I have no idea if Emily is abusive or not, but I DO know that Alexis spilled some tea about how ALR would come crying to her when Em would allegedly stonewall or abuse her. If you're in a relationship that hasn't even lasted a few months, and you're already being stonewalled and abused and you're already crying, get the fuck out.
Hmmmm, maybe showing up for a ‘visit’ with as many of your belongings as will fit in a van, including bedding, along with 3 animals, and no return plan, wasn’t appreciated. Who knew?
I find it somewhat concerning that we haven't seen Twinkie since she got there. If she never got that abscess fixed, they may have had to euthanize her. That would certainly trigger a sustained depression along with realizing the Tommy fantasy is over and real life has begun.
she looks genuinely filthy, like weight gain aside, she looks like she hasn't bathed since before driving to Wisconsin. the hair all wispy and broken from being up in a messy bun for days on end, the stretched neckline of a shirt she clearly slept in at least once, the scabby facial acne, the dry picked at arms, the dark circles around her neck, wrists, and knuckles... she hasn't looked this bad since the bedbound year.
My furry friends have 3 meals a day. It’s our routine. We were wasting some wet cat food. This works out. Scooping litter twice a day. She’s milking these videos. She’s broke. Girlfriend not working out as she expected. Her girlfriends are older now.
This shocked me, too! Was she just leaving piles of food in a bowl, left out for Twinkie and the cats? Insanity. And you know those bowls are not being washed :(
Some believe it’s also for her mom. Which is why she’s bringing up her foster home story. Her mom most likely isn’t happy with her and isn’t down to pick her up or something. So she guilting her mom about her past and how it broke her, and it’s ruining her current relationship.
@@ChillHillsthat's also a very good possibility. Amber has been known to throw her mom's past in face to get her way. Her aunt said so, I believe. She says she's forgiven her mom and she's proud of her but she constantly tries to knock her mom down. I don't blame her mom for setting boundaries, especially if she's trying to stay strong in her recovery. Yes she messed up in the past but you can't change the past, you can only move forward and for her own best interest she needs to set boundaries and stick to them and Amber doesn't like when others have boundaries.
And the way she brings up her upbringing. There's no shame in having neglectful parents, growing up in fostercare, being raised in a group home--But it is highly shameful the way she's hurt her previous partners, both physically and emotionally. Hurt people hurt people and all, ALR really needs therapy.
@@halfling49 she uses her childhood as an excuse for why she’s a horrible person !! Most people (including myself) had horrible childhoods(worse than hers) and have trauma,depression,anxiety and PTSD but we don’t go online and complain and play victim to complete strangers!!! Or ab*se others!! I tell my therapist my feelings and problems not people online !!
@@cryptigyou can't heal from something you don't have, she's claimed every mental disorder and she's lying when she says she's been diagnosed. She hasn't, and she's admitted it tons of times. Never had a BPD diagnoses and she's scared to go because her followers are gonna ask for proof again of her BPD and she won't have it to fall back on for all her previous shiiiii. I have BPD, even in this video, she claims like 3 different disorders that she doesn't have "oh do I have seasonal depression" I put as much validity into Amber having BPD as I do when Trisha Paytas said she identified as a chicken nugget. Guess what is the one disorder that Amber claims she doesn't have? NPD...
It’s so one-sided. At least in therapy it’s interactive. These videos are just Amber awkwardly talking to a CAMERA only for us to react to it. No true response or relationship at all
....I just find is insane that we're suppose to feel sorry her after her attitude when people show concern. She is just a waste of time....sadly this why people distance themselves. Because she doesnt care. She just wants attention and is an emotional vampire LMAO. We already knew all this....shes bad actor sadly.
The messy appearance was completely intentional. This whole video was a sympathy grab. “I like to reflect” BISH no you don’t!! You like to think about yourself and talk about yourself, but true reflection involves analyzing your behaviors and owning up to them which you NEVER do.
I think she’s more scared of a therapist telling her she doesn’t have BPD or bipolar or anything other than trauma and regular person depression and anxiety that she’s used as an excuse to indulge herself in every whim she has…
For real. That’s what would make her quit therapy. A good therapist would want proof that she has this condition, and that’s something Amber could never give
She’s terrified of accountability. She lies to everyone, including herself. She’d never be honest with a mental health professional nor spend the time necessary to adequately diagnose her.
she gives up therapy the second it gets past the introductory 'here's my sob story, tell me how strong i am' phase. as soon as the therapist brings up anything she can't blame on her (honestly pretty common and bland) traumatic past, she cuts and waddles.
She should just disappear off TH-cam that’s what she should do, she is an abuser, manipulative which shows clearly in this farce of a video, I lost all sense of anything towards her when she click baited cancer. Reaction channels are too prone in being soft, look up lil cringe and Karina they are the best
That's a great idea!! She will never do it tho cuz it's actually something that would be cute and draw attention away from her and like others have said, that takes effort
That’s what I’ve been told from foster parents. Kids learn how to use and manipulate. Not even just in a nefarious way. But to stay safe and survive like you said.
lol I guess I’ve heard her talk about her kids before so I knew. But she could still have kids and be young! OR she could be like me in my 40s still watching this shit 😭🤣🤣🤣
@@Beach_flower I’m 41 and stuck in the AmberVerse send help ASAP !! I got my 23 year old daughter hooked too ! I called her the other day because I was having a hard day and she said “It’s okay mama,listen it could be worse you could be a 600 pound toddler who’s always wearing the wrong shoes” then proceeds to send me a picture of Amber and Thomas !! I died🤦🏼♀️💀☠️🥿🥿😅😅😅😅😅😅
Same ! I think she is still pretty young though like maybe mid 30s max because one time she mentioned some brand in wallmart that her daughters are obsessed with and that they ask her for it every time they go, so im assuming they are little kids.
Last time she talked about them the group home was a bullying nightmare where they forced her at gunpoint to drink milk before meals, made her do endless chores, and shock horror, made her follow a daily schedule. she HATED that group home.
She’s lost all credibility, always going on and on about her traumatic childhood. I have yet to hear one example of traumatic experience. She made up SA accusations blaming her dad‘s friends, etc. And that’s just one example where it was proven that she exaggerates and dramatizes things that never happened. The Casey thing… she projects and twists things around. The worst thing about her parents - yes they were likely neglectful. Was there anything else to cause all her multitudes of issues and mentulz? She just seems to be an entire wreck from basically nothing. Other people have gone through worse and they’re normal, functional adults today.
I cannot fathom how she can just move in for 2 months and then have a complete mental breakdown . There’s a child in the middle of this mess. How dare she dump all this at that child’s home , my god . Go back to your own home , sort yourself out and leave the girls in the dms alone instead of jumping from person to person . Absolutely bizarre to watch this all unfold .
Tommy is more responsible for that than Amber. It's Tommy's child. Tommy knew her history, let her drive cross country to "visit" and now it's Tommy's responsibility to get her the f**k out... even if she has to drive her to OK herself. Thankfully Tommy doesn't have primary custody.
What pisses me off is her moping about how she'll never have a child. She has a potential stepdaughter right there and she seems to think Tommy is the one she's going to spend her life with. She just wants a miniture version of herself.
I don't think the child lives there, the dad has full custody apparently, at least I hope that's right. The less time spent away from the feeder and her pet 600lb toddler the better.
I'm so confused why taking the dogs out, filling the pet bowls and overall care for the animals suddenly has to become a new routine for her and something she has to get into the habit of. Feel like she really just told on herself that she didn't do it as often as she claimed back in OKC if this is all new to her.
The only reason she is depressed is coz Emily leaves her Alone at home everyday and she wants 24/7 attention which is a pathetic expectation that she used to force on Destiny and Beck as we found out during Karinas recent interview with Beck. Amber claimed to have matured and moved on from this toxic behaviour but that was clearly a Lah. So in Typical Amber fashion the real reason for her "mentals" is a lame childish petty reason that has been blown way out of proportion.
