I was a people pleaser for decades. Like you, I was used, abused and hurt so many times over the years. The people who should have supported me were the worst for using me. Family members..I'd give, give, give money, time, Whatever they needed, I was there .That ended when I had a stroke in my 40's. They didn't visit or even ring the ward, or my husband, to ask how I was. My own mother and my 2 sisters! What did I do? I stopped saying Yes to anything I didnt want to do, to everyone!! We got jobs abroad, emigrated from the Uk, and didn't look back!! Massive changes, yes they were. I don't regret the decisions we made for a single second. They're out of my life, and it feels as if an anchor has been cut from my ankle. No longer dragged down by anger, hurt and resentment
Rosie, i really appreciate how hard you have been working this season. I love your videos! But please don't get too tired doing too much. I hope you can take a good rest when Christmas arrives. Lots of love. Xxxxxxxx
I think i need that book ,im 53 and still make bad decisions where friends are concerned ,my friendships recently have been one sided and it makes me question myself always x great video
Hi Rosie. I am with you with slippers. I love slippers for Christmas. My sister buys me a new pair every year. Then I put the old ones at the front and back door in our shoebox, for popping on to go out in the garden and the garage.
I always ask for slippers, my children decided one year that they would all buy me a pair of the daftest slippers they could find, it was hilarious... I should add I have 8 children😂😂😂
Rosie that is a gift beautiful photo frame with picture, I ask my sister to do it every year from my nephew and also canvas painting which my 5vyearcold nephew does. There the best gifts and thought has gone into it. Loved this video great ideas x
Beautiful gifts ideas Rosie. I struggle to find good silk pillowcases as find on the back of the box it's says 100% polyester yet say Silk on the front which is really naughty I feel. Great Video and some really good prices too for things that look really expensive 😊 totally with you on why you should expect a reward when you find someone's personal things. I left my handbag once on a shopping trolley it had my purse, phone and house keys didn't in realise til I got home and when I drove back it was handed in with a lovely note from a lady...she did write her name and address down and I sent her a thank you card and an M&S voucher as was relieved it was handed in. 😊
Rosie, love watching you. You are so down to earth and champion positive parenting and seeing the good in everything. Infectious. I am in New Zealand but visit the UK regularly, so nice to see the different shopping options too. Have a wonderful Christmas xx
Love the fingerprint necklace, and to have your husband’s print on it is beautiful. What a great informative Vlog Rosie, thank you so much, I have lots of ideas now xx
Some lovely gifts Rosie, love how you are introducing your daughter very slowly to skin care and make up, yes over the years l have had to learn to say no or if someone says something at one time l would just agree put now if l do not agree l will say so, may give the book a go x
I live in Massachusetts where Yankee Candle flagship store is... I've always loved them but their candles aren't as good as they used to be and the cost is very high. Pretty disappointing. 😕
I used to also love Yankee candles, my sister in law and I were always burning them and had no issues. Whatever they have done to them means neither of us can use them, candles we used to buy have changed and make us both wheeze. It’s disappointing to say the least, they used to be so good and I used to recommend them to everyone, now the few shops that had them locally have stop selling them too!
This was such a good gift guide with really good ideas , things I would love to receive, and your friends and family are so lucky that you are so thoughtful 😊❤
Loved this Vlog Rosie, I am a people pleaser and I have been used so many times over the years with previous friends. I have got better over the last few years but I have wasted so much time and energy over the years on people who took me and my kindness for granted. Xx❤
You sound so like me, I’m a people pleaser and feel like a bit of a doormat sometimes. I’m really working on it and I’m determined as I get older 5….. that I won’t do that anymore. I like to help people and I accept I’m a sensitive person and that’s ok (that was a lesson in itself 😅) but I’m learning to take a step back from people who take advantage of me and i people should respect me the same way I respect them. It’s a tough one to learn and I’ve downloaded that book and am looking forward to listening to it xx
My granddaughter is 11 in year 7. She loves skin care, she too uses clear brow and mascara gel. She has a very subtle style, I love it. I always say pick your battles too,its about compromise. You really are a lovely person x
Wonderful vlog Rosie and some beautiful ideas for presents ❤ I have been a people pleaser all my life and how many times l have been persuaded to do something l really didn't want to do just to keep the peace. I am 59 now ( still 21 in my head 😂) . I have learnt to say no ,not easy as l still feel quilty for a while afterwards but l have decicided that l need to love myself a bit more and life goes by so quickly that l don't want to make someone else happy if doing so dosen't make me happy too. You really are a beautiful person inside and out ❤🎄🎅❤️ xxx
I can’t use LUSH,the first time I tried their stuff, and it was only a soap, I ended up having to take antihistamine to stop all the itching, it went in the bin so fast. Just a little warning to anyone who wants to try, it may well have just been my sensitive skin but I thought worth a mention.
