Sex Before Marriage|| True Talk with TED||S05E05

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  • @estherlonge5255
    @estherlonge5255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    I love this video so much because at no point did they mention “save yourself for your husband”- we don’t do this for man, we do this for God 🙌🏾

    • @oluwatosinbabalola653
      @oluwatosinbabalola653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

    • @georginaattadjan8333
      @georginaattadjan8333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sure

    • @blanchet2531
      @blanchet2531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This was my comment on a different video on this topic

    • @talkwithbliss8637
      @talkwithbliss8637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not even for God but for yourself ,everything God ask us to do and not do is for ourselves and our own good !!

    • @joymwendwa6959
      @joymwendwa6959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@talkwithbliss8637 true but truth be told, we mostly keep them cause God has told us. most of us, without God, we would rather disobey

  • @Unapologetic_Christian
    @Unapologetic_Christian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I just read some bunch of write-ups by some ladies talking about how virginity is overrated and one of them even said waiting till marriage is overrated, she was advising people to have sex whenever they are ready. I was surprised at how low we have come, I was wondering who taught them that. I'm 28, single and still a virgin. I'm proud to say this and I'm really glad God has been helping me. We need to talk about this more often...and I'm glad this topic was brought to this show. God bless!!!

    • @yemitob6624
      @yemitob6624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @OKANGA FRANCIS MORELY You're totally right!

    • @Unapologetic_Christian
      @Unapologetic_Christian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @OKANGA FRANCIS MORELY 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @tijesuniolayiwola669
      @tijesuniolayiwola669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's because they have wrong knowledge and they push it. Imagine she has the real words that's how she preach. We should just make sure we push the truth the more.

    • @akechsunday7549
      @akechsunday7549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indeed it is possible to be a virgin for sure knowing that yo keeping yoself not for yo husband only but for God 🙏

    • @ajisegbedeadejokeaanuoluwa9640
      @ajisegbedeadejokeaanuoluwa9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      . "For God".. That's the point

  • @onyinyeokoye1758
    @onyinyeokoye1758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I remember when my husband and I were in courtship (we courted for 1 year and 8 months) people will laugh and mock at us when we say we had not slept with each other. In fact many people did not believe it because they according to them "everyone was doing it". We had a goal and we wanted nothing to come between us and our walk with God. At the end God's name was glorified. We live for His purpose and not for any man.

  • @nasiruajayi3849
    @nasiruajayi3849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Wow, this is really impactful and interesting.Even though I'm using my Dad's phone to watch this program,I must confess as a teenager I've really learnt a lot. God will continue to bless you TED.

    • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
      @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PRAISE THE LORD!!!!!😎

    • @chinaecheremezenma8720
      @chinaecheremezenma8720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you very much, True Talk with TED, God bless you all immeasurably. I had both a mind shift and a solidification of my 'Whys'. God bless you all again 🙌🤗

  • @gracebabatunde9567
    @gracebabatunde9567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Yes! The Bible is the oldest book with the most current news.
    God bless you, TED!

  • @ajayeobaoyinkansola6469
    @ajayeobaoyinkansola6469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dara is so eloquent...I love how she speaks😍😍😘😘 She is a blessed woman🙌

    • @onaopemipoopeloye6506
      @onaopemipoopeloye6506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love her so much. So much depth, yet so humble.

    • @angelaanthony7272
      @angelaanthony7272 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very eloquent..I was going to say that.God bless TED

  • @fredafrimpong9283
    @fredafrimpong9283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Passion at which Dara is talking about this. I love it. God help us.
    Thank you Ted

  • @bioAde2023
    @bioAde2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow! Daddy and Mummy Bamiloye well done! You've done a great job and I'm so proud of you! This what call parenting ( abiamo tooto) . I'm glad your children are solutions to the world problems not troubles. Even with your kind of profession, moving from one location to another you still create time to bring up your children in Lord's way. May the Lord continue to bless and strengthen you and your family. Once again I'm proud of you mummy and daddy. I wish other parents can learn from you so that the world can become a better place. I mean see your offspring! 👏👏👏👏👍👍

    • @danielmanneh3571
      @danielmanneh3571 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're very right.i pray as a mother of boys the lord will fill me with his spirit and wisdom to train my children in his house

  • @TheSamwonders
    @TheSamwonders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Great One! Loved it. I've been away from sex for 9 months now and all the tips shared are things I've imbibed plus the grace of God.