Honestly? I don’t care about her mental or physical health at all anymore. I certainly don’t wish her ill but if she’s never gonna do anything to help herself out? Nah, I’m cool. You’re living the life you deserve, Amber. One that you’ve created for yourself. And THAT is “truly reality”.
11:25 I disagree Salty. Amber is the type of person to think everything she has to say is relevant, that everyone should care about how she feels. She likes the validation of talking about her trauma and also the lies of grandiosity she constantly tells (great writer, empath, speaks languages, 145 IQ). She loves attention of both being especial and a victim. She speaks about her feelings ALL THE TIME and by her old Facebook posts she is the type of person to talk about her depression during a friend's birthday which she has done before. Or speak about her grandma being the "magic stroke lady" when Destiny's papi had a stroke. Look up Histrionic behaviour Salty, you'll understand our girl better. Post her poems online, talk about her feelings. The poem ask her how she's Doeeen. She loves over sharing and being a victim any attention is attention. The fact she loves going to the ER. She doesn't keep anything down.
she craves being fawned over and she mimics behavior she thinks will get that for her. destiny expresses pride in her cousin for the level of soccer she plays, so amber is now in competition with a literal child and both inflates her soccer skill, and invokes her hard childhood as a back up topic so that she either gets praise for her soccer skills or sympathy for her poor childhood limiting her soccer dreams. either response feeds the beast. it's all so calculated and meticulous, but in an entirely instinctual way for her, she genuinely doesn't even have to think about it before she does it.
How many times she says BPD reminds me the amount of times when she used to say she had the binge monster take over every time she abused Beck during the Beck era.
Did she really flip the switch that fast? “Woe is me, I’m so sad, I’m so mentally ill I can’t, nobody cares, TH-cam doesn’t care, blah blah,” and then in the blink of an eye, exuberantly talking about herself and her color notecards with glee? 👀
Being able to flip the switch that fast is _very_ common with mental illness. The fact that ABL is mentally ill is undeniable. We just don't know what her diagnosis is. It's glaringly obvious that she's decompensating* at a rapid rate. *"In mental health, decompensation can refer to a decline in mental wellness that occurs when someone's usual coping mechanisms are no longer working and their symptoms worsen. This can happen when someone loses the ability to maintain their mental health state, especially if they already have a psychological condition or mental illness."
@@krexoriginal it’s also a childhood trauma/ neglect thing, not necessarily a deep seeded mental illness thing. Our kids who come with attachment disorders do it easily…I’ve just never seen ALR do it before.
@@krexoriginal Ok, I agree with you on the fact that she probably has some mental struggles... but! Anyone can fake this in front of a camera. That's why I don't believe anything she says. Zero, not a single thing, never did and never will. Because literally anyone could do that. What she posts is always a (not well) constructed version of what she wants us to see.
It’s so funny how the reaction channels are being so delicate with telling Amber that she looks a mess. She looks like she’s in a deep depression. No need to dance around it.
She WANTS to look like she’s in a deep depression. She desperately wants for the community to give her a lifetime pass for all her failures because her mentulz are so bad.
@@tressamarie6509 Isn’t it ridiculous that she repeats the same patterns, over and over, yet doesn’t ever change for the better? My older sister is a lot like Amber, and she’s a lot older, but will never change. Amber and my sister can’t ever be criticized and told that they’re wrong. If they can’t bend you to their will, they get furious.
@ Fell for what? All I’m pointing out is how everyone is going “Oooh oh. Amber how do I say this. You don’t look good.” Just say “Poopbun is back and she’s looking sloppy.” And keep it pushing. If I was a reaction channel the only physical thing I’d point out is how she looks physically uncomfortable due to the weight. Well no, I’d probably say how quickly she let herself go. And laugh.
She also doesn't do anything meaningful and while her partner is off working, she gets to indulge in extreme laziness and has been trying to fill the void with anything imaginable. She really would do well to get a job, even for a few hours a week, not youtube and get a new perspective on her life and feel more accomplished. She is the epitome of gluttony and laziness though so she would rather complain than do anything constructive.
FYI, Prozac was not cleared by the FDA for use in children under the age of 12, til 2002. Amber is 34, making her a minimum of 12 NOT 9, if she was ever, in fact prescribed Prozac. My gut says she was never prescribed any sort of medication under the age of 18, while in the foster care system. It takes a hell of a lot more than clinical depression in a child whose been taken away from their parents due to neglect to be prescribed antidepressants. It is expected for children to have been ripped from their family home & put into the system, the way Amber had been, to have what is commonly referred to as situational depression. It takes a lot of work & time between a kid as young as 9 & a psychologist to make the leap to clinical depression requiring the child be then be seen by psychiatrist for medication. Unless Amber was expressing that she had audio and/or visual hallucinations, or gave off early warning signs of psychopathy which would require something much different than Prozac, the chances of ANY psychologist working with a kid as young as Amber claims she was at the time, who is suffering from expected situational depression to make such a leap in deciding that medication like Prozac is needed. Anti-depressants in kids under the age 18 run the highest risk of adverse side effects. This risk doubles in kids under the age 15. So, I find it difficult to believe that she was medicated before she even got into middle school. Liarlynn at it again.
She Told on herself By saying it takes 21 days to form a new habit Shes admitting she never had a daily pet routine in the past. Shes Clearly not been Looking after the pets while Emily is at work and the "adjusting to a new routine" is her excuse to Emily shes just saying it in a vlog rather than in person because they likely already fell out over it coz shes sitting doing laygos when she should be looking after the pets . We see you Gorrl
“ They didn’t care. They were just there to make money.” Not me, a long term foster parent, knowing EXACTLY what kind of kid she was and why it seemed to her nobody cared. She probably ran her mouth nonstop, lied about everything, and exaggerated everything she ever went through to the point that people were sick of her. One of my children told the school we beat them and made them say they fell out of a tree. We have never spanked, and we don’t have a tree. 😂 They are constantly telling stories about our family dynamic and likewise come home claiming the teacher called them names, the coach kicked them off the team, the student next to them stole something (when they’re really the one who stole). It’s sad and disheartening knowing that childhood trauma can affect someone to this point, and bipolar disorder causes people to think “poor me,” when literally everyone around them wants them to do well, etc. The only way to overcome her mental health type deal is to quit thinking she’s more important than she is and focus on doing good towards others or being productive FOR OTHERS. She can’t even feed the dang animals without it being **sigh.** what I HAVE to do.
There’s a channel that documents her earlier years. Like pre Krystal era. I encourage you to look them up. Cause you aren’t wrong from the stories about her foster home days. She actually left a good foster home that her and her brother lived in and her brother was like “why tf would I leave with you?”
I found her attitude there very offensive. I don’t believe that foster parents or carers at a children’s home ‘don’t care’ and are just doing it ‘for the money’. You hardly get rich by caring for vulnerable, forgotten children. I can imagine it is the reverse - the money hardly covers the time and effort needed and people ONLY do this because they care.
the fact that her brother chose to stay with that foster family that she claims kicked her out instead of going with amber tells me that you're likely correct. they built her her own bedroom by converting their carport, which is super expensive and not required at all for a foster family; she could have kept sharing a room with the other foster daughter. they put her in therapy. they tried to help with her weight issues. and in return, she stole, lied, got violent, and ran away constantly, along with skipping school constantly. that family did their best but at some point the teenager needs to take responsibility for their own actions. you can't help someone who refuses to let you help them. they had to remove her from their home because it was in the best interest of the other children they were fostering.
