Toyin abeg ooo listen to understand!!! Dami is right he meant nurturing your children as a dad taps into their feminine qualities such as understanding, nurturing, caring, servitude. You can be a masculine man and you tap into your femininity to understand your woman when she is upset and comfort and nurture her. If people don’t understand that, they don’t understand human nature.
You see this Chinx yute 😂 I love him and I fully support him because it’s tough being young, confident in yourself, secure in yourself AND intelligent around men who just act like these things
They need to do a topic about how DL men (especially ith girlfriends, kids, wives, BMs, etc) live doubles lives and cheat on them with gay men on apps like Grindr. There’s so many of them like the amount of them that be hitting me up especially these roadmen is mental.
Bro, I want them to do the same topic, but fr these lot do not have the intellect to handle a conversation like that. They could barely handle this topic as it is.
You all calling out Chyna lack understanding. Being upset by name-calling or insults is a normal human reaction, regardless of the specific term used (Fool, idiot, gay, bastard). It doesn't necessarily indicate insecurity. We generally don't like being labelled in ways we feel are inaccurate or used as insults. Healthy self-esteem involves being secure in one's identity and setting reasonable boundaries around how one is labelled, called or treated. There's a balance between not letting others' words overly affect you, and standing up against disrespectful behavior. I stand with Chyna.
@@mzermichaelterungwa7904 lemme just screenshot this and use this as my answer because you basically articulated everything I was thinking and feeling 👊🏾🫡
Because if u dont clear it up and people believe it then people will treat u as that lol it can seriously ruin ur life( even if u clear it up and people dont believe) look at meek mill for example wether he knows he’s not gay or not doesnt stop the fact that the whole worlds calling him it and making memes mocking him everyday. Surely u can see why he would of rather not have that put on his name🤔…
@@mrbrown111 you can clear it up and simply inform someone that you are heterosexual without getting upset. Getting upset over a question may come off suspicious to people.
@@axa5005 don’t be trying to act like nobody has a right to get upset over people trying to tarnish their name like that. Look at what’s going on on with meek and try tell me he don’t have a right to be upset😕that one rumour has fcked up his life in so many ways
A generation needs to rise where people are no longer AFRAID TO SPEAK THE TRUTH, even if it cost them their jobs. there are too many cowards around. RESIST THE SLAVE MIND.
Dami was actually right. "Feminine" simply means characteristics associated with women. Nurturing is one of them. So a man playing with his kid is doing a feminine act. That doesn't mean it's a bad thing or it's wrong.
Yesss I couldn’t be bothered typing this out. It’s also how women being more business minded and entrepreneurial falls into a more “masculine” trait. That’s doesn’t make it bad though, I think they got triggered because people use the masculine and feminine comments to insult people these days but it doesn’t change the fact.
It’s not masculine or feminine. It’s just normal for a man to show affection to their child by playing with them?? Whether that’s playing football or hide and seek or whatnot. Feminine traits is like being submissive, emotional and nurturing!
Does he realise if he’s saying he can “sense” a woman is trans by indicators such as fake hair and nails he’s implying the women on the panel also fall into that category?
@@mynameischynayou’re aware this isn’t the 90s where you could easily clock right? Biology and medicine have come pretty far, they’re taking hormone blockers as pre pubescents which drastically effects looks, behaviour and voices.
@@mynameischynasee that makes more sense, it also implies you can “sense” or tell in the moment if you need to see proof from childhood lol even then tech has come so far it’s nothing to photoshop, edit or use AI to edit, it’s peak lol
I know my stance may have come across harsh and it’s not to offend anyone 🙏🏾 I do think changing your body is a sign of mental ill health but I don’t condone any hate towards anyone who is transgender please. This topic was hard 😮💨
@@loycenagawa8638 agreed. I think Most of the ‘hate’ is outrage at the push to make it mainstream and a way of life. Practically forcing it onto everyone. That’s the problem.
It’s not a mental illness! Trans people know that they were not born biologically men or women! They are living out what they intrinsically feel inside! Calling it a mental illness is sheer ignorance
No one under the age of 18 should be allowed to have ELECTIVE surgery. You wouldn't let them have a boob job or lipo suction....how is this ANY different?
funnily enough, the 18 year old was the only one who came at the conversation with a sliver of sense, the rest just arent educated or knowledgeable to discuss this, made apparent by their rhetoric
It would actually be really good to have a moderator (like shows like Jubilee) so that someone can interject with facts at times. I don’t strictly disagree with many points, but people may not be aware of facts and sometimes convo goes in circles/is just factually incorrect (like when they were talking about child custody the last time). (People like this Chyna guy just talking nonsense tho)
I’m so glad the young boy schooled Chyna, If you know yourself then your not bothered by someone’s view or thoughts of you. No one can tell you about you! Chyna gets triggered easily he thinks he is masculine but he gives us feminine energy.