Lovely gifts Rosie, some great ideas….thank you.❤️ I used to be a ppl pleaser, but got taken advantage of too many times. As you get older, your attitude changes, & you realise who cares about you & who doesn’t. Now at the age of 62 I have no problem saying no (politely) 😉
Great gift guide, Rosie. It would be great to see guides for others and maybe in the future look at specified stores such as M&S, Next Fat Face, etc. What about ideas for purchasing experiences for specific people or ideas of experiences. Thanks again Rosie❤
M&S gloves are really good quality. I have several coloured sets. I had some from John Lewis, and the pair were of very poor quality and had to return them
Zara perfumes are stunning and so strong always get compliments and do smaller sizes for 12.99 100ml 22.99 Rose Gourmand/Memorable Aura/Red Temptation Floral or sweet are some of my fave
Well I hope your family and besties are babes from watching vlogmas 😂😂 Thanks for sharing your ideas that book is definitely on my list. Maybe at 56 I can learn how to say No too 😊❤
Thanks Rosie! It's like the British invaded Homegoods and Marshall's here. Cath Kidston and William Morris hand creams and stunning holiday cards from the UK!
I’m making gifts for my family this year.. We just can’t afford to buy gifts & I love to give presents.. I have a ton of craft stuff so gonna put it too good use..I loved your gift ideas. I brought Abbott Lyon jewellery for my daughter last Christmas..😊❤❤
That book sounds amazing, I need to read it. We are never to old to learn and get help, to better work through challenges esp involving people close to us. Great gift guide, lots of inspo, thanks Rosie ❤
Hi Rosie, Love your channel, this one gave me lots of ideas . One of them is the book. I am going to get my daughter one as she is just like you. She has been hurt in the past with her kind heart and I think this might help her not to be so sore on herself.
Rosie i love big rings just like your mum. I don't do false nails or nail polish. I prefer natural, clean,sort nails. So i found these beautiful rings from a business call Corkey and Stoner. Im not affiliated. I ordered one ring. Ita absolutely beautiful. Then a second. Hand made. Gorgeous rings. Just thought id mention. Tell your mum. I can vouch for the quality. Plus excellent customer services. Rings come very well presented. Comfortable for big rings. See what you think. ❤
Love this gift guide! Thank you ❤ I think I may have missed where the fleece dressing gown was from. Are you able to advise? It looks so cosy! Thank you 🥰
you are truly such a beautiful lady rosie ☺️ i hope you don't mind me saying you remind me of martine mccutcheon has anybody ever told you that before?? i am exactly the same as yourself such a people pleaser and i also suffer from body dysmorphia but it's such a mean world out there at times and that upsets me ☹️ it's so strange that you showed the philippa perry book as i actually rented it from the library on wednesday i just need to start reading it now 😆💋❤️
Hi Rosie, your always thought full when buying presents & you've bought some lovely things. I buy my jewellery from Abbott Lyon they do some nice things bought my daughter and grandaughter earings for Xmas they will love them. ❤️ ❤ I've bought my grandaughter & daughter earrings.