  • @mabintyrachelmansaray9097
    @mabintyrachelmansaray9097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is very important massage, we the young people need to know, sex before marriage is not a good idea, may God continue to help us. God bless you TED. More grace to you all. 🙏🙏❤️

  • @fabprodigioushope3144
    @fabprodigioushope3144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I'm loving this already, It's high time this kind of conversations become a norm between Christian by Christians, because there is a lot of misinformation and the Society is running the narrative, there is also a God narrative and his idle plan. Thank you again yet, Damilola, my beautiful Sisters, True talk and Team that make this videos possible.
    Oya let me go and finish.

    • @Elijah-ri6xo
      @Elijah-ri6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus was transgender, actually female, coming bavk as a woman. God is a Spirit, no gender. Jesus is NOT God.
      The Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships.
      God created them male and female, determined by gender, located in the brain, not sex characteristics.
      Anyone that teaches the LIE of monetary tithing, sells anything using the gospel, or teaches that same-sex marriage is a sin CHOOSES to die with the wicked.
      Luke 10:7 states the only wages for ministering are eating and drinking whatever you are given.
      Also, know that rich people will all die. You can't be a Christian, sit on all kinds of money, watch your fellow brothers and sisters starve, suffer, or be homeless, choose to do nothing about it, and think that it's ok. Those are all wolves.
      Mathew 19:12 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused in some way and something inside of them blocks off a certain type of body but it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused. Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex-characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, it states God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Leviticus, Corinthians, and Timothy were translated wrong by Billy Graham. Those verses are actually referring to pedophilia. Romans 1:27 All of the men were male in regards to gender, all of the women were female in gender. It is not referring to Eunuchs (where one partner is transgender). Also, it had nothing to do with marriage of any kind. They were trying to procreate during orgies so God did it on purpose. Anyone that continues to teach same sex marriage is a sin when the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships will also die by their own choice.
      Sodom and Gem. was about rape and greed, nothing to do with marriage of any kind.
      In order to be a church building, the place must house people inside of it. Otherwise it is just another private money-making business part of Babylon that furthers satan's agenda. Stay out of the fake churches.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be UTTERLY destroyed from among the people. Again, everyone has a choice.
      And anyone that deletes my messages CHOOSES to reject Jesus Christ Himself and that means they also CHOOSE to die with the wicked.
      I am Elijah so that means any discrepancies in the holy books are ultimately decided by me. I am also to usher in the Messiah! Be ready: Jesus is coming back!
      WORLD PEACE IS COMING!!
      By the way, anything based on gender norms no longer applies. In fact, the last will be first and the first will be last. It's women that will be ruling the kingdom of heaven........
      And rapture is not what most people think. Its when God's true people shine with the glory of God and are miraculously healed. Read Malchi 4:2-4 and the verses surrounding it...........
      Donald Trump is of the antichrist spirit and he will die with the wicked if he chooses not to repent.
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-11 is talking to the thieving church leaders. Every single fake preachet knrw if they brpught the money back they were never supposed to take for ministering then God would end Covid but they love money so much they intentionally chose to kill everyone instead of repenting!!!!.......
      The fake churches will soon be taxed and all shut down. Hallelujah!!!!

    • @adaezeokafor4331
      @adaezeokafor4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      WHICH NORM!! DON'T YOU KNOW HISTORY OF YOUR FOREFATHERS. FOR YOUR INFORMATION YOUR FOREFATHERS DID NOT SUPPORT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!!

  • @TheSamwonders
    @TheSamwonders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Honestly, compatibility sexual used to be something I was concerned about until God made me see it was because I had deviated by being sexually active, so I had to renew my mind and see there's more things to be compatibility with than sex which you can actually do "without" in marriage

  • @Ejirogheneee
    @Ejirogheneee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I’m proud of myself, I won’t be discouraged and I will keep holding on till marriage 🔥💯

    • @adaezeokafor4331
      @adaezeokafor4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      GOOD CHOICE! HOWEVER, SEX SHOULD BE A NO GO AREA!! EVEN YOUR FOREFATHERS DID NOT SUPPORT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!!

    • @biolasaka9183
      @biolasaka9183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you

    • @dchielsom
      @dchielsom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea o don't b discourage d lord that helped me will surely help u as well

    • @Ejirogheneee
      @Ejirogheneee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dchielsom Amennnn

    • @ilesanmieniitan4067
      @ilesanmieniitan4067 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a good thing.....I married as virgin, and there's alot of pride and honor there. Keep it up
      May God also help you.

