Personally as an INFJ, I really like the ENTJ's intelligence, directness, confidence and humor. Surprisingly, a healthy Entj's humor does not offend me at all. They can also be the most loyal and deep friend to have. Aristotle was an ENTJ, and I resonate with his views. Only friends of virtue can have a lasting friendship. Friends of utility and pleasure will last till the benefits are gone.
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 Thank you! Hmmm...in my opinion, the infj and entj can be qiite alike though many might disagree. My two close friends are Korean and Chinese - non Singaporean. We believe in destiny but it is hard to explain this feeling. 感情细腻竟是命运伏笔 - a chinese song lyrics
10:50 is so incorrect. I think the speaker mistakenly talks about ISFJ instead of INFJ. I haven't met an INFJ who can't reason. This is so misleading. I am an ENTJ-A and my best friends are INTJ, ISFJ, ExFJ. My romantic interest is an INFJ. The reason why I love INFJs are because they love learning and reasoning while being the kindest people I know. Notice that even with ISFJ (who has difficulties grasping complex ideas), I can be their best friend because I respect the fact that they are kind and they are careful and not hasty, and they just love learning from me and witnessing how my brain works and trust my reasoning. The relationship I know I can't have is with xSxP. I can't. They won't survive me and I won't survive the relationship. I had an encounter with an ISFP once in my entire life (at work) and I instantly grateful that nobody in my circles is an ISFP (I think they automatically screen me out of their circles and they are invisible to me). I have difficulties dealing with ESxP because they love talking but their talks never have any essence. They are time-wasters. Keep xSxP away from me and I'll be content, and keep any xNxJ close to me and I'll be happy.
I agree. People mistaken ISFJs with INFJs. I know many ISFJs too. My immdeiate younger brother is an ISFJ. I've found that a lot of Si doms or aux find it difficult to give reasonable explanations to things. ISTJs and ESTJs are better at providing correct facts about situations. But when you pursue them for an explanation, they're unable to contextually explain themselves. I'm engaged to an ENTJ whom I love dearly. Explaining things in a way he grasps and understands is the primary reason we're even at this point. I feel like a lot of people easily mix INFJs and ISFJs because Fe+Ti makes our grasp of situations very similar but depth and capacity to make it relatable is where we differ.
Omg no way. You are so accurate🤣🤣🤣 OMG i thought my ENTJ husband had changed his approaches to me because of my 'successful logical explanation' about feelings. After I saw this vid, I found out that my explanation is actually not logical enough for him 🤣🤣🤣🤣. He genuinely adapt to my emotional needs recently, and I can appreaciate that even more after I watched this. It means he has lowered his ego now, wow! And yes I wanted him to lead more at home, and I didn't get it why it didn't happened? He is an ENTJ, rite? I used to try to restrain my intention to control. After seeing this video, I found out that it's okay for me to have some control at home and he definitely likes it. Love and commitment with an effective communication could ease many problems and you just showed me in your vid. Thanks.
Lol my bf is an INFJ. I tell him all the time to just tell me what he wants and thinks and feels. I also copy his actions that he shows me how much he loves me. I know that's how he expresses his love, so to let him know I love him too I treat him the same! Plus he loves how direct I am and how I'm not afraid to get what I want. He's definitely much nicer than I am at work. If I was in his position I told him what I would do. If someone try's to put me in a situation where I can't say no, then I'm saying no and then they have to deal with the consequences of their actions. I love him so much!
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 no thats the way I ask things. Like: "do you remember that time when we went outside?" Then he says: yes we can go again if you want. So he got used to my manner of asking and talking in general.
