed to make her point in this world without raising her voice. No body will listen. Try debating whilst being timid and you will get walked all over. Why is speaking a woman passionately so feared by some men? And if your answer to me is that women don't need to make their point, or they should shut up and stay at home because their opinions don't matter then please don't bother replying.
@Sohaib Siddiqui oh yeah lest the men become unable to control themselves incase they hear that a woman has a functioning brain. Look it's simply impractical to ask half of the population to not speak to the other half and stay at home. How is it fair for women to throw away any talents they may have because of people like you. People should be able to communicate but they should maintain a distance and observe modesty. Putting extra boundaries so that people don't cross the boundaries allah asked us to maintain will just create frustration. it isn't written anywhere that men and women shouldn't converse unless that conversation will lead them to sin.
NO ONE fears you speaking up.
Were you even listening to Gabriel?
Your ideas come from your perceptions. Stop blaming others for your own insecurities.
@@ak205 insecurities??😂😂😂😂😂 He said women don't have haya, look at them shouting and raising their voice. Did you even read my comment?
@@tabiakhan9870 alright let me clarify something for you,im a men.
Men only talk to women if they have to like in everyday life,at work etc.
Outiside of this any talking that is done is purely flirting. Men change around women,talk different around women,behave different around women, look different around women.you dont know men true nature because your a women and you never been in a enviromment with only men.
When i got married i was shocked about stuff women would talk between themselfs when my wife told me.trust me your shock would be 10x
@Sohaib Siddiqui the only beautiful Islamic society is in the rich gulf countries.
The rest of Muslim countries especially the poor ones don't seem to be beautiful. A lot of abuse. No opportunity to work for women if she is left without husband. No opportunity to work even for men.
+1
Why are these guy obsess wit muslim women why most of your videos always about women?
Because we are guardians over women. It is our job to guide them when they are going astray. The brother also talks about women. The prophet sallallahu alihi wasalam gave a khutbah specifically to women on eid,that is his sunnah.
Sorry the brother also talks about men*
Because women are the most evil creation of Allah 😂
We had Muslimah companions (RA) that fought on the battlefield when they had to. This is very vague video. Masculinity = speaking up? What???
You're equating those women who fought tooth and nail for all of Islam's principles. Today majority of the women are influenced by liberal ideas I wouldn't equate the two
What about the men??????.are women the only people who have to be devoted muslims?.
truth is too bitter for you
Worry on urself and try to get to jannah.
Why do i have to speak to men if i spoke to women this video is for Muslim women if u don't like it just go to another what is this nonsense imagine when the prophet pbuh told the believing women to wear their veils if a random women said "what about the men" this is not a competition nd the brother mostly talk about the men
he does speak on men more then women
Pathetic behaviour stop saying what about men in a video about women it's ridiculous
He talks about men too
Lol - so women are supposed to live their whole lives bashful - even when they don't feel like it !lol , Who knew not being bashful is equivalent to manliness.
go away feminist
we can see your feminism. you want to be a man so badly don't you?
it will only lead to your sadness and possibly hell
@@shadowstorm5261khawlah bint Al azwar was a proud female warrior in the prophets lifetime . Many of you males and male scholars are such liars and so dishonest in your bid to remove women from mainstream society . it's funny how ignorant anyone can be to think think every women in the world was born with bashfullness and shyness .
It's really sad how women have been deceived that men are the smart ones - yet we have people like you with your astounding ignorance and misogyny on full display .
There is nothing I hate like arrogance and stupidity in a person .
@@adamsayid2765 go away , misogynist.
@@bimbobello8067 yes but she was still bashful when it came to casual encounters. not everything has to be of a sexual nature.
How can a men talk about women. Where are the women in Islam. This is the problem of the uma
Where are women in islam? Acting like they’re God anaouzobillah.