  • @lizzy_sobande
    @lizzy_sobande 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was soooo good. I'll like to reaffirm your last point. Accountability helps keep us in check so it's important to have one or two married couples (Who you know are walking in the way of God and you can see results) that you will speak with from time to time about your relationship and if you're single you still need them. We young ones have so much to learn from our fathers, mothers, uncles and aunties. Counseling is a major tool for success in anything really

  • @selaseakyeamah2719
    @selaseakyeamah2719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is a serious message that we all need to listen. This message is a whole sermon for me. God bless you TED🙏🙏

    • @Elijah-ri6xo
      @Elijah-ri6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus was transgender, actually female, coming bavk as a woman. God is a Spirit, no gender. Jesus is NOT God.
      The Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships.
      God created them male and female, determined by gender, located in the brain, not sex characteristics.
      Anyone that teaches the LIE of monetary tithing, sells anything using the gospel, or teaches that same-sex marriage is a sin CHOOSES to die with the wicked.
      Luke 10:7 states the only wages for ministering are eating and drinking whatever you are given.
      Also, know that rich people will all die. You can't be a Christian, sit on all kinds of money, watch your fellow brothers and sisters starve, suffer, or be homeless, choose to do nothing about it, and think that it's ok. Those are all wolves.
      Mathew 19:12 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused in some way and something inside of them blocks off a certain type of body but it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused. Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex-characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, it states God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Leviticus, Corinthians, and Timothy were translated wrong by Billy Graham. Those verses are actually referring to pedophilia. Romans 1:27 All of the men were male in regards to gender, all of the women were female in gender. It is not referring to Eunuchs (where one partner is transgender). Also, it had nothing to do with marriage of any kind. They were trying to procreate during orgies so God did it on purpose. Anyone that continues to teach same sex marriage is a sin when the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships will also die by their own choice.
      Sodom and Gem. was about rape and greed, nothing to do with marriage of any kind.
      In order to be a church building, the place must house people inside of it. Otherwise it is just another private money-making business part of Babylon that furthers satan's agenda. Stay out of the fake churches.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be UTTERLY destroyed from among the people. Again, everyone has a choice.
      And anyone that deletes my messages CHOOSES to reject Jesus Christ Himself and that means they also CHOOSE to die with the wicked.
      I am Elijah so that means any discrepancies in the holy books are ultimately decided by me. I am also to usher in the Messiah! Be ready: Jesus is coming back!
      WORLD PEACE IS COMING!!
      By the way, anything based on gender norms no longer applies. In fact, the last will be first and the first will be last. It's women that will be ruling the kingdom of heaven........
      And rapture is not what most people think. Its when God's true people shine with the glory of God and are miraculously healed. Read Malchi 4:2-4 and the verses surrounding it...........
      Donald Trump is of the antichrist spirit and he will die with the wicked if he chooses not to repent.
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-11 is talking to the thieving church leaders. Every single fake preachet knrw if they brpught the money back they were never supposed to take for ministering then God would end Covid but they love money so much they intentionally chose to kill everyone instead of repenting!!!!.......
      The fake churches will soon be taxed and all shut down. Hallelujah!!!!

    • @nanaamablessed6513
      @nanaamablessed6513 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @thekingsdaughter61
    @thekingsdaughter61 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I tell people too that one of the sexual and trust problems married people have is as a result of a history of multiple sexual partners in your life, when you are marrying as a virgin you are safe because you don't even know if your spouse is doing it well or not, he is the only one you are tasting in your life, so you will enjoy him because you don't know if he is good or bad.
    But if you have explored all kinds of sizes and styles, and you end up marrying someone whose sexual adventure is not as wild as yours, then you have to find an extra means of satisfying yourself 🤷‍♀️ and you are on your own o🙅‍♀️🙋‍♀️

    • @DrEzinneErhirhie
      @DrEzinneErhirhie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true.
      A colleague of mine who slept with his wife when she was his patient has faced multiple embarrassments in his clinic.
      Whenever he is seeing a female patient(that is his spec), she automatically accuses him of sleeping with her

    • @thekingsdaughter61
      @thekingsdaughter61 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DrEzinneErhirhie Wow.... That's so serious

  • @TheSamwonders
    @TheSamwonders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Yes! I say "Sex Outside Marriage" more than sex before marriage to help my mind grasp that the only permission I have for sex is in marriage.