As a sufferer of BPD myself, it makes me so upset when people use BPD to be straight up abusive. I think if you have the proper diagnosis and the resources to get help and you choose not to. . . When you actively choose to avoid getting better and constantly using it as an excuse to abuse other people. . . It makes people like me who are working really hard toward recovery look bad. I ackowledge that this disorder affects others more than a lot of other mental illnesses but it's not an excuse to treat other people like less than dirt. It makes it hard for me to empathize with her 😒
Throwing a pity party wont make a difference. She just doesnt want to be left alone responsible for the house and the pets. It sucks that sjhe hates caring for them.properly
One can always tell if she is gaining or losing by looking at her ears. The less visible they are when she is looking straight at the camera, the more she is gaining and vice versa. To be so big that your face hides your ears is actually terrifying. 😢
A friendly reminder, whenever Amber goes into a new relationship, she is always all dressed up, makeup and hair done, all giddy and laughing, filming any and every chance she gets with the new girlfriend and we can see that through the Destiny and Beck era, a little of the Faline era. This honeymoon phase goes on for like a good 2 even 3 months. However, notice with Tommy, not even a month passes by and she needs a break from social media. Clearly the relationship is not going the way she was hoping and telling us it was going.
Her words in group homes absolutely fell on kind hearts. She’s just so deranged that she believes if people don’t give her whatever she wants and also excuse ALL of her behavior, that they aren’t being kind to her. She’s always been a spoiled brat.
@@tressamarie6509Look at dear Becks, Amber whined after the relationship how ‘unsupportive’ they had been when they had literally almost destroyed themselves catering to this giant baby’s needs.
She doesnt want to go to therapy or take meds. She just wants to treat people like shit and then be told "oh It's just your bpd, I know youre a good person in your heart. keep treating me like shit, I know it's not your fault"
I think therapy is going to be a reality check that she’s afraid of. With all Amber has gone through all her life starting as a kid she was always a victim. And I’m not saying that in a snarky way she was genuinely a victim. A victim of drug addicts, a victim of the foster system, and a victim of neglect clearly displayed in her weight. That’s all she’s known so whenever she’s in a position where she isn’t one she gets upset. Therapy would make her realize that and she doesn’t want to.
She could be and still have kids! Or she could be “old” like me I’m in my 40s but still watch this shit. Also salty has her thoughts way too together to be too young 😂
@@Tammysbigtoe maybe, but she could also be taking her like 4 year old daughter on a road trip. I think she just has 2 daughters so she was just saying “the older one”
She a lah, prozac wasnt approved for kids under 17 yet when she was supposedly prescribed it at 9 years old. Gorl forgot laws and regulations exist lmao
I didnt catch it the first time I watched this on another channel, but she said on days that Emily works is when she gets up to feed the pets, so does that mean Queen Gorl does nothing on the days that Emily is home for the day? Also, 4:46 I have never seen her arms hang like that before.
ALRs language proves she has no intention of leaving. Who says they have to 'create new routines' when theyre on vacation visiting someone? Logically thats just a temporary change before going back to your daily routine.
Just when I was feeling a bit guilty to have bought a game day one at full price, you can count on Amber telling us casually she waste hundreds of dollars on Legos. Feeling better-
I think ambers girlfriend dosnt love her rather I just have a feeling amber is finding out that maybe Tommy only cares about her body and not anything els and that might be why she is so depressed and also so board
I mean she never gives her girlfriends enough time to form true love for her before she has all these expectations of them to house her and want to marry her. I don’t even think she has time to form true love for them herself, she just wants the constant validation of being wanted. she was saying they were so in love when Tommy was posting that she was just lonely.
Shes looking this bad on purpose so all the reaction channels point it out This way when she forces Emily to sit and watch reaction channels with her she can act all sad about the comments on how bad she looks so she can explain to Emily she only looks this bad because her mentals are bad because Emily leaves her alone in the house everyday. its all a manipulation to get Emily to Quit her job and become her 24/7 Carer
What I am hearing from this is that Amber does not want to be accountable for her mental health. She wants to use it as an excuse and crutch for her crappy and irrational behavior. You are NOT a victim of your mental health if you conciously and analytically decide to go without treatment when you know it's adversely affecting your life and relationships.
She's using this mental health issue to guilt someone or Tommy or sympathy from viewers.Your right she tells a lot of untruths and always the boy that cried wolf.Its also November, time to earn the extra holiday cash for these two months.
I’m sorry but sometimes even children DO need medication!!! Prozac is one of the safest, most well studied medications we have. Some people DO need these medications and it’s not child abuse that she was on that. She has anger and resentment about the childhood she had, which is VALID!! But it’s not because of the medication.
No. She doesn’t think she needs help beyond a girlfriend entertaining her 24/7. Everything will be fine if someone will only do all her thinking, moving, and feeling for her.
As someone with BPD who has had to fight tooth and nail to get access to therapy/mental health resources, it pisses me off to see her continue to put it off!! She has the funds and the time!! Like gorl is violently privileged and she takes it for granted. I wish I could sit on my fat ass all day and whine online for thousands of dollars. 🙄 I want to root for her but she makes it so hard.
This has to be the fastest the honeymoon phase wore off. The only moon now is above her shoulders 🌝😂 She is probably annoyed with Tummy being at work so much because she’s used to her partners being around her 24/7 and her BPD slaps extra hard when they have to actually leave the house to work. That, and the last partner who worked out of the home cheated on her 🫣🤭
just a heads up - BPD and NPD are sometimes very close when it comes to their symptoms. Only difference is, a Narcissist destroys everyone around them willingly and has a high arrogance, while BPD is involuntary hurt, immense feelings of guilt and often times, we are very very reserved and usually only hurt ourselves due to having very low self esteem. She doesn't have BPD, she is a Narcissist, and i am sick and tired of having people like her soil the already stained picture that people have on BPD-Patients.
This is a weird hill to die on, but it makes me crazy when people say medicine when referring to chronic illnesses. That implies it’s “curing” it, when all it’s doing is alleviating symptoms. It’s medication. You need it to deal with symptoms so you can work on the root cause of illness.
I also dealt with childhood mental illness. I was prescribed several medications and felt that they never helped. I'm 26 now and just recently started Lexapro for anxiety and it has been so amazing for me. I'm so glad I tried medication again.
lexapro was so helpful for me too! i started wellbutrin on top of it because lexapro on its own started to make me feel blah and robotic. if you get those kind of side effects just know it’s really common!!
Oh please we all know she 'disappeared' because 1. she was in the love bombing stage with Slommy, and 2. She didnt want to face the criticism of her still 'visiting' Slommy instead of being home and being a responsible adult.
She’s clearly given up. To be honest, i get it in a way. Imagine needing to lose 400-450lbs to be a semi healthy weight and knowing that even if you do, you’ll be draped in heavy loose skin.
@@marielux7372 I thought that Tammy’s family finally got fed up taking care of her and threatened to abandon her and that’s the only reason why she went in-patient. Amber hasn’t had to face that…yet. 😮
She says "i grew up in foster care" and i always question the timeline. Because she seems to have stories about her parents from throughout her childhood. I think she spent time in foster care, which is unfortunate, but she didnt "grow up" in it
Emily should treat Amber’s Mona Lisa Lego the same way Amber treated Wifey’s sneaker book! “You can put that in your room or in the closet but not in here. hehehe” 🙄 😡(reference to the coffee table book about sneakers that Amber gave to Wifey during Vlogmas and then was a bitch about where Wifey could display it. I will never forget it. She was so lowkey nasty imo)
I keep hearing people say "wonder what Tommy thinks after she gets home from working all day" like Tommy hasn't done this before. Like this isn't exactly what she wants. I know the gut (pun intended) instinct is to feel bad for her but feeder is living her best life rn.