Okay so if everybody goes around saying your a hoe (when ur not) and then it starts affecting your life (nobody wants to wife you), ruins your image/career etc your telling me you wont be bothered?
One thing i don't like about the black diaspora, we adhere to gender roles and the construct of gender like it's scripture. these ideas were built by people to uphold the status quo, which puts those of the diaspora at the bottom, we do not benefit from these ideals, can we please move from this. chyna is pushing 40, in 10 years he'll be 50. i've seen children control their emotions better than him. because he believes in this very shallow ideas of what masculinity is. he is very vulnerable to subtle critic, empty vessels make the most noise.
Chyna was right at the end no one pressed the girl when she said she can tell if someone is transgender but when it was him there was a lot of questions
Am I the only one that agreed w dami about masc traits and female traits bc I believe a man w a nuturing trait is a feminine trait but not that it makes them feminine
@@mynameischynaIt taps into feminine energy, the same way when a woman has to bare children, pay bills and go to work. While this is down to responsibility this also makes her tap into her masculine energy. As traditionally women nurture and Men provide. So let’s not look at it as a negative thing. They aren’t saying it makes you feminine it just means you cater to that side of you more
@@mynameischynanobody said that. he already said, as human beings we have a masculine and feminine side.hes not saying that having a feminine side or doing things outside of stereotypical masculinity, means your less of a man.
I agree with the younger guy’s point. All the gay men I know say that men who puff up about not being gay are usually the ones that are gay. And Dami is right about fem and masc traits.
Gay people say that to try and silence anyone who speaks out against their community. So their community can thrive and be all up in everyone faces and if anyone speaks on an opinion different to them they will get accused of being one of them (and they obviously don’t want that hence why they spoke out against them in the first place) lol how tf can u not see what’s going on😂a bunch of manipulation
Just to put it out there the one in red miss Dinalva is honestly such a condcending person and loves talking down to girls if she doesnt get her way She is a behaviour mentor at a secondary school and from what Ive seen she is a nasty person and definitely needs to get help to tone down her behaviour towards younger girls as its not acceptable and I dont understand how other teachers condone her behaviour towards students 😭😭
More of Chinkx pls my bby boy is still finding his voice in these debates & he’s a very thoughtful young man so when gabz is not there clearly Bezz is the level headed mediator 😂 bless him
The hypocrisy of the young dude calling chyna insecure for not wanting to be labeled a fruit but at 30:05 when chyna said "you man are the type to bed tranformers" all of a sudden he has to say something to defend himself is hilarious...What happened to not caring about what the next man thinks or says? 🤣🤣
Gender roles are whats causing the issue. plain and simple. We are born either male or female and society has decided what it is to be a man and what it is to be a woman. This societal definition of what gender roles should be make people feel as though if their thoughts dont align with the traditional gender role that they were born as, that they need to be the opposite gender and thats completely false.. Years back it used to be feminine for men to want to cook or enjoy it. I distinctly remember being a kid and hearing my male cousin say "im a girl because i like cooking". its society bro. there is no definition of what a man or woman needs to be. just be who you are and stop trying to conform to societies thoughts and suggestions on who you need to be. thats where the confusion begins
I hate that u have to tip toe around the gay subject. Back in the day, ppl never cared. These days, people have to care because of the trouble that comes with the subject.
@@KeshaDesir3z sis I beg scroll these comments this part of the problem Eg imagine I called you a Wh*re B*tch Sl*g but when you protest I say well if you wasn’t one you wouldn’t get offended? Thats the definition of gaslighting. You should be proud of your straightness like your skin colour it’s part of your identity don’t let anyone make I feel any different
You only ‘have’ to tiptoe around it if you’re a coward. Which ironically is how they became such a powerful group in the first place. Because weak people bowed down to them and acquiesced.
