These are 5 MISTAKES I HAVE MADE IN POLAND
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2023
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In Poland, we define a friend as a person we have known for a long time. When we have just met someone, we call them znajomy.
znajomy - just a friendly man who is known by us ; kolega - someone with we like to talk more often ; przyjaciel - very close friend, almost family member
Znajomy literally means "known-person" or acquittance.
Exactly
@@beem6773but in practice “znajomy” is actually more like “friend” than “acquaintance”. Especially when you say “I go out with my friends = wychodzę ze znajomymi”.
When you know someone for a long time sometimes you know that he she is not your friend. But polish friendiness is better than british.
People in Poland do not have time and have a lot to do(excepr for students, clerks, some girls)
"Neutral is a great word to describe Polish people in almost everything" 😂 I love this and couldn't agree more
Polish people are like companions in RPG games. Their basic affection status is neutral, so your decision and behavior get you point on + or - hahah :)
My Grandfather always was telling me" if YOU on time You are already late! "Poles we love people to be on time!
I've lived in Poland for four years now and have been visiting for maybe fifteen years.What you say is true.I have found exactly the same.
I like your channel. It’s amazing and funny how the foreigners are seeing us Poles. The TIME stuff is spot on 👍
I like it how well you "get" the spirit of Poland and Polish people. Even if you're generalizing, I find myself in most of your stories 😂, so it's not that bad 😉.
A friend is a person that will answer your phone call at 3AM, water your plants or feed your cat when you are on vacation and lend you money if needed and offers to pick up your medicine when you are sick.Polish people usually have a spare key of their neighbours place (in case that's tells a lot)
In Polish, there are really two words that we use quite frequently when referring to certain relationships. znajomy meaning acquaintance, but przyjaciół is a friend. Where, as in the US, for instance, when we’ve just met somebody, we still say, that’s a friend and not an acquaintance.
Gdy pracowalam jako pielegniarka w uk kolezanki angielki zwracaly mi uwage na to jak sie do nich odzywam, w sensie bez typowogo lizania dupy tylko zrob to, podaj mi to. Dopiero po dluzszym czasie zrozumialam o co im chodzi :D
True. We are expected to be punctual from an early age. But many people are not really punctual,another thing is that for us 5 minutes is already late ^^ Being nice or polite does not mean friendship. Only good manners. Friendship is more complicated ^^ It is true that Poles do not smile enough, we do not show our feelings that much. Most of the time we have neutral facial expression. Only the very strong filings shows... if we are very happu, or very sad or angry... unless you are a teenager XD
Well, I'm Polish and unfortunately, you are correct. It's unfortunate because everything you mentioned comes from being self-entered and a bit egoistical. People focus on themselves and their feelings instead of thinking of someone else - making a stanger's day better by setting your own problems aside for a split second - that's not an option for a lot of people in Poland. It comes from years, decades, maybe longer, of people living in very bad conditions (wars, communism, etc) where you had to take care of yourself to survive and that didn't leave a lot of space for caring about the the well-being of strangers. Being kind to others is still considered foolish by many people in Poland - you are a "frajer" because they assume no one is gonna return the favour. They think if you're smiling you're being fake - as if they can't fantom that someone might be smiling because they want to improve someone else's well-being. Now I'm complaining like a typical Pole... 😂
haha couldn't love this comment more!
Haha so true! Living the the US and coming to visit Poland on a regular basis, I’m able to see everything from a different perspective.
Polish vocabulary is quite extensive & there are many words that can describe different types of relationships. Friend - przyjaciel, colleague - kolega , acquaintance - znajomy, fellow worker- wspolpracownik, etc. The misunderstanding comes when we try to apply American's "friend" to different cultures like Polish culture. America's "friend" is a broad word that can include anyone where Polish word friend - "przyjaciel" is very distinctive.
good material, a lot of true words about us
Welcome to my back yard, Wilanow
You are spot on about 'generalizations'. Sure not EVERYONE, but as you say, generalizations are there probably for a reason--they've been recognized by others and yes, cultures have things about them that could set them apart from other cultures. Nothing wrong at all with acknowledging that. I like your videos, and like your enthusiasm for your wife's country and culture.
😑 smiling in Polish
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You are awesome Mate. Great job! Greetings from UK
Cool necklace. My grandma had one just like this😜
I remember when my Colombian ex told me story they were supposed to meet at the pitch at 5pm to play. He came almost at 6pm and there was noone in there 😅 people starter showing around seven. "Ahorita" concept over there is crazy, it can mean anything 😂
you know it!