Her last partner didn’t live with her though, did she? She lived in a care home, thousands of miles away. I think Emily is sick to death of living with Amber and that a long distance fling was a far more attractive option. Instead she has a demanding, miserable and filthy woman firmly planted on her sofa with no chance of her leaving. I love that for her 😂
She always let herself go a little extra before the holidays, because her magical wishing day January 1st is coming up. "New year new me." For a week or two..
This is so embarrassing for her. She’s trying to make emily feel bad by looking sad and neglected but instead, she just wallowed in self pity for stupid reasons in her unkempt dirty form in front of tens of thousands of people
I have a theory. Shes been there going on 2 months and has bought herself 2 lego sets and perfume. I'll bet she dropped hints to Tommy about the things she wants like she would with wifey. When her and Jade were together she would come on here acting so suprised when she'd "mention" something she liked or wanted and then Jade would buy it. I just wouldn't be surprised if Tommy isn't picking up the hints (knowingly or unknowingly) so she buys them herself. It's manipulation, its always manipulation with ALR.
I'm a bit confused about the "listen but don't care" part of her story. Like what would she see as really caring for her? Leaving everything behind and giving up on their lives for her? Because if their job was to listen and do what they could to help, and they did that, then they did a great job. I don't know what she wants from people
This is Amber’s usual routine of letting herself go so her partner will quit their job and stay home 24/7 with her. Same thing she did to destiny and Beck. Also I believe this is the first time she says she was medicated as a child?? Are you lying yet again Amber??
Amberlynn is depressed because she is trapped inside her body and trapping herself in her own life. Everything she does is a struggle. I would feel sad too if I couldn't easily go to the zoo, or swim, or go for an autumn walk through the neighborhood. She does nothing and is depressed because of it.
It feels like she doesn't want to take medication because she wants to keep her excuses. My bpd medication is my favorite thing. It keeps me sane, alive, and functioning
As a mom of 2 toddlers, I appreciate how clean you keep your channel, so I can listen podcast style (moms know) without my 3 year old picking up any curse words etc ETA: lol you’ve said sh*t several times now lol oops 😅
When my son was young, I taught him about "grown up words". Words that aren't very nice, but ONLY grown ups use them. And when he's 16, he'll be "allowed" to use a couple small ones. When he was about 10 or 12, I was walking by him in the living room while he played video games, and I heard a small, soft, "damn!" as I went by. I stopped and asked if I just heard what I thought I heard. He admitted it. I told him that while I was glad he understood how to use it in proper context, he still wasn't allowed to use those words. I kept telling him he had to wait til he was 16. Well, 16 came and went. He just turned 36. And he doesn't swear much at all. 😄 When I was learning to read, for some reason I fell in love with the poem The Charge of the Light Brigade. I remember the first time I read it out loud for my parents and grandparents. I got to one word and stopped....I just looked up at them.... They knew what it was.... They all kind of chuckled and said I was allowed to say it because it's in the poem, and it's referencing the place .... So I proudly read: "Cannon to right of them, Cannon to left of them, Cannon in front of them Volleyed and thundered; Stormed at with shot and shell, Boldly they rode and well, Into the jaws of Death, Into the mouth of Hell Rode the six hundred.... " 😄😄
I have NEVER seen her let herself go so quickly. Things are clearly not going the way she planned and it's hitting her hard.
I have no idea if Emily is abusive or not, but I DO know that Alexis spilled some tea about how ALR would come crying to her when Em would allegedly stonewall or abuse her.
If you're in a relationship that hasn't even lasted a few months, and you're already being stonewalled and abused and you're already crying, get the fuck out.
Hmmmm, maybe showing up for a ‘visit’ with as many of your belongings as will fit in a van, including bedding, along with 3 animals, and no return plan, wasn’t appreciated. Who knew?
I find it somewhat concerning that we haven't seen Twinkie since she got there. If she never got that abscess fixed, they may have had to euthanize her. That would certainly trigger a sustained depression along with realizing the Tommy fantasy is over and real life has begun.
It's wither this or tommy is an enabler and very happy she's stuck sitting at home gaining weight just for her.
she looks genuinely filthy, like weight gain aside, she looks like she hasn't bathed since before driving to Wisconsin. the hair all wispy and broken from being up in a messy bun for days on end, the stretched neckline of a shirt she clearly slept in at least once, the scabby facial acne, the dry picked at arms, the dark circles around her neck, wrists, and knuckles... she hasn't looked this bad since the bedbound year.
“I reflect” NO GIRL YOU DEFLECT
This
yep. she schemes. "How can I make this someone else's fault?"
😂
Exactly
How is waking up and feeding your animals a new routine!?!? 😮
Is she admitting she didn't look after the pets daily at home?
My furry friends have 3 meals a day. It’s our routine. We were wasting some wet cat food. This works out. Scooping litter twice a day. She’s milking these videos. She’s broke. Girlfriend not working out as she expected. Her girlfriends are older now.
This shocked me, too! Was she just leaving piles of food in a bowl, left out for Twinkie and the cats? Insanity. And you know those bowls are not being washed :(
It's pathetic is what it is
she probably didn’t even do that with her own pets at home.
This blog was for Tommy, trying to guilt her for some reason.
Bingo dingo!
She’s pulling the same nonsense she does with all her girlfriends, but Tommy can’t quit her job- she got child support and a mortgage to pay
Some believe it’s also for her mom. Which is why she’s bringing up her foster home story. Her mom most likely isn’t happy with her and isn’t down to pick her up or something. So she guilting her mom about her past and how it broke her, and it’s ruining her current relationship.
Exactly what I thought
@@ChillHillsthat's also a very good possibility. Amber has been known to throw her mom's past in face to get her way. Her aunt said so, I believe. She says she's forgiven her mom and she's proud of her but she constantly tries to knock her mom down. I don't blame her mom for setting boundaries, especially if she's trying to stay strong in her recovery. Yes she messed up in the past but you can't change the past, you can only move forward and for her own best interest she needs to set boundaries and stick to them and Amber doesn't like when others have boundaries.
I saw a good quote the other day. “Your mental health is not your fault but it is your responsibility.”
The only person that can help her is herself!
Amber: “Yah but ya see, the hectic thing is--“
I hate how she talks about not healing from BPD, like it's this scarlet letter or her cancer
And the way she brings up her upbringing. There's no shame in having neglectful parents, growing up in fostercare, being raised in a group home--But it is highly shameful the way she's hurt her previous partners, both physically and emotionally. Hurt people hurt people and all, ALR really needs therapy.
@@halfling49 she uses her childhood as an excuse for why she’s a horrible person !! Most people (including myself) had horrible childhoods(worse than hers) and have trauma,depression,anxiety and PTSD but we don’t go online and complain and play victim to complete strangers!!! Or ab*se others!! I tell my therapist my feelings and problems not people online !!
@@cryptigyou can't heal from something you don't have, she's claimed every mental disorder and she's lying when she says she's been diagnosed. She hasn't, and she's admitted it tons of times. Never had a BPD diagnoses and she's scared to go because her followers are gonna ask for proof again of her BPD and she won't have it to fall back on for all her previous shiiiii. I have BPD, even in this video, she claims like 3 different disorders that she doesn't have "oh do I have seasonal depression" I put as much validity into Amber having BPD as I do when Trisha Paytas said she identified as a chicken nugget. Guess what is the one disorder that Amber claims she doesn't have? NPD...
From my experience, when someone is constantly vocalizing how AMAZING their relationship is… it’s never actually that good.
She thinks trauma dumping on youtube is therapy. She is beyond help and time keeps ticking. I don't think she will be here beyond 40.
It’s so one-sided. At least in therapy it’s interactive. These videos are just Amber awkwardly talking to a CAMERA only for us to react to it. No true response or relationship at all
i said this too…she definitely doesn’t have much time left :/
@@crazyXninjaXfishyand if anyone offers some advice or guidance she says they’re “haters”. real therapy would mean she has to take accountability
The people on 600 life live longer in worse health but their lives only descend into worse and worse situations.