They were trying to make Dami sound dumb and he was totally right… maybe it’s a language barrier thing because 🥴🥴🥴 It’s not just a brain chemistry thing but essentially hormonal and plus “ancient”societal norms. The issue is that for centuries they boxed women and men up so, some traits fell under different sexes …. Now that people are more “woke” and realise that they can like what they like or have certain traits it automatically leaves people more confused and feeling like they’re not “women or men” they must be more. Changing your sex is so wild and such a huge decision and I agree that most times it’s definitely “mental challenges or behavioural problems” that cause you to think you would want to change that as well as the pressures of traditions and society that makes you think you’re acting like the opposite sex because you like what you like. It should be illegal to change your sex in my opinion or at least be a choice you can make once you’ve gone through life so minimum age should be old as …f****
The fact that these lot see femininity as a insult is exactly where the problem lies 😂🤣😂🤣😂 everyone needs to understand that masculinity and femininity is energy and yes you are in your feminine more time around children especially in scenarios like playtime.
chyna speaking facts the war on masculinity is real and if effecting different parts of society. its a real pandemic. i appreciate the honesty this episode.
This is the wrong group to have this high-level discussion bc this cast isn’t equipped due to their strong African roots and their history of crude treatment towards the gay community. However, history also shows there are so many men like these who are deeply involved in homosexual activities. 🤷🏾♂️
15:08 great point, glad someone brought this up. Women for sure enable the LGBTQ community & the idea that people can be what they want. Then turn around and complain when trans women enter their sports
It’s not that masculinity in of itself is toxic 😂 it really frustrates me that grown people don’t understand that too much of anything is toxic. And being sassy isn’t masculine bro it’s toxic femininity. This guy the type to say masculinity is exclusively defined by men 😂
They can have some masculine traits. But last I heard, a gay man has sexual intercourse by lying on his front and letting another man penetrate his anus with his dick… Is that masculine?
@@mrbrown111Lol this is why you all fail to recognise how many DL men they are because you associate homosexuality with femininity. Plenty of masculine men are gay or bisexual but are in relationships with women who have no idea.
Can we just breathe a sigh of relief that Liah is not on this episode and hopefully not on any future episodes.😅 And hopefully get some more caribbean girls on there....the african ahhh and eheh is great but i need some bludclarts and rass clarts But main thing...Liah aint there 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉hoorayy everybaaddyyy
They know it’s disrespectful aswel hence why these women be calling straight men “gay” and “sassy” as an insult to mock them. U will never see them doing it to the people that are actually gay and sassy
@@betterfad3d of course straight men dont WANT to be called gay, but only a DL guy would get so defensive and upset whenever someone asks if they’re gay..
@@princessa5096no . Its not a thing where only a dl person would be annoyed by that at all, im not dl and I would take that as disrespect just like most straight men who rate themself. Who are u to say what a man would really do and won’t, This is the problem …women thinking they know more about mens reactions to things than men themself . Delusion
It's not about wanting to be called gay it's abt your reaction. If someone were to make fun of a guy for being short, why should they care if they're tall? It makes no sense. So to me it's the same thing. If some1 calls u gay and ur not gay then its ntd.
@@baxu4206 it’s not the same at all and for u to think its the same u must’ve gay. As a straight man I know how much that rumour would ruin my life and relationships I have with people. Stop trying to convince people that we should be ok with it. If u are then thats u .
Please stop having Chyna on so many episodes. He makes the same red pill talking points every episode and it’s exhausting. He’s beating a dead horse by reducing everything to masculinity.
Bro… I don’t understand why it’s a debate. Male stay as male. Female stay as female. That’s it!!! Holding a debate about it is part of the problem. Also… when men give their honest take on it, it’s Cancel City for us. But WOMEN… you lot talk up. You know it’s wrong, so stand on it. All this “I don’t have an answer” cause you don’t wanna get cancelled or you want to protect your brand… YOU’RE PART OF THR PROBLEM!
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Chyna: *breathes*
Dinalva: "He's right though."
It's cuz he's wearing blue
@@axa5005 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chyna getting triggered just to prove the other guys point is just laughable. He's so insecure.
I’m getting “The lady doth protest too much” vibes from this one 😬
Need to chill on gay ppl lol
Susss
@@axa5005 I don’t think he’s insecure he thinks what’s he thinks
He's a 40yrs old man with no kids or woman....SUSPECT!!😭
@@topps19891 Omg 💀💀💀💀⚰️⚰️⚰️🪦
So glad king dollars or whatever his name is wasn’t on this one …..he would’ve made a right shitshow of this debate 😒
Lmaooooooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
King dollars 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why is king dollars sending me 😂😂😂
no lie told tho😂😂😂😂
King Dollars I’m screamingggggg 😂😂
Minimum age 18. End of story. Any parent or adult assisting before that should be charged or locked up.
