I love how she talks about her rough childhood and being forced into acting and being traumatized by her experiences early in life, and Graham is like “My parents paid me to take piano lessons.”
@@agimxhemali220 You are an idiotic conspiracy theorist who cannot differentiate "two" from too. An excuse regarding english not being your first language is not viable here since the difference between two, to, and too are among the very first things you learn.
The fact that she's been through so much and yet is still so kind, warm and humble is mind-blowing. I'm glad she's living a better life now. She deserves it.
@@valizeth4073 history? Do you ever talk to regular people? Millions of people dealing with trauma aren’t out here being violent psychopaths, “history” is just the most insane stories but not the majority.
@@lianarodriguez1314 yeah forreal, just because of a couple extreme cases/anecdotes like Hitler or Stalin doesn’t mean trauma creates monsters. They’re the outliers; it’s not like anyone’s out there interviewing a huge sample size of a million people with trauma.
I think this was a great opportunity to LISTEN. When you're talking/interviewing someone who went through what they did, it comes off really insensitive when you redirect the conversation to yourself after they discuss something that wasn't a great expirence. People make the mistake of trying to relate to an expirence, which you can't relate to trauma if you've never expirenced that form of it with one experience which may have not been great for you. You're comparing being exploited with an expirence that is not related though was also unpleasant. If you're not educated on how to approach conversations with people who have experienced those types of things, It's always great to do research as to how you can approach them without coming off as insensitive. Sometimes the worst thing you can do is try to compare something to an experience that you've never had before rather than just listening and learning. Ex: " My financial awareness stems from so and so which was traumatic..." (Didn't say that exactly but it's for example purposes) Instead of following with " I loved to play with this and this at that age" which seems extremely dismissive and appears you aren't actively listening, you could've addressed what she said like " That's horrible ... Blah blah... I think at that age I was only concerned with childhood things" Also the tone throughout the whole video seems like She's being interviewed to prove what she went through rather than for y'all to listen and use your platform for her to voice what she went through.
Also, I didn’t like how much they were talking about the other guys Attire and criticizing it, it just got very annoying because I came here to listen to Jeanette talk about her Life growing up. Getting off topic is gonna happen of course, but they went on and on with that shirt “dilemma”.
Right, comparing her being forced and manipulated to act for over a decade and support her entire family to him having to go to paino lessons for a small amount of time for a couple years while only worrying about lizards and tamagotchis. Did he hear himself speaking??
Absolutely agreed. They really could have listened better and spoken about themselves less. The amount of time spent talking about themselves became annoying.
I've come to the realisation a lot of people simply cannot cope with Bad News (and have probably led sheltered lives to boot.) Presently my husband is lame and unable to work more than a few hours a week until he has a major operation. The healthcare system is lagging badly. I'm not trying to offend anyone with this explanation, but it still happens and how quick people are to change the subject to something light and jovial... without even acknowledging what I've shared. Reading Jeanette's book right now and it's helping me get through this sucky time in my life :)
@@gumerzambrano I think the same way by knee jerk reaction but then someone compared their high end bags and shoes to my high end cars. If you buy high end 2nd hand your stuff doesn't depreciate (sometimes it even appreciates).
@@Yunolein Thanks there tips. I mean when you're running a car lot one may say you need to spend a bit of money to make a bit of money but I guess you're not wrong lol
Jennette: "yeah my mom forced me to be the bread winning of the family to dig us out of a financial hell hole and i'd sob bc it was too much pressure and i'd be manipulated and guilted into child labor my whole life." whatever this guys name is: " yeah my mom and dad bribed me with toys so i'd go to piano and i totally miss it." bro. wtf. read the room like are you not actively listening?
@@ronburgundy3172 or maybe just think about what you say before you say it? she’s not asking anyone to feel bad for her. it’s just a strange thing to say in response.
They dropped the ball interviewing her. They totally kept turning it to themselves and then the long useless topics of the clothes, and the dating.. I had to fast forward a lot of it and was surprised when I thought I fast forward enough (which was a lot) these men are still going at it almost bickering.
I wish they would explain things more. When they talked about encroaching I understood it but I expected it to be explained because I listen to Joe rogan too much apparently. I have never actually heard about encroaching though so I googled to be sure my brain totally understood it right because when they started talking about hillside it made me think I could be wrong.
I think the problem is they didn't have a frame of reference or understanding of the financial insecurity or trauma Jennette experienced. At least the host acknowledged his piano story wasn't a great comparison. I stopped watching after they started talking about clothes and romanticizing the "simple" days when they didn't have to pay for so much. Maybe it got deeper later on.
I have mixed feelings. I could see where it would be a nice relief from her perspective to not have to focus on my trauma that I've been focused writing and talking about for the last year or so.
I greatly admire Jennette from what she talked about here. She's financially safe with her money, spends minimally, but also prioritizes travel for her happiness. Looove that 😌
Totally get the financial awareness as a kid. I think I was 8 when I stopped asking for every toy out there because I knew we didn't always have the money for it. My parents always did their best and what they couldn't do, my grandparents did. But y'all would be surprised how common it is for kids to worry about money
I became aware when I was around 4, believe it or not. My sister died, so it was a traumatic, confusing time for me which is why I think I have some really vivid memories from that time. But, my parents would feed me and not eat themselves because we couldn’t afford the food. I also remember these very nice ladies showing up at Christmas with a garbage bag full of gifts for me because my parents couldn’t afford anything. My dad worked, but he worked steel mills in the late 70’s. The mill closed right as my sister died. We lived in Michigan. Because of our financial situation we moved back to PA. On the way back the muffler kept falling off the car every other mile. I never asked for toys growing up, or money. Never asked them for anything and was always extremely grateful for anything I got. Yes, children become aware of a lot we don’t think they do.
"I think I was 8 when I stopped asking for every toy out there" i never got every toy out there...so i didnt grow out of it ina sense...esp since i felt like my parents could afford it...but thats cause they worked hard to save money...didnt have much vices, both worked...this shit just made me think of that...like for me thats not easy...i just spend spend spend
My parents didnt even buy me clothes, girls get cute outfits for their parents only for existung right ? I was giving an allowce who was btw miserable.... i USED TO BUY MY OWN CLOTHES since 15 !!!!
I worried about money so much that if something went missing or broke I would legit cry and panic bc I knew my mom would be really upset to have to replace it 😬
I have been asking my kids, “whatever happened to Sam from Sam and Cat?” because we used to watch it all the time. Then BOOM. Jenette McCurdy is everywhere. Thank you for showing your courage and pulling back the curtain on fame and Hollywood for all the young people who aspire to be famous like their tv heroes.
I super understand the criticism regarding not addressing her book and that whole specific experience that much, but if I'm being super honest, I loved that they three just spoke together casually almost as friends. She's absolutely mindblowing and amazing, but her mom and trauma are not all she is. It was great seeing her interact just like the young funny and empathetic woman she is, beyond everything she's been through. I loved this episode.
This was the perfect time to post this with iCarly coming back and people wondering why she’s not on the show This will probably get this video a lot of views
I can’t with the financial mansplaining! She mentioned her interest in personal finance and it’s clear it’s paying off! She’s making financial choices that are true to her true self. It doesn’t feel like the hosts did their homework in researching about Jeannate’s background. More prep could’ve helped them prepare to at least be empathetic about her childhood and past financial choices. Most importantly, it could’ve helped them avoid assumptions about finance topics that she could’ve already know about.
Isn’t that the point of this podcast…? They give financial advice for a living, that’s why they’re talking a lot abt it. Right? That’s why she even expressed that she wanted to know what they thought, because they know a lot about this. And in the end they even agreed with her that she is doing what she should for what she wants. So, what is the issue here?
This is my first time watching the show, and I enjoyed the overall interview with Jennette. It was, however, pretty strange to hear that Graham regularly gives Jack critique on different facets of his appearance... like enough to apparently full-on have Jack agree to change into Graham's shirt/jacket/watch combo before the show. Just wanted to share that I felt pretty bummed for Jack in his position as it was presented in the show. He has every right to the comfort of developing his own sense of professional style and/or wearing clothes he likes and feels good/totally himself in. Everyone develops and matures at their own pace, and you can still support someone on their own sartorial journey without trying to be forceful about it or impose your taste onto them... which is just not a healthy thing for either professional relationships or friendships.
Yeah, it's weird seeing how unbothered Jack seems by all this. I think any other person would have told Graham to f**** off, but whatever. This makes me admire Jack more, and Graham less.
TH-cam suggested me this video because I recently read Jennette’s book and I’ve been looking up interviews and stuff about her. I loved this interview because she seemed comfortable around Graham and Jack and felt like friends catching up. The portion where they start talking about Jack’s clothes and style made me a little mad because of the way it was addressed. Probably Graham meant well but it was completely unnecessary and speaks volumes about his character the fact that he felt comfortable enough to bring it up in the episode. Jennette was trying to be polite and stay neutral kind of talking about her white tee but graham kept going.. I don’t know… i would probably watch another episode if they have a guest that interests me.. but I didn’t quite liked Graham. Jack I adored. He seemed sweet and genuine. Even Jennette said he has a kind face.
One of the know talented individuals out there, lol forward to her writing and directing endeavors and completely get her leaving her account career behind. Will miss her doing it but still get it
I liked this interview quite a bit, its nice to see people having a discussion with Jennette that isn't completely about her trauma like every other interview.
*Makes me sad that as a child, she was obligated to take on her parents debts and their duties to financially support the family. Children should never have to be that, no matter how much the family is struggling. If I was living paycheck to paycheck and my child was so successful, I’d make sure the bulk of the money was put in trust to them to support their future. She got robbed! So sad.* 🥺
I watched a pod cast/interview w/Mila Kunis and she said her parents never asked for any of her money when she started working/became famous. They were poor too. She said she even offers to pay for dinner if they go out and they wont allow her to pay. This is the way Jennette life should have been as well.