....I just find is insane that we're suppose to feel sorry her after her attitude when people show concern.
She is just a waste of time....sadly this why people distance themselves. Because she doesnt care. She just wants attention and is an emotional vampire LMAO.
We already knew all this....shes bad actor sadly.
The messy appearance was completely intentional. This whole video was a sympathy grab.
“I like to reflect” BISH no you don’t!! You like to think about yourself and talk about yourself, but true reflection involves analyzing your behaviors and owning up to them which you NEVER do.
She gained popularity by being Krystal. The more authentic Amber got, the more rude and dishonest she exposed herself to be.
*Destiny, but yes.
@@GreenEyedGumby I agree. She gained popularity by copying Destiny's unhinged personality.
She confuses being infamous with being popular. She got a lot of views that’s doesn’t mean she was well liked.
I think she’s more scared of a therapist telling her she doesn’t have BPD or bipolar or anything other than trauma and regular person depression and anxiety that she’s used as an excuse to indulge herself in every whim she has…
She has nothing wrong with her except terminal l a z i n e s s.
For real. That’s what would make her quit therapy. A good therapist would want proof that she has this condition, and that’s something Amber could never give
She’s terrified of accountability. She lies to everyone, including herself. She’d never be honest with a mental health professional nor spend the time necessary to adequately diagnose her.
she gives up therapy the second it gets past the introductory 'here's my sob story, tell me how strong i am' phase. as soon as the therapist brings up anything she can't blame on her (honestly pretty common and bland) traumatic past, she cuts and waddles.
Yep
I bet she doesn't even clean or cook. All she does is wait for Emily to come home.
Like a big lazy dog
And doordash
She should use her Legos as an actual backdrop for her videos. Then she could plan videos and sit at a desk with a set-up that looks intentional.
That would b cute
That would be nice! It would also require real effort, so it ain’t gonna happen 💀
She should just disappear off TH-cam that’s what she should do, she is an abuser, manipulative which shows clearly in this farce of a video, I lost all sense of anything towards her when she click baited cancer. Reaction channels are too prone in being soft, look up lil cringe and Karina they are the best
That would require work and caring about someone else’s experience but her own…
That's a great idea!! She will never do it tho cuz it's actually something that would be cute and draw attention away from her and like others have said, that takes effort
I keep thinking I’m going to see her in Milwaukee, but then I remember she literally never leaves the house.
I can't imagine purposefully putting myself, unwashed and unkempt, in a public video. It still baffles me.
She has no self-respect.
She is begging for attention, if Emily's or her viewer's doesn't matter.
I have never heard someone pronounce Corvette as a “Cor-vay”
It's because she finally learned how to pronounce buffet 😂
Neither has she. She's such a quirky gorl.
She’s
Uneducated as
Hell
@@luprof9686😂
She is such a dick for talking about social workers like that. So ignorant.
2:20 that tank top was a choice. I’m embarrassed for her…
She's adjusting tits so she can get closer to a table. Her waist is probably a square yard. So i guess the table is in-between her gut and tits.
Her ARRRMS 😬
No one wants to see those udders
That bra doesnt help either
It’s for Tommy.
Yeah, your take is correct. Foster kids don’t get to “express themselves.” They learn to manipulate and use people to stay safe.
That’s what I’ve been told from foster parents. Kids learn how to use and manipulate. Not even just in a nefarious way. But to stay safe and survive like you said.
OLDEST DAUGHTER? i thought you were in your early 20’s at the latest, holy moly 😭
lol I guess I’ve heard her talk about her kids before so I knew. But she could still have kids and be young! OR she could be like me in my 40s still watching this shit 😭🤣🤣🤣
@@Beach_flowershe recently dropped the lore that she had daughters and I was shocked
SAME
@@Beach_flower I’m 41 and stuck in the AmberVerse send help ASAP !! I got my 23 year old daughter hooked too ! I called her the other day because I was having a hard day and she said “It’s okay mama,listen it could be worse you could be a 600 pound toddler who’s always wearing the wrong shoes” then proceeds to send me a picture of Amber and Thomas !! I died🤦🏼♀️💀☠️🥿🥿😅😅😅😅😅😅
Same ! I think she is still pretty young though like maybe mid 30s max because one time she mentioned some brand in wallmart that her daughters are obsessed with and that they ask her for it every time they go, so im assuming they are little kids.
So now her group home was not traumatic. Staff and friends she still has contact with. Story changes.
Last time she talked about them the group home was a bullying nightmare where they forced her at gunpoint to drink milk before meals, made her do endless chores, and shock horror, made her follow a daily schedule. she HATED that group home.
She was in multiple group homes.
She’s lost all credibility, always going on and on about her traumatic childhood. I have yet to hear one example of traumatic experience. She made up SA accusations blaming her dad‘s friends, etc. And that’s just one example where it was proven that she exaggerates and dramatizes things that never happened. The Casey thing… she projects and twists things around. The worst thing about her parents - yes they were likely neglectful. Was there anything else to cause all her multitudes of issues and mentulz? She just seems to be an entire wreck from basically nothing. Other people have gone through worse and they’re normal, functional adults today.
I cannot fathom how she can just move in for 2 months and then have a complete mental breakdown . There’s a child in the middle of this mess. How dare she dump all this at that child’s home , my god . Go back to your own home , sort yourself out and leave the girls in the dms alone instead of jumping from person to person . Absolutely bizarre to watch this all unfold .
Don’t forget that her first and only thought when Erica’s uncle died was about how that affected Erica paying attention to her.
Tommy is more responsible for that than Amber. It's Tommy's child. Tommy knew her history, let her drive cross country to "visit" and now it's Tommy's responsibility to get her the f**k out... even if she has to drive her to OK herself. Thankfully Tommy doesn't have primary custody.
What pisses me off is her moping about how she'll never have a child. She has a potential stepdaughter right there and she seems to think Tommy is the one she's going to spend her life with. She just wants a miniture version of herself.
I don't think the child lives there, the dad has full custody apparently, at least I hope that's right. The less time spent away from the feeder and her pet 600lb toddler the better.
don't worry that's not the child's home, Emily doesn't have custody, stop bringing up the child, it's weird.
You forget that Destiny worked while Amber lounged like a cat waiting for her. She will try get Emily to quit her job soon
Emily is gonna toss
Her soon
She doesn’t have enough $$ to support a whole household anymore I don’t think
No she won’t get help because then she’ll have no excuse to play the victim
There’s “reflecting” and then there’s “wallowing”
THIS!!!! You can reflect all you want, but if you don’t DO ANYTHING it doesn’t help
I'm so confused why taking the dogs out, filling the pet bowls and overall care for the animals suddenly has to become a new routine for her and something she has to get into the habit of. Feel like she really just told on herself that she didn't do it as often as she claimed back in OKC if this is all new to her.
Girl is NOT looking for an answer…she is only looking for excuses
The only reason she is depressed is coz Emily leaves her Alone at home everyday and she wants 24/7 attention which is a pathetic expectation that she used to force on Destiny and Beck as we found out during Karinas recent interview with Beck. Amber claimed to have matured and moved on from this toxic behaviour but that was clearly a Lah. So in Typical Amber fashion the real reason for her "mentals" is a lame childish petty reason that has been blown way out of proportion.
Honestly? I don’t care about her mental or physical health at all anymore. I certainly don’t wish her ill but if she’s never gonna do anything to help herself out? Nah, I’m cool.
You’re living the life you deserve, Amber. One that you’ve created for yourself. And THAT is “truly reality”.
11:25 I disagree Salty. Amber is the type of person to think everything she has to say is relevant, that everyone should care about how she feels. She likes the validation of talking about her trauma and also the lies of grandiosity she constantly tells (great writer, empath, speaks languages, 145 IQ). She loves attention of both being especial and a victim.