Toyin abeg ooo listen to understand!!! Dami is right he meant nurturing your children as a dad taps into their feminine qualities such as understanding, nurturing, caring, servitude. You can be a masculine man and you tap into your femininity to understand your woman when she is upset and comfort and nurture her. If people don’t understand that, they don’t understand human nature.
innit she was looking for an issue 😭 he was making perfect sense
The tosin girl need a brain make over in understanding some shit
Nah fr she’s jarring. Like how does she not understand things like this
@@Emma-xopersonally she was the only one the panel speaking facts
You see this Chinx yute 😂 I love him and I fully support him because it’s tough being young, confident in yourself, secure in yourself AND intelligent around men who just act like these things
Appreciate you highly lady !
Dami is hilarious
He said it should be a crime 🤣🤣🤣
Chyna’s 40 behaving like he’s 12
He’s 40 💀💀💀
@@teej70RTM podcast!
Rah he’s 40 💀💀💀💀💀
How old is he for real
Nooo he can’t be 40 behaving the way he behaves
Where’s Cookie? It’s been a couple of episodes and she hasn’t been appearing. I need her funny commentary.
go and sleep
@@hush2911Stop being a hater!
Realll like they should subbed Dainee for ms cookie man 😩
@@bellad1672 when the unserious topics come in, she can come back yeah
She's funny like Jo Brand 🤣👑
They need to do a topic about how DL men (especially ith girlfriends, kids, wives, BMs, etc) live doubles lives and cheat on them with gay men on apps like Grindr. There’s so many of them like the amount of them that be hitting me up especially these roadmen is mental.
Gay men who know they have girlfriends wives kids need to be exposing them .. simple as that it’s disgusting 🤢
That's scary....
Imagine you sucking off your boyfriend after he went and put it in another mans bum 2 hours ago.
Bro, I want them to do the same topic, but fr these lot do not have the intellect to handle a conversation like that. They could barely handle this topic as it is.
Hmmmmmm you are on to something 👀
Love how the young boy schooled Chyna
He didn’t really, if the internet attempted to link you with Diddy in a gay way it’s understandable if you get annoyed
On what? If it makes me insecure that’s fine they can be referred to as gay
@@civildiscourse7626 bruh being straight man is actually under fire
You all calling out Chyna lack understanding. Being upset by name-calling or insults is a normal human reaction, regardless of the specific term used (Fool, idiot, gay, bastard). It doesn't necessarily indicate insecurity. We generally don't like being labelled in ways we feel are inaccurate or used as insults.
Healthy self-esteem involves being secure in one's identity and setting reasonable boundaries around how one is labelled, called or treated. There's a balance between not letting others' words overly affect you, and standing up against disrespectful behavior. I stand with Chyna.
@@mzermichaelterungwa7904 lemme just screenshot this and use this as my answer because you basically articulated everything I was thinking and feeling 👊🏾🫡
Tosin T, said it in one at the end. God made us perfectly & we should learn to love ourselves. It’s a mental thing I believe
Chinkz is so right!!!! If u know that you are not gay why do u care what people say about u💯💯💯
Not that straight forward
Because if u dont clear it up and people believe it then people will treat u as that lol it can seriously ruin ur life( even if u clear it up and people dont believe) look at meek mill for example wether he knows he’s not gay or not doesnt stop the fact that the whole worlds calling him it and making memes mocking him everyday. Surely u can see why he would of rather not have that put on his name🤔…
@@mrbrown111 you can clear it up and simply inform someone that you are heterosexual without getting upset. Getting upset over a question may come off suspicious to people.
So not true
@@axa5005 don’t be trying to act like nobody has a right to get upset over people trying to tarnish their name like that. Look at what’s going on on with meek and try tell me he don’t have a right to be upset😕that one rumour has fcked up his life in so many ways
I give MVP of the epidode to Chinx he held his own in the debates and spoke his mind well and got more involved
A generation needs to rise where people are no longer AFRAID TO SPEAK THE TRUTH, even if it cost them their jobs. there are too many cowards around. RESIST THE SLAVE MIND.
Dami was actually right. "Feminine" simply means characteristics associated with women. Nurturing is one of them. So a man playing with his kid is doing a feminine act. That doesn't mean it's a bad thing or it's wrong.
Don't mind tosin, she hardly listen to understand.
They don’t listen at all they just want to argue hes always speaks facts and no one listens
A man playing with his child isn’t a feminine act. He’s being a father lol
Yesss I couldn’t be bothered typing this out. It’s also how women being more business minded and entrepreneurial falls into a more “masculine” trait. That’s doesn’t make it bad though, I think they got triggered because people use the masculine and feminine comments to insult people these days but it doesn’t change the fact.
It’s not masculine or feminine. It’s just normal for a man to show affection to their child by playing with them?? Whether that’s playing football or hide and seek or whatnot.