Rosie I was a biggggg collector of Emma bridgewater, had it all, however I’ve been so disappointed with crazing I’ve stopped collecting it and have been selling it. I’m with you on the dressing gown front x
Lol you make me so hot and bothered with al the warm cloves and nice gown, from south africa and it is warm today 36 degrees and with my menopouse it is bad. Love all the gift ideas.😂🎉🎄🎆🎇⭐️
Brilliant Rosie especially the book what a find, l totally agree about parents having conversations regarding what they have agreed is fair depending on their age but l don’t know how this could be arranged and if people would be willing to take part it’s such a big subject best wishes from Lynda good luck with the teen years at least you are with Gary a lot of parents are on there own.❤
Rosie, any tips for removing TK Maxx price stickers? They put me off buying gifts there as I can never get the sticker off and then the it looks terrible😩
Hi rosie.i love the smell of lush.i am always wary using things in the bath esp with glitter cos i know i will end up with thrush. I got bought some so i use it for soaking my feet 😂😂😂😂😂..i have very smooth feet 😂
I tried the silk pillow cases but couldn't get on with them. Great pressies you got, loved them all, especially the lovley chocolate brown gloves would love those, must make few hints to my daghters😂❤
Please don’t put your rings on a necklace my sister in law wore her mums wedding and engagement rings on a necklace and she lost it all when the necklace broke she was inconsolable 😩
woop woop how fabulous so so romantic congratulations to you both didn't the boy do well x❤❤🎉🎉 with help from Leonora well done Andy you have a Fabulous princess ❤
I was a people pleaser for decades. Like you, I was used, abused and hurt so many
times over the years. The people who should have supported me were the worst for using me. Family members..I'd give, give, give money, time, Whatever they needed, I was there .That ended when I had a stroke in my 40's. They didn't visit or even ring the ward, or my husband, to ask how I was. My own mother and my 2 sisters! What did I do? I stopped saying Yes to anything I didnt want to do, to everyone!! We got jobs abroad, emigrated from the Uk, and didn't look back!! Massive changes, yes they were. I don't regret the decisions we made for a single second. They're out of my life, and it feels as if an anchor has been cut from my ankle. No longer dragged down by anger, hurt and resentment
Weldone you 😊
That was a really genuine video 🥰 so many TH-camrs just promote all stuff that’s sent to them
Slippers are a definite gift. My mum loves her slippers but she appreciates them more so at the moment because her puppy takes a liking to them x
Rosie, i really appreciate how hard you have been working this season. I love your videos! But please don't get too tired doing too much. I hope you can take a good rest when Christmas arrives. Lots of love. Xxxxxxxx
I think i need that book ,im 53 and still make bad decisions where friends are concerned ,my friendships recently have been one sided and it makes me question myself always x great video
Hi Rosie. I am with you with slippers. I love slippers for Christmas. My sister buys me a new pair every year. Then I put the old ones at the front and back door in our shoebox, for popping on to go out in the garden and the garage.
I always ask for slippers, my children decided one year that they would all buy me a pair of the daftest slippers they could find, it was hilarious... I should add I have 8 children😂😂😂
you are a very kind, creative, and beautiful woman
Agree ❤
Thankyou both ♥️♥️♥️
hey can you please wear leather gloves and do a movie reaction to anaconda
I have the bell candle in silver I love it wish I picked up more
Lovely ideas. I love the book at the end. I do love to gift a book. I got a whole bundle from the charity shop for a friend. X
Rosie that is a gift beautiful photo frame with picture, I ask my sister to do it every year from my nephew and also canvas painting which my 5vyearcold nephew does. There the best gifts and thought has gone into it. Loved this video great ideas x
Beautiful gifts ideas Rosie. I struggle to find good silk pillowcases as find on the back of the box it's says 100% polyester yet say Silk on the front which is really naughty I feel. Great Video and some really good prices too for things that look really expensive 😊 totally with you on why you should expect a reward when you find someone's personal things. I left my handbag once on a shopping trolley it had my purse, phone and house keys didn't in realise til I got home and when I drove back it was handed in with a lovely note from a lady...she did write her name and address down and I sent her a thank you card and an M&S voucher as was relieved it was handed in. 😊
Hey Rosie, in case you didn't know, Catherine from Dainty Dairies gave you a shout out yesterday 😊.