    • @Elijah-ri6xo
      @Elijah-ri6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus was transgender, actually female, coming bavk as a woman. God is a Spirit, no gender. Jesus is NOT God.
      The Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships.
      God created them male and female, determined by gender, located in the brain, not sex characteristics.
      Anyone that teaches the LIE of monetary tithing, sells anything using the gospel, or teaches that same-sex marriage is a sin CHOOSES to die with the wicked.
      Luke 10:7 states the only wages for ministering are eating and drinking whatever you are given.
      Also, know that rich people will all die. You can't be a Christian, sit on all kinds of money, watch your fellow brothers and sisters starve, suffer, or be homeless, choose to do nothing about it, and think that it's ok. Those are all wolves.
      Mathew 19:12 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused in some way and something inside of them blocks off a certain type of body but it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused. Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex-characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, it states God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Leviticus, Corinthians, and Timothy were translated wrong by Billy Graham. Those verses are actually referring to pedophilia. Romans 1:27 All of the men were male in regards to gender, all of the women were female in gender. It is not referring to Eunuchs (where one partner is transgender). Also, it had nothing to do with marriage of any kind. They were trying to procreate during orgies so God did it on purpose. Anyone that continues to teach same sex marriage is a sin when the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships will also die by their own choice.
      Sodom and Gem. was about rape and greed, nothing to do with marriage of any kind.
      In order to be a church building, the place must house people inside of it. Otherwise it is just another private money-making business part of Babylon that furthers satan's agenda. Stay out of the fake churches.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be UTTERLY destroyed from among the people. Again, everyone has a choice.
      And anyone that deletes my messages CHOOSES to reject Jesus Christ Himself and that means they also CHOOSE to die with the wicked.
      I am Elijah so that means any discrepancies in the holy books are ultimately decided by me. I am also to usher in the Messiah! Be ready: Jesus is coming back!
      WORLD PEACE IS COMING!!
      By the way, anything based on gender norms no longer applies. In fact, the last will be first and the first will be last. It's women that will be ruling the kingdom of heaven........
      And rapture is not what most people think. Its when God's true people shine with the glory of God and are miraculously healed. Read Malchi 4:2-4 and the verses surrounding it...........
      Donald Trump is of the antichrist spirit and he will die with the wicked if he chooses not to repent.
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-11 is talking to the thieving church leaders. Every single fake preachet knrw if they brpught the money back they were never supposed to take for ministering then God would end Covid but they love money so much they intentionally chose to kill everyone instead of repenting!!!!.......
      The fake churches will soon be taxed and all shut down. Hallelujah!!!!

    • @chisomnnamani
      @chisomnnamani ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmm 🤔 I guess I’ll start saying this too

  • @alexanderomowale6987
    @alexanderomowale6987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you so much, I was blessed by this.
    Was struggling with Masturbation but I know that now I'm free from it totally.

  • @marvelajayi1439
    @marvelajayi1439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for this deep and true message. God would remove the veil of deceit over the eyes of our generation. I love you guys

  • @MiaAnena22
    @MiaAnena22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Started watching TED today and am glad these ladies are here for me in this phase of my life.

  • @favooour2681
    @favooour2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That point Darasimi made in response to the other person leaving if they don't yield is so on point. A pleasure-based commitment is a dangerous one.

  • @Praisee30
    @Praisee30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow! This is a very important and sensitive topic. Thank you for this...God bless you greatly ❤️❤️I have been blessed and inspired to stand on the word of God.

  • @victorgodwin5957
    @victorgodwin5957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    True words.. God bless you for expanding more God's words on this.. More grace

  • @temitopeadereni5467
    @temitopeadereni5467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The story of Amnon and Tamar in 2 Sam 13:1-20 is a testament that no matter how much your desires are burning, it is best to avoid premarital sex and ungodly counsels.

  • @abegundeoluwatobi2765
    @abegundeoluwatobi2765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Powerful messages! God bless you TED! More grace and wisdom in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏

  • @VictoriaBala072
    @VictoriaBala072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very educative and insightful. God bless you TED Sisters

  • @engelinahjosiah7759
    @engelinahjosiah7759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    keeping yourself till marriage is the best gift you can give to your future partner. i am 33 years old single and a virgin by the grace of God as i wait on the Lord for a future life partner

  • @noreenonazi2167
    @noreenonazi2167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yippee I v actually missed you ladies. Very useful 👌 topic especially at this time that people have become lovers of themselves. This topic has sex has gone beyond man and woman before marriage even with animals. Holy Spirit help our generation and bless you ladies

  • @chiamakablessing1969
    @chiamakablessing1969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oya ooo.. lemme grab my popcorn for this yet another eye opener. God bless you ma's

  • @oyekunletofunmi3539
    @oyekunletofunmi3539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you so much ma(s) for this enlightenment. May the Lord continue to enlighten you by His word in Jesus name. Please ma(s), I'll love that you took a session on how to overcome soul ties by sex before marriage.
    Sadly, many as fallen victim of indulging in this sinful act. It is not enough to emphasize why they should not engage or it's spiritual aftermath but how to be delivered from the bondage of it also must be established. This might be bondage through addiction or soul ties.
    Many in the body of Christ - especially the youths - struggle daily with this. They claim they have the Holy Spirit and know the word but they still couldn't help not falling into this ditch.
    May the Lord grant you the wisdom to approaching this issue in Jesus name.
    Shalom!