Feminine traits is like being submissive, emotional and nurturing!
Icl after hearing Chyna on rtm and learning he’s 40 im expecting 40 year old behaviour from now on
He’s 40??!
@@Jayslay124yeah I couldn’t believe my ears lol he said it on sprays podcast, I couldn’t even believe sprays was 44
Wow, but tbh a lot of these podcast men are
Wow! 40 😅 and these are his thoughts haha I’m shocked!
His reaction only confirmed that he’s insecure and he’s 40 with no kids or wife! That says a lot 🌈🌈🥴
Does he realise if he’s saying he can “sense” a woman is trans by indicators such as fake hair and nails he’s implying the women on the panel also fall into that category?
I know exactly what I’m
Saying I only go for natural women avoids all that besides trans steal real women’s look to bamboozle men
@@mynameischynayou’re aware this isn’t the 90s where you could easily clock right? Biology and medicine have come pretty far, they’re taking hormone blockers as pre pubescents which drastically effects looks, behaviour and voices.
@@Yh-vi2svbro I’m gonna need those primary and reception pictures this is 2024 I’m oldskool we don’t get caught up bro bro
@@mynameischynasee that makes more sense, it also implies you can “sense” or tell in the moment if you need to see proof from childhood lol even then tech has come so far it’s nothing to photoshop, edit or use AI to edit, it’s peak lol
@@Yh-vi2sv bro roll safe 🫡🤧
I know there's a brick where chyna's brain is supposed to be
Everyone has both feminine and masculine energy. 💯
*Anyone breathes*
Chyna *gets triggered* “listen to me , listen to me, I’m not insecure” boy byeeee
Please for the LOVE of God, GET A MEDIATOR!!! So many points lost because people want camera time and feel the need to add unnecessary adlibs.
An in person mediator is a good idea tbh
A mediator would just cut people off and try change the topic. That’s what happened on Jubilee, it’s better to let people waffle and get it out icl
just as Facebook/whatsapp misinformation mess also
A child isn’t allowed to choose their bedtime but is allowed to choose their gender. Crazy times we’re living in.
Chyna really said he’s never argued with a woman then proceeds to say he would and even has already on this show loooool
😂😂😂😂
mashallah what a ending. the woman who said that last piece has all my respect. the wholeee time i was thinking GOD MAKES NO MISTAKES !!!!
Lol, he/she/they clearly make mistakes because what are intersex people then? they don't fit the "god-given binary" of just men and women..
chyna is ut everyday shout? it’s not going make your point any more valid relaxxx
Chyna looks 35 with a 15 year old mindset… I can’t take him seriously sometimes 😂
Chyna Oga why so triggered 😂
Would you smile if people were trying to imply you should be ok with being gay or around trans? Sorry not me and I got ❤ for chinks
Because he’s probably 🌈😆
He might be GAY
I know my stance may have come across harsh and it’s not to offend anyone 🙏🏾 I do think changing your body is a sign of mental ill health but I don’t condone any hate towards anyone who is transgender please. This topic was hard 😮💨
I agree with you. I don't think sexual attraction to the same gender is a mental illness but wanting to change to a different gender I believe is.
Agree or disagree I’ll forever love you ❤️❤️
@@loycenagawa8638 agreed. I think Most of the ‘hate’ is outrage at the push to make it mainstream and a way of life. Practically forcing it onto everyone. That’s the problem.
It’s not a mental illness! Trans people know that they were not born biologically men or women! They are living out what they intrinsically feel inside! Calling it a mental illness is sheer ignorance
The real tea is why they ain’t brought a trans person up for the one real life topic on the panel.
No one under the age of 18 should be allowed to have ELECTIVE surgery. You wouldn't let them have a boob job or lipo suction....how is this ANY different?
Dami said it should be a crime, and he thinks calling it a mental illness is over the top😭😭
"My mum's number. My mum's work number. Nothing." 😂😂😂
funnily enough, the 18 year old was the only one who came at the conversation with a sliver of sense, the rest just arent educated or knowledgeable to discuss this, made apparent by their rhetoric
the opinions shared by these people are dangerous. wrong topic for this group
In what way
It would actually be really good to have a moderator (like shows like Jubilee) so that someone can interject with facts at times.
I don’t strictly disagree with many points, but people may not be aware of facts and sometimes convo goes in circles/is just factually incorrect (like when they were talking about child custody the last time).
(People like this Chyna guy just talking nonsense tho)
What a weird topic for a room without a single trans person or someone to provide real data. Maybe next topic should be about Chinese politics.