That’s just the real world. Not everyone has the luxury to be a celebrity in Hollywood, and outside entitled areas of the US, that’s how the rest of the world lives
While I don't think she was forced, I do think there may have been an expectation. When I started working at 12 I then bought my own clothes and personal things as the alternative was to be treated worse than before. When I was 16 and started driving, and working more, I then was just somehow expected to buy groceries, I suppose because I did the majority of the cooking. My parents were not poor. I have paid so many of my parents expenses over the years while they have given my siblings millions of dollars in land, and in my brother's case actual blank checks. Parents exploiting children is just the tip of the iceberg and points to narcissism. Grr.
Graham talking about his love for reptiles as a kid after Jennette completely poured her heart out about her traumatizing childhood was the most insensitive response I’ve ever heard 😅, poor girl. I respect her for playing it cool though, I know I would have literally got up and walked out if I had to listen to these two morons go on and on as if they’re upbringing was even remotely relatable
Then he brought up his parents bribing him to go to piano lessons like-i get it, I had hockey as a kid and was accidentally put on the boys team by my dad...and since we didn't have much money and couldn't get a refund I HAD to go even though I hated it. But a little after that I also begged for guitar lessons, and was told I could get them, went to a free first lesson and everything. I was so upset I couldn't go after begging and begging but found out later it was because we couldn't afford it at the time. Ik I'm kind of rambling here but my point is being able to go to piano lessons, and getting allowance money to save up for toys and reptiles, is such a privilege. And parents forcing their kids into music lessons is pretty common...it's normal. I know he acknowledged it wasn't the same but him bringing up totally normal childhood scenarios in response to actual abuse is weird to me.
When Jennette said "I was excited to talk about that" when they finally brought up her book, (at the last thirty minutes of the podcast) was so heartbreaking to hear. That's what I kept waiting for/expecting too. I was disappointed with this video tbh, there weren't very many questions on learning more about her experience, and at first when they were talking about money and the guy putting so much emphasis on how her management team "lawyered" her and went on about it when it was a thing that happened years ago, and it lead to a decision that she had already stated she felt so much better about. Whenever she answered the questions in the beginning with the house maintenance stuff and there was just silence, I would feel like " oh no, did i just say the wrong thing? These guys think I made a mistake" and then to proceed on with HOW she made the mistake, I just wish they didn't make comments like "this is what they were doing" or "they for sure disclosed that you" like, dude that's not what important, if the person said they don't remember or they don't know- just let it go and move on the next topic - which is her story, not explaining why things happened that aren't important.
Yeah they missed an opportunity to talk about socioeconomic factors and how that played a lot into the financial anxiety Jennette had at a young age. I don’t think the hosts really recognized that or had experienced it themselves.
Jack talking about him offering his shoes to a girl who said her feet hurt, I think that's really sweet. He offered to be without shoes on the sidewalk, so that this girl of interest could be comfortable/free of pain. That's so kind & thoughtful. Most guys wouldn't even listen to a girl say that her feet hurt! They wouldn't care!!
I didn't say anything about the girls choice of shoe lmao. Of course its her fault choosing uncomfy shoes. & if he doesn't wanna be shoeless that's fine obviously haha. Just think it's cute he would be so thoughtful to care enough to offer up his shoes to the lady. Lmao not that serious
I used to care, but frankly women don't mean much to me anymore. They don't even want to be women anymore, which used to be their #1 appeal, so I'm not interested... in men in women's clothing lol
In the kindest way possible, this interview wasn't much of an interview as it was talking about yourself and mansplaining. Seriously, this comment is not intended to be mean but rather to provide some insight to gain more self-awareness. The person being interviewed should be speaking majority of the time with some directional guidance from the interviewer. Also, bring people on that you genuinely are interested in knowing and picking their brain, not somebody solely for viewership/clicks. Rewatch your interview and reflect. It was always an "I/me" response.
Jack’s undeniable need for sponsorships in aml of Graham’s secondary channels has become obnoxious. I agree. The placement of this sponsorship was incredibly off. It seems like they should handle ads in this podcast more professionally by talking to the camera before going into an advertisement. Saying something like, “we are going to take a short break for an advertisement from this videos sponsor. We will be back in 60 seconds.’
She was my favorite on iCarly when I was a kid. I'm kinda surprised her childhood is so relatable. Hard to imagine happy kids on TV as having a rough real life... Hope things are better now.
I hated Sam. She was a fucking abusive bully and I absolutely despised how romanticized she was. Anytime Sam was beating Freddie, or Gibby I instantly would get angry because it reminded me of the kids who bullied me. I just fucking hate how people actually believed that Sam was a good person. Hell, even Carly was an abusive twat too.
@@summerrose8110 To be fair I wasn't interested in moral fiber as a kid. I just thought she was cute and resembled someone I knew at school. I'm sure, being a TV show, all the characters had designed flaws to make for interesting dynamics. I don't think they ever intended to romanticize bullying. Although... Apparently Dan Schneider is a bit of a creep, so I really don't know...
Nah I totallyyyyy feel Jennette on the home ownership thing. Ownership is just not for some people, houses are a pain in the ass and if you're not given a warning for how MUCH of a pain in the ass they are, and you aren't handy yourself (which she said she wasn't, and I personally am not myself either, so I feel), it can be SO costly and annoying. The only real way to deal with the constant issues that come with long-term home ownership are like........learn how to be handy yourself, which takes time investment and costs money, hope that you have friends/family nearby that are handy AND willing to help, or pay someone to fix it and hope they're not ripping you off. With that stuff in mind, you can start to see the appeal of being able to delegate any broken shit to being your landlord's problem.
Owning a condo is less of a hassle than a house, and you still own equity. Kinda the best of both worlds. I live in my condo and I’ve never had crazy upkeep issues. I recommend it!
Hands down 100% would so much rather be responsible for these things myself. My apt maintenance is ABYSMAL!!! Hires the lowest dregs of society who have no idea what they're doing, to fix everything. Don't even trust them in my place. Being able to hire educated people over min wage immigrants would be preferable any day.
@@krysiunia honestly condos are the dumbest thing of all time. Who would pay to own part of a building lmao it's so goofy. Just rent or buy a house. U basically paid an upfront property cost to live in an apt lmaooo 🤦
@@krysiunia imagine dropping like 50+k on a condo just to find out 2 years later that someone with a loud incessantly screaming child just moved in below you, now what? Lolololo noooooo thanks
@@TheAbandonedAccount7 If you can’t afford a house it’s a way to own equity for less than half the cost. I personally prefer living in a condo or apartment over a house. To each their own.
I love her so much but the only thing I disagree with is that spending money on vacations is a waste🥺 id so much prefer to build great memories and experience the world than spend thousands on a handbag or a pair of shoes
Totally agree. I grew up with a mother who is still to this day a hoarder. Not in the TV show kind of disgusting way, but in the she spends every penny she gets on things and has storage units full of brand new items way. Until I was an adult I never vacationed. I vowed My childrens lives would be different and very much live for experiences not things. Just for clarification she actually said she likes spending money on vacations....
You can tell that she didnt care about them thinking spending on vacation is a waste 😁 Girl knows she needs and *deserves* lying in the Hawaiian Sun doing absolutely nothing
It may be some of that residual financial anxiety talking. I relate a lot with many things she said and I have kept myself from going to near towns for the weekend because I could do better things with the money. Basically, when you grow up like that, investing money on yourself feels like wasting money.
Her sense of humor is dry for a reason. She wanted to be a nice, likable girl, but her character, Sam Puckett, was a mean jerk. McCurdy wants to live it down by being unemotionally funny.
@@davidlafleche1142 she got to play a nice girl in an animated movie and I actually loved it. Remember bling? It was the best. If she ever got to act again she needs to make sure that she can play a character like that instead, if you are a Good person you should play a good person.
Jeanette is freaking amazing to have the willpower to take control of her finances at a young age while being the primary breadwinner, not succumbing to the creepy grooming with the show's creator, and resisting the immense pressure to keep acting from both fans and the industry. It's so creepy how close to gaslighting some reactions to her retirement are. She has the autonomy to resist very huge "If someone doesn't want to do this then there must be something wrong with them" energy. She doesn't succumb or cope, she speaks out. Simply amazing.
Crazy how humble she seems, super respectful and kind. Andddd she’s still funny just like when we were kids!!! I wish the best for her and her family :)
@@davinarobertson47 she never wanted to be an actress, her mom forced her to as a child, so she is no longer acting. and it was not good for her mental health
Not only was this a perfect display of someone speaking over others constantly, it was made extremely uncomfortable to watch by his complete disregard for the guest's interests. It felt like he flipped the roles and made Jannette interview him for an hour and a half.
It's sad because when you watched icarly and looked at Sam you couldn't see how Jennette was feeling and the guilt that her family mde her feel you just saw funny ol sam
Yeah... it's acting, she was an actress. It was her job as a child to lie for a living and be someone else for the world to be entertained on national television.
i liked her character because i sensed she knew the struggle of having to help her "mom" or parents with adult problems without actually wanting to be burderened with that role
Jacks new dating profile bio - "my name is Jack and I need a girl who will politely ask the waiter to reheat the undercooked chicken tender, not a girl who will get angry when my chicken tender is undercooked. I hoard mediocre polo shirts for those VIP special occasions. Music makes me happy."
i know like what that's a great investment if you have it, it's something you'll never forget, likely with people you're grateful to have lifelong memories with, it makes you closer with them, or even if you're alone, there are some places or experiences that can change you for life and you cannot put a price tag on something so significant. shit even just the quarry across the state line from me changed my life without spending any money, so kauai with someone i love i'm sure would be something wonderful. that was weird that they kinda yikes'd at that lol, she has the money so i think it was a great use of it.
I totally agree. I don’t like the way the reacted to her when she said that. Seeing the world is never something to regret or try to avoid because it costs money, especially if she can do it she should
Geez Graham! There’s more to life then making money. You have to enjoy it sometimes, especially when you’re young! You never know where life will take you when you’re older.
When Jennette says the word “goddamn.” Graham: We’ll bleep a little bit of that. Narrator: They did not, in fact, bleep that. And I’m all for it. Hahah.
@@tweedpenguin712 It actually is . Plus the guy didn’t know if she was right or wrong, he just assumed that she was wrong. He didn’t know the correct answer himself .
Idk what it is, I’m not like a stalker, but I just love Jeanette McCurdy, her vibe her mind her voice, she’s so smart and so interesting and on a whole new level of chill, I’m obsessed Edit: I’m a literal gay male lol
its simple, she's awesome. you're not wrong in admiring her and even (you or anyone else) being attracted to her. She's got great qualities as a human being and is a sparkling jolly person!