  • @everythingtrendingtv4227
    @everythingtrendingtv4227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dara is on fire with this topic. It's her passion on it for me. God bless you guys

  • @jewelsbyk
    @jewelsbyk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video brought a lot of memories and made me emotional.
    I wish I knew better. Thank God for his saving grace.

  • @Nimi_temi
    @Nimi_temi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really learned alot
    Having a good reason to stay out of it and also don't put yourself in a position where it will be easy to fall into temptation
    I really love this ❤️

  • @graceyusufmshelia8003
    @graceyusufmshelia8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks alot TED sisters.
    This has strengthened and solidify my decision on no sex before marriage.

  • @oluwatosinbabalola653
    @oluwatosinbabalola653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the true talk program has actually been a blessing and it has become better overtime. I like the way things are broken down and also the openness of these ladies. Dara is so eloquent and well spoken. More blessing true talk. Sex is dangerous before marriage and hence preserved for marriage.

  • @abimbolaalabi7952
    @abimbolaalabi7952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a really a good tool to share with christian youths in today's world. Great program TED!

  • @excellentuwhubetine5093
    @excellentuwhubetine5093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How can I like this video ten times?…🥰 This is really timely. I will keep on waiting till it’s right….

  • @samuelafolayan7056
    @samuelafolayan7056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are doing a great job, and I must commend you that am blessed on today's podcast and this topic needs to be preach in church for both singles and married couples because most believers and unbelievers today have fallen into this temptations and they don't know the where to turn to, even some Christians can't come to church or talk to their pastor about them(singles) that they've sin before getting married and the pastor bless their union not knowing they were fooling their pastor and they don't know that you can fool human beings and you can fool God. God help us (believers and unbelievers)to overcome this issue of sex before marriage.

  • @favooour2681
    @favooour2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There's something a dear friend asked, ‘what is sponsoring your sexual preference? Is it what you have learned from porn, movies, “experience"? If you did not have premarital sex in the first place or get exposed to illicit content, what would have been your so-called sexual preference or compatibility?’
    So the whole issue of sexual compatibility is a lie that stemmed from going against God's original plan for sex and marriage.

    • @onyinyechi1155
      @onyinyechi1155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That 'sexual compatibility' talk just used to off me. Like one of our sisters said it's just an excuse you're giving yourself to engage in it. And very true, Favour: there would have been no such ideas in your head if your orientations were not wrong in the first place. Seriously, there has to be a focused cleansing of the mind with the word (John 17:17) and with prayer.

    • @desreeisibor5855
      @desreeisibor5855 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said!

  • @agathanwabuokei896
    @agathanwabuokei896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    DARA😍😍😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭😭 you are an example of proverbs 22:6. Please everyone here if you have a child please show them God’s way.

  • @Uuo241
    @Uuo241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wowww. That clip was powerful. We often see clips of people actually falling after persuasions. But even with all the persuasions by the guy, the lady, Esther still stood her ground. Greatly encouraging 👏🏼👏🏼Love to see it! 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @gloryimagha6214
    @gloryimagha6214 ปีที่แล้ว

    This helped a lot
    Even for people that have fallen and said they won’t go back
    It helped to encourage and strengthen the conviction of this sin
    Thanks a lot TED

  • @dorcaseni1
    @dorcaseni1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This really came in handy....I mean, this is really timely! Thank you sooooo much TED, more grace.

  • @faithidera1090
    @faithidera1090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really needed to hear this right now. It was so helpful. Thank you so much mas

  • @God-mercy-n5w
    @God-mercy-n5w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Girls, give into sex because low self-esteem, fear of being dumped and looking for another relationship.
    Please you must not be in a relationship before you get married. Avoid being ideal , always find your self busy serving the Jesus.
    You won't even have time to think of sex and who to give it to.
    God bless you TED, more Grace.