Saying the Sky is the Sky is always dangerous to someone who wants you to tell them the river is the Sky.💯
@@purplepill1799 lol facts
Im concerned about chyna he’s been very sensitive lately…
the guy in the black facials expressions is killing me 😭😂😂 like sir same !
I’m so glad the young boy schooled Chyna, If you know yourself then your not bothered by someone’s view or thoughts of you. No one can tell you about you! Chyna gets triggered easily he thinks he is masculine but he gives us feminine energy.
Okay so if everybody goes around saying your a hoe (when ur not) and then it starts affecting your life (nobody wants to wife you), ruins your image/career etc your telling me you wont be bothered?
@@mrbrown111she will never answer this😂these people are selective when it comes to using this silly logic of theirs
One thing i don't like about the black diaspora, we adhere to gender roles and the construct of gender like it's scripture. these ideas were built by people to uphold the status quo, which puts those of the diaspora at the bottom, we do not benefit from these ideals, can we please move from this.
chyna is pushing 40, in 10 years he'll be 50. i've seen children control their emotions better than him. because he believes in this very shallow ideas of what masculinity is. he is very vulnerable to subtle critic, empty vessels make the most noise.
He’s already 40! And judging by his reaction it only further validated Chinkz’s point! A hit dog will holler 🐕🐕🗣🗣🗣
Chyna was right at the end no one pressed the girl when she said she can tell if someone is transgender but when it was him there was a lot of questions
30:46 WAS HILARIOUS the guy in the black hoodie looked genuinely confused
Why is chynas mouth so yellow like whenever he speaks I can’t even concentrate on what he’s saying I just see yellow 🤣
I’m just happy that BKChat is back. Great season to me so far and I love this new cast. They’re bringing their own energy/sauce to the show. 🔥🔥🔥
“ I feel like I’m wearing a skirt” 🤣🤣
This made me cry of laughter 🤣🤣 I think the word he was looking for is ‘vulnerable’
I need to get on the show. Just to educate some of these guys. From a health professional perspective. Especially these types of subjects
This…..like the mental illness/health is really disrespectful
Tosin T is becoming my favourite cast member! She talks so much sense
People can live as they wish and identify as such, problem is when you ask people to go along with it- when they don’t believe it
Facts. Asking people to accept a false reality makes no sense
To get trigger just because someone call you gay is insecure period
when is episode 15 coming out pls
Pls who brought Chyna to Dix show ? Why is he doing the most 🤦🏾♂️taking little things personal
Dinalva is a pick me for chyna.
Chyna can talk shit and she will agree. She’s so jarring!!!
Am I the only one that agreed w dami about masc traits and female traits bc I believe a man w a nuturing trait is a feminine trait but not that it makes them feminine
It’s not even feminine it’s just apart of masculinity. Being strong man doesn’t mean you can’t be a loving affectionate man or father
@@mynameischynaIt taps into feminine energy, the same way when a woman has to bare children, pay bills and go to work. While this is down to responsibility this also makes her tap into her masculine energy.
As traditionally women nurture and Men provide. So let’s not look at it as a negative thing. They aren’t saying it makes you feminine it just means you cater to that side of you more
@@JazIsAwsome2baring children is masculine ?????
@@mynameischynanobody said that. he already said, as human beings we have a masculine and feminine side.hes not saying that having a feminine side or doing things outside of stereotypical masculinity, means your less of a man.
@@mynameischynahis whole point, is that even the strongest man, has a feminine side. Its part of human nature, hes not saying it makes you feminine
Chyna fully thinks hes the Oracle 😂😂
I wish cookie 🍪 was on this episode!
I agree with the younger guy’s point. All the gay men I know say that men who puff up about not being gay are usually the ones that are gay. And Dami is right about fem and masc traits.