Aww I know that was really kind I love Catherine's videos and was shocked to see me being mentioned lol xx
hey can you please wear leather gloves and do a movie reaction to anaconda
Rosie, love watching you. You are so down to earth and champion positive parenting and seeing the good in everything. Infectious. I am in New Zealand but visit the UK regularly, so nice to see the different shopping options too. Have a wonderful Christmas xx
Love the fingerprint necklace, and to have your husband’s print on it is beautiful.
What a great informative Vlog Rosie, thank you so much, I have lots of ideas now xx
Some lovely gifts Rosie, love how you are introducing your daughter very slowly to skin care and make up, yes over the years l have had to learn to say no or if someone says something at one time l would just agree put now if l do not agree l will say so, may give the book a go x
We always used to get a photo of our kids for my nan for Christmas 🎄 she adored her greatgrandbabies & she loved her photos ❤ great gift Rosie ❤
I live in Massachusetts where Yankee Candle flagship store is... I've always loved them but their candles aren't as good as they used to be and the cost is very high. Pretty disappointing. 😕
Yes I agree! I used to love them and I don't think years ago they could be beaten on smell. However I find they are not as strong anymore xx
I used to also love Yankee candles, my sister in law and I were always burning them and had no issues. Whatever they have done to them means neither of us can use them, candles we used to buy have changed and make us both wheeze. It’s disappointing to say the least, they used to be so good and I used to recommend them to everyone, now the few shops that had them locally have stop selling them too!
Yes the DW candles from Homesense are lush!
This was such a good gift guide with really good ideas , things I would love to receive, and your friends and family are so lucky that you are so thoughtful 😊❤
Loved this Vlog Rosie, I am a people pleaser and I have been used so many times over the years with previous friends. I have got better over the last few years but I have wasted so much time and energy over the years on people who took me and my kindness for granted. Xx❤
You sound so like me, I’m a people pleaser and feel like a bit of a doormat sometimes. I’m really working on it and I’m determined as I get older 5….. that I won’t do that anymore. I like to help people and I accept I’m a sensitive person and that’s ok (that was a lesson in itself 😅) but I’m learning to take a step back from people who take advantage of me and i people should respect me the same way I respect them. It’s a tough one to learn and I’ve downloaded that book and am looking forward to listening to it xx
My granddaughter is 11 in year 7. She loves skin care, she too uses clear brow and mascara gel. She has a very subtle style, I love it. I always say pick your battles too,its about compromise. You really are a lovely person x
Wonderful vlog Rosie and some beautiful ideas for presents ❤ I have been a people pleaser all my life and how many times l have been persuaded to do something l really didn't want to do just to keep the peace. I am 59 now ( still 21 in my head 😂) . I have learnt to say no ,not easy as l still feel quilty for a while afterwards but l have decicided that l need to love myself a bit more and life goes by so quickly that l don't want to make someone else happy if doing so dosen't make me happy too. You really are a beautiful person inside and out ❤🎄🎅❤️ xxx
I can’t use LUSH,the first time I tried their stuff, and it was only a soap, I ended up having to take antihistamine to stop all the itching, it went in the bin so fast. Just a little warning to anyone who wants to try, it may well have just been my sensitive skin but I thought worth a mention.
I've got fairly sensitive skin but nothing OTT. I can't use anything from Lush, either
I can't bear Lush. Even the smell when I'm walking past the shop is just overwhelming, it's so strong.😢
What a thoughtful haul Rosie, my mum always brought amazing gifts also ❤️ xx
Lovely gifts Rosie, some great ideas….thank you.❤️
I used to be a ppl pleaser, but got taken advantage of too many times. As you get older, your attitude changes, & you realise who cares about you & who doesn’t. Now at the age of 62 I have no problem saying no (politely) 😉
I’m with you on that.. It does get easier to say no & set boundaries. In a kind way obviously.. It keeps you sane..❤❤
@ it certainly does
Another fab video!!!! You are a busy bee for us this season...thank you!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉
Great video.. loved all the gifts.. I could do with reading that book ❤
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Thankyou!! ♥️♥️
Thanks for the heads up Amy!👍👌🥰
Great gift guide, Rosie. It would be great to see guides for others and maybe in the future look at specified stores such as M&S, Next Fat Face, etc. What about ideas for purchasing experiences for specific people or ideas of experiences. Thanks again Rosie❤
M&S gloves are really good quality. I have several coloured sets. I had some from John Lewis, and the pair were of very poor quality and had to return them
Yes they are wery good the silk pillowcase im using it from long time and I woke up in the morning its like i brush my hair i recommend ❤
I love how creative you are. I’m definitely getting one of those dressing gowns ❤
Hi Rosie, just to let you know you can get those dressing gowns in Marks & Spencer‘s for £17 now if you have a Sparks card. I have bought two.