She speaks about her feelings ALL THE TIME and by her old Facebook posts she is the type of person to talk about her depression during a friend's birthday which she has done before. Or speak about her grandma being the "magic stroke lady" when Destiny's papi had a stroke.
Look up Histrionic behaviour Salty, you'll understand our girl better.
Post her poems online, talk about her feelings. The poem ask her how she's Doeeen. She loves over sharing and being a victim any attention is attention. The fact she loves going to the ER. She doesn't keep anything down.
she craves being fawned over and she mimics behavior she thinks will get that for her. destiny expresses pride in her cousin for the level of soccer she plays, so amber is now in competition with a literal child and both inflates her soccer skill, and invokes her hard childhood as a back up topic so that she either gets praise for her soccer skills or sympathy for her poor childhood limiting her soccer dreams. either response feeds the beast.
it's all so calculated and meticulous, but in an entirely instinctual way for her, she genuinely doesn't even have to think about it before she does it.
Yes which is why she keeps asking people to send in questions to her…about herself
YES! She perfectly fits the histrionic disorder
How many times she says BPD reminds me the amount of times when she used to say she had the binge monster take over every time she abused Beck during the Beck era.
I feel like she's using her "mental health" to manipulate Slommy to let her keep staying.
Did she really flip the switch that fast? “Woe is me, I’m so sad, I’m so mentally ill I can’t, nobody cares, TH-cam doesn’t care, blah blah,” and then in the blink of an eye, exuberantly talking about herself and her color notecards with glee? 👀
Being able to flip the switch that fast is _very_ common with mental illness. The fact that ABL is mentally ill is undeniable. We just don't know what her diagnosis is. It's glaringly obvious that she's decompensating* at a rapid rate.
*"In mental health, decompensation can refer to a decline in mental wellness that occurs when someone's usual coping mechanisms are no longer working and their symptoms worsen. This can happen when someone loses the ability to maintain their mental health state, especially if they already have a psychological condition or mental illness."
@@krexoriginal it’s also a childhood trauma/ neglect thing, not necessarily a deep seeded mental illness thing. Our kids who come with attachment disorders do it easily…I’ve just never seen ALR do it before.
@@krexoriginal Ok, I agree with you on the fact that she probably has some mental struggles... but! Anyone can fake this in front of a camera.
That's why I don't believe anything she says. Zero, not a single thing, never did and never will. Because literally anyone could do that.
What she posts is always a (not well) constructed version of what she wants us to see.
@SigEMT09 absolutely! Her childhood trauma is at the root of her mental illness. Attachment disorders _are_ a mental illness. They're in the DSM V.
It’s so funny how the reaction channels are being so delicate with telling Amber that she looks a mess. She looks like she’s in a deep depression. No need to dance around it.
She WANTS to look like she’s in a deep depression. She desperately wants for the community to give her a lifetime pass for all her failures because her mentulz are so bad.
@@tressamarie6509
Isn’t it ridiculous that she repeats the same patterns, over and over, yet doesn’t ever change for the better? My older sister is a lot like Amber, and she’s a lot older, but will never change. Amber and my sister can’t ever be criticized and told that they’re wrong. If they can’t bend you to their will, they get furious.
@ChillHills Congratulations 🎉 you fell for it.
@ Fell for what? All I’m pointing out is how everyone is going “Oooh oh. Amber how do I say this. You don’t look good.”
Just say “Poopbun is back and she’s looking sloppy.” And keep it pushing.
If I was a reaction channel the only physical thing I’d point out is how she looks physically uncomfortable due to the weight.
Well no, I’d probably say how quickly she let herself go. And laugh.
Imagine spending most of your time being bored alone in a stranger's house after gaining another 30-50 pounds.... ugh sounds miserable 😢
She also doesn't do anything meaningful and while her partner is off working, she gets to indulge in extreme laziness and has been trying to fill the void with anything imaginable. She really would do well to get a job, even for a few hours a week, not youtube and get a new perspective on her life and feel more accomplished. She is the epitome of gluttony and laziness though so she would rather complain than do anything constructive.
30-50 is being overly nice. Her face has gained a lot.
The honeymoon phase ended fast.
FYI, Prozac was not cleared by the FDA for use in children under the age of 12, til 2002. Amber is 34, making her a minimum of 12 NOT 9, if she was ever, in fact prescribed Prozac. My gut says she was never prescribed any sort of medication under the age of 18, while in the foster care system. It takes a hell of a lot more than clinical depression in a child whose been taken away from their parents due to neglect to be prescribed antidepressants. It is expected for children to have been ripped from their family home & put into the system, the way Amber had been, to have what is commonly referred to as situational depression. It takes a lot of work & time between a kid as young as 9 & a psychologist to make the leap to clinical depression requiring the child be then be seen by psychiatrist for medication. Unless Amber was expressing that she had audio and/or visual hallucinations, or gave off early warning signs of psychopathy which would require something much different than Prozac, the chances of ANY psychologist working with a kid as young as Amber claims she was at the time, who is suffering from expected situational depression to make such a leap in deciding that medication like Prozac is needed. Anti-depressants in kids under the age 18 run the highest risk of adverse side effects. This risk doubles in kids under the age 15. So, I find it difficult to believe that she was medicated before she even got into middle school. Liarlynn at it again.
She Told on herself By saying it takes 21 days to form a new habit Shes admitting she never had a daily pet routine in the past. Shes Clearly not been Looking after the pets while Emily is at work and the "adjusting to a new routine" is her excuse to Emily shes just saying it in a vlog rather than in person because they likely already fell out over it coz shes sitting doing laygos when she should be looking after the pets . We see you Gorrl
I’m sure it’s because Tommy was probably expecting a short week or so visit. Not for her to move in and not leave.
Exactly ! Like she did to Casey !
“ They didn’t care. They were just there to make money.” Not me, a long term foster parent, knowing EXACTLY what kind of kid she was and why it seemed to her nobody cared. She probably ran her mouth nonstop, lied about everything, and exaggerated everything she ever went through to the point that people were sick of her. One of my children told the school we beat them and made them say they fell out of a tree. We have never spanked, and we don’t have a tree. 😂 They are constantly telling stories about our family dynamic and likewise come home claiming the teacher called them names, the coach kicked them off the team, the student next to them stole something (when they’re really the one who stole).
It’s sad and disheartening knowing that childhood trauma can affect someone to this point, and bipolar disorder causes people to think “poor me,” when literally everyone around them wants them to do well, etc.
The only way to overcome her mental health type deal is to quit thinking she’s more important than she is and focus on doing good towards others or being productive FOR OTHERS. She can’t even feed the dang animals without it being **sigh.** what I HAVE to do.
There’s a channel that documents her earlier years. Like pre Krystal era. I encourage you to look them up. Cause you aren’t wrong from the stories about her foster home days. She actually left a good foster home that her and her brother lived in and her brother was like “why tf would I leave with you?”
@@ChillHills
What is the Channel name? I would like to check it out.
I found her attitude there very offensive. I don’t believe that foster parents or carers at a children’s home ‘don’t care’ and are just doing it ‘for the money’. You hardly get rich by caring for vulnerable, forgotten children. I can imagine it is the reverse - the money hardly covers the time and effort needed and people ONLY do this because they care.
@@EYE_GOTCHA SeptaSeven
the fact that her brother chose to stay with that foster family that she claims kicked her out instead of going with amber tells me that you're likely correct. they built her her own bedroom by converting their carport, which is super expensive and not required at all for a foster family; she could have kept sharing a room with the other foster daughter. they put her in therapy. they tried to help with her weight issues. and in return, she stole, lied, got violent, and ran away constantly, along with skipping school constantly. that family did their best but at some point the teenager needs to take responsibility for their own actions. you can't help someone who refuses to let you help them. they had to remove her from their home because it was in the best interest of the other children they were fostering.