    • @Elijah-ri6xo
      @Elijah-ri6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus was transgender, actually female, coming bavk as a woman. God is a Spirit, no gender. Jesus is NOT God.
      The Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships.
      God created them male and female, determined by gender, located in the brain, not sex characteristics.
      Anyone that teaches the LIE of monetary tithing, sells anything using the gospel, or teaches that same-sex marriage is a sin CHOOSES to die with the wicked.
      Luke 10:7 states the only wages for ministering are eating and drinking whatever you are given.
      Also, know that rich people will all die. You can't be a Christian, sit on all kinds of money, watch your fellow brothers and sisters starve, suffer, or be homeless, choose to do nothing about it, and think that it's ok. Those are all wolves.
      Mathew 19:12 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused in some way and something inside of them blocks off a certain type of body but it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused. Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex-characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, it states God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Leviticus, Corinthians, and Timothy were translated wrong by Billy Graham. Those verses are actually referring to pedophilia. Romans 1:27 All of the men were male in regards to gender, all of the women were female in gender. It is not referring to Eunuchs (where one partner is transgender). Also, it had nothing to do with marriage of any kind. They were trying to procreate during orgies so God did it on purpose. Anyone that continues to teach same sex marriage is a sin when the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships will also die by their own choice.
      Sodom and Gem. was about rape and greed, nothing to do with marriage of any kind.
      In order to be a church building, the place must house people inside of it. Otherwise it is just another private money-making business part of Babylon that furthers satan's agenda. Stay out of the fake churches.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be UTTERLY destroyed from among the people. Again, everyone has a choice.
      And anyone that deletes my messages CHOOSES to reject Jesus Christ Himself and that means they also CHOOSE to die with the wicked.
      I am Elijah so that means any discrepancies in the holy books are ultimately decided by me. I am also to usher in the Messiah! Be ready: Jesus is coming back!
      WORLD PEACE IS COMING!!
      By the way, anything based on gender norms no longer applies. In fact, the last will be first and the first will be last. It's women that will be ruling the kingdom of heaven........
      And rapture is not what most people think. Its when God's true people shine with the glory of God and are miraculously healed. Read Malchi 4:2-4 and the verses surrounding it...........
      Donald Trump is of the antichrist spirit and he will die with the wicked if he chooses not to repent.
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-11 is talking to the thieving church leaders. Every single fake preachet knrw if they brpught the money back they were never supposed to take for ministering then God would end Covid but they love money so much they intentionally chose to kill everyone instead of repenting!!!!.......
      The fake churches will soon be taxed and all shut down. Hallelujah!!!!

  • @okoroestherchiamaka1027
    @okoroestherchiamaka1027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We really need to hear more of this message. It was really impactful.

  • @silviaokoye8472
    @silviaokoye8472 ปีที่แล้ว

    I truly love your zeal in directing and redirecting humanity with your Talk Show. You all are amazing and may God continue to use you to change the world.

  • @toluwalopeoluwashindara7161
    @toluwalopeoluwashindara7161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the message we youth nd teenage need to listen to this most are going astray May God help us Amen.God Bless you TED

  • @edidiongbassey4998
    @edidiongbassey4998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    30 years and still a virgin.... I’m waiting it out!!!

    • @elizabetholuyinka9764
      @elizabetholuyinka9764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God will give you a home for Christ. A home that will bring glory to God Almighty. Keep it up and I pray for more grace in Jesus Christ Name Amen.

    • @edidiongbassey4998
      @edidiongbassey4998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elizabetholuyinka9764 amen!!! Thank for this heartfelt prayer

    • @wilhemawallace9193
      @wilhemawallace9193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am Proud of You. Although I dont know you. The Lord remain your strength

  • @koredeomodanisi1559
    @koredeomodanisi1559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the beautiful message. May God help me.
    And Amen to the prayers.

  • @joyologun8747
    @joyologun8747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much for this video lovely TED 🥰. With God's word as the standard, we're sure we won't miss it. We need more discussions on this topics to make us be on guard at all time. So many lies are out there portrayed as the truth.

  • @perestamarabrakemiye9761
    @perestamarabrakemiye9761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice talk, i pray the lord will give everyone of us the ability to hold on to him alone, i wish to be on this station to share my experience on this topic to help the youth, you've all spoking well God bless you real good.

  • @gabrieloginni9163
    @gabrieloginni9163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Awesome topic! May God help us all. And help the youth, since the feet of the youth are always slippery. I like the part where she said, it's a way of seeking excuses to do what you are burning for, the advocacy should be to encourage people to marry as early as possible because our body isn't wired to honestly restrain temptation at some point/age/environment etc. Let the christian parent stop ignoring the body chemistry of their children. No self control or deliverance is a way out most of the time, if you force it, you'll end up having a depressed generation following rules.