I love the fact that they don't want to pity her, I feel like she might be tired of that. I have been through really bad things, and when people start pitying me, or treating me like I'm vulnerable, it makes me feel weak. I don't want to be seem as weak because I have been through bad things. The fact that they acknowledge what happened to her, but didn't keep dragging it. I really liked that, she has talked about her traumatic situation a lot of times. This is fun to watch that they can talk about random stuff without making her feel like a victim over and over.
I actually think he’s the sweetest man! And the shirt is a little “preppy” but it really suits him! And I love how much more comfortable he became once in his own clothing 🥰
I definitely get financial awareness as a young kid. I learned growing up that maybe was no and that we could only afford stuff when my grandma brought it. Like growing up all my clothes or at least majority of them were brought by my grandparents. And I knew why that was as a child. I never really asked for much growing up due to understanding how poor we were. I grew up with a single mom and we lived in the projects in government housing.
I relate to this but me as the mom here . I am a single mom of 6 and wish I could give my kids the world . My mom helps me out at times with buying them clothes . Thankfully I just got a promotion and really try . 3 years ago was the first time I was able to get them all Christmas gifts and they didn’t have to share board games or a video game . I spent so much on them to make up the years I couldn’t and I cried seeing them the morning of open everything up . My oldest son sounds stressed at times asking me for life essentials and it hurts me . I’m sorry as a child you endured this and I hope you understand it hurts us as well . I haven’t bought myself clothes in yearsssss
It is so hard to interact with people who had happy, stable childhoods. Like I am genuinely so happy for them because nobody should go through abuse, neglect, or poverty. But every time I hear them casually bring up having something that I craved so desperately my entire life (not just material things but love, support, necessities, etc etc) it truly pains me. It’s not even jealousy it’s just pure sadness and longing. But I still do my best to feel happy for them, and I do. It just feels so unfair sometimes.
Honestly, hearing her story and how she battled forced anorexia changed my view of ICarly completely. I HATE how the producers made her a character that ate a lot. I can never watch Icarly the same, and it’s amazing that that was even allowed.
i have 7 siblings and i cannot stress this enough DO NOT HAVE 7 OR 8 KIDS it’s horrible. you don’t have the time to actually build a relationship with each of them, and finances are so so so tight. it’s really not the move please don’t put your kids through that
I'm the youngest of 7 and I have the best relationship with my siblings and my parents. Everyone's different. But I'm sorry you've gone through alot of hardship, I think you probably have alot of stories worth telling.
I literally have nine siblings- Four Sisters, five brothers- and while we obviously have issues that go along with A fairly crowded household and shared bedrooms, my mother is incredibly in-tune with all of our emotions and needs, from mine (I'm the oldest) all the way down to my toddler brother. Lets not make blanket statements like that when there's some genuinely amazing parents out there who are able to manage that many kids, and whose kids are super close to them. Do not have more kids than you can handle. Period. If you struggle with two, adding a third won't make it any easier. If you thrive with seven kids and they are healthy, financially secure, and functioning well in their home environment, then go on and have that eighth kid. 🤷 I'm genuinely sorry for whatever bad experiences you've had. But that doesn't reflect on other people's families and home lives. Everyone is different, everyone can handle different things, and every parent deals with their children differently. What some could not manage, others Thrive in.
I would love to read her book. She's so intelligent and humble, and her past is very interesting. I think its admirable that she's one of the first and only former child stars to really talk about the problems with stage parents and the dark secrets in hollywood involving young people. I wish sometimes, that she would be more specific bout thw things going on behind the scenes but I understand that reliving trauma is awful, and she probably has legalities holding her back from being 100% open. I wish her so much happiness in her future.
I don't know what his childhood was like but if you live in a low income paycheck to paycheck household, this is a real thing. I remember being at that same age when my mom would put back items in the grocery store. She would say, "We're poor. we don't have enough money." I think this is what led me to the habit of always having a fully stocked fridge because of that from my childhood.
It's true. I'm paycheck to paycheck and slowly building up to the point where I can afford to spend extra on unnecessary items since I didn't really have that as a kid and I want my kids to have more than I did
I am cringing so hard at how Graham reacted to Jack mentioning wanting more kids. Geesh--your whole life can't be work! Family is a different kind of freedom--but also growing up, letting go of selfishness and learning a wholeee new way to love. Very beautiful. Worth a thought. Peace!
@@circleinfo I just had my first two babies (twins) and I’ll tell you it certainly doesn’t feel like freedom yet 😂 The only thing freeing is being able to have a new level of love I’ve never had before, and seeing life through a new perspective. Other than that I’m extremely NOT free for the first time in my life 😂
@Lexi 93 it's different for each person, for example I don't remember the names of the characters from my favorite childhood cartoons even though I was obsessed with them back then (and it was not so long ago, I'm only 17 lol maybe I just have a really bad memory)
Jack, I'm the oldest of eight. My mom had a kid every two years starting when I was 4 years old. You do not want that many children. I say this with all the love in the world for my mother, but with that many children, most of them won't be having their emotional needs met, in my family that's certainly true. It's just a numbers thing, there's too many children to be able to fullfil everyone's emotional needs. I strongly urge you to consider that.
I think that’s only true when you have a whole array of aunts, uncles, in-laws, and older cousins who can help out. Definitely saw that with my own Bengali family. But with the way most Western families are set up, it’s usually just the mom and dad taking care of the kids.
@@Raja-bz4yw there is a limit to a human brain. We simply do not have the capability to care for so many people at the same time without neglecying some of them which is heartbreaking when a child is capable to understand they are not treated with love and respect
It wasn’t video professional, but it was definitely nice to see his personality! When wearing the other clothing I literally couldn’t make a judgement on what I thought about him because he was uncomfortable and therefore quiet! This was my first time watching / being made aware of the podcast so I was just taking everything in. I watched for an hour straight!
@@angelofromdragcandy meh, see, I don’t think it has to be video professional. I definitely see where you’re coming from, but Jeannette was also in a T-shirt. It was also my first time watching, but I stopped watching about when jack was given a hard time about what he chooses to wear
She's talking about personal stress of being worried about money at 6 years old and these guys start talking about having ideal childhoods? Read the room
Y’all sensitive, people can tell they’re stories and you can listen to everyone prospective just because one is sad doesn’t mean the other one have to be sad to
Well to be fair Graham did say his comparison wasn’t very good before he said it. So he’s aware what he said is a little tone deaf. I think he just wanted to share his story
Jeanette seems like such a lovely grounded person. I look forward to reading her book. Getting past bitterness to forgiveness is critical in moving forward in life-good to hear that is very present in Jeanette’s mind. It sounds like she had a lot on her shoulders as a child…she had to work and manage her life like an adult. I can understand why she doesn’t want to ‘manage’ a home right now. Love how she seems happy with a more minimal life…which I see as a very rich life. In contrast, listening to Graham talk about his anxiety taking off more than two days because of the algorithms.🙁 I’m with Jack…take off the goofy jacket. I had my one and only child at 40. If I was younger I may have had another. My son, now 25, tells me that he misses not having a sibling even though he had a rich life with family and friends. People should make the parenting decision based on their ability and willingness to give love and time. Don’t change who you are one bit Jack. You seem like a kind hearted sweet natured human and the right person will adore you!❤️ A very enjoyable episode and look forward to another with Jeanette!
This was an uncomfortable podcast/interview… Jeanette had a traumatic story and I felt like she kept on getting dismissed and talked over. They both didn’t really listen to what she was saying and I feel bad that they couldn’t have shown her more consideration and respect.
Jack's shirt needs to be black and yellow. Investing is pretty easy if the investor remembers "Buy low, sell high." Many and probably most stock market buyers and sellers panic and run for the door when stocks go down. You three seem sensible.
I dont think him saying take my shoes is weird. That shows that Jack would be willing to make his girl comfortable while he sacrifices his own comfortability.
I love how Graham said he’s obsessed with dinosaurs and Janette names her favorite dinosaur correctly and he says she’s wrong 😑🤣 👍🏽. “Know it alls”can be so cringe man …
@@othelliusmaximus funnily enough somehow only like one or two guests have left? And they cut the footage down to a few minutes. they actually harass the guests for about an hour. I would probably just leave too lmao.
Why are they shaming her selling a money pit of a house? She explained so eloquently why renting is easier for her, maybe homeownership is for some people, but I also watched my parents struggle with the burdens of owning a home that flooded twice, and I don't ever want to buy a house and be stuck somewhere the rest of my life.
i suppose it depends. if i had 900 thousand I would probably buy atleast something. since I don't have that much I am not sure to buy. i would if it was free but to pay and then still need to do it up. It just ridiculous walking around there is just so much abandoned land and then they want you to pay so much for it. as far as the land is concerned, it would be extremely lucky to have me. it is abandoned and basically worth nothing without someone to do something with it but they want to charge thousands and thousands. i looked at one house and it was like this should have been sold 30 years ago and it just sat there empty coz they thought it would go up in value. you actually want to charge me money to do this shit up?
Schools need to teach way more about how to handle money, make a bank account, handle credit & learn how not to get screwed over, etc. Especially if the kids have parents that will take advantage of them financially and guide their financial decisions because they don't know what they're getting into. Some kids are lucky to have successful/ happy or supportive parents but some will struggle for a long time after they make the move.
I agree with what your saying, but wt is left for the parents to do? I get education is there to educate the new generation but the parents are the ones who choose to have’em and they should also have some part in the education of the child, they should be held accountable too
if you are born to parents that neglect your needs, that’s just the start of mental damage… because they literally set their children up for failure . Children need guidance, not adulting. & learning financial literacy should be taught early teen years
I was t taught to “worry” about money per se, but my parents taught me to be aware. I bought all my own toys (with the exception of birthdays and Christmas) with allowance money and deposited/withdrew my own birthday/Christmas/grad money from a joint bank account owned by me and my parents. It REALLY helped me understand finances at a younger age for the better.
I'd say that's a pretty mature sense of emotional awareness. Telling your date to get back with their ex because their relationship sounds like it could really work out in the end, even when you know that will end in you still being single: maturity.