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 I’m a INFJ. We only say things indirectly because some other personally type might get offended if they never experienced or noticed some things before. So is a INFJ to be careful of what to say to people, we want to help people to realise what is happening but nobody cares and also want to be kind. And I know that ENTJ are strong and smart but also to me is one sided. ENTJ are not good at slowing down which some how ignoring, other type of person that can’t take care of themself, when in need for help.And basically it become a habit of INFJ to be indirect at times to others because of trust issues because we have been abandoned before. Another thing is I also admire the ENTJ the ways you do things and value are interestingly strong. And I can’t find one or haven’t talk to any ENTJ in reality before. Is the sentences and honesty are straight forward enough😊 I can write more if you want.😊 why we are like this, I have most of the informations of my knowledge and experience about things in life. And somebody might be crying in the heart now. For saving in the hard disk of storing information in the brain.
i disagree with the teacher example. That seems like a very ISFJ thing to do. Ni-Fe-Ti is more in tune with the intricacies of human conditioning. They would agree that punctuality is relative. It seems some INFJs you’ve met may have been mistyped.
Omg at 7:30 you make such a good point especially with ISFJs. I had a boss who was an ISFJ and I had to do a boat wash. We wouldn't be back to the dock until right before crew change. Him and the engineer decided to wait till we were back to the dock to wash the boat. I figured there is a hose onboard and I would have to scrub the rest of the wheel house. Might as well do it now rather than waiting till we get back to the dock and have to stay longer. I started washing and scrubbing the house. He told me to stop because they were going to do it when we got back. He was like didn't you hear me and the engineer say that? I said yes, but I figured I could get it done now with the hose we have and it'll be done. That way no one has to stay longer to clean up. He then tells me the engineer doesnt want me using the hose because I was using the water onboard. We just filled up the day before. They weren't going to run out of water. Since I didn't know the engineer said that I said okay. I'll stop. He then says you dont agree. I said it doesnt matter if I agree or not. You're the captain and if you want it done that way then I'll do it that way. He then again pushed to say that I didn't agree. I didn't want to tell him in front of the new guys, but it wasn't like we could walk somewhere else. He was steering the boat, so I told him no, I don't agree. I can just do it now and then we don't have to worry about staying later than anyone wanted to stay. He said it would be faster at the dock. If I wasn't scrubbing yes it would be faster but I'm cleaning the boat. Anyway, I told him I'll do it the way he wants and that I wasn't told to not use the hose. That was never mentioned to me. Especially, since I've been doing boat washes that way the entire time I worked for that company. Needless to say it was upsetting and annoying the way he handled the situation.
Can you believe INFJ likes to write poems, and is always long if you want to know. It’s like writing a story book for everyone to read. But they don’t care. Maybe just the xSxP type. That they can’t to be bothered.
Also, about the fortune-teller: Many prefer not to claim to “predict” the future. It seems less like Fe-Ti/Te-Fi clash, and more like a very standard miscommunication. This person most likely used Fi-Te, simply based on the example you gave, but it’s likely that’s just how you perceived the interaction as an ENTJ.
Yes, the video was a story told from the ENTJ POV. I must say there could be potential miscommunication as ENTJs generally lack patience. But these people are really INFJs. I guess the manifestations of different INFJs may be different. I live in an Asian collective culture where INFJs may have morphed a bit to prevent the weirdo label. Where do you come from selenapink98?
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 Hi! I’m Canadian, but my background is Indian so I understand what you mean about collectivist culture. I’m sure, if this person was an INFJ, they would’ve tried to get explain themselves had you communicated your confusion. I think it’s an example or Fe and Te clashing.
Personally as an INFJ, I really like the ENTJ's intelligence, directness, confidence and humor. Surprisingly, a healthy Entj's humor does not offend me at all. They can also be the most loyal and deep friend to have. Aristotle was an ENTJ, and I resonate with his views. Only friends of virtue can have a lasting friendship. Friends of utility and pleasure will last till the benefits are gone.
Do you have many ENTJ friends?
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I have two close ENTJ friends.
@@yh3428 wonderful!
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Thank you! Hmmm...in my opinion, the infj and entj can be qiite alike though many might disagree. My two close friends are Korean and Chinese - non Singaporean. We believe in destiny but it is hard to explain this feeling. 感情细腻竟是命运伏笔 - a chinese song lyrics
@@yh3428 威尼斯的泪! I do find that it's those xNxJ types that are very sensitive to lyrics.