Thank you for another amazing episode
I am polish and i totally agree with the first one on time i went to Costa Rica last month set up a guided nature tour and 30 minutes after agreed time no one showed up i was about to call them when they showed uo 45 minutes late i was like wtf is going on so yeah i experienced that myself
Good luck men, great channel.
Hit the nail on the head with punctuality. We do not hesitate to end relationships if the other person is not punctual, as it is a sign of total lack of respect.
No już bez przesady. Nie jesteśmy Niemcami. 15 minut się można spóźnić. Szczególnie jeśli to jakieś przyjęcie to w złym tonie jest być na czas albo wcześniej
Można się spóźnić, ale wypada uprzedzić i przeprosić.
Stoic is a better world than neutral.
Some people, mostly women but not always, have so-called "resting bitch face". Their natural, neutral face looks as if they wanted to kill you on the spot. When called, they can even say "WHAAT!" in an aggressive manner, but that is still an illusion, because those could be very sweet people once you know them, unless you won't step on their toes ;). Then the hell will break loose.
hehe yep dokładnie ;D
Hi, actually I agree and same applies to.most nations
When I was young and overslept or something I would rather stay home than be late to school, and my parents let me xD I also always am at least 15-20 minutes before time to everything I do.
INTERESTING OBSERVATIONS .
Most of Poles I know have really limited social circles, mainly composed of family members rather than external friends or even work colleagues. I attempted to shake this attitude because it gets lonely, insular and having Polish-only social circle would drive me delirious.
Where were you walking? It was quite beautiful.
Pałac w Wilanowie ☺️
expectations vs reality 😅
Tbh you are too positive about Poland!bit anyway thank you for your effort and kindness
00:27 Jak sądzisz że tamten park był brzydki to pojedź do Łodzi xDDD(pozdro dla polaków którzy to przeczytali)
Heard someone explain that smiles are not there when people don't like one another too much.
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WE TRY VERY HARD TO BE ON TIME .
To w końcu Ty Ola czy Dżejti jesteś❔
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2:41 In US it's literally called _Polish Face..._
Eres colombiano paisano ?
dominicano! :)
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People I can call as a friend I know for at least 10 years.
Lubimy z siebie wyrzucic to co nas boli,powiedzmy jedf to forma odtrucia😅
Well the thing with being friendly,. it is so obvious to me that I do not understand how is that bad. I just met You. You mean one minute time in my live.. I'm not Your friend. Actually we say more often a colleague. Friend is exceptional. I would call maybe a 3 people in my live a friend.
Well... I'm really happy about the time, they are really good about that. That's something I don't like in Puerto Rico. Although my girlfriend still has problems understanding "horita", a not defined time. It could be past, it could be the future. Yup, I don't like that they don't smile or joke like us... the complaining... ufff, I hate that, they have everything n anyway, they complain. 🤷 They should live in a Latino country.🤔k Friendly, no, they are not, and if u compare them to us, latinos, uff, they are far from that. One thing that it's really weird for me, is the way they stare at you, men that's so rude for us. U could be shot if you stay looking at someone. Now I understand that's the way they are... but man... it's weird 😅😅
oh the stares! especially older people! they 👀👀👀
Do you really believe in friendships,no matter how long people have known each other?
True friends without any benefits included,without any time frame.?
In the commo days, no one was ever on time and that annoyed me constantly. Maybe now they have a NEW respect for punctuality but it was not always so. Many things have improved since the bad old commo days and maybe punctuality is included.
Building an apartment building was definitely not on time in commo days
So you in general 11:51 11:51 11:51 , express, mostly negative parts of the society. Baya, artras o Hawaii.
Culture has consequences. Lack of punctuality in Latin America directly translates to poverty and inequality. Their superfictial friendliness is fear driven.
Zeby rozumiec kraje slowianskie , a tym bardziej Polske ...trzeba poznac jezyk, kulture, historie!!!
Co do krajow poludniowo amerykanskich ...co z tego , ze sie usmiechacie...chodzi o poziom zycia , bezpieczenstwo , rozwoj etc. ...
Good to see you got somewhat civilize in Poland but you still has a long way to go to drop your latin ways.
I would delete this comment for obvious reasons but I’ll leave it here for others to see your racist remarks.
@@VigosDad I do not believe that inferiority of Latin American culture has biological basis, so it is not racist unless you believe it is in your genes and thus it can't be fixed.
Mistake nr 1: moving in ;)
you don't look like "outsider"