@@nextbigthing2917 But not all relationships that end are toxic: sometimes it's just the wrong time or place and/or maturity, and finding each other later on makes the difference.
the fact that they spend +10 mins talking about this poor guys shirt when shes talking about trauma and abuse......... girl graham you can not criticize him while wearing THAT SHIRT
LITERALLY the guy in the blue shirt is much better dressed and looks much more professional in my opinion. he is also sweet and much more respectful the dude in the grey shirt is just making everything about him. like why have guests on your podcast if you just wanna talk about yourself
Current calculated yearly salary of the podcast: $89,993.45. If the podcast was someone working a 40 hour week every week it would be making $43.27 per hour. That also translates to $10.27 of passive income every hour!
I was glad to hear about her struggles with social cues! I was homeschooled for 11 years too and sometimes feel like people in groups have some sort edge.
@lovenature3958 the ability to "read the room" so to speak. To be able to sense what's appropriate to say and do in different situations with different people.
the financial mansplaining was so cringey to me. had to stop watching when he started pressing her with questions about when she bought the house. it just sounded condescending and pretentious, even if that wasn’t his intention. felt bad for her!
Investing in real estate is literally his career and bread and butter livelihood, I really think you're overreaching if you think getting financial advise, from an investor, on a FINANCIAL PODCAST, is condescending.
Then you missed the best parts actually. 1. Its a Podcast about finance and financial advice 2. He is literally a real estate agent 3. She especially wanted to be at the podcast to talk about finance and get advice. She even said that at 1:18:05 4. In the middle of it she is giving dating advice to Jack. So is this womansplaining then? And at 1:22:48 she even said she was nervous before the video but felt really glad they where so nice to her. People should start to be less narrow minded and simply enjoy the show.
Honestly, I didn't realise for part of it that she wasn't the interviewer because I was organising my house and that can be distracting. I loved her questions to Jack about the dating and questions to both about emotions and how she just asks "really?" as an ending so if they want to think more they can or it can end there. You can feel the writer and listener in her the whole time. I hope I can find more interviews with her that delve more into her book. Recently listened to her narration of her book and was blown away with her humour and grace in delving into her journey into a healthy existence.
It’s definitely not an add thing to offer a girl his shoes when she is struggling with her shoes. I actually think it’s very awesome of him doing so because there isn’t many guys could do that. Just putting it out there
This is your best episode yet! Loved getting to see Jennette’s real personality. I always liked her as an actress but she’s an even more inspiring human. The commentary on Jack’s dating life was just a fun bonus!
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Minute 59 was a bit of a low blow xD.
crazy she's 1 day older than me too
I'm glad she said money can solve problems I hate it when people say it cant...
saw that too and then she clarify it. 💯
Right? Money could solve every problem I have having right now!
It can't solve the underlying issue though.
@@davidh5101 well i mean….does poverty not sound like a problem to you? 😭😂😂
@@travisjacobsvideos I mean it can you are just looking at it from one angle.
I love how she talks about her rough childhood and being forced into acting and being traumatized by her experiences early in life, and Graham is like “My parents paid me to take piano lessons.”
😂
Yea I noticed that too haha
I also thought he had grown up poor. I guess maybe not?
Her parents prob sold her for s e x two. Disney is a trafficking operation
@@agimxhemali220 You are an idiotic conspiracy theorist who cannot differentiate "two" from too. An excuse regarding english not being your first language is not viable here since the difference between two, to, and too are among the very first things you learn.
The fact that she's been through so much and yet is still so kind, warm and humble is mind-blowing. I'm glad she's living a better life now. She deserves it.
most people who go trough lots of trauma are very kind and warm
@@hi-pi9rb Eh, not to be "that guy" but history has proven that *a lot* of times that couldn't be further from the truth.
Why is it mind blowing? I don’t understand how people say things like this as if trauma means you automatically turn into an evil person.
@@valizeth4073 history? Do you ever talk to regular people? Millions of people dealing with trauma aren’t out here being violent psychopaths, “history” is just the most insane stories but not the majority.
@@lianarodriguez1314 yeah forreal, just because of a couple extreme cases/anecdotes like Hitler or Stalin doesn’t mean trauma creates monsters. They’re the outliers; it’s not like anyone’s out there interviewing a huge sample size of a million people with trauma.
I think this was a great opportunity to LISTEN. When you're talking/interviewing someone who went through what they did, it comes off really insensitive when you redirect the conversation to yourself after they discuss something that wasn't a great expirence. People make the mistake of trying to relate to an expirence, which you can't relate to trauma if you've never expirenced that form of it with one experience which may have not been great for you. You're comparing being exploited with an expirence that is not related though was also unpleasant. If you're not educated on how to approach conversations with people who have experienced those types of things, It's always great to do research as to how you can approach them without coming off as insensitive. Sometimes the worst thing you can do is try to compare something to an experience that you've never had before rather than just listening and learning.
Ex: " My financial awareness stems from so and so which was traumatic..." (Didn't say that exactly but it's for example purposes)
Instead of following with " I loved to play with this and this at that age" which seems extremely dismissive and appears you aren't actively listening, you could've addressed what she said like " That's horrible ... Blah blah... I think at that age I was only concerned with childhood things"
Also the tone throughout the whole video seems like She's being interviewed to prove what she went through rather than for y'all to listen and use your platform for her to voice what she went through.
Also, I didn’t like how much they were talking about the other guys Attire and criticizing it, it just got very annoying because I came here to listen to Jeanette talk about her Life growing up. Getting off topic is gonna happen of course, but they went on and on with that shirt “dilemma”.
Right, comparing her being forced and manipulated to act for over a decade and support her entire family to him having to go to paino lessons for a small amount of time for a couple years while only worrying about lizards and tamagotchis. Did he hear himself speaking??
Absolutely agreed. They really could have listened better and spoken about themselves less. The amount of time spent talking about themselves became annoying.
Its not like he prefaced, “I KNOW ITS A TERRIBLE COMPARISON”
I've come to the realisation a lot of people simply cannot cope with Bad News (and have probably led sheltered lives to boot.)
Presently my husband is lame and unable to work more than a few hours a week until he has a major operation. The healthcare system is lagging badly. I'm not trying to offend anyone with this explanation, but it still happens and how quick people are to change the subject to something light and jovial... without even acknowledging what I've shared. Reading Jeanette's book right now and it's helping me get through this sucky time in my life :)
Girl spending money on vacations isn’t a waste! It’s actually way cooler that you spend money on that vs $30,000 bags
If you spend even $1000 on a bag you're pissing away money 🤣
@@gumerzambrano I think the same way by knee jerk reaction but then someone compared their high end bags and shoes to my high end cars.
If you buy high end 2nd hand your stuff doesn't depreciate (sometimes it even appreciates).
@@funfun5656 and still you spent your money, doesn't make any difference.
@@Yunolein Thanks there tips. I mean when you're running a car lot one may say you need to spend a bit of money to make a bit of money but I guess you're not wrong lol
@@funfun5656 yeah if you run a business that makes sense but as a normal consumer I would not spend this much money on clothes or other luxuries
I love how humble she is
I can’t wait for your episode on iced coffee hour ❤️
i aspire to be like her financially
Wow! I just watched your NYC vlog 4, Kelly
Omg u guys should really do a podcast together
You and her are long lost sisters
Jennette: "yeah my mom forced me to be the bread winning of the family to dig us out of a financial hell hole and i'd sob bc it was too much pressure and i'd be manipulated and guilted into child labor my whole life."
whatever this guys name is: " yeah my mom and dad bribed me with toys so i'd go to piano and i totally miss it."
bro. wtf. read the room like are you not actively listening?
That was so annoying 😂😂
“Oh so you stuck with it for TWO years…” she says 🥲 yikes man. Yikes.
Just because she had a sucky childhood doesn't mean others should feel bad for her. :P
@@ronburgundy3172 or maybe just think about what you say before you say it? she’s not asking anyone to feel bad for her. it’s just a strange thing to say in response.
Not saying he is totally in the clear, but he did clarify that his experience wasn’t even comparable to what she went through.
They dropped the ball interviewing her. They totally kept turning it to themselves and then the long useless topics of the clothes, and the dating.. I had to fast forward a lot of it and was surprised when I thought I fast forward enough (which was a lot) these men are still going at it almost bickering.
I wish they would explain things more. When they talked about encroaching I understood it but I expected it to be explained because I listen to Joe rogan too much apparently. I have never actually heard about encroaching though so I googled to be sure my brain totally understood it right because when they started talking about hillside it made me think I could be wrong.
I think the problem is they didn't have a frame of reference or understanding of the financial insecurity or trauma Jennette experienced. At least the host acknowledged his piano story wasn't a great comparison. I stopped watching after they started talking about clothes and romanticizing the "simple" days when they didn't have to pay for so much. Maybe it got deeper later on.
This was a terrible interview....Jeanette actually brought topics and ideas to the table....These guys didn't take her seriously which is a shame.
I have mixed feelings. I could see where it would be a nice relief from her perspective to not have to focus on my trauma that I've been focused writing and talking about for the last year or so.
It also felt like they did a lot of mansplaining. I couldn't listen to them acting like they know so much abt certain topics.
“this is going to be a terrible analogy”
the narrator: and it was in fact a *terrible* analogy.
@@angelsotired that's clearly a spam bot lmao
@@daffodyl_n thanks!
Good thing Jennette is an actress and can play off how absolutely cringey that was. She’s too polite
I greatly admire Jennette from what she talked about here. She's financially safe with her money, spends minimally, but also prioritizes travel for her happiness. Looove that 😌
Totally get the financial awareness as a kid. I think I was 8 when I stopped asking for every toy out there because I knew we didn't always have the money for it. My parents always did their best and what they couldn't do, my grandparents did. But y'all would be surprised how common it is for kids to worry about money
same I remember being 8 and my mom venting to me about how we can’t afford the electrical bill
I became aware when I was around 4, believe it or not. My sister died, so it was a traumatic, confusing time for me which is why I think I have some really vivid memories from that time. But, my parents would feed me and not eat themselves because we couldn’t afford the food. I also remember these very nice ladies showing up at Christmas with a garbage bag full of gifts for me because my parents couldn’t afford anything. My dad worked, but he worked steel mills in the late 70’s. The mill closed right as my sister died. We lived in Michigan. Because of our financial situation we moved back to PA. On the way back the muffler kept falling off the car every other mile. I never asked for toys growing up, or money. Never asked them for anything and was always extremely grateful for anything I got.