I'm SO tired of her saying things are always taken from her........
Thank you! That and it's not fair. She's an overgrown toddler.
The food needs
To be taken
The trouble in paradise never come this early and i'm here for it...
The honeymoon is over. The novelty wore off. So she’s back to being depressed. A new relationship is a way to temporarily feel better.
As a sufferer of BPD myself, it makes me so upset when people use BPD to be straight up abusive. I think if you have the proper diagnosis and the resources to get help and you choose not to. . . When you actively choose to avoid getting better and constantly using it as an excuse to abuse other people. . . It makes people like me who are working really hard toward recovery look bad. I ackowledge that this disorder affects others more than a lot of other mental illnesses but it's not an excuse to treat other people like less than dirt. It makes it hard for me to empathize with her 😒
When has she heard anyone say "cor-vay"😂😂 she knows it's corvette. She's so weird
Lets take the Cor-vay to the buff-et! 😄
Meanwhile, she pronounces "buffet" "bu-fette". Gorl really pretends to be "corky" when she's just dumb in general.
It happened last year too BECAUSE YOU GET INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP EVERY YEAR
Throwing a pity party wont make a difference. She just doesnt want to be left alone responsible for the house and the pets. It sucks that sjhe hates caring for them.properly
She wants a girlfriend to entertain her 24/7 because she has no idea who she is and no thoughts or ideas of her own.
One can always tell if she is gaining or losing by looking at her ears. The less visible they are when she is looking straight at the camera, the more she is gaining and vice versa. To be so big that your face hides your ears is actually terrifying. 😢
They hiding right now
A friendly reminder, whenever Amber goes into a new relationship, she is always all dressed up, makeup and hair done, all giddy and laughing, filming any and every chance she gets with the new girlfriend and we can see that through the Destiny and Beck era, a little of the Faline era. This honeymoon phase goes on for like a good 2 even 3 months. However, notice with Tommy, not even a month passes by and she needs a break from social media. Clearly the relationship is not going the way she was hoping and telling us it was going.
12:36 if your words never fall on “kind hearts” maybe the problem is what you’re saying, not who’s listening.
Her words in group homes absolutely fell on kind hearts. She’s just so deranged that she believes if people don’t give her whatever she wants and also excuse ALL of her behavior, that they aren’t being kind to her.
She’s always been a spoiled brat.
@@tressamarie6509Look at dear Becks, Amber whined after the relationship how ‘unsupportive’ they had been when they had literally almost destroyed themselves catering to this giant baby’s needs.
She looks like 2019 again
Yeah she big
She doesnt want to go to therapy or take meds. She just wants to treat people like shit and then be told "oh It's just your bpd, I know youre a good person in your heart. keep treating me like shit, I know it's not your fault"
I think therapy is going to be a reality check that she’s afraid of. With all Amber has gone through all her life starting as a kid she was always a victim. And I’m not saying that in a snarky way she was genuinely a victim. A victim of drug addicts, a victim of the foster system, and a victim of neglect clearly displayed in her weight. That’s all she’s known so whenever she’s in a position where she isn’t one she gets upset. Therapy would make her realize that and she doesn’t want to.
Sometimes I wonder if she knows the difference between bpd and bipolar, or that they aren’t interchangeable molments
she didn't even know there were different types of bpd lmao. she probably thinks bpd, bipolar, and did are the same thing
She seems so sad.
0:14 how old are you? I thought you were in your mid 20’s
She could be and still have kids! Or she could be “old” like me I’m in my 40s but still watch this shit. Also salty has her thoughts way too together to be too young 😂
@@Beach_flowergo genX! We rock!
@@Beach_flower but she said she took her oldest daughter on a road trip so I just assumed she was older
@@Tammysbigtoe maybe, but she could also be taking her like 4 year old daughter on a road trip. I think she just has 2 daughters so she was just saying “the older one”
@ lol glad I’m not the only one here!! 🤣
She a lah, prozac wasnt approved for kids under 17 yet when she was supposedly prescribed it at 9 years old. Gorl forgot laws and regulations exist lmao
I didnt catch it the first time I watched this on another channel, but she said on days that Emily works is when she gets up to feed the pets, so does that mean Queen Gorl does nothing on the days that Emily is home for the day? Also, 4:46 I have never seen her arms hang like that before.
She's really abt to grow a pair of turkey wings💀
DANGLEEN ELBOW 😂
Not her lecturing everyone about her mental health as if we havent seen this cycle for years now
ALRs language proves she has no intention of leaving. Who says they have to 'create new routines' when theyre on vacation visiting someone? Logically thats just a temporary change before going back to your daily routine.
Just when I was feeling a bit guilty to have bought a game day one at full price, you can count on Amber telling us casually she waste hundreds of dollars on Legos. Feeling better-
Will she? Never, heck neaux!
She isn't used to looking after pets and Emily has a huge dog. Amber has to let it out every morning. No pee pads for that dog
I bet she pays a neighbor
I think ambers girlfriend dosnt love her rather I just have a feeling amber is finding out that maybe Tommy only cares about her body and not anything els and that might be why she is so depressed and also so board
Tommy wants clout
I mean she never gives her girlfriends enough time to form true love for her before she has all these expectations of them to house her and want to marry her. I don’t even think she has time to form true love for them herself, she just wants the constant validation of being wanted. she was saying they were so in love when Tommy was posting that she was just lonely.
Shes looking this bad on purpose so all the reaction channels point it out
This way when she forces Emily to sit and watch reaction channels with her she can act all sad about the comments on how bad she looks so she can explain to Emily she only looks this bad because her mentals are bad because Emily leaves her alone in the house everyday. its all a manipulation to get Emily to Quit her job and become her 24/7 Carer
What I am hearing from this is that Amber does not want to be accountable for her mental health. She wants to use it as an excuse and crutch for her crappy and irrational behavior. You are NOT a victim of your mental health if you conciously and analytically decide to go without treatment when you know it's adversely affecting your life and relationships.
She's using this mental health issue to guilt someone or Tommy or sympathy from viewers.Your right she tells a lot of untruths and always the boy that cried wolf.Its also November, time to earn the extra holiday cash for these two months.
Ahe doesnt want to get medicated, she doesnt want therapy, coz then she wont have any excuse for being a horrible oerson. Its just as simple as that.
I’m sorry but sometimes even children DO need medication!!! Prozac is one of the safest, most well studied medications we have. Some people DO need these medications and it’s not child abuse that she was on that. She has anger and resentment about the childhood she had, which is VALID!! But it’s not because of the medication.
And Tammy being a psychiatric nurse, I am sure Amber not taking meds is causing friction between the two of them.
Big Al learned a whole bunch of new buzz words, probably from Tik Tok.
Insufferable.
No. She doesn’t think she needs help beyond a girlfriend entertaining her 24/7. Everything will be fine if someone will only do all her thinking, moving, and feeling for her.
As someone with BPD who has had to fight tooth and nail to get access to therapy/mental health resources, it pisses me off to see her continue to put it off!! She has the funds and the time!! Like gorl is violently privileged and she takes it for granted. I wish I could sit on my fat ass all day and whine online for thousands of dollars. 🙄 I want to root for her but she makes it so hard.
This has to be the fastest the honeymoon phase wore off. The only moon now is above her shoulders 🌝😂 She is probably annoyed with Tummy being at work so much because she’s used to her partners being around her 24/7 and her BPD slaps extra hard when they have to actually leave the house to work. That, and the last partner who worked out of the home cheated on her 🫣🤭
What BPD?
Do you think she really has BPD? I don’t.
Oh honey shes strugleen
Strugglynn
just a heads up - BPD and NPD are sometimes very close when it comes to their symptoms. Only difference is, a Narcissist destroys everyone around them willingly and has a high arrogance, while BPD is involuntary hurt, immense feelings of guilt and often times, we are very very reserved and usually only hurt ourselves due to having very low self esteem.