10:50 is so incorrect. I think the speaker mistakenly talks about ISFJ instead of INFJ. I haven't met an INFJ who can't reason. This is so misleading.
I am an ENTJ-A and my best friends are INTJ, ISFJ, ExFJ. My romantic interest is an INFJ. The reason why I love INFJs are because they love learning and reasoning while being the kindest people I know.
Notice that even with ISFJ (who has difficulties grasping complex ideas), I can be their best friend because I respect the fact that they are kind and they are careful and not hasty, and they just love learning from me and witnessing how my brain works and trust my reasoning.
The relationship I know I can't have is with xSxP. I can't. They won't survive me and I won't survive the relationship. I had an encounter with an ISFP once in my entire life (at work) and I instantly grateful that nobody in my circles is an ISFP (I think they automatically screen me out of their circles and they are invisible to me).
I have difficulties dealing with ESxP because they love talking but their talks never have any essence. They are time-wasters.
Keep xSxP away from me and I'll be content, and keep any xNxJ close to me and I'll be happy.
I agree. People mistaken ISFJs with INFJs.
I know many ISFJs too. My immdeiate younger brother is an ISFJ. I've found that a lot of Si doms or aux find it difficult to give reasonable explanations to things.
ISTJs and ESTJs are better at providing correct facts about situations. But when you pursue them for an explanation, they're unable to contextually explain themselves.
I'm engaged to an ENTJ whom I love dearly. Explaining things in a way he grasps and understands is the primary reason we're even at this point.
I feel like a lot of people easily mix INFJs and ISFJs because Fe+Ti makes our grasp of situations very similar but depth and capacity to make it relatable is where we differ.
The good thing about dating a feeler type is that they help us thinkers to get into our emotions and to work through them.
But too much emotions is cringeworthy! Haha
Their presence makes us careful about how to process and express emotions.
Omg no way. You are so accurate🤣🤣🤣 OMG i thought my ENTJ husband had changed his approaches to me because of my 'successful logical explanation' about feelings. After I saw this vid, I found out that my explanation is actually not logical enough for him 🤣🤣🤣🤣. He genuinely adapt to my emotional needs recently, and I can appreaciate that even more after I watched this. It means he has lowered his ego now, wow!
And yes I wanted him to lead more at home, and I didn't get it why it didn't happened? He is an ENTJ, rite? I used to try to restrain my intention to control. After seeing this video, I found out that it's okay for me to have some control at home and he definitely likes it.
Love and commitment with an effective communication could ease many problems and you just showed me in your vid. Thanks.
Wow thank you so much for posting! It means a lot for our channel that we have helped someone!
thank you for your insights ^^
Lol my bf is an INFJ. I tell him all the time to just tell me what he wants and thinks and feels. I also copy his actions that he shows me how much he loves me. I know that's how he expresses his love, so to let him know I love him too I treat him the same! Plus he loves how direct I am and how I'm not afraid to get what I want. He's definitely much nicer than I am at work. If I was in his position I told him what I would do. If someone try's to put me in a situation where I can't say no, then I'm saying no and then they have to deal with the consequences of their actions. I love him so much!
clicked for the info, stayed for info and music cutaways.
I'm an INFJ, yes... I am long winded, comes in handy sometimes.
Thank you! Very rare to have someone who appreciate the music edits. We got so many INTJs who told us to cut them away...
"Are you hungry?" Hahahaha that was funny. Im an infj and I do this aswell with my ESTJ husband.
Oh did you do that to tease him or really out of concern now?
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 no thats the way I ask things. Like: "do you remember that time when we went outside?" Then he says: yes we can go again if you want. So he got used to my manner of asking and talking in general.
Yes, the INFJ asks questions very indirectly, must get used to it!