Yes, children become aware of a lot we don’t think they do.
"I think I was 8 when I stopped asking for every toy out there"
i never got every toy out there...so i didnt grow out of it ina sense...esp since i felt like my parents could afford it...but thats cause they worked hard to save money...didnt have much vices, both worked...this shit just made me think of that...like for me thats not easy...i just spend spend spend
My parents didnt even buy me clothes, girls get cute outfits for their parents only for existung right ? I was giving an allowce who was btw miserable.... i USED TO BUY MY OWN CLOTHES since 15 !!!!
I worried about money so much that if something went missing or broke I would legit cry and panic bc I knew my mom would be really upset to have to replace it 😬
I have been asking my kids, “whatever happened to Sam from Sam and Cat?” because we used to watch it all the time. Then BOOM. Jenette McCurdy is everywhere. Thank you for showing your courage and pulling back the curtain on fame and Hollywood for all the young people who aspire to be famous like their tv heroes.
That was the worst pilot episode I've ever seen.
45:04 "I don't love the stripes" - Jennette McCurdy. In iCarly, Sam had a particular hatred of striped clothing.
I super understand the criticism regarding not addressing her book and that whole specific experience that much, but if I'm being super honest, I loved that they three just spoke together casually almost as friends. She's absolutely mindblowing and amazing, but her mom and trauma are not all she is. It was great seeing her interact just like the young funny and empathetic woman she is, beyond everything she's been through.
I loved this episode.
Thank you, I was thinking the same thing.
This was the perfect time to post this with iCarly coming back and people wondering why she’s not on the show This will probably get this video a lot of views
Wtf why is it coming back
Just looked that up cool that this lady isn’t in it
Why come back. All the fans grew up and moved on
@@Ndasuunye Well actually a lot of people are glad to see a reboot, yes we’ve grown and in the reboot that characters are more grown up too
@@GlamGoddes101 goober if you do like move on at most peep jannets podcast but how can you be tryna watch the past like that😂
I can’t with the financial mansplaining! She mentioned her interest in personal finance and it’s clear it’s paying off! She’s making financial choices that are true to her true self. It doesn’t feel like the hosts did their homework in researching about Jeannate’s background. More prep could’ve helped them prepare to at least be empathetic about her childhood and past financial choices. Most importantly, it could’ve helped them avoid assumptions about finance topics that she could’ve already know about.
@@jedidiah4647 K
@@jedidiah4647 ok jedidiah 🤣🤣
Thank you! Also they told her she was wrong about the Brontosaurus but what she described is totally a Brontosaurus.
I agree. This podcast is new to me but they are not good listeners. Love her, tho
Isn’t that the point of this podcast…? They give financial advice for a living, that’s why they’re talking a lot abt it. Right? That’s why she even expressed that she wanted to know what they thought, because they know a lot about this. And in the end they even agreed with her that she is doing what she should for what she wants. So, what is the issue here?
This is my first time watching the show, and I enjoyed the overall interview with Jennette. It was, however, pretty strange to hear that Graham regularly gives Jack critique on different facets of his appearance... like enough to apparently full-on have Jack agree to change into Graham's shirt/jacket/watch combo before the show. Just wanted to share that I felt pretty bummed for Jack in his position as it was presented in the show. He has every right to the comfort of developing his own sense of professional style and/or wearing clothes he likes and feels good/totally himself in. Everyone develops and matures at their own pace, and you can still support someone on their own sartorial journey without trying to be forceful about it or impose your taste onto them... which is just not a healthy thing for either professional relationships or friendships.
Graham is a control freak
Graham is a narcissist
I agree. That made me sad. I also don’t think Graham’s shirt is any more professional or put together looking.
The one Graham is actually wearing, I mean
Yeah, it's weird seeing how unbothered Jack seems by all this. I think any other person would have told Graham to f**** off, but whatever. This makes me admire Jack more, and Graham less.
Jennette looks beautiful and her personality is so refreshing.
Period, I hope she will become a highly respected actor
Jack legit looks like a private catholic high school boy who was told to “dress professionally”
🤣 accurate
That’s me at work haha
I went to a catholic university that’s so fing funny 🤣
TH-cam suggested me this video because I recently read Jennette’s book and I’ve been looking up interviews and stuff about her.
I loved this interview because she seemed comfortable around Graham and Jack and felt like friends catching up.
The portion where they start talking about Jack’s clothes and style made me a little mad because of the way it was addressed.
Probably Graham meant well but it was completely unnecessary and speaks volumes about his character the fact that he felt comfortable enough to bring it up in the episode.
Jennette was trying to be polite and stay neutral kind of talking about her white tee but graham kept going..
I don’t know… i would probably watch another episode if they have a guest that interests me.. but I didn’t quite liked Graham. Jack I adored. He seemed sweet and genuine. Even Jennette said he has a kind face.
Felt the same
he was a total jerk about the way jack was dressing. i can see what jack means about graham just wanting him to dress like him
@@kaelynn_listeningThat's true, but it's also true that jack has terrible style and even Jeannette thought so.
Graham in the title: "Unbelievable Home Horror Story"
Graham In the video: "Yeah that's totally normal"
hahahahahhaha
Tbh knowing a lot about her history now, Graham’s title was a little triggering.
So it's clickbait? Thanks, I'll be skipping.
@@j_c_93 Every title of Graham's is click bait. 😁
Well yeah, click bait, welcome to this age of TH-cam, we all hate it, hope you enjoy your stay.
The fact that Graham thinks $150 can redo a complete wardrobe at H&M lmao
LMAO RIGHT! That's gonna get maybe 2 outfits
That’s why u shop at discount shops
Honestly I work at H&M and you totally could do it lol just have to shop the sale section!!
H and m clothes fall apart.
I just bought 8 pieces of clothing for $112 at H&M. They’re mostly meant for the summer though.
Definitely an unexpected guest. Despite the heartache behind Jennette’s career I really enjoyed her work as a kid.
Same. I’m glad she removed herself from it but appreciate her talent
Same, I’m so happy she is doing well
One of the know talented individuals out there, lol forward to her writing and directing endeavors and completely get her leaving her account career behind. Will miss her doing it but still get it
I liked this interview quite a bit, its nice to see people having a discussion with Jennette that isn't completely about her trauma like every other interview.
The other comments disagree lol
People are allowed to like something that others don't. I know in this world that's hard to believe, but it's allowed. 😂 @Glanzern
@@Muchacha2024 I didn't dislike the interview. I was saying everyone else WANTED them to just talk about her trauma.
*Makes me sad that as a child, she was obligated to take on her parents debts and their duties to financially support the family. Children should never have to be that, no matter how much the family is struggling. If I was living paycheck to paycheck and my child was so successful, I’d make sure the bulk of the money was put in trust to them to support their future. She got robbed! So sad.* 🥺
Fortunately, She is doing much better now as a result of her early misfortune. 😊
@@grahamfan true!
I watched a pod cast/interview w/Mila Kunis and she said her parents never asked for any of her money when she started working/became famous. They were poor too. She said she even offers to pay for dinner if they go out and they wont allow her to pay. This is the way Jennette life should have been as well.
That’s just the real world. Not everyone has the luxury to be a celebrity in Hollywood, and outside entitled areas of the US, that’s how the rest of the world lives
While I don't think she was forced, I do think there may have been an expectation. When I started working at 12 I then bought my own clothes and personal things as the alternative was to be treated worse than before. When I was 16 and started driving, and working more, I then was just somehow expected to buy groceries, I suppose because I did the majority of the cooking. My parents were not poor. I have paid so many of my parents expenses over the years while they have given my siblings millions of dollars in land, and in my brother's case actual blank checks. Parents exploiting children is just the tip of the iceberg and points to narcissism. Grr.
she made my childhood, im so sorry that the trauma was unnoticed by so many fans, we love you and hope you can find peace in life
thank you
M too now in 22
Graham talking about his love for reptiles as a kid after Jennette completely poured her heart out about her traumatizing childhood was the most insensitive response I’ve ever heard 😅, poor girl.
I respect her for playing it cool though, I know I would have literally got up and walked out if I had to listen to these two morons go on and on as if they’re upbringing was even remotely relatable
Like if “my uncle broke his neck tab dancing once.” Was a person
Then he brought up his parents bribing him to go to piano lessons like-i get it, I had hockey as a kid and was accidentally put on the boys team by my dad...and since we didn't have much money and couldn't get a refund I HAD to go even though I hated it. But a little after that I also begged for guitar lessons, and was told I could get them, went to a free first lesson and everything. I was so upset I couldn't go after begging and begging but found out later it was because we couldn't afford it at the time.
Ik I'm kind of rambling here but my point is being able to go to piano lessons, and getting allowance money to save up for toys and reptiles, is such a privilege. And parents forcing their kids into music lessons is pretty common...it's normal. I know he acknowledged it wasn't the same but him bringing up totally normal childhood scenarios in response to actual abuse is weird to me.
He said twice it wasn't the same and not on the same level
He did the same thing with the piano lessons lol
@@katieh1752 then why bring it up?
When Jennette said "I was excited to talk about that" when they finally brought up her book, (at the last thirty minutes of the podcast) was so heartbreaking to hear. That's what I kept waiting for/expecting too. I was disappointed with this video tbh, there weren't very many questions on learning more about her experience, and at first when they were talking about money and the guy putting so much emphasis on how her management team "lawyered" her and went on about it when it was a thing that happened years ago, and it lead to a decision that she had already stated she felt so much better about. Whenever she answered the questions in the beginning with the house maintenance stuff and there was just silence, I would feel like " oh no, did i just say the wrong thing? These guys think I made a mistake" and then to proceed on with HOW she made the mistake, I just wish they didn't make comments like "this is what they were doing" or "they for sure disclosed that you" like, dude that's not what important, if the person said they don't remember or they don't know- just let it go and move on the next topic - which is her story, not explaining why things happened that aren't important.