  • @amarachiihenacho
    @amarachiihenacho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this. It's a life saver_ I tell you. Most especially, you all talk with passion and it's obvious you believe what you say and you say what you mean. Unlike people who can't sell what they believe in, more so to the younger generation. Thank you, really.

  • @jjmkitchentv4397
    @jjmkitchentv4397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a great message, most of our single friends need this.

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Men too, we need to encourage and support them to remain virgin too for marriage.

  • @akechsunday7549
    @akechsunday7549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love this amazing women,sisters and wives of one family what a blessing.
    Am always blessed by yo teachings it makes me know that it is possible

  • @kikeladeadesunloye1685
    @kikeladeadesunloye1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful, useful and practical 👌. I love this episode much more because of Dara's passion and heart ❤️. Kai!! I can't explain what's happening in my heart right now. God bless TEDTalk forever 🔥🔥🔥.

  • @abosedeakande9406
    @abosedeakande9406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh, my people are here again. God bless you all

  • @goshenmaccarthy
    @goshenmaccarthy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yayyy!!! YOU THREE ARE A BLESSING!

  • @faithgift8320
    @faithgift8320 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how Dara is more serious about this topic no sex before marriage God bless you

  • @rccginternationaloffice3859
    @rccginternationaloffice3859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks TED I love u ladies too much, I remember what my hubby told me when we are still courting he said if we engage in sex that will be the end of our courtship, we have to lay down our rules and God helped us. there is nothing more glorious than keeping yourself till marriage, the advantages is much. let fear God and flee from every appearance of evil. GOD BLESS U

  • @adekoyaabiola7346
    @adekoyaabiola7346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    May you continue to be a vessel of honour... more grace

  • @otuboevelyn9971
    @otuboevelyn9971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This message is very timely. Such a great reminder. Love you guys ❤️. God bless you abundantly

  • @faithandrew4138
    @faithandrew4138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You know it's really possible to abstain, God is not an unjust God, He knows how we feel that is why He always provides a way of escape (He said flee). I am a witness. At some point, I was determined to keep myself which I did for years but within the twinkle of an eye, I just lost guard, over confidence set and the rest is history. It is really telling on me RN because going back to who I used to be ( the happy, glowing innocent child of God) has become really difficult. I thank God for His mercies though

  • @akinloluoluwajuwonlo7973
    @akinloluoluwajuwonlo7973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really impactful!!! A most message for teens n youths... God bless you sisters

  • @GoodLuck-tn1oc
    @GoodLuck-tn1oc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    am very happy for this because i was thinking no one wants to marry a reserved lady ,alot of men comes to me for marriage and relationship,and the moment they mention sex,and i let them know am reserved ,they will run though i feel bad at times,but am not ready to have sex with anyone who is not my husband

    • @illoebubechukwu
      @illoebubechukwu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm proud of you ma

    • @IreneKoryoeTetteh
      @IreneKoryoeTetteh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep it up sis
      The cloud of witnesses are cheering you up🎉

  • @okuntadeabigailolatokunbo1469
    @okuntadeabigailolatokunbo1469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank God for this family

  • @bisikingskid
    @bisikingskid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful episode! Thank you TED for addressing these issues so honestly and realistically from the viewpoint of God's word. God bless you!

  • @Amobeacreations
    @Amobeacreations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Timely message. God bless you TED

  • @heraldhometv2850
    @heraldhometv2850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The pressure may be high, but Lord help me stay firm in my decision to keep myself for the right partner till my wedding night. Amen.

  • @PraiseOmenogor
    @PraiseOmenogor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much mas for this teaching. It's a blessing. It's so enlightening.
    It's so timely.
    Indeed, we abstain from sexual immorality because God has instructed us to abstain from sexual immorality.

  • @BornofGodalone1
    @BornofGodalone1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much God bless you guys richly and in all ramifications.more spiritual wisdom knowledge and understanding for you guys in Jesus name Amen

  • @abimbolaadeosun6157
    @abimbolaadeosun6157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank You sisters 🥰 sis Dara !!! Marriage looks good on you .... your cheeks are pretty 😂😅

  • @ifeoluwapraise_
    @ifeoluwapraise_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No wonder the bible says, the man knew his wife and conceived.
    Thank you for letting me understand more

  • @graceolufunke9222
    @graceolufunke9222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God Bless You My Sisters.... More Insight and Understanding of God

  • @onibatogideont
    @onibatogideont 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good morning TED @ TrueTalk, more Grace from God unto You all for more exploits on this platform in Jesus mighty name, amen.