She doesn't have BPD, she is a Narcissist, and i am sick and tired of having people like her soil the already stained picture that people have on BPD-Patients.
This is a weird hill to die on, but it makes me crazy when people say medicine when referring to chronic illnesses. That implies it’s “curing” it, when all it’s doing is alleviating symptoms. It’s medication. You need it to deal with symptoms so you can work on the root cause of illness.
Was she depressed a few days ago while filming eating nachos to trigger the audience concerned for her well-being?
That part🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Where did she post this?
@@iamsoap79 it was on TikTok but TikTok took it down because they said she was BULLYING HERSELF!! Now that’s hilarious😅😅😅😅
She’d repurchase HUNDREDS of dollars worth of kits to rebuild them?!
I also dealt with childhood mental illness. I was prescribed several medications and felt that they never helped. I'm 26 now and just recently started Lexapro for anxiety and it has been so amazing for me. I'm so glad I tried medication again.
lexapro was so helpful for me too! i started wellbutrin on top of it because lexapro on its own started to make me feel blah and robotic. if you get those kind of side effects just know it’s really common!!
@ thanks for letting me know!
It's mind blowing to me that she feels entitled to expect sympathy from strangers on the Internet who have watched her BS for decades.
Ugh the Alexis speak. ALR really does snipe everyone else’s personality.
Oh please we all know she 'disappeared' because 1. she was in the love bombing stage with Slommy, and 2. She didnt want to face the criticism of her still 'visiting' Slommy instead of being home and being a responsible adult.
The brand name she couldn't pronounce is Dossier.
She can’t pronounce English let alone French
I thought you were about to say “ my daughter and I made a ton of money” lol but either way sounded great!! Glad you are back safe!
She’s clearly given up. To be honest, i get it in a way. Imagine needing to lose 400-450lbs to be a semi healthy weight and knowing that even if you do, you’ll be draped in heavy loose skin.
If Tammy Slaton could do it, amberlynn can do it. Took Tammy forever to stop being an ass, but it eventually happened
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I thought that Tammy’s family finally got fed up taking care of her and threatened to abandon her and that’s the only reason why she went in-patient. Amber hasn’t had to face that…yet. 😮
@@EYE_GOTCHA true. And it seems amberlynn will ALWAYS just find a new person to latch on to
She could gather money to make the surgery for that, that's not the issue for her. She's just too deep into her addiction
@@NittaSayuriii she doesn’t have the willpower or discipline to get the surgery. It’s not just about money
Does anyone else get a kick from knowing that things arent working out the way she thought they would??? Sorry not sorry
Things will never work out for her. She's not capable of being in a healthy relationship or attracting a mentally healthy partner.
It's like all the advice we gave her turned out to be pretty good advice. 😑
I can’t lie…I’m tickled pink that it all appears to be going t!ts up for both Amber and Tommy.
They both deserve it in spade loads.
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She says "i grew up in foster care" and i always question the timeline. Because she seems to have stories about her parents from throughout her childhood. I think she spent time in foster care, which is unfortunate, but she didnt "grow up" in it
You do know parents can still have and are encouraged to have regular contact even if their child is growing up in foster care.
She won't do therapy because she KNOWS eating is an issue but she doesn't want to stop eating.
Also I'd PAY her to stop saying hectic
She won’t do anything about her poor mental or physical health and then expects people to care.
Emily should treat Amber’s Mona Lisa Lego the same way Amber treated Wifey’s sneaker book! “You can put that in your room or in the closet but not in here. hehehe” 🙄 😡(reference to the coffee table book about sneakers that Amber gave to Wifey during Vlogmas and then was a bitch about where Wifey could display it. I will never forget it. She was so lowkey nasty imo)
I keep hearing people say "wonder what Tommy thinks after she gets home from working all day" like Tommy hasn't done this before. Like this isn't exactly what she wants. I know the gut (pun intended) instinct is to feel bad for her but feeder is living her best life rn.
Her last partner didn’t live with her though, did she? She lived in a care home, thousands of miles away.
I think Emily is sick to death of living with Amber and that a long distance fling was a far more attractive option.
Instead she has a demanding, miserable and filthy woman firmly planted on her sofa with no chance of her leaving. I love that for her 😂
She always let herself go a little extra before the holidays, because her magical wishing day January 1st is coming up.
"New year new me." For a week or two..
I was in therapy and medicated at the age of 14. Eleven years later, I'm still in therapy and medicated and loving life ❤
This is so embarrassing for her. She’s trying to make emily feel bad by looking sad and neglected but instead, she just wallowed in self pity for stupid reasons in her unkempt dirty form in front of tens of thousands of people
You know she’s already ordered automatic pet feeders, electric fountain water bowls and a self cleaning litter box.
I have a theory. Shes been there going on 2 months and has bought herself 2 lego sets and perfume. I'll bet she dropped hints to Tommy about the things she wants like she would with wifey. When her and Jade were together she would come on here acting so suprised when she'd "mention" something she liked or wanted and then Jade would buy it. I just wouldn't be surprised if Tommy isn't picking up the hints (knowingly or unknowingly) so she buys them herself. It's manipulation, its always manipulation with ALR.
I'm a bit confused about the "listen but don't care" part of her story. Like what would she see as really caring for her? Leaving everything behind and giving up on their lives for her? Because if their job was to listen and do what they could to help, and they did that, then they did a great job. I don't know what she wants from people
This is Amber’s usual routine of letting herself go so her partner will quit their job and stay home 24/7 with her. Same thing she did to destiny and Beck. Also I believe this is the first time she says she was medicated as a child?? Are you lying yet again Amber??
yikes on 🚲
Lately when I watch a video about Amber I find myself yelling at the screen “THEN GO TO THERAPY!”
Amberlynn is depressed because she is trapped inside her body and trapping herself in her own life. Everything she does is a struggle. I would feel sad too if I couldn't easily go to the zoo, or swim, or go for an autumn walk through the neighborhood. She does nothing and is depressed because of it.
It feels like she doesn't want to take medication because she wants to keep her excuses. My bpd medication is my favorite thing. It keeps me sane, alive, and functioning
As a mom of 2 toddlers, I appreciate how clean you keep your channel, so I can listen podcast style (moms know) without my 3 year old picking up any curse words etc ETA: lol you’ve said sh*t several times now lol oops 😅
Don’t feel bad😂it’s better than listening to Jordan (the ankle). No hate to him, I love his channel lol but he curses every other word😂
@@rebeccakoch5713He’s my other favorite, but I have to save him for after the kids go to bed 🤬🤣
When my son was young, I taught him about "grown up words". Words that aren't very nice, but ONLY grown ups use them. And when he's 16, he'll be "allowed" to use a couple small ones.
When he was about 10 or 12, I was walking by him in the living room while he played video games, and I heard a small, soft, "damn!" as I went by. I stopped and asked if I just heard what I thought I heard. He admitted it. I told him that while I was glad he understood how to use it in proper context, he still wasn't allowed to use those words.
I kept telling him he had to wait til he was 16.
Well, 16 came and went. He just turned 36. And he doesn't swear much at all. 😄
When I was learning to read, for some reason I fell in love with the poem The Charge of the Light Brigade. I remember the first time I read it out loud for my parents and grandparents. I got to one word and stopped....I just looked up at them.... They knew what it was.... They all kind of chuckled and said I was allowed to say it because it's in the poem, and it's referencing the place .... So I proudly read:
"Cannon to right of them,
Cannon to left of them,
Cannon in front of them
Volleyed and thundered;
Stormed at with shot and shell,
Boldly they rode and well,
Into the jaws of Death,
Into the mouth of Hell
Rode the six hundred.... "
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