"Money making child soldier" "I like dinosaurs too!....." Lmao. Entire video in a nutshell.
the hosts were so tone deaf
@@omgitzmetiya I hate say that about Graham but I have to be honest they due seem tone deaf
Yeah they missed an opportunity to talk about socioeconomic factors and how that played a lot into the financial anxiety Jennette had at a young age. I don’t think the hosts really recognized that or had experienced it themselves.
LMAO as soon as that happened i just knew...
yup. 4 minutes in and im done with this i just KNOW its gonna be cringeworthy and uncomfortable to watch.
Jack talking about him offering his shoes to a girl who said her feet hurt, I think that's really sweet. He offered to be without shoes on the sidewalk, so that this girl of interest could be comfortable/free of pain. That's so kind & thoughtful. Most guys wouldn't even listen to a girl say that her feet hurt! They wouldn't care!!
I didn't say anything about the girls choice of shoe lmao. Of course its her fault choosing uncomfy shoes. & if he doesn't wanna be shoeless that's fine obviously haha. Just think it's cute he would be so thoughtful to care enough to offer up his shoes to the lady. Lmao not that serious
I used to care, but frankly women don't mean much to me anymore. They don't even want to be women anymore, which used to be their #1 appeal, so I'm not interested... in men in women's clothing lol
She’s literally the most beautiful actress ever. She’s so humble and she honestly touched my childhood
She really is incredible!
@Jacob chill or else youre going to horny jail
Take it easy.
@Jacob dude
No she’s not the most beautiful quit capping
In the kindest way possible, this interview wasn't much of an interview as it was talking about yourself and mansplaining. Seriously, this comment is not intended to be mean but rather to provide some insight to gain more self-awareness. The person being interviewed should be speaking majority of the time with some directional guidance from the interviewer. Also, bring people on that you genuinely are interested in knowing and picking their brain, not somebody solely for viewership/clicks.
Rewatch your interview and reflect. It was always an "I/me" response.
Absolutely! She barely talked! I was skipping to see if she has the chance to get the floor but no luck.
I completely agree.
Some one needs to do a video read on this interview
Jacks dating life is truly where our attention span is the highest. 😂
abbas shaikh, Jack needs a lady that really likes him and takes the lead. He would make a good father.
Jack can't get a girlfriend because they have to stop making videos about trying to find him one
Maybe he hooks up with the interviewees, so he doesn’t have to spend money on women. Or something is going on with Graham’s gf? Maybe?
Is it just me, or does he has some chemistry with Jeanette? 👀
Someone get this mans a woman
literally the way he treats jack is gross like give him a chance to answer for himself damn and stop criticizing everything about him
also the mansplaining is like too much lmao like she didn't come here to be explained everything she already went through :////
Him calling his outfit childish yet saying he should shop at h&m LOL
Why was that sponsor placement so funky 😂
Worst placement ever
Threw me off lol
maybe that was the point, considering you commented about it! He is a genius
ikr i was listening while working so i did not see the video, i was like "whoa did they really cut Jennette like that!?"
Jack’s undeniable need for sponsorships in aml of Graham’s secondary channels has become obnoxious. I agree. The placement of this sponsorship was incredibly off. It seems like they should handle ads in this podcast more professionally by talking to the camera before going into an advertisement. Saying something like, “we are going to take a short break for an advertisement from this videos sponsor. We will be back in 60 seconds.’
She was my favorite on iCarly when I was a kid. I'm kinda surprised her childhood is so relatable. Hard to imagine happy kids on TV as having a rough real life... Hope things are better now.
I hated Sam. She was a fucking abusive bully and I absolutely despised how romanticized she was. Anytime Sam was beating Freddie, or Gibby I instantly would get angry because it reminded me of the kids who bullied me. I just fucking hate how people actually believed that Sam was a good person. Hell, even Carly was an abusive twat too.
@@summerrose8110 To be fair I wasn't interested in moral fiber as a kid. I just thought she was cute and resembled someone I knew at school. I'm sure, being a TV show, all the characters had designed flaws to make for interesting dynamics. I don't think they ever intended to romanticize bullying. Although... Apparently Dan Schneider is a bit of a creep, so I really don't know...
Nah I totallyyyyy feel Jennette on the home ownership thing. Ownership is just not for some people, houses are a pain in the ass and if you're not given a warning for how MUCH of a pain in the ass they are, and you aren't handy yourself (which she said she wasn't, and I personally am not myself either, so I feel), it can be SO costly and annoying. The only real way to deal with the constant issues that come with long-term home ownership are like........learn how to be handy yourself, which takes time investment and costs money, hope that you have friends/family nearby that are handy AND willing to help, or pay someone to fix it and hope they're not ripping you off. With that stuff in mind, you can start to see the appeal of being able to delegate any broken shit to being your landlord's problem.
Owning a condo is less of a hassle than a house, and you still own equity. Kinda the best of both worlds. I live in my condo and I’ve never had crazy upkeep issues. I recommend it!
Hands down 100% would so much rather be responsible for these things myself. My apt maintenance is ABYSMAL!!! Hires the lowest dregs of society who have no idea what they're doing, to fix everything. Don't even trust them in my place. Being able to hire educated people over min wage immigrants would be preferable any day.
@@krysiunia honestly condos are the dumbest thing of all time. Who would pay to own part of a building lmao it's so goofy. Just rent or buy a house. U basically paid an upfront property cost to live in an apt lmaooo 🤦
@@krysiunia imagine dropping like 50+k on a condo just to find out 2 years later that someone with a loud incessantly screaming child just moved in below you, now what? Lolololo noooooo thanks
@@TheAbandonedAccount7 If you can’t afford a house it’s a way to own equity for less than half the cost. I personally prefer living in a condo or apartment over a house. To each their own.
I love her so much but the only thing I disagree with is that spending money on vacations is a waste🥺 id so much prefer to build great memories and experience the world than spend thousands on a handbag or a pair of shoes
Totally agree. I grew up with a mother who is still to this day a hoarder. Not in the TV show kind of disgusting way, but in the she spends every penny she gets on things and has storage units full of brand new items way. Until I was an adult I never vacationed. I vowed My childrens lives would be different and very much live for experiences not things. Just for clarification she actually said she likes spending money on vacations....
Yup travelling is good for the soul
You can tell that she didnt care about them thinking spending on vacation is a waste 😁
Girl knows she needs and *deserves* lying in the Hawaiian Sun doing absolutely nothing
Absolutely, I'd say she's earned it!
It may be some of that residual financial anxiety talking. I relate a lot with many things she said and I have kept myself from going to near towns for the weekend because I could do better things with the money. Basically, when you grow up like that, investing money on yourself feels like wasting money.
Ohh check him out .. collaborating with dope celebs .. there are definitely
Power in numbers ... he has grew a lot on TH-cam over the years ...
Is this a positive or a negative comment?
@@darkwowpg I can’t tell, it’s always difficult to tell when people use ellipses like that...
@@therainbro What do you mean .......................................... ?
"he has grew" wow
@@PK88. I mean..........
I love her dry sense of humor, but it breaks my heart to learn what forms it.
Her sense of humor is dry for a reason. She wanted to be a nice, likable girl, but her character, Sam Puckett, was a mean jerk. McCurdy wants to live it down by being unemotionally funny.
@@davidlafleche1142 she got to play a nice girl in an animated movie and I actually loved it. Remember bling? It was the best. If she ever got to act again she needs to make sure that she can play a character like that instead, if you are a Good person you should play a good person.
Watched this because of iCarly, stayed for Jack's dating life.
Same
With everybody wondering why she isn’t in the new iCarly reboot, this probably gives some good insight as to why
Good for her!👌🏼
🤣
They traded iCarly for Siri
Nope
Can anyone explain why this video is really long
Jeanette is freaking amazing to have the willpower to take control of her finances at a young age while being the primary breadwinner, not succumbing to the creepy grooming with the show's creator, and resisting the immense pressure to keep acting from both fans and the industry. It's so creepy how close to gaslighting some reactions to her retirement are. She has the autonomy to resist very huge "If someone doesn't want to do this then there must be something wrong with them" energy. She doesn't succumb or cope, she speaks out. Simply amazing.
Yep I'm so proud of her for standing up for herself.
Crazy how humble she seems, super respectful and kind. Andddd she’s still funny just like when we were kids!!! I wish the best for her and her family :)
She seems to have a super high Social Quotient
Jack is out here just trying to exist… 😂
Literally me when I'm around more than 1 person
Love this comment. Lost it! 🤣
Jake I appreciate the person you are
He’s wack at times
The only celebrity that I actually miss seeing on TV.
FACTS
Me too. I adore her and her podcast. But I'm happy that she has decided to do what's best for her.
@@sadezem991 why is she not on the new icarly?
@@davinarobertson47 she never wanted to be an actress, her mom forced her to as a child, so she is no longer acting. and it was not good for her mental health
I remember her personal channel back in the day where she would upload songs and I thought she was dope for that
Not only was this a perfect display of someone speaking over others constantly, it was made extremely uncomfortable to watch by his complete disregard for the guest's interests. It felt like he flipped the roles and made Jannette interview him for an hour and a half.
It's sad because when you watched icarly and looked at Sam you couldn't see how Jennette was feeling and the guilt that her family mde her feel you just saw funny ol sam
That's because she's just that good at acting. She's really, actually good at it. But sometimes we're gifted in ways that we don't even want.
Yeah... it's acting, she was an actress. It was her job as a child to lie for a living and be someone else for the world to be entertained on national television.
i liked her character because i sensed she knew the struggle of having to help her "mom" or parents with adult problems without actually wanting to be burderened with that role
@@dameionarutogaming9728 yh she was my favorite
I saw it.
Jacks new dating profile bio - "my name is Jack and I need a girl who will politely ask the waiter to reheat the undercooked chicken tender, not a girl who will get angry when my chicken tender is undercooked. I hoard mediocre polo shirts for those VIP special occasions. Music makes me happy."