Gay people say that to try and silence anyone who speaks out against their community. So their community can thrive and be all up in everyone faces and if anyone speaks on an opinion different to them they will get accused of being one of them (and they obviously don’t want that hence why they spoke out against them in the first place) lol how tf can u not see what’s going on😂a bunch of manipulation
@@mrbrown111💯
Just to put it out there the one in red miss Dinalva is honestly such a condcending person and loves talking down to girls if she doesnt get her way
She is a behaviour mentor at a secondary school and from what Ive seen she is a nasty person and definitely needs to get help to tone down her behaviour towards younger girls as its not acceptable and I dont understand how other teachers condone her behaviour towards students 😭😭
Tosin is an instigator , she’ll make a problem out of nothing 😂😂
More of Chinkx pls my bby boy is still finding his voice in these debates & he’s a very thoughtful young man
so when gabz is not there clearly Bezz is the level headed mediator 😂 bless him
The hypocrisy of the young dude calling chyna insecure for not wanting to be labeled a fruit but at 30:05 when chyna said "you man are the type to bed tranformers" all of a sudden he has to say something to defend himself is hilarious...What happened to not caring about what the next man thinks or says? 🤣🤣
LOOOL this African is sooo funny. Sorry idc to learn the names but omg he cracked me up this episode and always speaks facts 🙌👌🤣
Gender roles are whats causing the issue. plain and simple. We are born either male or female and society has decided what it is to be a man and what it is to be a woman. This societal definition of what gender roles should be make people feel as though if their thoughts dont align with the traditional gender role that they were born as, that they need to be the opposite gender and thats completely false.. Years back it used to be feminine for men to want to cook or enjoy it. I distinctly remember being a kid and hearing my male cousin say "im a girl because i like cooking". its society bro. there is no definition of what a man or woman needs to be. just be who you are and stop trying to conform to societies thoughts and suggestions on who you need to be. thats where the confusion begins
Underrated comment.
Yessssssssss
Was looking for this kind of conversation but nobody spoke about it
loyce looking at dinalva is killing me 18:20
18:41 why the the flying hell do I care what you think😂
I hate that u have to tip toe around the gay subject. Back in the day, ppl never cared. These days, people have to care because of the trouble that comes with the subject.
you see I’m the only one that kept it 💯 😊
@mynameischyna You don't play them games 💯. Socials got some men scared to say anything bad about being gay 🤷🏾♀️ It's a trend.
@@KeshaDesir3z sis I beg scroll these comments this part of the problem
Eg imagine I called you a Wh*re B*tch Sl*g but when you protest I say well if you wasn’t one you wouldn’t get offended? Thats the definition of gaslighting. You should be proud of your straightness like your skin colour it’s part of your identity don’t let anyone make I feel any different
You only ‘have’ to tiptoe around it if you’re a coward. Which ironically is how they became such a powerful group in the first place. Because weak people bowed down to them and acquiesced.
People always cared, its a sensitive topic, like race and politics. Garunteed you are under 25.
That was deffo roshantee Abigail was talking about LOOOOOOOOOOOL
They were trying to make Dami sound dumb and he was totally right… maybe it’s a language barrier thing because 🥴🥴🥴
It’s not just a brain chemistry thing but essentially hormonal and plus “ancient”societal norms. The issue is that for centuries they boxed women and men up so, some traits fell under different sexes …. Now that people are more “woke” and realise that they can like what they like or have certain traits it automatically leaves people more confused and feeling like they’re not “women or men” they must be more.
Changing your sex is so wild and such a huge decision and I agree that most times it’s definitely “mental challenges or behavioural problems” that cause you to think you would want to change that as well as the pressures of traditions and society that makes you think you’re acting like the opposite sex because you like what you like. It should be illegal to change your sex in my opinion or at least be a choice you can make once you’ve gone through life so minimum age should be old as …f****
yall be talking a lot but don’t know shit😂 its so funny
chyna is 100% DL
Naa the yute with the black jacket is moving maddd. 😂😂 a transformer must of trick him
For sure 😂😂😂😂😂
Wowza calling a trans person a transformer is wildddd
😂😂😂@@ronnieb4390
No just seems like a person with a brain
wordddddddddddddddddddddd
The fact that these lot see femininity as a insult is exactly where the problem lies 😂🤣😂🤣😂 everyone needs to understand that masculinity and femininity is energy and yes you are in your feminine more time around children especially in scenarios like playtime.
Chyna defo don’t brush his teeth. His tongue always looking green or brown
The woman in brown dont listen properly
I agree! Damn
She’s so annoying lol
honestly
And everytime in the little one to one interview looking scenes shes talking as if she’s funny and like she thinks she’s dropping some mad gems😂😂
this chyna guy is on the spectrum bro… every episode he’s crying
21:37 tosin does not flipping listen 😭
chyna speaking facts the war on masculinity is real and if effecting different parts of society. its a real pandemic. i appreciate the honesty this episode.
This is the wrong group to have this high-level discussion bc this cast isn’t equipped due to their strong African roots and their history of crude treatment towards the gay community. However, history also shows there are so many men like these who are deeply involved in homosexual activities. 🤷🏾♂️
Couldn’t have said this better myself.