  • @gbemietryphoza
    @gbemietryphoza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This so good for such a time as this. Thank you beautiful ladies ❤️💖❤️💖

  • @anitaike9031
    @anitaike9031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God be praised...I needed this 🙏🏾

  • @estheralamu3032
    @estheralamu3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this advise, and for all your past Messages, l am always a beneficiary, so I wish you all more Progress, Wisdom from above IJN!!!

  • @covenantudom1779
    @covenantudom1779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loads of lessons to learn from this episode...

  • @samuelolujobi3432
    @samuelolujobi3432 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Somebody actually told me this morning that the Bible has been outdated and that was the first time I will be hearing that, buh thank God that I have known the truth and surely it has set me free from everything that might want to cause me backsliding. Hallelujah

  • @marthatemilola7918
    @marthatemilola7918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much TED. God bless you for sharing. So worded

  • @olawoyinchristiana-kp6pd
    @olawoyinchristiana-kp6pd ปีที่แล้ว

    I learnt a lot from this...
    I'm so blessed...
    God bless you all...

  • @eloghosaazobu3832
    @eloghosaazobu3832 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi sisters
    I'm glad to finally be back to the TED talk......
    Thank you for this video

  • @funmilayobalogun176
    @funmilayobalogun176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very well done! Thanks for debunking the myths.....

  • @IBKsWorld
    @IBKsWorld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmm
    I wish I had kept myself
    I'm presently a single pregnant lady with so much fears
    Thank you for this
    May God keep blessing you and giving you wisdom

  • @omololaodetola2937
    @omololaodetola2937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being celibate, is not meant for all. Just stand firm in your faith. God will definitely reward us all. God bless you, our wonderful Sisters for your unflinching encouragement 🙏

  • @ukamakalilianokwuoha1350
    @ukamakalilianokwuoha1350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Dara so much and her company.May God continue to bless you and Bro Lawrence

  • @healsparvin218
    @healsparvin218 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So oooo waooo nice and lovely talk thx so much TED blessings 🙏 I wish all single to see this, watching from 🇺🇬

  • @olajumokeakosile1386
    @olajumokeakosile1386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much TED for this session. A lot was revealed. God bless you😊❤️❤️❤️

  • @oluwadunsinomotayo
    @oluwadunsinomotayo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A must watch
    God bless you ma'am

  • @gracepen799
    @gracepen799 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much, TED for this amazing session. I had to watch this video twice at a stretch to make sure that those messages sink well in my subconscious.
    You have helped with this message.
    By the way, Can someone help with the title of the shot video clip that was played at the beginning of the session.
    I can't wait to watch the full clip.
    Thank you.

  • @soyemiboluwatife8930
    @soyemiboluwatife8930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this...It bless me a lot, I think we really need to drum this beat in Christiandom again and again.

  • @rukayatabiodun7
    @rukayatabiodun7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen to the prayer,thank you Jesus for this word of wisdom

  • @pearlchikumbi1675
    @pearlchikumbi1675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the clip at the start. If it's a full movie, please may you kindly share its title. Thank you in advance 🙏🏽☺️
    Great topic I must add.

    • @joannakolawole2378
      @joannakolawole2378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Link to the movie:
      Last man standing Part 1
      th-cam.com/video/tkcAte_kDrg/w-d-xo.html
      Part 2:
      th-cam.com/video/D355ECnJBRg/w-d-xo.html

    • @pearlchikumbi1675
      @pearlchikumbi1675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joannakolawole2378 Thank you very much sis 🙏🏽☺️

  • @amyofpurpose
    @amyofpurpose 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Mas!!!
    This is SUCH A BLESSING!!!

  • @shodipoalice7362
    @shodipoalice7362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you guys real good
    I pray the Lord sustain you guys for himself AMEN

  • @ajibadedorcas6968
    @ajibadedorcas6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much "THE TED" I'm blessed by your message.

  • @popoolafavourisaiah1896
    @popoolafavourisaiah1896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent! This is really from a devine source, it really blessed me. Am also a fellow been tomented by ungodly advise of friends abt sex everyday, I can do without them every day, then this program as develop my disciplinary measure on self control. God bless TED🙏

  • @monicacrankson998
    @monicacrankson998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love it. Thanks for standing with the truth and sharing with us. More grace and strength from God 🙏🙏