Perfect bio
I don’t think spending money on vacations is ever bad if you have the money. At the end of the day it’s experience and that’s always worth it
i know like what that's a great investment if you have it, it's something you'll never forget, likely with people you're grateful to have lifelong memories with, it makes you closer with them, or even if you're alone, there are some places or experiences that can change you for life and you cannot put a price tag on something so significant. shit even just the quarry across the state line from me changed my life without spending any money, so kauai with someone i love i'm sure would be something wonderful. that was weird that they kinda yikes'd at that lol, she has the money so i think it was a great use of it.
I totally agree. I don’t like the way the reacted to her when she said that. Seeing the world is never something to regret or try to avoid because it costs money, especially if she can do it she should
@@kellymitchell4885 right? I didn’t like it either… like traveling is the best way to spend your hard earned money…
Geez Graham! There’s more to life then making money. You have to enjoy it sometimes, especially when you’re young! You never know where life will take you when you’re older.
How ironic that her mother on icarly was somewhat how she describes her actual mother.
Very interesting didn’t even think about it 🤔
Probably to mock her.. 🤢😢
That's pretty interesting.
Probably was done purposely
🌏
When Jennette says the word “goddamn.” Graham: We’ll bleep a little bit of that. Narrator: They did not, in fact, bleep that. And I’m all for it. Hahah.
Her guessing the dino’s name right, then the guy is like “No it’s not that..”. Respect for this girl actually knowing the name ❣️
Lol ok? Not that impressive
@@tweedpenguin712 It actually is . Plus the guy didn’t know if she was right or wrong, he just assumed that she was wrong. He didn’t know the correct answer himself .
Jeanette is a saint for even entertaining this guy…
Idk what it is, I’m not like a stalker, but I just love Jeanette McCurdy, her vibe her mind her voice, she’s so smart and so interesting and on a whole new level of chill, I’m obsessed
Edit: I’m a literal gay male lol
Fight the inner simp bro
@@xeix954 ew no tf
its simple, she's awesome. you're not wrong in admiring her and even (you or anyone else) being attracted to her. She's got great qualities as a human being and is a sparkling jolly person!
@@shrimpbabyremix5006 wym no, that’s a good thing. He should fight his inner simp 😂
I agree!! Its hard not to like her
I love the fact that they don't want to pity her, I feel like she might be tired of that. I have been through really bad things, and when people start pitying me, or treating me like I'm vulnerable, it makes me feel weak.
I don't want to be seem as weak because I have been through bad things.
The fact that they acknowledge what happened to her, but didn't keep dragging it. I really liked that, she has talked about her traumatic situation a lot of times. This is fun to watch that they can talk about random stuff without making her feel like a victim over and over.
I like how this became, “Lets pick apart the personality of Jack” lol. Jack, you’re fine the way you are.
I actually think he’s the sweetest man! And the shirt is a little “preppy” but it really suits him! And I love how much more comfortable he became once in his own clothing 🥰
No, no he's not. I'm getting serious weirdo vibes from this guy
I definitely get financial awareness as a young kid. I learned growing up that maybe was no and that we could only afford stuff when my grandma brought it. Like growing up all my clothes or at least majority of them were brought by my grandparents. And I knew why that was as a child. I never really asked for much growing up due to understanding how poor we were. I grew up with a single mom and we lived in the projects in government housing.
So relatable, I remember wanting things and not asking because I didn’t want to stress my mom out. I mostly wore handed down clothes and rummage.
I relate to this but me as the mom here . I am a single mom of 6 and wish I could give my kids the world . My mom helps me out at times with buying them clothes . Thankfully I just got a promotion and really try . 3 years ago was the first time I was able to get them all Christmas gifts and they didn’t have to share board games or a video game . I spent so much on them to make up the years I couldn’t and I cried seeing them the morning of open everything up . My oldest son sounds stressed at times asking me for life essentials and it hurts me . I’m sorry as a child you endured this and I hope you understand it hurts us as well . I haven’t bought myself clothes in yearsssss
Never knew Jenette was such a chill down to earth person 😀
she really is!
When you get older everyone stops asking you what your favorite dinosaur is. This is why we love Graham 🥲 4:30
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@@TheIcedCoffeeHour
My favorite dinosaur is Warren Buffett btw
@@CaseyBurnsInvesting lmao
Hey! I see you in the Dave Ramsey comment section! Small world!
@@HizJohnnyShinning haha he is on every financial channel comments. Respect the hustle 😃
it’s so nice to see someone with a traumatic childhood interact with ppl who didn’t. it makes me feel less ~alone
Human beings are social creatures, talking to others maybe what you have to do.
Some people weren't abused as a kid?
🥰🥰🥰
Right they are so out of touch its ridiculous and very immature
It is so hard to interact with people who had happy, stable childhoods. Like I am genuinely so happy for them because nobody should go through abuse, neglect, or poverty. But every time I hear them casually bring up having something that I craved so desperately my entire life (not just material things but love, support, necessities, etc etc) it truly pains me. It’s not even jealousy it’s just pure sadness and longing. But I still do my best to feel happy for them, and I do. It just feels so unfair sometimes.
Honestly, hearing her story and how she battled forced anorexia changed my view of ICarly completely. I HATE how the producers made her a character that ate a lot. I can never watch Icarly the same, and it’s amazing that that was even allowed.
Wow! I forgot about that! How heartbreaking!!
Probably only time she ate
i have 7 siblings and i cannot stress this enough DO NOT HAVE 7 OR 8 KIDS it’s horrible. you don’t have the time to actually build a relationship with each of them, and finances are so so so tight. it’s really not the move please don’t put your kids through that
I agree in this day and age I think having more than 4 kids is selfish
i get how some families can accommodate, like my aunt has 8 kids and homeschools all her kids. Most can’t, cuz kids are expensive.
I'm the youngest of 7 and I have the best relationship with my siblings and my parents. Everyone's different. But I'm sorry you've gone through alot of hardship, I think you probably have alot of stories worth telling.
I literally have nine siblings- Four Sisters, five brothers- and while we obviously have issues that go along with A fairly crowded household and shared bedrooms, my mother is incredibly in-tune with all of our emotions and needs, from mine (I'm the oldest) all the way down to my toddler brother. Lets not make blanket statements like that when there's some genuinely amazing parents out there who are able to manage that many kids, and whose kids are super close to them. Do not have more kids than you can handle. Period. If you struggle with two, adding a third won't make it any easier. If you thrive with seven kids and they are healthy, financially secure, and functioning well in their home environment, then go on and have that eighth kid. 🤷
I'm genuinely sorry for whatever bad experiences you've had. But that doesn't reflect on other people's families and home lives. Everyone is different, everyone can handle different things, and every parent deals with their children differently. What some could not manage, others Thrive in.
I’m one of 6 and I feel like we all had a good relationship with our mum and yeah we didn’t have lots of money but I had a happy childhood
I would love to read her book. She's so intelligent and humble, and her past is very interesting. I think its admirable that she's one of the first and only former child stars to really talk about the problems with stage parents and the dark secrets in hollywood involving young people. I wish sometimes, that she would be more specific bout thw things going on behind the scenes but I understand that reliving trauma is awful, and she probably has legalities holding her back from being 100% open. I wish her so much happiness in her future.
I bet she is fully awared about pedos in hollywood but of course she cant talk about It openly for obvious reasons
And her book is finally out!! Yay! So happy for you Jennette!
" if she is dumb thats ok but id prefer a genius "- Jack
I don't know what his childhood was like but if you live in a low income paycheck to paycheck household, this is a real thing. I remember being at that same age when my mom would put back items in the grocery store. She would say, "We're poor. we don't have enough money." I think this is what led me to the habit of always having a fully stocked fridge because of that from my childhood.
I like reading these types of replies. It's so true and it shows awareness of why you do certain things now as an adult.
It's true. I'm paycheck to paycheck and slowly building up to the point where I can afford to spend extra on unnecessary items since I didn't really have that as a kid and I want my kids to have more than I did
I am cringing so hard at how Graham reacted to Jack mentioning wanting more kids. Geesh--your whole life can't be work! Family is a different kind of freedom--but also growing up, letting go of selfishness and learning a wholeee new way to love. Very beautiful. Worth a thought. Peace!
Having a family can be beautfiful but how exactly is it "freedom"?
@@circleinfo I just had my first two babies (twins) and I’ll tell you it certainly doesn’t feel like freedom yet 😂
The only thing freeing is being able to have a new level of love I’ve never had before, and seeing life through a new perspective.
Other than that I’m extremely NOT free for the first time in my life 😂
@@Kevintendo yes that’s literally what they meant father of 2 good reading skills
@@stevensilver2880 thanks! I appreciate you!
But... Doing anything besides work might involve human emotions. We both know graham can't have that
Them: talking about how much they love dinosaurs
Also them: can’t name a brachiosaurus
actually that's normal, they loved dinosaurs when they were kids, it's hard to remember the names after all that time😅
@Lexi 93 it's different for each person, for example I don't remember the names of the characters from my favorite childhood cartoons even though I was obsessed with them back then (and it was not so long ago, I'm only 17 lol maybe I just have a really bad memory)
Jack, I'm the oldest of eight. My mom had a kid every two years starting when I was 4 years old. You do not want that many children. I say this with all the love in the world for my mother, but with that many children, most of them won't be having their emotional needs met, in my family that's certainly true. It's just a numbers thing, there's too many children to be able to fullfil everyone's emotional needs. I strongly urge you to consider that.
I feel like it depends on the family. I'm sure some large families have the ability to give each child the emotional attention they need.
I think that’s only true when you have a whole array of aunts, uncles, in-laws, and older cousins who can help out. Definitely saw that with my own Bengali family. But with the way most Western families are set up, it’s usually just the mom and dad taking care of the kids.
@@Raja-bz4yw there is a limit to a human brain. We simply do not have the capability to care for so many people at the same time without neglecying some of them which is heartbreaking when a child is capable to understand they are not treated with love and respect
Jeanette is a pretty amazing person. To go through all of her trauma and still come out with a positive view on life is inspirational.
It makes me sad that Jack can’t just wear what he wants. I could tell when he changed shirts he was much more comfortable, and he looks great.
It wasn’t video professional, but it was definitely nice to see his personality! When wearing the other clothing I literally couldn’t make a judgement on what I thought about him because he was uncomfortable and therefore quiet! This was my first time watching / being made aware of the podcast so I was just taking everything in. I watched for an hour straight!