Zara perfumes are stunning and so strong always get compliments and do smaller sizes for 12.99 100ml 22.99 Rose Gourmand/Memorable Aura/Red Temptation Floral or sweet are some of my fave
My husband wears a lovely man's one from there called red and I'm amazed at how long it lasts and for 100ml the price is fab x
Well I hope your family and besties are babes from watching vlogmas 😂😂 Thanks for sharing your ideas that book is definitely on my list. Maybe at 56 I can learn how to say No too 😊❤
Oh Rosie some great gift ideas. Loved the look of the book for my daughter Your chain and pendant beautiful.
Thanks Rosie! It's like the British invaded Homegoods and Marshall's here. Cath Kidston and William Morris hand creams and stunning holiday cards from the UK!
I’m making gifts for my family this year.. We just can’t afford to buy gifts & I love to give presents.. I have a ton of craft stuff so gonna put it too good use..I loved your gift ideas. I brought Abbott Lyon jewellery for my daughter last Christmas..😊❤❤
Always go to M&S for leather gloves whenever I've lost one cause they never wear out.
Lovely video, tfs!
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100% can't beat TKMaxx for candles!
Hi Rosie, i love how creative you are and how you put alot thought in your gifts for others 😊
Hi Rosie, was good just watching your video ! Thank you for sharing.
Another great video , wise words I used to be a doormat who couldn't say no with age comes wisdom ❤
Really enjoying your videos, Rosie. Thanks for giving us inspiration 🥰
That book sounds amazing, I need to read it. We are never to old to learn and get help, to better work through challenges esp involving people close to us. Great gift guide, lots of inspo, thanks Rosie ❤
Hi Rosie. Love your blogs. I’ve liked it even though I haven’t seen it yet. Know it will be great. Much love hun xx
Loved the video some good ideas
Lovely gifts, and the book at the end looked a good read.
Happy new year 🎉 to the henshaw
Hi Rosie, Love your channel, this one gave me lots of ideas . One of them is the book. I am going to get my daughter one as she is just like you. She has been hurt in the past with her kind heart and I think this might help her not to be so sore on herself.
Just ordered the red jacket £20 at the minute thank you ❤❤
Me too, I have just ordered one of the short dressing gowns and a bargain at £20.
Really enjoying your Vlogmas Rosie 🎄
Great ideas, Ro Ro 😂 I have got the grey lounge jacket it's the most comfortable cosy thing ever 👍👍💞🌲🎄💞
Rosie i love big rings just like your mum. I don't do false nails or nail polish. I prefer natural, clean,sort nails. So i found these beautiful rings from a business call Corkey and Stoner. Im not affiliated. I ordered one ring. Ita absolutely beautiful. Then a second. Hand made. Gorgeous rings. Just thought id mention. Tell your mum. I can vouch for the quality. Plus excellent customer services. Rings come very well presented. Comfortable for big rings. See what you think. ❤
Love this gift guide! Thank you ❤ I think I may have missed where the fleece dressing gown was from. Are you able to advise? It looks so cosy! Thank you 🥰
I've been looking for silk pillowcases but they are so expensive, I'm curious to know if these ones are real 100% silk? X
Thankyou so much Rosie ..This is so helpful and so many idea's I have written down now ! 😍 Your lovely 💕
Great video Rosie, some lovely ideas so thank you for sharing it 💕
Loved this gift guide xx
Great ideas RoRo!❤
Thankyou babe ♥️💕
you are truly such a beautiful lady rosie ☺️ i hope you don't mind me saying you remind me of martine mccutcheon has anybody ever told you that before?? i am exactly the same as yourself such a people pleaser and i also suffer from body dysmorphia but it's such a mean world out there at times and that upsets me ☹️ it's so strange that you showed the philippa perry book as i actually rented it from the library on wednesday i just need to start reading it now 😆💋❤️
Fantastic gift guide Rosie x
Hi Rosie, your always thought full when buying presents & you've bought some lovely things. I buy my jewellery from Abbott Lyon
they do some nice things bought my daughter and grandaughter
earings for Xmas they will love them. ❤️ ❤
I've bought my grandaughter & daughter earrings.