THISSS!!! their lack of understanding is on full display
All of u are just gay Y do dat burn
Dinalva sis 😂😂😂😂stop begging it off chyna
42:59 Love that . Perfectly said 🥹👏🏾 Psalm 139:13-14😮💨
No Gabz. Not interested ❌
Chyna needs to work on his ego and learn how to regulate his emotions
😂😂😂😂Transformers?..wiiiiiiild 😂😂😂
15:08 great point, glad someone brought this up. Women for sure enable the LGBTQ community & the idea that people can be what they want. Then turn around and complain when trans women enter their sports
Bruh the same women here will be crying later calling men sassy 💁🏽♂️ bro it’s all set up
Okay this is a good point
It’s not that masculinity in of itself is toxic 😂 it really frustrates me that grown people don’t understand that too much of anything is toxic. And being sassy isn’t masculine bro it’s toxic femininity. This guy the type to say masculinity is exclusively defined by men 😂
This cast isn’t equip to have serious conversations
so apparently u cant be gay and masculine😭😭😭😭
U cant
They can have some masculine traits. But last I heard, a gay man has sexual intercourse by lying on his front and letting another man penetrate his anus with his dick…
Is that masculine?
@@mrbrown111Lol this is why you all fail to recognise how many DL men they are because you associate homosexuality with femininity.
Plenty of masculine men are gay or bisexual but are in relationships with women who have no idea.
Nah that’s a contradiction
we came to the wrong place for a nuanced debate on complex issues 😂😂😂 these are the same people who probably think that bi men are just gay
there seems to be no sign of intellegent life anywhere
edit: 16mins in. onto the next video chile
The group is less divided without Ashley 🤔😌
but she’s pretty so she’s allowed to be mixup
"Personally I think it's mental illness" 🤣
no way chyna acts like this at 40
Wait he’s 40😳, as in 10 years from now he’ll be 50, bloody hell
We needed ashleigh in this one
Can we just breathe a sigh of relief that Liah is not on this episode and hopefully not on any future episodes.😅
And hopefully get some more caribbean girls on there....the african ahhh and eheh is great but i need some bludclarts and rass clarts
But main thing...Liah aint there 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉hoorayy everybaaddyyy
The way b moni asked the question was disturbing. He always knows how to embody the word ick. Bro is annoying😂😂😂😂😴
17:07 facts it’s actually pissing me off that people acting like chynas just waffling and that u should be okay with them things, wtf
I am with chyna on that. No guy wants to be called gay if they’re not. It’s disrespectful.
They know it’s disrespectful aswel hence why these women be calling straight men “gay” and “sassy” as an insult to mock them. U will never see them doing it to the people that are actually gay and sassy
@@betterfad3d of course straight men dont WANT to be called gay, but only a DL guy would get so defensive and upset whenever someone asks if they’re gay..
@@princessa5096no . Its not a thing where only a dl person would be annoyed by that at all, im not dl and I would take that as disrespect just like most straight men who rate themself. Who are u to say what a man would really do and won’t, This is the problem …women thinking they know more about mens reactions to things than men themself . Delusion
It's not about wanting to be called gay it's abt your reaction. If someone were to make fun of a guy for being short, why should they care if they're tall? It makes no sense. So to me it's the same thing. If some1 calls u gay and ur not gay then its ntd.
@@baxu4206 it’s not the same at all and for u to think its the same u must’ve gay. As a straight man I know how much that rumour would ruin my life and relationships I have with people. Stop trying to convince people that we should be ok with it. If u are then thats u .
dinalva ain’t beating the chyna allegations😂
What allegations?
Please stop having Chyna on so many episodes. He makes the same red pill talking points every episode and it’s exhausting. He’s beating a dead horse by reducing everything to masculinity.
33:53 good luck chyna bc you just described most women💀💀
Don’t bring your big balls 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m glad Chyna stood his ground on this one.
I’m a African heterosexual man nobody will ever make me bend to no agenda Natural Women > everything else
Chyna the same as me. I like gyal with natural body. I don’t do bbl, fake lips, none of that. So you can’t really trick man like us.
I like Chyna man, he really carries the show in my opinion
hes an immature 40 year old with a 15 year old mindset
Bro… I don’t understand why it’s a debate. Male stay as male. Female stay as female. That’s it!!! Holding a debate about it is part of the problem. Also… when men give their honest take on it, it’s Cancel City for us. But WOMEN… you lot talk up. You know it’s wrong, so stand on it. All this “I don’t have an answer” cause you don’t wanna get cancelled or you want to protect your brand… YOU’RE PART OF THR PROBLEM!
Is not as black & white tho
@@nev7219 To me, that sounds like the excuse of a pussyole that doesn’t want to upset the white man. (Not saying you’re a pussyole, btw)