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 I’m a INFJ. We only say things indirectly because some other personally type might get offended if they never experienced or noticed some things before. So is a INFJ to be careful of what to say to people, we want to help people to realise what is happening but nobody cares and also want to be kind. And I know that ENTJ are strong and smart but also to me is one sided. ENTJ are not good at slowing down which some how ignoring, other type of person that can’t take care of themself, when in need for help.And basically it become a habit of INFJ to be indirect at times to others because of trust issues because we have been abandoned before. Another thing is I also admire the ENTJ the ways you do things and value are interestingly strong. And I can’t find one or haven’t talk to any ENTJ in reality before. Is the sentences and honesty are straight forward enough😊 I can write more if you want.😊 why we are like this, I have most of the informations of my knowledge and experience about things in life. And somebody might be crying in the heart now. For saving in the hard disk of storing information in
the brain.
i disagree with the teacher example. That seems like a very ISFJ thing to do. Ni-Fe-Ti is more in tune with the intricacies of human conditioning. They would agree that punctuality is relative. It seems some INFJs you’ve met may have been mistyped.
I agree. Since when doesn't and INFJ like to reason.
Omg at 7:30 you make such a good point especially with ISFJs. I had a boss who was an ISFJ and I had to do a boat wash. We wouldn't be back to the dock until right before crew change. Him and the engineer decided to wait till we were back to the dock to wash the boat. I figured there is a hose onboard and I would have to scrub the rest of the wheel house. Might as well do it now rather than waiting till we get back to the dock and have to stay longer. I started washing and scrubbing the house. He told me to stop because they were going to do it when we got back. He was like didn't you hear me and the engineer say that? I said yes, but I figured I could get it done now with the hose we have and it'll be done. That way no one has to stay longer to clean up. He then tells me the engineer doesnt want me using the hose because I was using the water onboard. We just filled up the day before. They weren't going to run out of water. Since I didn't know the engineer said that I said okay. I'll stop. He then says you dont agree. I said it doesnt matter if I agree or not. You're the captain and if you want it done that way then I'll do it that way. He then again pushed to say that I didn't agree. I didn't want to tell him in front of the new guys, but it wasn't like we could walk somewhere else. He was steering the boat, so I told him no, I don't agree. I can just do it now and then we don't have to worry about staying later than anyone wanted to stay. He said it would be faster at the dock. If I wasn't scrubbing yes it would be faster but I'm cleaning the boat. Anyway, I told him I'll do it the way he wants and that I wasn't told to not use the hose. That was never mentioned to me. Especially, since I've been doing boat washes that way the entire time I worked for that company. Needless to say it was upsetting and annoying the way he handled the situation.
Oh yes, thank you for the story, I understand how annoying F types can be. Haha
Can you believe INFJ likes to write poems, and is always long if you want to know. It’s like writing a story book for everyone to read. But they don’t care. Maybe just the xSxP type. That they can’t to be bothered.
Most spot on ! Perfect 👍 - ENTJ
Many thanks!
Also, about the fortune-teller: Many prefer not to claim to “predict” the future. It seems less like Fe-Ti/Te-Fi clash, and more like a very standard miscommunication. This person most likely used Fi-Te, simply based on the example you gave, but it’s likely that’s just how you perceived the interaction as an ENTJ.
Yes, the video was a story told from the ENTJ POV. I must say there could be potential miscommunication as ENTJs generally lack patience. But these people are really INFJs. I guess the manifestations of different INFJs may be different. I live in an Asian collective culture where INFJs may have morphed a bit to prevent the weirdo label. Where do you come from selenapink98?
@@NITTBrainwrekSingapore1 Hi! I’m Canadian, but my background is Indian so I understand what you mean about collectivist culture. I’m sure, if this person was an INFJ, they would’ve tried to get explain themselves had you communicated your confusion. I think it’s an example or Fe and Te clashing.
@@selenapink98 Thank you! You are right, Te and Fe do clash quite often
That's really cool 😊