@@angelofromdragcandy meh, see, I don’t think it has to be video professional. I definitely see where you’re coming from, but Jeannette was also in a T-shirt. It was also my first time watching, but I stopped watching about when jack was given a hard time about what he chooses to wear
He will attract who is attracted to him by being himself so I agree. But for the majority I guess he may not attract as much?
Graham is right. Jack needs to dress more professionally. A lot of the time he kind of looks like a bum. Or lazy college kid
@@zachbeall6810 gotta say I disagree.
She's talking about personal stress of being worried about money at 6 years old and these guys start talking about having ideal childhoods? Read the room
Fr I think Graham’s piano lesson story sounded alittle tone deaf lol
Y’all sensitive, people can tell they’re stories and you can listen to everyone prospective just because one is sad doesn’t mean the other one have to be sad to
right??? shes trying to talk too and they interrupt her to talk about their privledged childhoods.
@@Rude-Bird Guess you're the type to be tone deaf in social situations
Well to be fair Graham did say his comparison wasn’t very good before he said it. So he’s aware what he said is a little tone deaf. I think he just wanted to share his story
Jeanette seems like such a lovely grounded person. I look forward to reading her book. Getting past bitterness to forgiveness is critical in moving forward in life-good to hear that is very present in Jeanette’s mind. It sounds like she had a lot on her shoulders as a child…she had to work and manage her life like an adult. I can understand why she doesn’t want to ‘manage’ a home right now. Love how she seems happy with a more minimal life…which I see as a very rich life. In contrast, listening to Graham talk about his anxiety taking off more than two days because of the algorithms.🙁 I’m with Jack…take off the goofy jacket. I had my one and only child at 40. If I was younger I may have had another. My son, now 25, tells me that he misses not having a sibling even though he had a rich life with family and friends. People should make the parenting decision based on their ability and willingness to give love and time. Don’t change who you are one bit Jack. You seem like a kind hearted sweet natured human and the right person will adore you!❤️ A very enjoyable episode and look forward to another with Jeanette!
This was an uncomfortable podcast/interview… Jeanette had a traumatic story and I felt like she kept on getting dismissed and talked over. They both didn’t really listen to what she was saying and I feel bad that they couldn’t have shown her more consideration and respect.
You need to read her book as well it super depressing
Jack's shirt needs to be black and yellow. Investing is pretty easy if the investor remembers "Buy low, sell high." Many and probably most stock market buyers and sellers panic and run for the door when stocks go down. You three seem sensible.
you are my favorite youtuber
@Daniel Garrett Warm with possible thunderstorms today. Nice right now.
black and yellow? i hope that's not an ancap reference. if so please don't even respond.
Sup feature man
I dont think him saying take my shoes is weird. That shows that Jack would be willing to make his girl comfortable while he sacrifices his own comfortability.
I really like this girl. I never cared for the shows she was on but she seems so genuine
I love how Graham said he’s obsessed with dinosaurs and Janette names her favorite dinosaur correctly and he says she’s wrong 😑🤣 👍🏽. “Know it alls”can be so cringe man …
Jenette is such a great guest and so grounded...gotta check out her podcast
She really is awesome!
she did an ad campaign with Fit Tea. can't endorse her after that.
@@jordantaylor1317 People are allowed to change and grow overtime.
@@jordantaylor1317 Wait whats wrong with Fit tea
@@420blazinOG Facts. but what info tells you she's changed?
Jack: "I tHinK tHiS iS ThE BesT oNe ThAt We'Ve evEr Seen" Lmaoo.. every podcast
😉
to be honest its kinda annoying
@@raimonds1534 haha alright, I’ll quit it then
But it's the best one at least I think
@@TheIcedCoffeeHour don't stop, do it every time just to annoy him.
Jenette says she has no crazy stories, yes she’s BEEN ON THE ERIC ANDRE SHOW.
The amount of patience she had that episode was admirable. I woulda been walked out.
@@othelliusmaximus funnily enough somehow only like one or two guests have left? And they cut the footage down to a few minutes. they actually harass the guests for about an hour. I would probably just leave too lmao.
Why are they shaming her selling a money pit of a house? She explained so eloquently why renting is easier for her, maybe homeownership is for some people, but I also watched my parents struggle with the burdens of owning a home that flooded twice, and I don't ever want to buy a house and be stuck somewhere the rest of my life.
i suppose it depends. if i had 900 thousand I would probably buy atleast something. since I don't have that much I am not sure to buy. i would if it was free but to pay and then still need to do it up. It just ridiculous walking around there is just so much abandoned land and then they want you to pay so much for it. as far as the land is concerned, it would be extremely lucky to have me. it is abandoned and basically worth nothing without someone to do something with it but they want to charge thousands and thousands. i looked at one house and it was like this should have been sold 30 years ago and it just sat there empty coz they thought it would go up in value. you actually want to charge me money to do this shit up?
Schools need to teach way more about how to handle money, make a bank account, handle credit & learn how not to get screwed over, etc. Especially if the kids have parents that will take advantage of them financially and guide their financial decisions because they don't know what they're getting into. Some kids are lucky to have successful/ happy or supportive parents but some will struggle for a long time after they make the move.
I agree with what your saying, but wt is left for the parents to do? I get education is there to educate the new generation but the parents are the ones who choose to have’em and they should also have some part in the education of the child, they should be held accountable too
@@camsrosa997 Financial literacy is a luxury to most. Once you realize that, you’ll see why school should teach something useful for once.
if you are born to parents that neglect your needs, that’s just the start of mental damage… because they literally set their children up for failure . Children need guidance, not adulting. & learning financial literacy should be taught early teen years
I was t taught to “worry” about money per se, but my parents taught me to be aware. I bought all my own toys (with the exception of birthdays and Christmas) with allowance money and deposited/withdrew my own birthday/Christmas/grad money from a joint bank account owned by me and my parents. It REALLY helped me understand finances at a younger age for the better.
Government schools will NEVER do that
Jack: "I'm emotionally aware."
Also Jack: "I told my date to get back with her ex."
Being able to do that is actually a great sign of emotional maturity.
Lmao That’s literally the perfect example of emotional maturity you fuck.
Return back to the toxic environment.
I'd say that's a pretty mature sense of emotional awareness. Telling your date to get back with their ex because their relationship sounds like it could really work out in the end, even when you know that will end in you still being single: maturity.
@@nextbigthing2917 But not all relationships that end are toxic: sometimes it's just the wrong time or place and/or maturity, and finding each other later on makes the difference.
I love how once Jack changed his Shirt he turned into a different person and the entire vibe in the room changed!🤯
the fact that they spend +10 mins talking about this poor guys shirt when shes talking about trauma and abuse......... girl graham you can not criticize him while wearing THAT SHIRT
LITERALLY the guy in the blue shirt is much better dressed and looks much more professional in my opinion. he is also sweet and much more respectful the dude in the grey shirt is just making everything about him. like why have guests on your podcast if you just wanna talk about yourself
Current calculated yearly salary of the podcast: $89,993.45. If the podcast was someone working a 40 hour week every week it would be making $43.27 per hour. That also translates to $10.27 of passive income every hour!
Damn we’re gonna past Jacks salary soon 😂
Thanks mateo!
What’s jacks salary?
@@Chris-ij8tb at least 100k probably more
@@TheIcedCoffeeHour when’s Mateo going to be on the podcast? 😬
Jack's Date life time stamped at 47:20 for the retention rate :D
Jack: "I am extremely socially aware"
Also Jack: "here, borrow my shoes"
😂
So innocent
I thought it was sweet lol
How is that so odd?? It’s the nicest thing ever!
I was glad to hear about her struggles with social cues! I was homeschooled for 11 years too and sometimes feel like people in groups have some sort edge.
What are social cues?
@lovenature3958 the ability to "read the room" so to speak. To be able to sense what's appropriate to say and do in different situations with different people.
Graham roasting him meanwhile he’s in basically a glorified tank top
i would run if someone try that hard to change how i look. not cool
@@netoramon9977 yeah and that sweater thing didn’t look good on him imo
I love her energy and calmness in this, definitely checking out her podcast now
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the financial mansplaining was so cringey to me. had to stop watching when he started pressing her with questions about when she bought the house. it just sounded condescending and pretentious, even if that wasn’t his intention. felt bad for her!
Investing in real estate is literally his career and bread and butter livelihood, I really think you're overreaching if you think getting financial advise, from an investor, on a FINANCIAL PODCAST, is condescending.
Yeah only in these days a discussion between a man and a woman is mansplaining
That’s literally what the podcast is about smh
Then you missed the best parts actually. 1. Its a Podcast about finance and financial advice 2. He is literally a real estate agent 3. She especially wanted to be at the podcast to talk about finance and get advice. She even said that at 1:18:05 4. In the middle of it she is giving dating advice to Jack. So is this womansplaining then? And at 1:22:48 she even said she was nervous before the video but felt really glad they where so nice to her. People should start to be less narrow minded and simply enjoy the show.
Honestly, I didn't realise for part of it that she wasn't the interviewer because I was organising my house and that can be distracting.
I loved her questions to Jack about the dating and questions to both about emotions and how she just asks "really?" as an ending so if they want to think more they can or it can end there. You can feel the writer and listener in her the whole time. I hope I can find more interviews with her that delve more into her book. Recently listened to her narration of her book and was blown away with her humour and grace in delving into her journey into a healthy existence.
Literally no one
Jack "by far this is the best intro"
Graham "yeahhhhhh"
He literally says that to almost everyone on the podcast 😂
@@mazespinwastaken. not almost everyone. LITERALLY EVERYONE
@@raimonds1534 it’s a tradition at this point. Can’t break the streak
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@@mazespinwastaken. he says it every single time
It’s definitely not an add thing to offer a girl his shoes when she is struggling with her shoes. I actually think it’s very awesome of him doing so because there isn’t many guys could do that. Just putting it out there
This is your best episode yet! Loved getting to see Jennette’s real personality. I always liked her as an actress but she’s an even more inspiring human. The commentary on Jack’s dating life was just a fun bonus!
I respect and admire Jennette McCurdy SO much. Wishing her so much peace and healing.