Great idea about elevating PJs thank you
Thankyou hunni ♥️💕
Loved it all. I would proudly give any of those gifts and I would be delighted to receive any of them. Thank you for the good suggestions.
Gary smelling candle Rosie u crack me up 🤣🤣
Hi Rosie fab haul love the red jacket and the jewellery stunning ❤
Thankyou hunni ♥️💕
Beautiful gifts Rosie you have such good ideas 🎄❤ xxx
Lovely video Rosie lots of great gift ideas ❤
Hi Rosie, just wondering if you would mind telling me where you got your sofa cushions from, love your style 💕 Thank you x
I think it was Bedeck
Lovely ideas xx
Love video you have some lovely gifts for Xmas ❤
Thanks Rosie - great video xxx
Rosie I was a biggggg collector of Emma bridgewater, had it all, however I’ve been so disappointed with crazing I’ve stopped collecting it and have been selling it. I’m with you on the dressing gown front x
Lol you make me so hot and bothered with al the warm cloves and nice gown, from south africa and it is warm today 36 degrees and with my menopouse it is bad. Love all the gift ideas.😂🎉🎄🎆🎇⭐️
Great video x
Thank you Rosie a lovely thoughtful vlog 😊🎄😊
Loved this haul, the items were a bit of me mugs, frames but really liked the red fleece jacket/short dressing gown xx
Hi Rosie, another great video, you have given me so many ideas xx ❤
Lovely earrings ❤
Brilliant Rosie especially the book what a find, l totally agree about parents having conversations regarding what they have agreed is fair depending on their age but l don’t know how this could be arranged and if people would be willing to take part it’s such a big subject best wishes from Lynda good luck with the teen years at least you are with Gary a lot of parents are on there own.❤
Rosie, any tips for removing TK Maxx price stickers? They put me off buying gifts there as I can never get the sticker off and then the it looks terrible😩
Fab video Rosie... there was something amazing ideas. Please take care and all my love xx ❤️
Hi rosie.i love the smell of lush.i am always wary using things in the bath esp with glitter cos i know i will end up with thrush. I got bought some so i use it for soaking my feet 😂😂😂😂😂..i have very smooth feet 😂
😂I do the same,anything too perfumed becomes afoot soak😂
I tried the silk pillow cases but couldn't get on with them. Great pressies you got, loved them all, especially the lovley chocolate brown gloves would love those, must make few hints to my daghters😂❤
Lovely vlog Rosie great ideas you are such a lovely person.x
Thanks for your gift guide Rosie, very helpful & much appreciated. 👌👍❤️
Great gifts, what lovley necklace you got
Nice gift ideas.xx
You have brilliant ideas. Thank you for sharing your tips.
Great ideas, thank you. ❤ I love Emma Bridgewater mugs but I find they dont keep my tea hot and gave up using them. - Frances.
How you have not been snapped up for telly work I will never know!
Great video,thanks Rosie ❤️
Please don’t put your rings on a necklace my sister in law wore her mums wedding and engagement rings on a necklace and she lost it all when the necklace broke she was inconsolable 😩
Sage advice, I have known people who have had a similar heart wrenching experience. 🥺 It’s just not worth the risk imo.
Lovely haul Rosie love the jewellery beautiful gift piece !x❤
Hi Rosie, I don't think satin is the same of silk.
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Nice video. Love the pen and notebook idea
💖 keep being you
woop woop how fabulous so so romantic congratulations to you both didn't the boy do well x❤❤🎉🎉 with help from Leonora well done Andy you have a Fabulous princess ❤
Think you've put this comment on the wrong video xxx
Hi Rosie, did that say satin on the box, not silk ? X